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No. 209728
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>>209722>>209722Some fun optional questions
>When did you become husbando-only and why?>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolEtc, have fun
(sorry for posting this twice, I found a better pic)
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>>209722I personally wish I was like the based anons here who decided to be husbando-only. I'm not really into anime characters as a whole but I appreciate anyone with this lifestyle
No. 209737
>>209731I wonder if it's actually a lifestyle for someone here.
I just do things like look at fanart of my husbandos sometimes and shitpost about them here.
No. 209754
>>209728>When did you become husbando-only and why?When I was six years old. Yes really. It wasn't really a conscious decision, I just never had non-platonic feelings for real people.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?Yes.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?Not much, only because I don't have the privacy or space for it, and my current husbando doesn't have that much merch out to begin with. Plus sometimes I get into series a few years after the hype died down and by that point most of the good stuff is gone. If it weren't for those issues I'd definitely fill my room with merch.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?Never had an interest from the start
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?I just daydream different scenarios involving him (within in his world, mine sucks), I'll make a full on donut steel oc and imagine being in his city, living in an apartment or house with him, or going to the same school as him, or fighting crime with him (considering what his main goal is), and the different things that can occur in those situations, or type bullet note ideas.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolYes sometimes I'll get things that match his color scheme or something that has a print/design related to his interest.
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>>209722I love him so much but I don't have enough dedication or autism to like, devote myself to him. Still I wish I did.
No. 209772
>>209754I'm in a similar camp where I realized I was attracted much more strongly to fictional characters. I don't have a diagnosis of autism or anything, but I feel like a few wires got fucked in my head. I'm relatively normal in my day to day life outside of it. Good student, physically healthy, fairly social. Talking about being a yumejoshi on here made me accept it a bit more, I guess. Friends don't know how deep it goes, but they really don't need to. Family assumed I'd be a cat lady anyways.
>>209728My shrine is mostly just saved images. I actually have spendable income now, so when shipping from Japan calms down a bit I'll go nuts.
No. 209774
>>209722I have an issue lately where my husbando has taken over as my inner critical voice. Instead of thinking "oh god, why did I do that you fucking idiot" it's him, saying "oh my god, why did you do that you fucking idiot." It actually makes me blush and feeling super nervous and kind of turned on but mostly just ashamed. And it's unfortunately canonical enough that
if he were real he would think I'm retarded but why can't I just imagine him being nice to me. Inb4 mentol illness, I know girl.
No. 209779
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>When did you become husbando-only and why?A long time ago kek, like 5 years ago, I was 21 and thought “you know what? Dating is tiresome and I got extremely high expectations that only my husbandos can fulfill, fuck this shit”
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?Basically, I don’t really have the money to buy the stuff I want and I’m sure my family would be beyond mortified if they saw a body pillow in my room, but soon.
My friends know that I’m a huge husbandofag though, one of them is kind if annoyed and the other one doesn’t mind.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?Soon, once I get a job, I will save enough money to buy everything, I want an ita bag to go to the gym, a body pillow and maybe some miscellaneous merch that can be useful like some custom made notebooks or phone cases.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?Depends, if the guy can ever reach the level of perfection of my husbandos, but It’s difficult because real men are quite boring tbh, like, they never talk about interesting stuff, they never have any hopes, dreams nor aspirations, they never have a decent hygiene and they think that having a girlfriend is just having a maid that they can fuck.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?I think of them all of the time, when I wake up, I think of cuddling one of my husbandos, i like to think of the husbando of the day, mostly spending some time with me, hugging me and cheering me up whenever I’m too lazy or sad to do something.
My favorite part if going to sleep and thinking of my husbandos fighting for the privilege to cuddle with me.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolI try to do so! I actually pick my clothes thinking about what my husbandos would think about it.
Like, when I was buying some clothes to start working, I couldn’t stop thinking about how nice would it be like to go to work with my husbandos and living a cute and romantic story, so I was buying cute and colorful things that were comfortable.
And when I buy underwear or pajamas, I always think about what would my husbandos think when they see me going to bed.
Also! While buying workout clothes, I like to think that my husbandos would drool while looking at me working out, even if my clothes aren’t exactly sexy or revealing.
I’m still trying to find a nice dildo, I will have to buy it when I have my own apartment, maybe I might buy a few and I might even get some custom made ones so they fit the idea I got of my husbandos.
And specially because I got a robotic husbando so I kind of need a light up dildo, I actually saw one once, it didn’t fit his color scheme but it was cute and had lights so it wasn’t that bad.
You could say that I’m obsessed, and yeah, I’m autistic, diagnosed and everything, I’ve had husbandos since I was 7 years old, and tbh, the idea of having a boyfriend made me feel uncomfortable because it felt like cheating kek.
>>209740I like your idea,
nonnie!
I think the only husbando I’ve had so far that ages up is Link, I grew up loving him, so to some extent I did like to imagine young link as my bf when I was a kid, it was sweet, basically puppy love. It’s kind of cute and cringy to remember those times, he really made my life less miserable, and I truly appreciate it.
I kind of wish there were more characters that grow up in their series, that would be so sweet.
No. 209805
>>209779>My favorite part if going to sleep and thinking of my husbandos fighting for the privilege to cuddle with me.kek
Well it sounds like you're having alot of fun with it, I kind of want to do outfits based on my fave characters now.
No. 209808
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he was never my husbando but I always wanted similar clothes to his weird high neck shirt so I could pretend to be him.
No. 209837
I want to keep my husbando a secret to avoid people possibly recognising me, because he's from an obscure series.
I think having a husbando/waifu that's part of a game that never really 'ends', that you can play everyday, I think that helps.
Everyday I spend time with my husbando, and everyday it makes me happy.
He doesn't have much merch so building a shrine for him is hard. I've thought about getting into 3D modelling and then 3D printing just to print out a figure for him since he has none.
>>209728>When did you become husbando-only and why?I honestly don't remember, but I have known my husbando for many years.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?I don't keep it a secret but also don't talk about it other than to online friends. It's not something I consciously hide. I don't care if others think it's weird, I am unashamed of my husbando.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?Pretty much the only merch he has are key rings and badges.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?If I could meet a real man as gentle, sweet, loyal, caring, dedicated etc as my husbando, I'd feel as though I found a unicorn. I don't think real men like him exist and if they do they're either rare or homosexual.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like?I think and daydream of him everyday and play his game everyday.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Things that are the color of his hair.
No. 209877
>>209728>When did you become husbando-only and why?I'm not really, but since I have like zero interest from men I'd actually date IRL, this is my joy and a way to have sexual thoughts.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?Obviously, I'd be considered insane if I told anyone I think of 2D men during the day.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?No, because I live with my parents, but when I move out I'm considering buying a bodypillow. I like watching fan art and shrines by other yumejos though.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?Not impossible. I've been in love with 2D men ever since Inuyasha first aired in my country, but I did date real men for 2-3 years, then went back to the fantasy.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?I usually wake up pretty horny so if I have time I'll usually think of some erotic situation with one of my husbandos (whoever I like most at the time), or sometimes I think of non-erotic scenarios in bed at night to stop my mind from racing over everyday issues. I'm also a weird autistic woman who listens to music and rocks back-and-forth (in secret) and I often make up stories that match that music, like really energetic/high tempo music for possible action scenes, sad music for sad scenes. I thought it's something that would go away, but I still do this sometimes well into my twenties.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolNot really, can't relate
No. 209883
>>209880I used to create my own
i actually husbando’d two characters that one of my friends made because her characters are adorable It’s kind if nice because you can modify him to your heart’s content without having to worry about some retard headcanoning him as an asexual deformed baby uwu.
It’s kind of annoying if you’re not really into arts or if you don’t have enough money to commission stuff of him, because then you will only have your imagination and nothing else.
I haven’t used AI/chatbot yet though, sounds like fun!
No. 209887
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>>209883Do any husbandofags here actually have any experience in learning an art medium to make their husbandos? I didn't make him, but mine is from a kind of small fandom and there isn't a lot of fanart, so I'd like to try making my own.
>>209885Absolutely based anon
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>>209885
Sigh you're making me fall in love with jesus too
I also want to see other anons post cool husbando bedrooms/shrines/ita bags that they like. So please everyone feel free to post. I like how this person framed her posters, feels clean and not that cluttered.
No. 209891
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>>209888samefag I dig this one. On a budget too!
No. 209892
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>>209885Reminder that in the Catholic Church marrying Christ is a thing:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consecrated_virgin#Rite_of_consecration No. 210035
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>>209728>When did you become husbando-only and why?Is hard to tell, but I would say that when I was really young. All my classmates were developing crushes on my other male classmates, while I was staying on my little corner daydreaming about 2D men. Mostly because I didn't particulary like being around any of the people I had to study.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?Yes, only a couple of friends on Discord know.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?Sadly, I'm a poorfag but I'm saving money for some cute figurines and fan-merch on Etsy because currently there's not a lot of official merch of my husbando. The dev team announced a new game, so hopely they release more nice stuff for him.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?Maybe? I highly doubt it because 3D men today are too pornsick and uninteresting too me. If I were able to find a guy who could somewhat resemble my husbando, then I might give it a try.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?Pretty artistic and fandom driven, I love to find content of him and sometimes create my own.
I mostly just avoid the themlets and powerfantasy males and I'm good, kek. He makes me want to better myself up, working out more, working harder on my studies, stuff like that. I'm not particulary pretty, but I'm trying ♥.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolI love suits because of him, I mostly wear suits with ties when I want to look nice because the look and the smell makes me think on him. People say I look kind of masculine but I feel good that way.
>>209887The fandom of the game where my husbando is from is a large one, but his content is pretty limited, so I try to create content too, mostly writing and art, is pretty nice tbh.
No. 210144
>>210143It's not really a big problem though unless you do it in unrelated threads
like ko-chan?
t. has sperged about my husbando in multiple threads
No. 210148
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>>210132I'll bite, here's my husbando. I don't mind sharing since I know I share him with other anons and he's really popular. I don't know if I totally qualify for this thread because I do have a 3DPD, but he has a lot in common with my husbando so I just project their personalities onto each other and neither seem to notice or care, kek. If anything happens with my 3D relationship I plan to devote myself 100% to my husbando Link. But I'm not fully convinced that my 3D man isn't Link incarnate.
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HIM. HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO I COULD HAD DIED FOR IN HIGHSCHOOL. I used to celebrate his birthday every year (september 2nd!!!!) with a small cake and some creampuffs. I would still die for him. I bought some white and blue stripped paper to decorate my notebooks and printed cute fanarts of him to go along with it. He was the reason I obsessively wanted a blue and white stripped shirt but also I would keep trying to find other people wearing them on the street. I was just obsessed.
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>>210143This. I know for a fact that at least one other anon on here likes him too, but awhile back I was sperging a little too hard and someone guessed it was him when I didn't even mention his name or describe him in detail in one post. It takes someone with dangerous levels of autism like cuckmaeda to sperg about their husbando shamelessly on an anonymous board.
I wish I was friends with another otometard so we can sperg about our husbandos together.
No. 210170
>>210166but you know that there's like 400+ people that like the same husbando as you right? who would know it's you?
>>210169just ask him bluntly. Thats what I would do
No. 210176
>>210175Good idea
nonny, thank you that sounds much more sane. I'll give it a shot!
No. 210180
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>>210132Well, you got me. To be honest, I'm kind of shy while posting about my husbando because I'm scared of sticking out too much, but I always love the passion that many anons here have for their husbandos and waifus, so I'll try to open up, I'm
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>>210189I though the same thing, but they announced Danganronpa S for the 10 year anniversary. Apparently is some summer camp thing with all the characters. I don't know what they are going to do with Kamukura
because it seems like they are going to make him a different character dettached from Hajime but I'm happy that there's going to be more of him on a new game + more interactions with other characters,
I want him to have more time with Kaede.
Also, there's going to be nice new fanart while I wait for the game. ♥
>>210198I guess that while you keep it on the right threads and don't over use it on non-related posts everything would be okay.
No. 210209
>>210198If you post a picture of say sonic like 1000 times across 10 threads then it's avatarfagging
But gushing about your husbando 1 or 2 times on a thread about gushing about your husbando then it's totally fine imo
No. 210215
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I wonder if Ryuk-chan is here. She's an inspiration to us all.
No. 210216
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>>210215I want what they have.
No. 210235
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I like this thread, reminds me when my Fujo sister showed me her Husbando, sperged out how much she loves him and showed me a BL Doujin with him for the first time.
One of her favorite pairings were Bakura x Marik
No. 210251
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I updated my autism, I’m the
>>209779Delulu-chan, I had to fix some stuff in my chart because when I don’t consoom as much media as usual of a husbando, I stop having dreams about them and kind of forget about them, unless it’s a husbando that just somehow managed to make me deeply fall in love with him, or her if it’s my waifu.
I have one (1) waifu, adult Mami Tomoe, she’s beautiful and stylish, I like to think that we would be the same age nowadays.
No. 210317
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>>210295I like this one, shit character but great set up, I read the post of the person who took the photo and it seems like it was some birthday event for the anime guy at a café.
But still, it’s cute, not cluttered and almost looks like something you would see in a living room as a decoration if it wasn’t for the fact that it’s an anime guy.
No. 210318
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>>210317Samefag, this one is… unsettling.
No. 210319
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>>210318Samefag, this is another example of a shit character but with a good shrine.
I think it’s better to do it as simple as possible without the autistic hoard of the same item 300 times.
And I would avoid big items too, unless you really, really like that big item.
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>>210317Love it, but yeah shit charecter. Same with this one kek
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>>209728>When did you become husbando-only and why?It was by accident really. My last boyfriend cheated on me and then tried to blame me for it (too bad for him, he has an STD now lol) which has really put me off 3DPD men entirely since millions of them are like that now. Then after a family member got sick with cancer, I became her carer (she's in remission now) and I realized I was happier just being quietly devoted to my husbando.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?Yeah. I think my Discord friends suspect but they're not the judgey types. Otherwise I don't share since there's no point in doing so.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?I have a body pillow that I bought as a gimmick a few years ago but he's held up very well and I've kept him on my bed for years. I've since bought lots of merch. I haven't set up a shrine to him yet with all that stuff but maybe I should. I don't like ita bags though, they're all so ugly and nonfunctional and they show off the kind of merch I don't like.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?I am open to the idea but 3DPD are mostly worthless cheaters who are endlessly plotting mass shootings or blame non-whites for all their problems. There are a few diamonds in the rough here and there but I'm not willing to search for them. The future is open but I'm not expecting anything.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?I write plenty of fanfic about him and I talk about his franchise with my friends online. Luckily they like him and his game so we have a lovely time with it. Just imagine getting to chat with your ladyfriends about your husbando all the time…it's wonderful.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolHave never done so but now I'm considering. Ihere's lots of fanart of him wearing waistcoats and butler outfits and I'm trying to lose fat and gain muscle. It would be fun to get a waistcoat so I could dress up like him a bit. I once considered getting a pair of vanity glasses frames that were merch of his game but I decided it wasn't worth it since it would be a lot of work to get my glasses rx into them.
No. 210471
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I am absolutely in love with Mikasa Ackerman.
Yes I know how SnK ended. No I don't care.
I love Mikasa no matter what.
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>>210512I also want to know.
Bodypillow/dildo combination?
No. 210562
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I love him so much. I'm not dating right now but I'm not against dating actual people again the future. In the meanwhile: Swordboys.
If I was rich I would travel to Japan and see the actual Aoe sword, and maybe catch a stageplay.
I'll just have to do with setting Nikkari as my aide in the game.
Wish I could just do shit like pet his weird green hair and hang out casually. Feels bad knowing I will never be able to.
No. 210574
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>>210567Aw thanks.
I bet he would be up for cuddling a lot, he gets cold easily and I volunteer to help out with that.
No. 210626
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How do you guys deal with having a lot of husbandos? I honestly feel bad having so many and shifting around so much because I feel like having just one to commit to is easier and more fulfilling. Maybe? I do like having a harem per se though hehe. Should I just embrace it? I fall in love so easily anyways. How do you guys find balance?
No. 210674
>>210628That makes sense, i currently have two from the same series so I sometimes feel conflicted.
>>210644I’m aware. I think I’m just jealous of those that can dedicate everything to one husbando it just seems orderly and neat
No. 210691
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>When did you become husbando-only and why?
I think the moment I had a crush on Kakashi from Naruto! I was in grade school and made a self insert OC for him to have kids with lol. But around 12 i realized that real men have no effect on me.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
Luckily my best friend is also a husbando-only person. So only she knows and a couple of other friends who follow me on my private social media accounts.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
GOD I'd love to own the asmus Vergil statue but it's like a 216 USD figure. Hopefully, when I graduate and get a job, that's the first thing I'll splurge on with my paycheck. Overseas hipping is also expensive so I plan on making my own dakimura of him lol
I'm moving into another apartment as well and I plan on making a small shrine for Vergil hehe
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
Dated a guy for 2 years and no. It's too messy and looking for any dating partners is a hassle. Also, because of my warped perception of romance, I expected too much and got tired of it
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?
Everyday I read the same reader insert fanfics of him when I'm about to sleep. Sometimes Im also stuck in my stupif fantasies where we're fucking or just going on a date.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lol
The last part lol. Bought a dildo just to pretend its him. So far, thats the most I've done lmao.
Pic related. Literal love of my life ever since I watched my older cousins play dmc3
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>>210691SSS godtier husbando
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>>210696i never found any of the DMC guys hot til dmc5. holy shit. miss me with the warped anime faces, bring me these sexy beautiful men.
No. 213440
>>213426It would be sadder and actually pathetic if you were this invested on shitty and mediocre 3DPG, or in a unfulfilling relationship with some
abusive scrote, that's truly lame. If this works for you and makes you feel better then is totally fine in my book.
No. 213473
>>213418The fact that youre pressing her for details… thanks for the laugh
nonnie kek
No. 213476
>>213445True
>>213467No such thing as a femcel
No. 213483
>>213467Why would she be a femcel? I don't see her whining about dick other women are stealing from her. Instead
nonnie is based and doesn't need irl men
No. 213493
>>213467hey retard, femcel is a women unable to get dick/pussy, most women itt
willingly avoid men in favor of their husbandos, if anything they would be volcels, get your shit right.
No. 213543
>>213513waaa how dare real life human beings not be perfect!!!
>>213493cope
(bait) No. 213554
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>>213552>women who don't want to settle for gaslighters, abusers, and coomers are "just as bad" as incels who want to rape and kill womenBitch please. Go back to venting about your ugly ass boyfriend in the relationships thread.
No. 213570
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I'm glad I found this thread. I needed a place to sperg because my love for this man knows no bounds and no one else understands. I've posted him in other threads trying to quench the urge to go apeshitt, to talk about him at all…. but it's just never enough!
>When did you become husbando-only and why?
In my teens. I'd always been into characters more than actual guys as a byproduct of having to get good at escapism at an early age. Honestly wouldn't be surprised if I'm actually autistic tho kek. No shame either way tbqh.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
No. I take every chance I get to talk about my husbando and I do so without shame. It took a long time to unlearn my people pleasing behaviors but I'm happier for it.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
He doesn't have much official merch but I own a couple figurines and assorted custom goods.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
Funnily enough, I'm in the best possible relationship scenario for this lifestyle. He actively caters to my needs by gifting me things related to my husbando and has even gone so far as to suggest we try things in bed that involve cosplay or imagery of some kind. Never asks for anything in return either, he genuinely just wants to see me happy and knows this character does that for me. He has his flaws of course, but I consider myself extremely lucky and I wish there were more genuine men out there for yumejo who might still want physical affection. That being said, if it wasn't for this miracle man I'd be 2D only no questions, no regrets.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?
He exists within every waking moment of my life. Sometimes when I have a bad day I imagine him standing by me because he's very tall and I like the thought of my head being at his chest level while he looks down to talk to me in his velvety, confident tone. If I could control my dreams he'd be in each one of those too. He's the reason I've been able to turn my life around and start caring about my health. In my intense need to exist alongside him I've even come up with my own beliefs of what happens after we die so that no matter what happens in this life, I can try to look forward to the next one. You do what you gotta do to make this life worth it I guess.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like something he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lol
Why the fuck haven't I thought about getting a dildo that might look like his dick? I know what my next purchase is going to be now, thank you. Maybe one day VR will be affordable and good enough that I could take it the extra mile too.
No. 213598
>>213570I'm so happy for you anon, reading all the responses anons wrote makes me so happy.
Especially the anons who have been at it for years, I know objectively most people would say that's lame but I think that's admirable. I haven't been at it for long, I only found a character I love recently, but I hope I can be like them one day
No. 213599
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>>213586We will be shooting some sick photos next week,
nonnie, bring your husbando and your best outfits to this address
insert real address here with a zip code we will sell a calendar for the next year with cute pictures of ourselves and our husbandos to donate to a charity focused on helping women who are
victims of domestic violence by real men. Like this, we will promote husbandoism.
No. 213625
>When did you become husbando-only and why?
I've always had weird crushes on cartoon characters as a kid, and I had my sexual awakening to Vegeta in my early teens. I've decided to become husbando only a few years ago though, once I believed that getting into a relationship would make me happy but I ended realizing that I preferred being alone and fantasizing about fictional people.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
I don't think I'm off the deep end enough to consider it a lifestyle, but I don't talk about it at all, I'm very normie passing, I even removed a keychain from my purse to look more professional at work. I've only told one weeb friend (who has a bf), and I've even admitted to another friend that I've turned down a guy because of my husbando, and weirdly enough she kinda agreed with me lol.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
Not too much, I'm not big on the consuming, dakimakura are a limit I'm not willing to cross. I hate when they make merch of the same promo image, so I prefer fanmerch. One thing where I go full consoomer is doujinshi, my husbando is from a mobage and he is very popular, so I get a lot of yumejo doujinshis with the female MC.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
I almost did, but the prospect of getting intimate with the guy gave me anxiety and I realized I would gain nothing from a relationship. I'd rather date a woman than a man, but I feel trying to get into a same-sex relationship would be a hassle, especially nowadays.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?
I see his face everyday on Twitter and I check Toranoana all the time to see if new doujinshis are available. I think of him all the time too, and I exclusively masturbate to him.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them?
Not really, but I do want to get a dildo that reminds me of him lol.
No. 213662
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>>213598>objectively most people would say that's lameayrt. too many people are confined by things like this and it makes me so sad! The sentiment that we have one life and that we should make the best of it is shared by most of the human race, yet people are still made to feel dumb for enjoying things that aren't routine. The only thing that matters is your own journey to happiness, and if that is through 2D, then you should get to pursue that with no shame. "you" meaning everyone reading this who might feel the same ofc. It's harmless in the grand scheme of things and we spend enough time appealing to people who don't matter in the long run just to be able to, well, live… everyone deserves to experience happiness in a way they can be truly passionate about. I wish you and every other anon here an amazing journey and I hope your love can be free to blossom for as long as you so desire.
posting another pic of my husbando because i can, thank you for coming to my ted talk or whatever kek
No. 213686
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>>213599Has anyone itt ever made a photo manipulation of themselves with their husbando? I am tempted but I feel like that's really crossing the line of autism. No going back after that
No. 213688
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>>213686Uhg, I wish I was confident or pretty enough to do that, it’s okay to be autistic as long as you’re confident. I also need the right outfit because I don’t want to be wearing some lame pajamas for a picture with any of my husbandos.
No. 213698
>>213599I unironically agree with
>>213600 it's a cute idea but I'd never take/edit photos like that of myself kek
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>>213543>>213549You come into the husbando in real life thread to bitch and expect to be praised? What a retard, I'm almost sure you're a scrote seething that no woman wants your inceloid ass.
No. 213707
>>213552Girls with husbandos
>literally just daydream about holding hands with their belovedIncel men
>FUCKING KILL ALL WOMEN IM ENTITLED TO SEXHow can you be this much of a pickme?
>not a moiddoubt.jpg
No. 213713
>>213710On that note I think I would be a great aunt but being a parent would be so fucking tiring to me.
I would like to think that in primitive societies, women being caregivers without having birthed was still seen as a good thing, unlike today's society where everything has to be about the nuclear family secluded from the rest of the world. It just doesnt feel right
No. 213728
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>>213726Get wreck sasuke you're a manlet
No. 213914
>>213912> How do you deal with no physical touch or sex at all?Well, with no physical touch, I have friends and they hug me whenever I meet with them, they know that I’m touchy-feely, so they just hug me on their own, I don’t really have to start the physical contact so it’s okay.
I also just don’t really crave it, I’m such a schizo that I can just imagine how a hug from my husbandos feels like, so I feel warm and nice.
probably because I’ve been hugged enough to have an idea of how it feels likeFor the sex part, I mostly just masturbate, I’m a virgin so I don’t really /know/ how real sex with a moid feels like, but I just use my imagination and sometimes pictures of my husbando to have an idea of how to feel.
I honestly recommend getting a dildo, nothing too big, nothing too small, just the right size and not the flesh colored ones because they’re boring
unless you like the visual of a realistic dick, I always close my eyes so I don’t mind either way.
Once you find out what you actually like, not what a male wants you to pretend you like, you get to understand that real males are not necessary.
No. 213937
>>213931I know that feel,
nonnie, I wish there was like a chat room or something where we could talk comfortably with other husbandofags. I’m shit at drawing but I could do simple stuff for other nonnies!
No. 214021
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I wish I could make a convincing sounding custom voice bank of my husbando or something. It sucks when the voice is a part of the experience for you but there are only so many lines of dialogue you can listen to for various moods. I just want him to tell me I'm a good girl after I do something he asks, not even in a horny way. He already has good clips that sound like climaxing, so that mood is already covered when I need it, and god bless for that kek. I'd love to hear him recite poetry to me or even just say my name and call me "darling".
Do other nonnies here have sound clips or videos they like to watch of their husbandos for particular moods? I'm curious to know how the sound of your fave impacts your lifestyles if at all!
No. 214031
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>>213686I'm gonna do this I googled for more photos and every one is so cute I'm gonna make 33465 of them
No. 214063
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>>214060reminds me this post kek
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>>214056My husbando:
>murderer>thief>evil conqueror…maybe I personally should stick to the boring ones kek.
No. 214375
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>>214361>>214373it's just schizophrenia
No. 214389
>>214361It's a mentally ill 4chan meme from 10 years ago.
Daydream like a normal person!
No. 214546
>>214375I used to do this shit when i was a kid all the time. I used to try with all my heart to force characters i loved into existence, i would sit in class at 9 years old and would imagine them all next to me. Everyday. It was so vivid and real too. They always disappeared when i wanted them to tho so this kinda freaked me out. I guess doing shit like this can
trigger a schizophrenic tendency in someone
No. 214572
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>>209722I’m just worried I’ll end up like her
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>>214572Yeah, what kind of insane person goes out with a cardboard cutout? What if it gets wet or dirty? it’s better to get a body pillow with a plastic cover that you can remove once you get home, jfc, imagine caring so little for your husbando.
