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No. 136925

Anyone else in here genuinely ugly? Not fat or anything like that, but just have a legit busted face?

Or is it just me? I feel like it's just me. I'm the only person I see outside that has a deformed face and looks disgusting. I just can't deal with it anymore because being an ugly woman is so hard, it feels like looks matter the most and I look repulsive. I honestly don't want to wake up most days.

>inb4 BDD

Never been diagnosed and I've been to so many therapists, they all realize I'm horrifically unattractive

>inb4 plastic surgery

Doesn't work and no money left for such shenanigans

>inb4 bully

Pls no.

Is anyone else here just disgusting in the face? Like can't-look-in-the-mirror level of ugly? How do we cope? ;_;

No. 136926

Anon, I've sat alone at popular bars on Saturday nights more times than I'd like to admit and have gotten completely ignored each time. And no, I didn't smell or act offensively.

What I'm saying is, you're not alone and you have at least one person to commiserate with.

… :(

No. 136927

Nah i'm an attractives girl.
Sorry for your life on nightmare mode…

No. 136928

>>136926
At least someone shares my feels :( sometimes it feels like I'm the only girl in the world who is unattractive lol


No. 136929

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>>136928
>sometimes it feels like I'm the only girl in the world who is unattractive lol

No. 136930

>>136925

ive seen a lot of uglies look pretty decent with lots of makeup and some nice hair. just take care of yourself and excersize and you will at least feel good even if you may not look good. you can always improve, even that weird autistic singing girl called nicole on youtube back in like 08 looked a lot better with makeup

No. 136931

>>136930
I do that but it doesn't help. My face is super asymmetrical. None of my facial features match and all of them are "weird". I'm not homely or gross or unhygienic, I'm just really weird to look at. Stupid genes.


No. 136932

>>136931
…….thats literally everbody?
god, youre so dumb

No. 136933

>>136932
Lmao mine is noticeable so… my nose literally tilts to the left and one of my eyes is noticeably lower than the other. Not to mention they're far apart and I'm prematurely wrinkling and also balding.

Don't be such a cunt some people are uglier than others


No. 136934

Me too. I care less and less as time goes on. just accept that not everyone in this world can be attractive and in the end everyone gets old and ugly anyway. idk. I used to think I'd never find a guy ho found me attractive, well I did. There's someone out there who will think you're beautiful. Just work hard and take care of yourself. thats much more important

No. 136935

>>136933
Your description sounds like an all out deformity rather than just being ugly. Either you have BDD or some sort of congenital abnormality.

No. 136936

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No. 136937

>>136926
>Never been diagnosed and I've been to so many therapists, they all realize I'm horrifically unattractive
Can you be diagnosed for being a pathelogical liar? Therapists dont say this they will always lie that you are pretty.

No. 136938

>>136935
Yeah I definitely do have some sort of facial deformity. Maybe some minor FAS or something, and when I was little I broke my nose and my parents did nothing about it. Also I'm just fucking ugly. How do you explain Eggman being ugly?


>>136937
They don't say I'm ugly or pretty, the last time I mentioned to a therapist how I felt about myself she took a long pause and changed the subject and asked me what I was doing for the holidays. Usually it's shit like this >>136934 "take care of yourself and there are so much more important things in life"


No. 136939

>put on makeup
>skin is shit
>eyes look beady
>makeup accentuates facial flaws
>wash off face
>take a nap
>have a dream that I was pretty

No. 136940

>>136939
>makeup accentuates facial flaws
Ugh that's me, lipstick and eyeshadow just don't suit me at all. I look worse.
I don't think I'm ugly though I'm just average. I have my good days I guess.

No. 136941

do you ever have dreams about a world where everyone wears masks and only judges people on their merit and body, not face?

i do

No. 136942

I have low eyebrows and a long face with a big nose. Usually glasses can cover the length issue somewhat but without them I have a very mannish looking face.

My family pestered me for years to wear contacts and I hate the reaction I get from people when I have them in.
>g-gee anon you look so…different
>is something wrong? You look kind of angry?
>woah anon when you take your glasses off you look like a guy!

No. 136943

>>136941
Sometimes I think about converting to Islam just so I can cover my disgusting face and body with a burqa every day

No. 136944

>>136943
Well, you technically don't have to convert to do that. I know what you mean tho :/

No. 136945

>>136939
too real
i can't even better my looks with makeup because of my shitty skin. my makeup techniques are okay and foundation only highlights the uneven texture even if i'm not caking it on

that and wearing makeup only makes my skin worse.
i just can't win

No. 136946

Makeup helps my eyes but just draws more attention to how massive my nose is, like the more I try to doll up, the more weird my huge nose looks in contrast with it all. My whole jawline is bad too, just too big for my face, so even a nosejob won't be enough to fix my ugliness OTL

No. 136947

>>136945
Maybe try skincare routine? Doesn't have to be expensive, and anyway, taking care of your skin is more important than makeup.

No. 136948

>>136947
i do have a routine, it just isn't doing anything for me

No. 136949

>>136948
Curious, what is it?

No. 136950

>>136940
i have natural lip lines that people only get from smoking 5 packs a day for 10 years, and they make lipstick just look like shit, they're so deep.

skin is shitty but in april im going to be doing hardcore amounts of chemical peels as per my derm's recommendations and hopefully i can at least have nice skin.

foundation cakes on my skin. the only nice feature i have is my eyes but they're very far apart :(

>>136941
i do

>>136949
i'm not that anon but i do this:
>double cleanse (first with an oil-based cleanser to take off makeup/oils, then with a foam cleanser), two times a week i'll use an exfoliating cloth around areas that aren't breaking out
>tone, let dry
>BHA/AHA exfoliator
>moisturizer in dry spots only

i've tried prescription stuff like clynomycin(SP?) in the past, but it jsut dries out my skin and does nothing for my breakouts. my breakouts are ONLY on my chin and jaw (they're hormonal), the rest of my skin is usually actually really okay… im just doing this to tide me over until i get real treatment or finally go on accutane.


No. 136951

>>136950
Have you tried Curology? Might be worth checking out

No. 136952

>>136949
AHA/BHA, cetaphil cleanser and moisturizer, murad clarifying masks, aztec clay and acanya

i use the mask around twice a week

No. 136953

>>136938
aye well it's fucking true. stop being a little bitch just because you're ugly

No. 136954

>>136951
Not available in my country, wish it was

>>136953
The only person being a little bitch here is you, why don't you go try derailing another thread instead?


No. 136955

I'm sorry ur ugly OP. Maybe one day if you work hard enough you can buy a new face.

No. 136956

>>136953
you sound like a whore even through text

No. 136957

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I have a snaggle tooth which makes me so fucking self conscious to smile, my teeth are also slightly yellow and I have a bit of a hooked nose. I don't think I'm straight up hideous but I'm not ''beautiful'' either.. I've also developed an inferiority complex due to being half jap, it just makes me sad seeing how my dad's new daughters have blonde hair and blue eyes and I get stuck with shitty brown eyes, I just know they'll grow up to be beautiful white qts and I'll die in a ditch wearing an 'Elliot Rodger was right' t-shirt.

No. 136958

>>136942
anon, you sound moe tbh

No. 136959

>>136957
Kick the elliot roger shit right out and appreciate what you have! I have a snaggletooth as well, but i worked hard and now i have invisalign. You can too. It can be fixed. How old are you? Blonde hair is not magical and unattainable, you can bleach your hair, but tbh half jap/koreans/east asians in general are like the most beautiful people no matter what they're mixed with. Learn 2 luv ya self

No. 136960

>>136957
ud be surprised how many people are not into the blonde hair/blue eyes combo

No. 136961

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List of my ugly facial features:

Bulbous nose tip
My nose is also slightly slanted to the left
Large teeth
Overbite - quite a big one
Bit of a receding chin
Low set eyebrows
Hooded eyelids
I have deep set eyes too so my under eye cirles look a bit like the picture attached - i'm white though
Hazel eye colour - sorry other hazel eyed anons - i've always hated my greeny browny yellowy eyes

Hope you feel better OP - there are lots of ugly people out there. And despite the above description painting a horrible picture, overall i don't think i look that bad at all and would say i'm average to good looking - makeup, having my hair down and wearing nice clothes makes all the difference.

No. 136962

I have super crooked teeth and I look horrible without makeup

No. 136963

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My face looks ….off. every feature is asymmetrical. i used to be cute when i was young but i mouth breathe and chewed on one side. Otherwise i would be at least decent.

No. 136964

I have busuzawa's nose. I look just as mannish, if not worse, because I also have stoner eyes with very low eyebrows and a giant chin when I smile. I like my body and hair, which I worked into because I used to hate the way they looked. But there is no fix to my face, it has so many issues.

I've been bullied and shittalked irl for my looks, even had people trying to see the potential in me and "fix me" like in one of these threads. I try to do so on my own but knowing that even if I put effort into my looks, it won't ever change my gross face, is apalling. I feel you, OP.

No. 136965

My face is really uneven- left eyebrow and eye are lower, right side of mouth is lower, and my two front teeth are off to the right (like Tom Cruise). Also heavy lids and eyebags. My face sucks.

No. 136966

>fried hair (usually I make it look decent enough but its still bit fucked. working on changing this at least.. pretty hair makes all the difference
>downward slanting eyes
>wide nose

also one side of my face sags quite a it after I had a stroke a few years ago. sucks man. My features are also weird in that they are chubby and babyish but I have lines and combined with the sagging they make me look haggard in natural light and stuff :/ this means I'm very photogenic though as they don't show..

also saggy wonky boobs but that im kind of not so bothered about. actually not bothered in general. I've got a fairly qt bf so its okay.

No. 136967

>>136956
no, I'm a fellow ugly person. Maybe my comment of "look after yourself there's more important things.. etc" won't quite reach some people. but it's still valid. Sure, it's ard to love yourself. I don't love myself but I have at least accepted my faults somewhat. What's the use in caring

No. 136968

>>136957
>

Why do people lie on the internet about their ethnicity tho

No. 136969

>>136968
I figure part japs would be weebs by default, so they'd e attracted to a site like this. It's not that unlikely.

No. 136970

>>136940
Lipstick and eyeshadow looks good on everybody, you just need to know how to apply it well, make it look good with your lip- and eye shapes and what colors look best on your skintone.

If make-up highlights your flaws you're doing something wrong.

No. 136971

>>136963 Is that you in the pic? Because if so, damn girl you're pretty.

No. 136972

>>136957
Nothing's wrong with brown eyes. I know shitload of blonde haired, blue eye girls who wished they had brown hair and brown eyes and vice versa. People always crave what they can't have.

No. 136973

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>>136971
its another girl. i look more like this

No. 136974

>>136973
My advice to you is, keep your hair pretty and lustrous. Have a style that frames your face. Even though I can't know what you look like, I think most people can hit at least a 6/10 if they try. For the record, I'm wonky looking and a fattie.

No. 136975

I have kind of sunken eyes with dark pigmentation around it, a bulbous tip on my nose that looks really oily (I use strips/masks all the time, no help), thin lips, a man's jaw, yellow teeth and a sort of dim resting face. Oh and high forehead with deep wrinkles.

I am grateful for naturally nice eyebrows and non acne skin.

Sometimes I think I look OK. I'll put on some light makeup, look at myself at certain angles and sort of "blur" what bothers me. But then someone takes a photo and I look like grumpy and mannish, setting me back to square one.

But then sometimes I like to think that once I'm ruled out for dating material people see me for me, they won't BS.

>>136939
I have that with foundation. Eyeliner works on everyone I feel, but with foundation it's like it highlights any possible problem areas, making it lumpy or fuzzy.
Twice now I've went to department store and had my makeup professionally done, with each product costing about £30-50?
I looked like shit at the end, about 10 years older and just a trampy mess.

No. 136976

>>136973
Lose weight

No. 136977

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My face is fat and my cheeks are huge,I look like a retarded chipmunk.My skin is also really bad.I have pimples on my forehead,they are under my skin,I've been having them for 8 years and they don't heal.(pic related)

No. 136978

>>24094Forgot to spoiler,sorry.

No. 136979

>>136977
How regularly do you wash your hair? Sometimes oily hair makes forehead pimples worse.

Try straight witch hazel. It will reduce redness and swelling while clearing out spot-causing bacteria without over-drying your skin. Remember it takes 6+ weeks for most products to have a huge effect so don't give up too soon. Only use noncomedogenic products on your skin. Products with salicyclic acid can help, so look with moisturisers like that.

See a dermatologist if all else fails. Sometimes you'll need something stronger.

No. 136980

>>136977
How often do you wash your pillow?

No. 136981

>>136979
I wash my hair every three days because my hair is naturally dry and frizzy.I'm currently seeing a dermatologist and he prescribed me some doxycycline antibiotic 100mg(I have to take one pill a day) and isotrexin gel(I have to apply it before I go to sleep)I've been following this treatment plan for almost one month but I don't see much imporvement with the comedonal acne on my forehead,it did work on the purulent pimples I had on my cheeks,they're almost completely healed.He also told me to keep my hair out of the affected area so I clip my bangs back.I use noncomedogenic products,I wash my face in the morning and before I go to sleep and I use avene thermal water and moisturizer with SPF.Oh,and my dermatologist told me to follow the treatment plan for three months,but I don't know…I'm kind of hopeless because I've been to a dermatologist four years ago and it didn't help me with my forehead pimples.

I've never heared of witch hazel,but I'm definitely going to give it a try!
>>136980
I change my pillowcase once a week.

No. 136982

Instead of telling my story that no one is probably interested in, I am going to share what made me ugly before and how I fixed it.

>bad skin

This was my biggest struggle. I went to dermatologists, the Clinque counter. Nothing helped. They all kept prescribing shit that kept drying the ever-loving shit out of my skin. The cure was to moisturize the shit out of my skin. Seriously. That fucktard dermatologist didn't even realize how dry my skin was and that that was causing me to have acne. My regime is wash with gentle cleansers (like Cetaphil) and moisturize (I like the yellow Clinique moisturizer) in the morning and at night. At one point, these idiots had me washing my face 3 times a day and stripping it with harsh toners and acids.

>Make-up

All I was doing was caking on concealer, drawing eyeliner only on the bottom of my eyes, and completely foregoing mascara, blush/bronzer, etc. I am sure you can imagine how hideous I was. After having properly moisturized skin, I just do the basics. BB cream or light foundation, concealer under eyes and around nose, eyeliner in top lash line only, mascara, blush/bronzer, light eyebrow pencil. I follow the rule of natural eyeshadows/no eyeshadows with lip color, or more apparent eyeshadows with natural lip colors.

>Weight

I was never seriously fat. In fact, I am probably the heaviest right now (5'6", 140 lbs) so I am back on drinking nothing but water and constantly asking myself "am I actually hungry?" before I eat something and while I am eating. That is pretty much all I have to do. I gained weight because of a bout of depression but I need to take responsibility.

