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No. 113320

Why is lesbianism more socially acceptable than male homosexuality?

It seems like women are far more likely to call themselves bi and date/sleep with women than men, even though men probably fantasize about the same sex just as much as women.

I just feel bad for men in this regard tbh

No. 113322

men did this to themselves tbh.

No. 113323

I think it's a blend of a few factors. One is that guys are typically into it so they think it's sexy and won't get mad at two girls being close. Also I think since girls are already very touchy feely (not too weird to see girls hugging, holding hands, cuddling, etc.) in a platonic way, so some people might not see it as a lesbian thing. And finally I also think that there's this idea that lesbian sex isn't "real" sex, since there is no penetration involved (sans toys and fingering but you know what I mean) so it's lest stigmatized than anal/gay sex.

Of course this is under the assumption that the girls look like OP/are lipstick and feminine. Butch couples or ones where one is more masculine I think typically get looked down upon, with the whole "you're just with a guy essentially" thing.

I do think the one big thing gay men have on women is the whole "actually gay" thing. Where a lot of people see lesbians as just going through a phase or just looking for companionship and not a sexual/committed relationship. Whereas with openly gay men they are usually seen as actually gay and not expected to just want women eventually (this is within a normal community with a few prejudices but not outright homophobic, think those sorority girls with a gay bff or whatever)

No. 113324

>>113322
How so?

No. 113325

Lesbians are not accepted, they're sexualized.

No. 113326

>>113325
to the same extent that gay men are, a five minute visit to tumblr would prove that.

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No. 113333

>>113326
You're gonna compare yaoi fandom, a total niche, to the abundance of lesbian fetishization in all kinds of media? Okay.

No. 113334

I agree with a lot of the points already made, but I wanted to add that since it's more sexualized for hetero men, then female attention whores are more likely to latch on and make it more visible. I've only met one guy I who lied about being bi, but I've met many more girls who lied about it for attention.

Just to clarify I myself am bi and I don't go around assuming that everybody is lying for attention, nor do I shun people who were legit curious then realized they were hetero later on, but you know with some flakes it's obvious. When a guy is around they get tipsy and curious, but if a good time friend comes out with their long time partner they get homophobic and disown them, or they are super vocal on social media about being 100% lesbian where it gets them ass pats, but they are shitty to actual lesbians that ask them out and only date dudes irl.

No. 113348

because they just get called gal pals????

No. 113349

Because it's believed that female sexuality is nonexistent so female homosexuality isn't as "omg homo threatening our beautiful customs" as male homosexuality. On the other side of the spectrum, male sexuality is seen as excessive so male homos are seen as disgusting sexual pig perverts and shunned as such.

The reasons are shit but I can't say I don't appreciate how convenient it is in practice. I can kiss, fuck and date any girl I like without being judged for it, it's great.

No. 113353

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guy here.

to me, women fucking is one of the most aesthetically beautiful things i know of.

but most women don't wanna be fucked by someone who fucks like a woman. they're naturally attracted to men, whose movements are not so fluid. in fact, not to put too fine a point on it, a lot of women prefer being manhandled.

men fucking is like dueling with chainsaws. nails on a chalkboard for me.

>>113322
is right.

if i'm not mistaken, men are more evolutionarily predisposed to disliking faggotry. every time i think i might be gay and try to watch gaysex, i can't get through it. you might be wondering why i do that. it's because it's interesting to test. maybe i have some latent gayness, but as i type that out and imagine me fugging a guy, i cringe. i'm still batting for the winning team.

dudes insult each other about gayness pretty frequently. although we don't mean it. i call my friends fags all the time, but i don't mean literal gayness. but the fact that i'm using that word doesn't help male homosexuality become any more normal.

i know a gay dude who uses faggot the same way us straighties do.

if you're going to be anything other than hetero, you have to be proud of it, but not in a way that makes you put up a barrier around yourself. you have to learn to be tough, but not vulnerable.

unfortunately, a lot of homo-men think that just because i'm being nice to them, i'm also a gay. this makes me mad. fucking faggots.

sorry, i know this post is getting long, but one last thing. this really cute woman i used to work with got wasted with another girl at a strip club. they came to work the following weekend talking about how they touched the stripper's tits, held them in their hands, paid them money, et cetera. maybe it was just the booze, but holy shit that sounds homo to me.