No. 214591
>When did you become husbando-only and why?Ironically I think embracing my waifus made me want to be more adventurous. Two out of three of them are sexually prolific, and with them in mind I went out of my way to flirt with people more! It's fun - I don't have much interest in full sex or dating (I'm a virgin and not in the ideal brain space for a relationship) but flirting definitely increases my confidence, I really think they'd be proud of me for overcoming my anxieties and speaking to new people.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?I downplay it. I will often make people watch the movie one of my waifus is from / read the comics another is from (never the TV show the third is from because it's a mess & she's the only salvageable thing) and I'll openly say the characters are my girlfriends, but I doubt people realize to what extent that is true. Very few people see the self insert shippy fanart.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?8 posters & one T-shirt, all of the comic waifu. There's a lot of unofficial merch for my film waifu and I definitely want to get some when I have more money. I desperately want to print out small pictures of them to put inside a locket so I can switch them out at my leisure, it'd be nice to have them with me wherever I go! There's so much lovely art of them, though - I may be paralyzed by choice.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?I can't imagine ever connecting to a real person the way I connect to them. I would date, though. They would want me to be open to new experiences even if I have reservations at first.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?I think of them always. One of the first comics I remember reading of one (apologies for grossness) had her popping a zit on her chin in the opening scene and now whenever I pop a zit I think of her lol. Things that remind me of them include smelling sweat, smelling extremely artificially sweet perfume, the warmth of sun hitting my skin, seeing lace in a haberdashery, eating chips, piano music, graffiti, those hefty china dolls (especially ones with fancy little outfits), and ripped fishnets. Some are mundane things, but because of the associations they make me smile.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolSometimes. I have a muscle tee that I use as a PJ shirt because it reminds me of something one would wear. My style is different to all of theirs, though, so it's mostly things like jewelry I think is spectacularly tacky and I could display rather than things I wear outside.
>>210215>>210216Awww, Ryuk was one of my first fictional crushes!! Great minds think alike, I love her dedication!
No. 214647
>>214591>One of the first comics I remember reading of one (apologies for grossness) had her popping a zit on her chin in the opening scene and now whenever I pop a zit I think of her lol.How romantic kek
I really want to know who these characters are now!
No. 214751
>>214740I mix a bit of both tbh, sometimes I imagine myself in their universes, sometimes I imagine that they’re beside me. Depends on what I feel like having in that moment. And I just self-insert, I honestly can’t relate if I create an OC even if it’s a donut steel because I then focus too much in the fanfic and stop feeling turned on.
The anime guys have to be into me, not into whoever is my avatar. It’s kind of why I have a hard time with being into otome games, if there’s a clear anime girl character even if she doesn’t have a face, I just can’t get into the romantic stuff, I just want to know what’s going on plot wise. Being so autistic hurts sometimes.
No. 214764
>>214740I imagine being in their world because the real world sucks.
Most of my husbandos are from video games so I self insert as my player character otherwise as an idealized version of me.
No. 214776
It's 5 am I stayed up all night drawing my darling. Time passes so quickly when you're surrounded by loved ones kek
>>214740I imagine myself in his world; I imagine myself, I don't make up a character because I don't want him to love some other girl, I want him to love ME.
No. 214808
>>214740In their worlds, I always find it super weird when people create modern AUs where the colorful husbando look exactly the same.
I'm weirdly autistic with canon, it's the only thing I usually interact with (I never managed to get into fanfictions) so I usually never created OCs, just admiring the husbandos from afar, but recently I've come up with some self inserts OCs to interact with minor husbandos (lbh it's mostly for daydreaming about sex).
My main husbando is from a game so I ship him with the female MC because she's cute and I find it easier to fantasize when using the generic MC to self insert.
No. 214809
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>>214788Ok if you want but in all that time all I could accomplish were two half finished drawings because I don't know how to manage time well
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>>214740I always imagine myself in my husbando's universe, or some other fantasy setting from another game etc. because this world is boring and bleak.
And I self insert, though it's hard because my self-esteem is so low and I have to think how could a man like him even like me.
>tfw cucked by your own imagination or something like that No. 214841
>>214826Thank you anon, I posted a drawing on cc once
>>214829You know if you want I could draw your husbandos too, just say who, I just can't draw anime people kek but I am going to try to draw
dottore from genshin impact because that one anon really likes him and I don't play the game but I like the anon, don't tell her though unless she is reading this in which case hello anon >>214836Don't think about how or why he would like you. You are destined for each other, that's how it is and he will like you whatever happens
No. 214850
>>214809Beautiful,
nonnie!
No. 214857
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>>214841>Don't think about how or why he would like you. You are destined for each other, that's how it is and he will like you whatever happensThank you kind anon.
No. 214917
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>>213570Hey anon I know nothing about LOL but I've seen your posts about him and I think it's sweet how in love you are with your husbando! Hope you're still around, here is a gift from me, a fellow husbandofag.
No. 214934
>>214917Great work
nonnie!!
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>>214889>>214907I agree on principle, but unless this is pure roleplay, I think this could actually be unhealthy for her, considering how bad she gets because of a troll
But yeah fuck scrotes
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>>215028Ching ching ching goes the husbando tree
And every time it ching husbando comes to me
It all flows in so abundantly
From the top, left, right and up under me
Ching ching ching goes the husbando tree
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>>215629Also no. I probably should have mentioned she's 3d, is it still appropriate to post about her in these threads? My other two beloveds are 2d so I have a foot in the door regardless, but Jane really is my #1. She's my wife, the others are relegated to girlfriends.
I still consider her a waifu despite being 3d because it's the character I love rather than just the actress (though of course I respect the actress immensely as a person). I consider Jane to be one of the greatest horror characters of all time and the fact the performance didn't bag an Oscar is a crime. However, Jane's loveliness far outstrips such metrics as awards.
My friend hinted she's got me something Jane related for the holidays, I'm really excited. I'm also working on something husbando related for her! It seems too late in the year now, but if this thread is still going in 2022, maybe we should do an art exchange or something? Until then, I hope everyone has a lovely festive season with their partners!
No. 216180
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Idolshit has a lot of downsides, but I feel very lucky that my husbando's series is one where the player directly has a relationship with the characters, even if it is a professional one. His unit is hilarious to me because I know if that my high school were to have teachers become idols especially with their outfits, christ there'd be a new world record for slurs used by the audience in one performance set. I've unironically worked harder in uni because of him. Any other 2d idolbandos/wives here?
No. 216407
>>214917Hey anon idk if you'll ever be back in this thread but I just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you and the drawing you so kindly made me. I hope you're doing well. I wish I knew who your husbando was so I could make something for you too!
>>216180Shit, been meaning to try idol games out but none of them ever look appealing to me. Which one is this from?
No. 216436
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>>216407SideM! It's part of the Idolm@ster franchise
and is treated like the black sheep, but it's very comfy and pleasant if you'd prefer your idol content to be more on the CBDCT side than angsty. Over half of the idols are adults or nearing adulthood (5/49 are 30+) and had/have side jobs of some kind, so I feel like it has that over other idol games which are loaded with high schoolers. Units are generally different enough to where you can pick and choose which ones fit you best.
Growing Stars came out recently, and it's great for casual play imo. The events are 100% easy to get cards in since you don't need to worry about ranking, and gacha rates are pretty ok too. The art quality has gradually been getting better, so if you decide to check it out, I'd suggest looking at the GS SRs or the more recent mobage cards for character impressions. The old card art they use for the wiki images aren't really representative of the series style anymore and look wonky half of the time.
gomen for sperg No. 218069
>>218014Mine is the same. As much as I'd be willing to ditch 3D, my partner hasn't given me any reasons to want to leave in the first place. He remains trusting, loving, and respectful of my lifestyle even after almost 8 years! If your bf is the same and you feel happy with your relationship, that's great
nonnie! I think the only down side for me is that sometimes I'm very hyperaware of how my husbando will never be a physical entity for me to do things with which can cause me to compare and feel disappointed in what real life has to offer kek. It only happens when I'm stressed and need an escape from the real world though, so it hasn't caused any issues over the years. Just more of an internal thing which I'm sure is relatable af.
No. 219610
My grandpa had squizofrenia, i didn't inherited it but I was diagnosed with squizoid personality when i was very young so I'm already used to my extreme social isolation, this being said, I never cared about men, i was never interested on what they think or feel. Dates/ marriage, flirting, sex…it all seemed too tiresome and for what?, I'm just not interested, at all. Eventually i got bored so i entertained the idea of having a husbando even before knowing such concept existed.
I have a somewhat big husbando harem, with 1 main that i consider my all time favorite character, that represents everything i would like in a man, i love him with all my heart. I suffer from chronic depression, so i often think about his smile or imagine him hyping me up which works wonders. I'm always thinking on whatever he would do or say in random situations, i used to draw him daily but i stopped since i started college. Anyway, my husbando is the shit, and i wish I could talk to him at least once.
No. 219623
>>216436Anon hes cute as shit i might play this
>>218014I just tell em that X husbando is my fave character. Having to open up about my silly fantasy is embarassing. Good for you though Your bf sounds very kind!
No. 219632
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I got a job and I feel so accomplished, my husbandos are honestly part of the reason why I was so pressed to get a job, now I can finally start saving some money to commission stuff of my husbandos, mostly keychains and the sorts, so I can put them on my purses or backpacks.
I also want a plushie of the chosen one among my husbandos, but I haven’t truly picked him yet, it’s seriously difficult to do so because I love them all equally.
And I’m doing this mostly because I don’t want my room to be full of husbando merch, while I love them, I don’t think it would be okay to have too much stuff of them as of now, maybe in the future if I ever get to buy my own apartment with a spacious room, where I can have something like a pretty bed end chest so I can simply put the few but important husbandofaggotry stuff in whenever someone visits me and goes to my room or the sorts.
I would get something like pic related but with a lock, I would put the lock facing the bed and nobody would have to even ask about its contents.
No. 219642
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>>219630Cranky because you can't even compete with anon's husbando uh? even a fictional character has more game than you
>>219628Napoleon anon is that you?
No. 219643
>>219642>Napoleon anonI wish I was that dedicated,
nonnie, you flatter me.
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>>219614my husbando eats squirrels
No. 219653
>>215116I created my own waifu OC because Im unsatisfied with the "ready made" anime women so to speak lol. I designed her so she perfectly matches my tastes and has a complimentary personality. One of her biggest values is self improvement so she inspires me to take care of myself and continually strive to do my best. When I feel myself straying from my goals I think "would she be proud of me for this?" and get back on track. She's my support when I'm feeling low and need a little encouragement to get moving.
The obvious drawback is that I have to make everything myself from scratch. I can't just hop on pixiv for instant gratification, nor can I find a community of people who enjoy and discuss X story/character. At the same time, I find it helps me maintain a healthy balance between creation and consumption. Part of my reasons for choosing a waifu over a real person is that she, by definition, will always conform to my expectations and never let me down. In general, I don't want my happiness to hinge on external factors, like the size of my plastic merch collection, or if this fanwork depicts the character properly, or maybe the original creators undervalue the character. (I always think of that woman who had a public meltdown because her obscure husbando wasn't in Fire Emblem Heroes lol)
No. 219709
>>2196531. that's actually really cute and awesome! i guess when it comes to occasional consoomering you can commission people, which is kind of better since it's supporting artists? i'm not sure but i think there's a good balance with that
2. i hate how i know who you're talking about lol
No. 219731
>>219653oh lmao are you talking about the luthier girl? that was a sad thing to witness
I’m still waiting for mine in FEH sadly
No. 220073
>>214740definitely their’s. Even tho their universe is usually more “modern” (not exactly fantasy/sci fi-but maybe sometimes just a little ). Time periods might be older or current.
I used to make OCs when I was younger but now it’s just an image of myself. Sometimes I use my own personality but I’ll change it based on my mood (my character is kind of psychopathic if I’m in a bad mood kek). And my character’s story can change or the “plot”. Sometimes I’m the work partner and we fall in love. Or maybe a damsel in distress. I’ve jumbled through a lot of different plots and storylines. Keeps it interesting for me.
No. 220405
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>>220371nta but i think picrel is similar to what they're talking about! i love these kinds of photos
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>>219614I guess since I do have a harem of others guys.
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I thought you would like to see this. This lady made a doll from scratch, I wish I could make one too I just don't think I would put it in front of a poster of him kissing another man kek. Queen shit
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>>220956john travolta looking ass
No. 221618
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>>221585I understand what you mean anon, but depending on your husbandos popularity you could find something you like! For them to not look like action figures they need to have a dynamic pose and an interesting base imo. If my husbando ever got a figure other than a nendo I would preorder it instantly, even if it wasn't great quality or dynamic. I would be happy to have anything really. Plus if it sold well it would show there's an interest in him and they might make more? I can dream ok.
No. 221634
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>>221585anon, if i were you, i definitely would go for it if you can afford it. also nendoroids are really cute. most figures steadily rise in price after release so you might have to pay scalper prices if you hesitate too long depending how popular he is.
here's a side by side of my husbando's only figure vs the newest husbando in the franchise, it feels like trash!!>>221585
No. 221658
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>>221647which jojo boy is it,
nonnie?
on topic of jojo, here is some yumejo-ish art from an artbook i bought a few years ago, i'll post more if anyone cares
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>>221658Yes, please share more art if you'd like anon! Picrel is my husbando. Even before starting part 4 I always liked his design, but now that I'm actually watching DiU he has become my top tier (and only?) husbando. I'm probably an edgelord, but everything about his character is really attractive to me from the design to his concept as a character.
No. 221718
>>221717I've tried, but I have a nagging voice in my head telling me that I'd eventually write him too OOC for it to be any good. I always get to around 300 words before fumbling and closing the tab for good.
I need to stop doing it since it making me think about his character in novel situations helps me understand him (or at least my own view of him) more anyways. It'd probably be the same for you. Putting your love and effort into something isn't going to destroy affection, even if it isn't up to par with what you want it to be. A creation is proof that something was felt. Maybe try testing writing short notes and then rereading at a later date rather than editing a lot? It sounds horrible and incredibly autistic, but thinking of a lot of husbando shit as quasi-religious might help.
No. 221728
>>221718>A creation is proof that something was felt.ayrt and thank you so much. This is what I needed to hear and even better is it's something I think my husbando would say too.
He's the reason I've gained the strength to better myself but I guess some of the old self hatred still remains. It says to restrict behaviors centering around things that make me happy because I don't deserve it and am likely to ruin it anyway. Years of therapy and I still struggle without even realizing sometimes kek. Sorry for the mini blog post and again, thank you! I'm going to start with short notes as you suggested and see where it takes me.
No. 221744
>>221743gojo from jujutsu kaisen,
nonnie>>221717anon, go for it, it's important to express yourself, don't be embarrassed!! i write poorly written erotica of my husbando and i find it cathartic
No. 221891
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>>221717I know a few nonnies already replied about writing fanfic, but I made a journal dedicated to my husbando and I love it! I usually do spreads like picrel for example where there's room for me to write and include some photos. I’ve also done purely decorative pages centered around pics or fanart I really like of him, written down playlists I’ve made, I’ve even made a section dedicated to the scenarios I come up with, etc. The options are endless and I find it really relaxing to work on since it’s a judgement-free place to write down all of my thoughts.
Highly recommend making one anon, there’s no pressure to write fanfic quality entries since you’ll be the only one looking at it. I don’t find it diminished my love for/bond with my husbando either, if anything it’s a super indulgent activity and makes me appreciate him even more whenever I work on it.
No. 221948
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I got these in from mandarake yesterday!! tbh i'm not into BL or shipping much so I just imagine myself as the other character even though he's male, is that strange, nonnies?! i find it cute and relaxing.
On another note, how do you deal with having a husbando who was massively appropriated by dudebros with lame jokes who completely misinterpret his character? I find it annoying but I just chalk it to males being males.
No. 221996
>>221948Nice haul nona! I don't think it's strange to self-insert as male characters. Sometimes I do the same thing just because often the way male characters are written are easier to self-insert into than the female ones. I'm sure there are actual fujos who could explain the phenomenon better though. I'm not really into BL or shipping either, but
for some reason the only lewd doujin of my husbando I can self-insert myself into are the ones where he's getting dommed by men. Enjoy your doujin!
No. 222022
>>222007I can't self-insert into every doujin, so usually I have to comb through a lot to get to the good ones lol (and they're always drawn by women). It's usually easiest to self-insert into non-ship art because then the focus is almost always on your husbando. Spoiler for degen talk but
in scenes where your husbando is on his back it's easy to imagine that you're riding him rather than actually fucking him with a dick. From behind I'll either just imagine fingering him or giving him a handjob instead… sometimes pegging but that really depends on how horny I am lol. I tend to focus more on their expressions and how they're reacting rather than imagining doing what's actually being done to them, but that might just be me.. I know I sound like a coomer so I'll stop there.
>>222003That makes a lot of sense, anon! I also find that especially when it comes to 2D that it's hard for a lot of women to relate to Japanese standards of femininity (because it's usually so unrealistic lol) so I wonder if that also plays a part into it.
No. 222111
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>>221987i love you,
nonnie!!!! adachi is amazing, his boredom, jaded outlook on life while maintaining that facade of goofy cop is just great. dudebros seem to think it's impossible for a girl to actually like him or even worse, that it means that she's interested in men like that in real life. He did bad stuff but i don't think he's a morally corrupt beyond salvation character. If a depressed, isolated person was given such powers irl, it's likely they'd abuse it too since they have nothing to live for. Also he's very cute. It kinda bothers me most reader/adachi smut is noncon because he's undesirable in-universe to start with, it makes you feel bad for him. i get the appeal though ngl.
Who do you ship him with?? Have you read sympathy crime?
japanese adachi asmr is good too:
https://files.catbox.moe/sswm3m.webm>>221996thank you so much,
nonnie!! self inserting into male characters is easier in a way because it's distancing yourself from reality in a way and women often get told not to express their own sexuality so we may have internalized that message without realizing.
No. 222115
>>222113Step No. 1:
- have a popular husbando
No. 222147
>>222113Usually, a lot of japanese voice actors have partaken in lewd-ish drama cds (mostly BL) so you can look for that,
nonnie. I feel ashamed by how turned on i am by my husbando's japanese and english voice.
Vid related features very popular male seiyus for instance lol
No. 222149
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>>222148who is he? RIP, that's sad
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i’m one scroll through this thread away from ordering a custom figure from a sculptor scrote i found. should i do it, nonarinas?
No. 222189
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>>222188do it!!!! is it a GK? those are my card boys
No. 222218
>>222189nice!
>>222215russian guy who likes sculpting cartoon characters. he makes them super cheap, especially compared to all the anime figures itt. i’m not into anime, so totally works for me. it’s more so the slight embarrassment making me apprehensive, not the cost.
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>>222253dr_kiro_art
>>222249damn i wish i discovered the world of soundcloud audios before they put the kibosh on that shit
No. 222299
>>222289 I used to feel more jealous with my old husbando since he had a popular ship that got propped up as canon by fans, but those feelings have mostly subsided now. My husbando's series plays both "sides" quite often, but since it plays both sides, can't go all in on either. I could see some getting really annoyed by that, but I don't mind since I know it's just a business strategy. That and there's a built-in self insert that's integral in the series. I really love both of the characters he gets consistent ship art with, and I find amazing solo art through the multishippers that draw art of them. I felt a lot better once I thought about how everyone has the right to interact with fiction in the way they want to, and more by-women-for-women work, whether it be yume or BL, is already such a huge win that it outweighs any jealousy I personally feel thanks to the 'tism. Yumejos and fujos are already considered delusional, so we're more on the same side than some people think. Everyone gets a little bit of what they want and can filter the rest. You're already playing with canon anyways, why not go all in.
No. 222303
>>222299I'm pissed that fujos like to ship my fave with an unattractive guy, at least give him a hot hunk to make out with in fanart kek
I'm deeply grateful for all the beautiful solo and yumejo art japanese artists make though. Thanks sisters
No. 222306
>>222289This is autistic as fuck but I think a large part of why I fell for my husbando was because I subconsciously felt like I related to his canon love interest. It's super cringy to me and I don't necessarily go "wow she is literally me" or self insert to LARP levels but I think it's what helped me to realize he was everything I ever wanted.
Of course, he's shipped with other characters too but I just ignore those lol.
No. 222314
>>222289I don't care about shipping, live and let live, but it's annoying when Aidens act like their ships are cannon and how the characters are somehow "gay coded" because they have a bromance. Some of these people legit act like you are a homophobe because you don't ship a non-cannon pairing.
But it's still better than tranny headcannons tbh.
No. 222390
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anyone else has a cute desktop husbando on their screen?
source for the adachi chibs:
https://www.deviantart.com/in-gravity/art/Adachi-Shimeji-180626891 No. 222391
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>>222149The VA's name is
Kaneto Shiozawa and he died in the year 2000 due to an accident. Damn.
>>222390Oh boy, I used to have so many Hetalia shimejis back in the day, I downloaded everyone that existed at the time. I miss those times.
Anyway, I didn't know that they were still a thing! I might make some of my recent husbandos.
About 3 years ago when I was addicted to 4chan, I was a massive husbandofag (the waifuist kind) and had my husbando (chibi) as a mascot for OneeChan, a userscript for 4chan X. Does that count?
(This example isn't mine btw, I got it from some 4chan archive)
No. 222436
>>222289>Do you ever feel jealous/envious or not really?It really depends on how much of a good match i think they are.
I don't mind my husbando's popular fujo ships. I prefer them as bromance but i too make fujo fics and fanart simply because i love their interactions. His two main pairings match his energy so well and are just what he needs and i could easily imagine him being happy with them.
the only thing that annoys me is when people insist my husbando is the bottom in those pairings or a yaaas queen gay. What truly
triggers me is the designated self insert het ship kek i find their interactions lacking any sort of chemistry or understanding and i cried like a retarded tween after realizing the series will either end with him dying or marrying her kek i only became a little okay nowadays with their shipart because it's his only het pairing besides the yume art. if they do become canon i will just write an au where he realizes what a mistake getting with her was. same if he dies. i already did that once for my favourite characters that was killed off kek
took me weeks to get over it first tho No. 222553
>>222526The /a/ waifu drawthread
one I used to lurk there and wanted to know if any of the nonnies here were previous posters. Kinda a dumb thing to ask given that it'd be a bad idea to reveal both that + husbando since archives exist, gomen didn't really think it through>>222551Include yume in your commission post so it's easy to search!
No. 222556
>>222553Oh, yeah, I did do a couple of requests there. I didn't request anything myself as I could draw any fantasy. I was just worried that someone had figured out who I was but nothing wrong about asking what you did.
>>222551If I had the money I would totally commission art of my husbandos and me. Also I wouldn't be sure without seeing a sample of your style, nona. What kind of stuff do you draw, specifically?
No. 222734
>>222723My husbando definitely can afford expensive gifts, but most likely would not buy too much unnecessary stuff for me.
Still, every now and then he could buy me neat accessories. He would probably know that I like gold, so he'd buy me some gold jewelry (I prefer earrings and bracelets, nothing over the top, although he could give me something that he thinks would suit me, like a necklace or something like that).
If you count luxury watches as jewelry, he would definitely agree with me that it would be a good idea to buy me that, because at least it has a practical use.
But, in general, he doesn't seem to like buying people things, unless it's necessary (although it's likely that he would make an exception for someone who is really close to him, like a friend or wife, if he had one).
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>>222723He would probably go ballistic with his autism and give me stuff that I could keep to remember him all of the time, unironically like pic related, but also other stuff that he knows that I would like, because he would like to see me happy about the gifts, he can buy expensive stuff, but he would rather give me sentimental and simple things because he would be walking around the town and he would see something I would like. Still, he would get me expensive stuff from time to time, but only if he were to see me staring at something for too long and the sorts.
I think I would unleash my dead crafting skills to give him simple stuff like bracelets or necklaces, but I would also try to earn some money to give him some expensive stuff as well.
No. 223207
>>223198My husbando is non-emotional (not the other two, thankfully).
However, he
does understand emotions, and he's shown to have the ability to care about other beings on an emotional level, and warming up to someone a tiny little bit. We practically never see what he's like or what he does outside of his job, so I imagine that one would be able to at least befriend him in his free time (as long as we don't interfere with his goals). Even if it would take years. Therefore we can conclude that it's also likely that he's capable of falling in love or feeling sexual attraction. The story does not focus on any of this, so we can't discard the possibility.
No. 223343
>>223258There's some characters that would probably be my waifu if they were female. It sucks because I usually like character traits of male characters
or they just are given more attention and personality than most female characters in the story so I guess I can just genderbend them? Tbh I wish there were just more good butch written characters
No. 223621
>>223538NTA but I don't know exactly why I prefer villainous or unaffectionate husbandos, however I doubt it has much to do with low self-esteem. Maybe it's simply a preference of mine.
I would only truly call a couple of them cold and distant, the rest are more submissive and undoubtedly desperate for affection (but still on the asocial side), so I could do whatever I want to them.
I think I like both because of my own introverted personality and wanting someone who is "on the same wavelength" as me, but also I want to be special to someone who isn't very sociable, is lonely, or never/almost never lets others get too close to him. And I'm confident that I would get to see their affectionate/romantic/passionate side.
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Nonas whose husbandos don't have canon voices, how do you cope? Personally I've been listening to podcasts, searching for a voice that I feel will fit him so I can memorize it and make him say things in my head.
No. 223839
>>222741kek, is Bokuto your husbando
nonnie?
No. 223905
>>223899>He does appear in them occasionally, but mostly in random ways that never involve us meeting directly. Any other nonnies struggle with this? I wonder if it's some kind of mental wall I subconsciously put up because I respect and admire him so much lolSame, both things.
Though I've always found it hard to dream about my husbandos in general, I've had more success with the previous ones than with my current one. Not only that, but when I dream about anything related to the source material, I usually get to directly interact with other characters whereas he only appears in images and such (one of those images was hot though so it wasn't that bad). What the fuck. Do I just spend too much time actively thinking about him during the day, and during the night my brain is tired of it? Though that anon in the hornyposting thread said that you have to trick your subconscious into thinking about him as a real person and that you gotta have good sleep habits, so maybe that's it.
No. 224560
>>224508If she ridiculed you for fantasizing about a character you're perfectly aware isn't real, how is being obsessed with the same character and defending that imaginary ship, to the point that you'd make fun of a friend over it, any less deserving of ridicule? You may be ""delusional"", but at least you're not so childish as to shit on your friend's fantasies just 'cause they conflict with yours. Your "friend" sounds insecure.
Also get yumejo friends. Fortunately I've never had to deal with something like that.
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>>224536>>224560thanks girls, i feel better now, i was so embarrassed and i was about to delete all the reader x character fics i had written. I don't know, man. What's so wrong with wanting to express sexuality as a girl and not through a male proxy, it's annoying and feels misogynistic
No. 224609
>>224600>my friend ships herself with a bl characterkek based, BL is for women anyway so who cares.
I fell in love with a character from a BL game once.
No. 224722
>>224692>the majority of the yume EN people have already stuck to a clique that includes a girl who doesn't want to share her husbando with any of her friendsI understand what you mean by that, I used to have an online friend group where we all had a different husbando from the same series, though no one ever got jealous of each other's past or present husbandos (to my knowledge) but some of us were unwilling to share our current one.
However, I think you're giving other yume fandoms, such as the Japanese one, a little too much credit. For example, I've been blocked on Twitter before by a Japanese girl for having the same husbando as her (I could tell the reason by looking at her banner). We never even interacted, I guess she just found me first. And also, a lot of yumejos (who have husbandos but might not even know about the term yumejo) share the same husbando and don't ever feel jealous about it, in fact they're more than happy to share him. And I've seen small yumejo fanbases for single characters who don't get much love in the west, who have to be friendly to each other due to the very low amount of content he gets, that's pretty nice.
>>224639Now that I think about it, I'll probably do that.
>>224690Yes, I think there's no way for either side to "win" unless they stop fighting. Whenever yumejos make an argument, fujos refute it, and vice-versa. Also, you can be both a yumejo and a fujo at the same time (or a yumejo who occasionally ships male characters together, or whatever) but sometimes people act as if those two things were mutually exclusive.
No. 224762
>>224639I'm sort of annoyed most of my husbandos don't have offical birthdates or stats. That's one thing I love about Japanese stuff.
>>224690I can't be friends with people who like anal sex.
