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No. 582933
Not everyone can be beautiful, and for some, even "average" is out of reach. If that sounds like you, how are you coping in this looks-obsessed world?
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>>378181 No. 582939
>>582934Unironically, get a hobby. Preferably something where you create stuff with your hands like pottery or embroidery. Alternatively, take part in a team sport.
There is more to womanhood than appearance. Work on your skills, give back to your communuty, nurture the young children around you, and focus on being the best version of yourself.
>>582935I agree. Inner beauty lasts for life, whereas outer beauty is fickle and temporary.
I believe Roald Dahl put it best by saying,"If you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely."
No. 582943
>>582938White people look too red in the face half the time. Kek.
Please start loving yourself more and focus on things within your control. Life is too short for resentment and self-pity.
No. 582944
>>582941The title of the post is "How to Cope with Being Ugly". So, I am giving you advice on how to cope with that. Don't you want a solution to your problem?
I am also convinced that your real problem is poor self-esteem. No self-professed "ugly" woman I have ever encountered is even remotely as hideous as she claims to be.
It pains me when normal-looking women hate themselves and harm themselves over such trivial issues.
No. 582952
>>582938Unironically this. Any
woc seen as conventionally attractive are so because they're an anomaly with Eurocentric features. Wide eyes or small nose are not the norm with most
woc who are seen as male and dirty due to it
No. 582954
>>582949I would not have responded if the anon was not hostile.
I used to go through phases of self-loathing too, so I was simply sharing advice that worked for me.
Trust me, five years down the line, all these anons would look back at old pictures and realise that they looked fine. I know I did.
No. 582955
>>582952In my country, wide eyes and small noses are common, and
woc face more flak for skin color than anything else.
>>582951>conventionally attractiveKek. He looked alright for a bloke, nut nothing special.
No. 582960
>>582956I recognize their pattern of thinking though. They are not going through some unique struggle. Every woman under the sun has felt inadequate at some point in her life.
I recognize that my advice might seem generic, but that is only because it works. The simplest solution is often the most effective.
If you feel that your looks are not up to par, you can compensate for that by learning skills and honing abilities that would be useful for yourself and others. That way, you can still forge connections and get treated well despite not looking conventionally attractive. I think that is a better coping mechanism than wallowing in misery.
No. 582961
>>582959So what? Nta but race not making one "objectively" ugly doesn't mean it doesn't affect how people view and treat them.
Woc get seen as masculine dirty monkeys on a regular basis.
No. 582962
>>582959Agreed. Many of them have wisps for hair and very red faces.
>>582957>hideously uglyOnly 5% of people fall in that category, and even they can get by just fine if they apply themselves.
>ol' school misogynistNot really. This was the guy that wrote Matilda after all. He is still leagues ahead of modern scrotes in terms of open-mindedness.
No. 582964
>>582961The term
woc is rather misleading. Most Asians and Latinas are now seen as desireable and feminine.
Black women admittedly have it bad, and it is rather unfortunate, as they have lovely skin and hair. I hope things change for the better for them.
No. 582966
>>582963Only the book Witches seems vaguely misogynistic.
The rest of his books are very delightful and whimsical. I read all of them as a kid, and none of it ever seemed horrid. My nieces love his books too.
He wrote books for children, and so his villains were often adults and authority figures. Just because some of those characters were women does not mean that he was a misogynist. His depiction of plenty of men was just as bad.
No. 582969
>>582955>woc woc wocStop using the word, it's repulsive. And no I can tell it's not about the skin color or else tanning wouldn't be a trend in europe. Having a white skin won't cancel a ethnic face
>>582959>>582960You're come off as so dumb I believe you're a troll atp
No. 582972
>>582969>wocOnly used it because the other anon said that. I find the term annoyning too.
>not about colorBeauty standards are not universal, nona.
Fair skin is valued in my home country, because it signfies that the person was affluent enough to not have to resort to physical labor and farm work. It is also associated with higher castes there.
In European nations, white is the default, so tanned skin implies that the person is athletic and outdoorsy.
In my original comment, I had just wished to point out that wide eyes and thin noses are not specific to just white people. There is a lot more at play.
No. 582975
>>582970Glad to know that black women seem to be doing better than I initially thought. Good for them!
>AsianJapanesse, Chinese and Korean women are shilled heavily these days.
As for South Asians, most women seem to mix in just fine here in the US.
From what I have seen, plenty of guys tend to go for Latinas due to their curvier body types.
If anything, I can confidently say that women of every race are usually able to find their niche.
Just curious: what country are you from?
No. 582980
>>582978What "white" features? Hmm?
>>582974Yes, and it seems rather sudden too. Is it just because of anime and "muh superior Nippon", or is there more to it?
No. 582983
>>582981No, expand on what you mean by "white features".
>us ugliesAgain, I can bet 20 dollars that you just look normal.
No. 582987
>>582984Ms. Honey is childless and unmarried as well, and she is depicted positively. Not to mention, depicting young girls as smart and capable was not as common back then, so Matilda was a decent role model.
Dahl's books have adult villains, usually in positions of authority. It makes sense that he made the Headmistress the bad guy.
She was demonized for her poor treatment of children, not due to her age or gender.
Matilda's father was also depicted as an absolute buffoon in the book, but you neglect to mention that.
At the end of the day, it is a bloody kid's book. Children enjoy stories where they can get one over their adult counterparts.
