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No. 1324213

post things you love about yourself, go!

No. 1324217

My hair is tailbone length. Its actually one of the very few things I like about myself and it's a huge part of my self confidence. Whenever I feel too shit to go outside, I just let my hair down so it hangs at full length. It immediately gives me a boost

No. 1324253

this shit reeks of male. i hate this, i will burn this thread in real life

No. 1324257

>>1324253
The feminine urge to loathe every aspect of yourself, the fuck anon

No. 1324265

My dimples when I smile.

No. 1324268

>>1324217
admirable, I tried to grow mine out and it just stayed the same length, a bit over my boobs for over a year while accumulating split ends and just becoming frizzy further down. Whenever I see a girl on the streets that managed to get it that long, I always love to see it.

No. 1324269

>>1324213
I like how skinny my arms are and that my collar bones are visible.

No. 1324271

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>>1324269
Here we go

No. 1324273

i love my upturned lips, i think they are cute, probably would have gotten surgery on them to look this way if i had them any other way.
and i like my long thick eyelashes i got from my mom, thanks mommy. my father is asian so he has invisible width ones that you can only really see from the side.

No. 1324275

I love that my butt got bigger from gaining a bit of weight and doing donkey kicks and squats 2x a week

No. 1324279

i think i like my nose shape. itis weird because i hate every other part of my body but i dont have the most wide-spread insecurity. idk it is on the small side and unless i smile, the bridge doesnt look that bad.

No. 1324281

>>1324213
I like my crooked teeth, I think they fit my face and are cute and having to correct them makes me sad

>>1324267

it's probably the gif that threw her off

No. 1324284

>>1324273
I have upturned lips too, anon! I love them as well. I love my smile. It’s huge.

No. 1324287

I have a strong sense of who I am. I'm not easily swayed by trends or outside pressure. I'm true to myself even when it's not the popular thing. I'm not someone who cracks up when I'm left in my own company. I'm not too dependant on others to build me up. I'm resilient.

No. 1324293

I'm multi-talented af.

No. 1324299

I love my 'tistic style of humor. I'm not haha funny, but I'm fun to be around.

No. 1324309

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My sharp canines. I pretend that I'm a vampire living amongst humans.

No. 1324310

Thanks for this thread

No. 1324318

>>1324253
How is it male to love yourself? Shitty take kek

No. 1324321

I like my collarbones! I also like how far I can walk. I average like 8 miles a day. I also love how soft my hair is.

No. 1324332

That I don't need outside validation and don't engage in social media.

No. 1324334

I like my eyelashes, lips, and my body shape.
I guess for non superficial things I like about myself, I like that I'm always doing new shit and that I'm pretty great at stuff when I actually dedicate myself to it.
>>1324326
That's Shehulk and Megan right? I think anon just thought it was cute kek.

No. 1324363

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*I have cool interests
*I have great hair
*I’m good at problem solving
*I refuse to partake in social media
*I once kept an orchid in bloom for 8 months straight

No. 1324365

I love my hair. I love that I have good taste in music and manga and that I stopped caring about what others think about my tastes and hobbies long ago. I'm not easy to influence either.

No. 1324370

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My lips! They're similar to picrel. I genuinely used to be jealous of Venus and wanted thin lips because I thought they looked so cute and dainty but one of my friends from highschool said I had really well proportioned lips. I didn't believe her. Now full lips are all the rage but I won't be needing any fillers to have "desirable" lips. The experience has taught me that my features are fine and at some point in time, each of my natural features will be considered beautiful, though probably not all at the same time. Sorry plastic surgeons, you're not preying on my insecurities!

No. 1324374

My long model like legs. I always look so good in mini skirts kek

No. 1324377

>>1324363
ANON HOW WITH THE ORCHID i just bought a blue one and its started dropping the flowers wtf do i do

No. 1324404

I am beautiful. I have pretty legs. I also have really beautiful eyes and a nice smile. I love my nose after hating it for a long time. I am fiercely devoted to people and causes that I care about. I love my sense of humor. I'm intelligent and love to learn. I love my range of emotions and my expressiveness. I love my talents and my variety of passions and stories. I'm one of a kind tbh.

No. 1324408

>>1324377
Keep a close eye on the substrate. At least for phalenopsis (your run-of-the-mill grocery store orchid), you want the substrate to dry out between waterings but you should water it once it’s dry and not wait after that point. I feel like over/under watering is the most common way people mess up orchid blooms.
There’s also a chance your orchid was nearing the end of its bloom cycle when you bought it. This is why it’s always a good idea to buy an orchid that’s not 100% bloomed yet. If the blooms are dying naturally you’ll see they die one by one in the same order they first open: with the ones lowest on the spike first. It also could be reacting to mistreatment before you bought it, if you bought it recently.
Generally though, having a flower die prematurely is a red flag that you’re doing something wrong. Also if the plant gets so under watered that the leaves start to wrinkle it is a sign that you’re doing very badly. Flowers will start to die before that point though.

