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No. 112990

Like most of you I'm not interested in white dudes (too rude, not cute, not gentlemen).

Where do you girls meet Asian guys with a view to marriage? I've been into them ever since I was much younger and I'd like to move over there to live one day.

Being white I'm fascinated by the culture. It's not just anime. It's how much deeper their history is compared to us white people, the spirituality like Buddhism and how deep and meaningful it is too. So don't call me a Weeb.

No. 112991

Lol.

No. 112992

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>Like most of you
>Being white I'm fascinated by the culture

No. 112993

This can't be serious.

No. 112996

as a person with an asian hubby
dont do it
unless you want to live with your mother in law once youre 25 :)

No. 112997

God you males that post on this site are so fucking annoying

No. 112998

i know this is bait but i live for nordic men unf

No. 112999

Buddhism in China is literally just rubbing a Buddha's belly for good luck when you fuck off to Macao for gambling. The idea there's any "deep spirituality" to it is just something Chinese push in pop culture because it makes them seem deep and inscrutable, likewise with Japanese and Koreans.

As for History, it's personal preference but give me Greece, Rome and Russia over East Asia any day.

And if I'm not very much mistaken, AMWF marriages have pretty high divorce rates. But you may be a statistical outlier, who knows.

No. 113000

>>112999
And it's interesting that the same applies to Taoism. The idea of Taoism as some deeply metaphysical "spirituality" is a new thing. For most of their history Taoist monks were primarily concerned with finding an elixir of life from alchemy.

No. 113002

>>112990
>be white and not fat
>sign up to "language exchange" websites
>profit

No. 113008

When you do this sort of shit you give every other white girl a bad name and basically give an open invitation to harassment in these countries because they think we're all whores. Especially as you fucks insist on speaking for all white women ("it's not true that we're not attracted to asian guys, we think you're really hot!")

No. 113010

>>112998
omg I just want an average looking viking bf, is that too much to ask? Sucks being southern european, I'm too poor to travel there

No. 113023

>>113002
This
Literaly all there is to it
Just be a woman or have a woman as a profile pic, the friend requests wont stop

No. 113025

>wanting to deal with in laws who will hate you and never consider you the equal of a woman of their own race
>wanting to deal with a significantly more misogynistic culture
>wanting all the issues that come with mixed kids
>wanting to deal with all this in a climate that is going to become significantly more anti Chinese as China becomes more powerful and flexes it's muscles more on the world stage

No thank-you

No. 113029

I'd rather fuck a hot European guy than some Asian twink. Most Asian guys only like Asian gals too.

Also this: >>113025

No. 113030

>>113029
Actually being into Italians and Irish and Russians seems passe these days given all the yellow fever stuff you see online.

No. 113031

>>113030
>Irish
literally why
all Irish men (and Brits, for that matter) are overweight unfunny manchildren who act tough but can't perform basic human functions such as dressing themselves yet whinge about women all the time and think dating Polish women will net them a subservient demure housewife who never says no to their greasy tayto-covered cocks.

No. 113042

I'm just saying it's rare to see girls gushing over European guys. It tends to be Asian guys online.

No. 113043

>>113042 was meant for >>113031

No. 113053

>>113029
Nah, Asian-American guys don't. Most of them put dating white girls on a pedestal because of their huge self-inferiority complex and wanting to retaliate the numbers of white guy-Asian girl couples. It's all very petty.

Asian-Asian guys are better in that respect.

No. 113062

>>113053
It's always been weird to me that guys can simultaneously hate their women dating out while putting another group of women on a pedestal. Surely they can understand that a lot of Asian American girls find white guys more attractive in the same way they find white girls more attractive.

Also how exactly are they retaliating? Asian American women don't give a damn who Asian American men date.

No. 113063

>>113062
The only group of women that does get butthurt about 'their' men dating women of other races are black women, which is hilariously hypocritical.

No. 113064

>>113063
I don't think it's hypocritical. Black women prefer black men generally.

No. 113065

oh here we go

> im a young white female weeb who loves venus angelic videos, japanese clothes and asian food! oh and pocky!!!!


> I really want an asian boyfriend because kakoi and I'm so edgy and its a trophy to shove in womens faces!


> I really want an asian boyfriend so I can have hafu babies and use them for modelling like Audrey H will probably do!


> I want so want an asian boyfriend because they love all white wimmin and we are speshul

No. 113066

>>113065
>shove in womens faces!

But non weeb white women don't think an Asian boyfriend is an enviable thing anyway. They generally find Asian men, particularly the k pop kind, way too effeminate.

Reading your post got me thinking about whether or not there were people who unironically watched Venus Angelic videos though. And I guess upon reflection there are a considerable number, which is slightly worrying.

No. 113067

>>113064

Black women prefer black guys most of the time. Its true - but they kick off when they date white women ect

Asian guys seem to just prefer their own or white women. But I have notice that them dating black women is SLOWLY rising, SLOWLY.

Asian girls always go for white men. The typical love me long time bullshit.