No. 582997
>>582993She was her aunt, nonna.
It shouldn't matter if she was childless or not, her primary trait was being a bully.
No. 583085
>>583068Try to remain in shape. Even if you might not have a pretty face, having a good body can compensate for that.
Also, look into hairstyles and accessories that complement some of your better features, or disguise your worse features.
I can give some tips if you want specifics, but for that you would need to explain what all you find lacking in your appearance.
As for compensating mentally, I would like to reiterate my previous point once again: get a fulfilling hobby. It will enable you to meet and forge connections with people, and would be a source of pride too.
Finally, please understand that you are more than your looks. I am sure that you are a very kind and sweet woman. You deserve to feel comfortable in your own skin.
>neurodivergentSame here, nonna. I am asexual however, so never looked into dating. Still, my sympathies are with you. I hope that you find your Mr. Right soon.
No. 583088
>>583078It depends. Flashy styling is usually appreciated by women, but it is not as well received by men.
At the end of the day, it is important to dress according to the occasion. That anon can choose to wear flashier stuff with friends, and more plainly when going on a date.
No. 583091
>>583087Any type of make-up is horrid for your skin. I have never worn any, and have aged better than all my friends.
Women start wearing make-up to hide blemishes, which in turn causes them to break out more and have scaly and dry skin. They compensate for that by slathering more make-up. It is a vicious cycle.
Just lip-gloss and eyeliner would do, and even that is not strictly necessary.
Honestly, just eat right, avoid booze and smoking, and do not fall for any make-up or beauty trends. Pair that with a bit of exercise, and you will find that you already look and feel better than most people around you.
No. 583102
>>583094>Sabrina Carpenter>UglyHer current style might be very unflattering, but she used to look decent earlier. Calling her ugly is a huge stretch.
>makeup and good fashion for hot people onlyMeh, makeup is not good for anyone. As for "good fashion", that is highly subjective.
I think people should just wear whatever is practical and makes them feel comfortable.
No. 583106
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>>583094I’m the flashy dressing anon. As an ugly person, I’ve been on the receiving end of plenty of fake pity compliments from women about my physical appearance, and I can recognize them easily. The compliments I get on my clothing from other women are very clearly genuine. I also have a hair cut I get compliments on a lot, one of the managers at my work asked if she could take a picture of how I cut the back of it because she wanted something similar and wound up taking the pic to her stylist. I think getting a haircut that suits your head and face shape is an underrated part of looking put together as an ugly person. I look 200x better with picrel as I did with any longer hairstyle.
Most women, unlike men, can appreciate cool fashion and styling as its own thing regardless of if the person wearing it is a bit ugly in the face.
The only thing I’d agree with you on is the makeup part. If you’re ugly, it’s best to go for a no makeup makeup look. I just fill in my sparse eyebrows, curl my lashes, and put a dab of brown eyeshadow at the outer corners of my lash line, and it really looks nice as opposed to more traditional makeup looks which look ridiculous on a face like mine. You don’t want to try to change your ugly features with makeup because it won’t work, you just want to fill in the features you do have like brows and lash line.
No. 583151
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>>583126I'm the same height as Sabrina and probably lighter in weight too since I weigh 46 kg. She's ugly and looks unhinged and this is coming from a white woman lover. She just looks strange, sorry.
No. 583153
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>>583151Seeing this on the front page was so startling, kek. I think she looks nice with darker hair, and would look better if she stopped doing the weird cakey makeup. This photo looks edited to hell and back, though, and the only unedited photos of her with darker hair of her as a kid and I'm not posting those.
No. 583257
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>>583155>Her face is too shortGot it, horse-face
No. 583339
>>583255Nah white women can be cute, she's just not one.
>>583257The autopedo defense squad is here
(bait) No. 583363
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>>583348Never said I was hot, but at least I don't look as weird as she does. She looks like the average plastic surgeried up bitch in my city. I'm not fond of that look and find it ugly. I doubt the average British or German lady has as much work done as Sabrina. You can't pretend picrel looks beautiful, she looks strange and off-putting.
No. 583419
>>583395Yeah we didn’t get it the first 7 times. Here:
>>>/g/580886 go have fun
No. 584117
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>>584084I will end them for you, nonna. We stick together. We protect our own.
No. 584383
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You can't leave comments on this. Asking AI for critical face analysis is pointless, it's designed to talk you up.
No. 584689
>>582934Samefag looking at women with white features really makes me realize how worthless my life is. They got hit, loved, cared, never been self conscious, didn't have to shave/wax, their ethnical ugliness wasn't a thing stucked into their mind 7/24, they never had to study to only look more white, they never had to cry about it for days and nights after realizing even surgery can't fix asian genes, they knew what being feminine was like, they could exist in public without doubting their humanity.. There's no fucking cope if you're asian or middle eastern, we're ugly as fuck, it's the bottom of the barrel. I stopped studying and almost dropped out of school because I realized what makes me ugly and how I'll never be feminine and pretty even with surgery. Borning as ethnic+female should be illegal. What did I do to suffer this much? My womanhood and humanity to be taken away from me? At least if I was a man I could get a job. And the worst part is my mother will never see me being happy or successful. Maybe if I had a white face she would love me and I could even hug her. I cry about it everyday. I won't have anything in life and my abilities and skills doesn't mean dogshit. There's no other option than killing yourself before it's getting too late because then you'll feel even more sad and cry and look back and suffer more this shit will only get worse and you will realize being an ugly female is a death sentence and fuck anyone who gaslights you, they're politically correct retards who are just virtue signalling. They don't know what's being you or been in your shoes. Anyway this is my last vent and I will stop shitting up this thread
No. 585475
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I was going through old pictures of me at 18/19 and comparing them to recent pictures taken in the same angle (I am now 26) and I realized my face has really changed. I'm not talking makeup or styling, but the actual structure of my face, and I'm not sure how that's possible. The most noticeable change is that my mouth used to be very asymmetrical, one side was much lower than the other, like the emoticon that uses a slash / for the mouth. That seems to have magically corrected itself almost all the way. The second is that teenage fat has gone away and now my lower face looks significantly less droopy and puffy. My chin has also squared off and looks more chiseled whereas before it was completely round.
