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No. 162155

All about masturbation and solo arousal. Give tips, ask questions, discuss your favorite erotic material, & share your sex-dreams (hot or bizarre) and fantasies.

Comments and questions about periods, vaginas, or overall reproductive health should go to >>7363

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No. 162157

no

No. 162158

No

No. 162159

Yes

No. 162160

y-you guys start

No. 162161

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I-I'll go…

I really like erotica, particularly BDSM but I like others too. It takes me a bit longer to get aroused but it really gives me a "deep" arousal. Sometimes to the point it's painful if I don't have sex or masturbate to get a release.

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>>162161
Same. I find a lot of it is so badly written though.


This is weeby as hell but lately I've really been into listening to r18 drama CDs while reading the transcripts. I feel kind of awkward sometimes about it, but roles like male childhood friend in a r18 setting can be pretty hot.

No. 162163

>>162162
Yeah it can be, but when you find a good one man is it hot. A lot of the times it's enough for me to just start daydreaming a BDSM setting and it takes off from there. I have some very complicated fantasies I like to revisit.

Thinking of R18 drama CD's, I wonder if an erotic audiobook would be worth a try. It would be a total turn off if the reader was horrible.

No. 162164

I'm really into 'dirty old man' hentai. Ugly guy, cute girl.
fat guy cute girl, ect.
I'm not into one night stands, but I'd like to have sex with an old man or disgusting virgin.

No. 162165

>>162164
>disgusting virgin.

h-hello there m'lady

No. 162166

>>162164
This sort of stuff (fantasies a girl has where she is degraded, humiliated, fucked by really fat men, disgusting black men, made to do nasty things etc) is basically the female equivalent of having a cuckold fetish.

The whole thing revolves around lack of self-esteem.

No. 162167

>>162162
>lately I've really been into listening to r18 drama CDs

Me too, I'm learning Japanese AND getting off!

No. 162168

>>162166
I don't think fantasies can revolve around not having self-respect.
I have had two partners, both were under my thumb in the relationship. The only difference was our sex life. One could play out the fantasies of 'degrading' me. The other just didn't have it in him. But outside the bedroom they were both equally my bitch.

No. 162169

>>162166 Ohh, and the female equivalent of cuckold fetish is: A female with a cuckold fetish.
Men also have degrading fantasies.
But there are fantasies that are more common in one sex than the other, but both sexes can fantasize.

Imo cuckold fetish isn't very popular in general. I can read it and not really focus on the cheating factor, and more on the mindbreak or blackmail factor. But I always read male comments baaawwing about how they can't fap to it cause of the cheating. I don't think a male cheater would turn me on either tbh, but I've come across that once and it was a sucky hentai anyways.

No. 162170

>>162161
>>162162
How do you find decent erotica?

Pls don't say literotica

No. 162171

>>162168
>two partners
>at once

Erm…

>>162169
>I can read it and not really focus on the cheating factor, and more on the mindbreak or blackmail factor.

I'd be genuinely terrified of a female with an interest in that cuck stuff.

No. 162172

>>162171
Why are you terrified?
If you're a male you probs don't understand female fetishes since 'forced'/'Dominated'/'rape'-fetish is the most common-

No. 162173

>>162172
I dislike the overt racial elements contained within them I guess. I also dislike the idea my SO would be into cheating on me as a sexual fetish.

No. 162174

>>162170
i too would love to know

No. 162175

I can't really get off on a lot anymore. I think I just kind of got bored and an dealing with some confusion about my sexuality.

No. 162176

Close your eyes while thinking of a sexual fantasy and rub your nipples for a really long time in a steady, circular motion. You are welcome.

No. 162177

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>>162155
And I have learned I am surrounded by filthy fujoshis

No. 162178

i really want to start doing these things but i dont know how to start

No. 162179

>>162177
and the only losers who ever complain about fujoshis are bitter guys from 4chan. stay on /r9k/

No. 162180

>>162179
>Be well adjusted and don't get off to dirty old man ero doujins
>go to /r9k/
What?

