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No. 1450684

Discuss anything pertaining to ADHD/ADD, such as advice for managing symptoms, the difficulty of diagnosis as a woman, the differences in the ways men and women with ADHD are treated, etc.

Some starter topics since this is the first thread:
>How do you feel about ADHD memes and other "relatable" content (such as threadpic)? Harmless fun? Makes your symptoms worse?
>Do you take medication? Does it work for you? Or have you tried any therapies/diet changes/other non-medication treatments that have helped you?
>Which of your personal "self-hacks" are you the most proud of?

No. 1450698

there's already a thread

No. 1450703

>>1450698
there's maybe 10 posts about ADHD in the past 3 threads, most of which got no replies, and it doesn't show any sign of changing. it's an autism thread.

No. 1450711

I switched from concerta to vyvanse three weeks ago. It helps me focus on work but I feel extremely needy and depressed all the time

No. 1451416

>>1450711
Why did you switch?

No. 1451754

>>1450684
I'm so glad this thread is separate now, it was a huge pain to sift through all the autism replies that had zero relevance

No. 1452821

if my meds are working but making me more anxious/depressed, should i just deal with it or would going on a different medication help? i like the positive effects it's having so going without again is not really an option

No. 1452836

>>1450711
I really like how vyvanse lasts around 12 hours, where I remember concerta lasting less long. I don't remember concerta making me dehydrated like vyvanse does though

No. 1452861

>>1452821
Can you try a lower dose? Maybe you can find a compromise between perfect efficacy and lower side effects. Switching also can help, but a lot of the popular drugs have the same side effects so it's hard to predict which one would be better without trying it.

No. 1452922

>>1452821
I think it's good to switch and try a different one, since ADHD meds don't have the wind-up time of things like anti-depressants.
I've tried most of the main stimulant meds before finding a situation that worked for me, and there can be a huge difference between instant release, extended release, and brand depending on the person.
Vyvanse gave me severe dissociation and psychosis, while Ritalin made me too anxious to function long term. I've only recently found a solution with a therapeutic effect that doesn't make me, an otherwise mentally stable person, lose my mind.

No. 1453020

>How do you feel about ADHD memes and other "relatable" content (such as threadpic)? Harmless fun? Makes your symptoms worse?

I hate them, they feel like mockery of what is to have ADHD, sometimes it feel the people who made them don't even suffer from it and just want to be especial somehow.

>Do you take medication? Does it work for you? Or have you tried any therapies/diet changes/other non-medication treatments that have helped you?


I don't take medication, when i was diagnosed my parents hated the idea (because of the addiction the medication at the time had) so i when to therapy it help me but sometimes i still feel lost, confused and tasks are too much for my dumb brain.

>Which of your personal "self-hacks" are you the most proud of?


well i don't know if i got any, but when i cash my self speaking out look at fixed position to get all my attention on what people are telling me, this happen mostly on voice calls with friends.


I feel since i was diagnosed my family, they expect nothing from me, sure i was diagnosed when i was maybe 5 years old, since i was 16 i notice they didn't expect nothing good to come of me,no good job, not a good husband (i'm a lesbian), they even looked disappointed when i went into arts for my career,even my teachers will use my diagnosis as a way to call me lazy or say i my work isn't as good, or they will give a grade for pity, guess been a women had a part on all of it but i'm not really sure.

No. 1453122

This might be a good thread to ask;

Does anyone have a recommendation for a speaking clock app on iphone?

I'm not diagnosed with anything though I'll look into it for 2023. But my time management is atrocious and I've found that an app that says each minute out loud really helps. Sometimes it feels like 15 seconds have passed, others it's so long between a minute I start to question if it stopped working. It's really helped me with not being late but since I switched to iphone I'm running for the train almost every morning again.

And does anyone have any recommendations for time management apps like that? It's so easy to get lost in the productivity scene that I end up downloading 10 cool looking apps and not using anything.

No. 1453143

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>>1453122
>speaking clock app
That sounds very helpful. Will try!
So far I've only tried those alarm apps that offer different methods to wake you up like doing math, or shaking the phone. I think the one I used was called alarmy.

I will piggyback on your post saying that I really need something of an odd request. I'm someone who always needs to have company to work properly and since I work at home atm I need like, someone or something that talks a lot and is pleasant to listen to. So far I've tried:
>vloggers and mukbangs
Not many of them are so pleasant to listen to, they always requiere you to pay attention to the video because they're showing something to you, plus their videos are short
>streamers/speedrunners
Even less pleasant than vloggers, they have the personality of a wet sock and most of them are ethots or ugly scrotes
>Brown / Pink / White noise videos or asmr
Too distracting and not relaxing at all
>Listening to random music
Takes away my concentration 100% of my time
>Listening to my music
I need to be in the mood to listen to shit
>Going to a physical cafe
Agoraphobia is real, I like being warm and comfy at home, I get unsettled around strangers, and I use a desktop so it's just not possible lol.
>Audio books and TV
I feel bad for not paying enough attention to audio books and with TV, I only have the option of one channel that does not distract me, but it gets very repetitive after a while.

What am I supposed to do?

No. 1453175

>>1453143
>What am I supposed to do?
Lectures about random topics, like this channel, https://www.youtube.com/@GreshamCollege/videos

>>Brown / Pink / White noise videos or asmr

Speaking asmr or environmental asmr? This site has hundreds of different environments that can play in the background while working.

>with TV, I only have the option of one channel that does not distract me, but it gets very repetitive after a while.

Can you pirate some other tv shows and play them on your phone or another pc.

I don't see podcasts on your lists, have you tried them.

No. 1453178

>>1453143
What about makeup artist videos? They can talk for ages about a eyeshadow palette or something.

For me the perfect background video are the POV walking tours in different places. I really like Rambalac's channel because he walks through busy streets and you get the feeling of being there, exploring and I guess of life around you just watching a video. There are also narrated tours but those are a little distracting for me.

No. 1453185

>want to be productive
>think about being productive instead
everything fucking time.

No. 1453202

>>1453178
>For me the perfect background video are the POV walking tours in different places. I really like Rambalac's channel
Hey! I used to watch him too. I think my main problem was that I always ended up wanting to watch where he walked, so I ended up distracted lol

>>1453175
>>1453178
I will try your solutions nonnies, thank you very much!

No. 1458103

This adderall shortage needs to be over immediately I hate it I hate it I hate it

No. 1458111

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this is how I've been managing my adhd all these years and let me tell you, it doesn't work

No. 1459071

>>1458103
cant you switch to something else for the time being?

No. 1461661

Anyone knows non-medicated ways to deal with hyperfocus/perseverance? My brain can stop task-switching for 20+ hours, I used to use it as a way to work/study but it's actually ruining my life.

No. 1461665

>>1458111
Same and I'm about to fucking implode but id rather die than talk to any sort of medical professional about my personal life

No. 1461693

>>1461661
Involve new hyper fixations and set alarms. New cup provides good sensory input and makes it easer to drink water for me. Etc. Set alarms for scheduling as reminders and force yourself to stop and get up. That’s all I can think of right now sorry.