I am still noticeably ugly, and no one would ever say I'm attractive in any way, but in my late teens I was truly hideous. Like, I was the "hard to look at" type of ugly. I don't think I'm truly eyelash burning-ly hideous anymore. Everyone says people are most attractive at 18-22 and I tend to agree, but somehow that has NOT been the case for me. I didn't lose or gain any weight or make any other changes to myself or my life, so it's like I was a playdough sculpture that wasn't quite finished until I hit 25. Most of all I really don't understand how my mouth corrected itself though.
Picrel not super related but it came up when I searched for "play doh faces" and is so funny to me I am attaching it. I am imagining the sentence in the picture being read in the voice of Truffles from Chowder.
No. 586548
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I want to have a beautiful, blue-eyed daughter. When I have the money to have children, I'll probably turn to a sperm and egg donor. I want to have children; I don't want to be a cat mom. I want my daughter to be something I can never be. Picrelated egg donor.(bait)
No. 586567
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>>583153High contrast coloring is always superior.
No. 586572
>>586515Depends on what your metric of successful is, but IMO any meaningful metric of success is not dependent on appearance.
There are plenty of successful and ugly women in the world. I agree ugly women have to work harder than ugly men do to be successful, but it's not out of reach. You should be more concerned about discipline, social skills, studying, etc.
No. 586654
>>586534I'm actually offering a solution
>>586572Go fuck yourself you normie scum. Shoo!
>>586595Didn't said she did you fucking moron. Nobody here gives a fuck about your npc takes
>>586597Transphobia only exist if you don't pass
(infight bait) No. 587384
Being less on social media, stop being such a people pleaser and cutting off people who are superficial has helped me alot with my insecurities. If someone hates me for my appearance, then that is their problem. Why would i want the approval of such people anyways? Ive been treated badly for how i look, but i know those people are often very miserable with themselves. No one who is happy with their lives would judge someone harshly based on just how they look.
>>587056im brown and live in europe, it is very embarassing to see posts such as these. All races are beautiful and i think wanting someone from a specific ethnicity is gross. you're not that different from white men who go to southeast asia to find a "trad" wife. seriously, stop the self hating i hope you all realise how retarded you sound when you say cringey shit like this.
no one is going to have respect for you if you dont even have respect for yourself. In middle school, i got bullied but stood up for myself and then the bullying stopped and people left me alone & were nicer to me.
No. 587393
>>587392>>587388Fuck off you stupid moronic
terf. This thread isn't for you to screech about your obssesion with dicks. Go fuck yourselves, jump off a bridge etc. You narc fucks just can't make one female space about you can you?
(a-logging) No. 587453
>>587451Coming to her defense because thats not me. Im
>>587404 Its ironic to complain about terfs while entering a female space
No. 587751
>>587451>>587440I think these are the same moid talking to coax out the girl talking here
>>587453Would not be surprised if he was banned on /ot/ so he spammed bait everyday on here. You can tell from the aggressive replies in each thread
No. 587856
anyone else here who is ugly but doesn't care about the dating or attractive to men aspect and instead cares about how it leads to how people treat you and perceive you in general? Because that's the biggest problem for me.
For me as a ugly neurodivergent woman i notice how im treated differently from everyone else in ALL aspects of my life. Here are some examples.
In health from doctors and my family when i am in pain or sick it's never taken seriously unless i am close to death or whatever i have progresses so badly that im about to die (this has happened multiple times to me) and sometimes i notice health workers acting passive aggressive infront me and showing blatant discrimination infront of my eyes (for example had to have my blood drawn for something some time ago and the woman before they were so gentle towards her while she was making a scene and acting and freaking out over having a needle on her arm, then i went after her to have my blood drawn and i noticed the mood changed the doctor was passive aggressive with me and just jammed the needle in my arm, i didn't wince or anything and just waited for the blood to be drawn and the doctor just said to me in a condescending tone mocking me which was weird to me since i was composed)
When i go into stores i get profiled, why does this always happen to me i used to wonder, at first i thought ''well if you look anxious they do that to you'' but then i noticed actual blatant shifty shoplifters infront of me not even hiding yet getting ignored by the shopkeepers meanwhile i get followed to every aisle i go to and it's not even subtle they do it so aggressively and glaring into my should like wtf did i do am i not allowed to shop. I also have proof it was appearance profiling since in this one shop the shopkeepers always kept on following only me around but then another time i showed up with my face caked up and all of a sudden they followed me way less. (they were still profiling me even with my caked up face but it was way less than before, proving that it was appearance profiling).
