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I'm just going to leave this here.
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Does anyone have problems with.. uhh.. their vaginal depth? My vag is like, 3-4 inches deep. I can barely fit my small dildo in there, let alone a full size one. This frustrates me to no end because I LOVE sex toys. I never understood how could some girls fit 8 inches or more up there.
Is this common?
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I feel like the sanic of masturbation.
I can get myself off in under 3 minutes with no heavy equipment and it does the job, but it's more of a pressure release rather than something I do for pleasure. Yet I don't like sex because it's so fucking fussy and takes too long, and I never get anything out of it. After a while I just get bored and shoo my bf off.
I don't know how to make myself enjoy it and I don't know what's wrong. Everyone's talking about it being this thing that feels super good and there's also the 'better than sex' saying but I feel so whatever towards it yet I have major FOMO.
I've been going back and forth on buying this for almost a yearhttps://www.vibease.com/
Anyone have an opinion on whether or not I should go for it?
So I had this problem until I got a partner who was very very gentle. Try:
-telling him to be gentle as possible, then even more gentle than that. like feather strokes. tell him your clit is more sensitive than his eyeball.
-wearing satin panties and stroking over the top
-putting the whole of his hand over your vulva and pressing or moving very gently
Lol, it's called an investment in quality. I'd rather buy something expensive once and use it for a long time rather than cheap out on something that's not going to last or is going to gobble up batteries. Considering all the shit this thing does, the price is definitely warranted.>>49205
As long as reviews are solid, I would say go for it, especially since there's a discount right now.
Glad that there's nothing wrong with me! Haha. >>49208
Brilliant advice anon, thanks! Tbh I think it's a combination of that and patience.
I can confirm it's real, did it once when I was younger but never managed to do it again.
Also I assume all of you orgasm via the clit? That's how I orgasm 100% of the time but there was a time when I was able to orgasm inside my vagina. Can't for the life of me figure out how I did it now. I've looked up tutorials and the sensation just makes me feel like I need to pee now…which is awful.
Sorry for this being totally unhelpful but I had never in my life orgasmed from vaginal stimulation until my current boyfriend.
For me it admittedly does kind of feel like I have to pee but according to him (and some blogs I've read) that's kind of the beginning of squirting. I've never squirted before but maybe the time you squirted was when you still had vaginal orgasms?
Tbh I don't think I could vaginally orgasm just while masturbating though because I wouldn't be able to get past that kind of feeling of having to pee as well as I don't think I could keep up the pressure because when I start to get close vaginally my body gets kind of weak ah haha. Any position that has my boyfriend hitting the front of my vagina is when I orgasm without touching my clit.
It doesn't feel like much when I try to uh…pleasure myself from the inside. For me it's definitely something that only a partner can do.
An ex gave me an internal massage once. It didn't feel particularly good while he was stretching me out with his fingers, but afterward when he slipped his dick in…good God it was amazing, I almost came just from that.
Another time, my date was especially good at fingering and almost got me off through that. He had the right place and perfect pressure. But he got tired so no climax for me lol.
I've heard that's what it feels like when you're beginning to squirt too but it definitely didn't feel like that when I managed it years ago. Like it feels bad so idk why anyone would be motivated to continue? >>49220
Wow that's really interesting… Maybe it's just about finding the right area. I've read countless tutorials online with no success. Sounds like a little project for when we have some time on our hands haha.
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Look at this roastie getting toastie
Vice is trash and this video is no exception.
However it's interesting to note how they mention the male dolls have more customizeable options, the ability to make them imperfect, as that's what their clients want. I think that really shows one of the differences the two sexes generally have when looking for a partner. Additionally, shows just how removed from reality bots&cels are when they cry online about roasties.
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11/10 would recommend
they actually modeled him into a realistic looking man
with sex dolls they model them after women who look like they underwent 50 plastic surgery procedures but the male one looks… normal
I never had actual sex (as in breaking my hymen) and probably never will.
Maybe because I'm not attracted to boys/only want to be with a girl but the idea of putting something down there (other than maybe the tip of a dildo at most) is a no no for me, it's really tight too and putting even a finger feels…weird. I can watch vaginal penetration and feel slightly turned on somehow but it's just weird to me and uncomfy) and I can only come from clit stimulation.
I feel like a weirdo sometimes.
Also I only had sex once and cannot manage to do it if i don't love the person/completely trust her. I'll fantasize about many kinky things (like tentacles) even though i'm mostly vanilla but in real life i'm so nervous and shy when it comes down to it.>>65362
Are you me? I used to have that too! It just kinda went away with the years, I feel kinda ashamed and if my birb is in the same room I just can't do it because I feel like he might be judging me (which is stupid)
I read fics and sometimes watch hentai, i'm kinda picky, same for 3D porn.
I like to imagine I'm being molested, I'm gross.
>you can have "actual sex" without vaginal penetration.
no you cant. she knows this intuitively, you have to delude yourself to think otherwise. proof enough.
>don't get brainwashed into thinking only putting shit up inside you is the only true way to have sex, it ain't.
you are doing the brainwashing, and yes it is.
Go away robot, penetrative sex is not the end-all. Lots of people find it meh at best. >>65392
It took years of trying for me to be able to have penetrative sex comfortably. It's not a lost cause but don't focus on it if there are other things you like more, it shouldn't be a chore.
Ho ho, you like buff guys don't you?
>tfw dolls can't hug you or pat your head
That's legit all I want. Maybe getting my butt squeezed too
Hey, me too!
I've been thinking of fingering a little more and trying to geta 2n finger in with lots of wetness/lube. Maybe that'll make the first time having dick up there hurt less?
Same here. I could only get a finger in two times in my life, but only because I spent more time relaxing and using a lot of lube. While usually I can't bother to spend all that time and just go for clit stimulation, lol.
So, when the time will come, make sure you have lube and do a lot of foreplay. Maybe it's just psychological and after doing it we will feel more "loose"
>>49097>sanic of masturbation>that image
But I understand anon! I only use my hands and I cum so quickly. I'm kinda scared of sex (despite being 22) but god, I fantasize about so many things (sometimes even fucked up, like tentacles) and I get myself off so quickly. I do multiple orgasms in general (two or even three sometimes) but I feel kinda ashamed to cum so fast
yeah me too. Though in most cases, I just masturbate to put myself to sleep or release stress. Like when I have a deadline or a stressful project.
But I only ever needed my imagination and fingers.
, I was in your shoes, anon. I'm not one to finger myself either and go for pads but for the first time, sex didn't hurt me because of lots and lots foreplay and lube. The only time sex did hurt me was when I slept with some other guy who decided just flicking my nipples would be enough for stimulation for sex and god that was the most painful experience ever, couldn't even really get it in.
i second this. i got a gigi on sale. for anyone who might actually want sex toy tips, lelo toys are really expensive but worth it. i started out with the mia. coming from a wand, it felt like i wasted money lol. but slowly and surely i regained sensitivity and even though it takes longer to climax, the orgasms are 10000000% better. but with the mia, it would only last maybe two or three uses. three is pushing it. the gigi lasts me days, which is so surprising. if you're considering a lelo toy i'd really recommend a gigi!>>65281
what's funny? ? the gigi is amazing
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>mfw nothing at all feels good
>clitoral stimulation feels bad no matter what I do
>fingering feels like nothing
>vibrators just feel weird/unpleasant
Dunno what I'm doing wrong but everything sucks.
how are you stimulating it?
