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No. 161055

Can we have a good ol' gay thread? What it's like to be in a gay relationship. How to survive being the only gay in the village. Such things.

Cute pictures are also encouraged!

No. 161056

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>>161055
i thought i'd find lots of other lesbians at art school but so far no luck>>161055

No. 161057

Only half gay here, yes I'm a bisexual female.

I have no idea how to even idk at girls. I don't like the gay bars and stuff, just not my thing and gay dating, I try that Diva Date thing and it was a waste of time. All butch or old looking, the odd femme girl but gag at some.

Like… it's hard. You want to be friendly but you don't want to scare her off. Especially if you're a femme into femme…

No. 161058

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Where do you meet an experienced cutie that shows you how to practice real life yuri?
I have 0 experience and never even talked to a girl in a flirty way. How do you do it?

No. 161059

>>161058
go to a gay bar on ladies night (or a lesbian bar)

No. 161060

I really crave being in a loving mommy/daughter type of relationship. I even want to be ab/dl actually. I can do without it but I feel like in my heart that would be such an expression of how I am. I hate being this way.

I also wonder about being "sisters" and we're both cute and innocent and good. I don't know, I think about different things with different types of girls. I would love to be an apprentice of some kind for a seamstress or for any young professional. I don't like being treated mean but I want to be hurt.

ugh it's awful being a crazy girl pls someone take care of me

No. 161061

>>161059

Not all girls are comfortable going to them… I'm not. Whenever I've been to them, I always get offish looks and they're all butch looking. Ergh.

No. 161062

>>161060

I often wondered about those too. With an older women but like a few years older than myself not like some old hag.

No. 161063

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>>161060
I want an older, more experienced woman to dominate me. I have teacher fantasies a lot

No. 161064

>>161063
Oh yes this would be so wonderful. Where to find?

>>161061
Just as I guessed. Also I think in things like pick-up bars that are made for no other reasons than meeting someone for sex is not a good place to find someone.
I don't know if that's a stupid question but are there any places that cuties (that are into other cuties) frequent more often?
Also how do you ask or make it clear that you are not straight?

No. 161065

>>161063
This so much. I also would really love it if she was fit or a little chubby with big boobs. I like fit because I want her to be expectant and stern.

I want to be transformed into her perfect girl. I really want to dedicate myself to being her project and confidant and best friend.

No. 161066

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Anybody have any ideas on how to deal with bi feelings when in a relationship? I'm currently married and happy with my husband, I love him very much. But sometimes I really miss being able to hold hands with girls or cuddle them, or be all sexy in bed together. Previous to this SO I'd had a few relationships with girls.

Am I being stupid or is it normal to have these feelings when your interested in both genders? I dont want to do anything to cause disturbances in my marriage because I'm very happy in it, but I can't shake these yuri thoughts.

No. 161067

>>161066
It just comes with being bisexual Anon. It will go either way. I have no advice though :(

No. 161068

>>161066

Well, kindly ask your husband if he would mind? Maybe he would or maybe he wouldn't, maybe he'd even want to join or watch. But suggest it to him, that you possibly might have to be with a woman just for thrill and that you love him no less. Just have a talk with him about it, see what he says.

No. 161069

>>161065
>>161064
>>161063


Around a year ago, I was using some dating app thing out of sheer boredom and I got speaking to a lovely lady who was 29 and I'm myself 21 now.

She had a house, two dogs, she was this gorgeous blonde, very femme and tanned. Now I'm not a bimbo blonde fan, not really my type but she had a pretty face and she dressed nice. The only thing that put me off was that she was a party animal and I'm a quiet girl. I don't really do clubs and parties.

But anyway, she was easy to talk to and sexy. I stopped speaking to her because of depression I was going through at the time and I just didn't feel like I'd be good enough.

She was very sweet, kept saying things like "if we started to date, I'd get so attached you know? you'd be mine" and I think those words, that kind of clinginess was what I liked. The thought of being wanted.

I liked that she was older, not some old woman but 9 years older, with experience and maturity. I would have actually, probably asked her if I kept in touch if we could have had that type of relationship. I'm by no means asking for a sugar mummy to spend her money on me because that isn't what I want. I don't like that. But I mean being spoiled in the sense that she kisses me, cuddles me and generally just makes me feel loved. This sounds disgusting but I never grew up with a father, only a mother, so it's women I feel more closer to than men. I'm bisexual but I probably do edge closer to women. I just feel safer and more relaxed. Plus only girls usually have that feel around them, that it's "okay" you know?