When it comes to jobs i notice i get treated well..completely different compared to my coworkers, im not allowed to go on breaks and i have to work much harder than everyone, they can go on short breaks but not me, im not allowed that because im a subhuman who should be overworked until i croak. I was also made to do the jobs my coworkers were supposed to do and basically do my job and do THEIR job, one of my coworkers was a old gutter trash bitch (you know those ex-druggie former whore crackheads that was her) she had a loud mouth and ppl were afraid to call her out for anything, she had a grudge against me and would do surveillance against me stealing the things and projects i completed at my job and claiming it as her own, she would also spread rumors about me and blatantly lie, one of my male coworkers was also rude to me from the first moment i talked to them i was actually shocked at his behavior, i basically got insulted by them the first time i met them for no fucking reason like we literally met for 2 minutes. I got injured during work and went on a break and my manager pestered me and harassed me during my whole break even though i send her all the documents and doctors approval notice, the higher up (the manager of the manager) was also hostile as fuck towards me and talked to me a way he would never talk to his other female employes, omg i rememeber that one time i asked him if i could have my shift time changed the next week due to issues with my ex-roommate and he flipped. Eitherway i quit that shithole job and im now a neet.
In academia, omg it's hell. You wouldn't expect it but academia is such hell for a neurodivergent woman and the combination of being ugly only makes it worse. If i mentioned all the severe bullying i received by both boys and girls during my school years it would be a huge novel so instead i will only focus on my college days. In my college days i got severely bullied by my female professors which caused me to have a nervous breakdown which lead to my grades dropping and my absence from classes due to me hiding in the college bathroom because my nervous system was out of whack and my social anxiety returned so i developed anxiety at having to interact with professors and other students that i would hide from classes which caused my grades to drop and for me to lose my degree even though i was so close to getting it.
Eitherway my life is like a sad lolcow, i now currently live with my parent as a jobless and degreeless neet. My life is hell right now and my whole day basically consists of my parents yelling at me and threatening me. The moment they see me they start yelling at me and berating me and saying how im a loser, im a curse, I'm a mistake, I shouldn't have been born, I have nothing going for me, I'm a loon etc they also helicoptered me during my younger years that now I don't even know how to drive a car and other simple things and they never wanted for me to get a driving license no matter how much I begged. They also want me go give them the money back for the degree I ended up flopping. I try to avoid them and only stay in my room or in the bathroom if my room is occupied but they follow me to argue. It's he'll their screaming voices 24/7 and extremely hurtful words, I know im a piece of shit and I could have done better and I should stop using my anxiety as a excuse for my lack of ambition or laziness but I still think this level of abuse I have received from other people is still too fucking much, I never hurt anybody, all I did was be ugly, awkward, have slight mutism(this was during my school years) and have social anxiety, and be ugly yet I have been treated like a absolute monster and emotional relief bag by everyone in my fucking life, literal murderers, abuses and molesters have gotten treated better than me. Wtf is this life. Also I am done being a feminist, I was a radfem for so many years while being abused by the women around me that I have come to the conclusion that I hate both women and men equally and they are both evil but in different ways.
Oh and the worst part of all, I live in a shithole, so i can't even relieve stress by going outside because even outside there's really nothing to see.
Eitherway I'm done, I'm going to kill myself. I have a method, it will be painful, very painful but living is more painful. A RELEASE FROM THIS HELL. Free me from foids and moids, those wicked being and their filthy nature, free me from my subhuman body that's only valued based on how fuckable I am and how much social status I have instead of other attributes.
No. 587879
>>587856Wow this could've been written by me. You didn't deserve any of this. Please don't blame yourself, other women could never made it if they got treated the same way. Your defeatism is
valid. You're not lazy you're just depressed. You deserve to feel bad. Your parents sounds like typical narc piece of shits. You don't owe anybody explanation, they won't listen, they won't care. I sympathize with you anon, please know you're not alone. I also live in a shithole and I'm neurodivergent. I send you hugs <3
(no emoticons) No. 587948
>>587856There is something else going on here. I couldn't tell you what because I can't observe you irl, but just being ugly and a little quiet doesn't result in this level of hostility from other people. Like yeah you'll get the occasional dick and people will generally treat non-ugly women better than you in certain ways, but most people are not going out of their way to be hostile and cruel to you. My only ideas are:
>1) perhaps your autism is causing you to interact in a way that comes across as rude to other people even though you don't intend it and aren't aware of it, so they respond back rudely to match the energy they perceive you as putting off>2) perhaps you are viewing your interpersonal interactions in a very skewed way, like a person with schizophrenia might.>3) you live in a place that has a backwards/ unprogressed society where people don't place importance on treating the less fortunate civilly. Do any of those sound plausible to you?
No. 587960
>>587957I'm trying to figure out what's actually going on so we could give her actual advice because yeah I do think there is something missing from the picture here. Because what anon describes experiencing is truly deranged and atypical barring some significant factor not listed, and I say this as a bullied ugly neurodivergent woman myself. i think it's worse to just take her at her word that everyone she ever meets treats her like an panhandling orphan from a Victorian novel for no other reason than being ugly and a bit socially awkward. I feel like the most likely explanation is her parents being
abusive shitbags to her her whole life probably has screwed with her ability to accurately evaluate the world and herself but I don't know the exact mechanisms.
