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No. 140789
Who here has to put up with shit from weirdo guys?
I know this board isn't for personal blogposts, but I'd figured I'd start this one off with a short anecdote
>be me, 19, waitress job at restaurant
>creepy autistic dishwasher works there, about 20, obsessed with vidya and starwars
>couple of gay coworker dudes have dozen person get-together after work
>go to their apartment with friends, me and just one other girl
>inexplicably, dish autist is there too
>play never-have-i-ever
>he has 10 fingers up, the rest of us at one or two
>"N-n-never have I e-ever had-had sex!"
>he wins game
>everyone drinking, go out on porch for smoke
>he comes out, sits next to me
Then, with like a sentence or two of small talk, he actually fucking tried to grab at my boobs, so I slapped his hand away and told him I wasn't interested. HE REACHED OUT AGAIN. That time he mumbled something I couldn't understand before going inside. Word from another guy there is that he also brandished a pair of condoms "just in case"
Does this happen to anyone else here? I'm not even that attractive but for some reason this freak is really magnetized towards me
No. 140794
>>140790He's the son of a shift manager who essentially has him tenured there(she confiscates his check to pay bills in lieu of a monthly tugboat- so she profits off his employment).
He's harassed other girls on the job and the neither GM nor shift mangers will lift a finger to stop it. I've already put in my two weeks notice.
>>140792In my state you can, the GM just doesn't care
No. 140795
>>140789>Does this happen to anyone else here?Happened a lot between the ages of 17-22 for me. Mostly because I was young, impressionable, and wasn't in a position of power so guys thought they could manipulate me. Creepers also go for girls who they think they might have a chance with, even if it's ever so miniscule. Yet they're still picky with their standards so they won't go for supreme uggos, or the ultra hot staceys who they know will reject them in not so nice ways.
They're really no different from most guys in that they test the waters hoping a fish will bite. Even though the guy violated you he's likely done it to many girls before (oh I just scrolled down to read your post, ayep!). And the reason why he does it at parties and not in the workplace is so he can get away with it because booze-fueled events are usually a grey area to employers. Then if you reported it they would judge you and/or simply wash their hands of the situation since it didn't happen at the workplace.
Don't go to work parties anymore unless you know for a fact that everyone there is a person you can trust, and even then…
No. 140798
>>140797Your situation is eerily similar to mine. My "friend" (who I don't consider a close one and only really talk to because we have my best friend in common) is annoyingly into me even though we barely talk. He pesters me to hang out with him every so often but I actively avoid this since I don’t feel comfortable when I’m alone with him. He’s tried to put the moves on me before and is overbearing and irritating about his “feelings” for me even though I’ve set boundaries and never ever treated him as anything more than a friend. He manages to make me feel guilty about my apprehensiveness by randomly apologizing, momentarily easing any tension.
I’m old enough to realize that this behavior will only continue the more I keep talking to him. And I don’t really, he’s the one that always texts me. I didn’t have his number on my phone for the longest time and I didn’t reply to him for months on end but I still knew it was him because I’d always get some bullshit from his unsaved number.
>He started talking about killing himself and giving up on life and quitting school. I pep talk him and give him a little social interaction every time I see him online. >I feel burdened with his lifeI know how you feel to the T. It's like I’m walking on eggshells every time I try to help him. I’m done being saddled with his depression and I’m done giving him pep talks when he refuses to listen to me. He even gets slightly argumentative with me when I try to give him advice. Fuck this. I don’t like him enough to deal with his crap when I have enough to deal with on my own.
No. 140799
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>>140797Jesus Christ, stop enabling his shitty personality. Stating he "understood why men rape" isn't just fucking weird, that's a huge red flag.
You are not responsible for his life or what he does with it. If you are feeling burdened by him, something needs to change. He either has to make some effort to fix himself or you need to cut him out of your life. Sometimes it isn't easy, but there are people who will never learn and drag you down with them. Don't let him do that to you.
No. 140808
>>140804Feeling like someone is going to harm you and you have no way of stopping it does not feel good. I can understand how you might think being creeped on = confirmation I must be somewhat attractive, but it doesn't. Weirdo guys just pick anyone, like what
>>140806 said, they pick people who seem like they won't fight back. Getting creeped on would only worsen your insecurity, it wouldn't be an ego boost.
No. 140811
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>be me
>sitting at the bus stop
>some random sits next to me
>all of a sudden he's shoving a $20 in my face
>told him thanks but I don't need it
>insists I take it
>alright fine
>"i gave you that because you're beautiful"
>oh okay lol thanks
>keeps trying to make small talk with me
>keep replying with general haha yeah's
>bus comes
>he asks for my number
>give him some number i pulled from my ass
>mfw
Sometimes attracting creeps has it's pros
No. 140816
>>140809Or maybe it means I'm ugly
>>140808It seems like people of both sexes think I look repulsive or something. At this point I'm desperate for any confirmation I'm not ugly. Maybe attention from ugly guys is different when you're getting hit on left and right.
No. 140817
>>140815Not the anon you were replying to but as a fake copper-head, can confirm that weird autists tend to flock like moths to a flame, though not exclusively. It was -only- autists when it was a more unnatural red.
>>140806>They prey on innocent sweet girls for a reason: because sweet girls are too kind/polite to tell them to fuck off.This so much for -most- cases. Some guys are too autistic and desperate to be put off. I feared for my safety in one case as consequence of my directness.
No. 140821
Sorry if I've posted this one before, but I met possessive creep on Gaia when I was 13 (he was 18) who I put up with for five years. The story is so similar to other experiences I see on these boards.
He would constantly be pushing the boundaries of what I would put up with, trying to request muh loli nudes, when I got upset he would pull back and it would all be about how important I was as a friend and how he just didn't know how to talk to girls. Lots of the cliche pathetic "wahhh if you stop talking to myself I'll kill myself or shoot up a place" bullshit, sudden jealous rages
triggered by me getting a boyfriend and in one event he narrowed down where I lived. When he started tracking down my younger schoolfriends online I realised how serious it was getting and just mass blocked him everywhere. I later realised he was constantly befriending young girls online.
I don't know why these guys get so fixated on not being 'good with women' that it turns them into mass shooting candidates and paedophiles.
>>140816There is nothing good about being creeped on, it isn't flattering it's just uncomfortable. If you're desperate for attention you could always up your makeup/hair game and slut up your wardrobe, but it's rarely a good kind of attention.
There's also the possibility that you're just socially inept and can't tell if people are actually interested at times when they have been.
No. 140826
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>>140813I know the feeling anon. Only people who hit on me are big burly black men in the 30s and mexicans who don't know any english except "DAMN BBY!" Last time I had a semicute boy hit on me (few months ago) I shot him down pretty quick mainly because it was a shitty day.
No. 140827
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Twitch is rife with 'em, and because camwhores are abundant, they automatically assume every girl is willing to pull her top down a little if you call her pretty.
>call guys out on flirting because it's never genuine
>they get angry saying I should be flattered like everyone else
>my point is proven
>get donations anyway
>a feminist blog calls my channel a "safe space" for women because I don't put up with assholes looking for titties
On the other hand, I'd hate to be a hot guy since you could never call out the uber-sexual ugly creeper-girls that make up your fan base. They're always so cringey.
No. 140829
>>140826Omg anon. Seriously this. It's only Mexicans and 30+ yo black guys for me too, and also always calling at me when I walk past or when they drive by. "Hey beautiful" has invaded my life several times a week.
I haven't felt very threatened by anyone this year though, just uncomfortable before I manage to escape, so for that I'm grateful.
Anyone that is decent doesn't do catcalls, so if they like me they either like me from afar or I freak out and run away/get awkward when they approach me/have someone else approach me (usually moms coming up asking how old I am and being like, "hey… Do you have a bf? Alex here thinks you're cute." Lol)
No. 140836
>>140833>So image board guy friends: never again.Fucking this.