No. 1461701

guys I have to clean my entire apartment before tomorrow because my family will show up and I have to pretend like I'm living my best life ahhhhhhhh

No. 1461709

>>1461701
>not making them clean your apartment
Weak.

No. 1468326

>>1461661
Using it to your advantage probably made it stronger tbh (not judging - happened to me too). If you're really stubborn and tend to just turn alarms off when you don't want to change tasks, try making a compromise with yourself. So when the alarm goes off, your goal is only to start the next task and promise yourself that if you still feel like going back to the first task after a few minutes, you will. Don't set an alarm for that though, if you stay focused on the original task go back to it, but if you forget about it then you succeeded!
If you're at the point where you habitually ignore your most basic needs until you're sick or in pain then you might still have trouble with the just-start-see-if-it-sticks strategy and keep turning off alarms because you (consciously or subconsciously) don't want it to work. In that case, you should also try scheduling a <5 minute break every few hours and be extremely strict with yourself about taking it. The "trick" is making the scheduled break as short as you need to (even 20 seconds) so that you will actually stop what you're doing and physically turn your head and look somewhere else for that amount of time. You also don't have to time it, you could just stare at the wall and count to 20, but you probably shouldn't schedule it as time to do another task, at least at first. Like, if you set an alarm for 3 hours from now telling yourself that's when you'll go get something to drink, there's a good chance that when the alarm goes off you'll think "I'll do it in just a minute, I'm not that thirsty" and then another 3 hours goes by. If you don't plan anything, hopefully when the alarm goes off you'll think "I promised I'd stop for 30 seconds after 3 hours… I'm kinda thirsty, the 30 seconds will go by faster if I get a drink instead of just sitting here."
A place I used to work at had this incredibly irritating software that would freeze my screen for like 2 minutes every few hours and demand that I do some random stretches. I usually didn't do the stretches, mostly I just went to get a drink or to the bathroom or something. At first it totally messed up my workflow and it was hard to continue exactly from where I left off and I HATED IT but after a while (months) it started to feel refreshing, and I noticed that I didn't waste nearly as much time iterating on random insignificant details of my work. (Not to mention I was taking much better care of myself.) Eventually, I could easily choose what to do after the break based on my priorities instead of being stuck on one thing no matter how much I need to divide my effort.
Sorry for the blog but you should know you'll probably feel like everything is getting worse for some amount of time while you're breaking the habit, but if you keep trying you WILL get better at it.

Summary:
If you're really stubborn and tend to ignore alarms, try this compromise:
>When the alarm goes off, you'll just start the next task.
>If you still feel like going back to the first task after a few minutes, that's okay.
>If not, you win!
If you try that and you're still ignoring alarms, try this too:
>Schedule a very short break every few hours and do your absolute best to actually stop and (at least) turn your head away and look at something other than what you were doing.
>Do not plan to use that break for anything because you'll be tempted to procrastinate.
>Instead, plan to use that break to stare at the wall. Hopefully that will make you think of getting water/going bathroom/stretching as an alternative to staring at the wall instead of as an interruption, since the interruption already happened when you turned to look at the wall.
>At first it might feel like the breaks are making everything worse and you'll definitely want to stop, but stick with it and you WILL improve.

No. 1478329

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My preparation for my exams the last couple of weeks has just been going to the library every day and then end up refreshing lolcow, 4chan and tumblr for several hours instead of doing any studying. I can't concentrate and my meds aren't fucking working: Ideally I would just turn my computer off but since everything is digitalized in this day and age I need it to study. My exams is very soon and I feel so underprepared I'm going to fail

No. 1478334

>>1478329
same anon but I hate how useless and unproductive I am because of this disorder. I often see people mock adhd fakers on tiktok for not being able to do anything but that is literally me. I'm so sick of it everything in my brain cloudy 24/7 and I have tried different brands of meds but none work

No. 1478342

>>1478334
adhd fakers piss me off. like why? they don't want this. i struggle to empty my dishwasher ffs. it's not quirky and cute. i am a mess. i get no help or social services. and yet i'm blamed for being deficient or lazy and i am just expected to take pills and be fixed.

No. 1478361

>>1478329
Ive heard grey-scaling your screen can help, it makes everything less stimulating so in theory you could concentrate more on what you need to do. (though i will say its hard bc it still relies on you disciplining yourself to not turn off the setting again). perhaps try that with 45 minutes work then 15 minutes play?

No. 1478391

>>1478329
Have you tried using a library computer instead of your laptop? Using a different device that's missing your normal settings and browser history can help with avoiding the usual distractions.
You could also try a different location than the library, like a cafe or something. I feel like my study locations get poisoned if I spend a lot of time "playing" in them but that might just be me.

No. 1478409

Does anyone have any tips or suggestions for mental overwhelm? Sometimes there are so many things I need to do (dishes, laundry all that fucking annoying shit) and things I want to do (work out, go for a walk, programming, make candles) that I end up totally paralyzed because Im overwhelmed by it all and I can't get around to do anything. I even feel too overwhelmed to sit down and write all the tasks down. I do take adderall which helps, but I don't take it regularly as my PC advised against relying on medication but the behavioral changes feel..impossible when my brain is racing.

No. 1478529

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Someone I used to be friends with has ADHD and it was all she ever talked about. Literally everything was just about how she has ADHD. I have it to, but she claimed I didn't because I actually did things to help myself and the way my ADHD presented wasn't in line with hers. Most of what she posted was just relatable meme garbage. The thing that set me off is when she posted picrel. Like no, you're just a narcissistic/egocentric (she actually couldn't talk about anything unless it related to herself), fuck off.

No. 1478876

>>1478409
I've learned that when it comes to task I have to do but don't really want to (dishes) I have to make myself do it the moment I think of it. So if I see the dirty dishes in the sink and think 'Hmm I should do those dishes' I have to do them that second or I won't do them at all. If I let it fester it just gets worse and takes longer for me to get motivated to do it. Whereas if I do it immediately it gets mostly done. I also tell myself to complete 75% of my task, even if I don't finish it completely I at least got most of it done. It works for me but I think that's because I have add paired with avoidant personality so putting off things leads to a cycle of having anxiety about doing something then not wanting to do it because of the anxiety, on and on

No. 1483347

>>1478409
Your doctor sounds retarded tbh. It's like you only have one leg and you're hopping everywhere so you don't have to rely on using a crutch to get around. Like, I get not taking it every single day for all kinds of reasons but what's the benefit to not taking medication on days when you clearly need it? The satisfaction of being frustrated with yourself and feeling like shit?