No. 113068

>>113066

The teenage girls who believe Japan is actually like anime probably think so. Plus the desperate ones who long to follow in Dakota Rose's footsteps and become a Taylor tier Jvlogger probably do.

They're all the same. They care that he's asian and thats it. The "Oh but I love him!" and "No no it his personality" thing is bull shit I think. Sometimes I think maybe its genuine but most of the time these days I don't buy it.

No. 113069

>>113067
>Asian girls always go for white men

Not true. Also no worse in terms of fetishization than any other pairing imo.

White men and Asian men seem to get the most angry about it from the male perspective. I'm surprised Asian guys get angry though since back in Asia the number of non Asian foreigners is statistically insignificant.

No. 113070

>>113069

Really? I always see that more than I see white girls and Asian men. I live in England you see and I see Asians together more mostly, the Chinese don't really want to socialise with anyone not Chinese OR I see an Asian with a white guy. Always an ugly white ugly white guy too.

No. 113071

>>113068
They're both as bad as each other family. Korean men shit talk Korean women and use Eastern European girls as a foil to them even though EE girls are way tougher and more unforgiving than Korean girls when it comes to shit like cheating. Fetishization is only talked about negatively when it's white people doing it to non white people but there are plenty of non white men and women who aggressively fetishise white men and white women.

No. 113072

>>113070
Not sure what your point is.

No. 113073

>>113071

Its all wrong and gross really but I doubt it will ever end.

Ive noticed black guys have started hopping on the "I want an asian girlfriend" trend too. Seen quite a few of them in that Japanese porno too. Black guys are seen as human dildos in porn anyway.

Even though Asian guys and white girls seem so popular on Youtube and the Jvlogging world. Their porno is dreadful.

No. 113075

>>113073
They're not so popular. Remember the most popular youtubers are people like pewdiepie. You're just dealing with confirmation bias since you surround yourself with people into Asian pop culture.

In real life the average Italian, Greek or German guy at a trendy bar in downtown NYC, LA or Seattle is going to be seen as much more desirable as an "other" than Asian guys are.

Also some white women have terrible taste in Asian men because it's purely fetish driven. Literally anything with yellow skin and an epicanthic fold will do.

No. 113076


No. 113077

I've only dated half-Asian dudes and they are the best. So far the best was a half-Korean, half Euromutt (Czech, Dutch, other stuff.) So good looking.
You get the best of both worlds:
>Great metabolism: can eat a fuckton of food and stay ottermode forever
>Gorgeous faces, the white adds just the right amount of manliness
>No B.O.
>Almost always into anime/vidya
>You don't have to worry about racist inlaws, for obvious reasons
>They're usually super smart <3

The only downside to Hapa men is when Elliot Rodgers happen. But I've met sooo many good-looking and well-adjusted hapas so who gives a shit.

No. 113078

Is this a real site I thought this was a archive for 4chan

No. 113079

>>113077
The only downside is the ones with Asian dads tend to go full sjw sometimes. But that tends to be more of a problem with mixed families where the mother is white for whatever reason. Not specific to eurasians in other words.

No. 113080

>>113069
It's usually not the Asian guys back in Asia that are angry at their own women dating out but Asian-Americans who lose confidence with each interracial couple they see and blame those nerd stereotypes that they don't get any pussies.

No. 113081

>>113080
Their homelands are literally 99.9999 percent east Asians. If anyone has reason to be worried about not existing as a group a hundred years from hence its white people, seeing as Europe's becoming an extension of the middle east demographically.

No. 113084

Tbqh I wouldn't want to be a white guy. Even their own women are abandoning them for Asian guys and others.

No. 113139

>>113069
>White men and Asian men seem to get the most angry about it from the male perspective
Arab/muslim men as well. I think in a general sense latinos are the least posessive–probably because "latino" isn't a race so there's less at stake?

No. 113144

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>asianmasculinity found lolcow

No. 113174

>>113139
Yep. Many "Latinos" are basically white Spanish people, genetically speaking. Which makes the chicano bullshit about being Aztecs doubly hilarious.

No. 113203

>>113174
tbh fuck chicanos they're an embarrassment.

No. 113204

>>113144
This tbh, for a group that supposedly is against racism they sure spread a lot of racist shit about hapas. They're also horribly sexist as well.

No. 113217

Chicano just means Mexican American basically. Mexican Americans are very different from Mexicans from Mexico but people just lump them all together.It's very common for Mexicans from Mexico to not like Mexican Americans and see them as white washed and vice versa. Also Most Mexicans are mixed with indian blood. It really depends on the area of Mexico.

No. 113221

>>113217
>Also Most Mexicans are mixed with indian blood.

Most people, including Mexicans themselves, don't understand what Mexicans are racially.

"Native American" usually refers to the natives of what is today they US and Canada, but the native people of central and South America are also "Native Americans", or "natives", or "indigenous people".

Almost all Mexicans today are mestizos. They are natives mixed with European Caucasians, primarily from Spain.

Spaniards conquered central and South America so hard that they changed the racial make-up of almost the entire native population.