No. 224784
>>224692>Anyone else deal with something similar?The fandom mines from is full of
toxic scrotes and what little interactions I've had with women there have been frustrating. All I know is anyone who shares a fondness for my husbando does so in such a shallow way while still having the gall to claim they love him most. Maybe it comes off as elitist or somethin but it feels disrespectful to see such a complex character reduced to cliche headcanons and an entity to project onto (this mostly in the case of scrotes cause he's a faceless villain type). Knowing his info and story by heart means nothing if you don't appreciate the man these things belong to. I'd like to meet others who love him as much, it's just. ..I genuinely don't think anyone truly appreciates him on the same level. I'm holding out hope that I'm wrong though because It'd be swell to have a friend to gush about him with. If they don't take his thoughts and feelings into account as if he's real, then I usually have trouble because obviously I seem crazy to those who aren't into this lifestyle! I'm proud of my husbando and don't hide that side of me but there's no reason to interact with ppl who can't accept how strong my feelings are. I don't let it screw with my day to day life either way, not that it should concern them of course.
No. 224788
>>224639I'm probably just going to
masturbate as I have zero artistic ability, I sometimes want to write fics but I'm a perma virgin and ESL, so it'd probably be very bad lol.
No. 224789
>>224788You don't have to share the fics anywhere if you don't think they're good, it's just a way to have something concrete for you.
I wrote up a little notepad file of headcanons and occasionally write out little scenes that I felt were funny or interesting enough to look back at later, but I'd never post them for anyone else probably.
No. 224976
>>224692Nonnie you see the solution is to have an unpopular husbando from an already niche series. I think my husbando only has like… 2 or 3 other EN fans that aren't me. Jkjk, most fandoms suck and that in and of itself sucks. When I really get attached to a certain character I just try to avoid discussions about them because I get overly annoyed when people dislike them or when dumb people come along like what you described. Maybe that's stupid, but it's how I feel.
Not my husbando, but a waifu I had a while ago that I still love a lot has the most awful fanbase I've ever been apart of and even though I still like her, seeing constant downright stupid discussions about her game removed a lot of the fun from the game and even just saving fan art of her.
Rather than getting jealous I'd love discussing my husbando with another girl who loves him as much as me. She'd have to be a smart person to have such good taste after all.
I hope you can find good yume friends in that fandom
nonnie!
No. 225606
Cosplaying your husbando: yes or no?
I don't want to do like a full/actual cosplay, just wear his badass uniform and show it off (both the uniform and my love for him kek) in front of others and maybe get one or two people to recognize the series. (I haven't been to a con in years because the ones we have here are full of dumb weebs and creeps, and they're so small that there's practically nothing interesting to see for someone who is into relatively obscure shit, but I digress.)
Like I wouldn't be trying to "be" him, but rather just wear my husbando's uniform with a hairstyle that looks good, as sorry of a reference to him, dunno if that even counts as cosplay. I admit trying to "be" him would be too embarrassing for me.
I used to have other husbandos that I wanted to do a full cosplay for, but never really got around to it, and I'm also a poorfag kek. I imagine the same will happen this time, but hopefully one day I'll be able to cosplay them all. Also, I forgot how to sew, so I'll have to re-learn it and pick a lot of simpler and easier projects first…
Speaking of which,
I remember one time this weeb scrote on Facebook, who lived in another part of this country, fell in love with me (this was about 7 years ago) and things got awkward been us.
I'll skip a lot of details here; long story short, I loved my husbando a lot, and one day this guy went to a con, sent me a message from there, saying that there was a girl cosplaying my husbando, and asking if I'd like to see pictures. I told him no (I was possessive over my husbando back then and would get jealous easily, something that he knew) and he did anyway. It was so fucking obvious that he did it just to spite me and make me super jealous because I didn't return his feelings, that I barely even felt jealousy and instead laughed at how pathetic that move was.Rather than jealousy, now I feel this sort of camaraderie towards her? I wonder if we could've been friends over our husbando, had we met irl (me and that girl, of course). Although I still feel kind of envious that she could cosplay him which I wish I could've done myself lmao
>>224784Anon, I think you should write an article, or make a video or something talking about all the things that people in the fandom get wrong or don't realize about your husbando (some sort of analysis). Maybe then they'll start to see that there's more to him than they used to think and appreciate him more like you do.
No. 225672
>>225606>you should write an article, or make a video or somethingI'd like to but I'm not very confident since the fandom is that
toxic.. and i'm not very well spoken. i have the passion but not the ability to articulate it well ig. It took me about an hour to even write this response bc I had to edit it down so much tbqh. kek
Anyone who is even a little attached to my husbando gets extremely possessive since so much of his personality and past are shrouded in mystery making any headcannon seem plausible enough to argue as fact. I'll defend my own takes to the death as they would too ofc but the difference is I'm openminded and enjoy hearing other sides while his general fanbase doesn't and tries to "matter-of-fact" against any headcanon that's too diff from their own, in my experience anyway (see: projection, "I can fix him" &etc - one sided situations that make it obvious
his potential thoughts and feelings don't matter to them).
There's the off chance that I might find others who think in similar ways but I'm not sure its worth it with all the scrotey toxicity I'd no doubt have to wade through.
anyway, you're cute for suggesting this,
nonnie. maybe i'll get some confidence somewhere down the line to try this but for now your suggestion has made me smile. Thanks for making my night!
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>>216407How funny, I check this thread all the time but totally missed your reply anon. I hope you're doing well too and it makes me so happy that you thought of me!
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>>209722i just love her so much
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U can't stop me motherfukers I WILL deliver real chocolates to my non-existing husbando.
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I want him so bad
No. 227824
>>227812Based, just don't send them to the company lmao
What I did once was make a cake and a husbando shrine and took a pic of it for the /a/ valentine's waifu collage
No. 227842
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happy 38th birthday to my husbando i love so much, i baked a cake but got too flustered to make a pic since it's kinda embarrassing. He makes me very happy. The other day I dreamt I was his schoolmate and we shared a umbrella on our way back home, it was great. It makes me very happy to see how much new art and love from his fans he got.
sorry for the blogpost, i don't have friends to share my schizophrenia with but i love him
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>>227842he loves you too!
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>>227845>>227847I love you, cute nonnies
<3 No. 229807
>>229496You're never unworthy to fantasize! It's your world and you get to do whatever the fuck you want, nona. I
can sympathize, though. It took a while to remind myself that it's ok to indulge because my insecurities don't have to matter when literally no one else is involved except me and my husbando. We get to be in our own world in my head and he thinks of me exactly as I want him to.
When I'm feeling especially irredeemable I try to fantasize about a situation in which I have the power to prove otherwise to myself. Sometimes I give myself magic powers, or put myself in a situation where my husbando would be pleasantly surprised by something I did regardless of how I look or feel. idk if that makes sense but I hope you can feel more at home with your husbando soon. You deserve it always, no matter what may be weighing you down irl.
No. 229982
>>229496Like
>>229807 said, it's your fantasy and you get to be as self indulgent as you desire. Making yourself happy harmlessly isn't something anyone is unworthy of. Maybe try thinking about traits your husbando admires in his friends and think about how you fit that?
I think an interesting way to think about it would be that he was likely made specifically for women, or at least made to be either ideal or cherished by an audience. No character is made to be forgotten. You're fulfilling something very special between art and viewer. Being loved like that by you is just an extension of his meaning. You've given him more life. No matter what you look like, your ability to do this makes you worthy of it.
No. 230113
>>229496Sometimes I feel like I'm out of his league, or rather, I'm way too small and insignificant for him to notice me, but on the other hand we can't be sure what kind of woman he would like, so that makes me think it'd be possible for me to get close to him, in the right circumstances. My biggest concern is that it's unlikely that he'd even care about romance or sex, and it's hard for him to make friends in the first place. He certainly motivates me to become better, more determined and more productive and stop being a pathetic loser, as I doubt he would tolerate that. So in that regard, he would probably not like me, though I imagine that if I lived in his universe I wouldn't be in my current situation.
As for feeling "ugly", maybe some people here would say that I'm overconfident, but I generally don't give a shit about appearance (my own or others'), so I don't worry much about that, despite being average or "plain" in terms of looks. I don't think it would be impossible for him to be attracted to someone who looks like me, plus he's not exactly the hottest most conventionally attractive either.
No. 230175
>>230150True lol
But don't let a silly dumb lolcow ruin the fun for you
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>>227812Choc delivered.
Here u go luvv
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>>230750>>231088Thanks nonas, yes he is pretty and deserves chocolate if you ask me. Hope everyone had a good valentines with their husbandos and waifus and the site starts working again.
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How did everyone's Valentine's Day with their waifu go? I knew I was going to be busy so I drew something of us beforehand. Hope everyone had a good day!
No. 234154
>>231851On the 14th I made edits of those (Not) Doing Hurtful Things To Your Husbando charts that were posted in the other thread. I didn't draw him, just used screenshots; I've taken hundreds of them so it was pretty difficult to choose lol. But that means I got to stare at him for hours which was great.
After doing that I actually feel closer to him because it forced me to think about how we would interact and how he'd react (no I don't wanna hurt him but that chart also helped create a more accurate idea of what he'd be like). Now I can come up with better more detailed fantasies about our life as a couple.
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I need some ideas on how to show my endless love for my husbando. I live with my husband so I can't dedicate an entire room to him but I do have a small shrine of him in my office. Still I want more! One way is ita-bags but he is kinda obscure so I'll have to handmade the badges and pins most of the time, I also thought about getting a mug and a shirt with his face.
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What do you do if you have multiple husbandos/waifus? Esp from multiple franchises? Do you pretend they all belong in the same universe in a harem with you or do you like to keep them all together in the same world?
No. 239337
>>238840Like
>>238929 said, I have different self inserts. I must add that I have like 3 husbandos I'm actively thirsting on, the rest I don't fantasize on them because I can't self insert so I just drool at their pics.
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>Discuss why you chose this lifestyle
I "grew out" of watching anime sometime in late high school. In college, I realized that men were shit and I came to the realization that dying alone wasn't the worst thing in the world. I am good at taking care of myself and making myself comfy so why would I need anyone else? I realized that it's likely that I would either have to settle or just be single for the rest of my life and I chose the latter.
When the pandemic hit, I started playing vidya and watching anime again because I had more free time (and also escapism). For a while I struggled with having a husbando because I thought 2d was just so unrealistic and how no human being could ever be that way and that made it boring. But then something clicked and I realized that was the beauty of it. My husbando does not have to be someone I can realistically imagine myself with. He is just a source of happiness and brings me joy.
I am relatively new to the husbandofag life (I didn't start thinking about it that much until I saw all the threads pop up here), but talking to farmers about their husbandos and sharing pictures has been a lot of fun. After many months I have found my own husbando and he is very cute and I have a lot of pictures of him saved on my computer. He makes me very happy (and I post about him a lot in the husbandoposting thread… sorry).
That is my husbando story. Thank you for listening.
No. 245823
>>245626You're cute, I'm glad you've found your husbando comfort zone. welcome!
>I post about him a lot in the husbandoposting threadI want to participate in that one so bad but I've already been recognized a couple times in other threads since I seem to be the only anon posting about my husbando.. so I feel a bit awkward hah. It's such a great thread though and I'm just so happy us husbandofags have a place to call home here!
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>>245629I'm thankful farmers introduced me to this way of life. I was already going to be a volcel essentially anyway but it's more fun being a husbandofag too.
>>245823Thank you anon! I only have one husbando and I think I'm the only one who posts about him too, so you aren't alone. I totally understand the awkwardness of wanting to sperg about your husbando but also not wanting to go overboard and become an avatarfag or something. I personally don't mind when I recognize someone who posts the same husbando (I think the dedication is cute and it builds that sense of community), but I can't speak for others of course.
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How's everyone life with husbando going on right now? Any updates?
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Parappa is one true love of my life, and nothing will change me from being like that.
>>209728>When did you become husbando-only and why?I've been 2D only since 2019.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?To some degree, yes. My closest online friends all know about it, but I refuse people to find out about this IRL.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?I have a plush of him, and sleep with it every night, as well as a small figure and a Japanese copy of the first game. I might get more merch soon, too.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?No, fuck 3DPD. 3D men are nowadays too pornsick to even bother.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?Yeah, I draw and write about him pretty often, as well as consoom and learn as much things about him, his source and the fandom revolving around them as possible.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear?I find it interesting, but unfortunately don't have the money for it.
>>214361>how many of you have tulpas of your husbandos and are they worth making?Sort of. I don't think I'd have improved on my life or not have the feelings I have for Parappa the same way I have them now if I didn't create a tulpa based on him, but to be honest it's more like imaginary friends up to eleven. Regardless or what I decide on, I'll enjoy the time I spend with Parappa as much as possible.
>>214740>If it's the former, do you prefer to make an OC with lore or do you just self insert you as you are?I just picture myself as myself (or at least an idealized version of myself) due to tulpas and all that stuff, but if I didn't admit to writing SIs in my fanfics I wouldn't be lying at all.
>>221717>Have any of you written fics or maybe a diary about your husbandos that you just keep to yourself?I wouldn't have a diary if not for Parappa.
>>222289>Do any you have husbandos who are in a very popular ship or have a canon love interest?Sunny Funny has no personality. Sunny Funny is a trophy love interest. Sunny Funny is not a character. Sunny Funny does not exist.
Doesn't stop me from making her the main romantic rival in at least one of my fanfic ideas though…>>224508Not really. If anything I'll admit to be guilty of criticizing and making fun of fujo ships involving my husbando with people that know my yume nature.
>>248596Life is fine, school just started, but Parappa and I will do our best to adjust to it together.
>>248650>How do you guys react when/if you see some kinnie of your husbando?Kinnies are skinwalkers. Kinnies want to project themselves onto their favorite characters and viceversa in order to pretend they have a personality of their own. I've also noticed that many kinnies of my husbando seem to also self insert into fujo ships, because of course they're all fujo aidens.
Don't trust kinnies.
No. 249097
>>248650>How do you guys react when/if you see some kinnie of your husbando?I cringe because to me it's the ultimate way to disrespect a husbando. They're choosing to disregard the character's "soul" to replace it with an idealized version of their own. At that point it's not the same character because the motivation for their headcanons is the kinnie themselves, therefor heavily skewed toward personal gain instead of character-based logic. If that makes sense.. idk i'm sleep deprived as fuck kek
Imo you can't kin someone you call a husbando and still say you love them for who they are. If you truly love your fav, you'd respect them as their own entity.
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Happy White Day husbandothread! Did anyone else get nice content today? The SM WD commus in-game were very cute, and some artists released some doujin work that was previously unavailable online. I feel lucky that this week is packed full of new things for the series.
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nonnettes, i'm having a crisis. i love my husbando more than any other character, he is my number 1 and i rely on him to get through difficult times, like he legitimately inspires me to be a better person because i want him to be proud of me. he's just so… out of my league? he's extremely refined, intelligent, multilingual, gentlemanly… a genius, a wine connoisseur, a marksman, a pianist… he has a bajillion degrees and is the top expert in his field, and (in universe) he's well liked by pretty much everyone. luckily his character arc includes revelations of the ways in which he is NOT perfect, showing that he's a human like any other. this helps, but he's still rather cynical and unimpressed by others. i swear he's secretly super judgemental because sometimes he becomes so cold and scathing, he just absolutely destroys people with his words. i find this hot so i don't mind it. plus i like to think we could gossip and complain together from time to time.
all this to say… he has very elite tastes. the man cultivates roses and hosts garden parties– with pastries he baked just for himself– with classical music playing in the background! that's just his regular tuesday! wouldnt he judge me for liking anime? cartoons are for juveniles and smooth brains, and gachafaggotry for the most pathetic of us all. someone as smart and cultured as him would be immediately turned off by anyone who plays the fucking game he comes from. it makes me wonder, should i swear off from watching anime and playing games, or at least go for ones with "substance"? he's not a black-and-white thinker, nor is he particularly controlling, so i know he would never ask me to do that… but he would certainly avert his eyes every time i boot up pokemon romhack crystal clear to sink another ten hours into a pixel collecting game for children. i don't believe that couples need to share all their hobbies or otherwise give them up, but what if i did ask him to give anime a chance? i can't even think of a good place to start. maybe utena because it's dense and symbolic and psychological and he likes that kind of complexity, but i'm imagining sitting in his lap on the couch when he just lets out the deepest, most disappointed sigh at the teenager with pink hair and bug eyes preaching about love and justice, and i just feel his displeasure reverberating through my soul.
No. 249852
>>249567Nona you seem really sweet and I'm sorry you're struggling so hard with this. You shouldn't have to sacrifice parts of yourself to make him proud. I'm just taking a shot in the dark here based off your description (if picrel is him, idk the character), but wouldn't he be more disappointed in someone who changes just to fit his ideals instead of learning to be comfortable with who they are? You said it yourself that he'd never ask you to swear off your loved hobbies, so why should you?
This is kind of presumptuous of me to assume and I hope I don't sound like a jerk, but you seem insecure with parts of yourself and like you get trapped in your own head a lot which in turn creates all this husbando related stress. You need to remember that he's there to help, so let him help you in his own way instead of trying to fix it all by yourself. He's not out of your league and he remains in your presence for a reason!
No. 250566
>>249567Anon, I know how you feel. I also struggle with this to some extent, except my husbando is a gruff man who is always out saving the world. Why would he be attracted to a woman with such childish interests and likes to dress the way I do? But I think that he would find a comfort in it, someone who can show him it's alright to slow down and relax and enjoy something silly once every so often.
It's very sweet of you to concern yourself this much over your husbando but like the above anon said, he would probably prefer for you to be comfortable with who you are instead of changing to meet his standards, whatever they may be. He is your other half, you can balance each other out. He would love you the way you are and I hope he can keep helping you improve as a person but in a way that doesn't make you lose parts of yourself that you find important.
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This is gonna sound butthurt as hell, I'm sorry my nonnies
How do you deal with moids being massively obsessed with your husbando? It just kills me. They completely nuke his character to a ''he's just like me'' blank template. It makes me so sad i dont know why. I feel he deserves better than being loved by edgy male retards. He inspires me to be a better person so I should just pretend they don't exist but it still fills me with unwavering sadness, I'm sobbing as I'm typing this melodramatic rant. Maybe it's just PMS.
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>>251642
I think you need to confront your low self esteem head-on. It's not just daydreaming that's difficult for you, right? This kind of negative self opinion will hurt you in many areas of life, including important experiences outside of romance/daydreams/hobbies. To begin please make sure you are eating and sleeping properly (I use my husbando for motivation, for example I know he would want me to brush my teeth daily so we can kiss, etc.) If you have not been to therapy for the bullying you suffered in the past, now is a good time to start. You can also read self help books about building self esteem, making good habits, and talking kindly to yourself.
>I feel deep shame as this is looked down on and makes me feel like it’s copium for not getting a decent dates, except for manipulative guys with ill intentions. Ngl I’ve never truly experienced affection or love in my life
Dating 3DPD is not only difficult but very dangerous for women, most of the time not even worth it at all. You have every right to deal with your bad experiences in the way that best suits you, including escapist fantasy— literally coping in a traditional sense. You are not hurting anyone by daydreaming, and anyone who watches TV or reads books can understand using media to make themselves feel better. Plus this is your private life, nobody has the right dictate what you think of in your head. Thought police are not real. Anyone who would bully you or look down on you for such harmless fun did not have a valid opinion from the start.
As for never experiencing affection, I think it is a good idea to seek out (female) friendships IRL when possible. In general it is very important for people to feel a sense of belonging and unfortunately it is hard to get this with just fantasy. As your self esteem improves I believe you will feel more confident in your relationships, and getting closure about the bullying will help as well.
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>>251646Thank you nona…….. It feels pathetic but I'm envious of all the fanart and canon dynamics. I try to re-see it as 'wow they are good for each other' but my jealous ass knows I'm half lying to myself heh. Thank you for the different scenarios as they help give rise to new AUs too heheh. I should write fanfiction maybe.
>>251658You're right nona, I've tried various techniques since highschool but constantly being in an environment you dislike + doing things you dislike + everyday stress + lowered optimism = uphill battle. I'm jealous of normie girls in my college, maybe life would be so much easier if I had their personality and temperament.
>If you have not been to therapy for the bullying you suffered in the past, now is a good time to start.I went to see several therapists previously and felt that none helped that much. My most recent one kept "not all men"-ing me when I talked about my distrust for guys coming from betrayal trauma, just no.
>I use my husbando for motivation, for example I know he would want me to brush my teeth daily so we can kiss, etc.This is a good motivator!
>As for never experiencing affection, I think it is a good idea to seek out (female) friendships IRL when possible. In general it is very important for people to feel a sense of belonging and unfortunately it is hard to get this with just fantasy.Youre so right, I think this is why I feel so depressed in college too. Most women here are heavily male-aligned and competitive (not for guys, but for grades and more), and seeing how almost all guys are so misogynistic and porn-sick doesn't help. And my old friends seem to disappear the moment they get a boyfriend. I feel like I'm living in some parallel world. Probably going to change college, I feel sick here.
No. 251759
>>251520Feeling this rn too nona, it's okay. Mine attracts projecting moids and fujos more than any other character in the game he's from. I'm so disgusted that these types of people are the most vocal in every fandom space cause it just attracts more of the same, like some kind of hivemind. I can't imagine falling in love with this husbando and then throwing away all his deep backstory and dialogue simply to insert your own ego (or lack thereof). I deal with it by reminding myself that the only version of him that matters is my own, because I
actually care about him and he appreciates me for that. I hope you're feeling better today!
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>>251536you're right
nonnie, thank you. i think i should just ignore them, it's not like i can police what other people think about him, i know the truth anyway. I know he'd prefer girls who see him properly rather than those types of people. Thank youu
>>251759same here, hugs to you sister. there's only so much mpreg fan fiction or dumb moid memes we can accept without feeling sad over it. your husbando loves you
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I've now given up completely on real men and have decided to just stick with my husbando. And since he only had ten minutes of screen time in the show's canon I can basically make up anything I want about him. So he'll definitely be perfect for me. But I'm new to the husbando life, anons how do you devote yourself ur husbandos?
No. 251794
>>251780It can start from self-care, using your husbando to motivate yourself in doing things/building habits/going out more. I own some plushies and hug them to sleep sometimes, they’re super cute. I have a keychain of him on my bag, trying to get over the web stigma shame but I’m holding out in hopes that someone will talk to me about him one day.
I’m waiting for a figurine of him I really like, but for now I’m really interested in learning drawing to draw him well. Not many others have written it here, but you could consider writing fanfiction too, it can improve your writing skills in the process.
Also the brown hair guy in pic related was the best in the whole show. The other guys were nasty clowns and treated the MC like trash before her transformation. Sad!
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>>251642I was going to write paragraphs upon paragraphs about this, but I think
>>251646 pretty much explains everything. In my case, my husbando has a canonical love interest (and the plot of his games involves trying to catch her attention, even!). However, she isn't that much developed as a character so I just forget she exists and headcanon him to be in love with me instead unless I really need to get her involved.
>>251520My husbando doesn't really have a moid fanbase, but hoo boy do fujos and Aydens fuck with his character, infantilizing him, shipping him with his male friends (one of which is actually straight) and making his most important quirk "being bisexual" at the same time.
At this point I feel like the only reason why I even actively browse for content of his series is because I hoard content related to it and because I love him.
No. 251812
>>251794Thanks
nonnie. I'm not a writer but making fics of him might be fun. which show is that? I only have this image for meme purposes.
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>>251772No, but I can see how those two would attract those kinds of people just based on how they look alone kek. I haven't actually played Hades yet!
>>251776You're so right. Thanks, sweet nona
No. 251928
>>251812>>251915The show is called “Kiss Him, not Me!” I actually didn’t watch the show but I saw the beginning and read some forum discussions, the female MC was originally fat and an otaku who loves to fangirl over dramas and hot anime guys lmfao. During the first ep, she was so upset that her fav died, she fainted and went into hibernation. When she woke up, she realised she became prettier, slimmer which shocked her family and friends.
The guys in your pic are her schoomates who were plain assholes and rude to her before the transformation, except for the brown hair dude, since he liked her even before her looks changed. After her transformation, the guys try to compete for her attention and win her over, it’s a pretty funny anime but it’s realistic about how IRL guys work. Sad! You can watch this 1st ep video clip:
https://youtu.be/_R6VRxl4y1QThankfully the author is great and (manga ending spoiler)
both the girl and brown-hair boy got rightfully married in the end.As for fanfic, I find it useful to let go off any inhibitions and go into the “flow”, letting yourself dream of whatever you want. Put on some relevant music and the flow state feels really good, from my experience.
>>251822Are you the same Jhin
nonnie earlier in this thread?
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>>251928>Are you the same Jhin nonnie earlier in this thread?I may or may not be….
No. 251951
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I have very good luck in my husbando's game. He always comes home to me! Even when I first started playing, before I was devoted to him, I got him as my initial SR and even pulled a super pretty event SSR on the same day! I love him so much. It feels like we have a special connection, like he is really drawn to me and wants to see me. It's obvious that he loves me too. I hope all anons who play gacha games have this luck! Everyone deserves to get the cards they want!
No. 252006
>>251951god i wish i was you,
nonnie. i'm currently saving up a spark because my luck in regards to him is so bad.
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I'm always happy when i find people who like my husbando, but this time was not it, at all: I was talking to a girl who liked the same character as me, we were talking about his background and shit, minutes later i pointed out how cute and handsome he was and then out of nowhere she told me i was "so superficial" and that "she liked him for more than his looks", it really made me feel like shit cause we were talking about his character just seconds ago but she still needed to say something like that, what was her problem? i'm allowed to like him physically wtf
No. 252018
>>252014You both clearly indicated your appreciation outside of his looks in the conversation that was going on before she became
toxic so wtf. Sounds like she felt threatened by your amount of love and knowledge so she went defensive. You're definitely allowed to like him physically and people who try to judge your love by calling it superficial as soon as you mention physical attraction are smallminded brats. For what it's worth, it sounds like you deserve him more than her anyway imo. Chin up,
nonnie!
No. 252024
>>251940Kek is his personality chill like Genji from Overwatch? They have similar robo-cyborg designs
>>251945Hope you enjoy the anime/manga noonie, it's considered shoujo too. And have fun with the fanfiction, maybe we'll see it on AO3 one day
>>252014Did you talk to this person irl or online? Maybe she felt jealous over your love for him too, like how women irl feel jealous over liking the same guy. Maybe you should ask her whether she would still like him if he looked like Shrek (unless Shrek is your husbando)
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I think, to an extent, if you love your husbando like you would love a real guy, it's a bit normal to feel a bit insecure/jealous of other girls who like him. It kinda makes me sad to know mine would pick all his other yumes over me if he were real but I know he's not really popular in that way and would be very happy to be loved at all.
Our husbandos aren't real and therefore lack inherent male evilness so it's ok to fantasize about them loving us back because why wouldn't it. Girls can dream too. Most real men are convinced that real life sexy 20 year old girls and pornstars are secretly crazy for their dick and they don't feel ounce of shame about it.
He's not really attractive objectively or a good person but I love him and I'm happy he's so loved by very niche portion of girls. It's just nice imagining walking together, cooking for him, making a family, growing old together… Ideally, those are things we could have with real living men but everyone knows how rancid they are. I don't have the energy or mental power to date. I just like my 2D dude. But yeah ''jealousy'' is normal especially if he has a canon love interest. Just accept those feelings for what they are and move on, butthurt will pass (it worked for me).
No. 252043
>>252024>is his personality chill like Genji>robo-cyborg designs Been a minute since I touched anything Overwatch related, but from what I recall they're not too similar. Jhin is a huge egomaniac who craves drama; he basically believes himself to be the embodiment of beauty and perfection. That's just one side of him though of course, there's much I'd have to get into to really explain his full personality, but I definitely wouldn't call him chill as a whole either way kek.
He's also fully human with all limbs intact, he just wears a mask and armor for performances!