When i first started i would just rub it, but it kind of hurts like that. try lightly pressing down and just wiggling your finger in circles, without actually "Rubbing" if that makes sense? also make sure you're not rubing it dry, if you're not naturally lubricated try using some lube to start
Ever crack your back when you fart or poop? Majestic shit that is.
Anyway I just bought this https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B072NYX872/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
and fuckig love it. If you're on a massive budget and hate buying batteries this one is a good one. It doesn't have a super strong clit vibe (all the vibration comes from the base) so I was disappointed at first but now I don't care, it does just enough and the vibration patterns can be fun to cycle through to warm up before you settle on the one you like
it comes from the strong stimulation on the nerves and i think the sudden relaxation of muscles. to be honest, im not too sure what it really is, because I know I once squirted drops and thought that was more accurate, but sometimes it just comes out like a waterfall and I just cant imagine where else would be so much fluid stored in my lower body but the bladder.
you can only avoid it by going slower or tensing up your pelvic muscles more.
Other solutions: start masturbating lying in the empty bathtub or buy latex bed sheets.
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There are a few BD models that I like.
But my preference goes to Exotic Erotics as they do absolutely gorgeous pours with their surprise and custom options.
I'm definitely getting one of their Orc models
No but I'm gonna try this. I've only ever managed to squirt once and can't seem to do it since. I had drunk a lot of water throughout the day and was really horny and more and more liquid kept gushing out as I was touching my g-spot.
Anyone have any tips on how to squirt, or know any good toys? I know you are supposed to stimulate your g-spot, but clearly people can gush just from stroking their clit, and I want to see if that's possible for me.
The proble is that I've felt like I "had to squirt" while being fingered before, so now I just refuse guys to finger me even though I really like it.>>67035
I can do it from both ways, what I do is when I stimulate my clit, I make sure to be a little aggressive right before I come (turn it on max, or move it around more). Once you're actually coming, just keep rubbing it a lot, hold it and hold it there and see if it helps. It doesn't always work for me but usually it does. If I stop rubbing when I come, it never happens though, so you just gotta keep going (it should happen right after your initial orgasm).
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I can only orgasm if I use my left hand's pointer finger to flick at the right side of my clit (has to do with the angle). Not even joking. Even doing that barely works.
I didn't say anything about penetration, though. That's always gross to me. I rarely do that and I always feel like absolute shit after. Like I raped myself. lol>>68317
Damn, good to hear. The only way I can really get off is frottage with clothes on and it's not that great either so I don't really bother normally.
Same here. It's shocking to see how many girls don't orgasm or even like penetration but are tricked into thinking its the one and only way to be truly intimate (unless they gay). I really thought I was the only one in the world who hated it. Its so relieving to know I'm not the only one.
On a similar note, does anyone know if there are any guys who don't like vaginal penetration? I've only known one person who said that it was "meh" compared to getting a bj. I'm guessing this is like finding a needle in a haystack though…
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I've been on antidepressants for about half my life. In the last 10 years, I've had maybe about 6 orgasms. I haven't had an orgasm in the past year. Toys, partners, hands, nothing will do it. If I go off of antidepressants, I get paranoid and depressed. On them, my sex life is shitty. I don't even want to get into a serious relationship right now because of my sexual dysfunction.
I try to masturbate pretty much every day and I never get anywhere. I always get bored and stop.
Clit stimulation, penetration and g-spot stimulation feel good, but it's never enough.
Been thinking about getting the Womanizer because I've had pretty shitty results with vibrators and it works completely differently.
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not exactly what you were asking for anon, but i travel a lot and instead of dragging my hitachi with me i use this. i can have it in my bags and no one cares, water proof, i pop the scrub attachment part off and go to town. vibrates crazy well and works perfect for me personally
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I got a Satisfyer Penguin. It's actually pretty good, but I wish the head was larger so it could fit a little more of the surrounding area. It's great for the price, and the higher settings are rather powerful. It has 8 settings, which go from very light/slow to very fast. Since you kind of hold it in the same place the whole time, it's not a great couple's toy. Unlike a traditional vibrator, you can't really do much teasing by moving it around.
Does anyone know if OP pic is safe? I read somebody boiled another pink toy from that company and the water turned red and now I'm afraid to use mine.>>72822
The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.
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Speaking of which, I fucking love glass dildos and plugs. I've never actually tried any on myself as of now (only on my bf, according to him it feels good tho) but I love the look of them, I'd love to have a collection eventually.
Glass can be colored unsafely, retard. If it's glazed or painted and improperly sealed instead of the dye being integrated into the glass, it can flake off or leech out into the body, and companies that lazy will use the cheapest, most dangerous dyes to do it. Even glass with no dye can contain lead or cadmium if it's low quality.
There's no real way to tell if a cheap glass toy is going to give you cunt cancer, just throw it out and buy a better one next time.
lead glass is extremely rare in cheap toys because it's expensive and fragile
also take a look athttp://dangerouslilly.com/2016/05/glass-sex-toy-safety/
Yes i contract and it feels good. My clitoris jumps while it is happe ing as well>>73166
I get wet after normally
No, it's not. If this is new, see a doctor about it, as something could be wrong.>>73226
That is an orgasm. If you find it underwhelming, know that not all orgasms are created equally. Among other things, the amount of build-up prior to orgasm can make an orgasm better or more mediocre. If it seems like it's not as good as you'd like, try letting it build up for a longer period of time. This can take a while to figure out, so it's good to be patient with yourself.>>73273
Is there only pain when it's an intense orgasm? Try masturbating the way you used to and see if the pain is still there. If so, something might be wrong. If not, it could be that the better orgasm comes with a harsher refractory period. Is your clitoris sensitive to the touch during and after orgasm, or does the pain persist even if you stop touching it?
No, now the pain always happens, no matter how I masturbate. Clitoris is sensitive, "responsive", it doesn't hurt after, only with an orgasm. It's like someone pinched, held, and released when the orgasm is gone.
Maybe I hurt it somehow? I'm never "brutal" though
Is that it? Was there any difference because that's fucking small. I noticed his belly more than his stubby thumb of a dick. I'd feel so emasculated and embarrassed if I were him recording That. Everyone now knows how small of a dick you have. Congratulations, that thing wouldn't even tickle the vaginal lips.
No wonder there's a thread dedicated to dildos on lolcow rather than mens' dick. The only one who thinks their dick is big is the man whom it's attached to.
I have that too althought it's not too bad so it doesn't hurt too much.
I have no advice except avoiding vaginal sex I guess… At least I know how it's called now so thanks.
But if it's really painful maybe you can get surgery on it.
It's good to take your time, especially if you're anxious or nervous in any way. My hymen was either really thick or my bf is big (he's pretty big) so it took us a while to get to PIV sex. We would try, get frustrated and go back to oral which was basically all we did this whole fall and winter. His parents were away so I was staying over, and we were on the bathroom floor next to the tub (we had just taken a bath) and finally I was just like fuck it, go for it, this is taking forever and I'm not waiting anymore, lol. It felt a little bit like being reamed out with a broom handle even though I was super wet and we had lots of lube, but it got significantly better right after that, so much so that I got a bad case of what they used to call honeymoon cystitis, i.e. a uti brought on by a lot of newbie fucking in a short span of time. Now I fuck constantly and it's great. All the oral we did while we couldn't actually have sex is a nice thing to fall back on, he's super good at it and I love sucking cock.