I just think the image of being lopped over her lap watching tv or on my phone huddled up in my pajamas is nice while she drinks her wine and tousles my hair. Whispering shit like "you're such a good girl" and kisses me cheek or neck. I just really love that idea.

I still have that girl's number too, I never deleted it. It's probably about time I did to be honest. She'll have moved on by now, I don't blame her. She's gorgeous and shouldn't be kept waiting. I just hate how me and my insecurities got in the way…

No. 161070

I'm not going to lie, I'm not really gay but I'm SO hung up on this guy who wants nothing to do with me. I'm not going to let him go, so I'm just going to avoid men and keep myself open to a relationship with a woman

No. 161071

>>161069

send her a message, anon

No. 161072

>>161066
I'm bisexual as well and have been with my s/o for 3 years. It was a little disappointing for me at the start of the relationship (not because of him, I was looking for girls to date or hook up with) and after a week of dating him this cute little blonde girl asks me my number and we hit it off instantly. She later gave up though cus boyfriend. 3 years go by and I do mention to him I wish I could fuck a girl again. He tells me I can with our one friend because we're really close and my boyfriend knows her very well too so it's not just some random. We did once but her boyfriend was jealous so I haven't done anything else than that. Maybe just be super open with everything first. I slowly got my boyfriend to open up with his sexuality and now we can talk about anything really.

No. 161073

Sage for stupid personal blog entry. I'm really tired and high and I don't know why I'm even writing this, but fuck those lesbian feels.

I don't know what I am, but I'm not "straight." I have very little interest in actual clothes-off sex (I don't like to be naked or have my bare skin touched), but everything up to that…mmmmhmmm. I just want to snuggle and make out and dry-hump. That's probably weird. I think there's something wrong with me.

I'm romantically interested in both men and women, but in different ways. I don't like having sex with a man but I do it anyway; I've never been with a woman and I most likely will never get the chance. I'm in a long-term (8+ years) heterosexual relationship, and my partner is the only person I've ever been intimate with. I do love him, and I'm very committed to him, but the sex thing, ughhhhh. Oh, and there's no way on earth he'd be okay with me being with someone else, male or female.

I don't really interact with women much and I try to suppress my lesbian feels as much as possible and convince myself I'm happy in a relationship with a man. Still, I'm obsessed with the thought of being seduced by a slightly older, experienced lesbian. I feel like a >tfw no gf robot, but I fucking long to feel the touch of a woman. I'm really jealous of younger lesbians and bisexual women who are "out," because I should have fucking done that instead of getting into a serious relationship that isn't right for me. I'm in too deep now and letting go of that relationship just isn't an option.

So I'll forever dream of women and admire them from afar. I'll always remember the last (and almost only) time I got a real hug from a woman who wasn't related to me. It was almost ten fucking years ago. I was so in love with her, but she was straight. She humored me (or, in hindsight, led me on) and let me snuggle up to her and I thought we were going to start making out, but no. It was a pity-snuggle. I can still feel her beautiful, warm, soft body against mine, along with the intense sexual frustration of knowing I could never have her and that she didn't reciprocate my feelings.

So yeah, fuck those lesbian feels. I'm touching myself tonight (and crying).

No. 161074

I find girls physically (and sexually in pornography) attractive but I never have butterflies in my stomach seeing them around, nor can I fathom doing anything sexual with other girls in real life.

I should still consider myself hetero right?

No. 161075

>>161074

i'd say so, anon. when i watch porn it's mostly lesbian porn because let's face it, girls are much nicer to look at than guys lol. but i'd say i'm 100% straight.

No. 161076

>>161071

I did anon, I've messaged her and we're talking again! :)

No. 161077

>>161074

Same, I'd fuck and do things with another girl because I think it's 'fun' and there IS a thrill in it to me. But not sure I see myself spending the rest of my life with one. I think it's possible I'd date one though, I would. I'd give it a go. Maybe she'd make me fall in love with her. But again, lesbian sex is pretty hot. No feels tho.

No. 161078

>>161073
I love dry humping. I always thought I was weird for it.

No. 161079

>>161076

I'm glad for you!!