Every goddamn weirdo from some imageboard i had the displeasure of talking to its been a trip. Lucky I usually can't stand conversations with them over too long before the red flags start and I end up blocking them.
No. 140839
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>>140835>constantly trying to "go out" with me via Skype>U r looking so fine tonightchrist
No. 140848
>>140847Because that's manipulative and dishonest.
If they still wanna take you out on a date when you've already told them you're disinterested that's their problem.
No. 140849
>>140848I did this to someone when I was 18 but because back then I didn't know how to reject someone. He would buy me things and do favors for me and he got jealous when I talked to other guys, despite not being in a relationship with him at any point. He had a huge crush on me and I didn't feel the same way. I didn't know how to tell him that I wasn't interested, so I gave him the "I'm not looking for a relationship" excuse and he just took that as "she's going to wait for me" which is not the message I was trying to project and he said he was never going to stop trying to get me (ugh). Eventually I decided that it was enough and told him straight up "I do not see you and I in a relationship any time in the future" and he was heartbroken. I guess it was my fault for not having the guts to tell him until later. He called me the "girl of his dreams" and as bad as I feel, its not my fault I didn't like him back and I wasn't going to force it for
his happiness.
His cousin verbally abused me after that, so that was classy.
No. 140851
I once did a summer program in Korea.
>Guys approach me every now and then but it's easy to turn them away, language barrier
>Walking home in the dark one time, live in a really safe campus area where I feel comfortable doing so
>Guy approaches me and kinda blocks my path, asking me if I have a band-aid
>I already know what's coming, continue telling him to stop and try to move around him but he keeps blocking my path
>Eventually, I say no and he does the whole "scrapped my knee falling for you" thing in bad English, at which point I walk away again
>Grabs both my wrists suddenly and tells me not to go anywhere
>HOLY SHIT he's going to try to assault me
>Terrified, yank my wrists free and tell him to leave me alone
>He tries to block my path again but I push him off, obviously very upset now
>Tells me to chill out and lets go, tells me to fuck off in that bad English again
Luckily, I was only a few steps from a crowded bar area so it would have been easy to get away/yell but that's probably the first time a dude has ever touched me in a way where I thought "yeah my ass is getting assaulted".
Also, back in high school, I was a co-president for the anime club, which brought a whole group of fun people.
>One guy, comes from our opposite high school to participate in our anime club
>Very socially awkward, dead pan guy who thinks the stuff he says is edgy and dark humor but absolutely fails the landing
>Takes a welding class at our local community college, never shuts up about sheet metal
>Reluctantly agree to drive him home with a friend of mine after he says his parents can't pick him up
>"Anon, I only live 5 mins from here!"
>In the back of the car, starts talking about welding and sheet metal, claims he can make us an aluminum Inuyasha sword if we pay him $15,000
>okay
>Starts showing off the welding tools that he keeps in his backpack, including a hand torch
>Tell him to cut that shit out, don't start up a hand torch in my car, it's literally a giant hunk of metal and gasoline
>Ten seconds later, hear the fucking hand torch starting up
>What the fuck did I just say???
>Turns out he lives a good 20 minutes away, tell him that I'm not driving him anymore because it's too far and in the opposite direction of my house
>Glares at me, tells me that it's fine, he'll just walk home five miles in the snow every day
>Okay, you do that
>Comes in for the next meeting, tries to step behind the teacher's desk
>Teacher who sponsors the club has strict rules that only the presidents can go back there
>We tell him to back off and that he can't be here
>He asks what we're going to do about it, says that if we hurt him, it won't do anything because it won't be worse than what his father does to him every day
>Obvious he's trying to lie to get our respect and sympathy but we can't hold back the laughter
>Tell our teacher, he says not to worry and that he's going to email the other high school
>His email address has the words "sheet metal" in it
That dude had many other fun stories but that was the most notable one. He always had a "it can't be worse than what my father does to me" line locked and loaded for almost everything. Probably still out there crafting Inuyasha swords out of aluminum.
No. 140852
When I started high school I was quite naive and honestly stupid. I went to private school my whole life and then entered a large public high school. I was kind of cute I guess, so this led to plenty of upper classmen taking interest in me, as well as kids in my own grade.
There was this one fat, ugly, little fucking annoying jerk who was exactly the type you're thinking of. Real cringe, "where's my hug?", thinks they're an anime character. he would creep on me and all my girl friends. He was a real fucking idiot and never stopped loudly discussing ignorant things (made fun of trans girls a lot, watched hentai in class, always thought he was the shit)
One day I got sick of his shit when he tried to pull that "where's my hug shit", and I just yelled "I'm not your fucking friend." He did that thing where he stopped and looked around and acted like I was behaving like a crazy bitch. People were staring, but everyone was aware of how awful this kid was so I just continued to rip into him and tell him to leave me the fuck alone and don't come near me or touch me. I was glad I had a crowd because he never bothered me again after that.
No. 140853
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I had a really scary one over winter. I was working late or something, so walking home in the dark to my empty place.
>Be me, walking uphill to my my apartment block>Guy is walking uphill far ahead of of me, nothing strange>Reach door and start rummaging in my bag for keys>Suddenly, "Do you need some light?", guy is by my side back down the hill and trying to turn his phone torch on>Decline but think nothing of it, probably a neighbour>Absentmindedly respond to his polite small talk as I find keys>Except now he's blocking my path to the door>"Truth is, I'm not doing well" he says, or something. I'm internally eyerolling already.>Goes on about how his girlfriend of 3 years has left him>I politely try to suggest there's more fish in the sea and so he should go drink at x Bar and have a fun night out (my apartment block is just around the corner from lots of bars etc, he had mentioned something about how she never wanted to go out drinking or something and I was trying to get him to leave)>"Do you want to come to x Bar?". Politely decline, tell him to go have a nice night, I need to go to bed etc.>He apologises for being forward, that being with his ex for so long has made him 'rusty', and then>"She dumped me because…. I'm a sex maniac".>I blurt out that it's fine for him to be him, but telling that to women on dark roads is not going to help him get a new gf or any friends>It finally dawns on me that I'm in a dark road with a self-proclaimed sex maniac blocking my door and all I have is keys and sass>Can't decide whether to run away or rush at the door, screaming probably won't help>After saying goodnight a few more times again, tell him to please leave me alone (I don't know why I kept being polite)>rush at the door, keys aiming for lock>Ohgodhe'sgotme.png>All he does is kiss my cheek before I've squirmed away and opened the door and closed it>Wave stupidly and politely through the door window as he does because I'm a fucking retardCoincidentally my mother phoned me just after and persuaded me to put in a report to the police in case he tried the same on another girl or was still lurking outside. The police actually showed up and I felt stupid reporting something so small, that I had been way too polite the whole time to him, and was really embarrassed to find I couldn't even describe the man because he was so generic. But I'm glad I did contact them, just in case he tried it again.
>>140841Honestly I'm confused how you're just that much of a creeper magnet so soon, did you try setting your facebook to private before deleting? But if it keeps happening you should just start submitting stuff to byefelipe pic related
>>140851>Email addressBest
No. 140854
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Saw this on my nf recently
No. 140858
>>140853Shit, this is close to my story! It was last winter, it was super dark, I was pausing at my local corner shop to get something and this guy followed me home and kept trying to small talk me again and again despite me being kinda just…cold? But polite.
He literally blocked my way into my apartment after following me home and wouldn't let me go despite saying a few times I have a boyfriend and aren't interested in going for drinks with him. He kept saying 'He doesn't have to know. It'll only be drinks. I don't see a ring on your finger, he don't own you.'
He was a huge black guy with gold teeth, too. Pretty intimidating to me and looming in the doorway blocking it. I put in a fake number in his phone and kinda just bolted into my building but god, I couldn't sleep right after that for weeks because I was worried he would come back to my flat and be angry I gave him the wrong number. I called my bf and my mom and my best friend that night lol.