No. 113355

>>113353
None cares.

No. 113356

>corrective rape
>being acceptable

For sexualizing, yes. People don't recognise lesbian relationships as actual relationships.

No. 113357

>>113353
>guy here

Ya, we can tell…

No. 113358

>guys are typically into it so they think it's sexy
>Lesbians are not accepted, they're sexualized.
>it's believed that female sexuality is nonexistent

This is only true for male homophobes, though. What about female ones? They too usually hate gay men more than they hate lesbians.

>>113353
dick pics or gtfo

No. 113359

>>113356
Gay men are victims of homophobic violence far more often than lesbians are. Not an argument.

No. 113360

>>113333
>yaoi
>total niche

No. 113362

>>113359
what about domestic violence in lesbian households?

No. 113363

>>113359
That's because hetero men hate anything remotely feminine. Not an argument.

No. 113364

>>113353
>MALE HERE
enjoy your ban faggot, nobody cares

No. 113366

>>113363
The lesbians who are most often the victim of violence are the butch ones who aren't very feminine.

No. 113367

>>113362
that's not homophobic violence.

No. 113370

>>113320
because they're not fags

No. 113371

>>113363
>hetero men hate anything remotely feminine

What? Doesn't that seem a little contradictory to the whole point of being a hetero guy?

No. 113377

Where I live it's the opposite. The lesbians I've encountered have either been crusty drug-addled dykes in their forties/fifties or edgy young women with BPD and outrageous levels of drama.

Maybe it's because the men don't get too into detail about their sex escapades but most of them come off as being more down to earth.

No. 113378

>>113363
That's probably something they like to project but a lot of straight men love women with long hair and more feminine traits like wearing dresses.

No. 113383

>>113353
I'll never understand male psychology. Always with the muh biology schlock, always with the "us evolved like this us did!". As if everything is set in stone, society has no impact on psychology and change is impossible.

Enjoy your ban you dumb faggot

No. 113388

>>113383
What do you think "predisposed" means?

No. 113389

>>113378
Correct.

No. 113390

>>113378
The thing is, dudes want to project confidence, even when they don't have any, which leads to some silly behavior.

No. 113392

>>113388
Men are not predisposed to rape and beat women, and even if they were they could still stop their 'urges'.

No. 113396

Why is there always a manly looking girl in the relationship though?

Bisexual here and I always prefer feminine girls. Ive tried going on lesbian dating sites and they're always butch as fuck or obese.

Ive seen groups and lesbian weddings where the two girls are cute and girly looking. But thats rare.

Even in person its always really manly looking girls.

No. 113397

>>113396
ikr, I only like girly girls who enjoy make up and stuff like that. Some tomboy girls can be cute, but they have to be feminine.

Even when I find these girls they're either dating someone else, or like someone else.

No. 113398

>>113396
>Why is there always a manly looking girl in the relationship though?

there isn't.

>>113397
try being more attractive

No. 113402

>>113360
>weeb fandom
>totally representative of normal people

No. 113404

>>113402
you'd be surprised how many people are into yaoi.

yaoi also isn't the only type of gay erotica targeted at women.

No. 113406

>ITT

No. 113411

>>113378
They like the feminine traits because it shows submission.

However the idea of a man having feminine traits leads them to irrational rage. Hence so many faggots being beaten for no other reason than being gay or affeminate.

No. 113412

>>113404
Yaoi doesn't represent anything in real life though. It doesn't explore real people like porn does and it doesn't represent actual stereotypes as the main consumer targets are females and not gay men, not to mention it's made in Japan where the reality of gay people is entirely different from the west.

No. 113414

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>Why is lesbianism more socially acceptable than male homosexuality?

There's the male homosexuality that is pushed by (((the media))). The very effeminate flamboyant home-decorator type gay.

But the reality of male homosexuality is largely men having extremely promiscuous sex. Unprotected anal sex with strangers, glory holes, etc.

Look at the m4m section of craigslist to find this, there is a whole sub-culture of men willing to do sexual acts with ___almost anyone___.