No. 1539383

those of you who were diagnosed in childhood, did adults make planners and organize your homework and stuff like that for you? the farthest anyone went for me was to buy most of the organizational supplies i asked for, but i saw other kids (mostly boys) having teachers write down all their assignments in their planners for them and stuff like that. i was envious of it in school but looking back i think those kids were actually robbed of the opportunity to experiment and learn from their own mistakes at a time when the consequences weren't a big deal. thoughts?
bumping this thread mainly just to remind other adhd anons it's here b/c i don't want to read any more about school shooters, i hope that's ok

No. 1541957

I hope real ADHDers won't be pissed at me but I was a faker for a few months, the doc I was seeing just told me he misdiagnosed me with ADHD (he gave me meds after half an hour kek) and that I am mentally healthy. I knew ADHD wasn't a good fit but I just wanted to make sure by trying out the meds to improve my performance at work, which didn't work. I still wish the pills had worked because I am a certified lazy arse with no possible solution but pure willpower now. Also what should I do with a month-long stock of methylphenidate now? Snort it?

No. 1541959

>>1478529
tbh I don't see the problem with bringing up a similar story to connect with people but why is she trying to make it about adhd?

No. 1541999

>>1541959
Yeah, that's a normal part of conversation.
I see it in all threads about disorders here and on the rest of the Internet, some presumably young person will make their disorder their entire personality, and then they will tend to attribute every tiny thing they do to it, not being aware literally everyone does it.

No. 1542001

>>1541959
Neurotypicals tend to find it rude and self-centered and can’t understand how it wouldn’t be anything but narcissism. Literally bonkers I don’t even try to have NT friends cause I can’t make myself understand how their brains work, but I possibly have autism as well so idk.

I’m frustrated that I was never helped when I was a kid, only boys were ever diagnosed adhd in my area/time period. The only reason I didn’t struggle in school is because I’m weirdly good at schoolwork and always have been. I can barely listen to a lesson and still do well on tests and assignments. But I was constantly getting in trouble for not staying in my seat, for not raising my hand before blurting stuff out, and was constantly forgetting my homework and books at home. But this was all just seen as me being a bad annoying kid whereas boys bad/annoying behavior was coddled and shit. Just because I wasn’t a major disruption and wasn’t a moid I was told I was just bad and annoying.

I didn’t get diagnosed until my life fell apart in my early 20s. Every clinician since has been shocked that I wasn’t diagnosed until adulthood, I have combined type ADHD and it’s fucking debilitating. Makes doing anything except doing nothing so fucking hard.

No. 1542002

>>1541999
You’ve clearly never tried to befriend NTs cause they will literally get mad at you for doing that. They’re probably complaining about you behind your back

No. 1542004

>>1542002
I am literally a normie. I don't have any disorders.
I'm telling you this is a totally normal practice.

No. 1542023

>>1541959
I've had a relative pass away and my autistic relative kept telling me stories about faith and stuff in a way to "help me". When someone talking to you, making it about you and your retarded stories is selfish and neurotypical people can tell when telling a story is inappropriate while autists won't really care. That's why autists will continue talking even though the person they're talking to isn't listening, autists can't understand that the point of the conversation is to share information, not to randomly dump the information.

No. 1542025

>>1542023
We actually have a different linguistic pattern. We share and process information differently, but glad you made broad assumptions Dr. Google.

No. 1542028

>>1542025
Having a defective brain wiring that means you fail to communicate with %99.9 people doesn't mean you have "different linguistic patterns". How do you guys work or do normal jobs if you can't hold a conversation and share information in a healthy way? Do you even have a job?

No. 1542042

>>1542023
Yeah see you sound like a bitch, and your relative sounds great. I want people to talk to me a ton when I’m upset and I want to hear their experiences with similar situations. I want them to be detailed and specific with what they’re saying. I literally can’t handle normies, you guys are so fucking weird to me, your thought processes just seem so dull and retarded in addition to narcissistic but then you just project your narcissism onto ND behavior patterns and say no ACKTUALLY it’s like you guys live in upside down world. Like why wouldn’t you wanna hear how someone else’s situation related to yours and how they coped with it and what they thought about it? What the fuck do you want to hear? Dumb superficial nothings?? Just a couple succinct phrases to perfectly capture the moment and validate you while not bringing up anything that isn’t related to purely you you you? do neurotypicals not realize we would also like to hear you share information and experiences the same way we share them, is that why you think we are being selfish or whatever tf? It’s not one sided, you’re just choosing to make it one sided by being retarded.

I can’t make myself think neurotypical interaction is the ideal or the normal interactional style, and if that’s what normal is then that’s pretty fucking lame and I’ll just stay a weird ass autist-adjacent adhd freak. I’m glad I don’t have any neurotypical friends cause I can’t stand this line of thinking.

No. 1542043

>>1542028
Anon there was literally a study that proved there is a clear linguistic pattern across languages with autistic people, but go off like a jackass if that suits your fancy. Kek

No. 1542044

>>1542042
>Like why wouldn’t you wanna hear how someone else’s situation related to yours and how they coped with it and what they thought about it?
Normie here, we do want that, and we do that too, like I said above

No. 1542045

>>1542044
I don’t think you or your friends are as normie as you think, anon.

No. 1542046

>>1542002
i've got anxiety, depression and bpd and i have complained about someone behind their back for constantly being like "oh that reminds me of x" when i'm trying to process trauma by venting to them.
don't worry, it's not just NTs who hate it.

No. 1542049

>>1542045
Thank you for your insight, stranger on the Internet, I'm sure you know me better than I know myself

No. 1542050

>>1542042
>youre a bitch for not wanting a disabled person to keep talking about unrelated stuff while you're grieving
Kek. You guys really do lack sympathy, of course no one talks to you while you're sad.

No. 1542051

>>1542046
So you technically only fit the expanded version of “neurodivergent” as it was originally only intended to apply to autistic/adhd people since they are considered to have developmental disorders, not every single mental illness.

No. 1542055

>>1542043
Anon naming it a pattern doesn't change its a disability to connect with non autists, who are %99 of the population.
>>1542051
NTA but imagine gatekeeping mental illnesses, wtf.

No. 1542058

>>1542050
All my friends/family that I still talk to are autistic/adhd thankfully I have plenty of people to sympathize/empathize with me when I’m sad. I don’t like how neurotypicals are just like wow yeah that sounds so hard I’m so proud of you you you. It’s so superficial and it’s just like bitch please can you share how you would feel about this I already know how I feel about this it feels like I’m literally getting stock NPC responses when I try to talk to NTs about anything. It’s like you don’t even listen to what I’m saying to you anyway, just like you clearly didnt read or at least didn’t comprehend the post of mine you responded to

No. 1542061

>>1542058
>admitting your whole family has mental illnesses that stunt social development
Oh. So that's why you're like this and can't function with normal people, kek. How do you communicate with normies when you work or study? You do have a job, right? If you're one of those unemployed people who live off disabled money it'd be ironic for you to look down on others.

No. 1542070

>>1542049
Do you think the other anons who claim to be NT in this thread are just trolling?

No. 1542076

>>1542046
You literally are NT.

No. 1542077

>>1542070
They clearly have a pd. I wouldn’t take them seriously anon. The need to have everything center them and never talk about your exps is very narcissistic and shallow.