No. 113287

My second crush ever was on a Japanese-Hispanic boy back in elementary school.

No. 113292

>>113204
>supposedly against racism

Have you ever met a Chinese person?

Han Supremacism is pretty much the default belief for any Chinese, overseas or not. Let alone Koreans, whose inferiority complex makes them even more extreme in their notions of racial nationalism and purity.

No. 113293

>>113221
Most Mexicans are majority European in blood. The notion that Mexicans are some indigenous group comes from the indigenismo movement of the 1960s primarily, which propounded pseudo-scientific and ahistorical ideas of Aztec genetic and cultural continuity.

Mexicans are just as "gringo" as anyone else, more or less. It's a shame they view their Spanish heritage as something to be ashamed of, but then again we live in a world where anything white (implicit or not) is viewed as negative and anything non-white (implicit or not) is viewed as positive.

No. 113303

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>>113292
Most of the Chinese population subscribes (consciously or otherwise) to an idea of a "Greater China": that the Chinese population is connected to the overseas Chinese diaspora by shared Han lineage.

This gives rise to another idea, that of China as a civilization-state, instead of nation-state: China as a shared set of cultural ideas and rituals, instead of politically demarcated geographical boundaries. Therefore, all overseas Chinese populations are supposed to serve the Chinese interest first, and the interests of the country they are in second.

Of course, this also means that Han Chinese-ness is seen as the 'correct' culture; everyone else (including, to a lesser extent, the overseas Chinese who have chosen to leave the 'motherland') is 'wrong'.

tl;dr yes, the Chinese are racist as fuck. Speaking as an overseas Chinese myself.

Pic related is a very good book about the topic.

No. 113310

>>113292
r/asianmasculinity is a subreddit of incredibly ass-blasted asian men who project their insecurity mostly unto Asian women and white men. To discourage "their" women from dating white men they make up racist shit about hapas for example r/hapas is almost entirely an r/am false flag, they started the Elliot Rodger memes and they create fake accounts of white dudes with yellow fever to harrass Asian women on dating sites.

It all comes off as pretty desperate and pathetic.

No. 113327

>>113310
I'm surprised someone else knows this about them. They deleted the most egregiously race baity threads but a lot of said threads are saved in screencaps.

It's mostly them discussing strategies of pretending to be creepy white guys on dating sites and so on. The user "eurasiantiger" is almost assuredly an Asian American dude false flagging for example.

What possible reason could a eurasian dude have for pushing a narrative that Asian men with white women produces normal and well adjusted kids but white men with Asian women produces maladjusted kids? In the real world, eurasian kids like Joseph Schooling are out there being normal.

My experience is that the opposite is far more common because non white dudes internalise the whole "love the women, hate the men" adage far more comprehensively. As /r/am prove funnily enough.

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>>113303
I was interested by that book you posted. I just finished reading a book (pic related) that makes a pretty convincing argument that China ascension has peaked and it will gradually collapse under the weight of managing itself.

Apparently there is a huge schism between the rich techie coastals and the dirt poor interior farming peoples. China likes to present itself a strongly unified hive mind, but the truth is the more Westernized it becomes, the bigger the fractures. Even with a police state they can't keep things under control. You don't have to be an economist to notice all the stories about the impending housing bubble collapse and stock fixing allegations.

The book goes into great detail about this, it's a really fascinating read.

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>>113303
I was interested by that book you posted. I just finished reading a book (pic related) that makes a pretty convincing argument that China ascension has peaked and it will gradually collapse under the weight of managing itself.

Apparently there is a huge schism between the rich techie coastals and the dirt poor interior farming peoples. China likes to present itself a strongly unified hive mind, but the truth is the more Westernized it becomes, the bigger the fractures. Even with a police state they can't keep things under control. You don't have to be an economist to notice all the stories about the impending housing bubble collapse and stock fixing allegations.

The book goes into great detail about this, it's a really fascinating read.

No. 113487

>>113303
I just want to let you know what you just said has nothing to do with racism.

No. 113495

>>113487
Not her but that's nonsense. There is and always was a racial component to han chauvinism. The oldest anti miscegenation laws come from tang dynasty China.

No. 113501

>>113478
fascinating but pointless, how the fuck can you predict this shit? Why the hell would the UK be at war with Germany and France?

No. 113504

>>113487

Yeah yeah. Only white people are racist. Chinese and Japanese and Korean are just "xenophobic" we all know the standard spiel and for those of us familiar with the culture we all know it's bullshit.

No. 113506

>>113310
>>113327
Do you have those screencaps and more deets? Those Asian subreddits honestly weird me out.

r/hapas and r/am are the worst ones, but r/aznidentity sounds almost as crazy half of the time. Are most Asian-Americans like this?

No. 113512

>>113506
Pretty much. It's why I lol at yellow fever weeb bitches

No. 113520

>>113293
So would you consider George Lopez to be white? I live near the border of Mexico and most Mexicans look closer to him then the Spaniard types you see on Mexican soap operas. Also most Mexicans do want to look white. Many make a big deal if you have lighter skin and see it as a status.