Women homosexuals do not have this same culture. Also women get away with everything easier, pic related.

No. 113415

>>113414
>Also women get away with everything easier, pic related.

Get the fuck out, robot

No. 113417

>>113414
Craigslist is a slimepit. I would hardly look at fucking craigslist to prove anything.

PS leave, robot.

No. 113418

>>113398
Rude.
I'm not unattractive so that's not the problem. The problem is lack of qt lesbian girls in my area (or bi). Most of the people in the gay scene here are fatties or transmemes.

No. 113420

>>113417
gay men are extremely promiscuous though, the average conversation length before a real life encounter on grindr is like 15 minutes, on HER (lesbian version of grindr/tinder) it's like 48 hours.

No. 113421

>>113414
>pic related
see: >>113322

>>113419

major cherry picking.

No. 113423

>>113421
>major cherry picking.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/11/men-women-prison-sentence-length-gender-gap_n_1874742.html

>A new study by Sonja Starr, an assistant law professor at the University of Michigan, found that men are given much higher sentences than women convicted of the same crimes in federal court.

>The study found that men receive sentences that are 63 percent higher, on average, than their female counterparts.

What's so hard to admit about this?

No. 113426

>>113414
>using japanese cartoons as an example of actual interpersonal human interactions
McKekkles

get out (((poltard)))/robot/what have you

No. 113435

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>>113426
Do you even know how deep Evangelion is?

Don't even bother watching it she-devil, you wouldn't be able to understand it.

No. 113437

>>113406

I identify as commonfilthsexual tbh fam

No. 113438

>>113437
I like him even though I'm bi and he would probably consider me a degenerate

No. 113439

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>>113435
>being this autistic

No. 113441

>>113420
Seriously though, who cares?

No. 113443

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>>113435
Pls stop, child.

No. 113447

>>113426
I feel like these are the kind of guys who will eventually post a YouTube "kissing prank" as "proof" that women are all evil.

No. 113448

>>113419
So what's the point of this post? Why should I be outraged by the sex lives of people I don't know?

No. 113449

>>113441
that just means that part of the r9k'ers argument is correct

No. 113452

>>113449
Hardly. He didn't post any sources. He just pulled shit out of his ass, so I asked him "who cares"?

Is he upset because he wants more fulfilling conversation before his grinds hookups? Then, he shouldn't meet guys so quickly, and get to know them more before hooking up. Or stop using grindr and try a different app that is more focused on dating.

If I argued every uninformed post made by robos, then I'd never have a life.

No. 113453

>>113452
Grindr*

No. 113454

>>113448
>>113452
>Why should I be outraged by the sex lives of people I don't know?

No one said you should, not everything is about you.

Read the OP again, you seem to not understand what thread you are in.

Because many gay men have this extremely deviant sub-culture, it is one reason why they are frowned upon more than female homosexuals.

>>113447
They're not evil in the same way a domesticated lion isn't evil for eating a human child. You can't hold the lion accountable for it's actions, it's just a wild animal, rather it's the owner's fault for not keeping better control of the lion.

No. 113456

>>113454
>They're not evil in the same way a domesticated lion isn't evil for eating a human child. You can't hold the lion accountable for it's actions, it's just a wild animal, rather it's the owner's fault for not keeping better control of the lion.

This is fucking hilarious. $5 says he posts to r/incels.

No. 113463

>>113423
It's ironic you guys post this sort of shit and then assert that the wage gap doesn't exist in the same sentence.

Are women just committing less serious crimes overall? Can we directly prove that it's because of their gender, or is there legitimately reason to give a different sentence?

And you realise that
>The study found that men receive sentences that are 63 percent higher, on average, than their female counterparts.

Is because men tend to commit more serious crimes, right?

Seriously, it's ironic you post that men on average get worse time, and yet inevitably go "Oh women getting paid less on average doesn't matter, it's because of what they individually do".

