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I really like erotica, particularly BDSM but I like others too. It takes me a bit longer to get aroused but it really gives me a "deep" arousal. Sometimes to the point it's painful if I don't have sex or masturbate to get a release.
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>>162161Same. I find a lot of it is so badly written though.
This is weeby as hell but lately I've really been into listening to r18 drama CDs while reading the transcripts. I feel kind of awkward sometimes about it, but roles like male childhood friend in a r18 setting can be pretty hot.
No. 162163
>>162162Yeah it can be, but when you find a good one man is it hot. A lot of the times it's enough for me to just start daydreaming a BDSM setting and it takes off from there. I have some very complicated fantasies I like to revisit.
Thinking of R18 drama CD's, I wonder if an erotic audiobook would be worth a try. It would be a total turn off if the reader was horrible.
No. 162166
>>162164This sort of stuff (fantasies a girl has where she is degraded, humiliated, fucked by really fat men, disgusting black men, made to do nasty things etc) is basically the female equivalent of having a cuckold fetish.
The whole thing revolves around lack of self-esteem.
No. 162168
>>162166I don't think fantasies can revolve around not having self-respect.
I have had two partners, both were under my thumb in the relationship. The only difference was our sex life. One could play out the fantasies of 'degrading' me. The other just didn't have it in him. But outside the bedroom they were both equally my bitch.
No. 162169
>>162166 Ohh, and the female equivalent of cuckold fetish is: A female with a cuckold fetish.
Men also have degrading fantasies.
But there are fantasies that are more common in one sex than the other, but both sexes can fantasize.
Imo cuckold fetish isn't very popular in general. I can read it and not really focus on the cheating factor, and more on the mindbreak or blackmail factor. But I always read male comments baaawwing about how they can't fap to it cause of the cheating. I don't think a male cheater would turn me on either tbh, but I've come across that once and it was a sucky hentai anyways.
No. 162170
>>162161>>162162How do you find decent erotica?
Pls don't say literotica
No. 162171
>>162168>two partners>at onceErm…
>>162169>I can read it and not really focus on the cheating factor, and more on the mindbreak or blackmail factor. I'd be genuinely terrified of a female with an interest in that cuck stuff.
No. 162172
>>162171Why are you terrified?
If you're a male you probs don't understand female fetishes since 'forced'/'Dominated'/'rape'-fetish is the most common-
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>>162155And I have learned I am surrounded by filthy fujoshis
No. 162181
>>162170Weirdly enough, I've found good stuff in fanfiction. Literotica has so much horribly trashy stuff on it, 99% is awful. Don't get me wrong, most fanfiction is shit too but oddly enough there are some slightly better writers there, it's just a lot of digging around or getting lucky and randomly finding something.
At the moment though I just don't have the energy so I stick to normal porn.
No. 162182
>>162181Woah, I didn't expect to get a reply anymore. Yeah, I thought ff.net was bad until I found literotica
It's not really weird to find good fanfiction if you know where to look and/or have the patience to sift through a lot of mediocre garbage, I know. But there is only exactly one fandom I'm into and it's been pretty dead the past few years.
>>162180>fujoshit>dirty old menliterally what
No. 162186
Going to dump everything I learned because I wish I had known this shit when I was 15-18. I think I had my first real, purposely-induced orgasm at 21.
1. Orgasms are different for everyone. For me, it feels like a really good sneeze. Orgasming is more about enjoying yourself and taking your time instead of just rushing it. Unless you are really horny and just want relief. IMO they are greatly exaggerated, but I don't know how they feel for anyone else.
2. Most women cannot orgasm from just a dick fucking them. It is all about the clit. Also, it is extremely hard for me and some others to orgasm from their clit. I have only made myself orgasm with my fingers alone once.
3. If you aren't sure if you orgasmed yet or know you never have, just get a vibrator. Even a $10 one from amazon will do the job.
4. To have "better" orgasms, take it slow, "build" it up, look up edging.
5. As far as what to buy, I personally prefer the ones that describe themselves as 'rabbit' or any other animal (dolphin, beaver, etc.) vibrators. They have a dick part and an egg/bullet vibrator part that goes over your clit. I can orgasm with just a bullet vibrator, but it is much better with the dick part.
No. 162187
>>162186Edging makes my orgasms more "dull" and when it takes more than 6/7 mins to reach orgasm my arousal just stops, like one second I'm horny and then suddenly I don't feel a thing. Do my nerve endings just turn off ?
Btw I never used any toys ~
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You have to buy(or pirate) this book!
I used to have an infographic of the all the rooms in the 'house' of fantasy she talks about… cant believe i lost it.
It would have been so perfect for this thread.
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>>13466why would you share this
No. 162207
>>162206Once you run a couple enemas the concern becomes more about rectal mucus on the dick. And that's if they're not wearing a condom.