As for vibrators, I bought myself a Hitachi and it's worth it. I heard that after a while of using vibrators your clit can become insensitive tho, so I'm paranoid about using it too often even though I love it. Anyone have any idea if that's true or not?
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Said, it’s glass and it’s part of Icicles by Pipedream. I had this toy and it’s nice, but they have another tentacle-looking dildo that’s slimmer, ribbed, smooth and longer (pic). The “suction cups” on OP were kind of bumpy and annoying to me, I preferred the G spot stimulation of the long pink tentacle.
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Try the Eroscillator (+ Soft Finger tip, pictured). It’s nice and gentle and honed-in to one spot instead of the massive head of a Magic Wand or Hitachi. It’s a great rec for vibe beginners . I’ve tried a few vibes and it is by far my favorite, the only downside is it’s fucking expensive.
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Sorry for samefagging but I’m >>74174
and I read up on some DangerousLilly stuff and…yeah. Forget I recommended that to you.
The risk of buying a counterfeited item made with toxic materials.
It's ok if you're buying from a brand shop but you have to be aware that a lot of imitations are sold on Amazon (an you don't want to put an imitation Hitachi or Lelo in your precious couchie)
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i need it
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wtf thanks for sharing this. it's too good. led me to these bullet vibes that are like $16 on amazon with surprisingly good reviews. i think i'm just gonna do it. my favorite vibe isn't dead but it's getting a little sketchy so m-might as well get a backup right?
torn between devil ho and snake ho
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I want to buy my first toy. What is better - a dildo or a vibrator? A dildo appeals to me because it's more like a dick, and fantasizing is important in my play, but at the same time vib can give you more pleasure and you can use it as a dildo, yes? Or is a dildo superior with internal penetration?
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Seeing the Tokidoki ones on here made me buy this cheaper, smaller vibe to start as my first sex toy. It's adorable and has a lot of power for being only like $8. Can't wait to try it.
Fingering used to make me kind of squeamish too anon, you should get a small dildo to start with, and then you'll get more comfortable with insertion over time. Play some music you like and make sure you're relaxed, and enjoy yourself most of all. Try focusing on clitoral stimulation until you're loosened up a bit.
(A hairbrush handle also works if you don't want to buy a toy, but make sure there are no sharp edges)
i literally fucking love anal
for me sex is equally great-feeling in different ways both PIV and anal
but when getting off by myself anal is better (or I fancy DP sometimes lel)
I've done this a lot but always put a condom on whatever it is I'm using lol
But if you're a virgin, I recommend using your fingers. You'll want to feel both the pleasure from the penetration and "where you're going" with your fingers to make sure you don't hurt yourself. >>75468
I really like anal and DP as well, I have a small butt plug that is a godsent, I stick it in then finger myself. As much as people here like to say there's no anal pleasure without a prostate, I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing.
>>75623>I'm pretty sure it stimulates the vaginal walls from behind so doing both is amazing
This! thank you. i'm sure it's a different feeling from prostate pleasure and maybe not as intense, but if you get past the pain and are into the concept, it can be a lot of fun for that reason. it's just definitely not for everyone.
also i swear if i have at least a plug in during vaginal penetration or clit stimulation, it can make the feeling in my vagina and clit even more intense
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So, after months of bitching at my workaholic boyfriend about how little time we spend together (and therefore the lack of sex), I bought my first ever toy. Pic related - the Lelo Iris. Gone will be me angsting when my bf isn't around! Gone will be me angsting when he spends the night and falls asleep before fucking me!
It's a beautiful toy. I bought it because Lelo's products always look nice and unintimidating for a n00b like me. The varying pulses seem good for starting out soft and working up. I like the textured design as I'm a girl who doesn't like clitoral stimulation but adores penetration.
The soft pink colour is very attractive and the toy is quite smooth. It came with a packet of water-based lube but I also purchased a small bottle for later use.
I'm quite excited to try it out and glad that instead of being horny all the time I'll be able to start getting myself off - whenever I so please!
>>73116>The lower settings of this didn't work for me and the higher ones hurt. I've never been more disappointed by a toy.
I was >>72822
and while the toy works for me for one orgasm, I can't get two with it. Normally I can have at least 3. It's not a bad toy per se, but it's not universally great, either.
omg it makes me rage inside when people say that. like yeah if you fall in love with a person the way they look doesn't always matter, but that also applies to men and it certainly doesn't mean we don't care about looks when we're just trying to fap. it's just a shitty excuse made by presumptuous men who don't listen to women telling us what we like and don't like.
nothing turns me on more than hot guys who are my type and aren't afraid to objectify themselves to impress women honestly. like you said, it's so rare to find this that many of us don't even realize that's what we were missing and buy the line that women's attraction to men must "not be visual."
I wish I had reccs but in my case it wasn't a porno that gave me this realization it was danzig and type o negative music videos from the 90s
have the toy in ops pic and i really like it
its a lot of fun especially if you like tentacle stuff would recommend also its super cute
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I cannot recommend the Lelo smart wand more, it’s amazing and well worth the price, has a setting that changes the speed with the pressure you use!
I've read that peeled cucumber is fine with no condoms, actually, and is good for your vag. https://www.ohackers.com/article/put-peeled-cucumber-vagina/
I read it from a different source, but here's one that I found with a technique she uses included.
get in a place you can relax. Maybe try foria’s Hemp lube https://www.foriawellness.com/products/foria-awaken?variant=33410676675
And experiment. Don’t force anything. You need to be comfortable.
When I was having issues with pain it was just because I was uncomfortable. It helped me to get a little tipsy so I wasn’t really bothered with anything. I stopped associating it with pain and everything’s fine for me now.
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I just got one of these babies, and maybe I'm just inexperienced (this is my first vibrator that's not an electric toothbrush) but it is blowing my mind. The vibrations are powerful but not overwhelming, the size is reasonable (it hurts a little going in for me, and I am a very tight virgin), and it's very easy to clean. Also the price was pretty reasonable for the quality.
If you have trouble coming from clitoral stimulation, I would really recommend a rabbit-type like this one.https://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/waterproof-silicone-big-g
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I do this thing where i lay on my side and just squeeze my upper thighs together and can come in a few minutes, handsfree. I don't know if it is a real orgasm though because I've never had one during sex.
Whenever I mention the thigh thing people think it's really weird, I've only found one other girl who can do it.
Rubbing my clit is OK but it gets a little boring and I can never finish that way, same with fingering.
If any of you guys also use the thigh technique please let me know I feel like a weirdo.
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dude!!! i used to do that all the time before i had a vibrator because i kinda hate using my hands. i couldn't believe it "worked" and it felt like some sort of life hack. it's definitely not as pleasurable and full bodied as a regular orgasm but it's satisfying enough so i usually did it when i was distractingly horny and just wanted some relief.
i forgot about it for a while after i got my vibrator but i tried it recently and it still works.
evidently we aren't the only ones so why tf do we never hear about it?
Thank you!! I'm glad there's more of us lol
I wonder why some girls can do it and others can't. Maybe it's because of stronger thigh muscles or narrow hips?
nah I do it and I know a girl who does it too, she actually gave me an idea lol.
For me, I just sometimes do it while peeing (the more you need to pee, the better). I think of some quick fantasy and release the muscles, but before the pee gets out I tighten them and hold and achieve the pressure you're talking about. It's not quite like an orgasm for me, more like… very intense butterflies. It's definitely pleasurable, but I don't get off on it
that's the way i learned to masturbate too and it was the only way i ever got off until i went to uni. there i was forced to resort to my fingers due to the shitty hall showers lol. it took like 30 minutes and felt very underwhelming and hopeless the first few times but on like 5th attempt it started to get good and take less time. maybe just try to keep at it?? good luck!
altho stream of water is still my preffered method, warm water just feels so nice esp when on period.