No. 1324418

>>1324408
i think i overwatered then and the blooms were done since it was 100% bloom and they one by one dropped as soft not crunchy. the roots look super bunched up in the plastic pot so maybe i'll repot with perline, cococoir, and soil. it was on sale because it was smaller and had mistreatment before me compared to the super nice $30 pot ones.

No. 1324424

>>1324418
Good luck! I’d recommend sticking with an orchid pot if you can. You can either stick one of the holey plastic inserts in a regular pot or you can buy pots with holes specifically for orchids. This allows greater airflow so the substrate doesn’t start to rot.
In the past I’ve only ever used orchid potting mix for big ones and spagnum moss for baby orchids, so can’t comment on your substrate choice.

No. 1324425

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>>1324424
Dropped my picrel

No. 1324436

Why do subhuman women think twerking is empowerment(Pakichan aka (C)rapchan)

No. 1324443

I like my height, I'm 5'2, I think shorter women look young for a long time, and we can also go to non-american/euro countries and not stick out like a sore thumb

No. 1324451

>>1324436
(C)rap-chan ily

No. 1324455

>>1324436
wait wait pakichan is also crapchan??

No. 1324462

>>1324436
>that redtext
What?

No. 1324463

>>1324455
it took you that long enough? The things they posted was always similar and identical, it was pretty obvious anon.

No. 1324466

>>1324463
i know they had similar views but i thought crapchan was black or half black?? she said something about it iirc

No. 1324467

>>1324436
The redtext lmao

No. 1324468

>>1324370
Good for you anon!! I used to thin my lips were too big as a kid, now I am happy with them as an adult since they make my face proportionate.

No. 1324472

>>1324464
Newfag nonna, just report and ignore all newfags.

No. 1324473

>>1324466
probably lied when being called out for their constant racebaiting towards black women. Whatever they are, they are still a spergy mofo.

No. 1324479

>>1324455
>>1324436
What a plot twist, but it makes sense considering her anti-fujo sperging

No. 1324480

Since the thread got derailed.

My favorite part about me has to be how dedicated i am, like when i really want something i go for it 100%, the problem is im rarely motivated so i dont have much im passionate about sadly lol.

No. 1324482

>>1324253
what fucking male would post or even like megan thee stallion? you call shit you don’t like male just to get it fucking shut down, i’m so tired of posters like you shut the fuck up and just hide the thread. touch some fucking grass not everything positive involves scrotes

No. 1324483

>>1324473
true, pakichan has a long history of lying and backtracks a lot when called out

No. 1324488

>>1324482
No male at all.
Checkmate.(Tranny spammer)

No. 1324496

>>1324488
Ironic that everything has to be empowering when most of the anons here have or still have boyfriends/husbands and do things like wearing makeup and shaving that 16 year old radfems consider sins that should throw you into labor camps if you do them. No1curr, I agree with radical feminists but some things are just so fucking retarded to argue(infighting)

No. 1324503

>>1324443
manlet

No. 1324506

>>1324505
Read it and you might get who posts Megan the Stallion and gets called a scrote all the time.

No. 1324511

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>>1324506
????????????

No. 1324519

This is why you dont reply to the infighters you retards, considering one of them was literally the tranny.

Either way what i love about myself are my eyebrows they are bushy like Cara but still have a nice shape.

No. 1324523

Aw fuck! the tranny is here, pack it up you guys the fun is over now.

No. 1324656

>>1324443
bullshit lots of euro women are tall and the shorties stick out. short women are cute tho

No. 1324661

I really like my eyebrows. People often say that they're really thick, which is nice since I like thick eyebrows on others too.

No. 1324676

>>1324656
????
that's what I'm saying. I'm shorter than the average european/american, so I also think that adds to the youth factor. I could also walk around a place like japan and not stand out by being some amazonian nordic giant.

No. 1324690

>>1324688
natural eyebrow shape >>> drawn/plucked thin/thick brows

No. 1324781

>>1324213
Big ups to whoever made this thread!
I really love my curly hair. After hating it for the first 20 years of my life, resorting to chemically straightening it for a good chunk, I absolutely love the curls I have. Also I have a gap tooth in the front that's perfectly symmetrical and i've always loved it. I've been blessed with straight teeth, have all my wisdom teeth without issue and some idiot dentist offered me braces to close the gap…at 16. For perspective i'd have to wear a retainer for the rest of my life to keep it closed and i had also expressed no dissatisfaction with the look of my teeth.
Non vanity wise i'm loyal to my moral compass and have always stuck up for what i think is right, whether i like someone personally or not.