Enemas suck tho some people are fine but even the most sordid gross fanfiction won't go into detail about cramps and feeling the fecal matter further and further up the GI tract break down and come out. It's exactly like having the runs.
But if you get it right it feels like having a second vagina so there's that
No. 162229
>>162226Not sure if it's related, but I had kidney stones a year ago and would get the same feeling when I orgasmed too. I rarely get it now, and looking online never found anything about it.
(And being the responsible adult I am I stopped worrying about it when it became less frequent. Maybe you should check with your doc about it thought if you haven't had any health stuff like kidney stones.)
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I'm a hetero-romantic homosexual…It's really frustrating. Girls can arouse me on to a degree no guy ever could but I have 0 interest in dating them, I can only fall in love with guys. I wish I was straight.
No. 162231
>>162230Same, I love fucking girls but I can't stand being in a relationship with them.
It sucks
No. 162233
>>162230>>162231I'm in a similar situation. Even though right know I don't see myself in a relationship with anybody (first I have to get my shit together in order to make someone else happy)
I do get aroused by both, especially for those who lean more towards femininity. Despite that, I can only see myself spending several years of my life with another woman, even having kids, a family and all that shit. Idk women seem way more interesting and beautiful than you average man.
Being in a relationship with a dude feels ew. Or at least I haven't know any guy who would fulfill all my standards (both physical and emotional) but it's quite hard to find a feminine man that isn't gay.
Like, I can't even take guys seriously to the point of having a relationship, but I just want sex god dammit
No. 162234
>>162233I'm in the same situation but I'm more…picky (?) when it comes to girls. Like I have higher standards when it comes to girls, but I think that's because I'd rather be in a relationship with a girl and not just have sex with them.
I'm attracted to guys and girls but I get attracted to guys easier, even though I'd prefer to get married to a woman and have kids and all that.
I'm rambling but I know how you feel, anon.
No. 162236
>>162232>>162235I know that at this point is annoying but I do see the logic behind that. Plenty many of bisexuals live and experience their sexuality differently, some feel the same way towards both, some don't. And I think this whole gap between romantic and sexual attraction is important to notice. But of course, you are not going to say to someone "look I'm an aromantic pansexual" and expect them to understand the fuck you are talking about. In case you want to be more specific, or just explain someone else how do you feel towards men and women, well, then I don't see the problem.
Tumblr just fucked up everything
No. 162238
>>162162Is there anything like this in English?
Like, English audio erotica stories + a sex part? I tried looking online but no luck.
No. 162239
>>162236It's not that complicated. Tumblr has made people feel the need to label every last aspect of their attraction and relationship style.
If you are attracted to men and women you are bisexual. You're not homosexual. Just because you have not found a girl you want to date or a guy you want to fuck yet you're still bisexual.
If you are a woman and not attracted to men then you're homosexual. If you're a woman and only attracted to women you're homosexual. If men and women are both in the equation at all, you're bisexual. That's all there is to it. No one is 50/50. Sometimes you like men more than women, sometimes women more than men. Still bisexual.
No. 162240
>>162238don't you want to learn the Japanese words for finger, lick, and ooey gooey pusshole?
I don't know if these exist in English. I imagine they'd be a lot more aggressive though.
No. 162246
>>162197>>162204Woah. I'm not the only one who gets off to this kind of shit
I dunno, I've always fapped to anything that I found arousing like
>>162194 since I was little and it kept scalating and scalating… Now at my twenties I feel like i've reached a dead end. The shit I haven't fapped to is directly stuff that I personally find too repulsive even for me or either I find it to be too generic or boring. Idk, maybe it's time for me to finally get a bf or a fuckbuddy.
>>162216Don't worry anon, it's clitoral stimulation, I do it too. It's weird because you don't ~directly~ touch yourself, but feels good and is easy to do.
No. 162248
>>162245It could be your hymen that's bleeding. Your fingers might be stretching and tearing it.
It could be your nails making you bleed. Keep them short and filed.
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I get off on my dream dresses. They're so beautiful.
Wearing and buying clothes you want is better than having sex. I'm so boring.
No. 162252
>>162250You're wearing something one sees and wants to wear. I do get a thrill when I buy my dream dress and then it arrives in the mail.
>>162251I feel the same way when I set my eyes on a new bag, I get wet. God those bags are so big up close.
No. 162253
>>162252>>162251You guys are crazy. I do also overbuy stuff when I go shopping just because I like it and I don't really wear most of it, but getting aroused over it… And how the fuck can you spend that money every month on something you can't even wear?? I do rampage like that a few times a year, I couldn't afford doing that monthly.
>>162250 same
No. 162259
>>162258Am not but you might like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Cz64z7VEfA or other asmr videos