No. 113464

>>113435

you do realize that shinji was a giant pussy who because he was a giant pussy landed a comrade in the hospital, then proceeded to masturbate to her in the hospital right

No. 113470

>>113456
>$5

Did you mean 50

No. 113484

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>even though men probably fantasize about the same sex just as much as women
ayy fucking lmao

No. 113485

Literally every lesbian I've known has magically become straight after their mid 20s. Just my experience, and I've talked to many other people who have similar experiences

No. 113488

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No. 113490

sage for OT but FUCK i had no idea annie clark was with kstew now??? i'm a huge st vincent fan but i had no idea she broke up with cara, this is a weird way to find out lol

although now that i think about it kristen seems a lot, idk? less annoying than cara is to me. they make a cute couple, i just feel bad because annie seemed happy with cara

No. 113492

>>113414
This fucking comic just infuriates me because
Shinji:
>Constantly runs away
>Whines all the time
>Refuses to carry out his responsibilities
>Blames others for his own weaknesses
>Relies on others instead of doing shit himself
>Basically a prototype of a robot faggot

Rei:
>"Doesn't talk a lot" doesn't equal "shy" you piece of shit
>Does what she needs
>Gets tired of Shinji's whining and chastises him for that
>Carries out her responsibilities
>Stands up for herself
>A strong wommyn in need of no fucking shinji

No. 113493

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>>113490
She's a qt

No. 113499

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>>113484
Why would not, there's plenty of buttfucking going on in all male environments

No. 113574

>>113484
It makes me wonder sometimes about how much sexuality is affected by culture. I like girls in black dresses with red lipstick, and that must have been from seeing that as a cultural marker of femininity as a kid or something. The greeks were way into anal sex and boy love…would I be a whole lot gayer if I was an ancient greek?

No. 113584

>>113574
They did invent gayness after all

No. 113595

>>113383
I'm going to avoid arguing with you because you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what was said, and you go on to make assumptions, as though you could suss out the true meaning of my post using your woman brain.

Nevertheless, I want to clarify that evolution is a map of the apparently infinite territory of the subject. I suppose you imagine guys lean on biology like a religion, which may be true for many dudes, but not me.

>>113414
Shinji has always triggered me.

He manages to represent the typical Japanese male, I'm afraid. Japan has these problems with the women feeling like their men are unworthy, and they are right.

Timid males in anime have been a meme for a long time. I don't know the root cause, but I can tell you that even a shut-in introvert such as myself could go to Japan and slay gash with minimal effort. I could probably just dye my hair blonde and put on my confidence face.

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>>113595
Forgot pic.

No. 113599

>>113418

Anon you replied to.

Same here anon, I'm not fat or ugly either. Im actually a pretty girl. Its just a shame there isn't another cutesy pretty girl I could date/woo and charm. They're all manly looking obese monstrosities on legs or fucking Justin Bieber look alikes.

The pretty girls I only find who like girls are messing around or want her for that one night of passion while her sexually frustrated boyfriend watches so he can play with his dick.

No. 113601

>>113599

>The pretty girls I only find who like girls are messing around or want her for that one night of passion while her sexually frustrated boyfriend watches so he can play with his dick.


I'm sorry for being this type of degenerate

so, so sorry.

No. 113630

>>113601

If thats what youre into anon then fair play

No. 113689

>>113574
Purely is fascinating, I too only find a small percentage of women sexually attractive, if I lived in the 50's I would have probably just ignored it or I wouldn't have even considered it.

No. 113690

>>113595
We just find it severely stupid you consider everything biological but if we say that males are inherently violent or abusers, you flip your shit and try to prove it's not, when it is, one of the most common knowledge about genders, is that males have more testosterone therefore are more violent. Try understanding what is social conditioning too, it's gonna do you well.

No. 113740

Probably because lesbianism doesn't threaten masculinity.

No. 114002

>>113740
This. Lesbians are easily sexualized and fetishized. It is less likely to trigger a "fragile male ego", and is more likely be seen as a challenge or opportunity. Not saying all men see lesbians this way, or that all lesbians are considered conventualy attractive/are targeted by men, but ones that are attractive are either seen as a conquest, an opportunity for a threesome, or have fetishes projected onto them.

No. 114036

>>113740
>>114002
This only applies to male homophobes. What about female homophobes, the majority of whom also hate gay men way more than they hate gay women?