No. 140860
This thread is
triggering tf out of me tbh.
>>140859I had the opposite issue actually. When I was waitressing we had this creepy autist cook that everyone told me to stay away from. When I went from blonde to dark brunette this fuck would not leave me alone. He would follow me around every time I went to the kitchen going "wow…that color really brings out your eyes…you look so beautiful and sexy I can't believe it…Beautiful….." Just so fucking weird. He eventually got fired.
No. 140862
>>140858That sounds pretty awful, I'm glad he let you leave after you put in a number.
>>140861Red definitely brings out the weirdos, some guys see redheads as nerdy, precious and 'natural'. Blonde is supposedly feminine/slutty and dark is supposedly mysterious/smart etc.
Before coloured hair was maintstream it was a real draw for creepers. Once a guy followed me around a whole supermarket until he finally said something to me about it, I blame the stereotype of colourful hair as a 'she's kinky' thing, but it could just be that anything which makes you stand out will always draw some attention.
No. 140863
>>140797I had a girl who "pep talked" me, it only gave me the impression that she liked me, when she got a boyfriend I just told myself I'd be there when she'd break up, when she told me that she started sending me messages because I looked lonely I thought that she found something in me, I only stopped when I went to her birthday party (I hate that stuff and expected to dislike it, but she asked me to come) and realized how ridiculous it all was.
How hard is it to just make it clear that you don't have an interest in us, we disgust you even, he'll stop messaging you in an instant.
(no boys allowed) No. 140864
Highschool was a whole lot like this.
I regret ever telling anyone I enjoyed watching anime.
>>140859I have naturally blond hair, but used to dye it fire red. I was too way nice and patient, and it attracted wierdos like moths to a flame.
No. 140866
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Shitty summary, sorry
>Be me
>be in class working on laptop
>guy comes up to me
>he was one of those guys in my class nobody liked nor did they talk to him
>starts to say creepy, sexual things at me, tbh he pretty much blantantly asked if I could fuck him
>kept making excuses to get him to back off, telling him that I'm lesbian (which I am) and saying I have a GF
>as soon as I said that he insisted we could have a threesome
>tfw terrified
>ignore him
>eventually goes away
Honestly, I was even surprised this happened. I didn't even know this guy, nor was I popular or attractive. Wacky shit.
No. 140871
>>140862Coloured hair is still very much a draw for even normal guys. They all just see girls with dyed hair as slutty and mental therefore easy. I was never hit on until I dyed my hair. Luckily I was old enough to discern they were just wanting to fuck.
also somehow added a bunch of guys from r9k on kik recently. (curiosity for their mindset) All but one started out being abusive to me and now a couple of days later I have many "pls respond" and "qt femanon" messages.
it's too much. All I did was be slightly nice to them.
No. 140874
>>140868I might've gotten stabbed had I not pulled away and ran off when he tried to drag me off somewhere. Who knows lol.
>>140872You would think that after you replied very little after a month he would've quit. What did you say when you replied to him? Also, if those songs are real I wanna see him. Sounds like some entertainment for a little bit.
No. 140876
>>140859Yeah, I had blonde hair for a few years and suddenly got hit on/asked out a lot.
Went to dark brown (my natural color), nobody approaches me anymore, no interest. It's kind of aggravating how much preference men can have in hair color and how inadequate its made me feel throughout dating people. For example, my ex only dated redheads, then dated me by some fluke, then went back to redheads.
No. 140880
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Anyone have problems with female creepers? I played vidya with a girl that got pretty fucking salty when I made it clear that I wasn't dtf and only wanted to be friends after already shooting her down once. Thankfully got away from that fucking trainwreck.I just wanted to play vidya gaems.
No. 140881
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>>140877That is motherfucking Bentley from Sly Cooper singing about you.
No. 140882
I was friends with a guy who I'd enjoy eating lunch with sometimes. He was nice enough, super tall, long black hair and wore a parka in warm weather. He looked odd, but that was okay–I was an awkward shy person and he seemed so pleasantly quirky to me. I had a tough time fitting in due to my interests and racial background. He was friendly enough to our classmates, nothing odd here. After talking in person during class breaks and afterwards we began talking online about things like depression, we both had it. It was nice to have someone to talk about honestly about mental health. Then he started to post things that he liked–books and blogs. They were odd, things I had never heard of. Now this is my fault, because I didn't look at them and said that I would check them out later. I didn't, due to the massive amount of coursework I had in grad school. We liked a similar type of pc games and music, which we talked about. Then he started to say political things that weirded me out(I told him that I'm liberal, but open to libertarianism). I went back and read the blogs and books that he posted. This guy was a straight up white supremacist neo-nazi. How did I know for certain? He wrote to a fascist blogger and even donated to him, sending me the link specifically telling me that HE was the person who wrote to the guy. The books that he had linked me too were odd, but some of them were something that a normal conservative might read. Yet on that very page of the blog he sent me was a diatribe about how worthless to society certain groups were: my ethnic group was included. I immediately messaged him and asked him whether he agreed. He said "yes." I blocked him and we've never spoken again. Now I'm extraordinarily suspicious of self claimed libertarians and tall pale guys with long hair.
No. 140884
Earlier I was walking down a main road in my city. I had crossed the street and about 10 seconds later this car pulls up alongside me and I turn to look. This guy says something I'm not 100% sure on, but assumed/sounded like it was "Do you need a ride?" I said no and turned back, kept on walking. I think he then said "are you sure" but I ignored it. He sat there for a few seconds then drove up about 50ft then at at the red light. It turned green, the cars in front of him drove off, but he was still sitting there for a good 10 seconds, then drove away.
About five minutes later, I cross another main street and into a gas station so I could cut through and back to the street I was just on. I didn't realize it until I was heading right towards him, but this same guy was sitting at an exit to the gas station lot but not actually leaving…just sitting there and now staring at me. I thought, a little odd, yes, but he was probably just getting gas. Nothing but a coincidence!
Well 20 minute later I'm still walking and guess who I see sitting, parked, in an empty lot down the street? This fucking guy. I pretended I didn't see him and took out my phone and started staring at it, fake laughing a bit, and start to up my speed. Out of the corner of my eye I can see him watching me as I walk past. At this point I'm like, great I sure wish I bought that pepper spray. When I got to the end of the block I saw him pass me on the street. Thankfully that was the last time I saw him.
No. 140886
>>140884This is why I carry a taser when I go out to exercise now, this shit happens all the freaking time. You can never tell just how far it's going to go.
I try to go different routes / times, stick to safe areas, but I've had one creep in particular try to get me to stop and talk multiple times (I've got headphones on, I'm running… do you think I want to stop and get in your freaking car???).
Not that I think a taser magically makes me safe or something… but it's better than nothing. It's also loud as fuck so at least it can be a deterrent, too.
No. 140889
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>>140789this pic
triggers the robits
but emphasis on ignoring the bait crammed into it aside how true is this for you girls
ignore the filename its a summary on what it says in the pic
I don't think like this
No. 140895
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>walking home from store
>walking into my apartment complex
>some guy from his car yells "HEY I HAVE TO ASK YOU SOMETHING!"
>keep my distance, ask him what he wants
>"you work at (job) right?"
>tell him yes
>"oh you seemed cool i wanted to get to know you!"
