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No. 162995

is anyone else really afraid of getting old?

I'm 22 and I really miss being 16.
I want to look as young as I can forever, are there surefire ways I can keep my looks for as long as possible?

No. 162996

I know what you mean, I'm a year younger than you and I still feel no different than I did when I was 16. I don't look any older either but I suggest a good diet/plenty of water/coconut oil on your face and skin before bed and after showers/look after yourself/keep active/also use vitamin E oil only very lightly on your face/take off ALL make up before bed so use that michaeler water/try eating more fish because it has stuff inside it which tightens the muscles

No. 162997

Genetics. That and what the anon above suggested. Failing that, get someone to paint a portrait of you, then lock it in the attic. It'll take on all the signs of ageing and all the dirty living you wanna indulge in while you stay looking exactly the same!

No. 162998

i'm afraid of getting old because i don't want to be close to death :(

No. 162999

I feel you anon. I'm 18 but I already feel like I've hit the pinnacle of my life (and beauty) and everything is gonna go downhill from here. I had a dream last night that I suddenly turned 20 and it was awful

No. 163000

I have good news for you girls. When you get past 30 and some of your friends didn't even make it that far, or not even to their late 20s, you stop giving a fuck about how you look, or how close you are to death, because you've realised life really is too short to worry about whether that's another wrinkle, or a grey pubic hair. You'll spend your time trying to keep in contact with all the people that matter to you instead. And they won't care what you look like if they're worth having as friends. Man this thread makes me feel old

No. 163001

I feel the exact same way you do. Sometimes I just want to start lying about my age.

No. 163002

I'm 16 and I don't understand any of you.
Being an underaged Teenager sucks, you have disgusting skin and you can't get drunk legally.

No. 163003

I'm 24, and I'm too busy busting my ass in grad school to care about something like that lmao

No. 163004

>>163002
Yeah, it's overly romanticized. Super revisionist. I don't know about others, but my teenage years were shit. I had terrible skin and didn't know how to do my hair and makeup, I gained weight because puberty, I wasn't sure how to dress properly, and I cared about stupid shit. Maybe if I had a typical shoujo manga high school and perfect skin and hair and figure and knew what I know now….actually, no, fuck it. I would never want to be 16 again.

Just embrace age because it's inevitable. Get over your complex that you're gonna be ugly old witches when you hit your 20s and 30s. Just take care of your diet, skin, and hair, and think about PT when you wanna dress younger than you are, and you should be fine.

No. 163005

>>163002
you know this place is for 18+ right?


I had a fucked up childhood so I dont miss being a kid/teen. Life is meant to be enjoyed in stages. You can still be beautiful at any age as long as you take care of yourself.

No. 163006

>>163005
as long as you don't act like a fucking retard nobody cares, really

No. 163007

Im only 19 but im already worried about looking ''too old''
people tell me i look 25 which worries me a lot

No. 163008

Not really when I was 16 I was always mistaken for 12 and never got any attention from anyone and people would always treat me like a child. Tbh even when I was 18 I got the same treatment.

Now I'm 21 at least guys look at me and I get hit on and people take me slightly more seriously and don't ask me where my parents are. I hated my teenage years so much. I had such a chubby face (still do, but seriously looked like I was 12 back then) and bad acne and zero hips. God. I think there is like one decent picture of me from before 18 and it was photoshopped.

Tbh I'm dominant in personality so I don't mind getting older. I wanna be a hot MILF who fucks handsome young guys interchangeably.


No. 163009

>>162995
Wow. I'm 29 and it's not a big deal. You focus too much on youth and it will stress you out and make you older. Just eat right, work out and be more positive. Focusing on youth is pointless. Focus on finding a good spouse, getting some great friends, a job, a career, etc. That OP pic is seriously wtf too. You need to put down the cosmo magazines and go out into the real world.

No. 163010

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Sounds like a lot of wannabe living doll's in this thread…

No. 163011

>>163009
Never met a 16 year old girl that looks like the op

No. 163012

What do you all think of getting botox as a young adult?

Botox is really only effective if you get it before wrinkles form. It doesn't reverse signs of skin aging. It just freezes your skin in place. Many plastic surgeons are recommend getting it while you're young if you plan on getting it at any point, since it becomes less useful with each passing year.

No. 163013

I am comfortable at my current age (24) but aging scares the crap out of me honestly.
Why anyone would want to be a teenager is beyond me though, and there isn't much difference between 20 and 25 either..