No. 1542078

>>1542070
The anon above trying to get a rise out of other posters? Well obviously

No. 1542079

>>1542072
>I-I didn't choose m-my disability
Ok? %99 of decent people won't care if you're disabled or not if you're shitty enough to not respect when they're grieving or going through something.
I'm guessing you're the same anon and you're dodging the job question, you're an unemployed disabled loser. No one cares about you aside from your disabled family members. You'd have a job and actual normal friends if you went outside and didn't spend your time hating on normal people online.(Infighting)

No. 1542086

>>1542042
The "normal" interaction style is being able to accurately judge in real-time how the person you are conversing with is feeling about the conversation and to react appropriately. It's not using the same style of communication in every situation ever for your entire life no matter what is going on or who you are talking to. That's what makes you retarded.

No. 1542104

>>1542079
You’re not even talking to the same person, different anons have tried to talk to you. I have a job, and half my friends are normies. I even have a NT partner if that wets your whistle weirdo. Your projection is showing. Go split black somewhere else or better yet call your therapist and stop trying to grand stand over a disabled community on a basket weaving forum.(infighting)

No. 1542106

The term neurodivergent was a huge mistake and truly I believe the existence of the term itself is creating new fakers. Literally every living thing with neural tissue is neurodivergent in some way. It's a stupid term only retards use seriously.

No. 1542200

>>1542106
if i understand correctly it was originally coined by an autistic woman to mean "autistic" but somehow it got changed to mean "people who have a mental illness or disability or disorder" which gets confusing because that category is so board. Even as another term for autistic it's useless because we already have the term "autism spectrum"

No. 1542202

>>1542106
It sounds cool and different so most people choose to use it instead of disabled or mentally ill. Though calling it a different name doesn't change anything.

No. 1542217

>>1542106
I used to only really see people with lifelong developmental disorders using the label but now its been watered down to include every type of mental health problem no matter how mild it is, how commonplace it is or whether its a type of disorder thats not necessarily permanent. Its been turned into this meaningless umbrella term where most people can self apply it. Bit like how people hopped on the term queer as a catch all for people who want to be included in something that isn't really their day to day experience.

No. 1542473

Has anyone been told by others their entire life that they “don’t care” or “aren’t trying”? I also was told/asked growing up if I had “ADD” (which is commonly associated with girls as opposed to ADHD which is associated with boys). But I hate the fucking first one way more because it just feels so insulting and degrading to all the effort I put in to say that I “don’t try” when i fucking do. Especially because I have to try so much harder, taking usually double the amount of time as other people to do the same assignments/tasks.

No. 1542509

>>1542473
Yeah, people think I'm just retarded at first when I make sloppy mistakes despite how hard I'm trying. And then when they realize that I'm actually pretty sharp, they decide that my mistakes are because I'm lazy. I can't win.

No. 1542738

>>1542106
when people say "neurospicy" i genuinely want to rip my eyes out of my head. also the fact that neurodivergent now means anyone with slight anxiety when it was coined for people who specifically have neurodevelopmental disorders. i hate pop psychology with all my heart and soul

No. 1542764

>>1542509
It's the worst when they say you're not only lazy but you must not "want" to do things right. "You can't do this new technique correctly? Well, you must not really want to do it then." Okay well you must not want to be rich because if you really wanted it, you would have a mansion. That's how humans work apparently.

No. 1545933

>>1542738
neurodivergent is exclusively a pop psych term, it means nothign whatsoever medically-speaking.

No. 1546530

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does anyone have any good tips to how to clean your apartment for someone who is unmedicated? I'm overwhelmed and have no idea how to start my meds are not working and the process for changing brand is complicated but that's besides the point

No. 1546534

>>1546530
invite someone over who you would be humiliated to see you living in filth. it will create a sense of urgency/give enough adrenaline to complete the task

No. 1546996

>>1546530
Start small and do one task in one room. Pick up any clothes off the floor of you bedroom, that sort of thing. Once you've done that, see if you can move onto another similarly small task in the same room. Don't force yourself to finish a room before you move onto the next one. Opening the curtains and windows in every room will help a lot too.

No. 1547086

>>1546530
no really what >>1546534 said works, but if not that I like to put on high energy music to motivate myself.
Or I mentally prepare myself, my routine is preparing a treat drink (coffee with syrup) and moving to a different room/spot to get into a different mood, it helps.

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>>1546530
my methods
>have a podcast/video playing in the background, a documentary that doesn't have you needing to look at your phone to watch it.
I personally like true crime stuff
>if you have a friend okay with this, ask to call them and just chat.
I find myself motivated to clean a lot more when I'm on the phone with someone. I can't use my phone as a distraction and I end up walking around tidying stuff up.
>have a tasty drink to sip throughout the cleaning process like a treat for cleaning
I have (1) bottle of dr.peepee a week that I drink only when I'm cleaning.

unrelated but I find r/adhd so uncomfortable to browse. When I first got diagnosed I was asking a lot of questions about medication there and it seems like most users there are hyper dependent on the medication. Like obviously it makes a huge difference, but I've wondered if I'll take them forever. One redditor gave me amazing advice and said to use the pills as training wheels basically until you've "trained" yourself to just do what you need to do so you eventually become less dependent on them. S/he got downvoted to hell and I don't even know why. It's good advice. I've cut down to not needing to use it during the weekend because I manage to get what chores I need to do, done. Whereas before I would be completely useless.
They make it seem like their lives are super hard and fucking useless and they're on the brink of suicide or something which I get, I was very depressed and the medicine stabilized my mood a lot. Like literally no downsides I love it, but it seems like redditors refuse to take any personal responsibility at all. picrel seems so fucking dramatic. Do they think "normal" people don't struggle either?? It's always moids that devolve into self pitying, woe is me I can't do anything I'm DISABLED whereas female ADHD queens stay grinding and trying to improve themselves. Even if they don't do anything, they're nowhere near as pathetic as their male counterparts.

No. 1548323

Serious question: how do I deal with liking too many things or wanting to take up too many hobbies?

I am trying to tell myself how that quantity doesn't necessarily make me a more interesting person and how I should go step by step, but I get easily distracted when I see somebody else's passion for something and think "this seems so much fun!"

No. 1548337

>>1548323
I don't think it's a problem to like "too many things". Maybe you could set up a hobby schedule for the hobbies that bring you the most joy and start checking out library books or do wikipedia deep dives on topics you are interested in? You could schedule 45m-1hr of hobby time and then set a timer for 30 minutes of book/wikipedia time. Then, if you get tired of your hobby you could switch to a different one during hobby time. Never feel bad for being interested in "too many" things. Knowledge opens up so many opportunities to expand your mind and gives you so many topics to talk about with people.

No. 1548527

Is getting diagnosed as an adult worth it? I was told by someone in my life that there’s a lot of hoops to jump through to get a diagnosis as an adult. I currently have health insurance through my state and I’m trying to figure out if they’ll cover the cost, otherwise idk if I can even afford it

I’m also worried about medication because of what I’ve heard about dependency issues. Could I take it just when I need it or would I need to take it regularly to see an actual effect? Would it just be better for me to abandon this whole idea and try to find behavioral coping mechanisms?