No. 162181

>>162170
Weirdly enough, I've found good stuff in fanfiction. Literotica has so much horribly trashy stuff on it, 99% is awful. Don't get me wrong, most fanfiction is shit too but oddly enough there are some slightly better writers there, it's just a lot of digging around or getting lucky and randomly finding something.

At the moment though I just don't have the energy so I stick to normal porn.

No. 162182

>>162181
Woah, I didn't expect to get a reply anymore. Yeah, I thought ff.net was bad until I found literotica

It's not really weird to find good fanfiction if you know where to look and/or have the patience to sift through a lot of mediocre garbage, I know. But there is only exactly one fandom I'm into and it's been pretty dead the past few years.

>>162180
>fujoshit
>dirty old men
literally what

No. 162183

Oh and I've read some good things on mcstories.com but again, you have to sift through a lot of mediocre ones to find a really good one. Plus mind-control isn't exactly everybody's turn on including me.

No. 162184

>>162178
doing what things, anon?

No. 162185

>>162184
actually getting off and going solo ;_;

No. 162186

Going to dump everything I learned because I wish I had known this shit when I was 15-18. I think I had my first real, purposely-induced orgasm at 21.

1. Orgasms are different for everyone. For me, it feels like a really good sneeze. Orgasming is more about enjoying yourself and taking your time instead of just rushing it. Unless you are really horny and just want relief. IMO they are greatly exaggerated, but I don't know how they feel for anyone else.

2. Most women cannot orgasm from just a dick fucking them. It is all about the clit. Also, it is extremely hard for me and some others to orgasm from their clit. I have only made myself orgasm with my fingers alone once.

3. If you aren't sure if you orgasmed yet or know you never have, just get a vibrator. Even a $10 one from amazon will do the job.

4. To have "better" orgasms, take it slow, "build" it up, look up edging.

5. As far as what to buy, I personally prefer the ones that describe themselves as 'rabbit' or any other animal (dolphin, beaver, etc.) vibrators. They have a dick part and an egg/bullet vibrator part that goes over your clit. I can orgasm with just a bullet vibrator, but it is much better with the dick part.

No. 162187

>>162186

Edging makes my orgasms more "dull" and when it takes more than 6/7 mins to reach orgasm my arousal just stops, like one second I'm horny and then suddenly I don't feel a thing. Do my nerve endings just turn off ?

Btw I never used any toys ~

No. 162188

>>162187
Edging does the same thing to me anon. In fact, when I prolong it too much my vagina actually starts to ache. I find my fast orgasms are more intense than ones I build up to.

No. 162189

>>162186
I started having really intense orgasms when I started fingering while rubbing my clit. Vibrators, especially egg/bullet ones are a godsend as well and edging for 10-15 minutes.

No. 162190

Am I asexual? There is nothing that makes me horny. When I was young I was into BL, and it really used to turn me on but it doesn't happen anymore. Sometimes I wish I still liked it because of how good release felt after being aroused.

I can come if I try by myself but never during sex, and I never just feel like coming is worth the effort until I'm actually doing it. The only satisfaction I ever get from sex is knowing I made my partner feel good. I've been accused of being boring and too vanilla but I just don't get the appeal of it all, and I wish desperately that I did.

No. 162191

>>162190
Probably just a low sex drive

No. 162192

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You have to buy(or pirate) this book!
I used to have an infographic of the all the rooms in the 'house' of fantasy she talks about… cant believe i lost it.
It would have been so perfect for this thread.

No. 162193

>>162190
you can also check with you doc, there's plenty of illnesses that have decreased libido as a symptom, for example hypothyroidism

No. 162194

All my life I've been getting off to weird fetish porn and now I'm at a point where penis in vagoo penetration doesn't do shit for me, sometimes genitals even actually repulse me. And even when I get off it's more like a sense of release but not actual arousal. I can get aroused off different stuff sometimes but then it's never enough to orgasm to it. Idk, shit's weird. I should do nofap until it normalizes but I don't think I could manage.

No. 162195

>>162194
Which fetish?