No. 1324837

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i got cheek dimples and venus dimples, i think they are cute. also i do a lot of studying just to learn

No. 1324875

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I love that i have a zero tolerance rate for bullshit. I love that my straight forwardness is offensive to most men in authoritative positions.
I love that I told directors and producers to fuck off when i was working on set. I love that men dont know how to navigate it.

No. 1324889

I like that my reputation precedes me in my work and that I have a strong sense of justice. That I can make even the shyest girls I meet laugh pretty quickly after meeting them. That I have been hurt enough by life to know what it takes to be a good friend, and that I am now lucky enough to have a few. And my shining achievement from which I derive a massive amount of self worth: that I have been quoted about a couple dozen times in the various caps threads.

No. 1324898

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I like that I'm able to write out extremely long paragraphs that border on essays in a short period of time about anything on the fly, usually inane shit that makes me happy, I am an ace when it comes to writing and writing makes me happy.

No. 1325253

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I like that I'm really good at reading cats behaviour ! Ever since I've been 3 yo, I have obsessed with cats, and now I feel like I could be some sort therapist for cat like Jackson Galaxy kek

>>1324900

there must be something nonnie, I'm sure!

No. 1325258

I have a pretty natural hair colour I don't see on people very often. Sometimes I appreciate how stubborn and skeptical I can be. I had a shitty ex boyfriend tell me "you think anyone can manipulate YOU? the most stubborn person in the world?" I think it's saved my ass growing up more than once.

No. 1325266

>>1324253
You’re talking shit. Explain yourself.

No. 1325273

My cheekbones. My jawline. My reddish brown hair. My waist is very defined and I have nice boobies. ( tbh I find it more amusing to talk about the physical things I don’t like about myself though, like my corn-infested gnarled old lady toes)
Things I like about my personality: I’m very laid back but I can be very brave and assertive if I have to be. I am good at forming positive relationships. I have a bizarre sense of humour. I’m really good at talking rubbish, if that makes sense.
I’m naturally athletic, I’m good at any physical activity I try.

No. 1325289

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I like that I'm awesome and I am able to keep myself company. I understand myself and I am tech-savvy so I'm able to help my parents whenever they have an issue. I like that I discovered this site years ago so I can talk to other epic anons like the cool anon reading this right now (if you don't have a penis).

No. 1325303

My shoulders. They're broad but slim and slightly muscular but it suits me a lot and others have complimented me on them. They often assume that I must be athletic but I mostly sit in front of my computer 24/7.

No. 1325375

Time to hide another thread pic.

No. 1325387

I love being tall! I can eat more than short skinnyfat women because my BMR is higher (fuck me if there's a famine though) and I make manlets seethe. I love my long muscular legs and going running and playing sports.

No. 1325391

>>1324253
I agree. My instincts scream scrote

No. 1325410

>>1325391
It was made by a tranny yesterday he made a post yesterday about it but it got deleted

No. 1325411

>personality
I have great taste and I really like how naturally (book)smart I am! And I like that it spans various areas like art, culture, history, politics, biology, physics, etc. For this reason, I love spending time with myself and just thinking.
>looks
My collarbones, hands and nails, and my big eyes + lashes. I'm happy that bangs suit me. I guess I like that I have a small, boyish frame.
I don't care if a male made this thread. I need to be nicer to myself

No. 1325429

>>1325423
>noi
Where’s Shin

No. 1325446

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>>1325410
It wasn’t made a scrote dumbass, it was made by me because I was reading something and someone mentioned that Megan was in one of the episodes of She-Hulk and I thought that show was cancelled. I don’t even know why I’m even explaining this, something as simple and innocent as a “please love yourself sometimes” thread shouldn’t be fucking tinfoiled to be started by a scrote. This shit makes me want to alog so bad, you are the fucking cancer killing this website because you seriously take the bait of a tranny over the legitimacy of a thread that’s supposed to be chill because god forbid two women are GASP twerking. May I remind you, you have stuck your piss-dribbled boyfriend’s cock into your vagina, you should be more ashamed of that than two women goofing off in a show. Grow tf up

No. 1325449

>>1325446
Get her

No. 1325454

>>1325446
unhinged but true kek

No. 1325456

>>1325446
idk this sounds like something a tranny would say

No. 1325457

>>1325446
Nta but
>May I remind you, you have stuck your piss-dribbled boyfriend’s cock into your vagina
wtf is this about

No. 1325471

>>1325464
You will never be a woman. You are a 30 year old man with no prospects in life, constantly checking up KF and this website pretending to integrate, pushing yourself into shit you’ll never understand. You will never be Chris Chan. You will also never be Elaine. No one cares enough about your existence to make a thread surrounding your presence, the worse kind of female lolcow will be infinitely more worth the attention than your sweaty dick and balls existence. Kys and stop pretending to be other posters on this website to create drama and go learn a fucking trade and stay your ass in the mines, tranny.