>say no, tell him in a bad mood and i want to be left alone
>hear him stuttering from his car as i walk to my apartment
>he calls me a bitch as he drives off
>tfw this is the 4th guy to do this type of thing
I don't fucking get it. I have to be nice and "cool" to everyone at my job, yet these retarded dudes think it's personal? Fuck off
No. 140898
>First year politics class
>Friend of my weeby, harmless, D&D playing acquaintance I met at my dorm residence sits next to us
>Yeah, whatever. I'm glad I don't have to talk to weeb kind-of-friend and focus in class instead
>Guy is called John, wears paisley shirts, stone wash jeans and has a crew cut (I live in AUS, no one has crew cuts)
>Politics is full of know it all twats who think they have the perfect system worked out
>John is one of these
>I forget my pen and he lends me his one day
> The blood bond has now been set
>John now constantly stalks me around campus
>Walks me home from university
>I have a boyfriend and he knows this
>Oh I don't care, we're just friends
>Weirdo but whatever, I don't really care
>Everytime I wait for class to start he comes up to me and tells me I look sexy
>Asks me out
>Say I can't go because I'm going to my boyfriends house
>He says "OH GOOD FOR HIM, IM SO HAPPY FOR HIM," loudly and sarcastically while staring me down
>Start trying to avoid him but he always finds me no matter where I am in the lecture theatre and makes everyone move to sit next to me
>Brings a flip phone to class and takes photos of me for a laugh
>Freaked out by him at this point and ask him to delete them because I have no idea what he would do with them
>makes me his wallpaper instead
>Get angry and tell him to fuck off
>Laughs at me self conciously but doesn't delete them
>Tells me if I didn't want photos taken of me why did I have profile pictures on Facebook
>Creepy dead stare when he says this
>Logic.jpg
>Delete him and block him
I know this isn't a big deal but god it's my first experience with guys since I finished girls only high school and it's terrifying
No. 140899
>>140898Christ what a creep.
I honestly wonder what these idiots are thinking, do they think acting like a jerk will work in some way or is it something so basic like them just wanting any sort of attention like a stupid child? I really don't get it.
Only creeper story I have is some moron who kept calling my phone and insisting that I was some other girl (I'm guessing she gave him a fake number and I just had the bad luck of being that number). He only spoke Spanish to me and didn't fuck off until I got my boyfriend to tell him off.
No. 140900
I had luck in my life that I hardly experience any kind of creepy behavior where I lived. During early undergrad years, I was a bit of a weeb and went for a 6 month exchange in Tokyo.
First month everything was nice, but then suddenly an influx of creepers happened. I am also lazy with my looks, I look plain and I dressed plainly too, mostly just a normal sweater, jeans and sneakers.
>Walking back to my dorm
>It's around 9 PM
>Suddenly some middle age dude appears
>He wants English lessons
>I am not interested in giving English lessons
>Pretend I can hardly speak English
>Or Japanese, or anything
>He still wants English lessons at his apartment like right now
>I tell him no
>He wants email address and phone number so he can contact me for English lessons (get a clue already)
>I just give him some bullshit mail that doesn't exist.
>He finally goes away
>Going back home with train
>Some guy sitting across me, I just noticed him because he had some kind of shiny neon colored sneakers.
>At one point, I have to transfer trains, he does too and enters the same train as I
>I get to my station, and he exits too
>I am getting suspicious now, I slowly walk pretending to be texting
>He is walking like right next to me as slowly as me.
>Enter convenience store, he is still following me
>Pretend to exit but he exits first and then turns around back to see where I am
>Finally muster up the courage to say "What do you want?" awkwardly.
>He just runs away.
>One day walking around Tokyo
>Get asked if I want to be a hair model (I hear that happens to a lot of foreigners in Tokyo)
>Get handed a business card for the place
>Check the place on internet, it's nearby, looks legit, has a lot of decent ratings
>I need a haircut anyway so I just go for it.
>Get an appointment, go there.
>Only the guy hairdresser is there. He can speak English
>Everything goes decently at beginning, we just have some small talk while he does my hair.
>Suddenly he asks me for a date
>He didn't seem bad but I have a boyfriend back home and am kinda uninterested anyway.
>He starts giving me tons of compliments.
>I'm awkward like "haha..thanks", anyways the hair is done, he takes pictures of hair and I go back home.
>Suddenly start getting tons of mail from him
>Constantly asks me if I want to go to lunch or dinner or whatever.
>He finds my facebook through my mail
>I stop responding to his mails and dont accept his friend request
>He sends a looong mail about feelings and how cruel and bitch I am
>He starts adding my friends randomly on facebook
>I block him and tell anyone who asks me who that guy is to ignore him.
To be cont.
No. 140901
>>1409002/2
>Around 10:30 PM on my Uni's campus, going back to my place>That part of the campus has a lot of trees and bushes>I am walking back on this long straight path, listening to music.>Suddenly someone jumps from the bushes and hugs me from behind.>My stupid retarded brain thinks that it's a friend trying to surprise me and I make a dumb grin.>Suddenly I feel groping and creepy breathing on my neck>I fucking finally realize what is going on>I try to get out but he has a grip on my arms>I start screaming as loud I can, squat down which surprises him and he loses his grip while I am kicking him in panic>He runs away fast.I reported it to my campus, idk if they got him but I never saw him again.
Anyways all these things happened in a span of 2 and half months. I never had problems with this shit where I live and had no idea how I was being a magnet to these creepers since I looked and dressed plain.
Then I read on the internet that creepers in Japan (and well everywhere) always target women who seem like easy prey. So then, every time I was alone going somewhere and feeling a bit insecure or scared, I would have frown on my face and carry myself like some angry guy (and I probably looked autistic) but I guess it worked and my remaining time in Japan was creeper-free.
No. 140910
>>140882a little bit late to answer but holy shit lucky you escaped one of these fucks. They are legit insane and meant to be avoid like the plague. All of those butthurt /pol/kiddies replying to you by the way. Guess this kind of people have become permanent lurkers at this rate.
I have experimented it several times casually talking to dudes I know online and/or irl and at the minimal chance or directly out of the blue they start pushing you their believes, interests, hobbies, political agendas and that kind of bullshit in general. Without being close or anything, I may have talked to them that day for the first time sometimes. It's always that kind of stuff that me, and probably any sane person wouldn't tell to a stranger and less expect said stranger to take them seriously. I simply don't get how the mind of these dudes work. And it happened so often to me lately I'm starting to believe it's normal for men to be that autistic.
No. 140911
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I just came back from the weirdest week of my life, so sit down 'cause this ain't gonna be short.
So… I've been talking with this guy for months over Facebook, he seemed very good looking from his fb photos, we have many hobbies in common, he sounded like the perfect guy and stuff. I do not usually meet people from social networks (I prefer meeting them irl because you see how the person is and don't build up expectations etc.), but this one time I made an exception, since we got along so well and I even found him handsome.
So he came here to visit me for a week. I was so excited. I waited for him at the local mall, after 10 minutes I recognize him.
He was different from the photos… and short. Like, really short. He told me he was short, but I didn't think he was that short. A 5'5" manlet. He also was dressed really bad, with large baggy pants that made his tiny legs seem even more tiny, large blouse and a beanie that covered his hair. He also wore huge glasses that made his eyes look gigantic and slightly cross-eyed. He looked like a cartoon, but I said who cares as long as it's just clothes, and we started walking together. I want to make it short: when I hugged him he stood there like a tree and barely moved, and didn't say anything (also, he smelled terrible). He was silent, walked behind me always with the hands in his pockets (bad sign. Seriously, when a guy walks with hands in pockets, run away). For this reason I thought he didn't like me, but here I was wrong. For this endless hour of walking together with me always trying to get him to talk and him being extremely awkward and proving himself as a super beta basically, he realized I was his perfect girlfriend, as he told me later via facebook messenger. Yes, because I got away as soon as I could, but he was really enthusiastic and he only talked later in the chat. He wasn't able to say anything in person, but was super talkative on fb. Splendid.
The next day I brought my friends in, just to make it less awkward. I really didn't want to see him again, but he booked the hotel for a week so I felt like giving him a second chance. Maybe he was just nervous, I said.
This time was worse: even though my friends were super friendly and nice to him, he still barely talked - and the rare times he spoke, it was super awkward. We entered the book store and there he tried to be humorous by mimicking a plane for absolutely no reason with his arms and mouth, "flying" from shelf to shelf and making everybody cringe hard. Also he stood by my side like a creep the whole time without having the guts to say anything. The whole time.