Try reading erotica. Literotica.com, subreddits where people write their fantasies, fanfic, novels, etc
Or you could try audio porn. gonewildaudio, literotica's audio section, sexy audio threads from /soc/
with a good vibrator you genuinely dont have to think about anything
experiment with different ones, different positions etc and you should be good soon enough
I never watched porn or got off to porn, but I see a lot of "it's boring" from people who have quit. I probably won't ever really understand, but fantasizing is pretty easy and works well for me. Your brain might be wired for external stimulus from all those years and you probably haven't used the neuron groups associated with fantasizing to the point of having to reteach yourself.
Learn how to use your imagination again. You also don't have to fap all the time, either. Give your body a break. Fap when the feeling is upon you, and don't mirror the same habits you used when watching porn. Get used to interacting with your body, not just your clit, and familiarize yourself with how those sensations feel with the absence of an external stimulus overloading your brain.
Hope that helps, at least a bit.
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Yeah, mainly because I'm physically my type when it comes to women. Not conventionally 10/10 or anything, but I'd be dtf myself.
I also dabble in visual arts and mainly depict women with a similar build. I admit that's bordering on being a narc, but I also realize others wouldn't like my body so I'm actually very insecure in public.
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Can someone give me advice please?
>can't get off by my own fingers anymore, even after trashing my vibrators
>can only get aroused to extreme fantasy
>don't look at porn, however i do think about sex all day
I've tried nofap and it doesn't fix my inability to cum by hand. I get more and more frustrated until I eventually have a wet dream.
have you started a relatively new (as in the last year) birth control or medication?
i started taking orsithia in 2017 and completely lost my sex drive
even after not being on it since march of this year, i still havent gotten it back and have no desire to masturbate at all, and when i try im just numb basically and the orgasms, if i can have them, are basically nothing in intensity and really not worth the time
Try going off of the shower head for a while, then use rapid motions with your hands maybe? That's the motion that gets me off the most.
Regardless becoming accustomed to vibrations will just make it even more difficult in the long run. From what I've heard it's basically death grip for women lol.
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Anyone here tried a Louviva? I want to buy this one but I want to read honest reviews first.
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Their website looks like if someone was having an orgasm while making it
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i'm about to drop 1,300 bucks on a fucking sybian
sliquid slippery stuff isn't oily and is more gooey, but it's a bit watery and i find i'll need to reapply. it's my go-to, though
if you're really looking for that nasty, creamy lube tho, maybe check out the cum lube from bad dragon. i have no experience with it, but from what i've heard, it's thick
Nah it's more like a washing machine that you don't have to put your sneakers in.
Some of the heads don't even penetrate from what I've seen.
it's gonna be here on monday. i'm beyond excited, and still a little woozy from dropping that much cash. it'll be my most expensive sex toy, but cumulatively, i've spent more than 1300 on all the varying toys i've gathered through the years.>>111206
it's likely THE most powerful personal vibrator on the market right now. it does more that vibrate tho, some of the attachments rotate (like someone swirling their finger around inside you, but at 6000+ rpm lmao)
OK, i've used it a few times now, but it's pretty unwieldy and i'm still getting used positioning it best for my body. this thing is heavy, huge, and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.
once i can relax into it though, holy shit - my vision blurs and my legs turn to jelly. this machine has taken me to new heights.
but, no matter how good an orgasm i get from this thing, there's gonna be a little voice in my head afterwards saying "yea, but was it a 1300 dollar orgasm?" to which the answer is always gonna be "no"
i can't say i'd recommend buying it, but if you ever find yourself in the room with it, i really urge you to sit on it.
>>111516>and sounds like a god damn lawn mower.
Oh my. They should fix that on something so expensive.
Can you tell us more about how it works?
I had antibiotic treatment (sorry don't know what it's called in English) few weeks ago and my pussy has been acting out since then. My labia is painfully dry and masturbating is way less satisfying. I hate having to use lube. >>111160
Does anyone know if there's more affordable options with same idea? I know Sybian is a legend but I simply can't spend 1,300 bucks on sex toy.
Maybe when I'm old rich domme with a personal sex dungeon but not as a student.
Actually, antibiotics in itself shouldn’t affect your hormone levels. However, since it does affect your intestinal bacteria and enteric flora, and the health of your intestines does affect hormone levels, there might be a correlation.
Maybe read up on how to rehabilitate your intestines after taking antibiotics. Probiotics can be helpful.
Other than that… are you sure it‘s from the antibiotics? What did you get them for? Can you rule out a yeast infection (although idk how that would affect your libido)?
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Anons, I would like to find a good toy for beginners. Thing is, that i feel alot more pleasure when it comes to clitorious so it would be good to find some good vibrator…?
I really want to try out Lush / Lush 2 because the controlling idea sounds quite exciting to me. Anyone had experience with this one? Would you recommend it?
My bf bought this for me (without consulting me first so I couldn't veto it). It has known issues with connecting to your phone via blue tooth, which we observed. also, to charge it you have to pierce the silicone to get the cord in and that isn't hygienic at all. Germs will accumulate there over time in a part of the toy that will go inside your body.
I don't recommend it at all.
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I bought one of these “no touch” vibrators and it’s blown my mind. I need pretty strong vibrations to get off, but this one uses a really gentle suction and it feels like someone’s eating you out. I can usually only get off once in a sitting but this gets me twice every time. 12/10 and not very expensive, I think amazon has one type
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I have one of those and didn’t like it. I’m not huge fan of receiving oral sex, though.
Where do you guys find female-gazey porn/pics? To be honest I miss tumblr for it’s porn. Especially gifs because there is room for imagination.
I don't know what I expected to see but that picture wasn't it
But seconded, I feel like the destruction of spaces where you can express your sexuality contextualised within normal personal posts or share "soft" porn, like instagram and Tumblr, will lead to our options being either an underwear catalog or hard-core painal gangbangs on pornhub
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This. I want to enter an address into a browser and not see an ad for incest or fidget spinner buttplug porns thrown in my face, I miss tumblr for that.
Thanks for being the devil on my shoulder nonnie
, I'm always so tempted but i only want to blow the money if its gonna practically vibrate me out of my skin
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Not to blogpost but my mother recently found my dildo. I was embarrassed and all but it pissed me off when she told my father over the phone about it and they are DIVORCED! for 11 years! For what purpose???
I only fap late at night when my mom's already asleep.
She understands people have needs.
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Escalate. Next time she comes over, have something even more dramatic for her to find.
On a serious note, remember that it's totally fine and okay, and your mother had no right to look through your things.
Breaking news for your mother: you are grown woman. It’s her own fault that she was digging your stuff.
I mean, it’s not sex dungeon in your hidden basement.
When I found lube in my parent’s bath room I was happy that they are having sex=not divorcing more likely.