No. 114041

>>114036
As I am neither a male homophobe, nor a woman who hates gay men, I may not be able to clarify. My assumption would be either they have been slighted or encountered a gay male who has left a bad enough impression that they can justify a rash generalization, or they have been taught/informed to perpetuated hate and are just trying to abide by what they see as social norms. Again, I have no experience to draw from, so I may not be the one to ask.

No. 114043

>>114041
Also, just to expanded on this, like I said they may have dated, been brought up, or have been surrounded socially by homophobic individuals and are either desperate to misdirect any hatred that may be projected onto themselves for having a difference of opinion, or use their religion as a crutch to justify their uneducated bias.

No. 114191

>>114036
women enforce gender roles just as much as men, sometimes even more.

No. 114192

>>114036
Female homophobes probably hate gays for a plethora of reasons but we don't see females beating or raping gays.

No. 114199

>>114041
>or they have been taught/informed to perpetuated hate and are just trying to abide by what they see as social norms

But isn't that true for men as well?

This is so aggravating. Not only are men being treated like the default gender (hence all the talk of why men hate gay men, and so little talk of why women hate gay men), they're also being treated like their homophobia largely stems from internal causes, like sexually predatory instincts and hypersensitivity about their masculinity, whereas with women we get this response of, "Society told them how to think." Us women are being treated like we can't form our own opinions, but men? Men know exactly what they're doing, obviously. /s

Sorry, I just really hate this dumbshit stealth-misogyny, especially when it's steeped in pretty open misandry (see: "fragile male ego," "males have more testosterone therefore are more violent"). It turns into horseshoe retardation.

>>114192
We're discussing the psychological/sociological reasons behind homophobia being more strongly directed at gay men. We're not discussing the repercussions of that homophobia.

You sound butthurt tbh.

No. 114207

Last I checked lesbians aren't swapping STD's like Pokemon.
https://breeding.zone/

No. 114216

>>114207
bugchasers are a really tiny minority of gay men, most of those tumblr blogs are just fetishists who jerk off to their disgusting fantasies.

Gay men are more likely to use protection than lesbian, but they still get more STDs because butt fucking is simply more dangerous than carpet diving.

No. 114217

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Had to

No. 114218

>>114216
…and because gay men are MUCH more promiscuous
there are no lesbians lining up to lick pussy at a glory hole

No. 114222

>>114199
>males have more testosterone therefore are more violent

that's just simple biological fact anon

Testosterone is significantly correlated with aggression and competitive behaviour and is directly facilitated by the latter. There are two theories on the role of testosterone in aggression and competition.[120] The first one is the Challenge hypothesis which states that testosterone would increase during puberty thus facilitating reproductive and competitive behaviour which would include aggression.[120] Thus it is the challenge of competition among males of the species that facilitates aggression and violence.[120] Studies conducted have found direct correlation between testosterone and dominance especially among the most violent criminals in prison who had the highest testosterone levels.[120] The same research also found fathers (those outside competitive environments) had the lowest testosterone levels compared to other males.[120]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Testosterone#Aggression_and_criminality

No. 114223

>>114218
yeah that too.

remember some study where they compared the average length of a conversation before an encounter occured between grindr and Her (basically lesbian tinder/grindr).

it was like 15 minutes for grindr, compared to 48 hours for Her.

No. 114224

>>114217
pretty dank meme, can I borrow it?

also I forgot how pretty annie was

No. 114225


No. 114230

>>114199
As the op of the post you're referring too, it is definitely true that men are pigeon-holed and pressured into hyper masculine ideas/ideals by society and their peers, but that wasn't the topic that was up for discussion, hence why it wasn't touched upon, and homophobia in women was. Sorry for not derailing the topic I was discussing to cater to your sensitivities.

No. 114272

>>113599
try dating websites or apps.

No. 114367

>>114216
There's is a guy on that site who will cryo-freeze his AIDS cum and overnite it to anyone willing to pay.
'Customers' who are happy with his services post about their results.

No. 114389

>>113492
OT but shinji does get on with his shit by the time the show is halfway there, plus he's actively forced to do things against his will (nearly killing toji in ep18)
rei can't make proper connections with people and thinks of herself as worthless because she dedicates herself to gendo by piloting the eva, her one purpose in life
sounds like you're just relying on the first 7 or so episodes in terms of judging shinji or you just flat out ignore what he actually does well

No. 114399

>>114367
You're aware most of those are just fetishists who are shitposting without actually buying anything, right?