No. 163014

ya'll are fucking crazy lol. i'll worry about being old when im 30. in the meanwhile who gives a fuck. lolicon weirdos.

No. 163015

>>163007
It could be the way you wear your hair and makeup or how you dress more than how you actually look Anon

No. 163016

>>162995
i definitely don't miss the skin and spoopy problems i had in my teens.

i miss the feeling that i could do anything in life though. i have more money and independence now but it doesn't feel like the world is my oyster anymore. i hate feeling so much regret over life choices.

No. 163017

>>162995
16yos look better now that photoshop is rampant

Dakota Rose never could have existed in the 90s or 00s lol

No. 163018

>>163017
dude even now, the average 16 year old looks really… average. y'all are pornified by pedo culture, i think. there is nothing remotely attractive about 16 year old girls, all of the women in "teen porn" are in their 20s, and people like dakota are photoshopped to death.


No. 163019

>>163012
I want to be hot when I'm older, so I am probably going to get it soon. My doctor says it helps fine lines, but not deep set wrinkles, so I am definitely going to get it before then.

Being older means having money to do the things I wanted to do when I was a teenager though, like get laser skincare and wear expensive makeup.


No. 163020

if teenagers are so great why is it most tv shows/movies hire 20-30 year olds to play the roles of teenagers?

I was watching that show scream and the cast looked to be about 23+ but they were suppose to be teens.

No. 163021

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>>163020
Plays a teenage girl on tv but is actually 24.
I think this is one of the reasons teenage years are glorified so much because these shows hire grown women to play 16 year olds, and people think being a teen is all hot and exciting.

No. 163022

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>>163021
Another example is Buffy who was like 20-21 when they show started and was playing a freshmen I think?

No. 163023

>>163018
that was my point, photoshop

No. 163024

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>>163021
>>163022
exactly. i have no idea why people sexualize teenagers so much. teens are ugly af in real life: acne-ridden, shitty makeup, dress like retards, often still look like kids.


OP my suggestions for you, are get off the internet, especially the chans. i know guys on these boards LOVE to perv over 16 year olds, but that's because they are pedos… not because 16 year olds are actually hot. kek. pic related, your average 16 year old girl.


No. 163025

>>163024
>exactly. i have no idea why people sexualize teenagers so much. teens are ugly af in real life: acne-ridden, shitty makeup, dress like retards, often still look like kids.

This. They still have round childish faces ridden with acne and underdeveloped bodies. Also teens are annoying, self-righteous, ignorant, lack independency, are overly self-conscious and basically are really fucking irritating to be around. I'm a lot happier at 25 when I can do whatever the fuck I want with my life, earn my own money and I'm old enough not to be ashamed of myself all the time or have my life depend on high school cliques. I don't know why people idolize being a teen so much, I don't miss that time one bit.

No. 163026

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>>163024
Movies/tv make teenage girls seem like these exciting, playful and sexy things but the reality is that the women playing these roles are usually 20+

The person who played Regina George in mean girls was 25 at the time. It's so funny how it is. Then people have it in their minds that it's totally normal for a 16 year old girl to look like that.

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>>163026
Yeah, Regina was actually 25. Meanwhile irl people think 25 is old.

It's retarded because young girl grow up thinking they are ugly, because they compare themselves to adult women playing teenagers.

Then when they grow up, they think they are ugly, because they compare themselves to teenagers being played by adult women.


No. 163028

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>>163027
Sometimes I watch these movies/shows and it makes me feel old then I google the actresses and they're just as "old" as me lol

No. 163029

I used to feel like you OP but then I realized there was a lot of Internet weirdos who perved on me from 14-16, which probably messed with my head
That said, what's the source of the OP pic because it's really cute

No. 163030

>>163029
It's Marie Rose from Dead or Alive.

No. 163031

I am scared as hell too. There is stuff you can do that helps but the biggest factor is always genetics. I haven't ate the best, never really taken care of my skin until now and I am 28 with no wrinkles. My mom never has used creams and stuff and barely has wrinkles at 50 and isn't saggy.

I have never been this obsessed with aging until I got into sweet lolita and fairy kei fashion (These styles are obsessed with youth and people will not hesitate to point out a single wrinkle). I want to look young and cute for as long as possible so I can keep dressing cute. I hate "mature" styles and always have, just not my taste.