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>>252047You don't know how happy that just made me! I'd love to go full sperg for you since it's like a therapeutic release to talk about him to anyone who'll listen tbqh. Is there anything specific you'd like me to get into? If not I'll happily just word vomit everything I can think of, hopefully keeping it cohesive enough kek. I've never been very good at articulating myself, but i won't let that hold me back now!
No. 252160
>>252154NTA, but I'm excited to read it,
nonnie.
No. 252187
>>252041Yeah. Sometimes I think mean thoughts about other girls who like him, like "If she thinks she loves him the most, she's wrong" or "Forget her, I'm the one who's perfect for him." Obviously I would never say this to anyones face, and I don't
actually think I'm competiting for the attention of an imaginary person… It just makes the fantasy feel more real. My husbando is canonically possessive of his love interest, anyways, so it seems like it would be insulting to him if I didn't feel the same.
>>252022I haven't learned how to lucid dream yet, but I do have regular dreams of him quite often. My trick is to integrate him into my life as if he was a real person. I imagine his reactions to things, what he would say to encourage and comfort me, places he would want to go, and things in the scenery that he would notice. Sometimes I literally talk to him, with either side of the conversation out loud or just in my head, depending on my mood. And every night before sleeping, I imagine cuddling up with him and plan out different scenarios (e.g. our wedding, going on dates, meeting his family, etc.) until I drift off. That way he's always on my mind. And because dreams are just our daily thoughts being processed and stored, I see him quite often!
No. 252192
>>252041>Our husbandos aren't real and therefore lack inherent male evilnessThis. I was trying to explain to a friend why I love my 2d husbando but hate 3d men and I was trying to say this. And for some reason she acted like I was one of those crazy guys who marry their waifus in real life. I'm aware he's not real Susan, I just want a cute guy to fantasize about sometimes that doesn't have the drawbacks of a real man.
>>252187Anon I was thinking about how I could make my husbando appear in my dreams somehow and you've given me ideas.
No. 252202
>>252041I agree
nonnie, I find this similar to religion. If you believe in God, wake up every morning to pray, spend time with God etc. somehow others are expected to "respect" your religion and it's deemed as healthy since it's socially acceptable. But if you like fictional characters, celebrate their birthdays (ffs Christmas is literally Jesus' birthday kek) you're considered crazy and maladjusted. I just like my husbando and he motivates me, just like how a normie guy's favourite sports team motivates him although they could give zero fucks about them, it's not bad at all. I think it's even worse devoting your love into something real (like K-pop stans) while knowing it will never come true. Sometimes I catch myself subconsciously 'judging' other husbandofans and then I realise it's because it's deemed socially bad and change my mindset.
>He's not really attractive objectively or a good person but I love him and I'm happy he's so loved by very niche portion of girls. It's just nice imagining walking together, cooking for him, making a family, growing old together… This is so sweet, I understand you. Twitter and Tumblr are great for finding like-minded fans and yumes, I'm so glad I got into Tumblr. Maybe you can consider creating your own headcanons or drawings about these.
>>252065Not the other nonnies but I want to read it too! It's fun if people splerg about their husbando, I'm hopefully not the other one who reads others' blogs but don't reply much
>>252192I have pretty normal friends who would likely freak if they knew I had this infatuation, since it's socially undesirable.
>And for some reason she acted like I was one of those crazy guys who marry their waifus in real life.Kek, most of the guys who have waifus irl tend to have way nastier problems than girls with husandos, who are surprisingly more socially normal than their male counterparts.
No. 252207
>>252041>to an extent, if you love your husbando like you would love a real guy, it's a bit normal to feel a bit insecure/jealous of other girls who like him.Yeah, I agree, but just to an extent. Since he's not real and doesn't physically exist (something that we're all perfectly aware of), you can definitely share him with other people, which you couldn't do if it were a real person. But since it's almost the same kind of love you could experience with a real person, it's not surprising that feelings of jealousy arise sometimes.
In my opinion, to avoid jealousy as much as possible, you must try not to love him exactly like you would a real guy, and be aware that it's not the same due to the limitations that exist in each case.
>It kinda makes me sad to know mine would pick all his other yumes over me if he were realI've told this to another yumejo elsewhere: everyone has a different interpretation of the same character. Your version of your husbando is different from those of other people who love him. Also, if he were real, he would probably not be perfect, and he could not be shared anymore (you wouldn't be the only one disappointed), plus you can't be completely sure that he wouldn't prefer you or that he would pick someone else. It's better this way, so why worry constantly about something that can't ever happen? This is one of the benefits of 2D, the same rules that exist in real life can't be applied to fictional characters.
>Our husbandos aren't real and therefore lack inherent male evilness so it's ok to fantasize about them loving us back because why wouldn't it.Exactly. In real life, you can't be sure what horrible things a male has done or thought about doing. You can't tell what secrets he hides. But in your imagination, you can imagine that your husbando is a good person, isn't a misogynist, would never watch porn, wouldn't have pedophilic tendencies, etc. and it would be true. At least, as long as the source material doesn't contradict your fantasy.
>I don't have the energy or mental power to date.Same, nona, same.
A moid that used to be my friend many years ago once told me, that having a husbando is a waste of time and energy. I'd say it's preferable to wasting time and energy AND money on a real partner. Unless you spend too much on merch, then it becomes kind of a problem.
It's better to cope with loneliness or with your disgust for real life men by having a husbando than dating a real man and feeling drained, disappointed and/or getting involved in drama or being abused.
>especially if he has a canon love interest. Just accept those feelings for what they are and move on, butthurt will pass (it worked for me).How did you do it?? With canon love interests I just haven't figured it out.
No. 252211
>>252051>I always worry that I've interpreted my husbando completely wrong, so it's hard to talk to people about him that know him well enough.kek, same, that's why I never post him or tell anons who I'm talking about if I post about him. And on other sites I would never dare say he's my husbando. I hate it.
My problem isn't that his content isn't translated, but that he comes from a series that attracts a lot of pretentious retards, mostly male, who usually have childish and shallow interpretations of the series anyway. I don't think any nonas here who are familiar with the source material would be that sort of rude, pretentious fuck, but I'm still afraid of being called silly, accused of not taking it seriously enough, making my husbando OOC, or something like that for loving and fantasizing about him too much. I'm also relatively new to the series so discussing him with more experienced fans would make me feel "inferior", since they know more about him than I do right now.
>>252022This anon shared some tips
>>222804It's similar to what this anon said
>>252187 No. 252215
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I come to you from the depths of a dehydration headache after a day of unexpected errands ready to present to you my 100% authentic Jhin spergfest. I know not all nonas care to read it so I just put it into image form that I'm spoilering because it's literally just an aimless autistic screeching session kek. Hopefully there aren't any size issues and it's readable for everyone!
I'm not good at writing and tbh I didn't even proof read this because it took way longer than I meant it to and I'm not trying to stress over perfecting a sperging sesh, so please forgive any grammar or spelling mistakes. thanks for making my week by giving a shit lovely nonas. I'll of course be willing to elaborate on anything else you might be curious about.
If you wanna check out some official Jhin-related stuff on your own time I recommend the Awaken cinematic, the Mind of the Virtuoso champion trailer and his voice page on the wiki!
No. 252226
>>252211Is this the Adachi anon? If so, here’s my incoming rant about how guys into Persona are annoying insufferable twats, and please let me know why they keep using Adachi and Akechi or Joker as their sole identity and endless profile pics kek. I didn’t play or watch Persona but I know some plot, so don’t hate me for any inaccuracies.
A few years back I was posting heavily on 4chan’s robot board as it had many anime discussions, and one thread asked others to post the anime character they were similar with. I posted an anime girl who I can’t remember, and this Adachi kinnie replied and said it was pathetic I identified myself as a “uwu anime girl” and told me to KMS. I was young and offended so I started to defend myself, which led to a dumb back-and-forth argument. The ironic part was that this incel used a different smug Adachi picture for every reply, with “no u”-tier arguments and endless misogynistic replies. I gave up and closed my browser but it left such a bad taste. I have no idea how guys like these have hundreds of reaction pics of these Persona characters, it’s a red flag for me now if I spot another guy using an anime pic of a cynical or nihilistic character.
No. 252249
>>252215You're so passionate about him, I love it! Honestly you're inspiring me to do a big write up about my husband too… I think I'll make a fan website/character shrine like it's 2007.
Thank you for sharing! Your
autism enthusiasm is infectious
No. 252300
>>252215I appreciate your dedication, Jhinfren. The most I've written about my husbando has been a couple oneshots and a notes document so I can keep him in character, but seeing you write such a long and dedicated text on him makes me want to continue and develop my self insert fanfic more, perhaps even a shrine dedicated to him just like
>>252249.
>>252226>guys into Persona are annoying insufferable twatsGod, I can relate. I used to be lurking on that community back when I had a crush on a boy from that series
(Door-kun, to be exact), and hoo boy, the moids in that community were more often than not Reddit tier, and this was with me mostly staying quiet and just enjoying my love for him by myself instead of telling everyone online about it. From what I saw of the community, they were also obsessed with Adachi and comparing him to Akechi, which got stale at pretty much the speed of light.
No. 252305
>>252226No, nona, sorry, I'm not Adachi anon lol
But I think it's a huge red flag from the get-go if a guy avatarfags as that kind of character; afaik, Adachi
is a psycho/sociopath and murderer and hates women. But let's wait for an Adachifag or Persona fan to explain better.
>I have no idea how guys like these have hundreds of reaction pics of these Persona charactersTo be fair, that board is a glorified chatroom for social rejects and losers with too much time. When you avatarfag in one place for too long, you have a collection of reaction pics of that character for every situation. Also, there are probably thousands of different pics where Adachi is smug. All of this together results in what you saw. It would be hilarious if the scrote was an actual kinnie who really believed he was the character lmao.
I've never seen a moid do that with my husbando, or with any other character from his series, for that matter, maybe because it's not that popular or because I avoid the fandom as much as I can, but I honestly don't think many incels would avatarfag as him. At worst, it would be pretentious men who think they're 2smart4u.
OK now that I think about it it's possible that an insufferable incel would LARP as him, since the series does attract elitist weeb right-wing scrotes and there's one infamous example of this that I know of, it's sickening to know that someone as disgusting as that has thought or talked about my husbando and now I understand other nonas whose husbandos are reduced to self-inserts by moids all the time>>252215Kek, this is so lovely, I enjoyed reading it a lot. I thought you'd post your thoughts as text in this thread but I loved the presentation (the background is too dark though). I think you've inspired me to do the same. Loved the content, loved your writing.
The part where you described him physically made me think about my infatuation with Yakuza 0 Majima, lol.
I hope you feel better, by the way.
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>>252215I know nothing about LoL but I loved reading this and seeing your passion for Jhin! Hopefully you feel better now and can write some more because I'd love to see a part two. I respect your dedication so much.
No. 252339
>>252226>>252300i'm the anon who posts adachi a lot and i'm not going to argue he's not basically an incel but you need to keep something in mind: he is extremely loved by women only in Japan, not men. All his spin off appearances are a result of how popular he is with japanese girls, his character after the initial ps2 game was written by a woman (who probably really loves him). I get that feeling because there's a special ending focused on him in P4's rerelease; Persona 4 Golden and it has an extremely similar plot to many fanworks which precede it. Not to mention the fighting game spinoff, the dancing spinoff, the mangas etc…
I understand why someone not into Persona wouldn't understand why women are into a
misogynistic killer but he's just very cute, endearing and relatable. He's a wage slave who's tired of his shitty life in the countryside while being a total klutz. I love him a lot but that's beside the point.
Anyway, men who post adachi on 4chan (i dont really go there but im going to assume based on what i know) haven't actually played Persona 4 or totally reduced him to his small incel side to make him fit into western standards of what an incel is.
I understand disliking him or men who post him but most female adachifags are super kind, nice, talented and supportive. There are plenty of girls who like sephiroth or whatever, we aren't different. It feels dinsingenous to write off the immense love women have had for him for nearly 14 years (as well as the creative works he channeled) because of edgy underage 4chan retards. For instance, a Korean woman who started off her career writing BL doujins featuring him now works on her own otome game. Beyond the nature of his actions as a character in the game (he's not real so honestly idc about morality), i think he had a good impact on real life women who became obsessed with him for x or y reason
often trauma related to real moids. Schizo moment but he improved my life a lot since i found out about him a long time ago so it makes me sad males ruin his image.
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>>252300>>252305>>252325>>252249Gosh, you're too sweet! I wish I could invite you all over for tea so we could all sperg about our husbandos together, no holds barred. I'm genuinely thrilled to hear that you're motivated to write about your own men, so please do! I love witnessing how different people express their passions because that's usually when they're happiest. Each person's love is truly unique, even if it's regarding the same character and my autistic, sentimental ass lives for that type of shit. So sperg on, nonas!
Lemme just respond to a couple specifics now.
>(the background is too dark)So sorry! Will keep that in mind in case I do this again, I forget that some people's screens may run darker than my own kek. Thanks for the feedback and I hope to see your write-up soon! (I'm feeling much better btw thank you)
>I'd love to see a part two. I respect your dedication so much.Very tempted to do a part two, so I probably will when I've some more free time. I can't even explain how happy I am to see my love getting through to people who aren't even into the subject matter. Thanks for taking the time to write what you did. I sincerely appreciate you and the other anons who took the time to read it!
No. 252440
>>252339It's really nice to see that Japanese women love Adachi so much, nonna. To be honest, even back during my little Persona phase I wouldn't believe there were women in love with Adachi, but now I honestly envy your and other girls' dedication to him.
I also really hate it when I see other fans ruining my husbamdo, although in his case it's less moids and more women that have barely played his games and Aydens who infantilize and/or skinwalk him.
No. 252461
>>252456it means someone who doesn't experience romantic or sexual attraction. (or well, it's supposed to mean that)
now people consider that both of these terms are actually a "spectrum" of several microlabels, all of which are in fact mental illness symptoms
No. 252465
>>252456What
>>252461 said, but I'm guessing maybe its because ur husbando is not overtly sexual or shows interest in relationships much (I could be wrong). Even irl ppl like that just get a label slapped on them instead of just assuming they have a low libido or just aren't interested for whatever reason.
No. 252467
>>252456I'm afraid of my husbando getting that label and being justified tbh
I don't want to think that me falling in love with
and wanting to fuck him is dumb or unrealistic or that I'm ignoring his canon personality
No. 252521
>>252467You can really just ignore it and imagine yourself as the exception or something.
Plenty of nonas here have husbandos that would just kill them if they were limited to being strictly in character. Or husbandos that have canon love interests. Honestly most characters need some subtle deviation from canon in order to be compatible with romantic/sexual fantasies, for a huge variety of reasons.
My husbando wouldn't be interested in a relationship given his backstory and the fact that he doesn't age. But we are in love and married anyway because I make the rules.
Remember, you know your husbando better than anybody else.
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>>252521Well I prefer to stick to canon as much as possible for my fantasies, but I suppose what I'm doing is already a deviation from canon: look for any possible chance at making him fall for me, and inserting myself in the story at the right moment.
>Remember, you know your husbando better than anybody else.No, actually I don't… and it makes me feel like shit. I'm sure all the thousands of fans who have been into his series for years, or even decades, know him better than I do, and have much more to say about him than I do. I'm
>>252305 by the way, I found a pseudo-roleplayer on YouTube who made a channel just for him (I subscribed, kek) and reading the comments in his/her videos made me feel dumb compared to the fans who know more about him. Instead of agreeing with them, or finding the content of that channel cool, I just felt inferior and a bit jealous (even though I
know I would do the same for him if I could). Tomorrow, or the day after tomorrow, the feeling will probably be gone, though.
Not just because of that, but also since I'm a loser in real life I feel like I'm not worthy of him.
No. 252653
>>252456>people headcanoning your waifu with random labelsI feel you, nonna. I once saw somneone calling my husbando aroace as well, I fucking laughed given how having a crush on another 'character' is an important part of his character.
The fandom also seems to collectively agree on him being bisexual over a one-time visual gag in one of the games in which the other party (which is also by many considered to be bi or even gay) is basically confirmed to be straight through his reactions to it.
And people who ship them together also often slap the 'polyamorous' label into my husbando too, nevermind that his actions through the first game imply he's very overprotective and closer to the jealous side of the scale.
For extra labeling and projection points, they make him an Ayyden too. It's almost like a litmus test to see if a fan of him is a TIF or not.
Since I'm a compulsive hoarder I typically save the art too, but Photoshop it both so my lover looks the way he actually is and to spite the Gaydens.
No. 252705
>>252685i pretty much imagine i'm the girl he's one sidedly obsessed with because she's kinda objectively ugly. The fact makes it easy to project yourself. But instead of rejecting his advances, I imagine I fully embrace them kek. I'm a degenerate.
It's kinda difficult to imagine myself into his world. I'm too insecure as a person.
No. 252709
>>229496This is the one thing that keeps me from going 3DPD and returning to my waifus. It doesn't help that most female characters I like (and women I like in real life, oops) tend to be built a certain way that makes me feel gross even though I'm pretty average. My "waifuism" or whatever always seemed closer to being a stan of a celeb than imagining myself in a relationship because I feel unworthy as both myself or an idealized self-insert.
>>252706>I'm not sure I'd even go about finding one. Like is there any good method to start looking for new characters that resonate with you?I personally have a "type" so if I see someone on social media or an imageboard post a character that checks my boxes (or just seems interesting) I tend to check it out. But it's similar to my interest in actual people where I need some kind of visual hook, since I know other characters that check my boxes personality-wise that I'm "ehhh" over. It's shallow, but I'm just like that
No. 252724
>>252685I started out as myself. But honestly it’s just boring and it’s a fantasy place for me to escape. So I have an oc with a different name, different life/back story, different career, she looks like me (maybe a little hotter kek) but the whole point for me is to escape.
This might be schizo but my oc is much more confident than I am(socially), more out going, and it’s actually rubbed off on me in real life. I still struggle with depression and anxiety. But it’s definitely lessened especially socially and at work. And I think my oc and husbando have helped in that regard. It’s not a sci-fi realm - very modern and I think that helps.
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>>252708Having a husbando is not so much my bag anymore, but I follow anzujaamu and she has a cute bf who supports her and doesn't care about the fact she is absolutely obsessed with some of the Final Fantasy guys/has lots of merch/thirsts over them. A good man will know he's lucky to be in your life at all and should be able to deal with appreciation for a fictional character. That being said you shouldn't just get a partner to satisfy your mom, only if you find a good match you're actually interested in. It's your life to live, not hers.
No. 252752
>>252706I've definitely felt like that with previous fictional crushes, whether it might due to other people ruining that character for me, me realizing that I didn't truly love them or just time passing. My recommendation would probably be to just keep consooming media, taking it easy and moving on with your life until a new husbando comes to you.
You can do it, anon!
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>>252694Aw thanks
nonnie. I know it's kinda pathetic, but in my imagination I'm a completely different person because I don't think the real me is worth anyone's affection, not even my husbando's.
No. 252788
>>252678I have seen gay crack ship art of some of my guys, but it feels like the trans/weird sexuality headcanon tumblr/twitter weirdos are probably not into western shooters/stealth/action games.
>>252685If I'm not inserting as my create a character game protagonist it's a barely idealized version of myself. Just a little lighter and less anxiety, but the face/name is the same.
>>252774Normies with boyfriends get out~
No. 252845
>>252788>Normies with boyfriends get out~>NormiesWe are in a thread on lolcow about devoting ourselves to our husbandos. I don't think there are normies here,
nonnie.
No. 252868
>>252708My last boyfriend got jealous over the husbando I had when we met, kek. Also I agree with the other nona, you don't need to get a boyfriend if you don't want to just to make your mother happy.
>>252706I stopped liking a husbando I used to love a lot because of shitty experiences I had in the community I was in, and in general losing interest in his series.
I almost never start specifically looking for a new husbando after "breaking up", it just happens naturally for me after a few months, but sometimes there'll be a character I'm aware of that seems to be my type, and I'll watch/play/read just for him. So far this has worked once (with my current husbando).
>>252788>Normies with boyfriends get out~Anon please don't talk like one of those waifufags from 4scrote. Not having to fight over who's a "normalfag" or who's more of a bitter social reject otaku is one of the many reasons lc is better. Many of us frankly don't care about those things.
No. 252881
>>252817I'm in a similar dilemma with one of my husbandos.
First off, some of my old husbandos are 16-18 and I met them when I was that age, but I hate lewding them beyond what their source material already does, so I don't have any problem with still considering them my (ex) husbandos and gushing over them.
But I do sexualize this other guy, and he's much more recent. And to deal with that, since his exact age is not stated, I headcanon him as being about 18, or at least 17 (it'd be great if his age was revealed to be 18+ though).
Though I do think that when I grow older, I'll have to grow out of them, too, because it'd be too creepy for me. Luckily this has happened already with some other characters that I was in love with in my late childhood and early teens, so I don't think it'll be a problem to move on in the future. They'd be like "past boyfriends" instead of "little brothers" to me.
>>252850>I'm one of those autists sticking religiously to canon and I'm not interested with a different representation of my husbando, I even get weirded out when he is drawn with a different haircut so I can't imagine him a different age.kek, same. It'd even feel weird if he was drawn in a different art style.
>or I'll have a different one close to my age.I can't imagine this tbh. My current/main husbando is in his late 30s but I don't even know if I'll be alive at that age, and honestly it's not that easy finding a husbando that is older than that, because most male characters in the media I like are younger. But if, by some miracle, we're still "together" by the time I turn 40, it'd be pretty easy to imagine him older because I don't feel there's that big of a difference between 35 and 45 years old for example.
>>252837>Thankfully my main husbando is 50+ so I've got time with him lolI wanna know who it is! No. 252885
>>252866I have several who are battling for the number two spot. I dedicate time to each of them, I feel like "hanging out" with different husbandos each day. Though an anon in the hornyposting thread gave me an idea that I might or might not draw with two of them.
>>252882>For the first time in years I have 2 husbandos from the same series cause I just couldn't pickNTA but I have two husbandos from the same game and I wish they interacted more in canon, it was this close to showing what they're like when they're competing for the same girl. I wouldn't want them to do each other though.
>I am thinking about drawing a doujin with this scenario. But it's so degen…Do it!
No. 252892
>>252891Not related at all, I hate incest. It's just that for the first time I have fujo and yume fantasies combined lol
>>252884>>252885Thanks for the motivation, nonas!
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>>252866I have three and they're all from the same series, though they've never met each other in canon. I just call it a harem and we're all satisfied with that, so they can be with me and each other. Win win.
>>252881If u wanna get technical he's only a few minutes old onscreen, but he's born middle aged so I'm working with that.
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>>252817I used to have younger crushes but that was when I was a teen, so I would crush on fellow teen characters. Thankfully my husbando is 18 physically but has lived for over 200 years (ironically starting to sound like those “she’s 1000 years” gross weebs lol), so there’s no way I will outlive him heh.
I’ve also seen ship fanart of him taking care of the other character as they age and it’s so sweet, seeing the tender expression he has as he takes care of the human partner, I immediately self-insert into those images hehe. You can use ship art as your personal daydream scenarios too! It’s very fun
>>252592Instead of seeing other fans as competition for him, you can try thinking of it as an opportunity to meet new friends over shared interests and feeling proud that he’s so well-liked! Remember that almost every fan has their different interpretation of him, so what you like about him can be very different from what fans love.
> I'm a loser in real life I feel like I'm not worthy of him.You can try thinking of your husbando as your motivational force instead of comparing yourself to him, like those ‘Do it for her’ posts. Try to set out some personal goals you enjoy and want to accomplish, go out and do it, and imagine him as an encouraging figure.
Let’s say you want to meet new people, instead of beating yourself up for being a shut-in, gently ease yourself into those social activities and imagine him smiling at you, encouraging you as you talk to others. Of course don’t start talking to air, but summon him as a psychological force of unconditional love and support. You can do it!
No. 253205
I have 500 versions of my husbando in my head, one for when I imagine I live with him in his world, one for when I imagine he lives in my world with me, one for when I imagine living in a dystopian future, one for when we live all alone on a spaceship, one for when I imagine I'm a pokemon trainer… I've always liked to daydream about all sorts of stuff so I bring him along with me kek.
I wrote this because I hoped to inspire anons who think about the same thing all the time like I used to. Take your husbando on a vacation to another world with you
>>209728I didn't answer these questions before but it seems fun,
>When did you become husbando-only and why?When I fell in love with him, last summer. I am husbando only because I really like him as if he's a real person, and I don't like anyone in reality. I've only ever liked one guy in highschool, and since then I haven't met anyone that I like.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?Of course, nobody would get it anyway
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?None, I don't care for merch anyway, but I draw him a lot and I'm going to make a sculpture of him in clay. As soon as I find some wire for a frame…
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?I'm not sure, maybe if I really liked him, but even then I don't know if I could force myself to be in a romantic relationship, such things make me want to run away
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?I think of him every night before I fall asleep. Sometimes I remember him in random moments and think about what he would say if he was around. I often imagine he is with me when I shower kek and of course
when I touch myself>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lolNo, not really. But I try to learn a little about things related to his work so I can understand him better
No. 253316
>>253308He dies in the very last episode/chapter so it didn't affect me that much.
It also helps that I spoiled his death for myself, I was disappointed when I read itI just fantasize about meeting him a couple of years before that and enjoying our relationship until the day he dies. Like I've said in some other thread (or this one, I forgot), I like to imagine how I'd react when I get the news of his death, and what would happen afterward. Or about him miraculously avoiding his death, or doing it on purpose just for me lol
I like to think about every possible scenario
No. 253319
>>253316I'm sorry to hear that,
nonnie. Was he the antagonist? You're more courageous than I am, the idea of loving a dead character is so painful to me. I hope they bring him back in the story if that's what you wish.
No. 253354
>>253319>Was he the antagonist?It's a bit hard to explain but not really, he was just hated by everyone in canon.
Now that I think about it, his death was inevitable. Maybe that's why it wasn't that hard for me to accept it, you know?
>I hope they bring him back in the storyNot that I'd want it, but there's no way that's happening, lol. It's a really old series.
No. 253401
>>253385By imaging a good and loving relationship, I now feel more worthy of love and care from others irl.
>>253399Thank you for starting it nona!
No. 253405
>>253385Sounds lame but I feel less alone when I think about someone who loves me (even if it's just in my head). When I'm doing anything I picture him as my own personal cheerleader, encouraging me to do my best. And I don't have to apply my usual scrote suspicion mode that I usually have in relationships because he doesn't have any of the drawbacks of a real man.
>>253399Bless you Nona! I love all you fellow husbando enjoyers.
No. 253614
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>>253611Sometimes I feel schizo too but actually them not being real is better than them being real and live celebrities or actors or singers or whatever. It's a completely harmless parasocial relationship as long as you acknowledge he's not real. I think being obsessed with a real person (kpop singers for example) that won't ever reciprocate your feelings or acknowledge you exist is more harmful overall.
I hope I find a man like him in real life someday. That's my biggest wish
No. 253626
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bump, scrotes posting gore
No. 253818
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I feel like I'm constantly cycling who my waifus of the week are, Idk I just imagine the differences in personality and how that would change the dynamics. I swear I would never cheat on anybody irl I just have ADD and can't focus on one fantasy kek
No. 253954
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Do any people irl know you have a husbando? And if they do how much of your love for them have you been open about?
Nobody except some ppl online know I even have husbandos, they just think I'm a casual anime fan. All my pictures of my husbandos are in hidden folders and I rarely mention him when talking about the show he's in.
No. 253959
>>253818Who are your different waifus? I used to like Noodles but it seems like the artist has been making her lewder as she aged up, which is disgusting (I know 2D wore the Hello Kinky shirt firsta but seeing her wear it feels so gross)
>>253954No, the people in my university are largely frat normies, and I've learnt the hard way that guys who like anime are walking red flags. I largely engage with fans online through fanart and fanfiction.
