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No. 157319

> have a slow but decent day at work
> tell gm I'm not feeling for rping with group tonight
> gets told "too bad"
> grab bottle of wine to make my hours exquisite, and before it went bad in the fridge.
> gets dizzy, not realizing i might've drank a lot
> warns gm about this
> gets a little irate
> Gets kicked out of game
> gets yelled at by GM for being real drunk.
> this is my first time getting angry stupid drunk.
> get into argument with GM, he says he stops giving a shit if i even bother attending games or not.
> says new girl is better than me because she doesn't get drunk.
> feelsterrible.jpg
> cutself.png

I hope everyone is having a better day none the less.

No. 157320

Be more assertive. When you don't want to do something, don't allow people to tell you "too bad."

When facing difficult times, reach out to friends and family instead of reaching for alcohol.

Self-injury is a sign that you need professional help. Please seek it out.

No. 157321

That sucks, yo. Start your own group with less shitty and demanding people. Better yet, start a group where you play once a week and you all get drunk together. You don't have to care about how well you do (though if you do well anyway then that's one hell of a bonus!) and everybody will be having a fun time.

I know what it's like to hurt yourself. Just forgive yourself for it and do your best to move on. If you need to talk to anybody, you can bump this thread with your problems when you need to and I'll take the time to respond (I'm here at least once a day)- just don't do anything dumb while you wait for me to reply.

No. 157322

Awwh I'm sorry OP. It was just a mistake, on both parts. I'd give it awhile and then maybe try to approach it as you're sorry and provided the other person is reasonable, they'll apologise for their heated words too.

If not, then screw 'em. People who won't forgive and forget aren't worth your time. But there's lots of rp groups out there.

No. 157323

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I hope everyone is calmer now. I'm probably going to go on an rp hiatus away from them. I also am surprised at the reactions I got. I want to thank you all for your words in my time of despair.

No. 157324

>>157323
Any time, kid. Keep your chin up.

No. 157325

Only two people out of six were the only ones who didn't shame me for unintentionally being drunk. I'm a little pissed so I'm definitely not going to be joining in their games any time soon.

No. 157326

why are you drinking alone? and how do you "accidentally" get drunk?

No. 157327

>>157326
why not drink alone? is there a rule book that says you can only drink with others? i hate people that say shit like that as if there's a difference.

No. 157328

>>157327
In my culture you're not really supposed to drink alone. It's not that it's shameful or anything but because it's social, really. When you're with friends or family, you all get a beer, no biggie, but if you're alone home drinking, you learn not to do it (or to excess)

We've got a big culture of drinking (…and a holiday devoted to just that) but I'd say we have less alcoholics on the whole due to the mentality. IDK. it's hard to explain!

No. 157329

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>come into this thread expecting everyone to laugh at OP and call her a pathetic loser for feeling bad about RP group drama
>everyone is being nice and supportive
>mfw
You're such sweet anons, what the fuck.

No. 157330

>>157329
Awwh anon. Well, we're kinda catty and blunt , but for the most part, I think we're all pretty normal girls. (And a few dudes, I think?) I'd take a stab to say that most of us are moderately smart, mid-twenties, probably spent a bit of time on 4chan so we can take a joke and kinda nerdy for something, even if it's make up/clothes or shoes or cosplay or vidya.

It's not a secret that I'd probably befriend most of you anons in real life if I could…And I'd be down for doing a rolld20 campaign with OP or anyone else that does RP

No. 157331

>>157330

Just a warning I haven't done DnD for a while I've been doing Warhammer 40k/Fantasy rps, and occasionally pathfinder.

No. 157332

>>157329

I had the same reaction as well to how everyone took this. I was afraid they would make fun of me for getting stupid drunk, but I guess we have those moments where we get drunk accidentally.

No. 157333

>>157332
We've all been there, OP. I'm an incredibly lightweight and can never judge if something is going to put me over my limit. Even just a vodka and orange can make me drunk :/

>>157331

No worries! DnD is like riding a bike. You never really forget but that said, I like Pathfinder more because it took 3.5 and made it better. I'm a bit WoD and CoC player, really. I like character driven RP more than fighty dungeons crawlers but occasionally I like to roll up tanky battle characters for a laugh.

No. 157334

Update: I'm doing good ever since. It got resolved with talking like adults.

No. 157335

>>157334
Glad things are going better for you, OP.

No. 157336

I got kicked out of my DnD group for being a cigarette smoker. Straight edge kids ruin everything

No. 157337

If you really like RP and are looking for a new place to do so I suggest TheSWRP.

I guess it only works of you like star wars but as far as I've seen it's a very friendly place

No. 157338

>>157336
Maybe it's because you smell terrible

No. 157339

>>157336

I got kicked out of my D&D group for
making a goat as my character and eating everything.

No. 157340

>>157339
You totally deserve it for being That Guy, but was it at least fun while it lasted? Sounds boring as fuck tbqh.

No. 157341

>>157336
Good. Cigarette smokers smell like stale musty mold and shit.

No. 157342

>>157338
>>157341
I don't get it, I don't smoke and neither do my parents but I never noticed any gross smell around smokers. They smell like cigarettes when they just smoked obviously but after that they smell just fine… I think the smell of pot is way worse but I never see anyone criticizing that much

No. 157343

>>157342
My entire family smokes. And they all smell like smoke and the house smells like it's on fire. They smoke in the car with the windows closed when it's so cold out you can't open them. They say they're used to it.

No. 157344

>>157342
Smoke smell usually clings to a person's hair and clothes. I have passed strangers on the street who reek of it so much that I nearly gag. You must not know many heavy smokers or only hang out with light smokers who only smoke outside. I can't imagine not being able to smell stale smoke–have you not been able to smell it on your clothes when you go to wash them after being at a bar?

Pot smells, too, but most people don't walk around reeking of it where I live since it's illegal here. An average person is far more likely to bump into a smelly cigarette smoker than a smelly pot smoker which is probably why you've heard more people complain about the former than the latter.

No. 157345

I myself am a smoker, as well as my boyfriend. The only people that complain about a smell is my parents because almost no one in my family smokes. Every time I have a cigarette I try to wash my hands, wash out my mouth, and spray some kind of air freshener/perfume on me. I honestly can't stand the smell lingering for awhile. My apartment windows are kept open all the time and we normally febreeze and light candles/incense. I would imagine that someone who isn't used to the smell of cigarettes would smell it in my apartment but to most people they don't complain. Also don't smoke its terrible.

No. 157346

>>157342
people who are heavy smokers smell, end of. If you smoke in your house or car, it's also going to smell. Pot smokers also smell, but the smoke doesn't seem to linger nearly as long as cig smoke, probably because cigs have a fuck ton more chemicals. If you wanna smoke so bad vape instead so at least you don't smell like shit and make everyone miserable. You can get your nic fix that way.


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