>Personality

Even though one would consider my personality now "fake", smiling a lot, saying hello to everyone, in general being over the top nice makes you attractive. Before when I assumed everyone hated me and people who were being genuinely nice to me were making fun of me, I was rightfully called a dumb bitch.

No. 136983

>>136977
Have you ever had your hormones checked? Chronic acne can come from hormone disorders like PCOS. I know for some with PCOS, nothing besides birth control treatment will help with acne.

No. 136984

>>136983
PCOS anon here. Yeah get checked for that, it's an issue with hormones and thyroid and a bunch of shit that just snowballs together. It's also pretty common. I was getting a bit of a downy soft layer but I have blonde hair everywhere, and the hair shaft is quite thin, so my diet change was enough to shed the hair slowly and it hasn't really come back as thick. Also if you do have PCOS, check for type 2 diabetes apparently we're very susceptible to it, plus excess weight gain when you haven't done anything different in diet. I do a low carb low sugar diet, it's helped a lot.

No. 136985

Hey does anyone here have a holy grail tip for extreme dry hair? My hair is sooo dry even when I take really good care of it it still remains somewhat dry-ish.

No. 136986

I'm naturally gross, and not even a decent person to make up for it. Sometimes I get really jealous of others, and make the occasional attempt at fixing various problems (teeth, skin, hair, etc) but I lose motivation when results are minimal. Such as life.

No. 136987

>>136985
What's your routine? What products do you use?

No. 136988

I'm a quarter east asian and 3/4th white. I should have won the genetic lottery.
But no. I have black hair black eyes yellow sickly skin, a huge potato nose, eyes too close together and a droopy completely undefined face. It's like I inherited the worst traits possible from both sides, meanwhile my parents are still extremely attractive at almost 50. Fuck

No. 136989

>>136988
Oh yeah and i have disgustingly crooked teeth. Like even braces wouldn't fix it because one of my teeth just grew completely sideways. And I'm slim but skinnyfat as fuck and not in a good way. Done sorry

No. 136990

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I have the worst snaggletooth, give it a chance an it'll stick out a good half inch, but ive come to accept its place in my life although every time i smile it shows real bad, like it started off just a bump on my gums as a kid but it grew through freakishly and dentist (damn you public dental system kek) and mum just left it, the main problem is, apart from it being aesthetically unappealing, it doesnt point downwards like a normal toof should, its at such an angle that if i ever smack my face or get punched it WILL spit my lip open and has punctured holes right through before like fml. I'm so self conscious i honestly cant remember the last time i smeiled in public, because when i do flash a grin at a stranger, returning a sentiment, i can just see their gaze drop down to the vamp/fox/freak tooth poking out and their expression is just ah what the shit. It grows still. I'm a literal troll.

pic related.
this ep. scared the shit out of me as a kid, a prophecy fulfilled.

No. 136991

>really thin hair with widows peak and bald areas
When I put my hair up (which I always do) I spend most of the time arranging it to cover the maximum amount of bald spots.

>tiny close set slanted eyes

>massive square jaw and jutting out cheekbones
>broad as fuck shoulders
>zero boobs or hips
>acne scars and scars from constant face rubbing
>family made fun of me all my life for being ugly like calling me meg from family guy
>parents left me with known child milestones as a kid thinking I wouldn't get molested because too ugly
>didn't get molested kek

The only guys that have ever been nice to me either wanted to copy off my homework or I realized they were gay (after months of crushing on them) and just were being nice because they felt sorry for me.

I just create my own fantasy versions of reality where I'm pretty. I've been doing it since I was around 7.

No. 136992

>>136991
woo not getting molested
>I love happy endings

but yeah I too have been dubbed Meg by relatives and also a bastard ex in the past.
what the shit is with humans eh?

No. 136993

>>136983
>>136984
PCOS is apparently really hard to diagnose in my country because most doctors don't even know it exists(the medical system is kinda fucked here).I already did an ovary ultrasound at my dermatologist's recommendation and I have small cysts on my ovaries.My gynecologist told me it is normal to have cysts at my age because it is a sign of fertility,but I'm quite skeptical about that.

I'm also really hairy,but I always tought it is genetical because my mom also has a lot of body hair.Maybe my mom has undiagnosed PCOS,I read it can be ereditary.I have frequent abdominal pain and yeast infections,although my period is always on time.

I'm going to an endocrinologist as soon as possible to get my hormones checked( I've never had them checked).

This motivates me to get my diet together and get over my ED.

No. 136994

>>136985
Try the coconut oil hair mask,but keep the oil in for at least 4 hours.The banana and yougurt mask works as well.Use products made for dry hair(pretty obvious) try to get the suflate-free ones.Don't wash your hair everyday,I do it every three days.When you blow-dry your hair point the hair dryer down.I also use a hair mask and conditioner every time I wash my hair.

No. 136995

>>136993
Cysts can be normal, a lot of women get them that don't have PCOS. What determined my PCOS was a combination of things, including an ultrasound - external and internal - every 3 months for a year, tracking my periods and having a good history of my period schedule from a few years prior. What sealed the deal was the ultrasounds, because every time I had one A) they were all in different spots every time, none of them seemed to be continuous from the time before, B) there were a lot of cysts. 15-30.

I used to have ED when I was 12-20, and yes doing that to your system can kickstart the already dormant process of PCOS if it's hereditary. You put your thyroid and hormones through literal hell with an ED of any kind. (I was a fat, fat child and at 9 I was on weight watchers. It really fucked with my developing idea of food ect so it took awhile to get over. Plus, once my depression got medicated that shit got WAYYYY easier.)

That being said I have known middle eastern women who are just….hairy. Just how it is. No other issues. I only recommend seeing someone about this because it sounds like there are a few other issues. However you're missing the one the vast majority of women with PCOS have, which is irregular or unpredictable periods. Not all the time, it can come and go. Mine has been since day 1, but reproductive issues run in my family for women on both sides.

To get tested for PCOS yes those hormones and thyroids are good, if they come back normal that doesn't mean you're off the hook!! You could have PCOS that hasn't reached the level the fuck with those systems drastically, one of the indications can be having diabetes like symptoms because you're body is slowly being unable to produce the hormones to get your body to function properly.

I would say ultrasounds and a lot of them are good too, in case you switch doctors they're very dramatic pieces of evidence. It shouldn't matter but it does, slapping down x-rays with doctors notes feels satisfying as fuck.

Good luck, I'll check this thread every so often if you have questions feel free to ask. Also, reddit has a quiet but relatively informative and supportive group for PCOS.

No. 136996

I'm fucking ugly too, anon. I wish I was a guy, I could just be smart and rich and no one would care if I looked like a foot.

No. 136997

I just get over it, I mean like not all of us can be gorgeous looking and pretty, ya know. Sigh. Lucky people.
I have fucking terrible eyes, by eyes are like the photo in >>136961
Always look off.
Skin is horrible, all acne scars and discoloration and when I were makeup I break out so much cause my skin is that sensitive.
My lips literally are that thin, but much smaller in width, my nose has this huge bulbous tip and i have a butt chin. Probably one of the most hairiest ladies on earth, actually considering getting my hormones checked, the most sensestive skin in the world, and with any type of hair removal my skin just goes crazy. The only thing going for me is that I have an okay body, skinny with C Cup boobs

No. 136998

I can't tell if I'm ugly or not but I definitely know that I look a lot older than I am because I'm 19 and already have fucking forehead and laugh line wrinkles.

>inb4 "use sunscreen/don't tan too much"

I've done this literally my whole life, I guess it's just how my features developed.

I also have a big nose and underbite and my face looks stupid if I pull my hair back. I feel like I have so many unappealing features and even if I can pull off eyeshadow and lipstick my face still just looks wrong.

No. 136999

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i have hooded eyes that make me look constantly stoned/retarded, huge tear troughs, nasolabial folds, a bulbous, upturned nose, a recessed chin, and gigantic fat cheeks that make my face look like it belongs on someone 3x my size. (ever since learning about 'bulimia face' here i've been paranoid that people think i have that). shit sucks man. once i graduate and get a real job i'm going to put most of my paychecks toward plastic surgery.

No. 137000

>>136982

This post inspired me to write about what made me gross and how I fixed it.

>gross hair

Try the more expensive shampoos, I personally enjoy yves rocher products as they are gentle on my hair and also be sure to find the haircut that suits you. Conveniently mine is the fringe so I just cut my own hair.

>clothing

You don't need anything expensive, try stores like forever 21 or even the thrift store but I wouldnt reccomend it to starters. Please dont do walmart.

>Posture

Practice consciously keeping your back as straight as you can, chin up and shoulders back. I used to literally hunch down and stare at the floor and I'd get horrible neck pain from just looking down all the time.

>Makeup

I don't wear any now but I used to buy the cheap shit and look awful. Again, don't walmart. Save your money and go to sephora or you'll regret it

>exfoliant

I used to use the St. Ives apricot scrub but I'd shred my face off. Be sure to try a sugar scrub in the shower if this happens to you because it'll dissolve before you can do too much damage.

No. 137001

>>136963
Dude…this is the exact type of girl my crush is into.

Sadly the only thing I have in common with her is being azn (southeast?). I have a naturally round face and stubby body. Not very elegant.

Sigh, it's things like this that ~trigger~ my inner anachan. lol

No. 137002

>>137000
>don't walmart

On that note, Target might be okay for some cosmetics/skincare and clothing. Always check reviews.

No. 137003

>>137000
>>137002
Lmao y'all are full of shit.

Yeah you shouldn't just walk into a drugstore/supermarket and buy any makeup you see, but some items by the brands sold there are just as good as the ones at Sephora. A high price point does not automatically mean a quality product, and unless something from Sephora is super exceptional or unlike anything you can get at the drug store, you might as well try and find a decent quality dupe of it and save yourself some money.

You can spend thousands on makeup and still look like trash. You have to know how to shop for it and more importantly how to wear it to really look good.

No. 137004

>>137003
Also what's up with hating on walmart for clothes? They have ridiculously cheap tanktops and camis that are great quality, and shit like sleep pants and socks as well. You don't need to buy pricier basics at other stores. Walmart/target are good places for those things since they have a lot of clearance sales constantly. Don't spend more than you have to on simple things.

No. 137005

>>137003
For someone who has spent their whole life presumably not learning about what makes a good makeup product good, or what kind of cuts are flattering on their body, directing them to a place like Walmart, which has an overall lower quality, almost guarantees that they won't improve.

You can find decent stuff at big box stores, but you need a good/trained eye and lots of knowledge to start with. If you have someone IRL who can walk with you to the store and point out the good and the bad, then I'd say go for it.

But if anon doesn't have that kind of buddy, then I would point her to a place with an overall higher average quality.

No. 137006

>>136987

Honestly I can't settle on a routine.. but I'm currently doing this:
I deep condition my hair with hot coconut oil treatment, leave it in overnight and wash my hair with a gentle shampoo en use a conditioner. I haven't found a shampoo and conditioner I love yet but usually use something targeted at dry hair and as natural as possible. In the morning I use argan oil or biosilk on extreme days. I keep washing my hair at an absolute once a week max. (My hair doesn't get oily before washing it so it's absolutely not gross or dirty at all!) Don't use heat on it or dye it, or anything that damages it.

No. 137007

I have a long face, according to my sis as long as Farrah from teen mom, but with a higher forehead and shorter nose and I HATE it. It's my biggest insecurity, if only my face was a bit shorter.. I don't feel beautiful or cute with it at all.. It is oval though… anyone advice on what looks good with this face shape? ://

No. 137008

>>137005
But why? If you don't know anything about makeup to the point where you can't even look online to do research about what's good and bad, then why should you throw away hundreds of dollars just to waste it on makeup that you're not going to know how to apply and will look shit in for at least a couple months?

Even if you end up buying shit makeup at first it's better to have spent <$50 on your learning materials than hundreds.

No. 137009

>>137008
As a fug awkward teen, I once blew $300 on Sephora. The upfront cost is exorbitant, but I had also booked along with it a consultation + make-up application lesson. In the end, it was worth it, and frankly was cheaper than years of blindly fumbling around with drugstore products would have been.

The point is not that 'cheap' products are automatically worse or that 'brand-name' products are automatically better. The point is that you'll learn more about makeup application if you hit up the Sephora SAs than the ones at Walmart or wherever. There's also the psychological aspect - where do you feel like you want to be more beautiful?

I agree that if you're particularly savvy and naturally talented at makeup/fashion, you'll do fine with scouring reviews for cheaper products and learn application basics online. (tbh most people don't have the capacity for this but that's another story.) Keep in mind that there is also a cost associated with trial and error, and spending more upfront may help you avoid more costs down the road.

So…in the end…you gotta do what works for you. Guess there is no right or wrong answer.

No. 137010

>>137004

how are you out of Walmart and target clothes? I can only do xs shit at target and kids stuff at walmart is too big for me.

No. 137011

>>137010
Kids clothes are too big? Are you Ashley?

No. 137012

>>136997
Asides from skin problems you sound perfectly fine.

No. 137013

I consider myself somewhat ugly. I have a big round nose and dark circles and a weak chin with somewhat ugly teeth with olive skin but pale. I have been told I look like a pale arab luna lovegood and Cassie from skins who are probably some of the less attractive actresses. My bf says he likes that I look strange and I remind him of a pale fortune teller but I feel weird because he's always dated really white popular girls and I am the worst kind of mixed.

No. 137014

>>137013
That and my lips are thin but I know enhancers for them will look even more awful on me.

No. 137015

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>>136958
I look like an IRL FKMT character if that's the type of moe you're thinking of.

Sometimes I have good days where I think my face looks OK but other times I can't bear to look in a mirror. I've heard people say things occasionally about unconventional attractiveness but I think I fall a little too much on the ugly side for that. I just hope the day I get my license renewed next month is one of the good ones.

No. 137016

>>137013
both cassie and luna have people thirsting for them so it's hardly a bad thing to look like them

No. 137017

>>137000
>>137003
There are lots of great drugstore products but with a lack of testers, sample kits, mirrors and good lighting it is such a crapshoot finding stuff that matches well.

Drugstore makeup has also gotten a lot better in the past couple of years. If they are in your twenties now telling them they should have just gotten makeup from the CVS as a teen isn't accurate to the then reality of poor shadow pigmentation, thick foundation formulas etc. Its nicer now but the lack of samples and testers is the biggest hurdle, and regardless . . . drugstore makeup is expensive now!

I don't want to spend $16 on a foundation that might not even match or break me out. I wish there was more makeup in the $15-$35 range, especially for foundation.

No. 137018

I hate my appearance so much, has made want to leave the house less and less each day.

My nose is long and kinda wide, low brows, thin lips and my skin is shit. Over the years I started getting lines at the corner of my mouth, looks like I am always frowning and I have nasolabial folds. I also have a genetic double chin that will never go away, no matter how thin I am.