No. 1325472

>>1325457
The thread actually was created by the schizo tranny whose multiposting and scroting out for being caught, again. seems like trannies really can't pass huh

No. 1325478

>>1325474
Dialte you will never be a woman 41% already

No. 1325481

>>1325473
not her but look for the infamous post in the hornypost thread on /g/, or in the copypasta thread kek.

No. 1325490

>>1325480
more shit only a male would say, women don't say that kind of thing sir, only sex-obsessed and delusional trannies such as yourself

No. 1325494


No. 1325497

>>1325489
i meant that kirdee anons' essays are in those threads (i'm assuming the post i replied to first is hers, since she uses those pics of the penguin guy the most)

No. 1325501

>>1325497
God I hate that fucking Kirby autist avatarfag

No. 1325503

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>>1325480
>I'm a GNC man(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

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No. 1325511

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No. 1325512

>>1325504
Same thing.
>>1325505
Can't tell if joking or never saw a meme

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No. 1325516

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(responding to bait)

No. 1325536

I love that I'm a TERF unironically.

>>1325387
based tall nonnie

No. 1325548

>>1325525
male

No. 1325602

>>1325540
Mod you made a typo

No. 1325605

Janitor note in the redtext below.(Due to the constant infighting and derailing i have to leave this redtext note. The person who made this thread is not the troon and is a different poster)

No. 1325608

>>1325605
continuation(the troon regularly comes to this thread and other to infight and derail and i ban him whenever i can, stop responding to his bait because it only derails the thread further. Just report the posts. )

No. 1325639


No. 1325677

>>1325605
>>1325608
thank you farmhands

No. 1325707

>>1325605
Thank you janny for looking at the post history. I would say expose the troon’s post history but that would give him the attention he wants

No. 1325802

>>1325608
Shiiit I love this level of communication!

No. 1325817

>>1325608
>>1325605
I wonder why Janny decided to redtext instead of just posting as farmhand? Anyway thanks for the message.

No. 1325831

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I like my face from the front, it is cute and a bit unique, eyes nose and mouth (especially eyes). I'm insecure from the side but we're working on it

No. 1325848

>>1325817
because a janny isnt the same thing as a mod

No. 1325850

I like my upper lip hair. I honestly feel it looks very cute the way it’s just above the corners of my mouth. I sometimes worry talking about it online will make people think I’m a troon though lol.

No. 1325867

>>1325831
Let’s trade, my profile looks great but facing forward I think my face looks weird.

No. 1325906

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My face, i think it's very beautiful. I put effort into skincare for it. especially the little details. I would say my body too but honestly i've been slacking with working out.
kek i love that this thread already revealed two annoying spergs

No. 1327148

I like that I am a very patient person both in the short term and the long term. I like that I can healthily deal with my emotions and stress that life gives me.

No. 1327151

my nose
I always hated it and thought it was too big (it kind of is tbh), but I got so many compliments on it when I went to east asia

No. 1327157

I like my feet, I don’t wanna sound like one of those self infantalizing weirdos but they are very dainty and cute. Unlike me, I’m quite tall and broad.

No. 1327160

I love being retarded.

No. 1327169

i love how i am creative and can think up many interesting characters and plots

No. 1327329

I'm fucking hilarious.
I'm also proud of how many of my shitty edits have become threadpics here kek

No. 1327337

I like my broad shoulders. They make me feel powerful, even though I'm still quite physically weak, and they remind me of my potential to get stronger!

No. 1327339

>>1325253
That's so cute nonny! You must become the ultimate cat whisperer, it's your destiny

No. 1327343

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I love that I'm not a handmaiden, and that i never get lonely.

No. 1327453

>>1325473
I might! I did write a long post about my love of pigs so I might post if there's some kind of animal appreciation thread.

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>>1327339
awww thanks nonnie, here is a cute cat as a thank you gift

No. 1327710

I also like that I have dimples.
I'm happy that I found a job in my field and can have some time to explore my hobbies.

No. 1327774

Not to be a vain bitch but I know I have a good face. I've got excellent skin, lovely freckle placement and high prominent cheekbones. I feel like my face can dress up any outfit. My hair is shit tho. Thin and lank.

No. 1327891

Recently people at work have complimented me on my posture and I love it. I've had issues with scoliosis ever since my growth spurt and I started stretching properly and working on my core a few years back and it seems to be paying off.

No. 1327920

>>1327891
Damn anon, I can't imagine how well you must carry yourself but I'm still jealous. I've never seen anyone have posture so noticeably pleasant that I thought "wow I need to tell her she stands good" absolute stacey behaviour

No. 1328050

i'm so pretty that people stare at me everywhere i go. also i look like i'm 15 even though i'm 23 which sucks sometimes but it makes it soo easy to get away with shit. i've stopped fighting it.

