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No. 582939
>>582934Unironically, get a hobby. Preferably something where you create stuff with your hands like pottery or embroidery. Alternatively, take part in a team sport.
There is more to womanhood than appearance. Work on your skills, give back to your communuty, nurture the young children around you, and focus on being the best version of yourself.
>>582935I agree. Inner beauty lasts for life, whereas outer beauty is fickle and temporary.
I believe Roald Dahl put it best by saying,"If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely."
No. 582943
>>582938White people look too red in the face half the time. Kek.
Please start loving yourself more and focus on things within your control. Life is too short for resentment and self-pity.
No. 582944
>>582941The title of the post is "How to Cope with Being Ugly". So, I am giving you advice on how to cope with that. Don't you want a solution to your problem?
I am also convinced that your real problem is poor self-esteem. No self-professed "ugly" woman I have ever encountered is even remotely as hideous as she claims to be.
It pains me when normal-looking women hate themselves and harm themselves over such trivial issues.
No. 582952
>>582938Unironically this. Any
woc seen as conventionally attractive are so because they're an anomaly with Eurocentric features. Wide eyes or small nose are not the norm with most
woc who are seen as male and dirty due to it
No. 582954
>>582949I would not have responded if the anon was not hostile.
I used to go through phases of self-loathing too, so I was simply sharing advice that worked for me.
Trust me, five years down the line, all these anons would look back at old pictures and realise that they looked fine. I know I did.
No. 582955
>>582952In my country, wide eyes and small noses are common, and
woc face more flak for skin color than anything else.
>>582951>conventionally attractiveKek. He looked alright for a bloke, nut nothing special.
No. 582960
>>582956I recognize their pattern of thinking though. They are not going through some unique struggle. Every woman under the sun has felt inadequate at some point in her life.
I recognize that my advice might seem generic, but that is only because it works. The simplest solution is often the most effective.
If you feel that your looks are not up to par, you can compensate for that by learning skills and honing abilities that would be useful for yourself and others. That way, you can still forge connections and get treated well despite not looking conventionally attractive. I think that is a better coping mechanism than wallowing in misery.
No. 582961
>>582959So what? Nta but race not making one "objectively" ugly doesn't mean it doesn't affect how people view and treat them.
Woc get seen as masculine dirty monkeys on a regular basis.
No. 582962
>>582959Agreed. Many of them have wisps for hair and very red faces.
>>582957>hideously uglyOnly 5% of people fall in that category, and even they can get by just fine if they apply themselves.
>ol' school misogynistNot really. This was the guy that wrote Matilda after all. He is still leagues ahead of modern scrotes in terms of open-mindedness.
No. 582964
>>582961The term
woc is rather misleading. Most Asians and Latinas are now seen as desireable and feminine.
Black women admittedly have it bad, and it is rather unfortunate, as they have lovely skin and hair. I hope things change for the better for them.
No. 582966
>>582963Only the book Witches seems vaguely misogynistic.
The rest of his books are very delightful and whimsical. I read all of them as a kid, and none of it ever seemed horrid. My nieces love his books too.
He wrote books for children, and so his villains were often adults and authority figures. Just because some of those characters were women does not mean that he was a misogynist. His depiction of plenty of men was just as bad.
No. 582969
>>582955>woc woc wocStop using the word, it's repulsive. And no I can tell it's not about the skin color or else tanning wouldn't be a trend in europe. Having a white skin won't cancel a ethnic face
>>582959>>582960You're come off as so dumb I believe you're a troll atp
No. 582972
>>582969>wocOnly used it because the other anon said that. I find the term annoyning too.
>not about colorBeauty standards are not universal, nona.
Fair skin is valued in my home country, because it signfies that the person was affluent enough to not have to resort to physical labor and farm work. It is also associated with higher castes there.
In European nations, white is the default, so tanned skin implies that the person is athletic and outdoorsy.
In my original comment, I had just wished to point out that wide eyes and thin noses are not specific to just white people. There is a lot more at play.
No. 582975
>>582970Glad to know that black women seem to be doing better than I initially thought. Good for them!
>AsianJapanesse, Chinese and Korean women are shilled heavily these days.
As for South Asians, most women seem to mix in just fine here in the US.
From what I have seen, plenty of guys tend to go for Latinas due to their curvier body types.
If anything, I can confidently say that women of every race are usually able to find their niche.
Just curious: what country are you from?
No. 582980
>>582978What "white" features? Hmm?
>>582974Yes, and it seems rather sudden too. Is it just because of anime and "muh superior Nippon", or is there more to it?
No. 582983
>>582981No, expand on what you mean by "white features".
>us ugliesAgain, I can bet 20 dollars that you just look normal.