I got fillers in my lips, cheeks for my folds and lines at the corner of my mouth. It's really hard to keep up with because of how expensive it is and I haven't been able to get more at the moment. Everything came back and I feel like look worse than before and I worry about looking like a gross old hag when I'm only in my 20's.

Not going to lie, looking so disgusting has made me really suicidal.I can't even look in the mirror anymore without getting depressed. I'm also sad that I will never be able to wear cute clothing like lolita, I tried but I looked so gross.

No. 137019

>>137018
I have been and get suicidal too with my self esteem. I just want to be beautiful.

No. 137020

>>137019
Sucks so much how some girls are just born with all the luck. I know this one girl, super duper pretty and looks like a model. Never had work done and she still looks amazing without makeup.

Whats the point in living when your ugly? Your life is pretty much screwed if your a ugly girl.

No. 137021

>>137017
This is so true, and I'd even forgotten to mention the fact that you can't swatch test at Walmart, etc.

You're spot-on about the generational difference. Drugstore/big box makeup -has- gotten better just in the past few years, but the price point has slowly risen. The price difference may not be as great as you expect it to be. So it might be worth it to spend the few extra dollars at Sephora to make sure that the colors/formulation are a good match for you.

Also, Sephora has a ridiculously lenient return policy, so there's pretty much no risk (as long as you don't abuse it).

No. 137022

>>137018
I'm really sorry anon, I have some of the same problems plus other flaws I hate on my face and body and I know how you feel, but try to remember that the average person doesn't look too great either and even if you think most people look better (which probably isn't even true) remember no one really gives a fuck about how beautiful or not anyone else is because they are too concerned with their own lives and appearances. That's what helps me anyway, knowing that when I'm out and about in public I don't really give a fuck if there are average/ugly people around me and they don't give a fuck if I'm average/ugly either. Plus all those other people seem to be going about their lives just fine even though they aren't very beautiful so I guess I can too.

No. 137023

>>137022
>That's what helps me anyway, knowing that when I'm out and about in public I don't really give a fuck if there are average/ugly people around me and they don't give a fuck if I'm average/ugly either. Plus all those other people seem to be going about their lives just fine even though they aren't very beautiful so I guess I can too.

This is really true. It helps if you go to large concerts or festivals (20k+ people, even 5k+ really) and see just how average everyone is, and how they're living life without their self-consciousness affecting them, at that moment anyway.

Something that also helps is when I'm at a store, hardware, grocery, doesn't matter, and the cashier appears really confident in herself even though her love handles are spilling over her jeans, or her face is nothing but acne, or something else that I don't have an issue with but possibly 'fear' happening to me, then there's no reason I can't be confident as well with the issues I DO have.

No. 137024

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>>136959
>tbh half jap/koreans/east asians in general are like the most beautiful people no matter what they're mixed with.
I think I have a LOT of internalized racism, whenever I see a beautiful blonde girl I think ''I bet my crush would love me if I were white and looked like this'' people are always talking about protecting the beauty of the white women or whatever and I'm just sat here feeling like an abomination.

No. 137025

>>137024
I felt this way a lot as a teen.

(Obligatory disclaimer: I'm not SJW, I don't do identity politics, I'm not left wing, etc.)

The fact is that if you live in a majority white country, the standard of beauty is going to be…surprise…white. (Btw, even non-blonde white girls fall victim to the blonde archetype.)

But keep in mind that if you're not Caucasian, you're only going to destroy yourself trying to look/"be" Caucasian. It's cliche, but you really have to learn what looks good on you and YOUR features.

I'm Asian myself and my self-confidence got absolutely destroyed after my crush/friend, who had confided in me that he had an Asian thing going on (lol), eventually settled down with a blonde Midwestern type. But I realized that it's so silly to hate yourself for something you can't change. And honestly, if you hate yourself that much, it's certainly not your race that's repelling others.

No. 137026

I hate being an ugly girl. I want to kill myself.

Yeah everyone around me is average, but I'm far fucking uglier. On top of an ugly, weird face that people have made fun of FOREVER, I have shitty skin, wrinkles, acne and a shitty body. I have thin greasy hair because I've been balding, and it gets greasy too quickly no matter what I do.

I honestly dont know why I haven't killed myself yet.


No. 137027

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>>137022
It's hard for me to deal with because I do see how I'm treated compared to pretty girls. People act like I'm a waste of space or like I don't exist. I can't even wear girly cute clothing because I have had people tell me I'm too ugly to dress like that.

Also explains why I was treated like shit or ignored by teachers in school. Since there was a study confirming attractive people getting treated better by teachers. I also grew up having no friends because everyone would make fun of me.

It seems to be easier to get by in life if your a ugly guy, all you need is money or to be nice and funny. If your a ugly girl, nothing really can make up for that.

No. 137028

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>>136960
him: "i find blonde hair and light skin demonic looking"
4 years later:
him (about his white-ass blonde long-distance gf): "i love her so much she's helped me through sooooo much"

cries

No. 137029

>>137028
oh, anon :(

No. 137030

>>137029
Yeah. It was rough. :(

No. 137031

>>137028
Both of you sound really petty.

No. 137032

>fat and ugly
>lose weight
>just ugly with loose skin
I just want to be a pretty white girl

No. 137033

>>137027
I feel that image on an emotional level.

I'm not obnoxiously ugly and I've had a fair amount of people have crushes on me, find me attractive, ect, to me it's pretty obvious I have bdd but here at the only things I see when I look at myself.

>Big forehead combined with awful hairline

>Somehow permanently greasy hair
>Eyes too small and close together
>Dark undereye circles, always pink skin
>Eyebrows too far apart (why)
>Awful amount of freckles everywhere
>Long, large, hooked nose
>Chubby cheeks and boyish jawline/chin
>No upper lip, wide mouth
>Huge teeth making me a horseface
>Bad skin despite taking care of it (bad genetics)
>No waist definition to speak of
>More atrocious freckles and birthmarks covering entire body, too many to hide
>Covered in hair even if it is thin and light
>Stubby legs
>Strangely broad body
>Really, I have to buy a size up for clothes to not accentuate how strangely broad I am

No. 137034

>>137033
>I'm not obnoxiously ugly and I've had a fair amount of people have crushes on me, find me attractive, ect

holy shit iktf

it literally feels like people are lying to my face because all I can see in the mirror is a fat disgusting troll

No. 137035

>acne
>wide nose, not just Rudolph-esque bulbous tip but also upturned + bump in bridge
>tiny mouth
>huge jowls
>tiny beady eyes. So hooded a friend doing my makeup once laughed and asked "where the fuck are your eyelids"
>perma dark undereye circles since toddlerhood
>angry bitch eyebrows
>crimson chin
>frizzy, straw-like hair
>icthyosis vulgaris
>ana-chan calves but pancake thighs
>beaver teeth

Remove me from the gene pool

No. 137036

I'm so ugly, I just want to die. I have a weird shaped head and small, close together eyes that always look like I'm squinting, a big pointy nose, a huge square jaw, thin lips, and the most unbelievable nasolabial folds. I want to cry just thinking about my disgustingly ugly face. I also have bad skin and yellow teeth, even though I take care of my skin and brush my teeth religiously. My hair is so short and will never grow long.

I work out five times a week, cardio and strength training, but I'll never be able to change my wonky boobs. I'm just ugly. I'm so ugly I should kill myself because I'll never be able to have a meaningful relationship with anyone. I'm revolting.

No. 137037

>>137036
You sound pretty attractive tbh.

No. 137038

I know I'm not ugly but I can't ever shake this unsatiated need to pummel the shit out of myself for not being perfect.

No. 137039

Who else here is constantly bloated? :/ I'm pretty sure I have IBS. My stomach bloating is so bad it looks like I'm pregnant, no joke. I wonder if supplements or probiotics would help at all.

(Put this in the ugly thread because I have an ugly body)

No. 137040

>>137039
this omg, I'm with you here anon. I am skinny but because of my ibs i have really bad bloating and look about 2 months preggers. I am going to start doing wrap treatments though. You can by saraan wrap and sports bandages and wrap your stomache at night and basically it will sweat out all of your water weight. It's a temporary solution but i think it could help

No. 137041

I read a thread on /r9k/ yesterday about how ugly older women were compared to "prime" girls and most of them said that over 25 was considered old to them. I'm only 22 but it's been depressing me so much that I actually lost sleep last night. I know it's pathetic to get that upset over /r9k/ but it just makes me worry if they are actually representative of the average guy in this situation. I'm already really insecure about my appearance and have general anxiety about getting older and now I feel so much worse.

No. 137042

I'm glad my face is ok, it's just my body

>covered in body hair, can't even wear tshirts without shaving

>uneven skin tone and discoloration
>weird vagina (it looks like Himekas exactly but I'm light skinned so it's even worse)
>eczema on body that won't go away
>severe stretch marks
>weird dip on butt
>weird hips

I work in retail and working the fitting room completely smashes my self esteem. Tfw no flawless body like girls in fitting room ):

No. 137043

>>137041
/r9k/ are NOT average males. They are below average males who never leave the house/internet and don't interact with anyone IRL, male or female. They have no idea how the real world works.

No. 137044

>>137041
>>137041

I'm the OP of this thread and I saw that thread.

Seeing you post about it makes me really sad. I don't have any advice to offer to you because yeah, it's a very prevalent way of thinking amongst men today. They aren't "normal" though IMO, only flawed/shitty men think like this. Men who are going to think that as a way to cope with their own inadequacy.

A lot of men these days are very mentally ill and hate us. You have to remember that their way of thinking is not normal. Men should seek to pairbond and nurture a woman, not shitpost on a shitty imageboard filled with incelibate beta males about how they'll never be able to pump and dump millions of 10/10 Staceys. That's just vapid.

Do you ever see a normal, well-functioning, attractive guy think like that? Hardly ever, its always people with major flaws (either physical or mental).

tl;dr: it's their way of coping with not getting laid by supermodels


No. 137045

>>137041
Don't believe them. Most "hot" celebrities are older than 25, sometimes by a lot.
Also… most /r9k/ users are young. Not to mention retarded but that's obvious enough, really there's no reason to care what they think unless you're into that sort od person.

No. 137046

Honestly, the biggest flaw that I have is that my head is very large. I think I might have macrocephaly if it exists. I've measured the circumference of my head, and it's in the 99th percentile. It's not repulsively disproportionate, but I got bullied a lot about it as a kid and I'm still incredibly self-conscious about it despite not having heard any remarks about it for years.

No. 137047

I think I look ok in the mirror, but I look completely disgusting and deformed in pictures unless I have the perfect lighting and myspace angle. I don't know which one I should trust.

No. 137048

I had to get my driver's license renewed and so I thought it'd be better to wear contacts instead of glasses, since my prescription is so bad the lenses warp in photos.

I look like a combination of fucking Brianna Wu and Pixy and now I'm stuck with another hideous ID photo for six years. I want to die.

No. 137049

I have crooked teeth and a crooked nose and literally can't look at myself on video or in pictures because it makes me feel suicidal. One time in a biology lecture the prof was talking about how the key factor in attractiveness is symmetry and I legitimately wanted to cry. But I don't have any major issues with my appearance besides that, so I hold out hope that I can geta nose job, buccal fat removal, and braces and then things will be okay. Honestly the Paleo diet fixed a lot of issues with my body, hair, skin, etc. I don't have tits but I'm thin and muscular and boobs would get in the way of me exercising so idgaf really. I've learned to be okay with how I look in general only because it's fixable, but when someone comments on my appearance it's always some unwarranted thing to the effect of "you're like a 6.5 out of 10" and whoever said it acts like there's nothing mean about it and I shut down emotionally/get all quiet and honestly it's lowkey ruined quite a few social encounters for me

tl;dr I can't goddamn wait to be more symmetrical

No. 137050

>>137049
The odd thing is, I was told symmetry is rare by my orthodontist. She said most people have asymmetrical features. Even actors/actresses have asymmetrical features.

Just know, surgery may not fix your issues completely , your nose at least. My nose is crooked too but not bad, my plastic surgeon said he can made it straighter but it won't be perfectly straight.

No. 137051

>>137049
The odd thing is, I was told symmetry is rare by my orthodontist. She said most people have asymmetrical features. Even actors/actresses have asymmetrical features.

Just know, surgery may not fix your issues completely , your nose at least. My nose is crooked too but not bad, my plastic surgeon said he can made it straighter but it won't be perfectly straight.

No. 137052

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>>137050
>>137051

It's true. There's that thing about everybody having a "good side" that they like to photograph on, and that's because of the minute assymetries in our faces today our frequently undetectable to the owner.
True facial assymetry is about as rare as a virgin in a brothel.


Picture related is the golden ratio mask. It's supposed to map out the ratio of distance between features that produces absolute beauty, and whilst I consider myself a pretty attractive woman, my face didn't fit it it (too long on the lower half), and actually I discovered that one side of my jaw is very asymmetrical - something I'd never noticed before.

If you guys have Photoshop you should try it out, but the photo you use needs to photographed dead-on without your head tilting forwards or anything.

No. 137053

>>137052
So I did this and…

all of my features match up except my jaw/cheeks (which are to be expected because i have a weak chin/jaw and chubby cheeks)

but my eyebrows are way higher??? although that might be how i've been shaping them over the last few years

anyway it made me feel not so ugly, knowing that at least my eye-to-nose-to-mouth ratio is somewhat normal… ;_;


No. 137054

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>>137053

Hey Anon you got to remember, this is not a "normality" mask, it's a golden ratio mask. Hardly anybody actually has these proportions aside from supermodels and very beautiful actresses. You can still be beautiful and not fit the mask.

I would be exceedingly surprised if anybody on this site actually managed to fit it, and if somebody claimed they did I would demand proof that they photographing their face at the correct angle and not trying to cheat by tilting the camera and shit.

Picture related is a girl that was in the news in the UK for having had one of the most ideally symmetrical faces in all of the country (that they could find), and even she doesn't fit the mask exactly.

No. 137055

>>137054
England has beauties like Lily Colins, Elizabeth Taylor etc and they found this mayo pasty basic bish? I'm gonna test it btw i wanna know if im butiful

No. 137056

>>137052
This mask sucks, especially the retarded looking eyebrows. They are too short. . .

No. 137057

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>>137055

>pasty


Americuck please go.
And no they're not saying that she's the most BEAUTIFUL in all of the country, only that she retains a very high degree of SYMMETRY, i.e. when you halve an image of her face and mirror each side she looks very similar both ways.

No. 137058

>>137054
well i mean i know im ugly so i wasnt trying to fit it, but ive always been self conscious about my eyes/nose/lip ratio, and it fits in the mask just fine… i think those low brows are retarded like >>137056
said though. low brows are often very masculine…

the jawline/chin of that thing is good though. sadly i know thats where my problem lies.

so i'm ugly but at least i'm not ugly demon tier. i care less about symmetry and more about facial proportions.


No. 137059

>>137052
There is a free app for Android phones (idk about iphone), called "Golden Ratio Face" that puts this mask on your face, and gives you a score. If you're all curious.