So, after coming back home and with my friends laughing their ass off, I decided to tell him we weren't going to date. There started the cringefest: "Nooo, give me another chance, you're the best girl I've ever met, I was just nervous because my ex girlfriend was a bitch, let's hang out together now? No? I'll wait for you at X place, the whole evening".
He did wait there knowing I wasn't going and catched a cold. The whole week I received his desperate and creepy messages about how we were meant to be and stuff, but I decided to let it go and ignore him after spilling the truth.
Never again. I was already against meeting people on fb, but now. Never. Again. I feel… physically drained. It's been really draining, he was so obsessive. Also, looking at the pics we took together, he does look good in pictures so it's not like he shoops or anything. He just looks good in pictures and awful irl. Also, now I know that if someone hasn't got pics of them smiling, there's a 99% chance that they have horrible teeth. That crooked smile, I won't forget it.
No. 140912
The worst creeper I had was a few years ago(I was 21, 25 now). We met through a mutual friend and we were pretty good friends honestly. We had a lot in common but at the time I wasn't looking for a relationship at all so I told him exactly that and he seemed to understand because he never brought it up again. Fast forward a year and life got pretty tough for me(lost a parent and my job at around the same time) and I was REALLY not looking for a relationship with all that happening. But anyway, my friends invite me to a convention since they thought I need some time away from home so I agree. I don't find out that he's rooming with us 'til we get there and that he's basically volunteered to share the bed with me. I've shared beds with friends plenty of times for cons and such but somehow this felt wrong, but I'm fucking shy as shit so I don't say anything. It's time for bed at this point but as I'm falling asleep, I feel his grubby hands trying to wrap their way around my waist and I feel his dick fucking throbbing on my lower back. Honest to fucking god. It felt fucking awful, especially since at that point in time, I hadn't been intimate with anyone in my fucking life. I shrug him off, but I spend the rest of the weekend pissed off and unable to tell anyone because, again, I'm fucking shy and don't really know how to bring it up to anyone. I stopped contacting him after that, and he said some pretty awful shit about me being a terrible friend to people but I don't really care. It was shitty because I trusted him and he tried me. lmfao I have a bunch of other stories but yeah, this one definitely stuck with me
No. 140913
Not mine, just a copy paste from Australia. It was posted to Facebook with an image of him but has been deleted because the guy had autism, still no excuse though.
"You're all freaking out about Clowns but women are made to feel unsafe every damn day.
Today when I was on Tram 57 heading into the city, I witnessed this guy creep on each of the three other young women who were on the tram with me.
This is how it went down.
I was sitting at the front and didn't notice you initially until I looked up and saw you waving your hand in front of the face of the young Asian woman you were sitting next to. She looked shocked, and when she didn't respond you stood up and leaned over her and demanded that you give her a "high five" and shoved your hand in front of her face again. She stared pointedly straight ahead and it was obvious that she was fucking scared with this random over-dominating man leaning over her demanding that she give you attention that you were never fucking entitled to.
I got up from my seat and sat next to her to put some space between her and this festering turd of a human being.
You noticed and sat down opposite me and leaned towards me and just stared at me. You didn't say anything at first. That look was enough to tell me that you wanted to put me in my fucking place.
I locked eyes with you and stood my ground.
I was fucking terrified and angry at the same time and quickly started trembling with what was probably supressed rage and nerves at the confrontation.
How dare you go out of your way to make women feel unsafe in a public area.
I stared you fucking down while praying that you wouldn't get fucking violent.
You mumbled something and it became apparant that you were tripping balls on something but I've had encounters before with people who are under the influence, and your behavior towards the women on the tram was nothing short of fucking predatory. That wasn't the drugs. That was you.
I steeled myself up and responded "You right mate?" in a tone that I hoped would imply I wouldn't tolerate your shit.
You looked away and spent the next few minutes standing across from us staring until the young Asian woman I was sitting next to got off and thanked me for sitting next to her.
I hoped that would be the fucking end but it wasn't.
You went and sat down next to the other young Asian woman and when she got up immediately and moved seats, you followed her.
You sat down across from her, legs sprayed across the seat in an attempt to invade as much as her personal space as you could while leaning towards her.
I watched you, and I watched her face mingle with disgust and also fear.
This was the second woman in the space of five minutes you had made feel unsafe.
She left the tram soon enough and it wasn't too long until you zoned in on the last young woman on the tram besides myself, sitting in a seat staring out the window.
You sat next to her, and you stared at her.
You stared at her for a good minute or two and you leaned forward making sure she could see that you were fucking staring at her.
Then you started moving towards her, taking up as much space as you could on the seat and squeezing next to her.
Her face and body language was the same as the two previous women.
You made her feel uncomfortable and unsafe, and you violated her personal space because you felt entitled to it.
When you put your elbow up on the back of the seat with your hand dangling dangerously close to her boob I stepped in and asked her if she wanted to come sit next to me.
She said yes, and moved without saying another word.
You then proceeded to take up the entire seat and glanced occasionally at me as I stood next to her seat. I was ready for a fucking fight by this stage.
Four women, including myself.
Four women in the space of 20 minutes you actively seeked out, disrespected and violated their personal space.
Four women who you seeked out to dominate and intimidate through body language.
Four women you made to feel unsafe in a public space.
When you realised that I took your photo you started yelling at me about what right I had to do that.
Well…WHAT FUCKING RIGHT DO YOU HAVE TO SEEK OUT AND INTIMIDATE WOMEN?!
IF YOU DON'T WANT UNWANTED ATTENTION THEN DON'T GIVE UNWANTED ATTENTION.
It is that fucking simple.
Some people argue that street harassment isn't a "real" problem. It fucking is.
No one should be made to feel intimidated or unwelcome in a public space but this is the reality that women face every damn fucking day and I'm sick of it.
Not only am I sick of the harassment, but I'm sick of a culture that remains silent on it.
I am sick of men and women seeing these everyday assaults and remaining silent.
When you remain silent you are letting these perpetrators know that they can get away with their actions.
You're contributing to a society that allows this behavior, that says it's okay for men to actively prey on women and treat them as sexual objects and not as human beings.
By staying silent you become part of the problem.
Men, women don't owe you squat.
You are not entitled to our attention.
You are not entitled to our bodies.
We don't owe you the time of day.
Saying that, this loser went out of his way to make women feel unsafe today and then complained when I gave him unwanted attention back.
So I'm asking you all to share this.
Share my message and make these low lives realise that this behavior will not be tolerated anymore, and make them feel what it's like to have unwanted attention.
When it comes to street harassment, I will be silent no more.
It's up to us to fucking support each other and stop harassment when we see it happening."
No. 140914
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Unfortunately I have plenty of stories from over the years, some are short, some are long, never really talked to people online so at least I never dealt with that crap.
Just to share one of my most recent ones
>get a new customer at work
>awkward, roughly twice my age, bald, unattractive, annoying but tries to be a charmer
>being the youngest girl there he zones in on me
>tries to make shitty jokes to try and be charming while showering me with compliments, all are terrible
>try to be professional while shooting him down
>'It's Friday, I'll bet you're going to the club tonight, you look like a party girl, I bet every guy buys you drinks.'
>wtf no I don't look like the party type at all
>'No, I'm going to dinner with my boyfriend tonight.'
>'O-oh that's cool.'
>Every time he comes in he wont go to the other girls, waits until I'm available
>Try to finish as fast as possible while he obnoxiously flirts and kisses my ass, I'm so smart, I'm beautiful, I'm so sweet, coming up with anything to try get me to like him
>Shoot everything down firmly
>Asks if I gamble, I say I never have, gets incredibly serious and says 'You go to Vegas with me this weekend, I'll get 5gs right now, you come to Vegas with me.'
>Just stare at him completely stunned and don't say anything until he leaves
>Last time he comes in it's really busy, so he did this in front of customers that know me very well
>"Anon, can I ask you something? Can I take you out to dinner?"