No. 113521

>>113293

have you even been to mexico or any south american/central american country?

You sound like some delusional white person who feels like they are persecuted or something for their "whiteness". At least in most of the Hispanic world, whiteness is sought after and thought of as good, darkness is not really wanted as much.

I'm not Mexican, but I've been a few times and most people do look mixed. whether or not they are "aztec" is a different story but most Mexicans (like 50%+) look like what >>113520 said.

Funnily enough, in the TV we mostly see white Hispanics not really representing most of the populations in our countries. Usually if there is a "darker" person they are the house servant or something hah. Other times you see "darker" skinned characters portrayed as the evil or bad ones.

Being white is prized and many want to have lighter skin. It's a mainstream thing to want to look light skinned, people want to look "European, and there are many skin lightening products in our drugstores.

Light skin is so prized in my country that certain insults revolve around calling someone an "indigenous" person and most people here love bragging about Spaniard heritage.

No. 113524

>>113521
>skin lightening products
out of curiosity, what are those? I'm a south yuropoor and we don't have them even though there's plenty of dark people here.

No. 113525

>>113521
I'm Mexican and receive a lot of comments like 'you're so pale and tall and big-eyed.' By tall they mean 5'4". And my own parents refer to others' looks like "she looks so indigenous."
On one hand, I don't like how racist Mexicans are. On the other hand, at least I'm on the coveted side of that divide.

No. 113529

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>>113524
Most products are creams that claim to lighten the skin when used regularly through bleaching. Some also have SPF to prevent tanning. Like all beauty products, some work and some do little. Pretty suspect stuff can be found online but well known brands produce lightening products too, like pic related Garnier. In the UK chain beauty stores sell products that "reduce dark spots / even skin tone" which can be used to lighten the skin.

It's a cultural / economic thing: it's only big in cultures which value light skin enough to spend so much time and money pursuing it, as well as being financially able to do that.

No. 113530

>>113512
I doubt yellow fever weebs mind. They're both perfect for each other since those Reddit dudes seem to think dating white anime/Kpop fans is better than dating Asians or any other kind of girl.

I don't really get all this hate and self-bashing in the Asian-American community. Minorities usually stick together.

No. 113532

>>113520
>>113521
Anon sort of does have a point. It's easy to get stuck in a circle of "white" people like she described when you're both upper middle class and light skinned/white yourself. Especially if you go to college. Anything indian/black/minority is prized and valued while europen culture is heavily criticized, considered problematic or straight up shunned. I'm not mexican but I'm south american and I believe things are very similar over here.

That's obviously not the case for the entire population, but for a large portion of it, it is.

No. 113537

>>113530

>I don't really get all this hate and self-bashing in the Asian-American community. Minorities usually stick together.


bitch where? when minorities aren't busy complaining about white people they're putting each other down for being too dark/too light/ too 'uncle tomish'/ etc

No. 113540

>>113530
They're (angry Asian American males) not self hating. They're racial nationalists who see taking white women as part of some sort of racial conquest thing. Don't try and spin this shit in a "they should just be more proud" direction. Koreans and Chinese are hubristic and arrogant enough as is, which is why a demographically insignificant number of their women dating out (like literally 0.00001%) causes them to go ballistic in the first place.

No. 113541

>>113532
That's exactly what I meant. The indigenismo movement span a narrative of evil Spanish and good and pure natives that I see a lot of Mexicans swallow hook line and sinker.

No. 113543

>>113530
You're right about yellow fever weebs not minding but that's because they're the real self hating part of the equation. People who are proud of their heritage don't desperately try to become part of racially exclusive groups that clearly do not want them in any capacity except for easy sex, eschewing their own racial identity totally in the process.

Too many sjw types on PULL and elsewhere buy into this notion that white females and males who are extreme weebs are some sort of white supremacists by proxy seeking to teach the natives who they are.

The reality is they're sad, alienated people who have been told anything white is implicitly bad and/or meaningless and correspondingly seek out other identities. First through subculture, then through veneration of the other. Women are more liable to this trend than men for whatever reason.

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>>113506
Not the most egregiously retarded, but still…

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>>113550
Another example.

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>>113551
It's amazing how much of this stuff is basically just a cover for overseas Chinese ethno-nationalism, along with their usual suspect running dogs: the Koreans.

Yeah, Vietnam should totally stop "supplicating" to America and give up all their territorial claims to the PRC in the interests of Asian American male brotherhood.

These fucks are delusional. They're worse than /pol/. At least there are legitimate happenings in Western Europe that pose an existential threat to white people there in the long run. These cunts come from countries that are uniformly yellow to a degree of 99.99999%, that purposefully exclude foreigners with immigration and naturalization laws that make Donald Trump and Nigel Farage look like hardcore liberals (until recently in South Korea, a husband could sponsor a foreign spouse for a visa, but a Korean woman couldn't sponsor a foreign husband), the very reason there's tension in the first place is because white people (perhaps stupidly) mooted the idea of civic identity trumping racial identity and opened the door to the idea of "everyone becoming an American/Frenchman/Englishman" - foolish and short-sighted, but at least founded on bona fide attitudes towards outsiders that Asians would never, ever in a million years consider.

