/ot/ - off-topic

Unless you have contacts outside of the web, I don't think there's much else that you can do.

In my case, I had lost contact with a crush of mine years ago. I wanted to see how he was doing (to know whether or not it was worth it to still put energy into this silly little crush after all of this time, haha)
Unfortunately, he was never the type to have a social media account so my search turned up nothing and was quickly put to an end. Ah well.
I figure that there's always the future. The world is a small place and the future is very unpredictable. If we meet again, then great. If not then we just have to move on. :)

Who are you trying to find? you can drop hints

>>12219
You lost contact "years ago" and you're just now considering that maybe it's time to move
on if you never see him again?

>>12149
I know that feeling of curiosity. I always wonder what these people are up to, start digging up their old profiles but there's just some point where it all ended. No hints to new online profiles… and that sucks. It's not an obsessive yearning though. I think if I actually found a recent pic I'd think 'ok, so x looks like this now, nice' and move on.

Like this Japanese, fairly lolcowish girl that was into the whole emo scene. Went under the handle Ayadoll - many profiles are still online but not updated. She seemed a bit dumb, fucked gaijins, was a little on the fat side but still cute. She updated tons of pictures of herself in underwear, there were even ones of her vag on _deviantart_ but she deleted it. I guess she grew up a bit, got a more stable job and such. She must be in her late 20s now. Pic related.

In middle school, my best friend was never one to have social media accounts. It kinda sucks because a few days before graduation we just… weirdly drifted apart. I've tried to contact mutual friends we've had but no one seems to talk to him anymore or know what college he goes to or anything :(

I think I saw him on the train once, we were staring at each other a lot but I couldnt work up the nerve to talk to him so that was the end of that. I regret it all the time now. :( Ugh, stuff like this sucks. I have his aim screenname but he never really logged on in the first place.

One day anon, we'll find the people we're looking for!

>>12369
why don't you try people finders or white pages? all you need is literally their first and last name.

Not OP, but I kind of wonder what happened to this Youtuber I was kinda interested in years ago.

One day I saw her account was gone. Turns out someone released a video of her masturbating on xhamster and she got rid of everything. I remember some people were even sending the video to her brother to the point where he disabled his accounts as well.

I wonder if she ever came back.

>>12471
Thought for a minute it was lucymisser. I really liked her videos but then she had some sort of identity crisis and left. Who is that girl?

>>12471
did she have some drama behind her, or were these completely random attacks?

>>12471
>>12478
>>12479
wow, seriously? more deets.

>>12478
I don't remember her name, unfortunately. I wish I did. All reverse image did was show one site full of nudes. I was actually hoping one of you would remember her name. I'm probably wrong, but I could've sworn it started with a "J".

>>12479
>>12519
I wish I knew more, but she disappeared before I knew what was going on. After I saw she closed down her Youtube and facebook page, I saw there was a video with her in it that wasn't connected to her account and the comments were full of what to search to find her masturbating video. Other comments mentioned where to find her brother's accounts ( she mentioned him in her videos sometimes and included some of the piano pieces he played ). Soon enough he shut down and privated his accounts because he was being sent nudes of his sister and spammed with links of her masturbating videos.

She made some cute videos though. I remember she did a couple hauls, some video about noodles, her circle lens and one reading a story. She had a soft, sweet voice.

>>12524
Tried asking on 4chan? I can see some creeps remembering someone like her, they basically obsess over girls that dropped nudes.

>>12524
Was her name Jeerawan / bunnydoidoi? Can't differentiate between Asians, sorry if I'm wrong.

I remember jeerawan got into an argument with some people because she said only black girls wear extentions. Thats all i can remember about her, turns out shes a whore, what a shocker.

>>12686
Yes! Thank you, anon. I didn't know she went by bunnydoidoi as well. You're the best.

>>12524
>>12686
>>12693
>>12696
well, when i searched jeerawan on google, it gave me misslawrara/missreinat from twitter and powderfluffgirl from mfc? i think she got a boob job if it is her.

>>12702
Youtube is like a gateway drug for being a cam girl

>>12702
it's jeerawan, right?

>>12705
She looks kinda busted and dead inside

>>12149
the phone book

Wow, when I saw >>12524 a day ago I thought it looked like misslawrara but googled some pics to double check and decided it was just my face blindness acting up again. But if others are thinking the same it possibly is her?