No. 1328068

Ugh couldn’t we have a better thread pic/gif

No. 1328069

I love my nose. It may be crooked on the inside, but it suits my face so well. I also love-hate my mouth. I hate that it's small and dental work is a bitch, but I love that I can use it against a moid and unless one wants to pay $7k+ for tmj surgery, I will never have to suck a dick. I'm a virgin so I haven't gotten to say that yet.

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No. 1328162

I'm getting older and I have chilled out A LOT. I was a crazy person in the late '00s - early 20 teens and I am insanely lucky I didn't use social media or feel the need to blog about my antics because I did and got into some embarrassing cowish shit. I was miserable and addicted to alcohol and blow.

I voluntarily went to therapy. Though never diagnosed with BPD (my actual diagnosis was major depression), I have a strong hunch that's what I was acting on because my behaviors and headspace were extremely BPD. After a year of ongoing group DBT and meditation practice, I was able to honestly look at my ways. I made an effort to change my lifestyle and most importantly my thoughts. I haven't done anything remotely cringey for going on 6 years. And I'm sober now.

I had to learn how to act on my feelings of empathy for others instead of just ignoring it when I felt it. I had to learn to take the focus off myself at all times. It was hard because for a long time it felt like disappearing and/or becoming "boring."

Sorry for the long rant but the way I'm living now is something I really like about myself.

(… and sometimes I have hope for certain cows that they'll hit a rock bottom like I did and start earnestly taking DBT with the intention of actually getting better.)

No. 1328283

>>1327891
please rec me some good stretches/advice, I need to fix my postures while I'm still in my early 20s

No. 1341405

My face is an actual work of art and I'm kind of pissed that I never modeled, acted, or did anything with it because I could really use pictures of myself in my prime to decorate my walls when I'm older. Idk if ranting about lost potential fits the thread here but I'm sure some of you NEETs can relate to being attractive and maybe feeling like you wasted it? At least that's how I feel sort of.

I have pretty light eyes that are big and upturned, big straight teeth and a great smile (thanks to braces), a Chadette jawline (thanks to TMJ), incredible bone structure & forward growth, and a nice aquiline nose that fits my face.

No. 1343481

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I'm probably one of the only 26 people in this world that like their own voice lol. And I'm not the only one who does, either. My best friend has told me out of nowhere more than just once already that she really likes my voice, I've got told the same by some online friends I had when I was younger, and I've had classmates on different occasions come up to me after class and tell me that they really like me reading the texts out loud because they find my voice nice.

No. 1343507

>>1328283
NTA but core exercises are very important and have helped my posture immensely. Like OP, I also have scoliosis, and up until recently, almost debilitating lower back pain (because of a non existent core). Resistance bands are great and are used in vidrel. I do them everyday.

I went to physical therapy at one point because my low back pain was unbearable, and they had me do squats, bird-dogs, deadbugs, and bridges. Deadbugs are the absolute best, you can really feel your core work! You don't even have to move your arms, just your legs. I also do a lot of yoga. I follow SarahBethYoga on youtube. Every morning I pick a random video that fits the time I have, and I follow it. Sometimes I'll just do her stretching only videos, sometimes I'll do her power yoga videos (a bit more of a workout).

No. 1343718

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I love that I've become the cool adult I wouldn't dare to dream to be as a teen, I'm pretty, I love the way I dress, I can speak Japanese, my musical taste is impeccable and I'm fairly normie passing while retaining my weirdness. Mentally I'm not there yet but still better than even 5 years ago.

No. 1344260

>>1325831
Same, I'm thankful that I rarely get a glimpse of my profile.

No. 1344308

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I have big tibbies, pouty lips, and good skin.
My friends told me I have a good voice, not for singing ofc, but for speaking another language because I can get the intonation right the first few tries.

No. 1344369

I love that I got out of handmaidenry and started actually looking at what both sides were saying despite repeatedly being told not to. Hitting peak trans made me consider what other things I'm only seeing one twisted side of, it really made me grown as a person and make me more compassionate. I know it sounds kind of dumb, but I see other handmaidens who have been in it longer than I ever was and they're still angrily shouting online unknowing of the harm they're doing and the bad people they're actively helping and protecting. I feel like I got out of an actual cult, and it makes me feel proud.

No. 1345038

What I like about myself is that I am able to achieve the things I want even if it’s hard for me at first or I have failures along the way. I worked really hard to get where I’m at today and I am proud of myself.

No. 1345060

i used to think i jump from one hobby to another willy nilly and just waste money but when i compared myself to people who do even fewer things but progress slower in them i realised i have so many redeeming qualities and interests. jack of all trades and master of none, but better than a master of one and all that. alright i can't play a mellica solo or paint the sistine chapel but i can get the job done and make a lil' compiter game, crochet gifts for lowed ones and animate a cute charachter. quitting social media and working on myself is the best thing i ever did and i love myself for it ♥

No. 1345638

I like that I have interests that I am very passionate about. I think I am an understanding person or at least I try to be and I care a lot about wanting to be a good friend. I also like that I work hard and always try, even though I’m easily depressed and stressed out. I never stop to feel sorry for myself long enough to give up or stop pushing myself to do my best or take the easy way out.