I honestly and truthfully hate them more than the black SJWs. At least blacks have shitty lives to complain about. Chinese Americans are the most uniformly upper middle class demographic in America. Their complaints basically boil down to shit like "there was this film called thirteen candles that was made a few decades ago and it hurt my feelings, and not enough white pretty blonde girls like me as a result". Fuck em, they're absolute hypocrites who would never hold their own to the same standards they seek to impose on westerners.

No. 113640

>>113541

That's only for the rich. Most people are not rich. Also that anon did sound defensive about being white. I guess you could say that's one stereotype but it is in no way the majority. It did sound like that anon was upper middle class and around white people mostly. It's not like that anywhere else.

No. 113667

Fascinated by which asian culture? Which version of Buddhism are you talking about? By generalizing Asia as just east asia you sound like a fucking weeb. Not every asian is Buddhist either. Theres a large concentration of Christians and Catholics in asia as well. Also, don't use my favorite group for your gross asian fetish agenda.

No. 113675

>>113495
How is the notion of them considering overseas chinese also a part of homeland in anyway racism? Do you even understand what the word means, or are you just bad at logic?

>>113504
>Yeah yeah. Only white people are racist.
Jesus christ. It's impossible to have a serious discussion with the likes of you. Put yourself out of the rest of the planet's misery, please.

No. 113682

>>113551

Pocahontas is asian now? wew lad. The ironic thing is many indians I've spoken to would balk at being labeled as asian. The theory that asians migrated across the bering strait in prehistory is viewed by a lot of native people as bullshit; something white men made up so they could justify pouring into North America and genociding everybody.

It's just weird that people who claim to be so sensitive about appropriation would steamroll amerindians to argue a stupid point on the internet.

No. 113683

>>113675
1. It's not that viewing your diaspora as part of your group is necessarily "racist" (although I'm sure you can understand why the rest of us view the potential weaponization of your ethnocentrism by the PRC with some fear). It's that Han chauvinism is by default racist and always was. It's not some distinct thing, Chinese people, by default, believe themselves to be racially superior and believe others to be inferior. Chineseness is also overwhelmingly a matter of Han blood.

2. You can have a serious conversation with me. But our starting point isn't going to be some position of "white people invented racism and Chinese people are relatively benign xenophobes whose xenophobia has nothing to do with a race based view of the world."

>>113667
>favorite group

Unless you're Asian. You're just as bad.

>>113682
Like I said. Most of it is Chinese or Korean ethnonationalism with an intentional mass of postmodern bullshit sociology and ethnic studies terms to act as cover.

They're racial nationalists who happen to live in America. That's true of most Koreans and Chinese in my experience.

No. 113713

>>113683
>Chinese people, by default, believe themselves to be racially superior
Unless you mean it in a different way than I think you mean or you're only talking about a certain generation, this is very hard to believe.

If they thought of themselves as superior, they wouldn't suck up to and treat white tourists like celebrities, envy whites for their 3D features like high nose bridges as opposed to their flatter ones and hold Europe (Prague, Germany, Paris etc.) and foreign products in such a high regard. Not to mention the rent-a-foreigner industry or that white-looking people who speak bad English supposedly have better chances at becoming English teachers than Chinese-Americans/Australians.

No. 113718

>>113713
Idk about you but I used to work with Chinese tourists and they were incredibly snotty, rude and entitled. I live in a relatively touristy city and they treat us like props or NPCs in a game.

No. 113720

>>113713
>Unless you mean it in a different way than I think you mean or you're only talking about a certain generation, this is very hard to believe.

What I mean is that Han Chauvinism is the default belief of virtually every ethnic huaren from Singapore and the SEA minorities to Beijing. They believe themselves to be racially superior - that is superior based on shared ancestry and consequently biology.

>suck up


Hah, know how I can tell you're East Asian? You use terms like "suck up" to refer to what are, in other countries, just basic civility shown to guests.

>have better chances at becoming English teachers than Chinese-Americans/Australians.


This has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not Chinese people are racial supremacists. You're just getting butthurt about who dead end jobs go to at this point, lol.

No. 113723

>>113720
I don't care about the English teacher situation. It's just an example I've seen other people complain about.

What I meant with "suck up" is all the compliments and attention tourists get, not basic civility and manners. I've never seen foreign exchange students or tourists in Germany being treated like this since they're just chinks or invisible to us. And yeah, you aren't completely wrong, although I'm as Chinese as Keanu Reeves.

No. 113772

>>113683
>Han chauvinism
Kill yourself.

No. 113780

I've never been into asian guys in particular, have mostly dated only white men.

I met a Japanese guy and he seems nice but I'm scared that he is going to be a misogynist or something due to things I've heard about Japanese men culturally. He was raised in Japan and only briefly lived outside of it.