No. 1548541

>>1548527
Getting diagnosed as an adult is very worth it and fairly easy. At least it was for me, but every psych I’ve ever seen has pegged me as ADHD almost immediately kek. I’m fidgety and have a really strange speech cadence, so even just me talking about something normal and not my symptoms, it’s obvious.

As for meds, yes most adhd meds are extremely addictive and also fuck your looks up. Amphetamines are so hard on your system, make you extra sensitive to sunlight, dry you out, make you seem like a crackhead. I hated traditional stimulants.

Currently I take modafanil. It is not a traditional stimulant, doesn’t have dependency issues at all (it’s impossible to become addicted to and it doesn’t trigger euphoric feelings like amphetamine). I would never recommend my adhd friends/family take any adhd med beside modafanil because the side effects and health risks of amphetamines are insane. And anyone who cares about how they look DEF shouldn’t take amphetamines. They age you intensely. Only hurdle I see is that modafanil isn’t approved for adhd treatment so some docs might be weirded out, also it’s a fairly uncommon medication that a lot of docs are unfamiliar with. Educate yourself about modafanil before going to the doctor and ask for it.

No. 1548544

>>1547112
I feel super embarrassed for relating so much to the moid’s sentiment in the pic you posted, kek. But I also have other mental bullshit to deal with in addition to being physically disabled due to CFS and hEDS. I hate that I sound like a fucking munchie and I hate munchies. Speaking of munchies idk how they expect anyone who is actually chronically ill to relate to them, I don’t have the fucking energy to make my struggles a brand ffs. Honestly any chronically ill spoon or influencer is automatically a munchie to me, cause as someone who actually has a shit load of bullshit problems, all I can handle is occasionally posting on anon imageboards. Even thinking about curating a brand using myself is utterly exhausting, fuck munchies.

No. 1548679

>>1548544
Don't worry nonnie. You literally have two disabling syndromes too. Be nicer to yourself, your situation is in no way comparable to his. He doesn't have shit beyond whining about his mean gf and struggling to apply for jobs.

No. 1554983

what is your max dosage based on in other countries?
in germany it's calculated by weight, in addition to some higher cutoff. Like i'm sure i need a higher dosage, but i can't just gain 20kg to be able to get it prescribed.
my doctor tried putting me on different meds, i'm on ritalin right now for example, but it just feels like a lower dosage of the stuff i was on before.

i read that in switzerland they fuck the weight requirement because it doesn't really make a difference and i'm so jealous.
sure, i notice being able to concentrate better a little bit, and it's helped with my executive dysfunction, but not nearly as much as I would've expected and i'd just like to try if a higher dose would change that.

really the way people spoke about the meds online I had way higher hopes

No. 1554994

>>1547112
wow nonna congrats on being normal? lmao I dont know what to tell you if you use your meds only when you feel lazy, maybe you dont have ADHD and just are lazy? some of us dont even have energy to do a list of the things we need to improve on.

No. 1555652

>>1554994
nta, lots of women with adhd have their shit together, don't act like that's impossible just because you're not one of them. also having your shit together is really cool because you don't need as much help from drugs to keep your shit together as you do when your life is a wreck, and taking stimulants less often is objectively good for your health.

No. 1556152

Any nonas quit taking high doses of Vyvanse before? When does the dull suffering associated with this chemical dependency end? I ask as I went from 50mg for almost two years, to zero two months ago. I am unsurprisingly too impatient to just taper and not ruin my own life temporarily again. Very disappointed in my choices but don’t really want to take them again if I know I could just learn to be strong minded and functional without medication.

No. 1556284

>>1556152
I quit taking 50mg Vyvanse after being on it for 5+ years recently. I didn't taper either, I quit cold turkey. I immediately felt way better, way less anxious. My focus took a couple of weeks to recover. I find that I'm way less scatterbrained now. On Vyvanse, I had a hard time staying on one task at a time.

No. 1556724

Thinking that my ADHD might be a trauma response from being severely neglected as a child. Is sad but also gives me hope for complete recovery. I don’t know if that’s naive but I just cannot accept to live with this fucked up brain my whole life. Congrats to any nona that gets better and find ways to make life normal. It’s so terrible, my whole life is a mess from beginning to now. But I already have some success. I can now be quiet and listen to other people and feel the atmosphere!

No. 1556770

I can't stay on track it's the most annoying thing, I'll start talking about something and it takes a complete turn and I never get to my point. Sage 4 no1curr

No. 1557122

Not sure if this is the right thread, but do any anons here think in some cases ADD/ADHD could present similar to symptoms of sociopathy or borderline or whatever?

I don't mean just symptoms being mistaken as that by outside peers. Moreso, could untreated ADD/ADHD in some cases develop into symptoms that overlap with those things?

I know I have ADD and I at least thought I might have borderline or something like it (worse in my youth than present - I'm in my 30s now, for reference). But it doesn't seem like it properly 'fits' and more and more I've come to realize many of my symptoms may just be routed in my ADD.
(For example, I had very low empathy and would do dangerous and risky things, use people, relationships, drugs, violence, crime, etc… However, when I started treating my ADD with medication - all of those things lessened significantly if not stopped; I even for the first time in my life had some level of what 'empathy' meant 'click' into place, where as before that I didn't really understand the concept as tangible and was skeptical it even existed in others). I also had some things that made me wonder if I was spergy - but as I'm fine with socializing I'm doubtful of that.

I don't think I really fit the bill for sociopathy (I love cats to a fault, for example, and Ive felt a deep attachment to my stuffed animals). But I also think I'm a little too independent to fit the bill for borderline. I did often self harm or redefine myself after break ups and have what could be perceived as a fear of abandonment, yet in retrospect I think that I had used those things more as methods of control in respect to perceived power vs fear. I had no issues with abandonment or break ups if my perception was that I was in control or held 'power', so I feel like it was more a lashing out to try to regain power over that person when it would happen. (Yes, I recognize this was unhealthy and no, I do not do this anymore). I think that behavior manifested from a combination of things, but I also think it may have been in large part of my attempts to fill the boredom void of low dopamine from ADD… I've also considered this could all be some weird cope or mental gymnastics so that I don't have to accept my true fears or weaknesses, or something. I don't think so, but I assume if I was I wouldn't think that by design, after all..

Obviously no one here is in a position to diagnose things, but I guess I'm just curious if anyone else with ADD has had similar or witnessed similar (even if maybe to lesser extremes).

I've been to psychologists, psychiatrists, therapists and doctors in the past, but I feel like they haven't really served me, and their inability to deattach from their personal emotions, morals and biases makes it hard to really be honest. I can't blame them for that, it's just kind of a moot point to me. Plus, I don't think it's really worth the issues/stigma of being labeled with a potentially problematic diagnosis.