As for my appearance, I noticed today that whenever I tie my hair up it inevitably gets a little messy. I used to hate how my hair never cooperates whenever I try to style it but I think it can be cute to have somewhat perpetually messy hair lol.

No. 1345808

I like that I’m a girl!
Nothing more magical & sinister. No man can have the kind of strength females have. All humans are prone to some kind of trauma but the sort of trauma girls from all over the world go through and still survive is incredible. Childbirth, assault, and a world that continually spits at you—even the compliments we get are denigrating. People gotta stop using men as the meter stick. All of this and men still have the highest rate of suicides and most of them already got a huge head start from the get go. Just Pathetic.

I’ve had a hard life, although not as difficult as the girls who are living through war, trafficking, and different sorts of worldly horror right now but the past year really pressed me. I’m no longer the kind of suicidal that feels sorry for myself. Sure, I still live in a city where a white girl who cries after crossing me will still get more sympathy but that’s the least of my concerns now as I can recognise these bimbos are stuck in a deeper internalised misogynistic programming than I’d ever been and there are real monsters to waste my energy on.

I shifted my thinking into seeing the world like those video games scrotes like to drown themselves in because they’re too soft for actual wars that matter (the ones where they don’t kill civilians). I see my life now as living on subjectively hard mode where I turn my phobias, traumas, and conflicts into things I just overcome. I don’t give a shit anymore if there’s no reward.

That’s the thing with living and creating things as a girl. The world will see you as a girl anyway and use that as a meter stick so might as well just do what you want and what you need. Conflict only moulded me into being more creative and tough. The one thing I don’t let anything or anyone, not even my family do to me is gaslight me through the preset notions of society. I don’t mingle with left wing/right wing bullshit. I stay educated but I try to learn to be more critical in everything. I try to protect my own and every young girl I can but at the end of the day, I don’t let anything get in the way of what’s keeping me alive.

I’ve been suicidal since I was 9 and had abusive guardians since I was 3 so going into my 20s already defeated even before I reached a quarter of my life wasn’t the best fresh start I was looking for. But I was also full of spite that people who took advantage of my kindness and naivety get to live their best lives and I don’t. I eventually saw that running on spite wasn’t gonna be enough and i did fall into unhealthy patterns of thinking not long before but I’m tapping into the human spirit and urgency to live even though there’s a guarantee none of us are survive death.

No. 1346341

I lose the genetic lottery in some ways, but I think I hit the jackpot in some other ways and I wouldn't trade it to make up for the negatives. I don't have any armpit hair at all. I don't have body odor either, so I can sweat it up and not be self conscious about it. Fine hair on my head sucks, but that means my arm and leg hair is barely visible so I don't even have to shave. Also, my parents look fantastic for their age and I know it's our genes doing a lot of heavy lifting because their diets suck ass and my dad doesn't take care of his skin at all (my mom does though). I'm more conscious about my diet, so of course I'm going to age well kek.

No. 1346342

I might be a dumb retard but I have amazing self control and I also like my sternum bones, collar bones, and hands

No. 1346349

>>1345808
Women truly are the superior gender. We live life on hard mode but are still here despite all the bullshit. Men are pussies who whine at the first moment of any inconvenience and have to rage because their little pea brains are incapable of rational thinking.

No. 1346350

>>1346341
>I don’t have any armpit hair
Perpetual child physiognomy. Massive L.

No. 1346586

I finally let go of what I wanted to look like and accept how I actually look like and in that moment I see that I'm beautiful. I like about myself that I'm so beautiful that it brings me to tears.

No. 1346628

>>1346586
This was sweet to read.

No. 1346637

I think I'm really funny. I don't know if other people do, I hope they do, but regardless I think I'm hilarious.

No. 1346639

I know how to draw and i’m hardworking towards my personal little goals

No. 1346640

I work hard, I'm strong and I have friends that love me :)

No. 1346645

This is dumb but I love my sense of smell. It's stronger than it has any right to be and acts like its own miniature brain constantly feeding information to me. I'm good at identification and most smells cause good memories or entertaining trivia for me. I have synesthesia and smells bring colors with them, which I like. It's really great when I like someone and I like how they smell, because it takes over my nose and makes my head feel fuzzy in a good way