>Customers and co-workers stare
>Immediately say no, "Why?" I have a boyfriend "Yeah but you can have guy friends right? Your boyfriend can't stop you from being friends with people"
>Customers are either looking at him in disgust or hiding their laughter
>So embarrassed and angry my eyes mist up so now people think I'm crying and say no again
>He leaves and didn't come back
>Every customer starts talking to me about it
One time a guy tried to do the spontaneous, romantic, 'grab her face and kiss her hard' move from tv and movies, and slammed the back of my head against a car as a last ditch effort, shockingly it didn't win me over.
Another guy asked me to go outside at a party, dude always had a pathetic vibe to him so I thought he needed advice or help, instead gives me this bullshit 'I've been in love with you since the moment I met you, I can't sleep, I can't eat' speech he probably ripped off from tv, and when I turn him down he says he broke up with his girlfriend for me, but she didn't even exist.
Lastly, a mean old lady from work tried to get me to go on a date with her grandson and even when I said I had a boyfriend she kept telling me to give him a chance.
When I was in college whenever I would attract a neckbeard athiest type I would start talking about being a hardcore Christian, how I wanted Jesus to be a part of their life, and to go to church with me. It's pretty effective
No. 140916
>>140913I heard that this guy was autistic? Although it didn't make sense to me since autistic people are bad in social situations, I've no idea why one would be running around trying to chat with people and give them "high fives".
Not that the source was to be trusted as he framed it as a "crazy feminazi attacking a poor defenseless man :("
No. 140921
>>140920I've wondered if you can still be an extrovert or introvert as an autistic person.
>>140916The media has really painted her in a bad light it's such bs, if you can't understand social norms you shouldn't be unsupervised in public, being disabled isn't a free pass.
No. 140922
>>140797If they're suicidal, I tell them 2 things:
1. Things aren't always as bad as our minds make them out to be. Things might seem impossible now, but it CAN get better.
2. While I'm not qualified to answer all your questions (perhaps a therapist is, hinthint), you can at least blog at me and I'll read it. Spoiler: you don't have to read it, or respond to it beyond "Oh shit, that's so sad. Sorry to hear that bro-pai."
They don't have a right to drain your energy regularly, so it's important to make them stop. In my opinion, a person should make a sadfag stop crying to them as soon as humanly possible. The last sadfag I had to deal with, I gave him the talk per those 2 things I listed, and told him to fuck off. Surprisingly, he shaped up and stopped being a fag.
No. 140923
>>140798>I know how you feel to the T. It's like I’m walking on eggshells every time I try to help him. I’m done being saddled with his depression and I’m done giving him pep talks when he refuses to listen to me. He even gets slightly argumentative with me when I try to give him advice. Fuck this. I don’t like him enough to deal with his crap when I have enough to deal with on my own.Classic trap. Here's the thing: people like this have an infinite number of excuses to not fix their shit. Something is rewarding them (you, possibly) for them being in the state their in. They might even enjoy cashing in their depression for an excuse to use drugs and not do anything…which, of course, just compounds their depression.
Humans are idiots.
No. 140924
>>140896Feeling you on the fat/bitch face combo. Though those guys seem pretty cute ngl. Maybe you had to be there.
Even though I'm a hambeast I've had some dude messaging me about how much he loves me interspersed with how much he wants to rape me. He's 30+, also a hambeast, thinks he's God's gift.
It got scary when he started calling me 20x a night but that's tailed off.
Messages go something like this:
>I want to tie you to my bed and rape your tight little asshole>I think I love you>Why won't you talk to me?…rinse and repeat.
I'd block him but I'm pathetic and have no friends so it's pretty much the only human contact I have at the moment.
No. 140927
I have too many stories from when I was in high school I'm still struggling with stuff from the first guy I ever dated.
I was turning 16 and he was I think around 19? That should have been my first sign. Second sign was he was part of the nerdy tech group in highschool and part of the smokers group. He also was into hacking and all that shit.
He was actually interested in my best friend at the time, but we ended up hanging out because each time he went looking for her in school he would run into me or I would see him in the tech-computer room where all the nerds hang out.
He would start calling me or texting me everyday talking to me about his problems. In school he would hug me and latch onto me and make all those disgustingly cute voices or whatever. And me being an idiot I thought this was a good thing.
I start hanging out at his house and it's clear his mother doesn't really approve of us because of the age, and I understood that to be honest. I was pretty clear with him at the time that I wouldn't be having sex with him and that I have had some stuff happen in the past that I'm still dealing with so stuff like that was off the table.
Whenever we were alone he would shut the door and kind of move me into a corner and try and make-out with me and I would push him away and make an excuse. While all this is happening I see on FB that he's going to raves and making out with chicks and stuff like that. He kept inviting me to raves and I told him no because I honestly was one of those innocent girls at that time. No drugs, alcohol, sex anything like that.
Basically because I was being a prude and had my wall up he ended up breaking up with me. His actual reasons where "my mom says you're too young so sorry I can't be with you". I'm also pretty sure that he was seeing my best friend at the time on the side as well.
That's not even where this story ends. A few years later he re-adds my on facebook and wants to talk. I agree to. This literally leads him to calling me multiple times a day, even when he's working to talk to me about HIS problems. I basically spent another few months being his therapist because he was in a rough spot. I end up spending some time at his place and once again he's acting strange. We're watching some old horror movie and he starts putting his arm around me, resting his head on me all that bullshit and I pull away. And he's all like "I have no idea why I did that I'm so sorry" I ended up leaving shortly after. The next phone call he asks me to sleep over at his place and I immediately decline. Next day he calls and tells me that he knows that I liked him (I actualy didn't at the time, I was just trying to be a friend) and that he was leading me on. Basically I told him to stop calling me and that it wouldn't have worked out anyways.
I think that if I offered to spend the night at his place he probably would have gotten me too drunk/high or whatever and made a move on me.
Fast forward a year or so and I'm my first year of college. I receive a call from the residence phone in my room at like 4am and I ask who this person is and he said to guess, and it 100% sounded like my ex so I thought it was. He goes on about how he got a girl drunk and raped her several times and that she's unconscious beside him and wants to know what to do. He goes into horrific detail about the rape as well. I freak the fuck out and tell him that she needs to go to the hospital and he has to turn himself in. Basically the call ends with it being a prank. I tell the asshole to never call me again. I also text my ex and tell him that what he did was disgusting and that I never want to hear from him again. He of course as no idea what's going on and I tell him to never contact me again and that I meant it.
At the time I thought that because he had knowledge of where I went to school, where I lived and all that stuff that he basically doxxed me and called my room phone to fuck me up because he knew I have had trauma with that shit in the past. He claims he doesn't, but the friends I've talked to say that it's 100% possible that he would do something like that.
Fast forward another few years and I have a get together with my old friends and the first things they say to me is that my ex has been bugging them and their siblings to find out where I was living and what my phone number is and all that stuff.
Now because of this whole fucking crazy thing I'm terrified of having any social media account and really not good at trusting people. If he ever contacts me again I am going to get a restraining order or whatever the fuck I can because this shit is too much for me. It got to the point where I was afraid to go outside and to go to places near his house because of running into him. I still have that fear to be honest.
Sorry for the wall of text and the rambling. It's hard to write all this shit down and kind of relive it in a way.
No. 140928
>>140924You need help.
Please go get yourself help.
No. 140930
>>39068Get the fuck out, insufferable robot filth. You honestly think your opinions are valid here?
Hurrr durr being in a creepy relationship with an adult man who clearly has disturbing issues with boundaries sooo previleged
No. 140935
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>>39079>Hey chill out gals. I have a girlfriend already that I'm engaged to i'm one of you lolcows though. I've been here all the way since August. Just try and not sound so bitter then maybe you'll get a guy to like you one day.We believe in you, we really do
No. 140939
>>140938But this isn't a site for female robots, it's a site to make fun of people who do stupid shit on the internet, and also talk to other people who enjoy making fun of people who do stupid shit on the internet.