No. 1562855

Why does Vyvanse (lisdexamfetamine) have such a massively different effect on me in comparison to Ritalin? I was on Ritalin for years and it sort of made me feel as if I drank a lot of coffee -gave me an energy boost which I used to try to get things done but I wasn't really any better at concentrating, focusing or more productive in the end. On Vyvanse I feel like I took something to relax me rather than a stimulant, my mind feels very clear and I feel a lot more relaxed. I don't have any extra energy whatsoever but my concentration and focus are a million times better already. I thought these two drugs would have sort of a similar effect on the same person, but it seems like my reaction to Ritalin is more like someone who doesn't have ADHD taking a stimulant while my reaction to Vyvanse seems stereotypical for someone with ADHD. Has anyone else experienced or heard of anything like this?

No. 1564603

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fuck my life. I have to write this really important assignment which counts as my exam. I have spend days reading in different books and taking notes and was planning on organazing the notes in a more coherent text. Turns out that I forgot to source which books I used in my notes. I sourced the page number but not the fucking author or book title. I'm going apeshit now I have to start over again

No. 1564667

Did anyone of you manage to stop being a messy bitch? Any tips would be appreciated. I think I will try Marie Kondo style

No. 1564695

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>>1564667
I'm still messy but the marie kondo method did help me a bit. I used to be obsessed with maximalism and had a bunch of trinkets laying around but I realized how overwhelming it was and how it demotivated me to clean up because even when my room was clean there was still a bunch of decorative items laying around. I also quickly ran out of display space so it ended up on my desk which made it hard to do important work there. So downsizing my stuff did make me feel less overwhelmed and made cleaning a much easier and faster process. I like Marie Kondo style because I still get to have nice stuff. It's a good middle ground between boring minimalism and overwhelming maximalism
>inb4 someone calls picrel room cute
trust me you don't want your room to look like this

No. 1564717

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>>1564667
One thing i find to be helpful is to avoid having too many decorative items and confine them in one area. Another thing is to no allow any storage space to be overfilled with stuff, be it a wardrobe, a drawer, anywhere. Also, do not concern yourself too much with the presentation of drawers, as long as everything is visible it's fine.
>>1564695
I'm with you on that one. I actually like lolita and always despised the trend of lolita where you display all your items everywhere around your room. I need everything shoved into a closet and my bedroom as empty as possible. I'd unironcally live like picrel if i wasn't forced to have a bedroom with oversized furniture that i can't get rid of because it was expensive and my dad bought it.

No. 1564737

>>1564717
nonnie that's a prison room

No. 1566719

>>1564717
This kind of room is actually pleasing for my brain. I throw away as much stuff as I can handle

No. 1583349

>>1450684
>How do you feel about ADHD memes and other "relatable" content (such as threadpic)? Harmless fun? Makes your symptoms worse?
the empathy is nice, but i think it's made me worse because before i do something i think "oh, i don't think my executive functioning is good enough for this so i'm just not going to try".

>Do you take medication? Does it work for you? Or have you tried any therapies/diet changes/other non-medication treatments that have helped you?

tried adderall and vyvanse, it worked for 3 days, then stopped. no idea why. turns out however i have fucked up hormones so that might have something to do with it. no idea why else those meds would work for a short period of time and then just not especially considering i'd take them with protein and i was given the highest dose my doc was comfortable with giving me.

>Which of your personal "self-hacks" are you the most proud of?

i'm mostly an inattentive ADHDer, and leveraging my inattention to disregard negative thinking has been useful.
>sit on bed
>man… i have so many things to do and none of it's getting done. am i gonna be retarded forever?
>haha clowns

No. 1583427

>>1564695
I'm sort of an in-between with this type of room and the minimalist style. I have things trinkets laying around my tabletops and I hate when they're muddied up with trash around them. Everything is precise for me. Like, most of the mess is food or paper and my trinkets are neither of those things so my brain knows to categorize what's trash and what isn't. I definitely need a clean floor, I hate when there's shit laying around.

No. 1597026

I want paper prescriptions back, the new system is like specially designed to FUCK me. It's been like 6 years since the last time I got paper prescriptions and it never got any better. It used to be just go to the doctor, get 3 pieces of paper, take the paper to the pharmacy, get medicine. If the pharmacy didn't have it, I could just take my paper somewhere else. Easy! Now, I go to the doctor, then I call the doctor every fucking day to remind that stupid asshole to send my prescription to the pharmacy (they forgot twice, so I had to make harassing them part of my routine to avoid medicine gaps), then I finally get the medicine. Oh, but now there's a shortage! So I have to call a bunch of pharmacies to ask if they have a controlled substance on hand and they ALWAYS treat me like a junkie who has been taking daily dumps at their smoking spot behind the shop. My doctor is an actual retard who can't figure out how to future-date prescriptions so I have to call and remind them to write one every single month. This shithead gets paid $180 every 3 months just to send 3 prescriptions to the pharmacy. It's two minutes of typing, plus 5 minutes asking me questions they would already have the answers to. For $180 they can't even do THAT much. I'm asking for the bare fucking minimum here and I can't get it no matter how much I pay.

No. 1597400

>>1564667
Marie Kondo style actually fixed me. I think the most important thing is to not only do all of the junk tossing and reorganizing she recommends, but really take her advice to do it all at once to heart. I don't advocate for med abuse, but I sort of abused my meds while cleaning nonstop for a full 3 days to do it and I'm now going on two years of being organized and clean after finally getting everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) in order all at once.
I'll also note that I became significantly less depressed and significantly more productibe after this. It's incredible how much environment matters, and after experiencing the effect for myself, I doubt I'll relapse unless I experience some kind of serious traumatic event surpassing what I've experienced in the past.

No. 1597423

>How do you feel about ADHD memes and other "relatable" content (such as threadpic)? Harmless fun? Makes your symptoms worse?
I genuinely dislike it as somebody who finally has a good handle on managing their ADHD despite also dealing with PTSD and unpredictable bouts of severe depression. I live with somebody much older and much more online than me who also has ADHD and the detrimental effect of subscribing to this sort of content's message is palpable.
>Do you take medication? Does it work for you? Or have you tried any therapies/diet changes/other non-medication treatments that have helped you?
I do take stimulant medication, but it has an abnormally strong effect on me so I have to take it in moderation. I really hope that I can be off of it one day because unfortunately it is negatively impacting my health.
I've tried a lot of other things (had a friend into holistic medicine and stuff who wanted to test things on me) but honestly the only thing that has really helped is medication as well as discipline and mindset.
>Which of your personal "self-hacks" are you the most proud of?
Wearing earplugs pretty much constantly and also rearranging my environment in a way that makes more sense to work with my ADHD as soon as I think of it, instead of putting it off. Other than that, I have found some "hacks" helpful, but the effect never lasts more than a couple weeks. Constantly trying to find new workarounds for my ADHD feels like a sisyphean task sometimes.

No. 1597434

>>1562855
I've tried Adderall, Ritalin, and Vyvanse, and I experienced something similar. It happens.
Vyvanse was the opposite for me, it gave me an energy boost but also ruined my ability to function normally with the gross amount of hyperfocus it'd inflict on random tasks.
Ritalin and Adderall are actually similar in effect for me, but for some reason they stop having an effect and start giving me severe anxiety around the 6 month mark. I have to switch from one to the other periodically to evade this but this has been the magic ticket to functioning on stimulant meds for me for a few years now.