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visiting home and omg I forgot how much I love the water pressure here. I can come easily and good with fingers but the showerhead is like a whole nother level. just had a cheeky lil sesh and my legs are still shaking lmao (and I have toweled off, lotioned up and made this OC since then)
og anon, idk I think it depends? I used to masturbate exclusively with a showerhead from ages 9-18, then I had to switch to fingers (bc mounted showerhead in new place) and it took me like two weeks or so to adjust to that (but then again, I had never done it with fingers so there was def a learning curve included). however, ever since I did figure out how to get off with fingers I have had no problem switching around whenever. nothing will ever
beat period and showerhead combo though!
h-h-how do you think you can insert a showerhead
up your vagina?
by off chance you're not trolling, you stimulate your clit with both of the methods, in case of showerhead by pointing the water to it either like it is or by removing the showerhead so it's just the stream; in case of toothbrush by pressing the backside of the brush to the clit.
idk about that regret thing, I only feel like that when I've used "unconventional" things for it, have never used a pritt stick tho kek. the shame of grinding on a highlighter like some sort of retarded primate in heat you know
You can say clitoris. It's okay.
Also, try buying a real dildo so you don't feel so weird about it.
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can anyone rec some gay male porn with really nice moaning? that gets me off like no other, but a lot of times if you specifically search for it you'll get a lot of fake pornstar-y noises. i prefer amateur.
Can't really compare it, I don't particularly like or use vibrators and have also never used a hitachi and the satisfyer isn't a vibrator (although they do have models with vibration), it uses what they call pressure wave stimulation iirk. Some people compare the sensation to oral so imagine someone sucking on your clit over and over and over again. I ended up using it again that same night within like 10 mins and I couldn't even get past the 4th setting level (it has 11) without feeling like I was gonna lose my mind and it definitely gives amazing orgasms. I'd have to be home alone with a pillow over my face to ever be able to use it at the higher settings because shit gets INTENSE and there's no way I'd be able to stay quiet.
There is a learning curve to figuring out how to work it and position it the right way but I'm excited to use it again. Its worth looking into if it piques your interest though!
I've tried both. The Satisfyer is subtle good for a few orgasms, It's not really suitable for partnered activities. You just kind of hold it still. The Hitachi is not subtle. It's good for use with a partner and they can get it to work by putting it in the general direction of your clitoris. It's best to move it around or the vibrations can numb you out for a few minutes. You can pretty much keep going with orgasms for 20 minutes (when it needs to be turned off to cool down) if that's what you want to do.
One thing to note is that the Satisfyer doesn't have the largest "nozzle" so it might be a little bit difficult to get situated, depending on your anatomy.
I think it overall depends on the person and their anatomy but hard agree. I used to struggle to get off once per day even though I was aroused, with that bad boy I can finish AT LEAST once a day, sometimes twice which is impossible with a regular vibe for me.
I do think when I place it wrong it doesn’t feel the best, and I also don’t like the feeling of penetration with it going, dildo or fingers or anything. Usually I do a bullet vib + dildo combo but with the satisfier (I think I have an offnbrand one) I can go from unaroused to orgasm in less than 10 min
How was it and can you link?
I have a rabbit type that has a hard ridge at the head so it just sits stuck in you, it works well but I want something that is easy to move in and out.
It's really weird, I think maybe it just feels too good so I end up overstimulating myself out of lack of self-control. Somehow I've never gotten oversensitive after my bf rubs me, maybe I'll ask him to try it with me.
Do you just orgasm and keep going without stopping at all? At the same intensity?
Can’t say what it’s supposed
to be like, if there’s such thing, but to me it usually feels good the entire time.
Sometimes, when I’m only slightly horny but not really in the mood it’s a bit like you’re describing it, but I’ll also need a lot more pressure/vibration to come in general, so idk.
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I have nowhere else to share this for…obvious reasons, but, I masturbated for the first time!(I'm 20 btw) Like properly, I've done pillow humping like once or twice but it did not compare to what I tried last night. I got one of those magic wand vibe things. I accidently switched it to the highest setting first on accident though and that was…not pleasant lol. Though using the lower setting I think I almost had an orgasm? Maybe? My stomach muscles started like moving on their own and my head felt all light. But just as I thought I got 'there' it was too much and I had to stop myself. Is this normal? Do I need to just force myself to keep going or get a vibe with a lower setting? I'm going to try again tonight though, regardless.
>>118800>it was too much
Sounds like you got right to the edge and stopped before you orgasmed. Try to keep going next time, you'll definitely
know when it hits.
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Keep the vibe on that low gentle setting, you're comfortable with. You'll cum.
I've seen a few videos where the orgasm liquid that comes out is stringy and thick
would that be as close to squirting/cumming as girls get or would that just be because of some untreated infection?
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I bought my first dildo/vibe. It'll be here in a week. Kinda fell in love with this one because it's sleek and doesn't come in a gaudy neon color. I spent quite a bit because the cheaper ones on amazon have mixed reviews of either being wonderful or straight up not charging out of the box. I didn't want to take the chance.
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Slightly off topic, but I was looking at vibes and saw this in the reviews and I can't stop fucking laughing.
Late to the party, but just incase it's useful:
My bf bought the Lush 2 after checking with me to see if I was into it. It's a great toy, with powerful vibrations. The silicone is a lovely texture and it feels well-made. It's well-balanced and easily stays in while walking around. I'd recommend it, but not for you. The top part doesn't vibrate at all; it's just an antenna and on/off button. It's a really nice toy, but it really only does g-spot and other internal stimulation.
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If you guys ever wanted to get fisted by Thanos, there's a dildo for it
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It's about the size of a small woman's fist. You'd be surprised how many people buy this sort of thing. On amazon, they sell massive butt plugs that are meant more as a novelty, but there are gay men in the reviews who actually used them.
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Pic related is said "butt plug"
How big is it and is it soft? I have a rabbit but would like a more flexible version.>>119586
A sign of being very healthy, it's just the little death.
I'm 30 and I rarely go a day without my solo-time. Been like that since my teens and have only ever noticed a decrease when I struggled with depression or took meds for that
If it's not interfering with relationships or taking up too much time I would see it as healthy
If there's a too often, is there a not often enough? I do it about once a week, maybe even less than that, but every other month I go through a phase for like a week where I do it every day and sometimes twice.
I don't think there is a definite "normal" but more of a "what's normal for you" kind of thing, but I don't know.
There's definitely no reason to think that you should be masturbating more
You shouldn't stop yourself if you feel the need/want to (assuming you're in private at home), but not masturbating more isn't really an issue
Sounds like you're bi and like the majority of couples, lose that initial horny spark that can be short or long lived.
Sounds like you just trust your toys more.
yeah I've been stuck between thinking I'm bi because in terms of porn or looking at people I go both ways but then If I'm honest I don't want any contact with a person, it's more just visually appreciating someone.
I've had sex in relationships cos it felt like an expectation and one relationship I had for 4 years he never pushed it so we never had sex once.
I'm at a point where no matter what my label technically is I need to probably only date asexuals because I don't want to repeat having sex out of 'duty'
Sites like eBay and Amazon have alot of cheap knockoffs of branded toys or unsafe toy materials from China etc. A site like lovehoney would be better. Lots of product reviews on site and a plain brown box for packaging
The return address on their parcels is usually 'LH Trading' too so even that is discreet
My advice would be to to stick to safe materials like silicone and get something rechargeable if you want power
I buy from Eden Fantasy's it always ships in a plain brown box and doesn't say anything explicit on the billing statement.
They always seem to be having sales too.
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I'm someone who is hunting for toys with a more organic feel. I bought this one that is meant to feel a bit like oral sex. It's pretty nice but it's sides are not as soft as they should be and uncomfortable. Why can't sex toy companies make something that is comfortable and soft and still firm enough for stimulation?