No. 137060

>>137059
Interesting. I wear glasses so when taking pics I wasn't sure how the angle of my face was getting, but overall seem to be within 7.5-8 so I might still need to fiddle with the angle, and I found out my nose is pretty crooked lol

I wonder what "average" symmetry would score

No. 137061

>>137060
I think it goes up to 10. So maybe 5 is average?? idk

No. 137062

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>>137059

I just tried that and it gave me between 9.01 to my highest of 9.26 on one I just took. I don't really know what that means though; that I have good symmetry or a good facial ratio? I don't think I'm spectacularly pretty for sure.

Is everybody else getting reasonably high scores on this? I feel like you'd have to be physically deformed to get quite a low score.

No. 137063

>>137062
I think you are right about being deformed to get a low score. Its about looking average.

They have done studies where the more average you look, the more attractive you look. For example when you morph your face 50% with someone elses face, the morph is generally more attractive than both individuals alone. Hope that made sense.

No. 137064

I make a ugly guy and a really ugly girl. I've always liked how androgynous my features are (besides my boobs and hips but they're easily hidden) since it went well with my androgynous style but lately, I can't stand it.

I think it's mostly because I've been looking into girlier fashions and thinking of buying cute girly clothes but then I remember how man-ish I look and how I wouldn't be able to pull any of it off. I guess I'm forever cursed to dark colors and minimal make-up because my complexion looks horrible with light colors and I look even worse with any make-up.

Lol this got whiny fast, sorry.

No. 137065

>>137064
I know that feeling..

I want to wear girly fashions like fairy kei, lolita and just casual girly stuff. I really love cute feminine clothing but I worry people will think I'm a man dressed in girls clothes. I have the same problem with make, makes me look worse. I just wear dark hoodies, pants and no makeup.

No. 137066

>>137061
oh sorry, I meant what kind of symmetry an "average" face would score, heh

>>137062
It just measures symmetry. Actual beauty is subjective and a lot of people think certain quirks that might give them a lower score on this kind of thing makes a person more beautiful.

average is more attractive, I think, just because average means you'll attract a wider range of people.

>>137064
>>137065
I don't personally wear a lot of make up, but maybe you guys just need to practice your application? If your make up skills are good, I don't see how that would make you look worse

No. 137067

>>137006
Try cutting out shampoo and do the no-shampoo method as promoted on curly hair sites. Also find a really good leave in conditioner - you want something heavy, nothing light (sprays are shit, only good for thin/straight hair in my experience). Rinse your hair everyday in the shower, condition it, rinse it out and then apply a leave in conditioner. Try not brushing your hair either besides finger combing it in the shower.

My hair is naturally curly and dry. As a teenager I had no idea how to look after my hair. Back then I would shampoo it almost daily, and I would also brush my hair. This made it frizzy and awful.

I then learnt about how to look after curly hair and the conditioning it everyday worked for me. My hair could handle that amount of product and barely ever tangled, and my curl formation became nice, bouncy, shiny and uniform.

Buy some nice, high quality conditioner (just research online). I'm a fan of Joico products. Applying coconut oil to the hair and sleeping on it once a week works nicely too, but you'll have to shampoo that out obviously.

Give it a try for a couple of months and see if it helps.

No. 137068

>>137063
>tfw got a low score

ALRIGHT EVERYONE ELSE OUT OF THIS FUCKING THREAD


No. 137069

>>137064
Are you me? I bounce back and forth between days of "fuck yeah androgyny" and self-pity.

Basically I wear black unisex clothes with skinny pants and am pretty comfortable with that. If I wear anything more feminine/masculine I look messed. Girl clothes? I look like a drag queen. Dude clothes? Unfortunate girl. I really like wearing makeup and I'm quite good at it but I have to keep it as gender neutral as I can or I get a bad drag queen effect.

I'm dumb as hell about this too because I only get insecure once I'm in a relationship. I start feeling bad about not being feminine enough, even though… they were obviously attracted to me when I was actively trying to be a mystery.

No. 137070

>>137069
I know that feel about makeup.
I cut my hair short because well, I don't know. I thought people would take me more seriously as a wlw. It worked but it's not really me. I have wide shoulders and thinner hips so I feel like I look like a male swimmer. Things like not shaving my armpits (I have very sensitive skin so I sometimes use a trimmer) are accentuated. It doesn't help that my immigrant mother calls me a dyke. I got called sir yesterday at the bank. My face is rather feminine so maybe the teller was being "trans-aware" or whatever. I know there are many ways to be a woman, but I hate that people label me as a guy. If I get asked for my pronouns one more time reeeeee

No. 137071

i have been called ugly too many times for it not to affect me. i now avoid going outside apart from school because in the off chance that someone would say something to me id rather be at home. i can help to compare myself to other girls and hate the way i look. i know i should strive to be a smart independent woman etc but all i want to be is pretty, ive never felt pretty and never feeling like that i dont feel like a girl. i sometimes think i would better off be a boy considering ive been mistaken for one many times. anyway i know ill never BE pretty i just wish i could feel pretty for a day for myself.

No. 137072

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i think the rest of my face is fine but my chin throws everything off. i hate how huge it is and i want to get surgery to get it smaller. even having it a little smaller would make me so much happier. whenever i take pictures it's the first thing i notice and i hate it.

No. 137073

>>137072
also i should say that my skin is naturally clear and the freckles are fake (i was doing a makeup test for a cosplay). i left my nose in there so you can hopefully see my face ratio, but i covered my eyes because i want to maintain my anonymity.

No. 137074

>>28461
i figured it would be fine since i don't have any social media so it's not like people would be able to find out who i am anyway, and i think i blocked out enough of my face.
i really want opinions on whether my chin is huge or if i'm just being too harsh on myself. i have a babyface (which is a different story) and i feel like it looks too harsh on it. i'm already trying to do makeup that makes me look like i'm actually in my early 20s and not 18. if i make my chin smaller will it make me look too young?

No. 137075

>>137074
i don't think your chin is big at all

No. 137076

>>137072

Anon your chin isn't big at all…
This is some legit body dysmorphia. It's perfectly proportionate.

No. 137077

>>137072
There's nothing wrong with your chin AT ALL, it fits nicely with your face shape. Also your fake freckles are really cute, I would have thought they were real if you hadn't said otherwise

No. 137078

>>137072
You are pretty, if I were you I'd continue to stay out of the sun and slather on sunscreen as much as possible.

The one thing I like about being ugly is that I won't be so miserable when my youth and beauty (that I don't have) finally leave and I'm invisible. I'm already comfortable with being the ugly one nobody likes or pays attention to.

No. 137079

>>137072
a lot of people will ridicule anything that isn't a ~~teeny tiny kawaii ugu~~~ chin on here, so you might have subconsciously become over-sensitive about it.

chin surgery is extremely risky; there's a big nerve that runs across the front of it and if it gets damaged you could end up with permanently numb lips.

anyway, you look fine.

No. 137080

I have big eyes.
In the mirror they look quite nice but on camera they're the most disgusting bulging, meaty Nicole Richie frog eyes I've ever seen. My nose also looks okay irl but on camera it's fucking massive. Front camera especially. It's making me feel so hideous.

No. 137081

>>137072
Wha??? Your chin is perfectly fine and not big at all! Do you think it's big because it doesn't look like those plastic looking Asian girl's chin? The ones who get lots of surgeries or shoop their photos to death. Other than that, I don't know where you get the idea that it's big.

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>>137072

Anon if this is kind of how you want your chin to look, really, it doesn't look good. If your chin was any smaller it would look underdeveloped, and if a surgeon gave you a consultation one of the first things he'd say to you was "you need a chin implant to balance your face". You chin is perfect for your face.

No. 137083

>>137072
you're fishing for compliments and you know it

No. 137084

>>137082
this is actually how i envisioned my perfect chin. wow, would the surgeon actually tell me that? i guess i was under the impression that a smaller chin is always better.
>>137081
>>137079
the reason i hate my chin might be because i've basically grown up on boards like this and cgl, so i guess i've been surrounded by smaller photoshopped chins. i never thought of it like that, and now that i think about it i didn't hate my chin until i started getting into lolita and cosplay.
>>137083
i think if i was fishing for compliments i wouldn't have blocked my face so that people could've actually said something about my appearance besides my chin.

thank you everyone for your opinions. i've asked people about my chin but they were all irl friends so i never thought it was honest.
i don't really know how to phrase how i feel about my chin now- i still don't like it but now i understand that i have a warped view of it. i'm happy that i finally got some anon opinions on it because it's helped me a lot, since none of you are biased. i think i need to look at media and see how people have chins similar to mine, and not look at facetuned web celebs.
thank you everyone!

No. 137085

>>137084
sorry for sounding so mean, I just get so upset when pretty girls think they are ugly mainly because im shit (inside and outside)
I hope You know darn well you're cute as hell even by /cgl/ standards. It's ok though, we all need a little confidence boost and validation tbh. Your chin is perfect if you want to know the truth lol. And the rest of your face too. Not sure about the eyes and eyebrows but post it too if you have the guts! (im really curious & sorry if i sound like a creep)

btw what is your natural hair color?

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>>137085
it's fine, i think if someone was doing the same thing as me i would've assumed that they were fishing for compliments. it's a natural assumption, especially on boards. and i'm sure you're cute!

thank you! i'm not photogenic, i usually have to take 100+ selfies to get one that i actually like.. is anyone else the same way? i think that contribtues a lot to my low self esteem, since nowadays everyone has an instagram, snapchat, etc and are constantly posting selfies. when i cover up my chin i'm fine with selfies but i refuse to be 'that' person. i want to start being more comfortable with my chin and not hating it.
i attached a picture of my eyes, sorry about my glasses- i don't take selfies so it was the only picture i could find. my hair color is naturally brown but it's pink now, i'm thinking about changing it though since people have started associating me with tumblr (i don't know how to explain it, sorry). i won't post any more pictures since this really isn't the place to do it.

No. 137087

>>137086
yes, I always end up taking like 50 photos and deleting all but 2, then deciding which of the two looks better for like a half hour before posting it anywhere.

Those glasses look cute btw, there is a lot of hate for glasses now with all the trendy thick ones that all those rainbow haired pierced-to-fuck hipsters wear but I think they suit a lot of girls and look really cute/sweet.

No. 137088

>>137086
your eyes are 10/10 hnnngg

Overall you are an 8/10
You're butiful. And its ok! Dont worry about your chin, its perfect imo. I think you need to indeed stop giving a shit about /cgl/ remember that weebs have a warped view of beauty I prefer your face over any circle lens v shaped living dorru.

your hair color is butiful and dont sperg about the opinion of autists like me we dont matter tbh, do whatever you want!
and im sorry but im not kawaii but my mum likes to say that im kawaii i guess. Too bad you dont have social media, I'd probably follow you on instagram! You should make an instagram if you want to I bet you'd get a lot of followers!

No. 137089

>>137084
Blocking out your eyes =/= blocking out your face, and you're clearly fishing for compliments. Even the most attractive girls have insecurities but have some self awareness, this is a thread for ugly people. Not just people who feel ugly but have probably got non stop positive reinforcement for their conventionally attractive looks their entire lives.

No. 137090

>>137089
tbh i agree, but she is so pretty i can forgive her

No. 137091

>>137089
ok, i understand how you can see it like that. i personally wouldn't compliment someone unless i could see their whole face, but that's just me. funnily enough though i've never had positive reinforcement- when i was younger i went to a very small private highschool and was never complimented. i think the first person who really complimented me was my ex boyfriend, around the age of 19. since then no one has gone out of their way to compliment me, i can remember all the compliments i've gotten in the past 5 years (not including from my mom haha). this might just be because it's not common to compliment people in person, at least where i live.

anyway, i think we should all stop talking about this so we don't derail the thread. thank you everyone for the positive comments. i don't think i will be getting surgery since everyone thinks that it would look bad. now that i've stared at the edit it kind of makes me look like i have an underbite, and it probably won't age well.

No. 137092

>>137091
No one compliments pretty girls nearly as much as media thinks. Generally, we look at someone attractive and go "yeah they probably know that already." Hence why no one said anything, they just assumed you got the "OHHH SO PRETTY" for years now and didn't want to add to it.

No. 137093

>>137092
That's bullshit and social media makes it publicly known how many compliments attractive people get. It's like when guys get the idea that hot women get hit on less because they're 'intimidating' so are more attainable, it's just wishful thinking. Men in particular are so desperate and lacking in self awareness that they will hit on any pretty girl who gives them the time of day.

Straight up compliments aren't the only way of getting positive reinforcement anyway. Just having people interested in you and being nice to you and the media reflecting your own appearance positively is enough.

No. 137094

I'm ugly, want to die, yadda yadda, but I wanted to add that eyebrows make the biggest difference. I naturally have dark hair and blonde eyebrows and with my hooded eyes it looked horrendous. I wish I had learned to fill them in (or dye them) earlier because my self esteem has doubled since.

No. 137095

>>137093
I agree with you about the last part, it's not always about compliments. It's about how people treat you. Like studies show teachers are more helpful and give more attention to attractive kids. People in general are kinder and will just treat you better.

Also as you said, you will also see girls who have similar features to you in the media. I have ugly sharp features and would rarely find girls who looked like me in the media. At least ones that were shown in a positive light.

No. 137096

>>137095
In that case I really hope Alison Hannigan and Saoirse Ronan are considered pretty. Because people tell me I look like those two a lot. Doesn't really help much considering they're far from the conventional pouty lipped, flirty-eyed celebrities.

No. 137097

>>137072

If you make your chin any smaller, you won't look human.

No. 137098

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Anons, how do you feel about sharp features?

I have really soft features and a weak jawline which I'm pretty insecure about. There's beautiful women like Lucy Hale with strong jawlines and features and I can't help but feel jealous.

Side note, >>137082 where did you get that jacket? It's cute.

No. 137099

>>137098
Oops, I meant >>137072

No. 137100

>>137040
>>137039
If it's that bad, see a doctor, otherwise


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No. 137101

>>137082
Makes you look kinda inbred. Not a good look.

No. 137102

>>137098
i feel the same way. i have a gross lumpy potato face. i just want angular features and nice cheekbones :^(

No. 137103

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>ugly thread devolved into staceys posting pictures of themselves

is there no place sacred

>>137098

i have the face on the right, except i guess my forehead is bigger and im less symmetrical, so basically just fuck my shit up fam basically because SHE doesn't even look good in candids and she's a super model, pic related. basically you're fucked if you have a fat soft face.


No. 137104

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>>137072
>UGLY THREAD FILLED WITH WOMEN TALKING ABOUT WANTING TO KILL THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY WERE BORN WITH WHAT SHOULD BE CONSIDERED LEGIT GENETIC DEFORMITIES AND THUS HAVE BEEN SHUNNED BY SOCIETY
>YOUR 9/10 ASS DECIDES TO POST A PICTURE COMPLAINING ABOUT SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T EXIST


legit ruined my day tbqh


No. 137105

>>137104
Look closer. Pink streak of hair. She's a crazy feminist. Ruining people's days/lives is what she's about. Don't let her get to you.