No. 162196

>>162194
Dunno what to say, farmer. I've only ever experienced orgasms as a sense of release–must suck to have awesome ones only to go to that. Nofap may help you, but nothing will if you're not even willing to try.

No. 162197

>>162195
Exhibitionism/public humiliation stuff, lately shit like Japanese schoolgirls peeing outside and I'm not even lesbian lmao kill me

No. 162198

>>162185
Is it because you don't know how to masturbate or…? Tbh I didn't know that rubbing my clit would get me off for the longest time.

No. 162199

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>>13466
why would you share this

No. 162200

Anyone else easily excited when sick? I'm sick at the moment, and just like any time I am sick, feel 200% more turned on. My underwear get mad wet, and it's pissing me off since I cannot do anything.

No. 162201

>>13466
this story reminds me, i wish i had a clone so i could fuck myself. it would be so hot

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No. 162203

>>162202
lmao this is perfect. it'll be true too.

No. 162204

>>162194
I 100% know this feel actually. I am into some -very- bizarre stuff now, some stuff that isn't even remotely sexual. Wish I could go back to vanilla but it's not just arousing anymore :/

No. 162205

i like rape porn and want to be fucked roughly
DONT JUDGE ME PLS

No. 162206

Anal sex is disgusting and i'll never do it.
seriously, isnt there poop on the dick when it goes inside?
im scared

No. 162207

>>162206

Once you run a couple enemas the concern becomes more about rectal mucus on the dick. And that's if they're not wearing a condom.

Enemas suck tho some people are fine but even the most sordid gross fanfiction won't go into detail about cramps and feeling the fecal matter further and further up the GI tract break down and come out. It's exactly like having the runs.

But if you get it right it feels like having a second vagina so there's that

No. 162208

Man I'm 26 and I still haven't orgasmed. It's not a big deal but I can't help but think I'm missing out.

I've tried, rabbits, vibes, lots of different sex and I still don't know if I've had an orgasm or I'm just broken or what. I like the sensation of sex, and my new bf is huge and feels good despite being a little painful, but fuck. I want to know what an orgasm feels like at least.

Am I broken?

No. 162209

I had a dream last night where I hooked up with my ex bf. I used to think he was super gross, but he's cleaned up a lot and I am so horny that I would fuck him. (except I can't have PIV sex) Ughhh what should I do… I am so sexually frustrated! But I'm deffo not into hooking up with strangers.

No. 162210

>>162209
Masturbate or get a boyfriend.

No. 162211

I don't think I've ever had an orgasm. Sex just gives me a tummy ache :/ it's quite disappointing

No. 162212

>>162211
>tummy ache
>:/

Underage newfag detected.

No. 162213

>>162208
So, it just feels the same all throughout sex? The good feeling doesnt rise or fall? And when do you decide to stop masturbating?

No. 162214

I've never met anyone IRL who does this, or knows about it, but I LOVE those Soundclouds where people upload their moaning and dirty talk. Sometimes it's nice to just sit in the dark with my vibrator and headphones and listen to those.

Anybody else?

No. 162215

>>162212
rip I'm 19

No. 162216

I can only get myself off by humping my blankets and squeezing my thighs. I don't even know what kind that is because it's not clitoral or vaginal…
During sex, I don't think I've ever had an orgasm.

No. 162217

>>162212
>yeah! cool kids don't say stuff like tummy ache! only children say baby words like that!!

Fuck off you projecting cuck.
>>>/reddit/

No. 162218

The absolute only way I can get off is by having real sex. I feel completely awkward and even bored the few times I've tried to go solo. I've tried a few times, but porn makes me feel awkward and I just find it humorous, really.

Is that normal? I genuinely find it either funny or I cringe at how awkward and fake it looks. I feel like I've tried a few different types too. Just doesn't really do anything for me.

I am just generally not interested in masturbation and I never have been. In the past couple of years I have felt kind of insecure about it because it makes me feel like I'm weird or something. To be completely honest the only reason I even tried it in the first place is because my boyfriend seemed completely and utterly surprised when he found out that I had never even tried it. I had never thought that not enjoying or even thinking about masturbation was something abnormal before.