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I have the Eroscillator and the "marshmallow" tip is honestly the best. I wasted money getting the other 3 attachments because this one is so perfect and squishy.
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Seems nice. I have also wanted to try one of Tenga Iroha's squishy products, anyone tried them?
If it makes you feel better anon, I relate to all of this in my own way. I've been attracted to both men and women, although the sexual "spark" is rare and I don't really have a drive to act on it, and I don't feel much downstairs anyway. Romantically, I love both sexes, but because sex seems like an obligation, and the other person loses interest eventually anyway, I've just given up on relationships entirely. If I ever meet an asexual person, where sex is rare and only when both of us really want it, or not at all, that'd be perfect, but I'm not going out of my way to look for it anymore.
It can't be made of silicone if it has a smell, no silicone toy will have a smell
Rubber/TPE/TPR all have smells and are all porous materials that don't ever wash completely because of this porous quality
Reminder to everyone ITT to stay the fuck away from porous materials like jelly toys. They aren't safe to use. http://dangerouslilly.com/2010/10/yes-jelly-sex-toys-can-be-dangerous/
Stay safe, fapping farmers.
Oh wow Dangerous Lilly has been the lil lolcow of sex toy reviewing blogs for about a decade, she's always been into bitchy subtweeting other smaller reviewers and chased a few away from doing what they enjoyed. She never shuts up about her manic episodes and the worlds 'fatphobia' towards her. Takes turns between bullying people and having personal crises
Do stick to safe materials like medical grade silicone though, or glass. Half the sex toys out there are made of materials that have no place going inside a body
Ooh, is there a thread about her?
I just noticed and copied this link from earlier in this thread. It's message is important to repeat. I had no idea that jelly toys were dangerous, myself.
The sex toy reviewing community is full of lil lolcows, super woke people that have daily tweets about all the transphobia and fatphobia that they are assaulted with everywhere they go.. that and they're constantly losing their day jobs and setting up gofundmes claiming they face homelessness..high rates of mental illness, always the victim
etc..none of them have enough of a following to get onto here though
I think most of us sadly start out with a jelly toy cos the the translucent look (and the price) appeals. I've had jelly toys literally melt and stick to each other before I switched to all silicone
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A bit OT I found her twitter. She will never lose weight because she gets injured, gals.
Yeah that’s normal for some. I‘ve never had one of those and am pretty sure it’s sadly just not a thing that my body does.
But yeah, heard a few women describe things like that.
Yeah lovehoney is good, they still sell a few jelly and rubber toys which I hate to see but have higher ratios of safe material toys compared to many sites.
I'd love to see a day when jelly toys are banned for being a health risk, prob won't happen though
Is it bad for you or just unnecessary? >>123247
All that shit should be banned at least from websites who don't want to give their costumers vag cancer or whatever. There is so much talks bout the harms of chemicals in plastic and beauty products these days so there should be more spotlight on stuff like this that people actually put inside their bodies.
i know this is like 2 months old, but wtf, I do produce a sticky-like mucus substance that its clear and has no color, kinda like egg white, like >>119204
describes but wtf, does that come out from your urethra??? I'd swear it comes out of my vagina instead. And apart from that, there is the usual quantity of pussy juice my vaggo produces when it's aroused oc. Also it doesn't feel like I "squirt it out".
Idk, more opinions on this?? I don't think that's squirting at all but kek, I'm curious on other people's experiences. I always assumed that was what comes out of all vaginas when you come.
Always go by the insertable length when buying toys, decent sites will always make an effort to give accurate measurements like that
Most toys have either a flared base or realistic toys have (ugly ass) fake balls so when a toy claims to be 8 inches on the packaging it can really be 6. I usually buy from a site called lovehoney and they list all measurements quite thoroughly cos the companies manufacturing toys often don't bother or they exaggerate
Comparing the picture on the site to a measure?
Because depending on the scale of your monitor and other settings it's not real life accurate.
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Here's a review of pic related. I got this years ago and although I adore how it looks, I realize that I'm not very compatible with this toy. It's got 5.5 inches of insertable length, but I can never fully push it all the way inside. I usually make it like half way through the second "bulb" before it's uncomfortable to try to push farther and I stop. That being said, I have had really good sex with a partner who I'm sure is more than 5.5 inches, so this puzzles me. Although I can use this toy to get off, it makes for an awkward position when half of this stiff heavy thing is sticking out of me and needs to be supported. If you like glass and length and you want this, I got it from shevibe (but I'm sure it's sold for cheaper somewhere else).
I discovered toys before losing mine too. I've had plenty of sexual partners since then but I could happily go the rest of my life without having PIV sex again
As long as I have a dildo I'm good
have you seen yourbrainonporn.com? I've seen it recommended here before. it might help with tips with how to deprogram.
could you look into other ways to get turned on? I listen to audios on r/gonewildaudio. I like them because it allows me to use my imagination and there are so many to choose from. my favourites audios are from r/HanksHouseOfIllRepute if you wanted a recommendation. might not be the one for you but there are so many users on GWA. you could also try reading erotic stories. good stories are hard to come by but there's always literotica. I find fanfic to be the best kind though haha.
I hope you manage to get turned on by less fucked up things, wishing you luck anon!
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I bought a rabbit vibe at 21 and the first time I used it, I kind of 'stretched myself out' for want of a better word. it was uncomfortable but not painful. I have no idea if I had a hymen but I think if I did this is when it was stretched. years later I got a bigger toy, this time a dildo and again with first time use I felt a stretch/tear but now I use with without discomfort.
I've mentioned this online before and someone asked why I would do that instead of waiting for a man to 'stretch me' out. but I see it as a good thing? it feels like one less thing to worry about once I do have sex for the first time.
did anyone else here use dildos before sex? or use dildos as a virgin?
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when I was a young teenager before I ever got any toys I used to use the handle of a hairbrush as a kind of makeshift dildo. it had a strange handle that was kind of like a shoehorn (pic related) and used to hit my gspot perfectly (though I didn't know that was what was happening at the time). I've never been able to find a sex toy with a similar shape. I've searched and there is nothing. I wish I had that old hairbrush back (lmao) but I threw it away long ago. that shit was better than any expensive dildo I've tried since. sigh
I think it's completely normal.
I like to masturbate and fantasize, but the thought of having sex with someone else just grosses me out.
I love the feeling of having something inside me as well and I sometimes use dildos or vibrators. But I genuinely can’t move them or I won’t be able to get off. So it’s more like a vag-plug.
I mean, it works this way for masturbation, I guess, but it sucks for actual PIV sex. And I would also like to actually mimic some sort of thrusting and still feel something. It’s just frustrating.
I also feel like the orgasms tend to be way less intense when I insert something very early on instead of when I’m already super close.
I don’t know. I feel like my vagina is super weird because of it.
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I just ordered a satisfyer pro 2 and I really hope it’s as good as people say lol. One of my friends has it and she looooves it, I just want a different kind of stimulation cause my vibrators feel sort of.. repetitive now. Also considering buying one of those toys that has a ‘sucking’ feature because I love when guys suck on me during oral lol
i meant ring size was 3.25-3.5, not length. your first joint from the tip? or you mean the middle joint? it's absolutely not reachable to me whether or not i'm aroused, by just going in as far as the first joint from the tip, or even to the middle joint. i need to use my whole finger to reach it, and even then, it's not very well stimulated. it appears to vary in how many inches in it is. from what i'm reading, sources seem to say it's either 2-3 inches, or 2.5-3 inches in. i am inclined to believe mine is closer to 2.5-3 inches in, because my finger is bit under 2.5 inches in length and if i really reach in i can reach the beginning of it, but it's nowhere near as stimulated as when using something longer to reach it. it seems to vary, but i definitely cannot reach it from tip to first joint. i can't feel anything there.