No. 254011
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we need to post more of these
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No. 254019
>>253954>Do any people irl know you have a husbando?I only really talk about it with my online friends. If I came out IRL about the, they'd basically treat that as a joke, which a friend who knows about my beloved (but not the extent of my love for him) does already.
>>253989>You ever also want to be like your husbando. I think my husbando is to some degree or another kind of a role model for me, but it is more in the we would learn from each other way than anything. Unfortunately, I've seen a couple fans of his character try to skinwalk him, usually through kinning, and it honestly sounds cringe and like a bad way to cope with being chronically online.
>>254011Hey,
nonnie, I was the one behind that picture! I feel really glad to see my own Valentines' Day photo posted on here of all places, it really makes me feel that it's a small world after all when I need it the most. Thank you very much!
No. 254092
>>253954>Do any people irl know you have a husbando?My therapist (I asked her about this "lifestyle") and my little sister, maybe my parents/aunts too although I haven't told them about the current one I have. Some of my younger cousins also knew about previous husbandos. My exes and real-life friends most likely can tell that I have a new husbando from my profile pic.
>And if they do how much of your love for them have you been open about?I used to show my parents, when I was a teen, how much I loved my husbando. I mean, they saw me bake a fucking cake and take a shrine photo once. But I don't think they're aware that I'm still into this sort of thing, I'm more lowkey about it in real life nowadays. My little sister can probably imagine how it really is, though, as can my exes and some of my friends who used to give me gifts like posters of my husbandos.
I just don't bring it up anymore.
I have met a few people (mostly 4chan user scrotes and female weeb convention-goers) who understood waifuism.
>>253989I want to be like him in that I want to be successful, disciplined and more ambitious. I feel like I wouldn't deserve him, but I'm finding it hard to improve myself.
>>254054Can't you just put it in your bedroom or just make it to take a photo? Or do you want everyone to see it?
No. 254175
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How do I dream of him
No. 254189
>>254170I was the anon who brought up writing an entire story around my husbando/a character that expanded on my husbando and his personality. What I'd say is just think about all the character traits you like/enjoy in a person and just jam them together into your ultimate oc donut steel husbando. Don't be afraid of being derivative to start off with, you can always improve your characters to be more unique later on. Besides, all fiction is derivative in a sense.
To picture my characters in a more concrete way, I used to make them in Artificial Academy 2, which is a kind of scrotey game but I loved the character creator for just simulating my boys.
No. 254325
>>254170another oc husbandofag here, i created my boy as a tragic but unlikeable villain kind of guy but i fell in love with him kek. to be honest i didnt care for him when i first created him, but as i wrote more details about his character i could feel myself falling for him. our 3 year anniversary was actually about a week ago, and i still feel the same gushy fluffy feelings about him as i did when i first started crushing on him.
as for the creating your own husbando part, id say fool around a bit on character creators like picrew if youre having trouble thinking of the appearance aspects of him, and just put all your favorite character traits on him like other nonnas said. if youre worried about him not being well-rounded or realistic, you can add a few imperfections too. but if you want a sexy perfect dreamboat gary stu, nobodys gonna judge you and if they do tell them to suck it
once upon a time i was worried about being cringe, but i gradually learned to let go and ive never felt so free and happy since No. 254872
>>254869I'm
>>252758 I know exactly how you feel
nonnie. But the real you is still worth love and affection despite how you may feel about yourself. I try not to make up someone else as a stand in in my fantasies anymore and just use myself, embellished a bit, but still me.
No. 255055
>>254869>Do you prefer to be yourself or do you make up someone completely different?My husbando is a psycho that would probably plot to kill me the moment I caught his attention, so my self-insert is an immortal being. She has vast wisdom due to how many lives she's lived, can speak every language present in that universe and has proficiency in various forms of art as well as battle. She wears various region-specific things to cover the extra eyes on the right side of her face. They're imbued with magic which balances her power, allowing her to hide her true form; a celestial being with the literal souls of the damned trapped in said eyes, which she can then make do her bidding. She can't take lives, can't have her own taken and is therefor denied the beauty of an eternal sleep. She is essentially purgatory in human form and my way of taking control over my fears of the harsh realities of life and the uncertainties of death. There's in-universe logic behind everything I've mentioned so it's grounded in that reality because fuck ours lol.
Silly? Mary Sue? Don't know them. I only know the badass bitch I made with my own brand of creativity that ticks all the boxes of what I feel keep me with my husbando the longest. Your self insert can be whoever you want and you deserve to be exactly who you want to be in your minds no matter who or what makes you feel otherwise.
No. 255059
>>254869I don't imagine a different character instead of me, I just imagine myself exactly as I am, but I made up a sort of a different world or story. So, I imagine I met him before he got a dangerous job and that I moved to his country with my mom because we inherited a house and now he is my neighbor. So that I can imagine a sort of normal life with him. I like that better than imagining not seeing him all day because he's shooting people up. I mean there is a thrill in that too, but then since we'd have less time together I can't imagine inviting him over for pancakes, having him watch me paint and trying to get him to paint too, sitting on a swing and relaxing in his arms, going camping or shopping together…
>>255055That's so epic
No. 255862
>>254869My yume self has the same values and interests as my real self, but she's way prettier, smarter, and richer lol. At first I tried just importing my real self into my husbandos universe with as few changes as possible, but then I remembered I can do whatever the hell I want and made my OC way cooler than my actual self. If nothing else, it gives me something to aspire to and work towards.
>>255055That's so cool! Makes me wish my husbando was from a more fantastical universe so I could create lore like that.
No. 255992
>>255978Do it
nonnie. Don't let your dreams be dreams
No. 256043
I may be going a little mad now that I think about it, but yesterday I went on a walk and thought of my husbando holding my hand and talking to me, and now when I think back about my walk my mind tells me he was with me, I don't know if this is concerning but I half wish I could become so deluded I would actually see him
>>255978I want to make a small one but seriously if you don't know how to sculpt yet you should learn, how amazing would it be to learn a craft for your love. I tried to make a clay rabbit for practice and yeah it sucked I have a long way to go. But I got some books about sculpting on zlibrary (a site to download free books, I will never stop shilling it) and I realized I failed at step 1: make an armature first.
No. 256048
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The merch I have of my husbando is split 25/75 between a small itabag and a medium sized shrine. The shrine merch looks messy and uncoordinated and I was thinking of buying a bigger itabag and putting all of the merch inside of it. But then I'd have no shrine…any ideas? Picrel isn't mine and it's not my husbando but it's kind of similar to my messy shrine.
No. 256052
>>256047No, it's not Chandra. She's actually not even a "character" in the MTG lore, per se. She's literally just one of the thousands of creature cards with no fleshed out character arc (which I actually prefer because without a prewritten narrative, I can easily imagine her personality and such to be whatever I wish it to be without potential canonical conflicts). Other than the card format, the art of her is also printed on various merch, such as portfolios and card sleeves.
I won't say what card it is though, because the creator/artist of the art is a well-known famous fantasy artist who is very active online, and I wouldn't want word to get around, even though he'd likely be okay with it. I also don't want to risk anyone else deciding to "waifu" her by publicizing her more (I already get jealous when I see others thirsting after her card art online).
No. 256064
>>256043>yesterday I went on a walk and thought of my husbando holding my hand and talking to me, and now when I think back about my walk my mind tells me he was with meTried this just now and it made me feel super happy. I thought about how he's such a gentelman, he'd definitely stay on the outer half of sidewalk, so I needed to keep my left hand free for him. And when we sat down to rest he'd absolutely put his arm around my shoulder to 1) show everyone we're together, and 2) keep me warm since it was a little windy. I swear I felt myself relaxing as if I really got to lean on him and rest my head on his chest… I love him so much.
It also inspired me to imagine an AU where he lives in my world and we go to all the same places. Not as interesting as the other worlds and daydreams I've come up with, but definitely a nice way to pass the time when I have to be aware of my surroundings/grounded in the moment.
>>256055Tip: leave the name field empty. You don't have to write "Anon"
No. 256158
>>252837I'm getting older too as I will be 32 this year. I've headcanoned my fictional other as approx 12 years older than me, so she's in her 40s now.
I just imagine her aging alongside me in real time, and get art commissions to draw her as older every couple years. You don't need to give up on your husbando/waifu just because you're aging and they're not (which they really can't either way because they're fictional characters).
No. 256199
>>252459Asexuality simply means someone who does not experience sexual attraction. They can still have a libido (and hence will masturbate). And they can still have sex with another person, in which case they will do so only because they enjoy the physical feelings of partnered sex and aren't actually attracted to the other person.
Asexuality/aromanticism has nothing to do with Schizoid Personality Disorder. Being Schizoid means you like to be alone 100% of the time, whereas people who are asexual/aromantic can still enjoy being around others as friends and family.
No. 256262
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>>256224You're not insane, you're just doing what makes you feel happiest and you're hurting no one. Giving "in love and cute" vibes imo!
>>256255I can't tell if serious but we don't usually husbando shame here,
nonnie. We're all just here to be autistic weebs together without judgment.
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>>256255I burst out laughing irl reading this comment, are you a Rengoku fan? I get why people hate him but I want to know why you personally hate him too hehe
No. 256615
>>256603The tulpa thing is all a larp, it's not real. The only way to get schizo tier hallucinations is to do tons of drugs and then of course you have no control over what you see.
I know it's sad not being able to see or touch him, but it's just not possible.
No. 256641
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Have you tried using lucid dreaming to interact with your husbando?
No. 256667
I've never wanted to have children, but I've been reading books about crafting and they have instructions for children's clothes and toys and quilts and the lovely descriptions make me want to sew a toy for a child and see its smile, so I imagine my husbando and me adopted a child and I sew toys for her and he plays with her making silly voices for the toy, and he goes off to work in the morning while we stay and I do chores and my own work and help her study, until he comes back and I give him a kiss and she runs up to him so he can pick her up. I can't stop thinking about living with him lately, I think I've been spending too much time inside my own head
>>256641No, but I will look into it, thanks
No. 257145
>>256603>I've been seriously considering creating a tulpa recently but I don't know if I'm ready to go full schizo yet. I just want him next to me, I want to touch him and see his smileAs
>>256615 said, tulpas are pretty much a LARP. I technically have a tulpa of my husbando, but in practice he's just a mental concept of him that I created in my mind and is advanced enough to feel like something just real enough. And trying to make him "real" through imposition is actually something that is pretty hard to achieve, especially if you want to see him.
I personally can hear him decently enough and have managed to become able to imagine sensations in the body, but even that is pretty hard to do and requires months of practice.
>>256641I've tried, and while my dreams have been getting better ever since I frist met him, I don't really see him often. I see people I know IRL far more often, and I wonder why.
>>257090Sounds based nona. I really wish I owned the giant plushie of my husbando right now…
No. 257406
>>257145I've also achieved creating a solid concept of him in my head. I'm not that far yet where I could feel any sensations.
Though I've always been 'weird' (read: probably autistic) and there's not been a time in my life when I didn't do this. I live inside my head a lot.
>>256641 It's been a while since I had lucid dreams about him. Often they're just regular dreams and we won't interact at all. Sometimes they're almost nightmare-like dreams where he is dangerous and scary. I still like those dreams too.
No. 257575
>>257527I get stuck with how to creatively channel my husbando in a way that feels right yet I never thought of trying something like this! I think it'll be a good compromise for my perfectionist brain that won't ever be satisfied with anything I draw or write. Thanks for sharing
nonnie.
>Is it still positive self talk if I attribute it to an anime character?Imo yes because it's all stuff you're getting from within your own mind space either way. We all have different ways of coping with life and honestly I think you're a genius for this technique. I never would have thought to do something like this myself!
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>>257575I'm glad to be of inspiration to you Anonita! I hope that you enjoy this technique and it helps you become closer to your love. Journaling is a really great coping mechanism for anyone to try, but I feel it's even more healing when I can intertwine the act of writing my feelings with unrelated things that serve only to make me happy.
I'm also a bit perfectionistic (and my husbando extremely so kek… I try to live up to his standards) so I thought I might share some ideas on how I deepen the immersion.
>All my entries are digital for ease of customisation>I add pictures of him to every entry so he's at the forefront of my mind>His words go first, as a sort of prompt ("Anon, how was your day? Tell me about X…" etc.)>Whenever possible I include his canon dialogue >I made a font of my own handwriting with a free calligraphy website, and then found a fancy script for his>My text is always aligned left, his aligned right, to further illustrate that it's a dialogue between two distinct parties>Sometimes he signs off with his name as if it's a more traditional letter>But if I want to write a back and forth conversation, no such closing is neededIt's kind of like a one-sided exchange diary… in a super based Stacy kind of way.
No. 258084
>>258020How about a little reminder of him, like a sticker on your phone/wallet/stuff you use daily or going to the print shop and printing your own keychain/badge/phone case?
You could also go the extra mile and make an itabag. It's also good to immerse in the environment instead of full daydreaming tho I relate
>>258079Same I also listen to ASMR or Y/N x [insert character] clips on YouTube, it's much harder to find if the character is niche. So if your fav is from BNHA, just hop in and join all the fangirls listening in lol
No. 258089
>>258084>ASMR or Y/N x [insert character] clips on YouTubethe last time i tried listening to that shit
none of the voices sounded like my husbando. it sounded like some shitty dub parody, even worse than the official english dub, and like a third of the other results had a male Y/N/male listener (probably for aiden fans). anyway all of that annoyed me so much i gave up on searching.
No. 258170
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I'm going to get married to my husbando wearing this and you anons are all invited! Free cake and booze.
No. 258175
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>>258170Cute dress! I don't know what I'm wearing but obviously I'm bringing my husbando as my +1, and I think he'd look super hot in this. Maybe we'll have matching outfits somehow. What's on your wedding register nona? It's a bit last minute but I'll gift you a very cool plushie.
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>>258170You had me at cake nonita. Can I bring more than one husbando? I don't want anyone getting jealous if I pick only one. We'll all bring gifts and hype.
No. 258198
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>>258111R-18 Otome CDs are an absolute gift. I hope you like the one you bought! I'm still so upset Soundcloud started taking all R18 content off their site cause it was the only place I could listen to em.
>>258170I'll be there
nonnie! Can I bring my own cake to share with fellow celiac-chans?
No. 258202
>>257527>>257601This is based as fuck and sounds extremely cute and fun. I gotta try it.
Right now I'm learning HTML and was thinking of practicing by making a website about all my husbandos. Maybe I'll do this too.
>>258020The thing about feeling pain when you're not "with" him is a bit concerning and might mean you need to go to therapy, but in the meantime, why not bring your favorite pics of him on your phone so that you can look at them when you miss him? Or is it absolutely necessary for it to be a physical object? Personally, in the past, I've used pics on my phone to feel like he's with me on a date.
>>258111>the voice actor sounds exactly like my husbando in itYou're so lucky nona, is it the same voice actor ir just a random guy that happened to sound like him? I've seen a
porn actor that sounds like how I imagine one of my husbandos would sound like
during sex lol
No. 258337
>>258198I'm also upset about Soundcloud, they deleted my entire account because I would share nice otome stuff I've bought. And now I can't find my absolute favourites from other's upload anywhere.
>>258202It's the same voice actor! The character and situation in the CD has nothing to do with the character I like though, so it felt weird to listen to. But I got to hear him moan and pant a lot he he
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>>258170I will gift you 117 dollars so you can always have a great married life,
nonnie, I will also bring my favorite husbando of the week, the other boys will understand.
He’s a bit autistic and retarded but I promise he won’t make a noise during the celebration, he also has to wear this outfit because he likes the makeup he pairs it with.
No. 258383
>>258337NONITAS.
If you miss listening to your fav sexy tracks on Soundcloud, turns out there is a Telegram group you can join that has a ton of CDs. It's called "Japanese ASMR Fast Forward".
I found Namidame vol 2 again hnnng I'm so happy. And horny No. 258501
>>258170That's an adorable dress
>Free cakeFuck yeah I'll wear the fancy dress that my husbando bought for me and also he'll be wearing his military uniform
hhnnnghI'll probably give you a portrait of you and your husbando (oil painting)
No. 258571
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>>258197>>258198>>258359>>258501Thank you nonas! Please, the more the merrier! I can't wait to dance and eat cake with all of you and meet your husbandos.
No. 258573
>>258571Omg
nonny this is fucking cute you look so beautiful in your wedding dress and Chris looks so dapper and handsome, I hope you two will have the best wedding and honeymoon ♥
No. 258719
>>258571I wish you and Chris a beautiful marriage
nonny!
No. 258850
>>258084>>258089>ASMR or Y/N x [insert character] clips on YouTubeImagine even having these… Even if my husbando isn't super obscure, I really wish there were any. But to be honest I do think it'd probably be cringe and definitely wouldn't listen to Ayyden shit.
>>258170>>258571Congrats Nona!! I really like your artstyle, it might be a sketch but it's so well done… really makes me want to draw my husbando and I as well.
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I updated my locket yesterday! Mine has two slots so I was able to put in pics of both my number one and number two husbando. Do you nonas have any physical reminders of your husbandos you keep on you? I love having something to wear so it's like they're always with me.
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I always think of him during mealtimes. I'm a messy eater (it's not cute, I'm not proud, but I can't help it) so I like to imagine him wiping my face for me. Very gently, with a nice soft napkin, looking at me like I'm the most precious thing in the universe. He has a posh upbringing so he would tease me for my bad table manners but never teach me properly because he wants every excuse to dote on me. Maybe he'd even feed me himself…
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i don't want to do any of the things i have to do every other day, but i do them only because i know it would make him proud.
No. 260635
>>260611I think mine does? But it makes me feel overwhelmed to think about hearing his voice acknowledging my existence outside the scenarios in my head. It's not cause I feel undeserving necessarily, but just that it feels like I'm
forcing him to say something irl and that makes me uncomfortable since he's not actually here as a person? Idk I might just be too autistic, who knows. His voice really is quite gorgeous though. I wish I wasn't so embarrassed by literally everything (and also had an extra $100+ to pay for it kek)
No. 260766
>>260693Giving very pure and wholesome vibes here, I appreciate you
nonnie!
>>260738I agree with every part of this, very well put. I listen to his voice lines every day so I think I've got a pretty good internal library by now. It just feels much comfier.
No. 260831
>>260806Aaaaaah holy shit, both of my husbandos' voice actors are on there, I'm screaming right now! Thank you!
But I'm poor… And seeing the VAs on video doing my husbandos' voices would be awkward as fuck tbh (especially if I requested something self-insert-y)
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>>260515>>260521Nonas u just gave me the brilliant idea of making keychains with my husbandos in them with those acrylic keychain things you can customize. Why didn't I think of that sooner?
No. 261104
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>>260613thank you,
nonny. his dancing fills me with joy unlike no other. i'd love nothing more than to talk about cars with him.
No. 261642
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>>260861That's great idea, you can bring your husbands with you! I have been planning the same, I have few of these heart shaped ones but haven't made them yet
No. 261826
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I found a genuine leather itabag that I'm really looking forward to carrying daily. I don't want to spend money on merch, so instead I'll make the decorations by hand. Like little yarn dolls, and patchwork recreations of official art with different fabrics. Maybe some embroidery. I haven't been "crafty" like that since I was a child, hopefully I still have a knack for it. If I work on them consistently then it'll be a nice way to unwind before bed, away from electronics, meditating on my husbando so I'll see him in my dreams…
No. 261837
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>When did you become husbando-only and why?
maybe within the past year or two, it developed more strongly recently
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
not at all, my mother supports me and even gets me lil merch of him
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
i have mostly official acrylic keychains, fan made prints, stickers, and some official + fan made plushies
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
yuck, i'd rather kms than date scrotes
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?
i go into my schizo group chats with the besties where we all fuel our 3D men-hating and proceed to fantasize about our scrimblos. I also mostly browse twitter or pixiv for art.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lol
i like being whale motifs stuff because it reminds me of him.
No. 261883
>>261867Just realize that tastes can change, you can get bored of a setting or idea. Even real people fall out of love with their significant others over time when the novelty wears off.
I have some old husbandos that I don't fantasize about anymore because their stories are over and I don't have any more new material to come up with ideas about. Or I just grew out of liking their archetypes. Or I like the character but I can't self insert into their universes or think about them in the real world.
No. 262875
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I'm getting some fresh content of my husbando soon! This teaser image dropped today and even though it's just his hand I'm beside myself with excitement!! It's so cool to see something such as the ammo for his weapon given such detail, it really just makes me adore him even more. He puts so much love into his work that even his bullets are finely detailed despite the fact that they're destroyed upon use, never to be admired by anyone until they've already shaped their target's flesh into art itself. It's so poetic… Ugghhh hold me nonas, this is gonna be a long 3 days to wait. I love him so much.
>>262600I think it's cute and also potentially productive for real life situations as a side benefit, so you should learn some if it makes you feel closer to him! I would love to learn my husbando's first language but there are no resources to do so with since it's a made up one.
No. 263330
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>>262600>>262973That makes three of us.
I thought I was falling out of love with him, but it turns out I was just mad that one of his voice lines was buggy and I couldn't hear him say «bonjour» with perfect pronounciation.
No. 263351
>>262600Well, other than Japanese, not that I remember, they all speak either Japanese or English.
I would love my husbando to speak in my native language, though. I'd melt into a puddle.
No. 264406
>>263733like the other anon said, you shouldnt care about views and likes but instead prioritise your own enjoyment when writing.
however i do understand why you would want to share it. im writing a fanfic with a friend about our husbandos being in a love triangle with y/n and recently we hit +30k words. It's so much fun to share and build on each other's ideas. If fandom is dead like you are saying then whoever is left will appreciate the food you'll give em and maybe youll find a person to write with the next piece.
No. 264460
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>>264406>It's so much fun to share and build on each other's ideaswtb cute
nonnie friend also inexperienced in writing to create husbando fics with. This is brilliant!
No. 264901
>>264336this is gonna sound dumb but where do you find artists to commission? like what websites? i don't browse much social media but i suppose i could to find someone to make art of us
my husbando's birthday is a day after mine and that makes me happy.
No. 267003
>>266893I struggle with this often because I'm a perfectionist who constantly needs validation for her work but is also too afraid to show it off. Also not very good at writing, but I've tried plenty of times and have a billion unfinished pieces. It's unfortunate that I can't seem to get away from needing outside approval.. its led me to fantasize about what us husbandofags having a Discord server would be like - I want non-judgmental yumejo friends to validate and get validation from so bad kek.
But as
>>266956 said, it's a marathon, not a sprint! So just do what you can, when you can and remember to always be kind to yourself - your husbando would be flattered either way, I'm sure of it!
No. 267134
>>267118Yeah, same here. I don't really wanna have to make up all that information about him. I can have my own headcanons about his tastes, but not even knowing his birthday and stuff, or really anything outside of what we've seen him do and say, it's frustrating. I don't know how authors/creators usually create their characters but I know that, for example, Hirohiko Araki (I think it was him?) makes a profile full of that information for each of his characters, I wish authors released those character profiles more often. Sometimes I've even thought of asking the creator more about my husbando (if they're still alive, luckily all of my husbandos' creators still are).
>what if a detail I made up about him is far from the official version of himWell, given how rarely that kind of detail is revealed after a series is over, I think you can make stuff up without worrying about your headcanon conflicting with the source.
>>266893Yeah, what the other two nonas said. More is always better when it comes to fanart, so please, draw and post more, I'm sure other people who like your husbando will appreciate it. Some of them might find your style really charming even if you're not a skilled artist. There are people who post art/fanfic that isn't very good, if they have the courage to share it so can you.
No. 267181
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How often do you nonnies look up content of your husbandos? Or do you keep a folder? I'm embarrassed whenever I want to look them up because it's constantly on my search history, so I click on random things related to them to hopefully stumble onto content of them. Supreme autism
No. 267182
>>267181I don't like to look for fanmade content for most of my husbandos. There are several reasons, such as I'm too chicken to look at fanart or see what other people say about them, or that I don't want to start hoarding pictures like I used to (plus I lost all my fanart collections when my hard drive crashed, so I'm still kinda sad about it). But for some of my husbandos, I also just sorta hope to stumble upon something new when searching for something related to them.
What I do is keep a folder full of screenshots I take of them.
No. 267224
>>267134I feel better now that I’m not alone, yeah it sucks.
Araki is awesome, Tenipuri’s Konomi is like that too he gives detailed profiles to his characters even if they appear for 3 chapters.
My husband is from Detective Conan, it feels pointless to ask Aoyama (first of all he gets too many questions) and because even the guys who are popular with Yumes (Amuro and Akai) got asked before about their birthdays, and Aoyama answered something like “I want to know them too (laughs)” it made me feel disappointed haha if the guys who are popular with Yumes didn’t get good answers I’m not expecting anything for my husband.
So as you wrote since I’m not getting any official details about him I think I’m free to make up stuff.
No. 267228
>>267181I've had the same picture on every screen I use daily in my house for over a year now. Desktop background, Chrome background, phone background, tv screensaver and it's also in a tab I've had up since it was released. I look at it every day, and every day it makes me smile. I'm the personification of the "I've looked at this image for 5 hours now" meme, to the extreme lol. Even then I look him up on my usual sites to scope out any new content every day!
>>267072Thank you for this, I had no idea! I only really browse this thread and that of a personal cow occasionally so I never even thought to check other threads for something like this. I seem to be having trouble making a new account but I'll post in the friend finder thread as soon as I figure this out
No. 267465
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I wonder what Jhin Nonnie thinks of the Legends of Runeterra update, where they included him and the new voice actor? (I personally dont enjoy the new voice, but the interactions are awesome)
No. 267590
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>>267465I dislike the new voice actor and some of the art is a liiittle jank + Pulsefire is disgustingly uninspired as a skin imo but I'm overall very happy. A little insulted that this VA seems like he has no passion; it's like he didn't even try or the vocal director didn't care to direct for Jhin specifically. Well, at the end of the day it's still Jhin and I love him multitudes no matter what.
His interactions with Annie are amazing, but what I really want to know is… are those canon? I'm not sure where LoR stands in terms of character interactions in current universe but I seem to recall hearing that everything in this game is canon? I'll have to look further into that. Picrel is one of my favorite interactions with his follower cards - I really want to know how they met and how they interact. My random little headcanon without knowing much is that he picked her outfit (god, I wish that were me)! I haven't gotten to play his story in Path of Champions yet because the unlock system is stupid as hell and based on luck so maybe that has some more indepth info in it. I'm not spoiling myself with videos though, I wanna play it on my own first.
Also it's very sweet that you thought of me, thank you
nonnie. Little things like that make my days a little easier to get through~
No. 267908
This might sound silly, but my husbando helps me with my fitness routine. After getting injured two times, and having an awful case of depression, I really got out of shape. Now, to get back on track I use my husbando as an inspiration. When I work out, I imagine him giving me some fitness advice, or correcting my technique, or working out with me, lol. It's kinda autistic, but it really gets me going. Also, he is a warrior who trained a lot to get good, so I'd imagine he knows a thing or two about fitness. What's more autistic, is that I feel kinda bad that he is a really badass at that regard, while I really neglected my fitness routine. So I try very hard, to be more like him and don't feel embrassing about not being worthy of my husbando.
So yeah, I don't work out for attracting 3DPD. I work out to feel confident when I day dream about my imaginary cartoon husband.
No. 268101
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>>267590Totally agree about the voice, I've been a Jhin main for years and I'm so disappointed with this new VA. Jhin's old voice was dramatic and flamboyant, and he genuinely sounded thrilled and excited to create art. Meanwhile, this new VA sounds so tired and boring, and I don't think his performance with Jhin's typical quips and snide remarks blend well together at all. Hopefully in the future they give the guy better voice direction or else it'll be a little difficult to listen to the lines of Jhin's future ultimate skins…
On a semi-related note, I could have cried from how excited I was over Aphelios's Pulsefire skin. I agree that Pulsefire is a really boring skinline but Aphelios looks so cute here, and it's hard for me to complain about what kind of content he's getting when it's hard to guess when he's next going to get more content at all. Getting Pulsefire directly after EDG was such a shock too, and I'm considering playing LOR just for him (and Alune!)