Also, society in general looks down on older women. Read something like.. a 30 or 40 year old women sounds older than a 30 or 40 year old man. As soon as signs of aging start showing, you get less attention and people will start treating you differently.

Anyway, how do your parents look at their age? You could also start getting fillers, some fillers help rebuild collagen over time. Once your in your 20's collagen starts breaking down and you lose a bit each year.

No. 163032

No matter how well you take care of your skin etc you're going to get old and gross. Accept it or kill yourself.

No. 163033

I look decent for my age except for my huge goddamn eyebags. Eyecreams, collagen patches, ice, sleep.. nothing works. I'll probably get surgery at some point.

No. 163034

>>163033
this. i've gotten fillers for them once, but those are temporary. getting a more invasive surgery in a few months.

>>163031
my mom is almost 50 with few wrinkles and not sagging either, but i'm still afraid of aging poorly. she is also fit and has had a good diet her entire life. i've exercised my whole life save for a bad 2-3 year period, and i also don't smoke/do drugs/drink. i've worn sunscreen daily since i was 14, and before that whenever i'd be outside for several hours. however, i eat too many sweets, dont' sleep well, and have stress problems. my weight has fluctuated about 20lbs every year since i was 18 (and i'm now 24), so i'm sure that's not good. i wish i was 18-20, basically.

>>163004
there were girls in my high school that looked like shoujo antagonists – too perfect for high school, basically. they were just early bloomers, though, and now they look busted in their mid 20's…

No. 163035

>>163032

yeah but you can maintain it tho

look after yourself

jfc

No. 163036

>>163031
my mom is okay for her age because of her youthful face, but she's got a lot of wrinkles because she drank/smoke/partied for all her youth.

i don't drink/smoke/do drugs and i have a decent diet and stay healthy and slightly underweight. i don't really go outside but when i do i put on spf.

i haven't gotten any wrinkles yet except my eye bags kill me too. but my skin is covered in acne still (21) which makes the whole "no wrinkles" thing not matter to me, because what's the point if i'm all covered in acne.


No. 163037

>>163035
Yeah but the reality is you won't be able to look all cutesy and kawaii forever. You can be Beautiful woman, just accept that after the age of 35 you won't be a cutesy living doll.

No amount of skin care, plastic surgery etc can change that

No. 163038

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>>163037
Unless your Asian, like I think Misako is in her 30's but looks young and cute.

One of those times I wish I was Asian, they are truly blessed with youthful looks.

No. 163039

>>163038
She's not over the age of 35 though. I'd like to see her at 40-70 dressing like that.

She's 33 and looks 33 imo

No. 163040

>>163038
I do agree that Misako looks youthful but I hope you realise just how much shop there is in this pic.

No. 163041

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She looks 33 imo. But I guess because she dresses cute, takes care of skin, has a Japanese diet she does look cuter than the average black or white woman the same age.

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>>163039
Tomoko Kawase looks pretty good for 40

No. 163043

>>163042
i think it helps that asians have round faces naturally and button noses.

No. 163044

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>>163039
She said she wants to dress that way, even when she is a grandma.

Q. Do you still see yourself wearing lolita ten years from now?

A. Yes! Even if I grow older, I’d like to wear kawaii fashion.


Q. In Japan, is there an age that someone can be considered too old to wear Lolita?

A. Some might stop (wearing Lolita)… I don’t think there is any age limit. I’d like to wear Lolita even after becoming a grandmother.


Asian women just age so much better. Compared to non-Asians, especially whites, she looks young and cute. They don't show wrinkles and sagging as early because they have thicker skin and they also have petite facial features which helps.

The lady in the picture is 47 I think
>>163043
This, like a lot of white women have more sharper features. Longer and broader noses, larger jaws and deeper set eyes. Asian women have rounder faces and smaller noses and those features are associated with children. Their eyes aren't deep set and can be easily made to look large with circles lenses and eye tape.

No. 163045

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>>163044
I wonder if there is a surgery to get a button nose. Most people get plastic surgery for a long pointy nose

No. 163046

>>163044
the deep set eye thing is what makes a lot of people look older. also the round faces/full cheeks that look youthful.

No. 163047

>>163045
Depends on your face and it could be hard to find a PS who would do it. I talked to a PS about making my nose small and cute but he said it wouldn't fit my face. The changes he would make would still leave my nose uncute.