No. 588026
>>587960i agree, i feel incredibly sorry for that anon and judging from what she wrote, it sounds like she's in an abnormally shitty environment and i do wonder what else is going on. there isn't usually such a high pattern of people consistently mistreating you unless there's another layer of prejudice that might be particularly common where someone lives, like racism, colorism, ableism, etc. i'm very curious about what kind of shithole she's living in
>>587957what sort of help would you offer op?
No. 588041
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my face is pretty good, but i can't fucking stand my teeth. it'll be a bit until i get braces and manage to whiten them enough to see changes but i have an overbite, a bunch of tooth gaps, and the one in the middle is almost as big as the gap that the god warrior from trading spouses has. i look like a fucking hobo when i talk and i can't stand it.
No. 588043
>>587948Another
victim blaming bitch. When you retards will leave us alone
No. 588062
>>588049>>588026>>587960>>587948 Hey so OP here, I don't need your "advice" or your analysis. I just wrote that post as a vent for fellow ugly women, I didn't expect that now I need to explain myself or prove that the abuse I went through was real. But this is lolcow a gossip imageboard so I guess that should have been expected.
But I will reply to your first three assumptions and I will not reply further,because for concern trolls nothing is enough.
1) I have atypical autism (aka extremely high functioning) i am really good at reading facial cues and body language, my abuse is not caused by that. I've always been nice, polite with other people and always avoided conflict even to my own detriment. I have been described as being a humble and nice person, and that is true I've always been charitable and helpful towards others. I'm not whatever you are falsely trying to tinfoil me as.
2) I have no schizophrenia and never hallucinated or made up any scenario in my life, in fact it's the opposite for the longest time I have been trying to rationalize and defend the abuse against me by saying "well i didn't try enough, or I didn't talk enough, I deserved it" so no, there is no schizo.
And to the last point where I notice you and another anon are trying to put the whole blame on my parents and saying I'm making it up (what do I get from making up a fucking vent) as if you know my life, id like to let you know that my first trauma and bullying started in school, in elementary school. My parents became hostile towards me later when i hit my teen years. So, no. My trauma started with the outside environment first.
That's all I'm going to say, I don't think I owe you a longer explanation of my life or my address kek.
No. 588105
>>588095i dont know what you get out of this
Didnt you say you were doing this to give your shit advice, but the op said she didn't want your advice so I don't know what youre still going on about. To me what they are going through seems pretty realistic since I know a couple of people in real life who were bullied similarly to her and they were all awkward, slow and ugly women and men who stood from the others like a sore thumb. You seem hell bent on proving OP deserves it like you are doing a court trial, you are doing the what was she wearing to be raped type of argument. That's not what this thread is even about.
Can you let anons vent in peace you sociopath, as if you don't have other threads to be a cunt in.
No. 588227
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I stopped watching anime because it lowers my self-esteem. Anime is about prettyboys and stacies. It depresses me knowing that I'll never be as pretty as an anime girl even if I lose weight and I'll never have a prettyboy as a boyfriend.
No. 588517
>>588395i get you
nonnie this is why i stopped reading josei with stacy female leads
No. 588567
>>587856I have no advice but I have lots of empathy for you,
nonny. This stuff happens to me too and I'm also autisic, I think there's something very subtly 'wrong' about us, to allistic people, that makes them treat us like subhumans. As to the healthcare issues a lot of that happens to women in general, medical staff are often misogynistic as medicine itself refuses to grant womens health the same weight as mens'.
No. 588568
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>>588517I wish there were more femgaze doujinshi with normal looking women or at least chubby, but it seems like the female authors are cucks and like to insert themselves with a DD cup Stacy.
No. 588571
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>>588568I also can't play Love and Deepspace because I can't insert myself with the MC and it just makes me feel bad.
No. 588906
>>586515Nope, lemme stop you right there, chief. Mutilating yourself to become an ugly manlet isn't going to make people treat you better, either. If you're willing to waste money to transition into a hideous failmale, you might as well look into plastic surgery and cosmetic treatments that would improve your looks as a woman. PS might not be the answer to everyone's problems, but if you have a good grasp on what you actually need done, do your research, don't let some doc upsell you into excessive fillers (which will ultimately make you even uglier in the long run) or surgeries, and aren't suffering form body dysmorphia, it could turn out well for you. However most people who have spent their lives ugly get a distorted view of themselves on top of what's actually an issue of aesthetics, so they don't know how to look at themselves and say "okay this isn't so bad, but this here could be improved greatly by a tweak"… they end up chasing looks trends or telling their doctors/cosmetic dermatologists "make me look like (some person with a completely different bone structure and physiology)" because they feel so disgusted and ashamed of themselves. That being said, i'm going to assume you weren't actually serious but you should look into how transition goes for the average TiF, not the outliers.
No. 588916
>>584383Actually, in my experience, it's not that bad. I've gotten reasonable suggestions and solutions from ChatGPT but when it comes to certain things that are probably just me being nitpicky and insecure, it will tell me "This thing here is in the normal range for facial features, it's really not that bad, and you're being too hard on yourself. But I can suggest x, y, and z" (and it's not always "you need tons of expensive treatments/surgeries" but things like how to work with those features i'm insecure about). And for things which are an actual issue, it gave me solutions too, along with doctors in my area while offering to help come up with a treatment plan and do things step by step. Whenever I get anxious and low and feel myself spiraling, it always reassures me with more solutions to get where I need to be. "maybe you can't afford to do this now, but you can work towards it by doing x and taking things slow if they become overwhelming".