No. 1346650

>>1346640
So sweet, I'm so happy for you nonnie

No. 1346699

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>>1345808

picrel Screenshots that warm my heart. I generally advocate for mental health but my heart is all for girls’ sheer power & the strength women innately have. I love being a girl and I can’t wait to age gracefully as a woman. The world is ugly but it’s us that keeps it beautiful. I love the way I, like many women, just keep going. I love the term “fight like a girl”. I do and I love it. We don’t quit, even in an impossible word where, for one win, we have 100 weak males kicking us down but we don’t know how to quit until we can’t no more. I love the term girl as much as I love the term woman. To any of you lovely beings going through it right now, you are so fucking powerful

No. 1347798

>I have weird and hilarious vivid dreams most nights

>I have excellent fact recall


>I am not afraid to consider whether “the other side” regardless of what the other side is depending on the context, is actually correct


>I am not afraid to do stuff alone

No. 1347815

>>1346699

NTA, but this reminds me of what I love about myself. I inadvertedly make people seethe because of what I have and don't even realise I have. I had jealous girls and pig-headed men think I was stuffing my bra for about a year. Just my figure was enough to drive these people crazy and cause them to single me out.

I did not let that get to me, but persevered after years of people like this pulling me down throught my childhood. I don't know how or why I did it, but I did. For any nonnie that feels lost and feels like they have nothing, just know that people would not be treating you this way if you had nothing. People might call you stupid when you've shown that you are intelligent and wise. They may treat you horribly as a result of their own ignorance. You might think your body is ugly, but those who want you to feel bad about it are enamoured by its beauty. People will not go out of their way to make you feel horrible if you did not have something they wanted. Just know, that sometimes it is not you, but the people you are surrounded by.

No. 1353663

>>1346699
Nona I really do not want to make you sad but, did you know women attempt far more than men? We just fail the attempts a lot more because we mostly choose to OD instead of shooting ourselves

No. 1356096

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Maybe I shouldn't like this, but I love my being a crybaby. Tiny kitty yawns? Cry. Wedding? Open the gates. Child says something adorably stupid such as brown cows make chocolate milk? Flood. Game character says I can see her as my older sister? Water. BF whisperin ily while hugging me when coming home? Sobbing. My baby cousin drawing me something? I can't even see it. Manga character loses the love of their life? Weeping. My favorite singer hits the note just right? Eyes leaking. Of course this happens with negative things too, like making mistakes at work, but I really don't like focussing on the bad things (which is another thing I like about myself), so I ignore it, and also, so far I've always been able to keep it together until it's appropriate for me to shed tears, so it's not like I'm troubling anyone I shouldn't be troubling, anyways. Do not fear drought, nonnies, for I have enough tears in my ducts to provide for the whole lot of us.

No. 1356110

>>1353663
It's okay. Women have longer lifespans than men, anyway.

No. 1356118

>>1353663
Men lord that over us by saying that when they commit suicide they're more successful, but like… Sorry for not wanting to further traumatize my parents with my suicide by blowing my head off, SwEatY~
I'm past that mindset in my life now, but never in a million years did I contemplate ending it with a gun for this reason. At least with an OD the body stays intact and aside from fluids it's not straight out of a horror movie

No. 1356168

>>1356096
I think it's really nice to have such overwhelming feelings about something! Makes you feel alive

No. 1356189

I don't love much about myself, actually it's much easier for me to make a huge list of things i despise. But i kind of like my boobs, their shape is nice, round and perky, and i like my small D/big C cup. Sad that one of the only thing i like about myself is something no one ever sees, kek.

>>1356096
I'm like that too, i cry when NPCs in video games are cute and innocent, i cry when my cats do cute sounds, i cry for everything. Emotions are so overwhelming, i like it when i'm alone but i hate what it does to me in public, i'm very secretive and introverted IRL but i often cried in public and i always feel ashamed of it

No. 1356652

I really like how maternal I've become. My own mother was a helicopter parent, nervous and overbearing. I love her dearly but good god I never wanted to be like her. Now that I'm a mama and have settled into the role, I love it. Get to goof around with my daughter and experience her joy. Love coming up with new ways to inspire her curiosity and teaching her about the world around her. Encouraging her independence and confidence, so wonderful and fulfilling. I've grown so much as a woman and I'm really proud of that personal growth.

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I love that, despite my temper and traumas, my heart is golden. I am kind and this kindness had led me to indescribable harm throughout my life but it’s there. I can’t help but be kind. But I’m also learning how to be properly angry and sure of themself. I’ve whittled down my circle into a grain and it hasn’t been easy but I know I can be kinder to myself this way and I can finally heal from years of abuse at the hands of family, peers, and predators.

No. 1378221

>>1356118
All it proves is that they’re more violent.