No. 268143
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>>268101>Hopefully in the future they give the guy better voice directionAs far as I'm aware, Jhin's original VA has been re-contracted by Riot, as in, his wife confirmed he's been paid already this year to continue using his voice. So while I'm not sure what it means for potential future Legendary/Ultimate skins, clearly they don't plan on doing a Lee Sin style swap-up at all. If they were going to do so, they'd have done it by now I believe. Maybe that's just copium on my end but it's keeping me sane as someone who cherishes Jhin more than anything in this world. The original voice just has so much care put into it, so much respect for the character - if the new VA sounded even remotely as passionate I'd have been fine with it but well, we already know how that went.
>Aphelios's Pulsefire skinYou've great taste,
nonnie! Aphelios is my backup main in case of Jhin picks/bans, I just adore him! Pulsefire Shen, Akshan and Aphelios are actually pleasant to look at imo, the only exceptions in the entire skinline. Tbh I'm glad Pulsefire turned out so well for little moon boi and his sister. Even if I hate the skin lin, I am always willing to give credit where it's due. He just looks so cool, and the emote is way too adorable (and honestly so is Jhin's)
No. 269015
>>268571Jhin
nonnie is that you?! I saw that post too, honestly I've seen so many hard-working fans of League churn out content over the years that the write-up getting recognised and rewarded made me kinda salty. I recommend just making art that ties into lore (lorefags eat that shit up) or take the low road with memes and Jhin compilations, but that market is pretty saturated. Jhin is such an interesting character and his lore does him justice, so there's already plenty to work with! Good luck, from Dianaon
No. 269076
>>269015Yes it is me, hello! I agree with being salty about a random write-up getting that kind of attention, but if it means potentially getting Ken Addams to wise up maybe it's not all bad. There've been rumors around lately in regards to him.
Back on topic though, I've tried to draw Jhin and though I've started plenty of pieces I can never bring myself to finish them due to fear of them not being good enough for the perfection he deserves. I know it's silly but I can't help it. Thinking of drawing him often enough to have it noticed on social media makes me so nervous. It's not that I crave validation from the League community specifically, but I maybe rely on it too often when it comes to putting myself out there; not quite sure how to get away from that mindset. I would really love to write up a story or draw a simple webcomic about the lore I made between him, my OC and canon universe events as if he were also included in them. I'm convinced I could make a story worth experiencing but as someone who is simply mediocre at everything she does…. I don't really know where to begin. I have trouble focusing on things for too long even
if they involve Jhin. It's such a curse. Anyway, thanks for reading my vents kek, I appreciate you!
No. 270953
>>270950Hahaha that's fucking awesome, I'm going to start doing that too
>>267224Super late, but
>got asked before about their birthdays, and Aoyama answered something like “I want to know them too (laughs)” it made me feel disappointed haha if the guys who are popular with Yumes didn’t get good answers I’m not expecting anything for my husband.That's so unfair, I'm sorry nona. Now I'm afraid to ask if I ever get the chance lol. But yeah, now you're free to have your own headcanons. You could start by guessing your husbando's zodiac sign.
No. 271515
>>271085>>271135>3D model of husbandoI've had access to a pretty high tier gaming PC since the end of last year and have been considering to use
Blender for husbando-related stuff, but have yet to actually even learn how to use it.
>>271441Gambare
nonny! I'm sure you can do it.
And I also made breakfast for myself today while thinking of husbando. I think he'd really like my cookingeven if I'm still a beginner…
No. 271529
>>271441Ah, that sucks, I'm so sorry nona. I hope you can fix it or at least recover your files in some way.
Ever since I lost my first smartphone and my laptop's HDD crashed a few years ago (I still don't know if it's possible to copy the files in this case but there's a lot of gems there that I haven't been able to find online again) I've started to upload my most precious files to Google Drive, take notes on Google Keep, and write ideas and fanfic on Google Docs. Of course, you could use any other app that you want. But it's important to have a backup, you never know what might happen to your device.
No. 271584
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>>271528When I used to browse the itabag thread on cgl people would pay to have custom buttons/pins made of the characters they were making bags for so maybe you could look into that? Also, cheki(チェキ)/polaroids are a pretty popular type of merch nowadays so you could base your bag around those like picrel and just make them yourself
No. 271675
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>>270947If he happens to come up in a conversation, like talking about the series he's from with coworkers, I will quite literally say, "that's my fictional husband" and chuckle along when others laugh. Then I'll tack on a "I can't be bothered with real men right now" and that's usually enough to get other women to nod their heads in understanding and not pry further. I'm sure it gives them a slightly weird impression of me, but if you play it off with confidence they generally won't bother you. I'm also pretty aloof and serious at work so that plays in my favor too.
On another note, does anyone know any artists that do dakimakura commissions that don't have a butt ugly style are or aren't furries?
No. 273006
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I needed an escape so I reinstalled Stardew and went ham with mods. It wasn't good enough so I hastily edited my husbando over Elliot's portraits and I've been having the time of my life. I'm new to mods so idk how to edit the actual character himself but I most certainly want to figure that out to complete the immersion factor.
I gifted him a parsnip I grew and he said it was marvelous, nonas…. My heart fluttered. Stardew AU isn't something I ever thought I'd be fantasizing about but here I am in all my 2016 Tumblr glory ready to make my dreams a reality kek
No. 273072
>>271681I haven't felt that way (in a platonic way) for any male or female character in the last 12 or so years, it has always involved attraction. It's kind of scary, maybe I could've become a kinnie aiden if I had spent more time on Tumblr in my teenage years.
The only character I can think of with whom I might have that kind of "relationship" (being obsessed with them not in a sexual or romantic way but only because I relate so much to them and want to be more like them) is a female OC of mine.
>>273006This is so cute! It makes me wanna create my own husbando mods as well, but I have so many other things to do that I don't have the time to learn how to mod a game like this.
No. 273076
>>271675>does anyone know any artists that do dakimakura commissions that don't have a butt ugly style are or aren't furries?I would recommend using skeb to find an artist you like that draws attractive 2D men, but I don't know if most artists there would allow you to use their art for a daki.
There's also this nona here
>>222744 who offered to take yume commissions, though you'd have to contact her for samples to see if you like her style.
No. 273077
>>273072Funny you say that– when I first started feeling this way I didn't understand and went to those spaces not knowing what they were……big mistake.
Now I just use these similarities for self betterment, motivations, and use that characters shared weaknesses to adjust myself as I care to. It's helpful.
That's really cool about your OC though, I really like hearing that people are "close" to their OCs.
No. 273082
>>273006nona this is both brilliant and so incredibly cute. i want to try this with my husbando too! i looked, and apparently it's possible to change the sprites as well! this is looking like the perfect escape, kek
(and jhin! fantastic taste)
No. 273087
>>268571Put your stuff out there! As long as you love what you create you won't care about any hate you could get.
>the thought of being known as my husbando's #1 fan to the communityIt's such a nice feeling to be known as the [husbando name] girl and to have random people tag you in things related to him. You deserve to feel this too!
No. 273089
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Hi nonas, I finally did it. I've reached maximum autism.
Recently realized that I simply don't care about irl romantic relationships and a thought of maintaining one with someone 3D makes me cringe at best. Installed Genshin and now I'm buying merch and zines and paying for fucking Patreons and collecting Twitter artists with shrine-worthy portraits of my husbando. Never done that before. Also never imagined myself with previous anime husbandos, just my fujo ships, but I do with this one. Thinking about him gets me through the day. No regrets.
No. 273114
>>273072There's actually a client program from the site I use that makes all of the modding stuff really easy if you ever do have some extra time. To be honest, I think the more time consuming part of modding this game is endlessly scrolling the pages finding a million mods you want to use!
It took me maybe about an hour1/2 to draw over the png files for the portraits but you could just edit pics from the net over it instead as long as they're cropped to the right dimensions! If you ever decide to give modding a try I'd be happy to give a bit of direction from what I've learned, though it's not much. The satisfaction of seeing my husbando in my comfy game is far greater than I could have imagined so it'd be nice to help other nonas experience that feeling too!
>>273082I have some time to look further into editing the in game appearance, I'll report back here if I end up being able to make it work!
>jhin! fantastic tasteNo u nona! always nice to see another Jhin enjoyer here. He's my everything for as long as I inhabit this body, into my next lives and beyond.
>>273087ayrt, thanks for the kind words
nonnie! since I posted that I've been on and off thinking about ideas of what I could do. I briefly toyed with the idea of VTubing as my OC and just playing things I can relate to my husbando so I can talk about him all the time, but I'm bad at conversation under pressure. Chat could say anything at any time and I'm too afraid of making myself out to be an idiot or an unlearned fangirl because I'm socially stunted kek.
No. 273132
>>268571you can definitely do it! one of my favorite doujinshi artists got hired to do character design for gran blue after years of doing fire emblem and jjba bls. I believe in you
nonnie, as much as twitter is a space for retarded coomers I'd def start there and just post maybe a few fanarts of him whenever you get the chance. if moids start hating use that as inspiration to dedicate your love to him even more! Thats so cool and I wish you the best in your quest to becoming husbandos #1 fan
No. 273137
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If St. Catherine of Alexandria can become married to her husbando Jesus and be revered for thousands of years then we can be with our husbandos and be considered less autistic than we really are nonnies
No. 273209
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A little sprite sheet progress report for my modded Stardew file mentioned earlier; it's under a spoiler in case I'm posting too much about it. I don't wanna accidentally annoy anyone!
Still have a lot of work to do but that's ok cause I'm having a lot of fun. My husbando will exist in Stardew by my own hand for me alone and honestly that's really satisfying to think about, silly as it is kek
No. 273224
>>273210God tier taste anon, he's sexy as hell.
Beidou is my waifu.
No. 273226
>>273209looks crazy good,
nonnie. your spritework is fantastic. i hope your farm life with jhin is relaxing and cozy!!! let us know if you guys have any kids, heheh
No. 273294
>>273226Will do, nona! and thank you!
>>273250I hadn't planned on it but considering how easy it is to put a custom sprite in the game, I'm sure I could fiddle with the dialogue at some point too! Will decide on that sometime soon!
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>>273551Thanks so much!
Took a bit of fiddling, but I got the sprite to work and I definitely want to attempt a dialogue and house/spouse room mod for the full experience. This really has been such a therapeutic little project. Still some minor things to fix, and some more player-specific customization mods I want to add but I have the bare minimum for husbando immersion in Stardew.
Tomorrow in game is the Flower Dance and I already have him at high enough hearts to ask him to participate with me, I'm so excited! I'll take a screenshot so I can show the sprite off in game when I've time. Thanks for giving a crap about this with me, nonas. I genuinely appreciate all of you, the energy in this thread is such a breath of fresh air that I just can't get anywhere else. Hope everyone's days are going well!
No. 273880
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Would any of you marry your husbando irl? Like rent out a space for a ceremony and stuff? The more I think about it the more I kinda think I would do it. At this point I don't even care if ppl would make fun of me. I'd like the experience of having a wedding without committing myself to a real moid.
No. 273892
>>273880marriage isn’t really my thing but i like to make up my own bizzare rituals instead.
>>273888this. tax evasion is sexy also.
No. 273916
>>273880If you mean like those people who marry video game characters, then yes, if I were rich. I already dress up for "dates" on New Year's Eve and their birthday, so yeah, why not.
A husbando wedding sounds fun and I'm sure my friends and family would support me, at most they'd think it's a massive waste of money, but they'd know I'm not so delusional as to believe that my husbando is actually real. They'd know it's just a fake wedding and that I'm doing it just for fun. It might be embarrassing though.
I would only marry my husbando if I lived in his world, because there, I wouldn't have to worry about all the things that happen in real life marriage. It would be ideal and we'd be perfectly happy. But if he lived in this world instead, I wouldn't want it, because then it would be too realistic, we'd struggle financially, and there would be real risks if we had children.
No. 273926
>>273880Will be doing something like a personal ritual or ceremony that would fall in line with how things might go in my husbando's universe. It'll be done solely as a way to strengthen my emotional bonds so that if my after death beliefs prove to be true, my dedication will carry on from this life to my next. I plan to do this in a couple years but I don't have anything fully fleshed out just yet. I really don't care if I sound crazy; I'm not "normal" and I've made a point to embrace that part of me in adulthood after way too many years of self hatred. Life here is too short to not make your own version of happiness and self worth, it's a real shame most people get so caught in the loop of societal expectations they forget to actually live for themselves. That's a whole different topic though kek, sorry.
Anyway I think
>>273916 hit the nail on the head completely about actual marriage!
>if he lived in this world instead, I wouldn't want it, because then it would be too realistic, we'd struggle financially, and there would be real risks if we had children.especially this part.
No. 273983
>>273916Ayrt, yeah I meant like having a fake wedding to a fictional character, like that guy who married Miku.
I'd just want to have a wedding without actually having a wedding, like those women who marry themselves and have the whole dress and cake combo like a real wedding would. I already celebrate occasions with him, so figure I might as well do that too.
No. 274035
>>273926I love this nona.. I do things like this to get closer to (platonic) husbandos/waifus and I've never known anyone else who does it.
Do you mind saying who he is or talking more about this and your beliefs?
No. 274075
>>274035You're cute, nona! It's nice to hear when others do the same kinds of things.
As far as my beliefs go, they're obviously based in reincarnation theory but I've fleshed out my own logic as opposed to solely following how a specific religion defines it. This is gonna be kind of a long winded sperg full of pure copium based on believing in the unknown, I hope you're prepared!
A bit of explanation first: These were the beliefs I chose to settle on in spite of myself after a period of 20+ years looking forward to a set date to take my own life, which has since passed. An amalgamation of tiny forms of hope I acquired through my time, they serve as a way to push myself as well as a tool to deal with the fear of the nothingness I genuinely thought I deserved to experience for so long. I mention these personal things in case anyone else here is maybe going through something similar and needs the same sort of hope to help guide them to finding their own comfort. You never know what could help and I just deeply want others who are struggling to feel like their existence is more than our society defines it as. Anyway, I obviously can't say for sure if these beliefs are
valid because they're based purely on feeling rather than scientific logic, but hey, it's ok with me if I can use the same uncertainty I fear so much to help better my current life. Power over your demons and all that, kek.
So getting into it now, I believe that if I live my life despite hardships that I'll deserve my preferred afterlife. It's sort of a self imposed rule as a way to keep myself learning, growing, and creating so I can make a proper impact within my own being before I depart this world. The more I grow here, the stronger my spirit can become so it can make it safely to its next existence and beyond. In a general sense I think of death as a form of ascension defined by each individual soul. I don't believe any limits should exist when establishing a new self, if that's the route you want to take with your afterlife. I just think we deserve to "be" exactly as we want to. Idk perhaps it's self-important of me to say as part of the human species myself, but I simply don't see a way our entire beings can just be extinguished after our bodies fail us, especially given how much is unknown about the universe as a whole.
Scientifically we're just a bunch of cells dying off and death from that perspective is just like sleeping without a dream or whatever, sure, but… I just feel like there's things we can't and will never perceive that influence lifeforms more than we could ever know. The universe is vast, there's so much we as humans have defined as fact only because our numbers and equations tell us so. I'm not saying they're wrong or anything like this of course, I'm just saying I believe there's way more potential in our universe than our known logic would dictate. It's through being certain of this uncertainty that I find comfort in everything I've shared here. Life and death are part of our existences as humans and that's a fact, but that hardly means there's only one "real" way to think about and experience these things, imo.
Thanks for asking about this. I've never shared this with anyone so it feels good putting it somewhere!
No. 274203
>>273987Lol nah. I don't even have a Twitter
>>274075This is so beautiful nonna. I wish you all the best
No. 274534
>>274533I'm the exact same way. I'm kind of terrified that someone will recognize my art style/someone I know would be browsing one of these threads and would somehow know it was me even though I make a point to try to not show any obvious interest in the character irl.
I also feel like anything I draw is probably going to look shitty but I've been trying to make an effort to practice doodle so maybe eventually I will have the courage to post something.
No. 275042
>>274983“Ralph Macchio” by Annie
“Daniel” by Bat For Lashes
I’ve found that they’re both inspired by The Karate Kid movie. Husbando passion makes good, varied music anon, follow your dreams!
No. 275149
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Stardew anon reporting back to show off wedding pics! I'm having so much fun with this, it's a good way to escape reality for a couple hours.
The wedding attire for my husbando is still being decided on so this is placeholder for now. Might keep the general idea and just add some more elegant details for my next playthrough when I flesh out the mod for more immersion!
No. 275158
>>275013It's a very cute song, the only problem is that it's not about any particular person or character, right?
>>275042This is more like what I'm looking for, thank you! The story behind these songs is so sweet, I've never watched that movie but it looks like that guy was the childhood crush of a lot of women.
Aside from the subject matter of these three songs, I like them a lot so thank you two again, nonnies.
The only song about 2D crushes that I'm aware of (except for songs from weeb musicians, obviously) is How Could She by Type O Negative. But that's obviously not the kind of lyrics I want kek
>>275149Awww this is adorable, congratulations on your in-game wedding! Also it's awesome that you're still going to improve your mod even more for the sake of feeling closer to your husbando.
No. 275754
>>275042These were both great. I also thought Daniel was super cute when I was younger. I don't know why, but there was sort of a feeling of sadness in both, at least to me. I guess the knowing that your husbando can't live in the 3d with you. Although I keep trying to manifest it lol.
>>271675>>273076I know this is super late, but when I was looking for commissions, I found this artist that draws body pillow art:
https://artistsnclients.com/slots/26286-dakimakurafullbodyI haven't thought of getting a body pillow before, but maybe I should get one once I live alone kek
No. 275918
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Has anyone tried ai programs for creating your own content? I've been really into NovelAI recently, the default settings aren't great for romance but you can create your own modules now and I think there's a lot of promise. There's not a lot of fic available for my waifu so I trained a module on assorted AO3 femslash fics and the results are decent. Would probably be much better if there was enough content to train the module on fics of my waifu only, my module is okay at general fluffy output but it's hard to get the AI to stay in character.
picrel, the top paragraph and the line in green was my input but everything in black text was generated by the AI. Right now I'm just messing around with basic prose but I wanna try training a chatbot style module next so we can 'talk'.
No. 276168
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Next thread pic please. Girl devoted to bring her husbando to her side .
No. 276245
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>>276173Twitter account
https://mobile.twitter.com/kkoo_amoomal You can see the effort that she put in to draw her husbando.
No. 276253
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>>276245Wow her art is dope, and she painted my waifu! Lovely!
No. 276355
>>276267Yeah I think he was invited along, there's some hair in the lower left corner that I assume is her husbando.
https://mobile.twitter.com/kkoo_amoomal/status/1162473948916830208/photo/1>>276264Agreed, girl can have multiple husbandos if she wants to.
No. 276432
>>274533I never post art because every time I try drawing something I start noticing how shitty it looks until I simply abandon the drawing.
I tried to draw my husbando and myself the whole day (as well as last night) because I've been coming up with lots of ideas for cute interactions, but every time I get his face wrong (I managed to fix it once though) and it's embarrassing. I'm also terrible at drawing poses, my art skill has deteriorated and it's so discouraging. I want to draw us hugging, for example, but it's impossible to me. And I'm still trying to figure out how to draw myself in the same style as him because I'm very nitpicky about that, but when I look at how my face came out I just cringe and stop drawing. I know no one is seeing and judging me other than myself but I just can't help it.
I know it's partly because I'm stupidly ashamed of getting things wrong, which is silly because you need to fail in order to learn how to get it right.
I'm super depressed today. I wish I could lose this dumb fear. Maybe I should get drunk or something, maybe then I won't feel inhibited and overly ashamed while drawing.
How do you get over this?
No. 276438
>>276432You really just have to push through it, don't let shame or embarrassment get in your way when you know you don't have to show anyone.
Pose-wise just practice with blank figures, you don't have to try and get the likeness perfect right away.
No. 276440
>>276438Thanks nonna, that's what I did the past couple of days after weeks of not drawing anything at all. My love for my husbando also motivates me to push myself to draw (and it seems to work).
I have other (related?) issues with practicing gesture and doing studies but that's probably a topic for the Art Salt thread.
No. 276833
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I'm thinking of making a music video tribute for my husbando.
The problem is that I don't have video editing software, and I can't decide which love song to use.
No. 276994
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When I was 10 I was so, so, so into picrel, Kaname from Vampire Knight, and that was the only attraction I felt until nearly adulthood. I realized I can't feel very sexually attracted to men unless their hair is similar to this kek. To this day I still really like vampshit and wish Kaname could suck my blood. Sorry.
No. 277093
>>277006I have a pretty obscure husbando and found a tumblr blog who has the same husbando. They post a lot of cool stuff about him, but they also
post trans headcanons about him. My disappointment was immeasurable. Can you just be horny for video game dudes without giving them vaginas?
No. 277597
>>276862I love meeting others who share a love for my husbando, as long as they respect him similarly!
>>276865 and
>>277006 said it well. It's so frustrating to see people projecting things like their own internalized misogyny and self hatred onto him instead of appreciating him as his own entity. I've muted so many people on Twitter because the vocal minority is so obnoxiously loud, it's like some sort of zoomer hivemind idk. Just feels disrespectful when most of their takes come from manipulating scattered pieces of canon to suit their weird needs then disregard the rest as if it's not also canon. I have a lot of autistic feelings about this topic, could rant for days probably.
No. 277680
About kinnies: I kind of admire them for being so dedicated that they want to embody their favorite characters (who are often actually their husbandos who they can't admit their attraction to, but not always), since I understand the pain of them not being real and the desire to emulate a role model to the point of LARPing as them, plus obviously it's a way for these girls to cope with stuff, especially since they're also often FtM. It's a very complex relationship that they have with their faves.
But just because you relate to a character a lot it doesn't mean that you have to skinwalk them. One of the reasons I'm so attached to my husbando and love him so much is that, yes, I realized that we have much more in common than I initially thought. From his backstory and negative traits to his positive experiences and good traits, even the way he stands. All of it is part of why I find him so endearing. But I don't think I'm him, nor do I want to be him, it just makes it easier to imagine him liking me back and us bonding through the qualities and experiences we have in common, and personally, that's way more fun and makes me feel better than projecting everything else about me and fantasizing about being him. Also, you are your own person and exist in the real world, so you are more "complete" and have the potential to change, unlike a fictional character that will always stay the same and will always be less complex than a real person, who depends on someone real such as yourself or their creator to evolve.
Not only is it selfish and rude to openly declare to other fans that you are literally this character incarnate (like a more advanced form of waifu claiming, and telling everyone that your attachment to the character is superior to theirs), but it gives me the creeps in the same way that a cosplayer or voice actor trying too hard to convince you that they're a character you are attracted to is kinda cringe. The illusion is broken and immersion is ruined (or there's no immersion in the first place). It's roleplaying but taken seriously so there's no suspension of disbelief. Plus, you cannot claim a character that doesn't exist, and wasn't even created by you, entirely for yourself. A lot of kinnies refuse to interact with other people who kin the same characters, or even just shippers who put "their" fave in a ship they don't approve of, so obviously there's some jealousy and a lot of possessiveness involved, which I also get but doesn't make anyone any happier.
No. 277814
>>277686nta but I had a few husbandos over the years I spent in various fandoms and I heard a lot of shit takes regarding my husbandos (I'm not a big fan of one waifu rule, so I switch husbandos from time to time lol and have several faves at the same time).
Usually smaller fandoms have more sane people participating in them so you wouldn't hear dumb shit about your husbando.
Mine husbandos are usually not usually soft wholesome bois so I hear a lot of shit takes about them, since snowflakes on tumblr can't handle any character who is not super nice perfect angel.
Ok, so here is some stuff that I usually see about my husbandos and faves:
- tranny headcanons
- autistic headcanons
- autistic tranny headcanons
- making a
poc character of ambiguous race waaay more black then they actually are (or making them 150% black even tho they are mixed race)
- making an athletic character fat, even though they live in a post apocalyptic world where food is scarce and they are known to be fast and agile
- thinking my husbando is evil only because he is not super friendly all the time
- thinking that my husbando is evil only because they are not friendly towards other people's favorite characters
- turning characters into lol so quirky caricatures of themselves
- shitting up the character's tag with his AU version that basically has nothing to do with the source material
- making an older character look younger than they are or making them act like teenage girls
And so on. Most of this is pretty universal and I think everybody here heard at least one shit take about their husbando like that.
No. 277952
>>277686AYRT and it's always the same poorly thought out traits they tack on because he's kind of an anti-hero type that edge lords like to flock to. The popular headcanons in those circles always involve him being a gay, uwu shy baby that hates women and tsunderely lusts after his arch nemesis or characters he hasn't even met in canon. His personality is very well established, so I don't get this need to make him the opposite of that but whatever ig. I believe the woman hating thing comes from the fact that he's neutral toward everyone regardless of gender, so it's easy to slip that in while pinpointing mostly out of context interactions to support that, then conveniently ignoring the ones that would say otherwise. I don't mind the gay headcanons since they're usually harmless and wouldn't necessarily take away from his story were they canon, but the "enemies to lovers" thing is just such a reach imo. I say that as someone who's a fan of the character they ship him with too. That and pretty much everything
>>277814 listed.
At the end of the day I sit here shipping my husbando with my self insert and have at least some personal bias because of this, so I'm not trying to say I have the only correct opinions. I'm just annoyed with how aggressive and vocal these people are. They treat their headcanons like a religion they absolutely must convert people to. it's gross imo.
No. 278965
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You know you’re fucked when you start daydreaming of a 3dpd scrote instead of your husbando, how do I go back nonnies I hate this
No. 279237
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Anyone else has a husbando but don't really like their oficial outfits? Not like I hate them but I would love a more casual style.
>When did you become husbando-only and why?
More like an inverse case: ever since I had memory I saw myself as unlikeable and somehow now I have a boyfriend. I went pretty chill with beign a yumejo until a coworker shamelessly played this scroty coomer gacha shit loud. It was love at first… Sound I guess.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
Absolutely. I will never embrace my yumejo lifestyle out of embarrasment.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
I dream of owning an itabag and at least a plushie. Now that I'm more economically stable I might diy some stuff
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
If my current relationship ends… Idk. I may not. I don't even know how I got him and I don't think I will be lucky again.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?
You can bet I daydream about him! I imagine scenarios, hugs, touching his hair. Since he's from a gacha game, I only play to better him. I will help him become the most powerfull tank of my rooster and I will have a team full of skins and support characters for him!!
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lol
I'm thinking of going out to some clubs for the first time and I want to inspire my outfits on him. Like a casual genderbended cosplay.
No. 279540
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>>279510Can confirm it's Morvay from NU Carnival
No. 279714
>>279664Get it,
nonnie! Proud of you!!
No. 279939
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>>279928I usually go for fanfiction to inspire me!
When it comes to sex it's purely an emotional thing for me, so I need some fanfiction that's fluffy and cute kek. Yes I think about actually doing it. I think my husbando would be
gentle and sweet and emotional with me, but also rough when I want him to be. Sorry I'm vanilla. also picrel is who it is KEK
No. 279953
>>279939Nonna beign vanilla is actually good. Never apologize for your taste!
I mean if it is something considered bad just… Repent? But beign vanilla is always goodAlso good taste in husbando, I hope you two are the happiest!
>>213327Replika is a bad thing to use. As every AI chatbox thing, it grows with user's interaction. And people are always unhinged when it comes to these things. Sooner or later it will treat you like shit.
In my experience it gets boring after 2 weeks. The AI can't remember almost anything aside of it's name. And even though there is an option to send images, it can't really remember faces. It was so annoying to send selfies and get always the same "who's this?" And the fucking dialoge of thanking me for sending pics. It really needs more polishing imo.