No. 137106

>>137105

Back to /r9k/ cuck.

No. 137107

>>137106
Nigga let me play my game. I've got this.

No. 137108

>>137104
this tbh, she's obviously just fishing for compliments
>hey guys I know I'm hot but idk I don't like my chin? here's a pic of me teehee isn't my chin so ugly? lol please tell me I'm pretty here's another pic of me ^^

seriously kys attention seeking bitch

No. 137109

>>137072
Why are you in this thread?

No. 137110

>>137109
Because she's an evil bitch who wants to make people feel bad. Like this thread is filled with people talking about how they don't even leave the house because they've been bullied so hard, and she posted two fucking selfies of her normal face


No. 137111

>>137110
there's only one way to resolve this let's all have a competition to see who's the ugliest and ONLY that person is allowed to be sad. the rest of us are all bitches fishing for asspats, obviously.

No. 137112

>>137111
If you're confident enough to post your face on this site you shouldn't be posting in this thread.

Average/ pretty girls posting their pictures calling themselves ugly is the oldest attention whore trick in the book. But it worked and she got tons of attention and asspats.

No. 137113

>>137112
she also looks like she hasn't even gotten her first period yet, so most likely

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No. 137114

>>137111
What the other anon said

If you're confident enough to post your pic, fuck off you're not ugly and don't belong.

She was looking for attention and praise. Must be nice being an attractive girl. You can go into spaces not for you and still get worshipped. Like boohoo your chin is too big, guess what if I posted my face on here I would be brutalized and probably turned into a fuckig meme

Stupid cunt

No. 137115

>>137114
awww did she hurt your feelings?

what a bitter bitch

hope next time you go outside someone takes a photo and turns you into that meme. you deserve it for such a horrific attitude.

No. 137116

The way some farmers on here completely flip out at the image of another person really makes me question the mental status of the board overall.

Y'all are crazy.

No. 137117

>>137116
Well when your ugly and have been treated like human garbage all your life, your going to have mental problems.

That girl pissed me off too. She knows she looks normal. She just was insecure because she admited she spent too much time on places like cgl. She is also a lolita, she was just insecure because she doesn't look like the ideal shooped Asian girls. She knows she isn't really ugly, she just let cgl get to her.

No. 137118

>>137116
I think it's reasonable to get pissed off when an attractive person posts in the ugly thread to fish for compliments.

No. 137119

>>137118
Attractive people are allowed to perceive themselves as ugly, anon. Everybody has different tastes and maybe that anon's face didn't live up to hers.

No. 137120

>>137094
>my self esteem has doubled since
I'm so pleased for you! I wish I learnt about eyebrows sooner too because I plucked mine too much for the longest time and it didn't suit my soft moonface at all.

No. 137121

>>137115
>horrific attitude

It's a thread for ugly people. Stop humblebragging and posting your attractive face.


No. 137122

>>137116
>a thread specifically for mentally ill ugly people who talk about wanting to kill themselves
>people flip out at an attractive person trying to fish for compliments

Like seriously this thread is full of people talking about how their lives have been destroyed because they've been bullied all their lives and some bitch comes in with a perfectly fine chin and starts bitching about it. If anything that screams of narcissism


No. 137123

>>137119
She even said
>i think the rest of my face is fine

When you come into a thread full of people who don't even leave the house because they are so ashamed of their ugliness, and post "lol im cute but i don't like my chin tee hee", along with a selfie, you should realize that you're being incredibly inappropriate and obnoxious.

It's like going into the eating disorder thread and posting "i eat pizza and mcdonalds all the time but i stay super thin sucks to be you :) :) :)"

No. 137124

>>137123
I think a person can have a fine face and just have one feature that makes them feel like a hideous troll. Maybe she thought her chin was enough to push her into ugly territory? OP just put up an ugly thread and we're all anon so we only really have self-assessment to go on. If that anon thought her chin made her ugly, then how was she supposed to know that was incorrect until she posted a photo and everybody jumped on her?

Have you never met an attractive person that doesn't realise they're attractive? There's plenty of them. I'm sure there are people ITT calling themselves ugly who are actually pretty.

Plus, everybody thinks different things are pretty. If she thinks super titchy chins are attractive then of course she's going to be put off by her normal-sized one. She might genuinely think she is ugly because her chin doesn't match what she percieves as beautiful.

No. 137125

>>137098
I siwtch between which I like most. I have a softer face and sometimes I'm glad of it and other times I'm dreaming of cheakbones and a little elfin chin.

>>137080
Photos distort depending on focal length and distance from camera. If it makes you feel better, my friend thought her nose was disgustingly huge because of photots (no matter how much we told her otherwise) but she got professional photos done and she realised the camera was fucking her up. I think noses take the worst of it! Big eyes are pretty cute. I like Nicole Ritchies'!

No. 137126

>>137124
lmao stop defending yourself


Ugly people who barely leave the house and can't even face the mirror don't take dolled up pictures and post them on anonymous image boards.

Fuck off to /soc/ if you want compliment fishing, slut.

She even said she realizes she's attractive


No. 137127

>>137071
>i now avoid going outside apart from school
I think you should see someone about this. If your looks are getting you down to such a low point, then maybe there's something else going on. Therapy could help you come to terms with yourself too.

No. 137128

>>137126
Why are you so mad about a random girl? She felt she had an ugly chin, she posted in the ugly thread. Damn, maybe it's best you don't leave the house if you're this crazy because somebody is more attractive than you.

No. 137129

>>137128
>a random girl
>she
>somebody

Who do you think you're fooling, anon?

No. 137130

>>137129
I appreciate you thinking I'm a pretty girl, anon!

No. 137131

>>137128
if she thinks her chin is weird and throws off the rest of her attractive face she should've posted in the plastic surgery thread for advice, not the thread for ugly people - which she is not.

>Damn, maybe it's best you don't leave the house if you're this crazy because somebody is more attractive than you.


maybe you shouldn't be such a bitch and taunt people who are less fortunate than you. do you pull up to homeless shelters in your ferarri? do you go to food banks and eat caviar in front of them? no? then why post your ATTRACTIVE pretty face in a thread where people are talking about KILLING THEMSELVES because they don't have that.


No. 137132

>>137131
>maybe you shouldn't be such a bitch and taunt people who are less fortunate than you. do you pull up to homeless shelters in your ferarri? do you go to food banks and eat caviar in front of them? no? then why post your ATTRACTIVE pretty face in a thread where people are talking about KILLING THEMSELVES because they don't have that.

I posted a flippant response to being called a slut and you react like this? Lmao you have no idea what I look like or how I feel about my looks but you're talking shit, why shouldn't I?

No. 137133

I sort of want to post my face because I can't tell if I'm ugly or not but I don't want you guys to think I'm just fishing? Like I know I'm not beautiful or anything I'm just legit not sure if I'm ugly

No. 137134

>>137133
You're probably gonna get shit if the rest of this thread is anything to go by. You could check the catalog to see if there's a "post your face" thread or possibly start one made for photos and ratings or something?

No. 137135

>>137134

That would neither begin nor end well.
She should try 4chan instead.

No. 137136

>>137131
i'm not even that anon
>check my ip kek
but even i gotta admit, just in passing, that you are freaking out about nothing. take a chill pill, farmer. having a pretty face or lack thereof is nothing to kill yourself over. face-posting anon above might be just as insecure as you.
>what is bdd

No. 137137

>>137135
>She should try 4chan instead.

They'll rip her to shreds. That, or they'll try to date her.

No. 137138

>>137137
Truth.

On a related note, I don't like my broken nose that causes it to not look perfectly straight. But I like the rest of me in a way because it's something to build apon.

I can spend the rest of my life feeling sorry for myself and choose not to do anything but that, or I can help myself and make myself feel great.

Which is the better option really?

No. 137139

>>137138
Wow congrats you have one feature that sucks

Try literally looking like you have a birth defect. Do you think midgets and people with kleinfelters or burns on their face live a life just as easy as yours? Lol no. Some of us are not exaggerating here. At some point it becomes less about beauty and more about just looking normal and fitting in with a crowd instead of causing people to gawk

No. 137140

>>137139
Not that anon, just want to say sorry. That has to suck.

No. 137141

>>137139

I'd prolly like you if you weren't so self pitying.

No. 137142

I have fucked up teeth, hearing aids because I'm almost deaf, I'm obese, (literally) mentally retarded (no srs), mentally nuts (no social skills plus ptsd and unofficially low empathy because everyone was mean to me), my eyesight is so shit I cannot even make eyecontact without my thick ass glasses/irritating contacts, I am hairy as fuck, I have droopy eyes, my lips are thin (probably because I have been obese most of my life), I have a man chin, I'm balding (even though I was born with thick ass hair I lost it because I pulled my hair out when I was little bc bullies OR because I was extremely skelly for 2 years back in my edgy anorexia days I'm not sure why), my nose is shit, I have deep set eyes, I have acne, I'm poor as shit all my life to the point we have no basic facilities (I got this phone I am making this post with for my birthday and its the first big gift I ever had and I am thankful sorry for sounding ungrateful but I am just depressed) I have no friends because I'm ugly/retarded/fat as shit and uhm well…yeah thats it. Oh and I had only sex ONCE with a 45 year old guy when I was 14 years old because thats the only way how I could get a boyfriend/friends idk if I was raped but I was pretty drunk and lonely and barely remember anything of it, it feels shitty though every time I think about it so thats traumatic enough for me BUT MAYBE I AM BEING TUMBLR.

Although besides that incident only love I could get from guys was with sexual abuse literally becUse even though I'm not sure I got raped the only "friend" I had was abusing me almost daily both semisexually and non sexually oh and I think my mum doesn't love me because I'm a loser and a mentally retarded leech. OH AND MY BROTHER EIENEIENEIWNWJ USED TO BULLY ME ALMOST DAILY PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY DIENEKEJEK I dont hate him but that doesn't make it any better and he used to call me ugly/retarded every every every every every day. He said sorry and I think he is genuine so I forgive him. But he still doesn't treat me always human ugh, but he is not my biggest problem. Anyways I was blogging a lot

TO AN HERO OR TO NOT AN HERO
YOU DECIDE AND ILL DELIVER I DONT WANT TO BE A COCKROACH ANYMORE I CANT HANDLE THIS PAIN AND LONELINESS AND BULLY BEEBLE I THINK IF I WAS GOING TO LIVE ANY LONGER ILL END UP BEING A RAPIST SLASH RAPIST BECAUSE I HATE MYSELF AND EVERYONE

No. 137143

>>137142
>(no srs)
ugh now it looks like i wasnt being serious but i am actually mentally retarded i once did this iq test and it came out as 71

I'm ugly inside and outside I'm not a kind person at all dot

No. 137144

>>137142
What country are you in? It looks like you would benefit greatly from therapy. Your physical "flaws" can be helped, at least to some degree, and you can live a full and happy life without being super intelligent. How old are you?

No. 137145

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>>137142
Well first of all, your obesity is what is excarberating your depression, acne, low self esteem and even poverty. What you need to do is download a free app for your phone. I use casual dieting, pic related. It's in english, allows you to track your weight in a chart, keep a diary etc. For now you don't even need to worry about bodyfat, just get any app that will track your weight and ideally remind you with a notification when you haven't. Casual dieting does that and has cute stickers, so it's a great one in my opinion.

For your lips, dermarolling will make them bigger. It's a lot like self harm, so if you've got issues with that this could be a great replacement.

Good luck anon!

No. 137146

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>>137142
Oh and when it comes to losing weight, you can't go wrong with calories in vs calories out. It's good and even great to do some exercise, eat lots of veg and protein etc. but always keep in mind you need to consume less calories to lose weight.

I know this won't and can't fix your other problems, and I'm so sorry about your past. You didn't deserve it. Now you have a chance to lighten your burden and perhaps fly like a reborn phoenix one day.

No. 137147

>>137143
I assume this was an online test? If you had an IQ of 71 you'd barely be able to work a computer, much less write coherent posts.

No. 137148

>>137147
I got an IQ of around 70 too because I got up to take a shit in the middle of my IQ test. Turned out it was timed.

No. 137149

>>137146
I don't really get the point of that image

Why does it matter what a pound of fat looks like, losing one pound of bodyfat is pretty insignificant in terms of body changes. So if you've spent more than a week losing that pound, yes, you should be mad (or at least re-think where you're counting calories wrong)

Also, commonly available scales aren't accurate anyway, you can be anywhere from 8lbs heavier or 8lbs lighter than your true weight depending on the scale, how hydrated you are, how much you've eaten previously, … You can easily drop 4lbs just by eating less salt for a few days alone.

No. 137150

>>137149
Come on. We're trying to be positive here. I for one found the pic pretty darn inspirational. Not everything has to be a pissing contest, anon.

No. 137151

>>137150
> I prefer meaningless inspo memes over facts and measurable progress

¯\_(ツ)_/¯ suit yourself

No. 137152

>>137151
Someone's an edgelord. Waterweight and such aside, a pound of fat is more than we'd imagine.

No. 137153

Ha ha ha

Really, that girl was asking for compliments but common I just can't believe that many of you are 'so so ugly you cant leave your houses', you are just as much of a whiner as her

No. 137154

I'm not what people would call ugly, but when it comes to judging myself I think I am the absolute ugliest person out there. I advert my eyes when I brush my teeth or pass by my mirror. It feels as though I don't belong in this body. All in all a weird feeling….

No. 137155

>>136973
She'd look perfectly fine if she got her eyebrows waxed.

No. 137156

>>137155
Lol no, she'd just be a 3/10 instead of a 2/10

No. 137157

You guys would be amazed by how easy it is to go from a 2/10 to a 5/10. Lose weight, have a facial routine, wear appropriate make-up and GROOM YOUR BROWS (its really important).

When getting a haircut make sure it matches your facial shape….

When standing up (if you're not disabled) take a deep breath, stand tall and push your shoulders back and then relax. This will improve your posture (if only temporary).

Anything else I'm forgetting? Before I followed these steps I thought I was doomed and I couldnt leave the house either… but over the years I slowly worked up my appearance. You can do it too!! Anon believes in you.

No. 137158

>>137157
I'd like to add some stuff to this:

Wear clothes that match your body type. Trust me, even fatties can look decent they try to. Wearing clothes you like will boost your confidence.

If you have hooded eyelids like me losing weight is a good idea because your hidden eyelids add pounds to your face.

Treat your hair. If it's curly oil it and try not to brush it. If it's straight try to add volume to it by curling it. I know some of y'all are balding and volume helps big time.