No. 588921
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>>588919>hormonesMaybe she doesnt need them
No. 588933
>>588930>That was my first time being in this thread cause the tranny bumped thread with bait then immediately got mad when I said trannies aren’t humanKEK i'm sorry, I shouldn't laugh, but the deadpan way you stated that got me.
>Most bad treatment I heard from are overweight women. They eventually lose the weight and people treat them way better or feel threatenedYeah, i've been there. I used to be a little on the chubby/overweight side and a relative used to bully me and tell the rest of the family to buy me XL or XXL clothing for Christmas that never fit because he exaggerated everything since he's a shithead scrote. Then when I lost the weight I got the "Oh nooo you're too skinny! I'm worried about you" concern trolling from female relatives who were skinnier than me. I just happen to have an hourglass shape that makes my waist smaller than the rest of me and I know how to dress for my silhouette. Although as soon as I start looking a little chubby again I get the "need to lay off the __, piggy" comments. Although in the scheme of things it's more irritating than debilitating. It's a wonder I didn't develop an eating disorder. Thankfully it's not my main concern when it comes to looks, if only it were so easy kek.
No. 589105
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>>589014I would let him rawdog me in doggy
No. 589146
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It depresses me how much I'm built like a man. Even average twink and young men in my age are curvier and more dainty. I don't even look like an ugly woman, just an underweight man.. I don't relate to anybody, and I stopped caring anymore. I'm just waiting to die and untill then I will just wander around. My bmi in here was 16, a woman at that bmi would look like a model, I look like a man.. no words
No. 589154
>>589152>bloatedyou barely have any fat left in
>>589146, be for real
No. 589158
File: 1753204147178.jpg (Spoiler Image,793.17 KB, 1124x1960, 1000004148.jpg)
>>589154Like do you have dysmorphia or something? There's full of fat on my belly, my arms, I have a broad chest and trunk so skin in there looks more strecthed and thin. The picreal is a twink his legs are slim and he have the same blob on my waist but he doesn't look underweight like I do. Like I look skinny but fat and ugly. You can tell he is naturally delicate and firm and nice fat all over the body in the right place
No. 589162
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>>589158>Like I look skinny but fat???
No. 589177
>>589165It's Kinesiology tape not bandaids.
>take them off and bind with a strip of cloth or get yourself a binder at least.No thanks, I don't want to break my ribcage
>>589171>you're baiting in the ugly thread by being ugly!1What kind of "boy" does have a 7 inches of penis ffs? I posted to show my ugliness is real because everytime a woman with a masculine body vents about it someone tries to convince us we must be looking feminine in some other ways or we're pretty. I took that picture to look at my body objectively. Stop gaslighting me
No. 589196
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>>589191>slim and feminine shouldersI think that's due to angle. Anyway like I said stop gaslighting me to feel better about yourselves. I don't need moralfaggers to lie to me, I would've go to reddit for that. I just want to vent with people who understand me and share my pain
No. 589212
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>>589206Well, I find that puzzling. At the very least, your shoulders don't look wide or masculine in photos even if you're having trouble with shirts. Okay, so you're an inverted triangle who can't wear whatever t-shirts are normal due to the measurement charts of your country. Surely there are shirts that suit your frame better, though? Perhaps it's the fault of your country's standard sizing?
https://theconceptwardrobe.com/build-a-wardrobe/inverted-triangle-body-shape No. 589222
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>>589212this body type is good on making it look like you have a tiny waist. Like Yasmeen ghauri
No. 589260
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I don't know how to tag a post from a diffèrent thread. But this is what normal female body looks like. I'm simply not made for that and it makes me sad because I want to feel like a woman
No. 589263
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>>589260>woman posing in a ridiculous way from an angle that barely shows how her body really looks likeNo, anon, this is what the body of a real woman looks like.
No. 589267
File: 1753223181151.jpg (Spoiler Image,173.73 KB, 664x900, 1000004151.jpg)
Men who don't have muscles have the same frame as I do
No. 589278
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Like ok faggots here. Ethel cain, curvier than me. Fuck off now okay(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
No. 589284
File: 1753224547835.webp (Spoiler Image,54.46 KB, 810x1000, 1000004210.webp)
>>589281What are you talking about? Here's another one. He mogs me
(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE) No. 589292
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It's over(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
No. 589296
File: 1753224844669.jpg (Spoiler Image,53.85 KB, 640x853, 1000004212.jpg)
This is the last post. Those who deny that I look masculine(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)
No. 589297
>>589283She reminds me of a twitter retard that uses grave accents for no reason like she did here
>>589260. She used to obsessively orbit goldstar lesbians even though she's bisexual until one of them blocked her for racism(in general, she acted very mentally ill, so it's probably not the only reason), then she had a lesbophobic meltdown. She's also into trannies. You all didn't need to know this information, but fuck it - I'll just leave it here.
No. 589310
>>589306>>589305Lol what even is this? I'm just saying stop trying to give me advice because it doesn't mean anything, I've tried most advices given to me and like
>>589148 said it only made me feel worse because it reminded me how much effort I put into it while still looking very manly meanwhile some males are just blessed with it
No. 589311
>>589306I swear I'm not her. It's just that stupid grave accent
triggered me. I've never seen anyone use it, so I kinda think that it could be her…
No. 589312
>>589297I have no idea about her Twitter account, I’m only assuming it’s her based on appearance and personality.