No. 114539

>>114389
please take your weeb autism elsewhere

No. 114578

>>114539
But that anon was spot on about how they watched the first 7 episodes and then decide to make all these profound conclusions. Lmao

No. 114583

>>114578
What the fuck anon? Rei stands up against Gendou in the last episodes despite being created to do pretty much what he says, Shinji chickens the fuck out of everything despite Misato fucking sacrificing herself in order to save him and he's STILL ungrateful for everything and only wants to run away. He's reliant on Kaworu and can't do shit on his own. Shinji does nothing right, every time he manages to do something positive it's always thanks to Eva-01 acting on its own. What the fuck did he even do right?

No. 114594

>>114583
Not to mention he nutted on Asuka lmao

No. 114604

god i hate gay men so much they're like the most annoying sexist shitheads

No. 114732

>>114604
>they're like the most annoying sexist shitheads

not anymore than straight men tbh. You should really hear what men say when they think women aren't around.

No. 114741

>>114732
> You should really hear what men say when they think women aren't around

I did a few times by an accident and it pretty much turned me lesbian. I was bisexual before that but now I can't even stand the thought of touching or being near a man. They shall never treat us as anything more than a plaything until they get bored and move on to newer toys.

No. 114744

>>114741
I wouldn't take it that far, plenty of them don't hate women, you just have to read between the lines when you speak with them to find out.

No. 114746

>>114744
not really, some are just better at hiding it than others

No. 115251

>>114741
imo what a man says about other women (especially his exes) in front of you is far more telling than what he says to other men

No. 115254

>>115251
This
Men will say a lot of shit about women when they're with their friends in order to reinforce their manhood and follow the pack.

And even then, I must repeat the same old "not all men!" I've dated a few guys who were so fucking normal about women even around their friends I do have plenty of hope for the male species. I'm not giving up the D because some are assholes.

No. 115311

>>114746
You must live around some really shitty men then

No. 115314

To any lesbians, gay men, or legit genderqueer/trans people that aren't Tumblr impostors:

Which did you like better, Queer as Folk or The L Word? Any other shows like that you would recommend? I'm straight, but absolutely loved Showtime's QaF. I am currently in the processes of rewatching it as well, and am hoping to even check out the BBC version (which they completely ripped off in season 1 lol let's be honest) because I LOVE Aiden Gillen, but Showtime's version is free and BBC version isn't :/

Anyways, I've heard good things about The L Word but when I tried to check it out after finishing QaF the first time, I just couldn't get in to it for some reason. Now that I'm older maybe it'll be different. And hey, I'm sure my boyfriend would love it, too lol, cuz hey, lesbians right? How does it compare to QaF? Better, worse, or don't even bother?

Also curious what LGBTQ+ whatever the acronym is these days- people think of how realistic those shows are, especially QaF. Soooo much promiscuity and clubbing. Granted, my male gay friends were very much like that when we were in our early twenties, but still. Just curious to hear other opinions :)

No. 115450

>>115314
>>115314
tlw>>>qaf tbh

No. 115484

>>115251
>>115254
Yeah because why would a man ever lie to you? Certainly not to increase his chances of getting in your pants lol

No. 115519

>>113414
>Also women get away with everything easier, pic related.
So you're saying female characteristics are more accepted when women do it then when men do it? Wow, my mind is blown!
Anon if you're not trolling, don't forget that this also works the other way around wich is the reason powerful women who speak their minds are often seen as bitches while men like this are seen as strong and leader figures.

No. 115532

>>115519
Anon is either retarded or just completely oblivious about gender roles.

No. 115548

>>115532
neckbeards think gender roles are the natural order and not following them is strange and socially undesirable, not the other way around

No. 115620

>>115314
These are short mini-dramas, but personally I love Tipping the Velvet, Affinity, and Fingersmith (also books by Sarah Waters).

No. 115624

>>115450
>>115620
Thanks guys :) I can't wait to check out these new shows!