It wouldn't be unprecedented. HaleyIsSoarx/highskoolslut is another YouTuber/MFCer who thought she could keep the two separate but I think she admits it now because I saw her showing off her YouTube plaques on MFC.

>>12734
Apparently Jeerawan/misslawrara are the same person.

What a shame. She was adorable when she was on Youtube.

>>12704
>>12705
She looks tired. Her IG is kind of depressing, too. Guess the camwhore anon from the confession thread was right after all.

>>12757
What's her ig?

>>12757

She was cheery enough on MFC but I pretty much only saw her when she just started and haven't even bothered going into her room since she got implants.

She's on at least a couple times a week I think, usually UK nights. Could be on tonight.

I don't think she's called "misslawrara" anymore but just filter UK models and she'll be in the top 5 if she's on.

>>12762
I dont get whats the point of the boob job her pedo asian lover fans probably prefer the small tits

1:03 she mentions not many Asians working in sex shops and how her mother would probably disown her if she did. One commenter on that video mentions that she also has a baby. I'm not sure if I believe that though.

Also found her twitter MissReinaT . She mentioned she wouldn't be on cam last night, maybe she will be today.

Thanks again to everyone who looked and helped figure out her name.

Is it me or did this thread disappear off /b/? When going through each page I couldn't find it.

Does someone remember Quinny Moore from the scene days? That ratty hair, holy shit.

The exact same thing in the description happened to me to a T awhile back. I was looking for this cool boy from Back In Da Day who would do Trevor Brown photo tributes. Took digging but I found out he went ghost completely, deleted and blanked everything except tumblrs not updated since '12, and is just a sad twink with ocd and anorexia working at an auto repair shop or something like that. But alas…I miss thy Trap.

You don't. Stop being creepy.

>>19604
It's not necessarily creepy. Depends entirely on your intentions.

>>12149
Through their old internet friends, if they've kept contact. Takes a fair bit of digging and matching up info, but it's doable.

>>19604
The irony of a lolcow poster calling someone else creepy

>>12149
Wow you need help tbh stalker

>>19646
I honestly am here just for /b/ discussions. On /pt/ I compliment "cows". It gives lolcow posters a lot of butthurt lel

>>19649
Wow you're like so unique and edgy lel cool awesome

>>19647
You're on lolcow hypocrite

>>19650
>>19652
Being on lolcow doesn't give you the excuse to be a piece of shit, I'm sorry. But keep telling yourself that everyone here is an evil bully if that's what makes you feel better about yourself.

If someone has disappeared off the face of the internet, it usually implies that they don't want to be found in the first place.

>>19649
Do you give legitimate compliments that you think are accurate, or do you troll and just try to derail the thread?

I never universally criticize people posted on here, I just post my honest opinions, some of which are positive and some negative.

>>19664
Not that anon but I give legitimate compliments and defend the person in question if some buttblasted vendettachan is going too far. I don't just say things to whiteknight, I mean them too.

People here love to jump to conclusions and fashion 'facts' out of thin air just to give others some hate fuel.

>>19664
I give legitimate compliments. I find that coconutbabydoll girl so pretty for example but everyone calls me a shitposter or something. I dont understand though, it's a thread dedicated for that girl so why cant i compliment her? She actually IS gorgeous. And Dakota Rose is so angelic and pretty too and everyone whines about photoshop etc… while she is more natural than the hoes you see on instagram. But Spoony for example is the only girl I hate to death because she is so cancerous and asking for it. But I dont even talk about her that much.
>>19650
Nice damage control you're doing here.
>>19652
I'm here for /b/ discussions and on /pt/ I compliment the so called cows, like I said.

>>12149
OP are you looking for me?…

>>19752
Only if you went by peachy-kiss on dA and drew edgy art

>>19700

Oh no it's the kota buttlicker from the kota thread

ergh

>>19700
That's not unreasonable you can do, but don't let someone's attractiveness whitewash their personality and actions. There's a thread about Amanda because she supposedly scams people, not just to call her ugly or whatever.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect

>>19756
There was a girl who said that I'm samefagging in the Dakota thread but I wasn't. I dont know if these Dakota supporters are her fans but I'm not a Dakota fan.

>>19755

The name sounds familiar, OP. Did they by any chance use to comment on the complaints forum on dA? Or at least a thread was made about them there, I don't remember.

