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No. 132357

Are any of y'all subs or switches? Why are most subs female anyways? Is it something in the water? I am but tbh the BDSM is a hot mess full of either crazy misogynist old men with like… three young girlfriends or super kweeerr poly transtrenders.Or like… really nerdy dudes who overcompensate for being bullied in high school. Why is fetlife so garbage? Why are people who say BDSM is feminist so delusional? I think it is really funny when some HAES pin up wannabe complains about tv shows but lets her bf hit her in the face… How do you find a dominant partner who isn't totally nuts anyways? Can BDSM be practiced in a way that empowers women? Talk and complain about kink in this thread.

No. 132358

>>132357
i only like lesbian bdsm, which i don't think has any controversy at all surrounding it as far as morals or whatever. i'm ok with straight bdsm too but only if the guy is young and super attractive.

No. 132359

>Can BDSM be practiced in a way that empowers women?

No, simple as that. BDSM is basically a fetish made by men to men. Rarely women actually enjoy what they are doing by themselves and not because someone else is enjoying it.

No. 132360

I'm sure there's more sub men out there than expected. They're probably to worried about being considered fucked up since it goes against the status quo of 'all men must be dominant and masculine'.

They're there, but they probably keep it under wraps for fear of being demolished socially.

No. 132361

>>132357
There's lot of sub men out there.
It's just that a submissive female is more socially accepted (at least that's what I think). So guys who are into it either hide, or they post about it on 4chan where most of the other users are male.

No. 132362

>>132359
>BDSM is basically a fetish made by men to men
lmao WUT? fetishes are not invented, people are naturally turned on by certain things without anyone having to introduce it to them. i fantasized about my fetish before i was even aware there were other people who did too

No. 132363

>>132357
I'm all up for discussion but why do we need another thread for this topic?
We have a sex thread, a kink thread, a ddlg thread, a submissive boy thread…

No. 132364

>>132363
newfags.
I think the posts about this place on /r/incels brought over some

No. 132365

>>132363
all of those are super long now so it's actually hard to have a good discussion imo. and it's more specific i guess?

No. 132366

>>132364
>>132357
Is that why there have been so many tumblrina posts recently?

No. 132367

I'm a sub. But that's cause idk I like being hit? It feels good? Makes me feel all tingly when I'm choked?


Everything is consensual and our safe word is giraffe

No. 132368

>>132367
lol choking can cause you hypoxia,can permanently damage your vocal cords, can break all of the blood vessels in your eye, can give you blood clots and CAN KILL YOU i.seriously, breathplay is peoples hard limit for a reason jfc

No. 132369

>why is fetlife so garbage
kek that's so true

Anyways, i'm a submissive female.
I like being choked and having my ass slapped and dirty talk and such but i mean i'm not thinking ropes and whips and stuff.

I better prepare though. My boyfriend has recently been hinting at possibly being a fan of the 5sog series. (owns the 1st movie, keeps bringing up the new one coming out and when it'll be in cinema, etc.)

No. 132370

I'm a switch, but always end up with subs, so I might as well be a dom. I used to be strictly a sub, but I ended up dating a really great guy who was a sub and decided to try domming. Idk why people think femdoms without being a dominatrix are so rare.

No. 132371

Has anyone ever had their partner cover their nose and mouth with ducttape? I dont see how that would cause any harm as long as he takes it off after I pass out. I really want to be suffocated to a blackout but it's hard to find situations where I won't die.

I know it sounds weird but I probably cum like crazy from the desperation.

No. 132372

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>>132371
>I dont see how that would cause any harm as long as he takes it off after I pass out

Hope that lack of oxygen gives you brain damage however I can't see it getting any worse than this.

No. 132373

>>132371
What? No. Just have him put his hand over your mouth and nose. Far safer. Less sticky stuff all over your face.

No. 132374

Anyone else becoming more vanilla as they get older?
I used to be a switch into the harder limits as a teen but now I'm a lazy 50sog sub at best who just wants to cuddle and do missionary.
Part of me thinks I might have just gotten over my self destructive phase, but then maybe I'm just boring and lazy now and I feel bad for my partner even though he says it's fine.

>>132372
Better get yourself onto a baby's first bdsm safety manual before you lose any more brain cells

No. 132375

>>132374
I relate to this. Mostly getting over the self destructive phrase and becoming more vanilla as a result. Well until a wave of self hate comes in.

No. 132376

>>132374
>reading a manual will make asfixia any more safe


lol stay delusional, hope it escalates to dv someday

No. 132377

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>tfw i'm submissive female
>tfw my gf told me she's a submissive female and wants me to be more dominant

tips?

No. 132378

>>132377
be a service top? it's really fun! think about what you'd like and do it for her. or hey, you could try it out and maybe really like it. nothing wrong with being a switch.

No. 132379

>>132377
why not take it in turns being the dominant?

No. 132380

>>132357
>>132377
I was this way too until I started experimenting with being a dominant top! It never appealed to me and I always liked being submissive exclusively but I honestly think it was more nervousness about "doing it wrong".

No. 132381

>>132357
the type of people that annoy me the most in the kink community (and why I avoid it) is ugly, assless, fat white girls who are probably still in high school, pretend they have daddy issues because their dad yelled at them once or some shit and think it's the kinkiest thing ever to call some guy they met on kik a few days ago "daddy" and claim to liked to be tied up yet they barely scratched the surface of kinks. The amount of pedos and child molesters in it piss me off much more, this mostly pertains to ddlg though

No. 132382

>>132374
>>132375

building on this, guys, do you think bdsm is strongly related with self destructive shit?

im way less depressed now and hardcore s and m etc don turn me on anymore, just make me feel sick


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