It's telling you got drawn to the thread about creeps though.
No. 140942
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>>140882>im a liberalLooks like he dodged a bullet there
No. 140943
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>get fired from job the minute i walk in
>walk back to bus stop in tears screaming to friend over phone about how bullshit the situation was
>hang up right when bus gets there
>get on bus to go back home and mope/job hunt
>guy comes up to my seat and points to the seat next to me, says "hey, can i sit here?"
>haven't been paying attention, think the bus is full or something
>there's literally empty seats everywhere
>make a noise equivalent to ??????????
>decide to not want to start something just say "whatever dude go for it"
>at first is all quiet, think he might just be retarded and didn't see the other seats somehow
>"what's your name?"
>stare at him for a few seconds, give him a fake name "paris"
>"nice to meet you paris"
>he suddenly shoves his arm in my face "i've had a hard life paris"
>he pulls up his sleeve and there's a huge ass scar indicating a suicide attempt
>tell him i'm sorry about that
>"have you been crying" i look him dead in the eyes and say no
>"are you sure?"
>pull out the smartass card and say "i've been listening to some really fucking emo music"
>"oh so you cut too?"
>i flip
>ask him what the fuck is wrong with him, tell him to leave me alone please
>rest of bus ride is quiet
>as i get off he says i'm beautiful and hands me his number
>i give him a smirk and rip it in half as i walk away
I acted like a total bitch but I was in the worst mood possible. Plus I feel like he deserved it for his cutter comment alone
No. 140951
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You know what's fun? When the creeper is your boss.
>be me, 20 something, work at a marketing firm that sends you to music fests and similar things to work as a cashier/promo girl
>get sent to a pretty big music fest with a few people and my boss
>no hotel, but special staff camping area
>boss INSISTS on having his tent RIGHT next to mine
>I'm really shy so I don't think much of it since he's the only person I know
>first thing he does when we arrive before work is buy 2 25 pack's of beer, and two huge bottles of vodka along with coke, etc
>tells me "after work, we just drink and have fun! That's what we do here."
>first time working music fest, no idea if that's true, but he's been working here a long time so I assume he's not lying
>after work he pressures me INTENSELY to drink
>At this point I realize somethings' up and I drink maybe 2-3 cans
>he gets intensely annoyed I'm not drinking as heavily as him
>"you're not getting in the spirit of things!"
>second day buys MDMA from someone
>tries to get me to do it
>I pretend to do it and put the pill in the pocket
>say it doesn't work
>he's mega high
>tries to grind against me during one of the shows when we were both not working, I move away from him every time he tries
>by the 4th day he's gotten annoyed that I haven't gotten high/drunk much at all after work
>5th day tells me he's getting married soon and was hoping to fuck me before he has to 'take things seriously.'
>apologizes and says he knew I'd only fuck him (because he's ugly as fuck according to his words) if I was massively drunk/high (LOL, not even)
>internally screaming but say "I don't know why you thought that but w.e"
>want to tell HR, but I know they favor him, and simply just won't give me future contracts for causing 'drama'
>mfw I hear him telling other people I slept with him, and his hamplanet wife hates me because she thinks this
I'm glad I don't work there anymore, and I'm glad some of my coworkers saw what was going on and helped me both get another job. But jfc what a creep
No. 140953
>>140952>Am I being a creep?No.
>Should I drop her?Yes. You're in love, so you don't see that she's actually just a bitch. Step back and get some clarity.
There's so many girls in the world that you don't ever need to make two passes at one. She tried you on like a pair of shoes so just stop wasting your time. The worst thing that can happen is that she does decide she wants something more and you end up losing 2-3 of your prime dating years to her.
If you have the will power to lose that much weight, you're eventually gonna be a good catch, if you aren't already. Why does she get two chances with you? It's wasteful. Do not pursue.
No. 140954
>>140953The thing that's bothering me the most is the way things worked out. I never really believed that we would get together or anything. I was already prepared for her telling me about her new boyfriend or whatever. I was ready to get hurt but not in such a retarded way.
She was my motivation to improve myself (which I did), and I thought I'd have a good friend for a few years at least.
But now everything is just completely fucked. If I just went on that fucking train I would still happily be in the "friendzone"(I don't really believe in this term but whatever) and would've used my improved confidence to find some other qt eventually.
Okay gonna stop my sentimental bullshit now, sorry to bother you guys
No. 140955
>>140954She is a shit friend and shit person and you're giving her way too much leeway to play with your heart. I'm glad you were motivated to lose weight, but thats all the good your'e going to get out of her
Nothing is fucked, man. You dodged a bullet. I get that you cant force yourself to be happy at the moment, but that Apple was full of worms so even if you are hungry, even if it looks tasty, Just. Don't.
Ghost her completely. She's shown you what she is, so believe her the first time before you get hurt worse. There is no reason to ever even talk to her again, not even politr greetings.
No. 140957
>>140955I didn't only lose weight, I improved myself in all sorts of ways, and she really did help me.
But I know that you are right in general, it's just gonna be pretty hard without a motivation smh (god am I pathetic).
Will still do polite greetings though, otherwise that would just make me a drama queen
No. 140958
>>140952She told you twice that she doesn't want anything serious. That means she's likely to keep you around when she has a need for a romantic or sexual boost and nothing more. If you want to actually date someone then she said in plain English the answer will not be her.
Give her up and look elsewhere if you want a nice relationship.
No. 140959
>>140958It's not like I'm desperately looking for someone to date, I kinda slid into this whole situation.
Also the first time she told me didn't count because then I was way out of her league. But I understand where you're coming from and I know that you're right.
No. 140960
>>140949Because it's like a neon light saying "I'm insecure as fuck and I just want to hide", especially if he does it
all the time
No. 140961
>>140951So he straight out told you that he was trying to rape you? Holy fuck.
Also, defamation is a felony in my area, I don't know about you. He was past the point of being simpy a "creep"
Sage for samefag
No. 180436
Not exactly creeps but I'm sick of workplace clients calling me sweetie or getting the wrong idea when I give them generic customer service levels of attention.
The men here must think I have a personality disorder because I work hard on being as cheerful and polite as possible, until one of them gets too weird and then I just treat him as coldly as possible because these men are idiots who can't take hints. I just want good feedback from my job, I don't need gross flirting from sad middle aged men.
I'm not even attractive and I think that makes it worse, because I'm "approachable" or whatever.
>>140963Wow what a fucking creep. Since he's the boss nobody is going to stop him doing it again and again, and people rarely bother to get involved after they've left a job somewhere, especially if it means admitting to doing drugs or something. Depressing.
No. 180452
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>>180442lol cry moar, robot
No. 180462
>>180457Samefagging
Have you tried blocking him from everything? Though this is hypocritical coming from me bc I still can't decide to block the creep (that I know) from my sm. Though he hasn't talked to me in awhile…
No. 180466
>>180442>being this socially stunted that every interaction is a transaction>further believing that if every interaction is a transaction, women should give you their time, for free, so you can try to pick them upI'm not even a girl and you're retarded.
Can "creep" be applied to harmless but misguided men? Sure- but why would you take the risk of giving people benefit of the doubt?
No. 180504
>>180488Look at the replies to
>>140804 being creeped on is not the same as being complimented in any way. Creepers made you feel unsafe or degraded, it's not nice.
It's often about being approachable so your RBF might be helping you, you'll see lots of the posts in this thread are by people who say they aren't pretty.
No. 180521
>>180504>>180501I don't feel like I look unapproachable. I've talked about it with friends, and I don't think I have resting bitch face actually.
It's not just about street harassment. I work at a board game/trading card store where 90% of the customers are males. You think I would be a magnet for guys there. Wrong.
I'm not fat, and I wear makeup most days. I also never wear just jeans and a t-shirt. So I don't know what's wrong with me.