No. 1378377

>>1378220
based. don't let anyone victim blame you either nona

No. 1378384

>>1378220
what does whittling a circle into a grain mean

No. 1378397

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I'm proud of how assertive I've become! I had some issues in the past saying no to things and keeping to myself when someone overstep a boundary, but fuck that! Being assertive has left my life relatively drama free and kept me from experiencing things I just don't need to go through at all. I see my friends go through things and honestly I think to myself they'd be in a lot better of a situation if they could stand up for themselves (of course, its easier said than done but its better to start sooner than later). It really is one of the holy grails to living peacefully. This has especially been true for dealing with scrotes. Although I've been in a happy and stable relationship it hasn't stopped any troubles with other scrotes. I didn't necessarily have an issue befriending them before, but man so many of them are just insufferable especially when it comes to women. I didn't care about telling them they were being an asshole, controlling, or just flat out retarded. I have way fewer of them in my circle and thats A-OK. Of I don't want to do something I just tell my friends I don't want to. I don't put it off or make excuses, I just say I don't feel like it. Real friends and family wouldn't care if you just don't feel like doing something at a certain point in time, especially if you arent obligated. We will obviously have many other opportunities to hang out that I will gladly take, just not now. It can feel a little lonely since it means I keep my social circle very tight but it's honestly worth it. My friends are decent people I enjoy hanging out with and there hasn't been miscommunication between us. They check up on me and make sure I'm doing well. I'm not afraid to cut anyone out that doesn't respect my boundaries or who I am as a person because I'm really not missing out on anything. There are plenty of people to befriend!

No. 1378408

My fashion sense! I like that I’m not afraid to wear things that aren’t considered normal regularly (lolita fashion) and how cute I feel in it! I also really like my snarky sense of humor.

No. 1378410

>>1378408
Oh forgot physical attributes
I like my eyelashes and curly hair a lot! I just need to get a haircut haha
Also although it can get in the way sometimes I like being short (5’0)

No. 1378492

>>1378408
GET IT. Idc what anyone says I will wear my shitty 6 inch platforms and collars. I love fashion and alternating through different styles and I'm happy I'm not self conscious about it anymore. Its so much fun and keeps my mood high! Btw, if you don't mind sharing what's your favorite kind of lolita to wear?

No. 1379503

I’m low maintenance, I do not get my nails done or wear fake lashes, I don’t even wear mascara most times, it might look undone but it’s easier to wash off, I love going outside and not worrying about the humidity frizzing my hair.

No. 1379506

>>1379503
Samefag I feel like a blog even saying it but man it feels good to wipe my ass and not worrying about my eyelashes falling off In the future.

No. 1379530

I like my dimples and my nose. I like going out dressed kind of schlubby too because I personally think it's cute. I like my short hair and I like it when it gets messy. I like how I can find humor in just about anything. I like that I am a good listener because it helps distract me from a bad day. I like my taste in music and art. I love myself!! I am very cool and fun ♥

No. 1379967

I used to be so hung up on the past, and couldn't forget my ex because I thought he was the only one who was able to invoke such strong, exalted and tender feelings in me. Then I suddenly realized it wasn't even to his credit, since the feelings were mine, and he basically did nothing to deserve them. So I can't really be empty without him, I already have it in me, I have a capacity for something big like that. And it means I'm able to perceive the world and other people in this beautiful way.

No. 1379987

My fight response. I've always gone for screaming, fighting, biting and no matter what you threaten me or others with, I always told/tell. It has gotten me out of some very bad situations or prevented them from getting worse.

No. 1380074

I’m really fucking cool and a lot of people like being friends with me despite calling me also weird. I’ve been told I’m really cool it’s just hard to accept because of self loathing, but a lot of time to myself is helping me get to know myself better. So I will accept I’m cool to the people who meet me and they even ask other people how to get in contact with me. They like the weird kek

No. 1380307

I love the genetic dark circles under my eyes. To me, they add character. My mother gets fillers and covers her with concealer, but I think mine make me more beautiful.

No. 1380321

>>1380307
Same, I love my dark circles. My mother often tells me how my dark circles are more noticeable sometimes as if that were a bad thing and it pisses me off because I think they're a normal part of me that I like, and without which I would look like a completely different person.

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bump, careful scrolling.

No. 1382085

Call me shallow but I love my body. I'm happy with my weight and think it looks nice with my proportions. I used to be pretty obsessed with being skinny when I was a teenager but when I lost weight after being sick for 1.5 weeks I realized I look way better with my natural weight ('natural weight' meaning eating heathy meals, eating when you're hungry and stopping when you're full. This has been my routine for about 3 years and my weight had hardly fluctuated, healthy BMI too!). I'm proud of myself for seeing through the anachan bullshit and finally gaining some confidence.

No. 1382845

>>1380307
>>1380321
Me too Nonas, I think my eyebags are very cool and very me? They are a part of my face and it piss me off when I'm sharing the mirror with my sister and she goes out of her way to apply a stupid product on my face that will hide my eyebags saying how horrible they are. I find them beautiful and I bet yours are too Nonas! Fuck eyebags detractors



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