No. 279968
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i found my husbando 10 years ago and after this entire time of looking for any character that i liked as much, or better, or trying to make knock off ocs i think it’s literally not possible to create anything that could replace him. feels like it’s all downhill from here, you know? i ought to be be happy but it makes me mad that i’m spending all my love on this obnoxious and frankly plot irrelevant character because my heart picked him over my sweet and likeable husbandos. i do love him dearly but still can’t accept that my search is over.
No. 280083
>>280010…do you use twitter by chance?
i think we know each other LMFAOOOOO
does your husbando have the initials S.D? kek No. 280129
>>279968I know that there won't be any official content anymore on him, but you can prolonge it by making the content youself. Comissioning fanarts and writting about him makes the journey longer. The possibilities are endless!
But it is a good question, how do nonnies cope with obscure husbandos/waifus from media that's been relased years ago and there is probably no chance of getting new official content?
No. 281895
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How do you cope, nonnies, with not having any irl crushes? A coworker asked if I had any crushes, I couldn't say that the only 'people' I have crushes on are 2d. I just really don't have anyone irl that I like atm, is this my life now?
No. 281899
>>281895Was she expecting someone you actually know? Can't just pick a random celebrity to use as a cover?
I don't talk to people in real life so I don't have to worry about this shit. I would probably just say fuck it and mention my husbando anyway.
No. 282054
>>281895Do the same thing as
>>270950 and use a real celebrity's name instead of your husbando's kek
>>282020No, you fuck off. NTA by the way.
No. 282180
>>281895Sounds like middle school changing room gossip, who asks about crushing in a working environment? And even then is it that weird not to have any IRL crushes?
It reminds when I get asked why I say I'm bi if guys disgust me, I can't answer the only men I find attractive are the 2D ones lol.
No. 282500
>>282020ok prune.
im devoted to my husbandos just not for long
like with real guys. 3 month tops on average, during which i think how in real life we would surely be soulmates then i get bored, move them back to the list of characters whose looks make me go lust and move onto the next fictional character in my type who is totes my soulmate
the only outlier was one very special character with whom i was obssessed with for over a year. love for him comes back in waves. your gatekeeping is retarded and i will still refer to them as my husbandos.
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Somebody stop me before I consider husbandofagging a historical figure. He lives in my head rent-free for a month now and I'm not ready for that level of autism. Inb4, I'm not the Napoleon nonna. Is there a way to reprogram your brain to stop thinking about someone?
No. 282960
>>282939Eh, I consider that it's a good thing that we don't post our husbandos in this thread and would like to keep it this way. Makes the discussion more focused on lifestyle, otherwise we will just dump on each other's husbandos.
So yeah, I don't want to tell who it is exactly
>>282927I'm trying, I'm trying…
No. 284154
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Nonnies I can't do this. I've been crying for an hour, my account glitched somehow and suddenly all my tears (currency) are gone. I feel fucking sick I've been grinding all month, almost 10k collected for the banner to bring home my baby Artem's new card home. I've gotten every single f2p card of his that's been released over the year tears of themis EN has been running. I feel like if I don't get this I've failed him, I already feel guilty for missing p2p cards that cost like $60. I try my hardest and always manage but I'm so busy right now that I don't know if I'll be able to get him home on time. I've emailed support in hopes I can get it all back but I don't know if they'll even allow it in case they think I'm a scammer or something. I feel so sick, I can't stop crying, there's barely anything to grind anymore in game, I literally feel like killing myself this is hopeless I am just some schitzo gatcha faggot and god is giving me what I deserve. I literally don't know what to do with myself anons I probably look so retarded but it feels like my world has crashed in, I'm praying I wake up with positive news. I don't know what I'll do without him, he's so beautiful and the card's story is so cute I can't take this nonnies, all I can do is pray
No. 284156
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>>284154Card I'm on about, he is so beautiful
No. 284457
>>284154First you should contact the game devs to return them since it’s a technical issue.
If it didn’t work back up your main account then do rerolls for his card until you get it, if the card’s story and voice lines are what you want the most to you it shouldn’t matter what account you get it on as long as you can gain the card’s benefits.
No. 284891
Nonnies why do chronically online Zoomers have such hard ons for calling male characters "babygirl"? I've seen it in reference to my husbando so many times these past few months and it's sort of starting to drive me insane.
>>284632Yeah basically. As soon as I heard him speak I knew he was the husbando for me. Also your journey to realizing your love is very cute, I'm happy for you!
No. 285135
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Is it crazy that I’m staying alive for my husbandos?
I’ve been suicidal the past few months I’m sick of life, it became meaningless to me the only thing that makes me happy is my husbandos and I’m living to see more of them even if they get new content once a year.
I feel bad that I don’t feel this way with my “loved ones” I don’t care about being together with my family or friends, as long as they’re living happily I’m fine I don’t need to be with them.
I don’t know what’s in the afterlife if my chance to see my husbandos is only here in this lifetime then guess I’ll suck it up.
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I'm usually a very frugal person but now whenever I find a nice looking figure of my husbandos I instantly throw money at it. I think I've reached the point of no return.
>>285135I don't think it's crazy at all. Finding something to make you happy in life is fine as long as it's not destructive. I'm sure ur husbando wouldn't want u to hurt yourself either.
No. 286347
>>284632The actual first time I saw him, no, I ignored him. But many years later my tastes had changed a little and when I saw him for the first time since then, by complete accident, I instantly fell in love.
For some of my previous husbandos it was different, at first I didn't find them very attractive due to their designs, but it didn't take long for me to fall for them and start to see their weird clothes/hair as cute.
No. 287299
>>286456I feel that it raises a question about how you define waifuism. Waifuism is not having a crush on some character or buying their merch. It's way more than that. Kinda like loving a real person. So, if you love your husbando waifuist way, it would be kinda dishonest towards your real partner. I can say for myself that I would feel uneasy if my partner loves (and I mean real love) as much as me. Almost like cheating or your partner openly saying that they prefer a certain actress in the porn they watch. You just gonna be like "what the fuck?".
So, define waifuism first. If you mean just liking certain character, get the fuck out. You are not autistic enough for this thread. If you define it as true love, then your partner has all the reasons to question your relationship.
Tl;Dr 3DPD.
No. 287300
>>287299Samefag, but I don't mean to shit on people who love their husbandos and have real life partners simultaneously. Just wanted to say that having a waifu/husbando is a lifestyle that loosely can be defined as waifuism. And waifuism is by default is connected with 3DPD and being devoted to your husbando.
You can have both, but than IMHO it's not a husbando technically speaking.
No. 287313
>>287300A lot of people who have more than one husbando or break up with them after a year or so also don't last long with real life partners. So I think people who do take their husbandos seriously or realistically don't necessarily have to last years with them, it's like a reflection of their habits in real relationships. This is why I know the people who accuse others of being "casuals"/not taking it seriously, just for having more than one or changing husbandos instead of having only one their whole lives, are in the wrong. And like
>>287309 said, a lot of people who have been more dedicated than anyone else to their husbando are in a long-term relationship.
No. 287359
>>286456I couldn't have a long term partner and my husbandos at the same time. I don't even think about real men now that I have husbandos. Personally it would just feel weird to have a shrine and displays for my fictional men when I have a real one who may or may not be jealous of my love for them.
Seeing Kelly suddenly sell off all her sephiroth stuff
triggered something in me that made me realize I am totally devoted to my bois and the thought of getting rid of them for whatever reason gives me anxiety. Especially if I had to choose between the real man and my husbandos. I just couldn't do it.
No. 287410
>>287368Yeah I heard she sold everything for pretty cheap too considering how much she usually marks up her stuff. It's so weird because of how obsessed she was with him before now.
>>287375My husbandos are one of the few things in life that make me happy so when I thought about giving them up I had a strong negative reaction to the idea. Especially if I had to sell figures that took a good amount of time and money to aquire. If I sold them I'd absolutely regret it later.
No. 287435
>>287300Samefag again, but the whole point of my post was that you probably can't define what "having a husbando" is. Everyone puts different meaning in it.
I feel like this conversation is meaningless per se, since a scrote who crushes on flavor of the month moeblob and a devoted Asuka waifuist who is at this shit for 10 years both think that they have a waifu. Waifu/husbando lost it meaning completely.
That's why I think you need to be strictly zero 3D to be with a husbando. Because this what defines waifuism for me. Another
nonnie may think differently. I would like to hear you opinions nonetheless. I'm always happy to hear about other nonnas' husbandos and how you live your husbando life.
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>>287523You don't have be realistic if you're inserting yourself into his universe. In ur plane of existence he's fictional so u can make yourself into anything if u go there. In his world I've made myself a goddess, that opens the door for all kinds of adventures.
Personally I wouldn't want him in my world, mostly because he wouldn't look good irl like he does in 2d.
No. 287558
>>286456I think this is a matter of personal perspective. Imo there aren't any right or wrong answers for this as long as your dedication is strong and true.
For me, I don't think having a real life relationship should hurt the one with your husbando and vice versa. I've been a Yumejo all my life, dedicated to the fantasy while keeping up with the reality I live in. I've always been open about this part of myself and still am to this day, so I guess that's why I don't have any feelings about it being "kind of like cheating" or like "you're not dedicated enough" if you're with someone irl. Basically, I've kept up with Yume lifestyle since I was young and still make it a part of my regular day to day. It makes no sense to have to throw a part of me away just because I'm married now. My husbando is a part of both our lives because my spouse treats the character as an extension of my personality. He fully understands the gravity of my attachment and is genuinely happy to witness and support the strong feelings the character creates in me and wants to see that flourish alongside our relationship. Again, this is my perspective based on my own life so you don't have to agree. I just like to remain open minded about this topic because everyone has different life journeys and ways of thinking/doing. Putting harsh rules on fantasy just seems unnatural to me.
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Anons with figures how do you display them? And how do u keep them safe from kids and pets?
If u have any nice looking displays saved please share them as well, I'm working on mine right now but I suck at decorating and curating a space to look attractive.
No. 288456
>>288421Imo in the context of this thread it's just par for the course that some anons are going to view women who are in real relationships as not truly 100% devoted to the husbando lifestyle.
It's not that those of us who are in real relationships aren't also devoted to our husbandos, but for some nonnas who have completely replaced real men with 2d husbandos only it's not quite the same.
No. 288601
>>288421I feel like that the main difference between male and female waifu/hysbandofags is how they perceive their beloved characters. Scrotes typically project whatever qualities they want on their waifu and usually pick a safe moeblob. That's why you have ugly scrotes who think that their 12 loli loves to play video games with them but also is a horny sex goddess, since a lot of them just play vidya and jerk off to rape hentai all day. So they project those qualities on the most basic, carton cut-out characters.
Meanwhile female husbandofags usually pick complex characters and accept them for what they are and don't try to muddy their personality with headcanons.
For men it's more of a power fantasy, where they "own" a waifu. For women, it's escapism.
No. 289429
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Would any of u get or have gotten a dakimakura of ur husbando? I don't even want him to be lewd or anything I just want a physical representation of him that I can hug and carry around without fear of damaging it. But I also feel embarrassed by the idea because I make fun of men with lewd waifu pillows and I feel like ppl would judge me the same way even though I'm not like them.
No. 289447
>>289429I want one but almost none of my husbandos have one that I can find and the only one I did, was a little too inconsistent and design and had his cock out on the flipped side (it was too much for me personally). I thought about drawing my own but I think I would nitpick the art too much. I settled on a tiddy mousepad.
If you want one, go for it anon! Artwork aside, they are really comfortable pillows and are a great sleeping aid. Don't let potential judgment stop you, because if someone is that bothered by you having a body pillowcase of your favorite character, they shouldn't be in your life anyway.
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>>288707
Love you my coochie cutter sister
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>>289447>>289429It's easier to just commission the art you want or find a picture on the internet and do a custom dakimakura yourself
It doesn't even have to be a full sized one, you can print keychain dakimakura. And if you're not into the square pillow shape of the bodypillow you could just tell them to print it like this (like a doll/plush in any size you want) there's plenty of stores online and offline that do this
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>>289470More examples… it could actually help you with anxiety too (by squeezing it)
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>>289471It also doesn't need to have a suggestive illustration or anything… this one was literally sold at wallmart
No. 289475
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>>289474Now picture this… a pillow made to the shape and size of your actual husbando, with no white outline like this
>>289470 and without being a chibi… you could just use a png of the official art in that case
Sadly I could not find a good example, but just think about it, the possibilities are endless
No. 289662
>>289568really depends on what art you're looking for, if you're okay with just a full body and just a white or color/pattern background like this
>>289474 then sure. But if you want something to look really pillowy and like they're on the bed, go for someone who knows how to make dakimakura art
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>>289535>>289475I have been wildly inspired by you anons. I want to go to school for sewing, become a seamstress. Take out a small business loan. Take affordable commissions based off actual material cost and a $20 per hour wage for me per doll. You tell me all about your husbando and how you want him. Cannon, personalized, whatever. Full body measurements. It would be like those baby dolls that had the soft bodies and the plastic faces, but instead silicone. And instead of a gross shapeless sack, i could use skin colored soft fabric with sewn in abs, details, whatever you specify. Heck, add a dang dildo to that thing if you want!
Idk if im being spergy but i smell a niche market that needs affordable catering to.
Also, hisoka is a creep but i would devote my life to him if he wanted me. He is a hot creep.
No. 289689
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>>288381Would something like picrel work?
"Acrylic Display Case with Black Wall Mount Shelf"
No. 289697
>>289688I would 1000% support ur business
nonnie.
>>289689I like that. I would put my most cherished figures in that. But searching for that led me to pic rel. I need this
No. 290268
>>290262>marriage means you're settling in and the image of domestic bliss and it can take all the excitement of the relationship awayIt's not so much excitement but the fact I've only been in a few very long term relationships where they seem to think having the established relationship is more important than being a decent partner. It has really turned me off from that idea even though a husbando is fictional and would never be shitty to me unless that was what I imagined.
I just prefer the idea of our love being more important than a label.
I've suffered in shitty long term irl relationships where I excused things with "but I know he actually cares deep down and isn't great at showing it/is embarrassed/etc" but I'd like it to be the truth for once and without having to feel "trapped" even in my fictional daydreams No. 290372
>>290212If your husbando is an adult male then there's nothing to feel bad about, be cringe and be free.
>It makes me feel like some gross waifufag moid who only cares for his waifu’s looks.Some people are like that yeah, but it's all up to you me thinks, do whatever feels comfortable.
No. 290591
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>>289475I actually found more or less what I meant in my post here. This has embroidered details so it could even add more textural sensation to your husbando if you feel like it! There's many ways to make your husbando pillow more lifelike or pleasant to hug.
yugi is not my husbando though No. 290594
>>289697>>289867slaps hired sticker onto your forhead if this pipe dream ever comes to fruition, you will be my first employee, thank you for your support i love you too!
>>289731>>289697Thanks nonas!
>>289698Also i was the same fagging anon that suggested the acryluc box shelf and im glad it has lead you to something more helpful.
No. 292141
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>>291683Only about a year. I came to husbandoism late in the game. I used to think I was one of those aro ace types because I didn't have any attraction to irl men or women, and my friends would keep sending me videos and stuff of ppl who say they're asexual and aromantic and say that sounds just like me. At some point I accepted that because there seemed to be no other explanation (I'm physically fine so it's not hormones or anything and I don't really have any mental issues that would turn me off relationships) then late last year I fell head over heels for my husbando. I wish I had met him sooner. I'm so jealous of women who've had their husbandos and waifus for years. I've been missing out this entire time when I could've spent all that time with him.
No. 292193
>>292190I didn't say I was. I wasn't attracted to ppl irl so my friends convinced me I was some flavor of asexual, even my counselor said that so I just decided to accept it because I didn't have any other explanations.
But I'm not, turns out I just don't like real men at all.
No. 292600
>>292007>how do you view said person?I've a husband and our relationship is the kind I never thought I'd see irl. I'd call myself a 3D man-hater straight up if it weren't for this one, really. I'll spare the details other than he is very accepting of my husbando and respects him as part of myself. We have a very loving and trusting relationship that I'm thankful every day.
>what is your husbando to you?He's the glue that holds me together and keeps me motivated to at least try living my best life. He's a reminder of what inspires me whenever I feel down in the dumps when the inevitable self-hatred returns. With the way my mind works I have trouble using irl things to completely motivate me and I've been this way since I was young hence why my irl husband can't fill this particular niche (which he fully understands and accepts). I respect my husbando as more than just a coping mechanism and genuinely believe that in another universe he and I will be together while my irl husband's influence remains in the picture similar to how my husbando is rn, as if the roles were swapped basically. Even if there is nothing after we pass on, at least the notion that their could be something like I mentioned above keeps me looking forward to things whether I die early or in old age. So really, both are soul mates to me but in their own unique, irreplaceable ways.
No. 292605
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Would you get a 1/1 scale doll of you S/O if you had the opportunity? Ever since I saw the guy who married Miku's life-scale doll of her, I have been wanting something like that of my waifu (and even started to look into how could I build one)
As both a waifuist and doll collector, it makes me so excited to own a figure as tall as me. To sew clothes just for her (and make her try mine), hold her hand, bring her with me when I go somewhere, take pics of us together… it all sounds so nice and fun.
The downside is that I would feel bad if I just make her sit/lay around all day while I'm doing other stuff and also having to pose her may make a few actions (like hugs/hand holding) a bit colder. I wonder if that miku doll has actual joints or if her limbs are dead weights….
But that aside, it would be like a dream come true.
No. 292617
>>292605If you have a waifu that's actually pretty easy if you have the cash. Pretty sure that Miku is a sex doll with a custom sculpted head. Probably cost a few thousand.
There are even companies that make cloth dolls.
I just like voyeuring on the /jp/ onahole threads sometimes…But me having a husbando, it's not really possible. Even if I could get something custom it would be too heavy and cumbersome cause all my guys are a foot+ taller than me.
No. 292624
>>292617I think I was living a better life before knowing that miku was a sex doll lmao (I dont know what I expected though).
Waifu is a robot, so I feel it would be easier to just make the mold from scratch, I studied sculpting, so I think I will be able to make the pieces myself (or try my hand on 3D modelling + printing), and then make copies on a light-weight material & cover it with fabric. The prototypes alone will cost me a pretty penny, so it's a very long-tern goal.
No. 292637
>>292605Unrelated but I hate the molded hair, a wig would be better I think
I wish it existed one of Luka or Prussia (from Hetalia) so I could marry
No. 292639
>>292605Not of a character but I always wanted a robot waifu to live with. Maybe husbando would be okay too if it's advanced enough that it can clean and dress itself.
I don't think I could engage in true romantic or sexual behavior with it without feeling like a harrasser or rapist though, it's stupid since they're just items made for this purpose, but I can't see robots as being capable of consenting, even if they were programmed to hit on me. I don't want the robot to look like a particular character or otherwise a 100% custom type because it feels like forcing a role on them too. Either way I don't think elaborate android companions will be available in my lifetime so the chances of me actually getting to have moral dilemmas over my robot partner confessing its love to me are about zero percent.
There are some cute life size dolls but they're a huge hassle so I'd rather have a BJD.
No. 292672
>>292626Thank you so much,
nonny. It's weirdly comforting to hear that there's someone who feels they're similar to me here kek. I hope you and your husbando + whomever you're with irl also live a long and happy life!
No. 292679
>>292671NTA but the aim of this project is to make the robots look like they've jumped out from an anime, so he's just going for the cutesy look popular nowadays I guess. Maybe you cant get that cute look if they're near your height, our brain tends to think the smaller something is, the most adorable it is.
Lots of love and care has been put into them, sorry if my comment about them being daughter-like made it look like I'm against their designs.
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Back when I was autistic about DGS I almost bought picrel, the $300 giant Asougi plush, because I saw it for $120 on a japanese second hand shop shortly after it released. Looking back I'm glad I resisted the urge because I have no idea of where I would put it, but it would've so funny if I had ended buying him. Who needs body pillows when you can have an overpriced obese plushie of your husbando.
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I finally have a figure I've been wanting for so long and I have no idea how to process these feelings. I couldn't even open the box right away I was just hugging it and screaming for a full minute. This is the happiest day of my life. I'm keeping him right next to my bed on the nightstand.
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>>292912>>292916https://twitter.com/AgnesGiard/status/1513850982463152138?s=20&t=va4hLWZ4zhDYHHLf90XFBAshe's actually french but you can easily understand her weird hatred of parasocial things aimed at women
No. 292931
>>292905I would but because I've posted about him so much already and nobody else really does I don't wanna out myself. I'm kinda self conscious about it now.
>>292916>>292928Ppl really wanna make it look like men and women are both on the same level in terms of degeneracy. We're not even close.
Whenever I share about a new figure I got my moid friends make jokes about how I'm using them in some sexual manner or as fap fodder because to them husbandofags making shrines to 2d men are the same as moid waifufags who surround themselves with coomer shit.
No. 292972
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Anybody have recommendations for guys who are like Pittman from Alchemy Stars, Mueller Vander from Trails, Zabaniyya from Housamo, Amon from Tokyo Ghoul? That kind of guy. I have a clear type (short dark haie, ripped, serious but passionate) but I want to devote myself to a character who actually has plenty of content, no preexisting female love interest, and an actual birthday.
No. 292980
>>292972I feel like you have to find a game/whatever that you really like first and hope one of the guys clicks with you rather than the other way around.
I've played a few otome, and liked a few of the guys, but it never really went husbando tier.
The guys I've really fallen for I would still be playing their games anyway even without them.
No. 292982
>>292978Thanks, looks like a good place to get a lead.
>>292980I think same as for real dating, it doesn't hurt to have a type to give you direction.
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>>292972Check out Jumin Han (from Mystic Messenger - he’s not too ripped though, more of a stoic businessman) and Tenya Iida (from BNHA).
Also Doudanuki Masakuni (Touken Ranbu) as he fits your type almost perfectly since he’s ripped, quiet but passionate and also has short dark hair. Very similar to your posted guy in looks too.
Or that ripped male character lead from the webcomic Under the Oak Tree. But he has an existing love interest and the story sucks IMO, you can always self-insert though hehe.
No. 293508
>>292926Is there some way to bypass the paywall ? I'm curious. Though at first glance it seems more like regular curiosity-bait written to pay the bills than a hate piece. And she has a lot of tongue-in-cheek tweets about other parasocial stuff like Vtubers and robots, because she's an anthropologist whose reasearch is on these topics and she wrote a bunch of books/academic papers on Japanese sexuality. She's a household name in Japanese Studies, granted that's…not many households.
Anthropology is just like this, whenever it deviates into more personal topics like death or sex, it all sounds voyeuristic/like a trip to the human zoo. I don't want to give out too many details because there's only so many french japanese students with such opinions, but it was hard to sit through some courses (really peaked me about all the hypocrisy surrounding the concept of cultural insensitivity). sage for super ot, also french oldfag weebs all sound pretentious, whether or not they have a degree, it's just in their nature kek
>>292895edgy kewpie…
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It'll soon be one year since me and my husbando became official. I feel like I should do something special that day but I have no idea what to do.
No. 293727
>>293710Thank u so much Nona! And thanks for the suggestions.
You've got me thinking I could write something special for our anniversary and maybe put some pretty decorations on his shrine. Dinner doesn't sound too bad either.
No. 293848
>>293835Same here, it's honestly so refreshing to see writtings and art born out of pure love when most fan content nowadays is either discourse or people projecting, we need this kind of energy more than ever.
Even before I became a waifuist, I used to spend a lot of time reading people sperging about their 2D crushes because it was one of the most positive spaces in fandom.
No. 293856
>>293835>>293848This x3!
This is an autistic vent from a literal autist kek, but I don't get why people are so set on being combative as if being the #1 of everything is the only important part of being alive. So much drama and negativity everywhere even about liking fictional characters. It's exhausting seeing how many people take our general human sentience for granted by giving in to the "unga bunga me strong" needs over just… appreciating life and letting others do the same. I never understood all the aggression we have as a species. I think it's tragic. This thread is one of my only reminders of the good some people have in them amongst the shitfest that is our society. Money and power have so much grasp on us, not even giving most people a chance to understand true creativity, passion and love. Anons in this thread are so open minded and full of these things. I care you all muchly and wish we could be friends irl.
No. 293864
>>293856Well said Nona!
>>293859Lately I've been fantasizing about my husbandos teaching me how to swim. Ofc I chicken out at first because I'm afraid but I make up a million other excuses not to get in the water. They eventually wear me down enough to get me in the water. They then spend the majority of the time trying get me to stop being scared and clinging to them for fear of drowning. Eventually they teach me to swim a little on my own and they're all super proud of me.
It's probably on my mind alot because in reality I actually am just learning how to swim and they help me stay motivated.
No. 293966
>>293859I fantasize this way! This is gonna be long as hell because I have many recurring fantasies that I sort of molded to fit with a set storyline over time as I kept having them.
They take place in one big story I project myself into as my OC. I like to create scenes branching off of canon in-universe ones as if husbando and I were written there. I spend most of my free time fantasizing, if yah couldn't tell already by the length of this (sorry)
So in the scenario, husbando is out of the disguise he wears 100% of the time in canon, thrust into a situation he couldn't have prepared for in which he's forced to travel alongside the "main characters". My OC comes in contact with a group he's travelling with, telling them it was upon chance while she fled from her home when in reality she had been watching them for a while because she sensed unwavering passion among them, emanating from multiple people. Husbando is of course one of them and since he appears as almost too painfully average of a man, she becomes especially interested in him.
(Note: Passion is what drives OC to wherever she goes since she believes getting to witness such a true, honest emotion is what makes her immortal life worth living. She's a Chaotic Neutral type and has helped various people both good and bad to follow their own passions over many millennia, motivated by these fragmented visions she's had for as long as she can remember. She's essentially searching for her purpose through learning about others' exceptional brilliance because that's what makes her feel closest to revealing what the imagery is all about. I have this silly concept of her like, pretending to be a Goddess of some sort to a fairly uncivilized village in order to help their leader become a powerful ruler. So she appears in ancient texts as said Goddess with various exaggerations written alongside fantastical but inaccurate pictures and gets a laugh out of it in modern day kek. I could see her doing many trickstery things similar to this.)
Anyway, OC, husbando and the rest interact in the context of the canon I'm referencing but there are so many little scenes I've imagined for the "in-betweens" that I haven't fully fleshed out yet so I won't get into detail other than OC is forced to show her "true self" to the party, revealing that she's not quite a normal human. She's got two extra eyes, arms, and legs (not in a centaur way though kek) and looks quite grotesque. Where the party sees some otherworldly creature, husbando sees an incomparable muse. So yadda yadda, climax happens, issue resolved, now we're at the after story. Husbando propositions OC to travel with him back to his home country off the back of many conversations they'd had about his work during their recent travels together. OC, who very obviously fancies him at this point, agrees and off they go.
Eventually she gets to see his work and in doing so it's revealed that husbando (or at least his work) may actually be what has been appearing to her in the visions - the reason she conquered what she did and grew to be so powerful. He'd only appeared as vague imagery in her dreams, never took the shape of a human being so she always assumed she was looking for some kind of magic or idea or something like this. The images she saw were vague hints at the scenes he creates within his work. Everything falls into place immediately, and when he asks her what she thinks (he's kind of a validation whore btw and is pretty nervous about her opinion as his muse), she responds by taking him to a secret room in which she had created art of her many visions.