The more time I spend on the internet the more I realize that maybe this is not as normal as I previously thought it was….

No. 162219

>>162218
>>162218
Eh I think thats probably normal. I can go months without even thinking about masturbating. That being said, if watching porn doesn't do it for you, what about reading it? Or like that other anon up there who listens to dirty soundclouds?

No. 162220

>>162217
>cuck

Yeah, you're definitely underage.

No. 162221

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>>162220
>being this new

No. 162222

>>162221
le epic constanza meem! xDDDD nice one my good sir

No. 162223

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>>162222
>le ironic ex dee post am i cool yet

No. 162224

>>162162
Oh my god. Same here. I get off a few times a week with these damned things. Its perfect for loners.

No. 162225

I have masturbated since a rather young age and always orgasmed since I can remember. I used to get aroused really easily from kissing and such, sex got gradually really great but ever since I started sertraline my libido has dropped to almost 0. I really miss getting turned on/orgasming.

No. 162226

Not sure if this belongs in the vagina thread or here, but I get really bad cramps after I masturbate. Like, bringing me to tears bad.

It only happens a few days before my period which is also when I'm most horny.

Ugh, the orgasms really aren't worth the pain but I hate being blue-balled(labia'd?).

No. 162227

>>162162
Same here omfg! I'm pretty much addicted to them now lol

No. 162228

>>162162
All I gotta say is Kare Pillow Vol. 1.

No. 162229

>>162226

Not sure if it's related, but I had kidney stones a year ago and would get the same feeling when I orgasmed too. I rarely get it now, and looking online never found anything about it.

(And being the responsible adult I am I stopped worrying about it when it became less frequent. Maybe you should check with your doc about it thought if you haven't had any health stuff like kidney stones.)

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I'm a hetero-romantic homosexual…It's really frustrating. Girls can arouse me on to a degree no guy ever could but I have 0 interest in dating them, I can only fall in love with guys. I wish I was straight.

No. 162231

>>162230
Same, I love fucking girls but I can't stand being in a relationship with them.
It sucks

No. 162232

>>162230
GO BACK TO TUMBLR REEE.

No. 162233

>>162230
>>162231

I'm in a similar situation. Even though right know I don't see myself in a relationship with anybody (first I have to get my shit together in order to make someone else happy)

I do get aroused by both, especially for those who lean more towards femininity. Despite that, I can only see myself spending several years of my life with another woman, even having kids, a family and all that shit. Idk women seem way more interesting and beautiful than you average man.

Being in a relationship with a dude feels ew. Or at least I haven't know any guy who would fulfill all my standards (both physical and emotional) but it's quite hard to find a feminine man that isn't gay.
Like, I can't even take guys seriously to the point of having a relationship, but I just want sex god dammit

No. 162234

>>162233

I'm in the same situation but I'm more…picky (?) when it comes to girls. Like I have higher standards when it comes to girls, but I think that's because I'd rather be in a relationship with a girl and not just have sex with them.

I'm attracted to guys and girls but I get attracted to guys easier, even though I'd prefer to get married to a woman and have kids and all that.

I'm rambling but I know how you feel, anon.

No. 162235

>>162230
Escaped from tumblr

No. 162236

>>162232
>>162235
I know that at this point is annoying but I do see the logic behind that. Plenty many of bisexuals live and experience their sexuality differently, some feel the same way towards both, some don't. And I think this whole gap between romantic and sexual attraction is important to notice. But of course, you are not going to say to someone "look I'm an aromantic pansexual" and expect them to understand the fuck you are talking about. In case you want to be more specific, or just explain someone else how do you feel towards men and women, well, then I don't see the problem.
Tumblr just fucked up everything

No. 162237

>>162231
Why does it suck? I thought I was bi for a while, then I realized I like relationships with girls waaaay better than relationships with guys, so I'm probably just gay tbh.

No. 162238

>>162162

Is there anything like this in English?

Like, English audio erotica stories + a sex part? I tried looking online but no luck.

No. 162239

>>162236
It's not that complicated. Tumblr has made people feel the need to label every last aspect of their attraction and relationship style.