No. 161080

I used to think I was into both guys and girls but I'm not sure if I really want to be in a relationship with either. I mean, I like looking at aesthetically pleasing people and all but… I don't know. pls help

No. 161081

>>161066
I came here to post about this. Unfortunately (?) I've never been with a girl relationship-wise before. I'm just filling that gap with yuri right now.

I always feel kind of guilty about wanting to have a girl in my life. Like, I don't need it in any way, but sometimes the desire is so strong. I just want a cutie 3.14 to read books, cuddle, bake, drink tea, and dress up with. I always hope I'll get a best friend with those interests soon so that I can fulfill that need (kinda).
At least he'll listen if I'm having girl-feels.

No. 161082

My roommate this year had an innocent Catholic schoolgirl face. I want to do horrible things to her. But getting involved with your roommate it a bad idea. Also I pretty sure she's straight

No. 161083

>>161073
that sounds hot, anon. i'd love to meet someone like you but i'd probably be to autismal to tell you're into women

No. 161084

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I'm bisexual and I have this thing on my mind… I obsess over tall girls with blonde long hair and a sporty attitude. Like, I'm not into boyish girls, but I still want a fit, strong, hot girl with those blonde hair and a beautiful face that acts tsunder-ish ;w;

No. 161085

>>161084
Nothing wrong with that, anon.

No. 161086

>>161084
ARE YOU ME?

No. 161087

>>161086
If you are quite short (160 cm), feminine & with a thing for strong and qt viking/ukrainian girls, yes you are me >:)

No. 161088

>>161087
viking =/= ukrainian. look further up north

No. 161089

>>161087
157 cm, feminine, also have a thing for Ukrainian and Viking girls

No. 161090

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>>161088
I know, I meant that I like nordic girls as well as ukrainian/russian ones, it's easier to find muh perfect waifus there.
>>161089
So I'm dropping Katheryn Winnick to please viking-seeking anons >:)

No. 161091

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One of my biggest fantasies is having a teacer dominate me

No. 161092

>>161090
unfortunately they're all straight or brainwashed straight

No. 161093

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>tfw no Suruga gf

What's the point in living ;_;

No. 161094

>>161090
I once fell in love with this Ukrainian girl. She was the only girl I ever really had strong, gay 'i want to date you' feelings for. She was rather tall and had short blonde hair and grey eyes.

I was pretty infatuated. If only I wasn't such a sperg around her.

>>161066
Ask your husband. From my experience, most dudes really don't mind their girlfriends experimenting with other girls as long as they don't fall in love and cause a rift in the relationship.
But do ask first, Anon. He may very well be open to the idea.

No. 161095

Am I the only one who just doesn't like butch women? I don't see the appeal at all.

No. 161096

>>161095
i like woman who are naturally tough and confident, who don't wear makeup (concealing blemishes still required regardless of gender) and i'm fine with her gaving short hair, if the cut suits her. cliche butch types don't appeal to me at all either. i feel like some of them are trying harder than their feminine counterparts. total turn off to me

No. 161097

>>161096
i meant women, obvsly

No. 161098

>>161095
Me too, anon. Femme to femme rules

No. 161099

>>161098

I think it's cute if they're girly and have a pixie cut. That's fine.

But I'm talking about your actual butch motherfucker. Tanks, man jeans, piercings or trying to look like pubescent justin bieber. I just don't see the appeal.

No. 161100

>>161095
I didn't before but now I find some of them very attractive. Not everyone can pull it off though, and most of them are fat or just ugly. Those rare ones though… yeesss please.
Too bad they're a dying breed, now they're all fakebois. Oh well.

No. 161101

>known i've liked girls since i was four
>been identifying as a lesbian for the past 6 years
>randomly develop a crush on a guy
what the fuck i never like guys
it's not dicks i have a problem with, it's the person it's usually attached to (i don't like masculinity)

No. 161102

>>161101

Sounds like you're biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisexual.

No. 161103

Sometimes I want a cute relationship with another girl but I'm just not into vagina. Honestly wish I was lesbian because guys are a pain in the ass sometimes. The struggle…

No. 161104

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>>161101
>>161103
Just find a guy who transforms into a magical girl. There are a number of guys out there who don't like to be masculine.

No. 161105

Could have included bisexuals too. Smh

No. 161106

I also crave for female affection, since I didn't had a /good/motherly figure while growing up. Same goes to feminine men. Reading anon's comments makes me realize a lot of things, like I'm not alone in this.