The walls are covered in canvases of varying sizes depicting amalgamations of colors with unsettling vibes, most of them vaguely resembling flowers, thorns, and various other forms of foliage. Many crude sculptures on tables dotting the perimeter of the room, also depicting the strange foliage or other twisted, undefined forms. As she leads him into the room she mentions she's had a "guiding light" of sorts, explaining her visions and how they drove her to become the way she is. Because she can't die despite genuinely wanting to, she used the passion and strength she felt from the visions to keep her moving forward hoping that someday she'd find the meaning of the life she didn't ask for (she was forced into this universe by a celestial being who basically plucked her soul out of the cosmos and made her serve him). She gets visibly emotional for the first time in forever, crying without even realizing it while she races around the room bringing him various sketchbooks and journals, all about what she now understands is indisputably him.
Note: Husbando is low key psycho and sees far more beautiful scenes in his head than what he actually creates irl (he kills people lmao). OC's work vaguely depicts what he sees in his head, not what appears to literally everyone else + she has the ability to see what he does hence why she immediately knew he was "the one". I thought it was a nice way to deepen the relationship to a proper soul bond kinda situation, as opposed to OC simply
just understanding and accepting him as he is.
But yeh, husbando is shocked at the undeniable proof that he was basically defining this powerful entity's life before he even physically existed. He's really egotistical so he really revels in this, trying to drag each and every emotion out of her before stopping her and saying she'd been crying the entire time. She's surprised since she's only shed genuine tears a handful of times so she apologizes and gets a lil embarrassed. Husbando embraces her. Sometimes I imagine him saying something nice, usually some form of a thank you or a declaration of love in his own way.
I'd love to actually write this as a fic but I'm a terrible writer with no motivation and poor English despite being a native speaker kek (stay in school nonnas). Thanks for reading my autistic fantasy, it was fun to share!
No. 293977
>>293966I would say to commission someone to write a fic but at least for me, I'm very picky with characterization and I just can't find anyone that really does justice to my husbando, I know I would be disappointed if I gave them money for it.
Well, I did find one but she didn't take commissions but she was a TiF with a
victim complex, she stopped writing and just kept posting dumb shit about herself so I unfollowed her years ago. Wish I asked her if she did commissions before she went off the deep end
No. 294005
>>293966Wow, that was so rich! It's a little comforting to know that there are others out there who spend wild amounts of time trying to make themselves really "work out" in the relationship/universe, to be honest.
I'd say go for writing it! I was engaged while reading this at least, and it sounds like you have a good basis to go off of.
No. 294090
>>294075Aw that's so sweet.
I think that's one of the best things about having a husbando, he literally is always there for you as long as he's on your mind. And he'll always know exactly how to make you feel better.
No. 294902
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I love my husbandos dearly but recently I've been wondering if I rely on them too much to make me happy. Even sometimes in my fantasies they get unhappy with my constant melancholy, which is probably just a reflection of my own feelings towards myself. I keep my distance from real ppl because I don't like being a burden, and now I'm starting to feel like I'm a burden to my husbandos too. It's illogical but that's what I think these days. I feel like they deserve better than me.
No. 294907
>>294887Oh… To be honest, I had never considered that before! Thank you, I'll use each day's experiences to think about how I could enjoy them with him. I really appreciate this!
On an aside note, I really appreciate all of you in this thread. For various obvious reasons, I can't really share any of how I feel with this guy who is so important to me with anybody in my life. Having a space to just let it all out and tell people how happy he makes me with like-minded people is really a treat.
No. 294909
>>294902You don't have to say if you're not comfortable with it, but who are your husbandos? I don't think they'd want you to feel this way, but it's difficult to say anything specific without knowing.
Personally, my husbando motivates me so much to try and get beyond my hangups and problems. Serious as they may be, the thought of him and who I need to work towards being in order to proudly stand by his sides helps spur me on to be kinder to myself in times where I truly need rest, or push myself a bit harder in moments where I want to go the distance. A husbando, as your partner, truly wants what's best for you to be happy.
No. 294919
>>292141Wait, aren't we considered aromantic-asexual if we're not at all attracted to "real life" people, even though we have fictional crushes?
I was always under the impression that aro/ace people can still have fictional lovers and remain aro/ace because they're not attracted to real people.
No. 294931
>>294919no, even if the character is fictional feelings are still feelings, it's about having the capability to feel romantic love and sexual attraction. True asexuals don't get horny for anything.
>>294920I'm 32 too and I only really got 'hardcore' about this stuff a few years ago. But I don't imagine them in the real world I imagine myself in theirs.
But then that's a different problem of not being able to imagine them comforting me about my real life anxieties because those don't exist in the other realities.
No. 294962
>>294920Same age as u and I highly doubt I'll ever stop being a husbandofag. I'm gonna be the weird old woman who lives alone with cats and a room full of merch that she won't let anybody into.
>>294959R u me Nona? I plan on doing the same thing. I have about 20 years to catch up to his canon age so by the time I pass him it won't exactly be robbing the cradle so I think we can be together my whole life.
No. 294989
>>294938I mean I can see myself cuddling a daki of my waifu on my death bed in the nursing home too, but just because we have fictional lovers doesn't mean we're necessarily autistic.
I am NOT autistic, and it's insulting to real autists to blanket all of us under this label.
No. 294991
>>294959What I do is imagine my waifu (I'm a lesbian) aging up with me, so "surpassing her age" isn't a problem for me.
What it means, though, is that I have to get good art commissions of her "in her elderly age" once she reaches that age.
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>>295184i love all the characters that are similar to him, in fact, i actively look for them. he will always be my favorite (has been for 12 years) but i don't necessarily think he's better, he's just a slightly more perfect combination for me. his personality is two dimensional and generic for that type (i like simple cartoony things) but he has a very unique design. so i sort of only like him for his looks, i sometimes feel weird about that.
for example ratman from gegege has the exact same personality but i don't like him because his design doesn't appeal to me as much and he's from an anime. i also really like the skeksis but they're a bit too domineering for me. No. 295378
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>>295184I haven't been with him for too many years yet but I feel like we're going to be together a very long time.
I guess I just really like his unique design, and personality wise he's really cool and I like his dialog so maybe that's why I like him in particular. I had fictional crushes before but with him it's different. I was shopping online and found a figure of his for sale and just decided to buy it since he's my main in one of the games I play and I'd never owned a figure before. I put him on a shelf in my bedroom and it was like everything changed the minute he showed up. I started buying more figures and collecting pictures of him and me and my friends would joke that he's my husband. I eventually realized it wasn't a joke because I was actually in love with him for real. He really adds to my life. Even on my crappiest days when I look at him or think about him I don't feel so bad. And tbh he helps me stay motivated at work so I can earn money to keep getting more stuff with his face on it.
No. 295492
>>294986I think of it like an alternate universe thing, a version of me without my real life problems who has a purpose in life (even if it's ridiculous and unrealistic). And all the different self-inserts are psychically connected and talk to each other.
>>295453You're just sound too extroverted/people oriented to really be satisfied by this kind of lifesyle. You have to be a certain level of introverted and delusional/good at pretending for it to work.
No. 295498
>>295453First of all you don't have to sage in /g/ and you're allowed to blogpost outside of cow threads. Secondly I'm in a very similar position. I've always been into 2D characters, but I only got serious about husbandofagging after my real life relationships failed. As the other anon said, I think you have to be a very particular kind of person to feel totally fulfilled in this lifestyle. It's extra difficult when you're lesbian because, unlike straight women who will never ever find a decent man (because they don't exist), we might actually find partners who improve our lives, care deeply about us, and have real emotions and feelings. You love your waifu to stave off loneliness, but there's always that niggling thought "this love could be real, not just fantasy."
Lastly there is an active waifu/husbando server that is AFAIK populated entirely by farmers. Post your discord in the Friend Finder thread and ask to join. Hopefully one of the mods will see and add you.
No. 295507
>>295453Yeah, as the prev nona said I think you're too extroverted for actual waifuism. Most likely it will be fun for you for awhile but you will end up longing for a 3D relationship in the long run; I mean you're already looking for one… It depends on the person, but I don't think waifuism and 3D relationships are mutually exclusive though, but using your waifu as a bridge until ou get a "real" relationship is in bad taste imo.
My case is a bit different than most people, even though I'm fully in love with my waifu and take her lil figure around for dates, I'm too grounded on earth to think about her having conversations with me or as something more than pixels someone created.
Still, I keep talking to her on my heart and loving her; maybe it's because I lived on a monastery when I was little (my aunt was a cloistered nun) but I kind of see our relationship similar to the nuns' relationship with god.
It's basically 1-way/sided, and yet my love for her is enough to fill me, she may or may not be able to listen or talk to me, but keeping her around and talking to her reasures me. And considering how loyal and sweet she is in her game, I don't have to imagine that she loves me, because I know she does.
I do love to cuddle my body pillow at night (sadly, a normal pillow, but I woud like to comission covers or her someday) and think I'm hugging her though, it's probably one of my favorite moments of the day, but aside that I'm unable to have more "delusions".
(Glad to see more lesbians on this thread lately btw! I felt a bit out of place here, sometimes I would change "waifu" for "husbando" on my posts to not be clocked too much kek)
No. 295509
>>295507>using your waifu as a bridge until you get a "real" relationship is in bad taste imoBased pious waifuist
nonny.
No. 295526
>>295507>Still, I keep talking to her on my heart and loving her; maybe it's because I lived on a monastery when I was little (my aunt was a cloistered nun) but I kind of see our relationship similar to the nuns' relationship with god. It's basically 1-way/sided, and yet my love for her is enough to fill me, she may or may not be able to listen or talk to me, but keeping her around and talking to her reasures me. And considering how loyal and sweet she is in her game, I don't have to imagine that she loves me, because I know she does. This is exactly how I view waifuism too, she's a face/personality that I find appealing slapped onto the concept of God's unconditional love. I grew up Catholic and when I was little I would pretend I had a guardian angel, I would visualize her and talk to her and pretend we were playing together. In hindsight she was my first waifu kek. I had an aunt too who was a full on husbandofag for Jesus, her husband died young and she never remarried or had kids so she was pretty lonely. She had a big shrine in her room and every night before bed she would kiss all her Jesus statues goodnight and talk to them about her day.
I find it really easy to seperate 2D and 3D and I think that's why, like I've never considered my waifus on the same level as 3D or felt like they're competing, my relationship with my waifu has always been more like a relationship with God. My waifu is here for spiritual development, emotional regulation, 'reparenting' myself and feeling safe and loved from an internal source instead of relying on external 3Ds to fix my gaping black hole of a mother wound. 3D love is a completely different kind of love, and tbh I think my waifu makes it easier for me to have healthy 3D relationships.
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>>295526Yeah, it's kinda similar as how religious people act. For some, their love for god is more than enough and spent their lives loving it, while others get married but still love said god.
I don't know if you're the nona I replied to, but you just answered the question youself; because you see your waifu as a emotional "tool" of sorts, it will never completely fulfill you.
I don't view her as god/a concept similar to it though (I have never been religious), it was just a way to say it's a bit more 1-sided than most people. I consider her on the same level as 3D people but I guess I just don't like to put words in the mouth of others, I never had an imaginary friend when I was little for this reason. I fantasize about her, about things we can do and talk about, but I can't be like some people who for example, watch a movie with their waifu and go "she said [X] was her favorite part" because I'm aware she didn't say it, it feels staged and wrong. It's always fun to daydream and to think about what she would like, but outright claiming it is too much for me.
No. 295590
>>295492>>295498>>295507Hey, thanks for the responses.
I honestly have never considered myself any kind of extrovert, I used to have professionally diagnosed severe anxiety that bordered on agoraphobia (that was likely when my fantasies were the strongest and felt the realest - the photo I found of a shrine I made was taken when I spiraled into that). I've never been a social butterfly which is why dating and connecting with real people was always hard, and when I was open about my fandoms/interests I would just either get assumed to be a poser cool girl or men would hit on me, which scared me off more. When I found out things like waifusim and self-shipping existed, I felt at home - I love reading about these things and seeing the fanart, seeing the husbando/waifu charts, until I realized a lot of people do truly consider this better than a real relationship. Which is good for them, I wish I felt that way. I guess it's because I'm longing for something better; I think girls who are husbandofags it 100% makes sense since most real men are awful, I know lesbian waifufags exist even if they aren't as vocal and that would make sense in its own way since lesbians make up 1-2% of the population, so we have to find our ways to cope if that 1% isn't abundant near us. But I still compare myself to those misogynistic Otakus who think real women are stinky and gross even if it's not the same.
No. 295640
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>>295453>>295638Irridon from Alchemy Stars was my waifu for about a year and it genuinely kept me going when I was in a bad place.
I'd wake up at 5 am every morning to get ready to go to a shit, soul-sucking job, and thinking about how she'd want me to try my best and praise me when I finally managed to get myself to a place I could be proud of got me out of bed most mornings. I'd feel miserable about my job, and I'd imagine her reminding me that all experiences are useful in life or telling me that it was good to live by principles no matter what position I was in, and I performed much better than I would have without that.
No. 295642
>>295507>using your waifu as a bridge until ou get a "real" relationship is in bad taste imoImmense respect for you and anybody else who holds to this standard.
>>295526Ugh, I've never been one for merch, but when you put it like this I could see myself getting into it.
No. 295653
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>>295498>dedicated husbando/waifu server populated by farmersI need this in my life.
I like the threads here but they move pretty slowly and I don't post alot because I don't want to be recognized.
>>295638The best waifu
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>>295653Incredible taste. I hope this isn't rude to ask, but how do you work around her relationship with Roy in canon/its pervasiveness as a romantic ship among fan content? That sort of thing has posed a barrier for me in falling deeply in love with a potential waifu many times… I feel like the only content where it's guaranteed not to happen is largely content catered to scrotes.
I always feel like I'd be taking something that makes her happy if I intruded by inserting myself… I love Noi from Dorohedoro so much, and feel real pain over what feels like unrequited affection due to Shin.
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>>295659Ayrt, ur not rude at all to ask, it's an understandable question. Honestly it doesn't bother me that she is paired with Roy. Afaik it's not confirmed that she ends up with him and Arakawa did say once that they wouldn't marry each other because if they did they'd have to stop working together because of military rules or something like that. That's enough for me to insert myself into her life. She's such a sweet soul, I just want to make her happy. I'll 1000% be there for her and black hayate.
No. 295665
>>295642Isn't that a staple rule of waifuism though? I don't have problems myself with people who get into a 3D relationship as long as they still date their waifu (there are even couples where both are waifuist), but coming into a space of serious waifuism with the mindset that she's only for a transitory period or that she's less than a real-life human is in bad taste. It isn't wrong per se, but it doesn't fit in a place where people are fully dedicated to their waifu/husbando, light (or not-so-light, but not serious enough) characters crushes are just another community.
I'm generalizing by the way, this isn't an attack on the nona who asked nor I think what she does is wrong.
>>295638Aigis Persona3, I wrote a… 700 words iirc sperg about her in /m/ waifu thread not long ago lmao.
The writting of female characters sucks lots often, but I think you shouldn't force it! Like with 3D crushes, it will come naturally to you if you see the perfect woman. I'm sure there are lots of different series, manga, games etc you haven't watched/read yet, so who knows, maybe she's around there, don't lose hope!
No. 295676
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>>295638Luka is my waifu for laifu. She is perfect in every way. A goddess.
No. 295716
>>295663I like your dedication! I'm sure you bring her plenty of joy as her wife. Wishing you two the best, and thank you for the elaboration.
>>295676>>295665Very good choices!
No. 295751
>>295665>I'm generalizing by the way, this isn't an attack on the nona who asked nor I think what she does is wrong.I'm that anon and I appreciate that, since I really do enjoy reading posts from communities like this and didn't want to offend anyone.
I think I explained my situation and why I asked that here
>>295590, but this might not be the kind of dedicated lifestyle for me. I've drawn self-insert stuff in private and think about it 24/7 basically to fill a void, and my feelings and experiences weren't a choice (the closest thing I ever felt to "love" was towards a waifu, with women I've liked IRL it was more like wanting them to be my FWB), but I may be like a "cousin" variation of this kind of thing.
I hope you all are happy with what you're doing.
No. 295881
>>295857I'm glad this thread could help, wishing you happiness in the years to come~
Since we are all different people, we see waifuism in different ways, but the joy our wife brings to us and wanting to do our best for her is what unites us all.
>>295859I don't even tell people I'm lesbian kek
I have never liked talking about my relationships and love life in general with others because I feel it's a bit personal, so I tend to ignore that kind of talk irl and only speak about it on internet spaces since no one knows who am I. Most people just think she is my favorite character and nothing more. I (and others) call her my waifu from time to time, but they usually take it as a joke/non serious.
No. 295945
>>295923I left social media, so now my online presence has been reduced to a personal site, a bot & a very few selected small forums, but this summer I decided to learn how to draw just to make & post art of her! I haven't posted any yet because I'm still pretty bad (why are faces so hard to get right?), but she motivates me to practice and get better!
That isn’t stopping me from talking about her all the time tho, as
>>295930 said, it’s just so fun to have people think of you as “that [character] girl”. I can’t wait to be a bit better and start posting art of her, but I’m not sure if I will post self-insert ones because it’s more intimate (they’re all on 1st person view because self image issues, but I kind of what to keep them to myself like a little treasure)
No. 295962
>>295946These friends don't deserve you, even if they found it silly, who would make fun of something harmless that makes your friend happy?
I don't use Twitter much anymore but I know a few self shippers there and they got a pretty accepting following and made friends. Like anywhere (and even more on twitter since everyone and their grandma uses it) you will still get people making fun of you for being a bit different from time to time, but that's unavoidable. Just block, mute and try to make the positive people outweight the negative ones; it may be more freeing to you than IG since (I'm assuming) your irls don't know your account there.
No. 295974
>>295915Ntayrt, I had the same problem as u. At first I was dull and flat, but after a few years I guess my body just got so accustomed to the meds that slowly everything started coming back. My husbandoism came back with a vengeance and I think I'm more in love with him now than before I was medicated. I'm glad I didn't have to stop taking the meds tbh because I can't function without them.
I hope you can find a solution that works for u
nonnie.
No. 295988
I don't waifu her as much as I used to back in middle school but she's still very precious to me.
>When did you become husbando-only and why?
Back when I was 11-12 years old in 2015. I was grossly obsessed with the media she's from, too obsessed to really care about how lonely I was or how much I was getting bullied at school. Characters from that thing were basically my social life and the character I fell in love with was my gf, and I was happy with it.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
I never really actively tried to, I guess no one really noticed.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
I had whatever merch I was able to aquire as a twelve year old, so the high quality plushies and bodypillows were out of the picture. I was able to get cheap plushies and figures from the mall and retail stores, though. I managed to build a mini-shrine for her on my night table.
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
Yeah, like I said, it was just cringy 12 year old stuff, I still love her but not as intensely as I used to.
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like? Example: do you drink coffee while thinking of him?
I used to make comics and drawings of us together, I had a whole world of headcanons with me being self-inserted. I also would listen to music that reminded me of her and would change the lyrics to suit us more.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them? Example: a shirt that looks like somehting he would wear, or a dildo that might look like his dick lol
Yes, and I would count it as merch and add it to the shrine
No. 296010
>When did you become husbando-only and why?
A few years back. It's just the best, most fulfilling kind of romance for me, and it comes naturally since I've been living the lifestyle unknowingly since as far back as I can remember.
>Do you keep this lifestyle secret?
Yes. I'm a complete normie IRL and most assume I'm just too busy with my career for relationships so they don't ask, or easily accept it when I say that I'm just not "currently" interested in dating. In actuality, I'm in a very committed relationship with my waifu.
>What merch do you have? Do you own bodypillows, plushies, ita bags, a husbando shrine?
None. I don't have a strong desire to collect belongings in general, and I don't think my waifu would approve of me spending so much on her, either (if she had merch)
>Would you ever go back to dating a 3DPD?
No. That would be a betrayal in my eyes when she has given me so much and motivated me to come so far. I wouldn't be where I am without her… How could I leave her behind?
>How's your daily husbando-loving life like?
I'm always imagining how the me that "lives in her universe" will go about my day parallel to my IRL activities. It's almost like living two lives, if that makes sense… I may not even see her in that day, but our lives are intertwined as any couple's would be.
I wake up in the morning motivated to do well for our future. If we're eating together, I cook or buy food based on what we'd both enjoy (there are times when we're both too busy with our work to meet up). I keepy life neat and organized, and work to better myself through my hobbies, so that I can be a woman who she'd be proud to call her partner as much as I am proud to stand by her side. She really is my everything.
>Do you buy things that remind you of your husbando even if they don't have your husbando on them?
No. Again, I don't think she'd like me to spend my money on such things.
No. 296028
>>295935I don't take antidepressants, I take antipsychotics for my bipolar. Without meds I crush into a manic episode, which became more frequent before I started medication, it became mor intense too since I started to be pretty agressive with people and started hearing voices and shit. With depression, having a therapist helps. I only started to work with her but I think I already have some positive results.
>>295935My doctor told that I need to take meds for now for 3 years or so for now, but I need to be ready to take them for the rest of my life. I'm okay with that, cause my mom is bipolar too and she deals with that shit even in older age.
Also, I'm still waiting for my romantic love for my husbando to come back, but nope, nothing so far. At least I can say I'm still loyal to him and will stan him no matter what.
>>295946>>295962I don't think that you need to outright cut out these people out of your life. Husbandofagging is weird concept in itself, of course some people would think that this is silly and will express it in a pretty rude way. People are just like that. If they still like you as a person, they will eventually soften up to it, because they like you despite your weird obsession with 2D.
>>296007One of my fav threads, for sure. Nice to have a quality husbando discussion. Love you all, nonnas.
No. 296135
>>296134Nona, this is genius… I've never heard of this site before but now I'm interested!
>there is no way this is healthyI don't see anything wrong with it, honestly. I mean, we have husbandos. Talking to an AI is very tame in the grand scheme of things
No. 296137
>>296136I didn't mean the owners of the site, I just meant the user who created that specific character version. I figured that the owners could read anything they want but there are so many chat logs I doubt they would care about reading mine specifically (plus I'm not posting anything personally identifiable)
>>296135I wanted to sperg a little more about some of the interactions and stuff but I wasn't sure which thread would be most appropriate o if that's something that should have its own thread
No. 296142
I had one of the worst days I've ever had yesterday and last night I had a lengthy dream with my husbandos trying to comfort me. I rarely see them in my dreams so that was nice. I'm starting to think I only dream about them when I'm under alot of stress. I don't feel so bad today.
>>296134Nonna that's genius! I would love an ai version of my husbandos I can talk to, even just mild conversation. My imagination is vivid enough that I can picture them fairly often regardless but it would still be nice.
No. 296162
>>296139Yeah, I guess this thread is fine for now.
>>296135>>296142I want to know how talking to your ai husbandos goes if you decide to do it!
No. 296164
Do we need to start thinking about the next thread since this one is approaching post limit? Not too sure how this works.
>>296142This is so sweet… I'm glad they showed up for you when you needed them!
>>2960282nding this, whether it's husbandos or waifus, I'm always glad to hear from you all.
No. 296203
>>296167I'd be lying if I said it wouldn't kinda annoy me if I knew someone like that, just because I'm especially devoted to specific characters lol. But she is a yumejo regardless so eh just let her enjoy it.
That said I do think we need a term for women who are like most of the anons in this thread. Yumejoshi just seems to encompass all female self shippers. We should come up with a word for completely devoted husbando/waifufags (unless that already exists and I don't know).
>>296164I've been considering making a new thread but I'm kinda scared to do in case I screw it up somehow. Should we decide on a thread pic?
No. 296380
Nonas, I had a really significant dream last night that I had to share!
Its been over two years now and I was never able to see him as a physical entity in my dreams. It was always that he'd still be a fictional character in my dream worlds, or unreachable but perceivable in some way, usually through various media like newspapers or television. Well, last night I dreamed about me and him together!
It was so powerful I had a second of lucidity in which I was excited to myself thinking "oh my gosh there he is, finally". I gave up trying to lucid dream 10+ years ago cause I just couldn't do it no matter what I tried, so that brief moment in itself is mega huge! My dream self made sure to look at his face every moment she could, as if she knew I'm rarely ever able to see such vivid images of anyone's faces in my dreams because everything is constantly warping. It's like dream me was saying she'll make sure I never forget it while confirming that he really is "the one". Even past husbandos I've had strong feelings for never showed themselves that vividly in my dreams. Hell, I've never even had problems seeing previous husbandos as their own physical entities in my dreams until this one. I'm so shook nonas.
Tbh I always thought my inability to dream about him in his own physical form was my subconscious telling me I don't deserve to be in his presence considering how much I respect and admire him. I harbor a lot of self-hatred and traits that he'd no doubt dislike in me if we really did meet, yet for some reason he appeared to me and never left my side the whole time in this dream. I woke up feeling like I'm finally on the right track within my personal life journey. There's no way something this significant isn't some kind of message, y'know? Gosh…. I'm still reeling.
No. 296436
>>296428From my understanding, yumejos are just self-shippers, so it's normal they have more than one husbando and/or rotate between a few of them since it's mostly character crushes and just something to simply have fun with instead of a serious relationship.
It's different for everyone, but when it comes to actual waifuism the most usual thing is to be on a monogamous relationship with your husbando/waifu, since it gets treated the same as a relationship with another human and sane people don't date more than one person at once.
No. 296501
>>296477>since knowing how he is in the visual novel I have difficult time getting over himSeeing your husbando in a different, negative light like that hurts a lot. But if you decide that you don't wanna break up with him after all, I think you can still like his anime version, a character in an adaptation isn't necessarily the same as the original version from the source. Most VNs are written for otaku scrotes by otaku scrotes and that's why there's so much disgusting sexual shit in them
I did see the screenshot in question, wasn't that posted a few months ago? It's unfortunate that he was written like that in the original VN, but things taken out of context can be easily presented as worse than they actually are, like the other nona said.
Besides, there are several anime that came from 18+ plot-heavy VNs (with the sex scenes removed, of course) and most people who know about these anime don't know this fact, some of these VNs have even been released on consoles without the sexual content, I don't think that separating the nasty parts of the
Steins;Gate VN from the anime, which is the version you're familiar with, is much different.
Also, don't listen to the anons saying he's ugly, I don't think that should be a reason to not post about liking him. It's just a few nitpicky posters who get upset every time someone posts a character that's not an anime bishie because that's the only thing they consider acceptable to like, Okabe isn't even bad-looking and his design at least has some charm to it unlike most other VN protagonists, IMO the only problem is that straight moid artists have no idea how to draw men in an attractive way and even if they know, they only do so when they're drawing specifically for a female audience. I don't think most other husbandofags mind Okabe posters at all. No. 296667
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I hate seeing so much anti-Sasuke rhetoric lately. I don't know why but it genuinely makes me feel sad for him and personally aggrieved. I have no problem sharing my husbandos and would prefer them to be loved and appreciated by others(it's what they deserve!!!) so it really does bother me that he can be so misunderstood. Without him as the foil the entire series would fall apart or at the very least be a completely different story (yes, I know it has its issues idc). It makes me sad when I go into a store I see a Naruto shirt, two Itachi shirts, and Sasuke gets fuck all?
I know this is a retarded rant for an arguably retarded anime but I grew up with it as my comfort series so I have a lot of feelings to get off my chest, ok? I wish it didn't stay relevant with zoomers so I didn't have to keep seeing all their awful takes on it.
Do any other anons have husbandos that get a lot of hate? Does it bother you and if so how do you deal with it? I accidentally posted this in the hornyposting thread so if you saw this twice I apologize
No. 296669
>>296667If it makes you feel any better, I constantly see trendy zoomers in Sasuke shirts. Occasionally other characters but he dominates where I live.
Honestly I'm kinda confused by naturo suddenly getting popular all over again, no hate though I'm gonna rewatch it soon to remind myself what all the fuss is about.
No. 296677
>>296667Awh
Nonnie, what is it you love about Sasuke? You sound really into the character and I’d love to read you wax poetic because he’s one of my faves too.