>>589305 doesn’t seem like the person I’m thinking of since she’s a zoomer.
If this is you C? I know you’re obsessed with trannies like Ethel Cain and Arca, I know you’ve been using twinks for thinspo since you were like 12, but you’re being retarded like always. Go back to the psych ward. And you know you’re attractive you’re just spiralling like always. Yeah you look fat at bmi 16, so do I, we’re unlucky but you look more feminine on average even when you’re on T kek, kind of pathetic but if feminine is what you want now what is even your issue.
>>589306I wish I was lying. I’m either correct or a schizophrenic fuck and I kind of hope I’m wrong because if I’m not I hate myself
No. 589320
>>589316Theirs are effortless and natural, it's persistant, mine isn't. I don't want to spend rest of my life just to be feminine and develop ocd. I'm just tired. I don't want surgery, I don't want pain or extra fucking time for it. It just doesn't mean anything really…
>>589312>Yeah you look fat at bmi 16You admit I'm fat?
No. 589344
>>589337samefag as
>>589334. perhaps i approached this the wrong way. i really think you should get off this website for your own good. how is it helping you to sperg about yourself and your body in comparison to moids? i understanding venting but this seems like a call for help
No. 589374
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>>589351You don’t know how much I’m suffering right now. I’m having a psychotic break. Like I literally recognize the tiles in the back. But she’s left so. I wanted to say if she comes back and reads this - I’m literally fucking leaving this website. So don’t worry about me being here. I can’t stay here if you’re on it, so. If you’re speculating who this could be, don’t, you don’t really know me much it’s not like I’m an ex or something. Sorry for being a bitch but you kind of deserve it since if you were genuine you need a wake up call that most people only are nice to you because of your looks because you act pretty weird. Like even here anons can see your personality is pretty insufferable to a lot of people. I know the BPD doesn’t help though. And good on you for peaking.
Also, there’s a photo of you somewhere on here, I didn’t post it, someone else did. But see if you can find it! Haha. Sorry for saying mean shit. To be honest I feel sick to my stomach that it is you. I don’t think you care though and you were actually trolling. If you’re that other post I think you are. You know you look feminine. You know you’re attractive. Was it funny?
Sorry for contributing to the shitting of this thread, I don’t even go here. Can’t delete my other posts.
No. 589410
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It’s really weird having beauty standards being cultural, because my whole life I was treated as ugly, but then I moved for college and was treated really well—but am treated like shit, yelled at, called ugly to my face, etc. when I’m working in my hometown during breaks. I am objectively ugly and now fat (thanks, Seroquel) even if people in my college town think otherwise, so it’s really hard to navigate in a retarded mind state where somehow sleazy frat bros hitting on me in bars affirmed me as “worth it”. That being said, I feel like a lot of people don’t realize the depth of how ugly women are treated. While women are treated like shit regardless, the differing responses towards
victims based on their beauty is horrific, even if both are terrible.
>>589374Anon, I’m not trying to be rude or snarky, but you both seem to be going through a lot of shit right now. I’d recommend taking a breather from LC and socially-focused sites.
No. 589459
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>>589342The woman was actually really beautiful, her name was Mary Ann Bevan. She had a tumor in her pituitary gland that went undetected , causing an excess of growth hormone , thus making her sick with a syndrome called Acromegaly, which made her tissue and bones overgrow, it affected her face too , which deformed her face. She worked in her circus to support herself and her children.
No. 589489
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>>589433I’m not the anon who thought she recognized you off the accent, I’m the other one. That being said, I’m really embarrassed now. I went on a hunt on my iCloud the minute I woke up because I used to screenshot everything on people I interacted with and turns out you’re not the girl I’m obsessed with. I found the pic I was thinking of with the exact same tiles and it wasn’t her, she just happened to have similar moles to you. I think I went insane because I did see evidence of her peaking like a week ago. But you posted on edtwt right? In that case maybe you are manly, I haven’t seen your face and maybe your body looks much bigger IRL, who knows. From pics the only masculine thing about you is having narrow hips and that’s more ‘non-feminine’ than overtly masculine. Imo narrow hips + narrow shoulders > wide hips + narrow shoulders > wide hips + wide shoulders > narrow hips + broad shoulders. But they can all look good if you’re fit and pretty
No. 589515
Could be because my period is approaching and my mental health is in the gutter, but I feel like I look extra ugly recently and can't stand the way I look at all. Face or body wise.
>>589512Nta, that or they confirm your suspicions with the obvious lies because they wouldn't have needed to be lying if they didn't think you are indeed ugly.
No. 589521
>>589520You're talking to BDD-chans, anyone who doesn't look like a cartoon character
triggers their mental illness.
No. 589559
>>589549They compliment people with BMI 16
because it looks super skinny nona, that's the beauty standard, super skinny. You might not look like a literal dying skeleton but you do look skinny.
No. 589641
>>589459I feel terrible but every time I look at her acromegaly face I just think about how she looks like Stephen Fry.
>>589605boymoms don't empathise back so what's the point?