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Does anyone actually use those dongs that you can stick on walls and the floor? They seem a bit pointless since there is no vibration, but I'm interested in the hands-free aspect.
No, but it’s not supposed to! It’s more like a thuddy pressurized feeling? It’s unique and pretty amazing tbh, kind of hard to explain. I’ve been looking at the nu sensuelle trinitii for an actual sucking toy…. so maybe when I buy that, I’ll post about it here too. >>130036
Almost all my dildos have a suction cup because they can fit in a harness… they do make some that vibrate and have the suction cup on them! I think they’re mostly ‘realistic’ looking tho
Replying to an old post but I know they're probably seeing it anyways,
Why do you think dating an asexual out of all people is the only route to happiness in a relationship for you?
I am not asexual since I don't like those snowflake labels, I would say that most humans to me look disgusting though and I'm not sexually attracted to any of them unless they look exceptionally good, and even then they're actually "meh" to me, I have at most once every three months "sex" and with sex I mean half assed masturbation because I force myself to do it to unasexualize myself since I want to get married.
I'm younger than you and I'm a virgin freak, you're in your 30s too, I'm speculating that at a certain age you just get a sexual deathbed if you had a lot of sex since it gets boring. Maybe take a break from it all (including masturbating) and then see if you like it?
Maybe you're just low drive like most sane people and the people you sleep with are high drive? Most couples I know of do not have more than once a week sex, Idk if that's healthy or goals or not.
Date an ace if you'd be ok with them not finding you sexually attractive tho lol.
>>130043>nu sensuelle trinitii
I saw someone describe it as a "small hard alien tongue" which sounds a bit shit. I am interested in the Sqweel 2,
seen mixed reviews about the function but a lot of women saying it actually feels like oral.
MAD NERVELET DETECTED>>130064
it might depend on the angle you're doing it at, putting a pillow under you might help. lying down and trying to touch it doesn't work but sitting up I can usually hit it.
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i've been tempted to buy this since i saw it go viral a couple of months ago, but i'm a brokefag.
does anyone know if its worth the dosh?
if it im going to save up for it kek
No that's not safe. Try at least putting a condom over the whole thing. >>130064
If I do it for myself it's useless. When my partner does it, he has better angle and longer fingers so it's great.>>130045>>130496
Amazon is not a great place to buy sex toys, because there are a lot of fakes.
Takes a while to learn.
Maybe you're part of the small hooded clit gang? if so- I believe in you!
Just rub the top of your vagina (where the clit should be) for 45 minutes and see if the sensation changes any. Use lube or copious amounts of saliva. Good luck!
Me and my partner broke up a few weeks ago. He's the only person I've had sex with, and I feel incredibly attached to him sexually (and romantically, but not the thread for that).
In short, I really miss him.
I've tried masturbating with what used to be my favourite vibrator (we didn't masturbate at all while together, didn't need to, so much sex) twice since we split, both times I end up stopping, crying and just feeling awful. But I also feel this huge sexual frustration that I want to let go of. I feel so stuck.
I don't know if this is the right thread, so I'm sorry if there's a better place for it. I just feel so broken right now, I want to feel good, I want to orgasm. I just want to enjoy my own company and let go. Any suggestions?
tbh it is god tier as far as masurbating methods go. >perfectly clean and hygienic before, during and after>total privacy because everyone knows you don't go into the bathroom if the shower is on>no need for lubricant because nothing even touches your body>discrete, doesn't involve hiding toys or feeling awkward purchasing it in the first place>super quick and effective in general as long as the water pressure is good
Only downside for me is that I'm really fussy with the settings and take a while to get it just right. Also wasting water.
Oh my god, thank you so much! I didn't think of him once while doing it, squirted twice and had the most amazing orgasm.
I can't believe I managed to finish without having him around!! God bless detachable showerheads!!!
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If you’re really into masturbating in the tub lithos one brand lovability cake out with a toy that basically redirects the water from your faucet so you don’t have to use the shower head. Kinda wanna try it.
yw anon, glad you could finally come! fuck that poopoohead, showerhead is the new bf.>>130834
kinda whack how they're charging that much for half of a pvc pipe lmao but i see how it could be useful if your bath taps are short and you aren't allowed to change them.
It's pretty much an invention by males, you found it - it is that spot near the entrance but it's no different than any other part of that area to me.
Women's sexuality and the public (male) opinion of women's sexuality are vastly different beasts.
OK, first of all, please God, Christ in heaven, never buy any kind of sex toy from eBay or Amazon.
I got mine from Lovehoney, I think they ship internationally.
Here you go: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21487
Toys are not easy to come by where I live, but I have tried sticking my fingers in. I get a little freaked out because I don't feel like I'm wet enough to handle it. I can only stick in two fingers and not deeply at all. You might be onto something, though, because my orgasms are stronger when my fingers are in…>>131413
Wow anon, a macaron vibrator sounds so adorable! lol I may have to improvise and buy an electric toothbrush. It probably won't be strong enough, but it's something. It could be that using my own fingers is predictable and my brain doesn't let me enjoy the sensations.
I just checked and I think that blog is gone now. I've read r18 doujins but never had the urge to touch myself while reading. I guess I could try that.
Thanks lovely anons!
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After wasting money on 3 different g-spot vibrators I’ve found my personal holy grail.
I first saw it at an online Black Friday sale but it was sold out. The shape and the fact that it’s by satisfyer had me curious since I’m a huge fan of the regular satisfyer pro.
I read a bit into it and watched some reviews. The extra strong vibration at the head really made me want to try it. Eventually my bf got it for me as a belated Christmas gift and - holy shit.
I’m one of those women that won’t come from penetration alone. I do with this 9/10 times though. The vibration is really intense. It’s amazing.
The only ‘downside’ is that it’s quite huge. It’s the only toy I absolutely have to use lube with and after I came it almost hurts a little because of how thick it is.
But either way 10/10 would definitely buy again. It’s honestly my new favorite toy.
are you aroused? i think the vagina expands or something when you are. just go slow, wait for the pain to still then slowly push further and lay with it in (dont start thrusting like a madman lmao) im assuming youre a virgin so go slow, to get used to it, i was surprised at the physical difference in feeling between my fingers and a toy.>>131871
do you have your own paypal? i mean the biggest issue is probably when it comes to your door, i wanted one since like 12 didnt get one until i was 20 since i was so afraid lmao, i guess it just depends how nosy your parents are and if you can get the package before they do, only get silicone or glass material, none of that pvc or jelly shit that shits poison and not worth the price tag. also youre gonna need somewhere to hide it lmao
I wish sex toy stores would be a bit better with discretion. Even at 30 and living alone I worry as the mailman is my neighbor and this is a small backwards town. Love ordering toys and having 'MASSAGER' written on the customs declaration…as if the mailman doesn't know exactly what that means lol
I try to use companies that send via courier instead but alot of sites don't even tell you what delivery method they use. I suppose the worry around ordering them never fully goes away. I once had a toy arrive in such a damaged box that the contents were visible
idk if this helps but i used to be really, really scared of penetration. couldn't even do it myself, i always just grinded on stuff. i wouldn't say i've been sexually abused, but i did have some bad experiences that gave me some hangups about sex/men in general.