No. 161107

>>161103
I feel you. I love girls and I admire the aesthetics of the female body, and I'd be interested in trying out lesbian sex because, why not experiment a bit? I would love to sexually touch a girl's body, preferably a petite girl with small boobs (the opposite of my hourglass big boobs body type).

But I'm mostly sure it is just the typical young adult's curiousity, and I bet there aren't many lesbians around who'd beg to be yet another staight girl's sexual experiment.

Curiously though I dislike feminine men such as >>161104.

No. 161108

>>161057
>>161058
And to all other girls like you:

Say out loud in a group of girls that you tried it/want to try it with a girl. Orthat you just want to try to kiss with a girl. Say it with a smile, say it openly and say it while conversation is about shitty or funny stuff. If you are in a group of five conservative girls, four might be judging you by the look, but there is a big chance that one will actually come to you when you are alone and kiss you.

Almost every girl in this world has a fantasy to kiss another girl. It doesn't make a girl gay or bi, it's just a normal curiosity.

Also there is a good chance that that one girl will try to kiss you in a bathroom. Bathrooms are more private + it looks more like a fantasy so they will think it's appropriate. I'm not joking. Girls who are not hardcore lesbians but want to try something with a girl, are actually very sweet and naive in that situation. Good luck :)

No. 161109

Boys are boring in bed, girls like to have fun. I like how they experiment and like to dress you up in something sexy instead of the whole "it's just gonna end up on the floor" shit that men pull. You can also pull out sex toys without the insecurity.

No. 161110

>>161107
As a small petite girl, a girl with YOUR body type is like my fantasy. Opposites attract I guess.

No. 161111

>>161110
>>161107

Hourglass girl here, petites are cute but too small for me.

Can't stand butch girls and I don't see how every lesbian RS always ends up with the girl and dude.

Can't just find… feminine type?

No. 161112

I'd like to try dating a girl someday. I've never dated anyone anyway, of any gender, so I think it might be nice. Feels like girls could have a stronger bond together since there's a bigger chance they'd be into similar stuff or at least their interests would overlap somewhat.

No. 161113

>>161109

Agh yes the sex toys. But at the same time I get anxious if we're getting down to it and I feel like I can't do the job with just my mouth/hands so I NEED to have a sex toy…damn things are too expensive to keep buying every time with a new partner.

Has anyone had much experience with finding a match on dating websites?

No. 161114

>>161109
you're with the wrong kinds of guys. you could say the same about girls honestly.

No. 161115

>>161073
>I don't know what I am, but I'm not "straight." I have very little interest in actual clothes-off sex (I don't like to be naked or have my bare skin touched), but everything up to that…mmmmhmmm. I just want to snuggle and make out and dry-hump. That's probably weird. I think there's something wrong with me.


Are you……. me? I'm not really into peoples' genetalia, or being nekkid. Lingerie is alright I guess. I crave gooey intimacy and even light BDSM, but not sex.

No. 161116

>>161115
>even light BDSM, but not sex.

me too, shit! penetration is not interesting to me at all, i like control and bdsm-y kind of stuff but not penetrative sex itself

No. 161117

>>161116
Is there a word for this? Even a dumb tumblr label? I don't feel like I can call myself asexual because it's not like I don't have sexual desires, but I don't want to /have/ /sex/.

No. 161118

>>161115
>>161116
>>161117
I don't really think there's a special term for that, it's just personal preference. Sex is so much more than "penis in vagina", so people are bound to like different things on the spectrum. I think women might tend more towards not being very into penetration because for many, it doesn't feel all that great. But honestly, unless you want a tumblr-esque term for it, I would file it under personal preference.

/sage for OT

No. 161119

>>161111
I'm a feminine girl!

I think I'm getting curious, but I'm not sure. I'm also a little afraid. I don't feel sexually aroused when I look at men OR women, except maybe two times this year when I just saw someone my body instantly registered as "cute, sexy or attractive."

I'm not sure what's going on, if that's just how I work, but I'm confused. I don't know much about this whole thing and I just feel a little foolish.

No. 161120

>>161119
You sound underaged…

No. 161121

>>161072
of you do do a threesome, i think its actually better to do it with "some random" so you dont get attached and you never have to see them again



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