No. 1597572

Taking Ritalin for the first time and I find that it makes it easier to focus but it gave me no motivation so I'm still procrastinating my tasks. Is this normal? Or does this mean it's not working for me?

No. 1597613

>>1597572
Speed isn’t a motivation drug. It’s best to start doing your task on the come up so you’re locked in by the time it hits. Otherwise you’ll just get stuck procrastinating.

No. 1597656

Does anyone have experience taking stimulants for a long time, like 5+ years? I've been on Adderall IR for almost 3 years now and I was good about not relying on it for a while but the past year due to the shortages my current generics are a lot weaker and I have to take more more consistently to get positive effects. I still take days or even weekends/weeks off if I can but I'm starting a new job soon and worried about dependency issues and long term negative effects. Any personal experiences that can help me think it over?

I don't experience many immediate negative effects aside from anxiety if my dosage is too low so I have to play with it a bit at times.

Also I've always been in about 5-10 mg a day depending on my cycle but on the new generics it's moving to 10-20…that's fairly low I know but I'm pretty skinny so it's not that impressive.

No. 1598326

At first getting diagnosed with ADHD was a relief, it was so amazing being able to complete tasks, pay attention and not be plagued by anxiety due to my ping ponging thoughts. I started watching ADHD content in the hopes of finding ways to manage without relying on adderall. And I do think I regret it. Now i'm so aware of my "weird" behaviors and
fidgeting which i don't know how to stop. Sitting on my hands feels childish and I feel too old to behaving the way I do. I'm always so nervous that others see me as bizarre and off putting which escalates my social anxiety. I want to go back to being an unaware weird bitch

No. 1600269

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is getting a pill box like this weird when I'm in my 20s and only take one type of medicine? my dad said it's kinda weird for young people to use these. Plus I can imagine that their purpose is to help people who takes several types of medicine during the day instead of just one. I just think having my medicine displayed like this might make it easier for me to remember taking it

No. 1600280

>>1600269
yeah it's "weird" for a young person but you don't have to tell anyone about it. many people would be better off using them. I have a pill container like that I use just for vitamins.

No. 1600476

>How do you feel about ADHD memes and other "relatable" content (such as threadpic)? Harmless fun? Makes your symptoms worse?
I dont relate to a lot of the adhd memes and it makes me feel paranoid about being misdiagnosed. i dont have any of the 'positive cute and fun' parts of adhd that the memes love to go on about. im not hyperactive in the slightest, just dissociative

>Do you take medication? Does it work for you? Or have you tried any therapies/diet changes/other non-medication treatments that have helped you?


i take ritalin for work and caffiene. i just use the boost to gain the ability to have social interactions without wanting to die/tripping over my words. ritalin doesnt make me focus, im maybe less forgetful about things and words come out of my mouth hole easier

>Which of your personal "self-hacks" are you the most proud of?


spend the first half of the day doing everything you need to do (only applies to work for me, im useless at home) and then you can slack off the rest of the day. make sure in public you are as pretty/presentable as you can be and people will have low expectations of your actual abilities and you'll get away with being retarded/praised for being able to do basic tasks. (being blonde helps with this also)

No. 1600489

>>1600269
Nothing weird about it if it helps you remember to take your meds. I've used them since i was a kid.

No. 1600523

>take adhd meds
>i just hyperfocus on posting about all sorts of shit online instead
AAAAARGH
Ok getting of my ass and actually getting useful shit done now nonas.

No. 1600525

>>1600269
I use mine for supplements and can recommend. Whatever helps!

No. 1600604

>>1600269
I have one and every week fill it with my prescribed Concerta, anti babby pill and some supplementary vitamins, it helps me to actually keep taking the supplements otherwise I just take the essentials and forget.

No. 1601167

>>1600269
Totally unnecessary for one medication and they’re usually less than ideal in general because they aren’t airtight.

To remember that I’ve taken a medication I simply flip the bottle over so it’s standing on its cap once I take it. I flip them back upright in the evening when I take my nighttime meds. For the one thing I have to take in the middle of the day I use a recurring reminder on my iPhone.

No. 1601951

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How is medication suppose to make you feel? I just started a new brand and I kinda feel like it's working? I can feel a physical effect on me so I know they are doing something but I have no idea if they are affected my brain. Today I got a bunch of work done in a short time which has never happened to me but I'm scared that it's placebo since this is the first time I take medication in years and I want it to work because it's my last hope to get my life in order. I still got bored and restless but I didn't crave into it as much as I usually do. I know that medicin isn't some miracle cure and you still need to teach yourself self-discipline. But I'm still not sure what the medicin does? I could somewhat focus more on the tasks than what I normally can. At least I think so? It's hard to judge. I haven't even taken the medicin for a week yet but some days I felt the same while other days I felt it easier to motivate myself.

Years ago I took another brand of medicin(but I quit it because of side effects). It didn't make me focus, but it did make my head feel less "heavy" which made it easier to organise my thoughts and thought process and it's kinda the same feeling I get with my new meds. People describe ADHD meds like they make you more mellow and completely change your behaviour but in my experience it just clears the brain fog a little and make it easier for you to deal with your thoughts one at the time. I'm still k forgetful and fall into bad habits like watching shitty youtube videos for hours but people without ADHD do that too, so it's more a sign of me having to practice self-discipline .

Also another question, does anyone else feel like they are more sensitive to caffeine when they have taken their medication? Years ago when I first started medication I became hyper when I drank coffee which never happens when I drink it off-medication

No. 1601967

>>1600269
i use one and i only take one med twice a day. helps me remember so far i havent missed it once! i got a cute sanrio one from daiso also.

No. 1602698

>>1600269
nope if you have a bad memory and would forget to take your meds otherwise. I also use one

No. 1612282

I'm absolutely awful with keeping up with deadlines, and I just wanted to ask if any of you know a widget or app or anything that can essentially countdown the time until multiple deadlines. My sense of time is absolutely fucked so 2 weeks will have passed without me noticing it easily.

No. 1612370

Anyone else take Focalin? I feel like a black sheep sometimes in ADHD circles because it feels like everyone takes Vyvance or adderall. I’ve been taking it for close to nine years at this point or around half my life, grades improved dramatically immediately. I don’t regret my choice to take this medication for the rest of my life as it doesn’t really do much to me except make me kinda sweaty lol.

As for sexism from psychologists I believe I was a victim of this. Had I been a boy displaying my symptoms I would have been diagnosed at the age of 5 no doubt. It’s a travesty that just because I was a girl I was allowed to languish with a terrible case of ADHD which definitely contributed to my very early depression diagnosis. I really hope one day I can do something for other little girls like me who can’t get the help they need because some doctor decided she isn’t ill she’s just misbehaving.