No. 137159

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>>137157

>and GROOM YOUR BROWS


Okay but to what degree because this could potentially end up being really bad advice. The natural brow has really made a comeback and it's pretty accepted that the thicker a brow the more youthful a person's appearance (children have comparatively bushier/thicker brows when their faces are small).
For years I plucked under my eyebrows, but recently I began allowing the hairs to grow out and they really do look so much better, and I no longer feel it necessary to fill in the ends a bit with powder.

Everything else is yes tho.

No. 137160

>>137159
Not only is it youthful but also trendy. I love big eyebrows. It's always good to stick fairly close to your natural eyebrow shape. But make sure it some what matches your hair color (if you dyed it, etc.) And for those of us born with patches of hair missing from our brows, fill them in.

No. 137161

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>>137160

Yesssssssssss.

No. 137162

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>>137157
>>137157
>>137158
this is all useless if your facial features are shit

No. 137163

>>137162
holy shit

No. 137164

>>137161
imo now we're taking the natural bushy look too far. I swear some girls think that because full brows are in, they can fill them in Geico caveman style

No. 137165

>>137162
She should go on one of those Korean b&a plastic surgery shows.

No. 137166

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>>137162

This is an old troll though. Girl in the picture is not the OP of the thread.

No. 137167

>>137164
No way, she is fucking hot. I mean, she'll probably be embarrassed when the trends change, but if I looked like that I'd probably enjoy living,

No. 137168

>>137167
Wasn't referring to the woman in the photo. She has a great face and her brows aren't quite Neanderthal tier but as trends go, people do take it too far.

No. 137169

>>137166
omfg i remember his/her/it I've seen her pics since 2014, that russian always posts her or perhaps its a russian meme idk

No. 137170

What do I do if I have deep nasolabial folds?

No. 137171

>>137159

Big eyebrows look good on beautiful faces. On ugly faces they give a caveman look

No. 137172

>>137170

fillers, look for a good doctor and don't go crazy, just a bit to avoid hash shadows.

Or just use concealer, it works good enough

No. 137173

>>137170

For nasolabial folds, get Bellafill injected. It's pricier than stuff like Juvederm but it's supposed to last 5 years.
I don't want to sound like a shill but we had a rep (I think he was gay lol) come in and explain how it works. You get collagen that gives you an immediate result, but the filler also contains these microspheres that make your body produce collagen around it, essentially filling in the folds itself.

No. 137174

>>137166

Is she for real? :(

No. 137175

>>137173

>I don't want to sound like a shill but we had a rep (I think he was gay lol)


This is /g gtfo

No. 137176

>>137175

What? She asked about deep nasolabial creases. It's not like I'm telling her to get one of those japanese devices that make you look like you're training to suck a dick

No. 137177

>>137171
This. The bushy/ big/ natural brow only works if you have a beautiful face. Us uglies, it just makes us look even more like goblins.

No. 137178

>>137175
What? She just answered the other anon, jeez.

No. 137179

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>>137177

Like it or not thinner eyebrows are only going to make you look aged and worse. Bushy is your best regardless of your features.

No. 137180

>>137179
But she looks ridiculous.

No. 137181

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>>137180

And that's why she's a model and you're not.

No. 137182

>>137181 looks good. >>137179 looks like shit because of the arch (which ages you in the same way thin brows do). Her being a model has nothing to do with it- not all trends look good, but they are trends regardless.

Koreans know best, they do thick, flat brows to make them look younger.

No. 137183

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>>137181
Sorry doll, you're gonna need a better argument.

No. 137184

>>137179
Different faces suit different eyebrows. Just because it's trendy doesn't mean it's universally flattering.

There's no such thing as universally flattering, no matter how much cosmetics companies try to shill it.

No. 137185

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>>137182

She doesn't have a high arch, she's raising her eyebrows, and the thick, flat eyebrow absolutely does not work on all face types. I know from attempted experience.
Typically the flat brow seems to work best with the slanted Asian eye, but European eyes really do need more of a arch otherwise you look permanently grumpy.

>>137184
This^

No. 137186

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>>137177

Example kek

No. 137187

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>>137186
Their brows are good, they're just clashing with other features.

Emilia's are the wrong shape and should NOT be wearing a dark, high-lidded eyeshadow and Maisie's eyebrows have been filled in too thick (especially near the centre), and shouldn't be wearing an asymmetric cut.

You think they look bad because of their eyebrows, but look how bad they really look when they're shooped thin.

No. 137188

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>>137187

Wow you're right

I think they look good on Emilia (the real ones) and make her look young (she looks 35 in the thin eyebrows shoop kek)

But Maisie can maybe look better with straight smaller eyebrows, like it soften her goblin face a bit

No. 137189

Maisie is the living proof that you can look ok even with dreadful features

No. 137190

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>>137188

I actually think her eyebrows detract from the rest of her features which is a good thing.

Still though, I'm one of those people that doesn't feel comfortable criticisng actors for their appearance. That's an extremely American standard in which producers tend to favour beauty over acting ability, whereas in the UK we favour acting ability over beauty. They're actors not models after all, and actors are intended to portray a sense of realism in a specified setting.

I really struggle to watch American dramas for this reason. The fact that almost everybody looks like they belong on the front of a catalogue creeps me out.

No. 137191

>>137190

Thats a huge problem with american shows. Sometimes they hit the nail on the head with the cast (Got or The Office USA) but most of the time just isn't believable how all police officers have perfect hair and makeup at 5 AM and homestuck nerds have abs.

No. 137192

>>137189
you think those are dreadful features? what are you doing in the ugly thread? i'd kill to look like her instead of the disgusting monster that i am

No. 137193

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>>137191

Yeah it kind of bugs me because I always see people from the US having recently watched British produced shows, Skins, Misfits, Shameless, The IT Crowd etc., and then going online and squawking about how hideous the cast is and I'm like… that's how people look?

Like people ragging on Maisie, I really could not give less of a shit how she looks, she's supposed to be portraying the scruffy, boyish daughter of a Northern fief lord, not a pageant queen.
And people saying that Emilia is too fat for her role…. do people honestly believe that the medieval King's and Queens and Princesses of yore actually looked like supermodels? There was a TOTALLY different standard back then. Pretty much so long as you had all your teeth, clear skin and long, healthy hair you were considered a great beauty.
Sophie Turner who plays Sansa as well. I keep seeing people complaining about how she's ugly, but in medieval times she ABSOLUTELY would have been highly sought after.

One thing I can say about GoT, even though it is produced by Americans, I'm so fucking glad they actually got normal looking actors to play the roles. Can you imagine if they all had sparkling, perfect teeth and botoxed up faces and perfectly coiffed hair in all their scenes? Jesus christ how horrifying.

No. 137194

>>137193
People complain about Sophie Turner? She's really pretty. I think a lot of the women in GOT are above average looking, not including poor Maisie, but she was cast as a young girl.

Other than old men on the show I think it's typical attractive hollywood actors.

Oh internet, Emilia isn't fat, she's ACTUALLY curvy.

No. 137195

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>>137194

Oh man ikr?
First time I saw Emilia in her first nude scene… jesus christ I got such a girl boner. Kind of strange that she's suddenly stipulating non-nudity in her GoT contracts, and I was very surprised to learn that Lena Headley ended up having her head superimposed onto a nude actresses body just to avoid doing the slut walk herself. Maybe she's got funny tits or bad stretchmarks or something idk.

No. 137196

Honestly first time posting so sorry if I do something wrong but holy shit this is exactly how I feel I guess I'm average not really ever had a relationship to determine my self worth but I am just entering that part of my life where you have to start going out and honestly I'm friends with a girl who has 6000 followers on instagram (we met online obviously) but I notice how different we are both treated when we are out how she makes friends vs me and it honestly just makes me not want to go out also past bulimia so body dismorphia through the roof maybe I don't know I just know how people act and I desperately want to be that person

No. 137197

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>>137196

There are always ways of improving ones appearance, but these little tips and tricks are also things that are acquired over time. Three things that are absolutely paramount above all are skin quality, hair quality and body quality.
If you can get all three of these things into reasonably good condition all other aspects of beauty are comparatively negligible because pretty much everything is going to look good on you by default. Just remember that atm the natural look is back in full force, that means french tips, light, pastel/nude makeup and naturally coloured hair.

No. 137198

>>137193
>>137194
I've got a HUGE girlcrush on Sophie Turner and I can't help to think she's so pretty… No joke…

>>137195
Headley is/was pregnant back then. Also she's got tattoos.

No. 137199

>>137192
this if i looked like maisie williams i would be happy for life.

instead i'm like someone ran over maisie williams with a truck and then backed up and did it again


No. 137200

>>137198

>headley is/was pregnant back then. Also she's got tattoos


Oooooooooooooh.

No. 137201

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>>137199

Yeah Maisie is cute, she has really distinctive features and requires really specific styling.

No. 137202

I just want a smaller 4head anyone else know the pain of being taunted with the god awful 5head?

No. 137203

>>137202
I'm right here with you, anon. Bangs have been my saving grace but I can't even move them without getting insecure for days on end.

No. 137204

Sophie and Emilia work perfect for their roles (at least their looks) imo. Daenerys, Sansa, Cersei and the red witch are supossed to be the pretty ones and they look the part. Casting supermodel types would have look stupid and unreallistic

No. 137205

>>137202
I've got a massive forehead too. I had my hair pulled back in a high school yearbook photo and i looked like fucking squidward. Just opted out of yearbook photos after that year ugh. I have bangs now, just to shield my 5head.

No. 137206

>>137202

kek I have a nigri tier forehead and in my teen days I tried to compensate it raising my eyebrows up with makeup and plucking. Now I don't have a single photo of my younger self that doesn't look like I was batshit crazy.

No. 137207

Anyone else have a hook nose? I hate it so much and it makes my profile look like shit, I'm saving up for surgery to fix it.

I'm not even Jewish or Roman, I just got shit genetics ugh.

No. 137208

>>137207
Hook nose here. It really ruins my face. Large round eyes, cute oval face and a hideous bird profile. Noses really ruin a decent face. I don't care about plastic surgery since most people aren't that great looking anyways. I'd rather fit in. Good luck with your nose job, anon. Might look like shit so make sure to choose your surgeon well and get minor changes least you end up with an MJ nose.

No. 137209

>>137202
yup. and my hair is thin so i cant get bangs without them making me look like I have a bald spot

No. 137210

>>137209
this


just end my life please


No. 137211

>>137207
>or Roman
You do know it's just a name right? It doesn't actually imply your heritage?
Fucking Americans

No. 137212

>>137209

Last year my hairdresser screw up and left me with Yolandi bangs, so I bought clip in bangs and it was magical, now that I have my own hair still miss how good and fluffy they looked.

No. 137213

Honestly though most days with how people are now it seems like I havent got one good feature, Also yes anon on the I dream I was pretty

No. 137214

>tfw im still alive
why
>>137144
I'm having therapy for years now, and I think they gossip about me but maybe I'm paranoid but it's strange how they tell each other things I asked to keep secret but oh well and I have the feeling they don't treat me as an adult just because I'm mentally retarded but thanks for responding!
>>137145
Thank you for the app! But even when I was skinny people still hated me so it will only make me skinny but hey at least I wont die of a heart attack and wont look as huge now.

Btw I really appreciate the app recommendation, the app is so cute :3

t-t-thank you everyone even though im sure irl i would just get bullied. today i did exams and on the bus and two whores laughed at my hearing aids and because I didnt respond they thought I couldnt hear them. I wanted to kill myself. You know what, I think after I did my exams I am going to do that but only if i pass since my mum paid a lot for them. Sick and tired of being an irl snowflake I have no milk eiensisjsh plz no bully retard obese autistic girl stop ;___;

No. 137215

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>>137211

kek I'm from Spain and it's true that we mediterranean europeans tend to have thin and long noses. Not everyone of course but it's very common

No. 137216

>>137214
my english gets worse and worse

I have thick groomed eyebrows but I'm still ugly so it's generalizing. Kylie Jenner was never ugly but she became really pretty with thicker lips and she doesn't have thick eyebrows (i think). >>137159

No. 137217

>>137215
is this what you consider a long thin nose???…

No. 137218

>>137215
That's not a long thin nose. And there's plenty of people outside of the med who have similar noses?

No. 137219

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>>137188
Kendall Jenner also looked better with her normal eyebrows as a kid, now she looks like a caveman.

Some people are just blindly jumping onto the trend and it really shows.

No. 137220

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>have bug eyes (not big qt animu eyes, think steve buscemi)
>have receding hairline
>have thinner hair than the average eighty year old attached (just) to that hairline
>have overbite
>have huge jowls despite not being a fatty
>have pig nose and thin lips
>had my makeup done professionally a few times, always look like a clown and get depressed afterwards

A-at least I hit the gym every day so I can aspire to achieve butterface mode

No. 137221

>>137202
Big head, tall forehead and receding hairline here. Though I've found an okay way to combat it through hairstyle and eyebrows… before I couldn't even go outside.

Anyone else have terrible forehead wrinkles? I'm afraid to make any facial expressions because of them. Also, because of my nasalobial folds.. I'm only 20.

No. 137222

>Not fat or anything like that
Why not? I've had a busted body since I was 8 years old and it'll never be fixed now unless I get plastic surgery. It's still pretty ugly.
I've been straight up told I'd go from 5/10 to a 8/10 if only I were twig thin with titties.

No. 137223

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Anyone else have a small mouth? Like, my lips are even and my mouth looks normal, but it looks like someone shrunk it down in photoshop. It's really weird

No. 137224

>>137223

Oh definitely. I'm getting fillers for my birthday for sure.

No. 137225

>>137223
Shane Dawson?

No. 137226

>>137223
Yep. My lips are a decent size, but my face is too big for my mouth. It's a major contributor to my resting bitch face.

No. 137227


No. 137228

>>29033
sigh Do we really need a /fit/ containment thread?

No. 137229

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>>29033
That's not me, lol. I'm girl Shanelle Dawson appreciates the compliment, though!

No. 137230


No. 137231

I'm not ugly (I don't think,) but my top lip is so much thinner than my bottom, and it bothers me, so I'm self concious and think it looks weird. Idk what to do other than get fillers. That requires too much money and effort, though.

No. 137232

>>137231
lots of people have this. It's whatevs.

No. 137233

>>137223
my mouth is so small even if i got fillers i would look like a joke
my face is too big for my small mouth, ive always deisred to have a big toothy smile but mine is so small and depressing

No. 137234

>>137223
Yeah, I have a narrow mouth even though my lips are okay. Even my dentist noticed and commented on it. It's an unusual feature that we can't really do much about. I'm really pale so I figured out a long time ago not to wear dark lip colors, it just seems to exaggerate the little mouth thing.

No. 137235

>>137223
My mouth is so small that I need to get some teeth removed, then get braces. I have overcrowding because my mouth is too small all for my teeth.

No. 137236

>tfw wide moonface that makes you look overweight even though you're skinny

No. 137237

I don't think I'm horribly ugly in terms of face structure - slightly below average maybe - but I think my facial expressions are ugly as well as my posture and the way I move. I hate what smiling does to my face.