No. 163048

>>163031
If you truly like those styles, wear it. Yes people will judge you but you aren't hurting anyone. People will judge you no matter what you do.

>>163038
Misako is a model, of course she will look good for her age. Look at street snaps, plenty of young Japanese girls with busted old looking faces.
>>163044
I have seen those sites talking about super young looking older Asian women (like that woman in the photo). If it was so common, why do these sites make a big deal out of it? It should be nothing new to them. Not all Asian girls have little features, I saw a girl in a street snap with a hooked nose and some have large jaws.

No. 163049

I think most people (who wear sunblock of course) will look more youthful than their parents since we know how shitty the sun is for our skin now.

No. 163050

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I'm 25 and turning 26 in December.
Had depression and anxiety my whole life with the last few years being my worst.
Trying to be more positive, taking better care of myself and my skin but the stress defiantly took its toll.
Not that I was good looking at 16 but damn, not better now lol

>if I could turn back time, if I could find a waaaay ♬

No. 163051

If only want to look 12-13 for financial reasons. And I don't only want to look that age in my face but also body(you know how 12 year olds have those weird, chapped and puffy nipples because of puberty) I could make a lot of money as a cam girl or sell nudes without even trying.

No. 163052

>>163051
I only

No. 163053

>>163037
that's my goal. i wanna look like a beautiful woman, like rachel weisz or brooke shields or amal clooney. idgaf if guys think i'm "too old" or whatever the fuck. i wanna look intimidating and powerful, not like a little kid they can walk over


No. 163054

>>163044
>thick skin a good thing

wow really? my doctor says i have thick skin… this made my day because i thought it was a bad thnig!


No. 163055

>>163045
My PS gave me a button nose. It depends on what kind of nose you have. I had one before but had a dorsal hump, so it was hidden.. If you have a long thin nose they won't be able to give you one.


No. 163056

>>163051
this is actually the most disgusting thin i've ever read


No. 163057

>>163056
But it's so true. I'd make a lot of money.

No. 163058

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Born in 1981

No. 163059

>>163057
use it to invent a drug that kills all pedos


No. 163060

Face it, everyone ages and there is no way to stop it. Well, there is one way and that is dying young. I just want to look good for my age, not really younger. I don't get this trend of women wanting to look like teens/children, it's creepy. It's why I hate cosplay and Jfashion lately,women feel they look "old" if they don't look 12 year old girls. I'm sick of seeing them edit that hell out of photos to look young, doing infantile poses, etc.

If you can't accept the aging process, your going to have a horrible life. You will be busy being jealous of younger girls and wasting money on crap that won't help much. Cosmetic producers can help with wrinkles and sagging but you will just look an older person with less wrinkles and sagging. You will never look under 20 again.

No. 163061

>>163060
Seriously. These idiots won't just accept it. You can be youthful and vibrant, even in your 50s and 60s. I've seen older women with a very beautiful aura about them, even if they are a bit wrinkly. And you stressing out over aging makes you age faster. Half the posters here are probably 25 and under. So pathetic.

No. 163062

>>163051
Please kill yourself, you disgusting bitch

No. 163063

>>163062
calm down. Men would shower women who look like legal CP with money for sure, there's nothing unreasonable about that assumption

No. 163064

>>163062
Chill. What would be so wrong with taking money from sick fucks if you've got the body to do it?

No. 163065

>>163063
The reality is a lot of these men wouldn't even be pedophiles. I read a study that said a lot of men fantasized about a little girl, even though they have no desire to have sex with children nor do they get turned on by looking at them…I think a lot of men just want to get off on something perverted.

No. 163066

>>163064
Sounds like a Loli girl stole all his money

No. 163067

>>163065
sure, whatever you say pedo!


No. 163068

>>163065
Can you prove that or a we just supposed to believe you

No. 163069

>>163065
Maybe men in Japan since loli garbage is all over the place there. Also, weebs. I have seen weebs into loli stuff but normal men won't be.

No. 163070

>>163061
>>163061
This. Youthful while being older means to me, good skin, dressing nicely and still being young at heart. Not looking like a teen or little girl. I think most girls here get warped views because they are into cosplay and Jfashion. They see underage looking Japanese women being the ideal standard. Outside of this crap, most women just worry about wrinkles and sagging but they don't want to look super young again. Girls into cosplay and jfashion are the ones worried about not looking like a kawaii 12 year old girl.



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