Any thoughts about this anons? I know obviously every Japanese man isn't the same but culture really influences people.

No. 113783

>>113780
Have you tried getting to know more about him before dating him

No. 113792

>>113780

Or just date him ffs. If he's an asshole you can always find somebody else. Unless he's making you fear for your safety you have very little to lose. Be assertive.

No. 113793

>>113783
>>113792
I don't think she should date him.
Maybe he's a big misogynist, maybe he's not. But he can certainly do without her prejudiced ass.

No. 113813

>>113772
Han Nationalism. Whatever you want to call it. The point here is that Chinese are fucking racist and the you haven't offered a compelling reason as to why the term can be applied to whites but not Chinese.

>>113780
Date who you want. Cultural issues and barriers really are a genuine thing though. It's not just something you "work through", eventually one side has to acquiesce. There's also the fact that once you've dated an asian guy other white guys will look at you as someone with an asian fetish and probably mark you down as less desirable. But I'm sure you can live with that.

>>113723
This doesn't happen except in areas where they get zero tourists and even then it applies equally to black people and whites. It's more inquisitiveness than anything else.

No. 113820

>>113780

what if he doesn't want to date you though

No. 113870

>>113783
Obviously I am getting to know him now I am just scared (have had problems with culture differences before and it sucked). I would not date him until I know him further.

>>113792

I'll be more assertive, thank you.

>>113793

KEK I'm not prejudiced.

I don't think he's automatically a misogynist or whatever because of his culture. But culture can really influence how men (or women) act. I'm Hispanic, and our culture is very machisto/misogynist and because of this many men are raised to be this way.

That being said, I don't automatically think ALL Hispanic men are like this but I've encountered many due to them being raised this way. I don't know too much about Japanese men in general so I was just asking for general advice on how Japanese culture is for men in general.

>>113820

Then don't date obviously but he has shown interest in me.

No. 113948

>>113870
Are you that Hispanic chick who dated an Asian guy before?

Why put yourself through that shit but with an even more alien FOB all over again? It's not going to be any better.

No. 113967

>>113813
>other white guys will look at you as someone with an asian fetish

Most white dudes don't care as much as you think they do. Plus, you aren't required to disclose the race of prior boyfriends when you enter a new relationship.

>>113780
Don't let lolcow determine who you do or do not date. If you have to ask this, don't bother trying since you already have doubts and judgement. There is a risk of any dude you date being a misogynist, asian or non-asian.

No. 113975

>>113948

That Hispanic chick? no. No idea who you are talking about.

>>113967
I'm not going to base my decisions 100% on what anyone said, I was just asking since this thread was on asian men.

Obviously ANY man can be a dick or whatever but I was just asking if anyone had any experience in Japanese culture and those values. That's all I was asking for.

No. 114000

>>113967
>Most white dudes don't care as much as you think they do.

Nah, the internet made it a known thing in the same vein as "white girl who dates black guys". They're both basically the same thing after all (fetish-driven relationships).

A male friend of mine said if he knew he was dating a girl who had a "history" with asian guys he'd be put off. I think the reverse is true too, dating a white guy whose dating history was exclusively say, Korean girls, would be a bit weird.

No. 114001

>>114000
>Nah, the internet made it a known thing in the same vein as "white girl who dates black guys". They're both basically the same thing after all (fetish-driven relationships).

I was just thinking about this. Literally 75% of the threads on /pt/ and /snow/ are testament to this. I don't blame anyone, men or women, for wanting to avoid people with a fetish for another group. The idea of being their back-up plan isn't fun.

No. 114077

>>114000
Eh, If a guy is shallow enough to write off a decent girl because of her dating history then that's probably not someone that girl would want to be with anyway.

The reason white dudes are put off by white girls dating black guys/asian guys/whatever are usually insecure redpill nonsense anyway.

No. 114284

>>113053
I'm White/Asian and European, and my experience was basically: not Asian enough for the Asian Europeans. The Asian Asians on the other hand totally digged a half girl like me. (yay for the halfs are pretty stereotype in Asia lol)

No. 114289

>>114077
>shallow

Incorrect. It's because if you look at someone's dating history and it is exclusively Korean guys/girls, then there's probably some deep-seated racial fetish you're dealing with. Normal people do not want to deal with that, despite your attempts to claim they're the ones with the issue.

I'm frankly amazed you could blame someone for flagging that as a red flag. It's not even exclusively a male or female thing. It's normal to not want to be with someone who doesn't view the racial group to which you belong as their first choice, in terms of looks or culture or both.

>>113053
sigh

It's not an "inferiority complex", they just see them as prettier and they see, like most men, it as them "conquering" the other group's women.

Throughout history, mixed children identify primarily with their paternal lineage, not their maternal one. Hence why Ashkenazi Jews believe themselves to be some pure Semitic race despite 80%+ of their mtDNA being European, hence why Northeast Africa (primarily Egypt) believes itself to be as Arabic as the Gulf (with the exception of the Copts) and so on. Mixed children, generally speaking, identify with the race of the father, if you rinse and repeat this process enough times then you basically end up with a group of people who have virtually no connection to their maternal racial lineage whatsoever, which is basically what happened in regions of Southern China colonized by Han farmers two thousand years ago.