Sometimes I see girls who are objectively uglier than me but carry themselves better and I get so jealous. Smiling actually makes them prettier and doesn't make them look like a passive aggressive hamster. Does anyone else experience this?

I also hate the look in my eyes. Not the shape of my eyes just the look in them. Hard to explain.

No. 137238

>>137235
Same here, anon. Except I never got the teeth removed so now my lower teeth are so fucked it's impossible to even floss them.

No. 137239

I feel sad today because I have broad shoulders, and a wide back/ribcage

>look transgender even though I'm not

>already lean, no point in losing more
>no plastic surgery can fix your whole torso
>FML

No. 137240

>>137239
ugh, a huge fear of mine is people thinking I'm transgender.

No. 137241

I have keratosis pilaris all over my body (i use lotion, exfoliate for it, etc. and it doesn't go away). And my vag looks deformed and hideous. I can't wait till I'll be able to afford surgery to fix it.

No. 137242

>>137241
I cannot judge if your vulva actually looks deformed but I urge you to look at websites that show lots of different vulvas. I used to want surgery for my labia until I realised I look normal and no guy had ever given a shit.

No. 137243

>>137242
Also, labia surgery carries huge risk of urinary issues due to all the nerves down there. And guys really don't care. A lot of them don't even know that "weird" vaginas are a thing. The only ones complaining are robots who would quickly drop their criticisms if they actually managed to get IRL poon.

No. 137244

>>137242
>>137243

I know it's considered physically "normal," I just always hear guys say how they hate 'beef curtains' and it makes me hate myself so much. oh well. i'd think i'd be willing to take the risk.

No. 137245

>>137241
My boyfriend has this and it doesn't bother me but anyway I looked it up once out of curiosity and apparently almost every case of it naturally disappears before age 30 due to hormonal changes, so maybe yours will go away too.

No. 137246

>>137244
you're going to risk piddling yourself for the rest of your life because someone else complained about "beef curtains"?

I repeat, the vast majority of men don't give a shit. Work on getting in shape, or some hobbies, or on your character.

No. 137247

>>137244
Really I used to feel the same way until I actually had sex, so I'm wondering if you have had sex before? Guys who complain about "beef curtains" are probably 90% guys that don't get a lot of sex.

It's also possible that the clitoris gets damaged during the surgery.
It's really not worth it unless your labia cause physical issues.

No. 137248

>>137247
>Guys who complain about "beef curtains" are probably 90% guys that don't get a lot of sex

Yep, this is true. They're the male equivalent of the virgin size queens you find all over the Internet.

No. 137249

>>137247
absolutely true. my longtime highschool bf was extremely immature always talking about how disgusting pubic hair and 'beef curtains' were so much so that I refused to ever be intimate with him because I felt so insecure only to find out that my body is completely normal and anyone I've been intimate with since has never once complained and only said good things.

guys who complain about shit like that are fucking idiots and are losers who watch too much porn, seriously. no joke.

No. 137250

>>137247
True. Often it's just a way guys are trying to get back at women because some girl said something negative about them in highschool or turned them down. Of course they end up being bitter and as a result having almost no sex at all instead of moving on like a normal person would.

No. 137251

>>137250
Ah yes 100% this. Those are the same guys that call their sexual partners sluts when the "slut" dumps them.

No. 137252

>>137247
This anon knows what's up. I'd say don't do it, I haven't heard complaints about beef curtains coming from guys who regularly have sex.

>>137244
I have them, and actually had to have surgery down there – begging you to reconsider here, it hasn't been quite the same since.

No. 137253

>>137244
Agreed with all other anons, guys just love pussy. Insecure virgins/bitter little shits use "beef curtains" to hurt you, ignore them. Also check out great wall of vagina or something of the like, Helped me realize just how normal my vag is. GL!

No. 137254

Survey question: if an ugly/average girl (or anyone really) uses makeup to look pretty, does that make her pretty? Or is she an ugly/average girl wearing makeup?

I always thought of "ugly" as your natural facial features, not your makeup or fashion or even fitness choices.

As a teen I switched between makeup and no makeup days. People noticed and told me that I looked pretty with makeup on and I was all wtf? If I have to wear makeup to look pretty, that means I'm hideous :/

No. 137255

>>137254
Well sure, if you wanna think about it that way, I think very few people can be considered pretty and men would be the 'fairer sex'.

The thing is, we've been conditioned to like what we like and you can't go against that. There's also plenty of other factors that play into how someone perceives others, so what's attractive to me may not be attractive to others. I know a guy I'd rate a 9 if he wasn't a massive bag of dicks, but to everyone else he's a 4 on a good day.

On top of that, most women look quite plain without makeup unless their bone structure is really out of this world. Even then they probably look like manly he-women without mascara and lipstick.

I'd say you're pretty if you can be pretty with minimal/reasonable amounts of makeup and without crazy contouring, falsies, bitch lipstick, nutella foundation, hair extensions etc. But really, what's pretty to me may be ugly to someone else so you can't really say for sure unless you suffer from a crippling facial disfigurement or something.

No. 137256

>>137254
I think if someone cleans up nicely they're plain at the worst, not truly ugly.

No. 137257

>>137254
I always wondered that too.
I know im plain witout makeup but i think i look pretty with makeup on. Does that mean that im actually plain/ugly looking?
Its so confusing

No. 137258

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>>137254
I've always thought that being pretty/ugly depends on your natural features as well. For reference, I never wear makeup myself.

Pic semi-related, it's a lineup of Louis Vuitton models with no makeup.

No. 137259

>>137258
I love how some wear sunglasses to hide their dark circles/red eyes kek

No. 137260

>>137258
Yeah, some look good, some not so good.

No. 137261

>>137260
Agree. The majority have naturally nice bone structure but some of them look really weird and ugly.

I know what >>137258 means though. Even with the ugly ones they have an interesting bone structure that probably makes them rather appealing when they do wear make-up.

No. 137262

>>137254

makeup enhances your features, if you're ugly without makeup you'd still be ugly with it, no matter how much contour you do.

If you're naturally cute/plain/whatever, you'll still be around the same with makeup. Yeah, you'll look a little better because you're covering blemishes on your skin or bringing more attention to your best features, but makeup can't take a 2 to a 10.

No. 137263

tfw
>kind of a potato nose
>weird lips, hardly any upper lip noticeable unless looked at from below or i make duckface
>long chin
>uneven eyelids

honestly i just want to die

No. 137264

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any farmers know what's that lumpy fat stuff on my chin and how to get rid of it? I've been trying to Google but all I get are double chins.

No. 137265

>>137264
Do you have a receding chin? That kind of dimpled effect is pretty common with them. They call them peach pit chins.

People can get it fixed all sorts of ways - implants, fillers or botox.

No. 137266

>>137265
You're right. I think I do have a receding chin. And an overbite too. Thanks anon!

I'll figure out a way to fix it soon

No. 137267

>>137266
No problem! If it really bothers you, talk to both a doctor and a dentist/orthodontist first to make sure your teeth and jaw are okay before doing anything else. Sometimes it can be an alignment issue that can be resolved medically rather than fixed superficially.

Imo it's not that noticable and you have a nice chin shape for it, but it's your face so it's your opinion that matters. Hope it works out, anon.

No. 137268

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I've always struggled with feeling ugly because I genuinely was as a child, thanks to my stubborn mother.

She always insisted on cutting my hair into this ugly long bob with blunt bangs even though I have a small forehead and it completely swallows me up. She also never saw it fit to apply sunscreen on me even though we lived in a sunny place so I'd always get sunburns every spring which would darken into a deep tan. On top of that I had massive bushy eyebrows, hairy arms and legs and a mustache that she NEVER let me shave because 'they're CHILDREN'S eyebrows!' She also beat me severely when I refused to eat because she 'wanted me to get a shapely bum and thighs'. I was 10, I couldn't be 'shapely' if I tried.
Because of all this I looked like a completely different race and was bullied in school from age 7 to 16, I kid you not. And the day I grabbed those tweezers and plucked my brows was like fucking Christmas, the name calling stopped the next day.

Just to give you a picture of how tan I was, my natural and current skin tone is number 13 on the right.

I'm still butthurt about it, I was called so many nasty names in school. I'll bet you wouldn't even be able to guess my ethnicity right just based on the pictures alone.

No. 137269

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>>137268
Oh man, you're not alone. I can relate to the hair issues mostly. I had a full on unibrow and mustache. I was also pretty dark from the sun as well so I looked burned, ashy and hairy.

I had a full layer of leg/arm hair in the last two years of elementary school and my mom dressed me in shorts all the time even if I protested. My parents didn't want me to shave or wax at all either, so they refused to buy me hair removal products. I didn't have anything like tweezers in my house, so I had to use one of those dental floss sticks (pic related) to finally shave it down. It came kind of stubbly, but it looked waay better.

My older sister finally took pity on my moustache and helped me wax and shave before high school though, thank god. I don't know how you got through it.

Btw, is your mom still that terribly abusive? Did you manage to get away from her?

No. 137270

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>>137269
Yeah, I'm in college now and live in a rented flat with my bf. My mum's a lot more chill now, back then she was freshly divorced and we'd just moved to Italy with her new bf. Still doesn't excuse what she did and I'm fairly certain I'll always be much closer to my father than her.
The hair never grew back, so she was half right about it being 'CHILDREN'S eyebrows and body hair', so that's nice too.
Now I look like a less fat Síle Seoige so everything turned out well enough.

You've got a pretty cool sister anon, hope you're both doing better now.

No. 137271

>>137270
Glad to hear that, anon. You sound really pretty then.
You honestly didn't look bad in your child pics here >>137268 in the first place. You were a qt. But, excessive hair can ruin a qt face so I get what you mean.

I'm much better looking (still maybe 6/10 tho), but anything was better than what I looked like as a child. I was literally the ugliest girl in class as a kid. That fucking sucked, I feel like I was robbed of a fun school experience.

also, does that mean you're Italian then? I totally thought you were some kind of middle eastern.

No. 137272

>>137271
Nope! Irish actually, my mum just married an Italian guy. Like I said, you wouldn't have guessed in a million years.

No. 137273

sometimes i laugh at the comments people make about cows that are 100x less hideous than i am. pretty sure if i were one, lolcow would roast me so bad i'd kill myself if i read it. honestly it's part of why my internet presence is so non-existent. i can't even bring myself to join in on the flaying, i'd feel like a fucking massive hypocrite.

also for anyone who has the same problem as me: is there ANY way at all to get rid of massive craters left by cystic acne? i feel like edward james olmos most days.

No. 137274

>>137273
dermarolling, chemical peels and vit c
primer in the meantime

No. 137275

File: 1470997328984.jpg (151.1 KB, 620x413, pia-mia-touch-11-02-2015.jpg)

>tfw when bff compliments me by saying i look just like Pia Mia

kill me pls

No. 137276

How do you even tell if you're ugly or not? I feel like I can't tell objectively and I feel like other people are lying to me when they compliment me.

I've only been called ugly once and it was by a girl who thought I was stealing her boyfriend, I've never had negative comments on my apperance otherwise but I don't know.

I know there's places like the amiugly subreddit but I feel like I'm just going to get
told I'm super ugly and have my self-esteem crushed even more than it already is…

No. 137277

>>137271
>>137272
Actually anyone can look middle eastern if you slap on a pair of bushy eyebrows and give them a tan, especially a chubby child with undefined features. I just tried it with the woman's picture.

No. 137278

>>137276
i think if youve never been hit on or persued or complimented in general
girls get way more compliments than guys and if you have never than you probably arent good looking

No. 137279

>>137278
I mean, I have been but I don't really feel like that's a good way of figuring out if someone's ugly or not. There's plenty of ugly girls that get hit on and persued, plus that doesn't take women's views on ugly or not into account.

No. 137280

>>137279
The only way to know for sure is to post it somewhere. Your friends and family won't tell you that you're ugly and places like /soc/ and amiugly are pretty much known for inflating ratings. If you do post it there, make sure you ask for them to be brutally honest.

If you don't care too much, post your face in an imgur link here. Incase you don't want your image to be hosted on this site. We'll most likely give you a super honest rating.

No. 137281

>>137272
i guessed irish!

No. 137282

I have a really wide and short face (stubby), not to mention my hair is super frizzy and dry 24/7 and I have yellow teeth. Doesn't help that I'm like 50 lbs overweight too.
Any advice farmers? ;___;

No. 137283

>>137282
>omg I'm ugly because I'm fat
>what do I do??????

Lose weight, retard. It'll help the overweight thing of course, but it'll also help your face shape.

No. 137284

>>137282
Do you have curly hair by any chance? If you do I found the /r/curlyhair subreddit super helpful.

Nothing wrong with crest teeth whitening either.

No. 137285

I'm morbidly obese with Binge Eating disorder. I think about food every second of the day. Dieting is just not an option for me, i simply do not have the mental fortitude.

I also have two teeth missing, and the worst thinnest pale yellow eyelashes even though my brows almost black.

No. 137286

>>137285
So go get professional help, quit making excuses for yourself. There's even free support groups for this shit if you don't have the money.

No. 137287

In the case of those girls who feel "ugly": you can always start working on your skin, nails and hair, natural looks are better to start, and change your clothing style.

No. 137288

>>137285
you are going to keep making excuses, I really want you to do something for your health so get professional help soon, trust doctors.

No. 137289

>>137281
Haha, good job anon!

No. 137290

>>137286
I see one regularly. I used to be over 300lbs. It isn't an excuse. It is ruining my life.

No. 137291

Anyone else have adult acne, uneven skin and generally inflamed skin?

I see a derm and have a skin care routine + wear sunscreen. shit sucks man. People who use dove soap bars on their face have better skin then me.

No. 137292

>>137291
I'm 19 and still have acne like I did at 15. Sucks to be me.

No. 137293

>>137291
my bf does not have a derm (or probably never has had to go to one), no skincare routine at all (minus maybe washing it when he showered every few days) and and never wears sunscreen on his face

his skin is like flawless. not a single wrinkle, small pores, smooth like a fucking baby.

meanwhile yeah, i do all of that and mine is shit.


No. 137294

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I have a mix of a tranny and a neantherdal face. With a pic of only my face I've been confused with trannys more than once. It kills me.
Also my fucking body, I have a pear shaped one but not cute, quite extreme. Like, I'm flat chested but I have HUGE hips and bum. Totally unproportional. Also, I'm getting fat cus I don't mind taking care of myself anymore, what's the purpose?
All my life people have laughed at how bizarre I look, even my mother.
When I live home she aways begs me to cover my body the best I can so people won't notice.

No. 137295

>>137291
I get hormonal acne due to pcos. There's never a time where I don't have at least a couple pimples on my face. I'll finally be healing some and then new ones arrive. And they aren't easy to deal with, they're deep cystic ones. And they're so painful that I always have to pop them to relieve the pressure, so they always take forever to heal. Fml.