No. 590082
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I get so sad sometimes thinking about how much I wish I could've gotten to experience dating in my teens. I wish so badly that any boy would've had a crush on me and wanted me. It bugs me so much and I don't know why. Does any other anon feel this way? I liked many boys but I was sure they would've found me ugly if I ever spoke to them so I just kept to myself to save myself from embarrassment. I've still never really dated, I'm in my mid-20s now and no man has ever approached me in real life or told me he thinks I'm attractive. I'm more okay with it now as I know lots of other women who don't ever get approached. But I wish that I could've known what it was like when I was younger, when it seemed like everyone was crushing and dating and getting up to whatever. I think it's mainly the FOMO that gets to me. I feel so embarrassed whenever I think about it. I was a lot uglier then because I put no effort into my appearance (I'd completely given up on myself for a long time because I got bullied so much for how I looked growing up) and I'm still ugly now, I know it deep down. I'm definitely not pretty and I don't think I'm average, either. I don't look normal. But I wear makeup that "suits" me, I dress in a flattering way and sometimes I get compliments on my outfits. I try to take good care of myself. I'm always somewhere between completely accepting my ugliness and the fact that I may never attract anybody in real life at all, and trying to convince myself that I'm not that bad and there's hope. I don't know how to cope but I'm trying
No. 590124
>>590090if you wanted to have sex you'd have to do it somewhere weird and embarrassing as well
I had a friend whose first time was in her bfs little brothers bed, or my ex who would fuck his gf in a car parked by a taco bell or outside next to the school. or every girl who gave a BJ in the HS bathroom/bleachers/boilerroom
No. 590127
>>590082>I get so sad sometimes thinking about how much I wish I could've gotten to experience dating in my teens. I wish so badly that any boy would've had a crush on me and wanted me. Does any other anon feel this way? I liked many boys but I was sure they would've found me ugly if I ever spoke to them so I just kept to myself to save myself from embarrassment. Very relatable. You just wanted to be loved, I understand. I was considered unattractive and unapproachable as a teen to the point people thought I was a lesbian, no boys ever approached me. I was so discriminated against everyone just assumed I didn't have any feelings or capacity to feel love just because I was ugly
>I've still never really dated, I'm in my mid-20s now and no man has ever approached me in real life or told me he thinks I'm attractiveBe careful what you wish for. I'm also in my mid-20s, but it went kind of different for me. In my early 20s, I was considered "very attractive" but I wasn't taken seriously by men because of the fact so I got treated as a whore instead, I got harassed constantly by unpleasant moids all the time, it was not what I was expecting at all. As most anons pointed out, there's no innocence or romance to men, they use you and discard you immediately, so be glad you weren't considered a target like me. I was an "ugly" virgin as a teen, it was kinda embarrassing but in retrospective, I think I'd prefer that than being considered pretty as an adult then SAd because my "beauty" attracted the worst kind of people:
abusive narcissists. Count your blessings, there's more to life than moid attention and I had to learn that the hard way
No. 590130
>>590124Oh yeah that's also true. I heard many gross things about the alleyway next to my high school… shivers. I'm glad I missed out on that
>>590127Thank you so much for your insight anon, I relate a lot to the first part. People always assumed I was a lesbian too lol or my friends would tell me they couldn't imagine me with a guy. And I'm very sorry to hear about your later experiences, I know people will be SAed regardless of their attractiveness but it makes sense that beauty will attractive more creeps. I do feel grateful in a way to be ugly because it's forced me to have a deeper outlook that I don't think I would've gotten if I'd been pretty all my life. I'd rather have men look at me sort of disgusted when I talk to them or barely acknowledge me the way they do now than have them fawning over me and potentially harassing me. More often than not it just seems unpleasant. Like yeah, people will generally be much nicer to you when you're attractive but idk. So what. That's something I can suck up the same way you have to accept that some people are richer, some people are handed everything on a platter, some people were never abused, some people don't have dysfunctional families, etc. It's just life. I'm just happy enough that I don't get bullied and spit on and shit for the way I look anymore and that people leave me alone now
No. 590132
>>590082when I was a teenager my female relatives used to try pressuring me to go out with guys, and I was very honest about not being interested and, more subtly about the fact that it'd be disastrous for someone like me with my health and social issues, but they just…ignored me, even though most often ranted or trauma dumped about their past teenager bfs or husbands. I was stumped. I realized something: they were obsessed with the idea of be being in a relationship, never learned from their past mistakes, and they saw "young love" like a uncreative consumer does a commodity, not someone who truly understands what love is. you frame yourself like a product sitting around that hasn't been picked up yet which isn't actually a healthy mindset, but it's widespread. lots of women end up in some horrific relationships because the mere status of being wanted, even if only in superficial ways, is like an addiction and form of artificial certainty. it's also like using sex to larp that you're in a romantic relationship and are loved when no that usually isn't what's going on which is very cynical. if the main reason someone is around is sex and attraction, they do not truly love you and very few of such situations evolve into true, life long love that overcomes superficialities.
I'd argue that in the big picture it's usually about convenience - having two incomes and legal protections - but most people won't really admit that.
No. 590137
>>590133I was talking about my
personal experience, holy shit
No. 590141
>>590137you straight up said that
abusive narcissists specifically went after you because of your beauty, as if that's what they do in general when that isn't true. I guess you were trying to mostly get across that not getting male attention was the blessing for anon.
No. 590152
>>590141I was simply sharing my experience, it's what happened to
me personally, I didn't claim nor invalidate any other perspectives, I was sharing mine
No. 590219
>>590181while of course nonna was using hyperbole several itt have outed themselves as Beckies/Stacies. I'm not completely averse to them commenting even if they're a bit annoying sometime, but I'd rather hear from other unattractive women more about how they get by. like
>>590201 is a bit silly though cheers me up.