No. 114291

>>114284
>yay for the halfs are pretty stereotype in Asia lol

I cringed fucking hard.

Have some self-respect, what sort of woman is proud of being a fetish object for a group of men who objectify here in the purest meaning of the term?

No. 114308

>>114289
>Mixed children, generally speaking, identify with the race of the father
Not true for me. I always was rather the opposite. But maybe it's because I barely know my father's family, and grew up around my mother's family (since my father's family lives largely abroad).

>>114291
Aight, I get what you're trying to say. But to be honest, living in Japan was the first time I felt pretty for being half, rather than wishing I was full Asian, so that guys like my Asian European crush would notice me. I might be one of the few White/Asians that loathed being White, rather than being Asian, in that sense.

No. 114318

>>114308
>loathed being white

Seems like you have some serious issues you need to work out, which kind of confirms my point.

I'm not surprised though, most white societies teach self-hatred and guilt, so that just makes you like any other white person.

No. 274181

>>112990
Totally agree anon, I hate the entitled attitude white guys have over us white women and honestly they are just plain uglier than Asian men. I definitely think that times are changing and it is much more common for the prettiest white girls to prefer masculine Asian guys over white guys.

No. 274394

>>274181
go back to your subreddit please

No. 274398

You guys are no better than the white guys who want a docile asian waifu.

No. 275095

step 1: move to new york or southern california
step 2: download tinder
step 3: talk to them, date.

tips: eat a shit ton of asian food on the dates. learn 2 use chopsticks.
be skinny. if you want to impress a fob, be pale.

these two states are literally flooded with asian dudes, both americanized, fobby, or a mix of both. how are you not finding them?

No. 275101

>>275095
i doubt anon was referring to asian american fuckbois, i bet she want a kpop idol tier uwu cute feminine bf.

No. 275102

>>275101
wants*

No. 519438

Eurasian Tiger sells BBC porn drawings from secret account and Persephone's AMWF ex is a game addict and porn addict NEET.

No. 519443

>>519438
I don't understand Eurasian Tiger, he despised all white men because of his father and his grand plan of getting back against white men was spamming bbc cuck porn around 4chan and other imageboards, he spent so much actual money do this and the effort he put in was ridiculous

No. 519463

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>>519438
>>519443
Holy shit. You really put this guy on blast, lmao.
I don't know much about EurasianTiger, but he seems like a cow. His art alone is hideous. I saw the NSFW content, too, but actually saving and reposting it would be too disgusting.
He writes stories about the same subject under a female alias, too. I noticed he makes a point of claiming he does this to "empower women", be "anti-racist" and "stay body positive". Mental illness.

No. 519476

>It's how much deeper their history is compared to us white people,

what? please open up a fucking history book. Rome, Russia, Greece, even any random tiny EU country you probably have never heard of have extensive history and culture. European art history, architecture. """us white people""" have our fair share of history and culture, you're just purposely blind for it.

No. 519716

>>519443
Autism and lack of therapy. Look at Barneyfag on 4chan, a canadian that went on a 8 one-man crusade to harass My Little Pony neets off the site.

No. 519720

>>113553
It's funny how this post's anti-racism is a cover for being mad at taking your own medicine

No. 519757

I’ve been on exchange in Korea and all I can say is their PPs really are small as fuck. One guy’s pubes were longer than his entire dick…

No. 519760

This thread is a relic. The BIGBANG OP about le cute polite azn gentlemen just really makes it. Leave this in the past please.

No. 519782

Dat yellow fever tho

No. 519786

I honestly just want a man with blue eyes

No. 519789

>>519786
I got a man with blue eyes. How much are you willing to pay?

No. 519790

Ex kboos or weebs who bought into the OPs meme, how was it! I wanna hear confessions or some shit.

No. 519814

>>519789
How much for just the blue eyeballs?

No. 519822

>>519790
It’s weird, when I was openly weeby and a weirdly into Japanese culture when I was younger (early 2000s), my parents were adamant I had yellow fever and was going to date an asian guy and try to marry one when I expressed no interest. They would clown on me constantly when I had no real attraction to them because I preferred guys with defined bone structure. Now I want to date an asian just to see what it’s like but god that would vindicate them. They’re the very cringe American boomers who have that racist to the point of absurd humor that they try to pass off as just a joke and harmless.

No. 519826

So I don't know if this belongs here but has anyone noticed that Japanese men have "darker" features compared to other east asian people, it surprised me how darker skinned many japanese guys actually were when I went to Japan

No. 519831

>>519826
Yes, they're also the ugliest and shortest east asian men

No. 519847

>>519826
No, it’s like that in other East Asian countries too. Turns out East Asians aren’t somehow genetically tan-resistant and most men don’t give af about sun protection.