No. 137296

>>137294
>I have a mix of a tranny and a neantherdal face. With a pic of only my face I've been confused with trannys more than once. It kills me.
iktf
i am going to get a browlift, nose job and lip injections in the future and possibly a chin reduction

No. 137297

Anyone else very blatantly asymmetrical? Like it's glaringly obvious something is off about your face?

No. 137298

>>137291
Yep and then they smugly act like I'm an idiot and should just use their caveman routine.

No. 137299

File: 1471499920383.jpeg (33.86 KB, 234x250, image.jpeg)

>>137268
I can relate so hard to the sunscreen. I used to run around all summer with no sunscreen and turn into a brown person even though I'm naturally ridiculously pale. I don't even think my piece of shit mom had any sunscreen in the house.

Now I have horrible huge raised moles all over. If I can convince a doctor to remove one they leave a horrible scar and it hurts like hell. They also won't remove them most of the time even the annoying raised ones.

No. 137300

>>137299
OP here, I had the same problem. I guess I lucked out in that I don't have many, and the ones I do are mostly of the small and flat variety, but they're harder to remove.

If yours are raised, they can be removed with radiofrequency or laser. Just make sure to visit a plastic surgeon, not a derm, derms will potentially give you shit for wanting them gone and sometimes flat out refuse to do it. They only remove flat and extremely large moles surgically.
I had mine removed and honestly don't regret it. It can get pricey though, so keep that in mind.

No. 137301

i just want ps to get rid of my protruding mouth and nigger lips

No. 137302

>>137268
I can relate. My mom wasn't abusive, but as a little kid I had hay hair because it was so dry. Sunscreen and moisturizing, what's that? I was pretty ignorant of what conditioner could do until around middle or high school when a friend kindly pointed out how dry it was and introduced me to a ton of the stuff my mom wouldn't (bless her). After my family got a computer and internet, I taught myself everything and was lucky enough to not try anything too dangerous (like lemon juice baking soda scrubs on my face) from whatever's floating out there on the internet.

Mom spent a lot on skincare and makeup for herself, but refused to teach me shit about how to adequately take care of myself (even when I asked multiple times) besides that I should shower regularly.

No. 137303

>>137297
yes, me. my nose. i broke it as a kid and even though i've had a nose job it is still slightly tilted left.

it sucks so much. in pictures it looks like someone punched me in the face 5 seconds before.

>>137298
this so hard. my routine is so fucking intricate ;_; and they usually give me worse advice in the long run

>>137302
>Mom spent a lot on skincare and makeup for herself, but refused to teach me shit about how to adequately take care of myself (even when I asked multiple times) besides that I should shower regularly.

Me too! Even though she'd blame me for it and make me do horrible shit homemade shit like lemon juice baking soda scrubs. And physical exfoliation when I had real bad cystic acne fml. But it was always out of her realm to recommend some facewash or take me to get a facial or anything, even though she would always be spending money on herself. My mom was somewhat abusive though.


No. 137304

>>137303
I guess mine was more neglectful than outright abusive. I remember when I was 5 or 6 I got the worst sunburn of my life on my back, and my mom didn't do anything except tell me that it'll go away soon if I stay out of the sun. I didn't know what the fuck aloe vera was for until I was like 11 or 12.

My dad traveled a lot for business, and it was only when he was around(or when grandparents were visiting) that she would at least put lotion on me (and my perpetually dry hands) when I was little.

As soon as I was old enough I would buy basic things like cleanser and moisturizer for myself, and they literally saved my skin.

No. 137305

File: 1471817581206.gif (593.59 KB, 450x345, tumblr_o2ylr2zUG81uevhdso1_500…)

>awful overbite
>pretty okay jawline definition and high cheekbones but a bit of fat under my chin
>convinced one of my eyes is slightly smaller than the other
>crooked smile
I literally have all my older sister's features but made way bigger. I have a good upper face but a mediocre bottom half and it kills me.
>tfw only a tier above Grimes

No. 137306

>>137304
>>137303
>>137302
Damn I thought I was the only one with tons of mommy issues. Also my mom is probably crazy as fuck.

No. 137307

File: 1479487420099.jpg (194.63 KB, 741x1200, 2real.jpg)

tfw you are 15 and your female friends are pairing each other with ANY guy they have spoken to and you are the only one who is never paired up.

We did this a lot in highshool. It was fun until I noticed I've never been as pretty as them, not even in their eyes.

No. 137308

>>137305
A guy that used to like me told me I like like Grimes. I want to kill myself, I used to think I looked normal but now it's all making sense to me.

No. 137309

File: 1479494962876.png (172.68 KB, 309x307, 0000.png)

> never have good teeth in the first place
> be retarded teenager
> become bulimic
> 8 years later have teeth so shitty and yellow you avoid eye contact when you speak lest someone accidentally sees dem fucking teeth and tries hard not to show disgust but ultimately fails

hahah a kissless virgin's life for me
also I'm not even skinny anymore because of ""recovery"" I am a bloated fucking potato face and just truly worthless in general aylmao

No. 137310

>born cis
>bitches about being ugly

Pls honey, you know nothing. Like do you know how much make up I have to cake on every morning to avoid a 5 o'clock shadow?
Do you know how expensive getting fitting clothes and shoes is when you're 5'11?
Do you know how many hours I has to practice talking to myself to just sound normal?
Do you have any clue just how annoying it is when everyone auto assumes you're thin skinned and a crazy tumblrina??

No. 137311


No. 137312

File: 1479501763881.gif (731.38 KB, 400x225, tumblr_mjicpggMej1qlvwnco1_400…)

>>137310
i have the same issues, hunty. cis women dont know how privileged they are to have a vagania.

No. 137313

>>137310
>Do you have any clue just how annoying it is when everyone auto assumes you're thin skinned and a crazy tumblrina??

You certainly sound like one tho.

Also: PECS OR GTFO

No. 137314

>>137310
if other girls complaining about being ugly triggers you you kinda are a thin skinned tumblrina. You shouldn't be complaining that others can't complain because "boo hoo I have it harder", literally fuck off with that attitude.

No. 137315

>>137310
>>137312
Fuck off, this is a girls-only board.

No. 137316

File: 1479554506178.png (743.84 KB, 964x768, 1422855630771.png)

>>137310
>>137312
>mfw I'm a cis women and have noticeable facial hair and a permanent 5 o'clock shadow regardless of whether I remove it or not
>mfw there are cis women who are 5'11 or taller and who have deep or just totally weird voices
Shut the fuck up, do you think all cis/real women are clones or something?

No. 137317

>>137310
>>137312
You aren't women and you will never be, fuck off freaks

god damn I hate trannies, putting on a dress and makeup doesn't hide the fact you have BALLS

No. 137318

are you guys really taking that shit tier bait? did you just come here from facebook?

No. 137319

File: 1479586632238.jpg (57.89 KB, 432x574, 1476803656764.jpg)

>>137310
>Pls honey, you know nothing. Like do you know how much make up I have to cake on every morning to avoid a 5 o'clock shadow?

Do you know what it is having to wear makeup because people expect you to be wear makeup and if you don't, you are considered unclean and ugly by default?

>Do you know how expensive getting fitting clothes and shoes is when you're 5'11?


Do you know how expensive getting fitting clothes are if you are petite, fat or tall? Not all women are 165cm 55kg however stores seem to think so.

>Do you know how many hours I has to practice talking to myself to just sound normal?


Do you know that women have to constantly check if they are not sounding too assertive or critical so they don't sound aggressive to others?

>Do you have any clue just how annoying it is when everyone auto assumes you're thin skinned and a crazy tumblrina??


Yeah, I imagine your pain, when everyone thinks your arguments are flawed because you are probably on your periods.

Don't use the term CIS, it's mysoginist.

No. 137320

>>137310
i'm a cis woman and i wish i was 5'11….

No. 137321

>>137305
How do you beat the overbite meme?

No. 137323

File: 1480343876473.gif (493.78 KB, 500x342, SUqBZG1.gif)

>lazy eye

it doesn't matter how much weight i lose, how many things i do to my hair or how much makup i wear - i'm so fucking ugly. my entire life i've dealt with people staring at me with unease. everything is useless. every single person that meets me thinks i'm gross.

during my childhood and teenage years it was terrible because people wouldn't hesitate in teasing me about it. as i got older people stopped being so upfront about how bad i looked, but i know no one finds me attractive or desirable.

also thom yorke cause he has it too but he has nice features (beautiful blue eyes, pale skin, blonde hair, tall) so he manages to still be cute. he's my true love.

No. 137324

>>137323
this gif syncs up really well to Bomberman Hero's OST, the track Spiral in particular

No. 137325

>>137316
>mfw there are cis women who are 5'11 or taller and who have deep or just totally weird voices
I'm one of them. I used to go by a somewhat androgynous nickname and went to get shoes with my then boyfriend and the women behind the counter expressed a lot of confusion when I said my name as I was picking up sz12s.

When talking on voice chat for games, I've straight up been asked if I was a "tranny".

My height is found to be either intimidating, or a fetish. Plus Anon isn't considering what it's like to be a "cis" woman and have manly features. I only have strong cheekbones and "non cute" nose, but I've been called man-face for it. I know there's girls with way worse (wide shoulders, strong jawline).

Transgirls do go through a lot of physical, but telling cis girls their struggles are invalid is bullshit, especially when everything that Anon listed can also be faced by cis girls.

No. 137326

I'm not sure. I have a manly, boney face shape, one eyelid bigger than the other, jew-nose with bulbous tip, sunken eyes (hereditary dark undereyes), teeth asymmetrical. And that fucking chin dimple.
Always thought I was just below average.
Having good hair, clean face, (subtle) makeup and tidy style seem to bring me to average.

I'm too weird and awkward in personality and somehow it's distracted me from thinking I'm ugly though.

No. 137327

File: 1480367213773.png (633.14 KB, 1280x689, tumblr_oeyd1dTrpB1qmf2s5o1_128…)

I want to cosplay pic related but I'm so fucking ugly I feel like it's pointless to go to a con. People will probably take pictures of me to post online to make fun of, or sneer and laugh at me in private.


No. 137328

>>137308
>grimes
you lucky bitch, people have told me i look like the shaggs.

No. 137329

>>137324

it actually kinda does! i'm glad something positive came out of this.

No. 137330

>>137308
what's wrong with grimes? she's like offbeat elfin pretty but still pretty

No. 137331

File: 1480419348157.jpg (1.21 MB, 1800x1326, 3020-Rhinoplasty-Before-1-Mont…)

well im most likely getting a nosejob next year, im hoping for similar to pic related.

I'll still hate my skin, and my hairs too short and uneven and my chin is non existent and etc etc, but my main concern is the nose, so im happy.

If you really hate how you look, why not dedicate yourself to changing it? there are ways to make the money. Loans. find out what works for you and follow your fucking dreams.

That said, the majority in this thread are probably not that unattractive, we are always harshest on our own selves.

No. 137332

File: 1480538503533.jpg (65.23 KB, 800x599, grimes-art-angels.jpg)

>>137308
>>137330
This. She has good bone structure, really the only things that make her off-putting are all things that can easily be fixed with a little hygiene (the greasy hair, unkempt brows, ears could easily be covered by hair) but y'know, ~artsy~.

No. 137333

>>137327
good chance you're imagining it.

only the bottom 10% of bad cosplay gets that treatment, where someone morbidly obese or with visible inbreeding and overbite plus a unibrow dresses up in 'sexy' cosplay

No. 137334

>>137333

she may just be a fatass with a unibrow and no makeup skills tbh

No. 137335

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>tfw all the boys in your family are handsome and fairly popular
>be the oldest girl in you family
>also be the only girl that looks like an unattractive man
>have all female cousins look like cute, small skinny popstars from the 90's

I spose I could give up the trying to look feminine enough to look "okayish" and just gove up, go back to dressing like a dude and being confused for a gay man again

No. 137336

>>137335
why don't go for the androgynous look? I think you can own it anon

No. 137337

>>137333

im overweight and look visibly inbred… :(


No. 137338

>>137336
I was thinking this too. It sounds like you could really pull it off, anon.

No. 137339

>>137337

Lose weight then

No. 193712

my nose is very similar to grimes' nose (very wide bridge on a caucasian girl) and it looks ridiculous in any kind of face-on portrait photo. Is it the nose that makes grimes look off?

No. 193715


No. 193741

I'm ugly and fat. I try not to whine too much since I'm not willing to mitigate either, but I do think it's bullshit my male equivilent has it a lot easier and gets treated better, and people treat me shitty even when my looks have nothing to do with the situation.

No. 193781

>>137331
get hair extensions

No. 395703

anyone got any tips on a prominent eyebrow bridge or whatever its called. Mine sticks out loads and ppl have always said I looke like a man since I was really young and I'm cis :(

No. 395708

>>395703
I would advise to get a haircut that softens up the face a little. I have a pretty prominent ridge as well and i found having shorter, textured bangs helps draw attention away from the brows. Too whispy and feathery, it'll look the opposite. Also brow shape is kind of key, make sure a little more hair is plucked on the bottom part of the brow so it'll lighten up your eyes.
I've heard wearing lipstick helps, but I feel it makes my face look very heavy, if that makes sense.

No. 395842

I'm ugly but I still have a good husband who loves and cherishes me despite my face and my body
he makes me feel special and loved
feel good man

No. 396138

the mirror/selfie phenomenon is discussed ad nauseam, but dae here think that they look fine in pictures that other people take of them, but looks borderline subhuman in selfies? any explanation for this?

also, i took some photos of myself with my dslr the other day and i actually looked decent…but whenever i try using my phone's camera i look disgusting. but people post selfies of themselves taken with their iphones all of the time and look gorgeous so i'm not sure if i can blame it on that

i know i'm sperging about this. i just want to know what i actually look like

No. 396145

>>396138
Looking good on a dslr or at a distance/taken by others is actually pretty hard to do. selfie cams are always warped as hell, and maybe it warps you in all the wrong ways. Selfie cams make my face look longer and more angular, when it is actually oval and quite soft (i look like a moonface on dslrs) so it's all about the lenses.

No. 396427

i don't wanna go too much into detail cause I'm uncomfortable but I have won the genetic lottery by lacking and losing features that basically define a woman's femininity.
I feel like a freak compared to almost every other girl. So even if you guys feel ugly, but are otherwise "normal" then please don't be too harsh on yourself.
You're probably your own worst critic. That isn't supposed to sound preachy btw, I just find it sad to see normal young women hate themselves.

No. 396435

>>396138
Yeah, I feel this way too. But I think it's better to look good in photos other people take of you than selfies. Also to understand most people edit their selfies in some way, very few people upload selfies of themselves that aren't doctored. I look good on video and in photos other people take of me, but absolutely hate the way I look in selfies, so I don't take them. The whole concept of selfies is weird anyway. You're forcing a pose and expression for a closeup photo of your face. It's gonna look weird no matter what haha



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