No. 1612910

>>1612282
I feel like I've tried every app there is and after 20 years the only thing that's worked is keeping a big calendar on the wall and writing on it every day. Currently it's a dry-erase board that shows 3 weeks (plus a section at the bottom where I can list stuff that's further out). Every 3 or 4 weeks I take a picture of the board and re-number the days. The first thing that goes back on is the deadlines I'm tracking.

No. 1634698

Anyone has any opinions on this youtuber? I'veonly watched a few videos by her, she seems nice, but I can't help but feel a little hesitant with internet people who focus a lot on their mental problems and their labels.

No. 1664692

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Me trying really hard to not impulsively spend money to buy shit for another hobby that I know that I'll realistically do for about 2 weeks max

No. 1664771

>>1612370
I’ve been on it for a few months and it has helped a lot. I have no idea why but Vyvanse and Adderall did not work at all for me. It felt like I was being given a placebo pill or something lol

No. 1666138

Anons, any tips/methods for scheduling time and organizing your lives?

I feel like work sucks the lifeforce out of me, and afterwards I have barely any energy to do anything else and during the weekdays my time is spent with cooking for the next day and then falling into bed while watching pointless Youtube videos. I have projects I plan on doing (picking up drawing again, building websites, exercise, start reading again etc) but I feel like it is impossible to make time for these while also having a social life, planning things to do with my bf and doing housework and cooking. How do you all organize your lives?

No. 1667682

>>1450684
i've had difficulties with impulse control and academic stuff ever since i can remember but i never got diagnosed as anything (they literally refuse to give me any diagnosis) and i'm tired. i'm switching career and studying has been really difficult for me. what do? i need to understand if i have adhd or if it's just a lot of anxiety, if it's both, or if i'm broken and should give up on life.
anyone who got a late diagnosis got any advice?

No. 1667855

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>>1666138
to actually accomplish things I need/want to do I found this method where you sandwich a boring/low dopamine task in between fun things. I also prefer to time myself, like tomato timers which are 20 minutes, because I have a hard time estimating how long it will actually take me to do something. For example if you want to start drawing again you can do a boost activity like playing high energy music, then set a timer for 20 minutes, then commit to draw until the timer ends. usually at that point I can keep going or just keep resetting the timer until I'm done.

No. 1670771

Why does eating while on stimulant meds feel so gross? Even if the food tastes good, the physical sensations of chewing and swallowing feel revolting or exhausting. I don't really have that problem otherwise, so it's definitely the medication.

No. 1671587

ADHD nonas, what is first age you got drunk at? My friend claims people with ADHD tend to seek out stimulants (in particular alcohol becasue it's usually the easiest to get) especially if they were undiagnosed until adulthood at earlier ages and I wanna see if it matches up. He's a moid and was probably mostly thinking of other moids, but still would be interesting to know

No. 1671598

>>1671587
15 one single time then didn't drink again till I was 19+ been smoking weed solidly since 17 though so I can't preach

No. 1671611

>>1671587
alcohol is not a stimulant and tbh a pretty mediocre drug to me. I still drink socially here and there but if I had to choose a drug to do it would be weed instead of alcohol. even caffeine is more interesting to me.

No. 1671622

>>1671587
I was teetotal until maybe 24-25 because I lived in a Bible thumping household. I don't like any behavior-altering substances save for maybe a bit of coffee and never have. He's full of shit.

No. 1671637

>>1671622
who is full of shit?

No. 1671639

>>1671637
Read the OP.

No. 1671660

>>1671587
Nicotine and caffeine relieve some ADHD symptoms (they are both stimulants). Cocaine and meth actually have therapeutic properties similar to amphetamine (eg, Adderall) for ADHD symptoms at lower-than-recreational doses. I'm the absence of simulants, weed might provide some relief from the feeling of your thoughts moving too fast or feeling like you can't relax or sit still. (That's just personal experience - could be wrong.)

Alcohol otoh makes just about every symptom of ADHD significantly worse for both the user and everyone else in really obvious ways. Your friend is probably just an alcoholic and trying to come up with reasons why he "shouldn't" cut back or stop drinking.

No. 1688220

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does anyone else here suffer from adhd and misophonia/misokinesia? i read it's often comorbid, and i was hoping getting treated for adhd would also help with those symptoms but now that i'm on meds i still can't concentrate because there's constant triggers around me. i tried mentioning it to my psychologist but he doesn't believe misophonia is real so i'm completely at a loss. looking for any advice on how to cope, or really just anyone who can relate

No. 1688261

>>1688220
Get a new psychologist. If you have something and the practitioner you see for treatment thinks it isn't real, you gotta get a new one. Can I ask what the hell he thinks is going on, if not misophonia? And is this the guy giving you meds?
Pretty sure I don't have misophonia, I really hope another nonna can help you out while you find someone else.

No. 1688300

>>1688261
yeah he's the one prescribing me ritalin. when i asked him about it he said that he doesn't believe it is a separate disorder and that it's the same as "getting distracted easily". But if that's the case then the meds would've fixed it, no?
finding someone new who takes health insurance and doesn't have a 2-year-waitlist is a huge hassle though, sadly, but i'll have to try.

No. 1688364

>>1688300
I don't have advice, just curious: is the misophonia any worse when you're medicated?

No. 1688451

>>1671660
nta but this is interesting. I'm an alcoholic with adhd but I did a bunch of cocaine once. it didn't make me feel the way other people without adhd reported it made them feel. I didn't feel like a god or anything, just extra sweaty and annoying. one time my neighbor said I should try meth though. meth is the only thing on my "never ever do not try it" list because I know I'd get hooked easily.

No. 1688505

>>1688364
In my experience it doesn't make a difference. When I was on Concerta for a short while it felt like my misophonia symptoms got worse sometimes, but i think it's just because i forget to eat in time when i don't have to take a second dose, and that made me more irritable.

No. 1688578

>>1688300
Wow, a 2 year wait is so fucking long. Can people in the UK not get meds done from a GP?

No. 1695153

Nonas what's the best advice or helpful thing that has worked for you with any ADHD symptom? Doesn't matter what it is or how minor, I just want to hear from actual ADHD people what has helped them.

For example I'm at least 10 times more efficient and creative in most areas if I'm listening to newly discovered music. It can't be old music even if I love it, it's specifically new music that does it for me. The new music (like an album) can last me months if I'm lucky

No. 1879100

How bad is it I take my lads vyvanse. Ice been prescribed every anti depressant going and I swear this is the only thing that comes close to making me feel a functioning human with no ill effect. I'm just really conflicted and kinda guilty over taking it without being prescribed.(use the catalog)

No. 1879411

>>1695153
I touch my lips with my hand or fingers during conversations to stop myself from interrupting. I still try to interrupt but feeling my lips move with my hand helps me stop talking before the other person notices.(use the current thread)

No. 1881674

>>1879411
This IS the current thread. Go fuck yourself, autistic janny.

No. 2057231

Q(bumping old threads for no reason)

No. 2057439

>>1879100
I know this is an old post, but why not try to get a prescription of it yourself? Getting diagnosed with ADHD is easy if your insurance covers the medication.



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