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No. 163071

Anyone else here?

No. 163072

>>>/tumblr/

No. 163073

>>163072

fuck off

No. 163074

I'm sexually stunted and kinda fucked up, but not asexual.

No. 163075

>>163071
Hi.
My mom wants to pass me off as abstaining from sex until marriage so I appear more normal.

No. 163076

I'm a gender queer with a tiny hint of asexual undertones

No. 163077

>>163076

pls be troll

No. 163078

>>163073
no u
>>>/tumblr/

No. 163079

Asexuality is a real thing, albeit very rare. (Lots of people who claim to be asexual probably aren't.)

>>163076
This, however, isn't a real thing.

No. 163080

Wtf, someone not wanting to have sex or romantic relationships isn't tumblr shit. Would you say that in the lesbian thread?
Get your head out of your ass.

No. 163081

>>163079
this. A lot of people I meet who claim to be asexual still enjoy porn and get a sexual kick out of it, lust after attractive people in a sexual way but still go "OH I'M ACE CUZ I DON'T HAVE SEX LMAO". Tumblr completely ruined the reputation of asexuals after pan became too mainstream and every snowflake decided to become asexual and bitch about asexuals being ~so oppressed~. Like I know self-proclaimed asexuals who are in a steady relationship, have consensual sex, consume porn but STILL claim to be asexual just for the enjoyment of being special. Sexual insecurity =/= Asexual.

Being asexual means not having a sex drive, not having any interest in sex and not being affected by sexual things. That's very rare which is why asexual is a lot more rarer than people give it credit for, 18-year old single virgin tumblrite girls lusting over fandom porn and being afraid of boys is just being insecure and inexperienced, not asexual.

No. 163082

>>163081
Yeah there are definitely people who aren't interested in sex (usually from abuse or a medical condition, though) but every time i see some 15y/o girl on the internet calling herself asexual it means something like "i cant stop masturbating to sherlock fanfiction but i dont want irl sex because all the boys at my school are ugly and have cooties"

No. 163083

>>163082
This.
And real asexuals are pretty rare, so why is there even a thread about it?

No. 163084

>>163081
I don't read or watch porn, masturbate, or have a desire for sex. I don't find people to be sexually attractive. I've always found myself to be more attracted to what they're wearing or sometimes how they look, but I never feel anything sexual towards them.
I'm incredibly indifferent towards sexual media; if it's your thing then more power to you, but it's just meh to me.

No. 163085

something like 1 to 2% of the US is asexual so I doubt it.

No. 163086

I lack a sex drive due to depression and when I don't, I'm mostly repulsed by sex. I have weird kinks, though.

No. 163087

I don't think asexualitynis a real thing. Just girls disgusted by their own bodies/sex because of slut shaming or people who have been molested.

No. 163088

>>163087

Not really. It's easy for people to just assume that though but some people literally have no interest in it.

But ofc, sexually active people will say shit like that.

No. 163089

>>163081

I do think people shame others for being virgins though. I guess people aren't always lucky enough to meet someone, everyone just seems to be fucking these days or having found someone. It's always easier for people to say that kind of thing when they've experienced it and are fine with themselves.

No. 163090

If you masturbate you're not asexual.

No. 163091

>>163090
Maybe not enough for you, but I still don't want to have sex or romantic relationships ever, if I want to talk to to people who feel similar that's not a fucking crime lol.

No. 163092

>>163091

I know what you mean. Everyone is shagging these days so it's "weird" if you're not too.

I mean, sex just isn't BIG for me. It never has been. But I can fall in love with someone, I can love.

People especially on tumblr make asexuality a bigger deal than it needs to be. It's not that frigging shocking.

No. 163093

>>163089
>I do think people shame others for being virgins though.
Maybe if you're 16 or a 30-year old MRA man who won't shut up about it. I'm 25 and a virgin and nobody even knows about it so I don't get shit for it. It's not like anyone just blurts out shit like "SO HOW MANY OF YOU ARE VIRGINS IN HERE, DAMN I HATE VIRGINS SO MUCH, WHAT A BUNCH OF LOSERS RIGHT".

No. 163094

>>163093

Exactly, only you keep it to yourself. If you were surrounded by dickhead people and they asked they may take the piss or ask questions. Again if you don't say anything then it don't matter.

No. 163095

btw does anyone ever look at crowds of people and think "this is how many times people have shagged"

No. 163096

>>163095
Even bigger mindfuck: If you don't have kids, you'll be the first person in your bloodline to have done so since humans first evolved

No. 163097

>>163096
Except that's not true at all? that's assuming everyone in your entire family since the dawn of man… had exactly 1 kid. at any point in your bloodline there could have been a sister or brother of the one that did have kids (that eventually made you) that didn't have kids.

No. 163098

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>>163071
>>>/tumblr/

No. 163099

>>163097
Bloodline as in parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, etc.

No. 163100

>>163091
>but I still don't want to have sex or romantic relationships ever
Neither do I but I don't put a label as retarded as "asexual" on myself.

No. 163101

>>163100
How is that a retarded label?
I don't use it nor do I consider myself asexual but why do you give a shit? It's just a term.
It's just so inoffensive I don't get it.

No. 163102

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>>163101
Well golly gee, what group of people do we generally not get along with like to use retarded "terms" like these?

No. 163103

Asexuality isn't a real thing lmao, it's all psychological.



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