No. 519871

>>519847
yes but its also due to the fact many japanese people are partially descended from Austronesian people who were the original inhabitants of japans who were assimilated by a migrating eastern eurasian people who would later become the japanese, its something japanese people don't like discussing
being descended from dirty Austronesians

No. 519879

>>519831
IMO Japanese guys are on the average better looking than other East Asians, and Chinese are the worst looking (again, on the average).

No. 519901

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>>519879
I usually don't find Chinese guys good looking either but I like Joseph Zeng, he has this very cute puppy look.

No. 519905

>>519826
Nah, all east asian countrys have them but it almost seems like japan is the only place that has less of that "tan skin ugly" propaganda? I mean, yea you see older men in east asian media but you seldom see young women who are tanner than second lightest foundation color. I could be totally wrong though, it's just something I've noticed. I haven't really seen skintone jokes in japanese media like in korean for example?

No. 519907

>>112990
Chinese guys have more variation in looks but I really hate the way their language sounds, I have my issues with Japan but their language just sounds better

No. 519930

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So this is my asian male crush. Shaheen Afridi pakistani pathan cricketer and he 100% counts as asian

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shaheen_Afridi
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pashtuns

No. 519937

>>519930
You think we don't know what asia means or do you just genuinely have shit taste in guys, nonnie?

No. 519946

>>519930
He's ugly

No. 519947

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>>519930
He's cute, anon, you have good taste. I love South Asian men too, they are so handsome

No. 519979

>>519789
My whole paycheck.

No. 520027

>>519826
Japanese are part Aboriginal.

No. 520030

>>519930
>>519947
r/asianmasculinity: south edition

No. 520035

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>>520030
do you really think its fair to say that these 2 men >>519930 >>519947 are the same

No. 520036

>>520035
is this a tranny or what

No. 520039

>>520036
Sindhis actually

No. 520052

>>520035
Anon, these are women and one ugly man?

No. 520131

>>519907
I think Chinese (Mandarin) sounds like water flowing through a stream, hearing the Chinese voices from Food Fantasy really changed my mind. To me Vietnamese sounds like nails on a chalkboard.

No. 520216

Is it possible to distinguish between Japanese, Korean and Chinese by appearance? I've noticed some traits - eg.: Chinese usually have wider faces than the others, Japanese have bigger noses, Koreans are usually the tallest - but it's not consistent

No. 520218

>>520216
Are Koreans more lanky and gangly too? A bunch of tourists live here and they always look like models and dress like a family on a target catalog lol

No. 520223

>>520216
Generally Chinese people have rounder faces, Korean people have squarer faces and Japanese people have longer oval faces. It's why jaw shaving is such a popular PS operation for women in SK, they usually have quite angular jawlines.

No. 520261

>>520223
You're so right about that
In my town there are a lot of Chinese and Koreans, Chinese have round faces and the Koreans that didn't get their jaw shaved had big jaws.

No. 520262

>>519930
who is this supposed to be?

No. 520372

it's not worth it to deal with the inlaws, you'll always be an outsider and incubator in their eyes until its time to take care of them, and that's even if you get to that stage. many asian men are as entitled as white men and want to date the rainbow but marry asian, and then get mad when asian women prefer to marry jews

No. 520396

(half) Asian guy anon here. This ib is…. insightful. I stumbled upon this place, but stayed for the quality shitposting. Just wanted to say that.

>>519871
We're all Austronesian in one way or another. East Asians were more from a branch that split north. Some even further north and possibly mixed with Siberia. Those branched into Japan and then the Americas. The southern branches populated Southern China and ancient Khmer/SE peoples. But there are also some really aboriginal types that might've been a different migration (like the Negritos in the Phillipines). I suspect they were part of the same people who also moved way south (Australia).(male here)

No. 520397

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No. 520400

>>520397
It's cool, I'll leave. I love you.

Back to the stormfags, where I have to hide myself.

No. 520984

>>520216
In terms of physical traits, Northern Chinese people are hard to tell from Korean people if you were to strip away stuff like clothes and styling. Japanese are east to tell apart from the other two in that they’re usually shorter, tanner, and have eyes that are a little bigger.

If we were to take styling into account, Japanese guys usually have outdated anime-inspired haircuts, whereas other East Asian dudes tend to not. Compare the character appearances in the Japanese drama Hana Kimi to its Taiwanese and Korean counterparts and you’ll get what I mean.

No. 521048

I find that a lot of Japanese people have humped noses

No. 521053

>>520984
>>521048
So basically this >>519831

No. 521107

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I really like the aesthetic of Japanese Punks and rockers in80's and 90's and that's it

No. 521112

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>>521107
Good shit. Post more

No. 521117

>>521053
I wouldn't say they look ugly as shit cuz of their noses but I wouldn't say they're hot af

No. 521386

From what I've seen Korean guys are the hottest from East Asia.

No. 521822

>>520262
pretty sure they are just trolling, ignore

No. 531714

>>519463
I heard about this guy from the subreddit that makes fun of /r/trp a few years back. He has good cow potential if he's still active.



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