If you are attracted to men and women you are bisexual. You're not homosexual. Just because you have not found a girl you want to date or a guy you want to fuck yet you're still bisexual.

If you are a woman and not attracted to men then you're homosexual. If you're a woman and only attracted to women you're homosexual. If men and women are both in the equation at all, you're bisexual. That's all there is to it. No one is 50/50. Sometimes you like men more than women, sometimes women more than men. Still bisexual.

No. 162240

>>162238
don't you want to learn the Japanese words for finger, lick, and ooey gooey pusshole?

I don't know if these exist in English. I imagine they'd be a lot more aggressive though.

No. 162241

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>>162240
>don't you want to learn the Japanese words for finger, lick, and ooey gooey pusshole?

No. 162242

i like watching other girls

No. 162243

>>162242
Eww. Gay.

No. 162244

>>162238
Try going to /msa/ (male sexy audio) threads on /soc/. Also
>copypaste translated exercpt from r18 Japanese CD
>have a guy read it
>???
>profit

No. 162245

whenever I masturbate using my fingers, blood comes out of my pussy even if Im not on my period, so I can only rub my clit to get off. I have never had a vaginal orgasm either, and Im a bit scared to try because of the blood. I dont know what to do…

No. 162246

>>162197
>>162204
Woah. I'm not the only one who gets off to this kind of shit

I dunno, I've always fapped to anything that I found arousing like >>162194 since I was little and it kept scalating and scalating… Now at my twenties I feel like i've reached a dead end. The shit I haven't fapped to is directly stuff that I personally find too repulsive even for me or either I find it to be too generic or boring. Idk, maybe it's time for me to finally get a bf or a fuckbuddy.

>>162216

Don't worry anon, it's clitoral stimulation, I do it too. It's weird because you don't ~directly~ touch yourself, but feels good and is easy to do.

No. 162247

>>162244
Since you mentioned /msa/, though I'd also say that reddit's /r/gonewildaudio has some good stuff too. I know it's reddit and all, but they have many male posters open for requests and the quality is pretty good

No. 162248

>>162245
It could be your hymen that's bleeding. Your fingers might be stretching and tearing it.

It could be your nails making you bleed. Keep them short and filed.

No. 162249

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I get off on my dream dresses. They're so beautiful.

Wearing and buying clothes you want is better than having sex. I'm so boring.

No. 162250

>>162249
I don't understand lolitas.

No. 162251

>>162249
Tbf I get wet whenever I buy a new pair of heels like when I unbox them and set eyes on them. I buy at least 3 pairs of quirky heels a month and I've probably only worn less than a quarter of them because I'm frightened of getting the tiniest scratch on them. So I just sit and stare at them! I'm a creep I know

No. 162252

>>162250
You're wearing something one sees and wants to wear. I do get a thrill when I buy my dream dress and then it arrives in the mail.

>>162251
I feel the same way when I set my eyes on a new bag, I get wet. God those bags are so big up close.

No. 162253

>>162252
>>162251

You guys are crazy. I do also overbuy stuff when I go shopping just because I like it and I don't really wear most of it, but getting aroused over it… And how the fuck can you spend that money every month on something you can't even wear?? I do rampage like that a few times a year, I couldn't afford doing that monthly.

>>162250 same

No. 162254

I dont get why people use lube to masturbate, I want my vava to be dry when masturbating I hate it when my clit gets wet because I cant control my motion as well and dry skin to skin contact just feels better instead of having lube or something else between The skin
Ugh

No. 162255

I cannot stand having my clitoris directly touched, finger either side of the hood though is brilliant! I also can't orgasm if I don't have something inside me boyfriend/sex toy…

No. 162256

>>162255
>I also can't orgasm if I don't have something inside me boyfriend/sex toy…

What about a girlfriend with a strap-on?

No. 162257

>>162256 That would work too!

No. 162258

Anyone else really turned on by squishy, slimey sounds?

No. 162259

>>162258
Am not but you might like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Cz64z7VEfA or other asmr videos



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