No. 582987
>>582984Ms. Honey is childless and unmarried as well, and she is depicted positively. Not to mention, depicting young girls as smart and capable was not as common back then, so Matilda was a decent role model.
Dahl's books have adult villains, usually in positions of authority. It makes sense that he made the Headmistress the bad guy.
She was demonized for her poor treatment of children, not due to her age or gender.
Matilda's father was also depicted as an absolute buffoon in the book, but you neglect to mention that.
At the end of the day, it is a bloody kid's book. Children enjoy stories where they can get one over their adult counterparts.
No. 582997
>>582993She was her aunt, nonna.
It shouldn't matter if she was childless or not, her primary trait was being a bully.
No. 583085
>>583068Try to remain in shape. Even if you might not have a pretty face, having a good body can compensate for that.
Also, look into hairstyles and accessories that complement some of your better features, or disguise your worse features.
I can give some tips if you want specifics, but for that you would need to explain what all you find lacking in your appearance.
As for compensating mentally, I would like to reiterate my previous point once again: get a fulfilling hobby. It will enable you to meet and forge connections with people, and would be a source of pride too.
Finally, please understand that you are more than your looks. I am sure that you are a very kind and sweet woman. You deserve to feel comfortable in your own skin.
>neurodivergentSame here, nonna. I am asexual however, so never looked into dating. Still, my sympathies are with you. I hope that you find your Mr. Right soon.
No. 583088
>>583078It depends. Flashy styling is usually appreciated by women, but it is not as well received by men.
At the end of the day, it is important to dress according to the occasion. That anon can choose to wear flashier stuff with friends, and more plainly when going on a date.
No. 583091
>>583087Any type of make-up is horrid for your skin. I have never worn any, and have aged better than all my friends.
Women start wearing make-up to hide blemishes, which in turn causes them to break out more and have scaly and dry skin. They compensate for that by slathering more make-up. It is a vicious cycle.
Just lip-gloss and eyeliner would do, and even that is not strictly necessary.
Honestly, just eat right, avoid booze and smoking, and do not fall for any make-up or beauty trends. Pair that with a bit of exercise, and you will find that you already look and feel better than most people around you.
No. 583102
>>583094>Sabrina Carpenter>UglyHer current style might be very unflattering, but she used to look decent earlier. Calling her ugly is a huge stretch.
>makeup and good fashion for hot people onlyMeh, makeup is not good for anyone. As for "good fashion", that is highly subjective.
I think people should just wear whatever is practical and makes them feel comfortable.
No. 583106
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>>583094I’m the flashy dressing anon. As an ugly person, I’ve been on the receiving end of plenty of fake pity compliments from women about my physical appearance, and I can recognize them easily. The compliments I get on my clothing from other women are very clearly genuine. I also have a hair cut I get compliments on a lot, one of the managers at my work asked if she could take a picture of how I cut the back of it because she wanted something similar and wound up taking the pic to her stylist. I think getting a haircut that suits your head and face shape is an underrated part of looking put together as an ugly person. I look 200x better with picrel as I did with any longer hairstyle.
Most women, unlike men, can appreciate cool fashion and styling as its own thing regardless of if the person wearing it is a bit ugly in the face.
The only thing I’d agree with you on is the makeup part. If you’re ugly, it’s best to go for a no makeup makeup look. I just fill in my sparse eyebrows, curl my lashes, and put a dab of brown eyeshadow at the outer corners of my lash line, and it really looks nice as opposed to more traditional makeup looks which look ridiculous on a face like mine. You don’t want to try to change your ugly features with makeup because it won’t work, you just want to fill in the features you do have like brows and lash line.
No. 583151
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>>583126I'm the same height as Sabrina and probably lighter in weight too since I weigh 46 kg. She's ugly and looks unhinged and this is coming from a white woman lover. She just looks strange, sorry.
No. 583153
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>>583151Seeing this on the front page was so startling, kek. I think she looks nice with darker hair, and would look better if she stopped doing the weird cakey makeup. This photo looks edited to hell and back, though, and the only unedited photos of her with darker hair of her as a kid and I'm not posting those.
No. 583257
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>>583155>Her face is too shortGot it, horse-face
No. 583339
>>583255Nah white women can be cute, she's just not one.
>>583257The autopedo defense squad is here
(bait) No. 583363
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>>583348Never said I was hot, but at least I don't look as weird as she does. She looks like the average plastic surgeried up bitch in my city. I'm not fond of that look and find it ugly. I doubt the average British or German lady has as much work done as Sabrina. You can't pretend picrel looks beautiful, she looks strange and off-putting.
No. 583419
>>583395Yeah we didn’t get it the first 7 times. Here:
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