>>20174
Yup yup. I'm pretty sure I saw a Google cache of a post she made on the complaints forum, but I can't seem to find it anymore. She turned into a bit of a lolcow back then because she drew edgy guro Saccstry-tier stuff a little bit before it was a cool Tumblr aesthetic thing, and she was accused her of tracing too.
Pic related is the only thing I could scrounge up from dA.
She had a Tumblr with the URL as-you-flew-through-me as well, but deleted it. Also a Formspring IIRC, but I can't find that anymore.

>>20180

Typically dA bans people indefinitely unless the ban wasn't really serious. And because she used multiple accounts, it's likely even after five years she will always be banned (unless she changed IP addresses and stayed hidden).

Kind of relevant but I very recently rediscovered an old friend of mine online and their life has effectively crashed and burned and I couldn't be happier about it.

We were besties all throughout highschool and I would defend him when people used to try and attack him for being a "faggot" and he would confide in me about his sexuality and I would hold all of his secrets like the fact that he was getting bummed up the back of the woods by the guy who pretended to be one of his primary bullies at school but was also secretly gay.

The area we live in is pretty small, rural and overall intolerant of anything different, so when we ended up at the same college together in a neighbouring, considerably larger town it was like the world the world opened up to us.
This was around the time when scene, emo, Myspace and eating disorders were the "in" thing in the UK, but not long after arriving there suddenly he began congregating around a new, fashionable, "in" group, sitting with them at lunch instead of me, never coming to call on me after college, never inviting me out any where with him new friends, and eventually he began ignoring me altogether.
It all came to a head when one morning before class I saw him chilling at the emo table and I ran up and gave him a hug from behind and he acted as if I wasn't even there. Enraged in my next class I vented to a friend about how he was a dickhead and by chance one of the girls who sat at his table in the lunch hall heard and informed him. When I tried to apologise to him later and explain that I was just upset that he'd cut me out of his life without so much of an explanation he shut me down and told me that I was too immature for him and that he no longer wished to be friends.

Recently I stumbled across him completely by chance on Tumblr and boy am. I. Fucking. Smug.

From what I've garnered, after completing college he packed his ass off to London to attend university studying an art degree doing hideous modern art and shitty flash GIFs. She (I'm just gonna say she from now on) came out as one of those unnecessarily angry, aggressive trans idiots, converted her flat into a "safe space" where she would sit around with her other "trans" students (the type that say they're a trans man but then don't seek HRT, continue dressing exclusively feminine and throw a screaming fit when anybody misgenders them as female) and proceed to shit on and look down on the "poor, uninformed cis peasants".
She graduated, couldn't find work, had to move back to our shitty, rural town and move back in with her parents who lives in a tiny council house on this horrendously chavvy estate and basically does not and frankly cannot leave the house and none of her friends come to visit her and she's too poor to get back down to London so she spends her days on Tumblr and Instagram posting washed out selfies.

Should I feel sorry for her? I totally don't. I'm happy. He abandoned me and left me alone at an entirely new college as soon as he realised that I was inconvenient for his public image because my family were too poor to buy me the latest fashion trends and I wasn't riddled with mental disorders.

This was tl;dr but I really needed to vent this.

Has anybody else had this experience with an ex-friend?

I had a bff in an MMORPG more than a dozen years ago named EvilnessRise. When the game died we lost contact. I have no idea why I didn't think of exchanging e-mails with her.

I did a reverse image search on a guy I knew in high school and found his account on a forum where he posted about emotionally manipulating girls for sex and cheating on them. He was dumb enough to post his pictures (don't do this kids) in a "Rate me" thread. He posted some of the manipulated girl's selfies too.

I found the account back in September, and I've been debating whether or not I should anonymously "out" him in some way. I've taken screenshots but have yet to do anything. I think the only thing holding me back is the fear of getting caught somehow.

>>49883

Please do this. I'm sure this image board knows a thing or to about the best way to expose him online while you protecting your anonymity….

>>49883
Please out him, he sounds like an absolute piece of shit

>>49883
>>49901
>>49904
>screenshots
You might get people accusing you of making it up. You should also archive it if it's possible.

>>49883
gif source?

>>49883
Why?
How does it concern you in any way what a person does online in their spare time?

Don't tell me you're actually butthurt on behalf of girls you don't even know

>>50295
Idk anon there's a thing called "morals" and "empathy", most people who aren't emotionless autists experience those strange feelings.

>>50293
thanks

>>50295
Online? The shit he is doing is in real life anon.
Post that shit.