No. 180524
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>streaming vidya on twitch
>keep in mind im nowhere near famous. had about 10 viewers.
>webcam slot is super tiny
>im fully dressed, no cleavage, nothin
>still get "show me your feet" comments, and some dude telling me he wants to spank the shit outta me.
No. 180526
>>180521it's not a good thing lol
stop stressing
No. 180529
>>180457>i have wondered if i need to report this shit and show these messages to the police or somethingHmm… I think you should. It's not like this is going to prevent him from having children in the future, but maybe it's something? I don't know how are the laws where you live, but they could keep an eye on him or something
>>180479Sure, robot, keep telling yourself your personality is not the problem
>>180521You should be happy of not getting creeped on while you mind your own business on the street. Don't think about it.
No. 180531
>>180479I'll bite but myself and most women I know wouldn't agree.
I had this huge crush on a guy when I was 15. Saw him hanging out at a corner store near my house when I was buying some candy there. He gestures at me to come sit next to him. I barely ever talked to him before and just thought he was cute. After 5 minutes, he asked with a smirk if I wanted to make out. Getting vibes he doesn't really like me, just wants to try to get an easy lay since I'm just a shy, nerdy girl. I told him no and I went home. If a guy makes it clear he looks at you like you're a piece of meat and not a person, its just not attractive. For some girls, they may not care but I don't think it's the majority. Also depends on whether a girl just wants to have fun or wants someone to have a relationship with.
No. 180547
>>180526>>180529I'd rather be attractive and creeped on rather than ugly and not
Also I wish I got more attention at the store
No. 180550
>>180547As other anons have said, being harassed/creeped on doesn't mean you're attractive. And being attractive doesn't mean that you'll be creeped on.
>>180542Never had any trouble with Northern Europeans but Indians and Pakistanis are the fucking WORST. They are under the impression that every Westerner who talks to them out of politeness or obligation is interested
No. 180552
>>180547You don't have to be attractive to be harassed. Why are you acting like this is a good thing? You think being followed home is romantic or something? You wanna get groped too while you're at it? It's not just attention. It's not fun or flattering. Myself and other anons are afraid to be alone in public, and I wouldn't consider myself attractive
or approachable. All I am is easily overpowered. It's about being an object to shit on or stalk or take advantage of.
You should be grateful that you live in a safe area where men behave themselves. A lot of women don't have that luxury. You sound like a robot. Shit, you might be one. Please reevaluate either way.
No. 180576
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is it just me or does that girl in OP's pic look like Nicole Dollanganger
In junior high some guys thought it would be funny to convince some literally mentally retarded autist from special ed that I loved him. For example this dude literally drew a picture titled "[my name] naked" and plastered it on the door of our art class. When I asked our art teacher to take it down, she basically shamed me for being "intolerant" and told me that he is free to express himself. I ended up ripping that shit off myself. Writing about this still makes my blood fucking boil, being bullied by all the guys in my grade and a retard and told to just bear it because "tolerance :^)".
No. 180763
>>180549Let's be real, if it's really not worth it you'd make yourself uglier going out. As bad as being catcalled is it's still better than being ugly.
>>180552>>180550You don't have to be attractive, you just have to be not ugly.
No. 181031
>>181023>"If you were a guy, he wouldn't have done that"The general creep-test for sure
A group of builders at work are being low-key creepy with the usual stuff like petnames and constantly staring at me for no reason. They keep making jokes about Valentines day or other things that they just wouldn't bring up if I was a guy or comment on my appearance, it's tame for tradesmen but I still shouldn't have to put up with it. Obviously it's not enough to directly call out but it's enough to make me uncomfortable for the whole day and makes me want to dress as dowdy as possible, so I'm not sure what to do without invoking the cliche sensitive woman trope.
At first I thought I would just directly call them patronising petnames like Diddums or whatever in return but that might encourage them so instead I'm trying to work up the nerve to say "My name is ___ so call me that" and hope that they get the message and back off with everything else. I don't even want them knowing my name though honestly, but it's better than petnames.
No. 181047
I know this probably goes against the rules but I'll tell my story.
I had a best friend (well my only friend but meh) and they started going out with this girl. They were always together and we got along really well. In fact I thought she was quite attractive.
After about a year she was on chat by herself and asked me if I thought she was attractive and I said yes she was. And from then on over the next few months she'd talk to me alot and ask for more compliments. She would go swimming in the pool, come back to dry off, then sit down on the chair directly across from me and gradually spread her legs wider and wider, until bush started sprouting from the sides of the bikini. Eventually things escalated in chat as she asked about if I would have sex with her, and then how she wish she could have a threesome with me and her b/f but all the attention on her, except her b/f wouldn't let her. Needless to say this was starting to screw with me a bit, since I never really had interactions with girls before.
Then her b/f had to go on a trip and she asked if I could go shopping with her, and she wanted me to help pick out things and so we head to the stores and shes trying on the tightest, most revealing stuff she can find. She was flirty the whole time, and kept making hints like "if only you had a car" and stuff like that.
She asks me to go back to her place and she decides to have a shower, and leaves the door to the bathroom part open. And then after getting out of the shower she asks me to join her on the bed and she says "I'm not going to do anything, but you can do whatever you want to me." Needless to say, I wasn't going to cheat on my only friend with his g/f. And I left and walked home completely depressed about the whole thing. It got to the point where I figured I'd just move away since I'd be seeing her regularly around town otherwise.
A year after that happened, they broke up, because she'd cheated on him with another guy. Then from what I heard, she dumped him and got with a new guy. But her previous ex was apparently obsessed with her and beat the crap out of the b/f "for stealing her" and she decided to get back with the ex, "because it felt good to be protected" according to a friend that still speaks to her.
About 6 months after that, I get a message out of the blue from her, telling me she is going to get married to this guy, and how he knows Karate and could beat me up "What are you going to do about it?" was literally what she said. I told her she was still acting like a teenager, and that she hadn't changed at all. I meet up with my friend, and it ends up he had no idea about all the things she had been saying and doing while they were together, she never even asked about the threesome, or anything.
No. 184573
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>Be me, 23yo
>Go to Karaoke with pals
>Feeling confident
>Sing Dammit Janet with best friend
>Nailed it everyone loved it
>Some creepy uncle looking guy approaches our table
>Insists my friend sing some song for him
>She's chill so she says yes
>He turns to me
>Starts demanding I sing secret agent man
>nervous laughter
> "Haha I dunno, We'll see"
> "If the next song you sing isn't secret agent man you have to do it topless"
>Uncomfy knowing I've already got another duet with my friend in queue
>Song comes up and he's annoyed
>Almost spills drink on girl he's with when he throws his arms in the air to protest
>Retreat back to table
>Gross uncle follows me
>Is annoyed I didn't sing for him but sits himself at our table like he's one of the gang
>Harasses everyone about their lives leaving me for last
>Starts drilling me for bringing my brother to a bar because it makes me unapproachable
>Asks my age
>Tell him 23
>His jaw drops and lets out an obnoxious "MMM YEAH" while nodding his head
>Friend slips me a note that says "It'll be okay"
>Wanting to die
>He asks what my job is
>Start to tell him when he interrupts
>He shakes his head like he's in a daze and says "Sorry you have those Take-me-home-and-Molest-me eyes"
>Disgusted
>Friend asks me if I want to go for a smoke
>I don't smoke
>"Yes"
>Wait in Car for friends to finish their songs in Queue
>Went home and cried
No. 184578
>>184576>"If the next song you sing isn't secret agent man you have to do it topless"well depending how this came out, I wasn't there, he probably should have had some words thrown his way
>>Retreat back to table>Gross uncle follows me>Is annoyed I didn't sing for him but sits himself at our table like he's one of the gangand wow should this have never happened, but I'm not a polite canadian.
No. 184849
>>184820why are annoying ftm trans infiltrating lolcow
you kids are too cringeworthy