There should be a gerneal TV/movie recommendation in /b/. I'm surprised there isn't…maybe in the catalog. I'll check, if there isn't one I guess I'll just make a new thread.

No. 115700

>>115624
I just got finished watching The Handmaiden, which is based off of Fingersmith, and personally I think it's better. Check out both if you want, but The Handmaiden was lovely.

No. 115744

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Because poopdick grosses people out more than women performing oral sex on one another (something heterosexual couples also do) or scissoring (mostly bothers people who are grossed out by female genitalia.)

No. 115748

>>115744
but heterosexual anal is a HUGE thing on pornsites and something het couples do irl

No. 115764

>>115744
Scissoring is not a thing, anon

No. 115893

>>115748
Anal is not that big a thing with straight couples

No. 115896

>>113435
It's no deeper than spring puddle.

No. 116073

>>115764
scissoring/tribating is DEFINITELY a thing, anon. try it sometime

No. 116121

>>116073
it's glorified dry humping and it's only done in shitty lesbian porn aimed at men.

why would I do that horse shit if I have fingers, a mouth and a vibrators.

No. 116122

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>>113435
I just found a picture for you, anon.

No. 117329

>>116122
>responding to robots

No. 117336

>>116121
Did you know that you can grind yourself to orgasm on pillows/ thighs/ etc? Please accept that scissoring feels good. Try being creative with your vagina once in a while

No. 117337

>>116121
"I don't like doing it myself and its done in some porn that is shitty therefore its not a thing actual lesbian couples do"

kek

No. 117340

>>117336
Did you know that you can grind yourself to orgasm on pillows/ thighs/ etc?

only children do this

>Please accept that scissoring feels good.


It feels good simply because most sexual acts feel good, but when you compare it to most other sexual acts that are avaible it pales in comparison to cunnilingus.

>Try being creative with your vagina once in a while


you´re the one whose acting like the first masturbatory acts of a 12-year old who just discovered her clitoris is somehow revolutionary. Scissoring is a fucking meme, made up by straight people because it looks somewhat close to missionary.

No. 117346

>>117340
I'm fuckin scrawny and I imagine scissoring would just bruise me.

I totally still do the pillow thing though kek.

No. 117350

>>117340
Not who you're responding to but I do agree it's a lot less common than porn makes it out to be, however I've seen this same conversation go down multiple times in other places which shows to me that at least some gay women do scissor. It's just not 100% of gay women and it's not generally one of the main course type deals the way it's presented as in porn for the reasons which you stated.

No. 117355

>>113322
Pretty much.

No. 117407

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>>117340
Wow I'm sorry that my vagina is less sophisticated than yours. Why are literally trying to shame people for the methods they use to pleasure themselves and others? Why are you somehow above fun and pleasure?

Maybe you should rub one out and chill, or does your ultra patrician vagina accept only the finest cunnilingus from those trained in the mystic sexual arts?

No. 117409

>>117350
Yeah this. Nobody's trying to argue that straight men have even the slightest idea of how women fuck, but it's not a myth and looking down on forms of pleasure as 'childish' is laughable.

No. 117412

>>117407
It just seems retarded to do, I really don't see the point. Why do it if other options are way better?

No. 117414

>>117412
better according to whom? you?
some people get easily overwhelmed by a person sticking their tongue in their privates.

No. 117416

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>>117407
>Maybe you should rub one out and chill, or does your ultra patrician vagina accept only the finest cunnilingus from those trained in the mystic sexual arts?

No. 117461

>>117412
"I don't get off from it as much as other ways of pleasure therefore nobody should do it because everyone's body is just like mine"
Double kek, you are on a roll anon

No. 424618

>>113320
"2 girls mean my dick could be the first."

That and the militant turbo dykes that need to make it clear to anyone in a 6 block radius that she's gay.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 424661

>>113320
Its not, its just more fetishised.

No. 424703

it's not necessarily more accepted. people don't want to hear about real, loving lesbian relationships. it's just sexualized, and anything sexualized by men is "socially acceptable".

No. 424745

>>424661
>>424703
Exactly. It’s far from accepted, it’s just a prevalent porn category. In 2019 youth culture basically worships gay men. Homophobes at least aren’t actively trying to rape gay men.



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