when i got with my current bf, i told him i wanted to take it slow, because of my fear of penetration. he was very understanding, and would stop me if he felt i wasn't ready/was pushing myself (since i DID want to, i just couldn't… "let him in" when the time came). i did reach a point where i felt secure enough and was able to relax.
if your bf pushes it after you explain, i'd consider that a red flag. if it's going to happen it needs to be with someone who understands your hesitation, as you need to be able to relax, physically and mentally.
i hope things work out for you, anon. if things don't get better i'd try talking to a therapist or something
for fucks sake. for the last time. amazon. does. not. test. products. anything that's shipped and sold by amazon isn't tested. it's the same shit from the 3rd party seller, amazon has just bought out the stock wholesale from the seller so they can resell, they do this with many popular items. there are no safety or ingredient checks required in the USA for anything
not covered by the FDA. companies simply do them as a way to avoid lawsuits.
honestly a guy should respect your boundaries. you can date someone and care for them without the sex implication, and there's other ways to express sexual desire without going straight to intercourse.
but it's an important aspect to some people, so if it's important to one party but the other party isn't ready for it, then a breakup isn't the worst thing in the world. feeling pressured to do something you're not ready for is, however.
This happens to me from time to time lol and even though I shouldn't I end up forcing myself to and tbh I end up having pretty nice orgasms in the end but the trip isn't good because as you said, it feels sweaty and gross. Also I waste like 1 or 2 hours I could be sleeping by other means…>>132706
This seems good advice, I think I'll try to do this the next time I'm restless.
Oh my god, same. Except, not while having sex (because I'm not having any sex) but when I try to masturbate by penetration, I always tear at the entrance or something and bleed and have a scab there for a day. I don't really do much penetration so it's not really a problem for me.
But if your vagina tears at the entrance (maybe at the thin skin near the entrance I forgot what it's called) then I think using loads of lube might help you out.
As for if thr blood comes out from the inside of the vagina then I'm not really sure. I can see how it would be daunting to tell your sexual partners about it.
Hope it works out for you, anon.
i often get a spot of bright red blood after penetration so i look at my vulva with a hand mirror and it's always a small tear on my perenium in the same spot. if i take a break from penetration and put neosporin on it goes away so I guess it's fine and I just have delicate skin there.
how much are you bleeding usually? more than a small spot when you wipe?
It's enough blood that it gives the appearance of my period starting. I do think it's period blood too (rather than a tear) because it happens more in the days before my period and it doesn't happen with shallow penetration.
Sucks because the few days before my period are the only time of the month that my sex drive actually kicks in.
Same anon, got a new toy over the weekend. My period ended a few days ago but every time I use the toy I bleed as if I'm still on it. Only for it to immediately stop afterwards.
I'm getting really fed up. I've already stayed away from sex for 18 months because of this, now even masturbation seems gross and not worth the mess. I'm about to give up on penetration full stop.
I've had scans and smear tests done and doc says I'm fine. It's been happening for 5 years and I've chased it up multiple times only to meet a dead end where no cause is being found.
I did have precancer cells on my cervix at one point but my last two smear tests were fine.
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the obvious answer though is she sends you the money for the toy and you send it to her in a different box. if shes STILL worried about her parents finding out (why do they care so much, how old is this girl?) you can mail it to her friends house or legit just ask the local post office to hold it for her and she can pick it up. again again, her taking out cash and visiting a physical sex shop also makes sense and leaves zero trail. Yet here I am again, with ANOTHER option that may surprise you, there are electric dog nail filers that have a large guard around the file that vibrate IMMENSELY, to the great joy of my young dog owning self growing up. if anyone asks questions she can say she wanted to try it on a friends dog or her own nails for lols, nobodys gonna look too deep.
>>133079 > her parents are nosy, snoop on her credit card history etc
Why should parents care if their adult daughter masturbates? Are they going to kill her for masturbating?
My dad would go through my stuff as an adult and tbh I just collected sex toys in a drawer and I know full well he probably found them at some point. If anything that should help send the message that adults deserve some privacy
I mean my dad would've beat the shit out of me if I was having sex in his house at 18/19 too. He kicked my brother out for that exact reason.
But what'd be the logic behind objecting to someone masturbating?
She's using the bristle side? You're supposed to take bristles off or use the back of the brush part so the bristles face outwards.
I highly recommend a detachable shower head. Usually there will be different water pressure settings that are good for masturbating but also for getting every part of you really clean or blasting away any aches and pains with hot water. Showering without one just is not the same. Everyone should have a detachable shower head. They're pretty inexpensive as well and I doubt parents will think anything of it.
it's the confrontation, her parents dont seem like nut jobs that would get bent out of shape over their daughter masturbating, and ive suggested pretty much everything already brought up before and then some to her.
ive walked out of Spencer's with vibrators in my purse before, my parents have straight up found my dildo by accident and they dont care, neither do i, and I'm usually an anxious mess; i guess it just goes to show that it's really not that hard to pull off.
oh well, it might not be as bothersome as she's described if shes still not willing to take at least some risk to get herself something actually meant to be used as a vibe. i would just take her to an adult shop and get her one, but yknow. LDR
Thank you so much anon, I really needed to read this, and I'm glad that I'm not alone… I just feel really frustrated with my self! Since I dropped the birth control, I feel like I'm often horny, and I don't wanna hook up with some random dude, so I try to masturbate to satisfy my needs but… well, I just end up being bored and frustrated because I can't manage to take care of myself lol.
I have never tried sex toys, I think I might get a vibrator for starters maybe? Doesn't it make too much noise? Thank you again for your answers, and sorry for venting like this
all i can say is: get yourself a shower head with an adjustable stream. take a bath. enjoy.
i had the same ''problem'' as you and my shower head showed me the promised land on a rainy afternoon
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I bought pic related (We-Vibe rave) as my first internal vibrator, hoping not to have to buy another. But I really dislike it - The shape feels really odd and too big to me, and I'm not sure if I have a G-spot but if I do I think it's a little further in (as I keep wanting to push it in further than it goes).
What can I buy to see if I can explore myself inside a little more? I'm thinking of a dildo or one of fun factory's thrusters/pulsators (because that sensation is really pleasuravle during sex), but those are very expensive and also really girthy to me. Wjat is it that I'm looking for? Should I get an affordable-ish dildo first? How do I know which dimensions to pick?
I've spent the last while in a cycle of buying stupidly expensive toys and not liking them. I really can't afford this cycle. I ran a sex toy review site years ago and now I'm back to square one trying to find a toy I love. Found out my ex used my toys on someone else while having an affair so I left them all behind when I moved and I don't want to buy the same toys again cos.. gross memories.
Tried a cheaper toy this week and ta-da. Think I've found my goldilocks toy.
I know amazon is risky for fake toys but I've owned and reviewed enough toys to confidently say this turned out to be genuine quality silicone https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B078763XBV
It has a platic core that gives it weight and keeps it fairly firm. Again I don't generally recommend amazon for toys but can personally attest this is silicone. Someone might find the recommendation helpful
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I thought this was the lelo ella when I saw it, it's a similar shape. is the straight lines that feel odd? the ella has this blunt head which is meant to hit the g spot. maybe it could be a better option for you? it's just a dildo though, no vibration.
lel do a vibrating g spot vibe called the gigi that is meant to be good. there's also the lelo mona which is similar but without the blunt head. I hate that sex toys are so expensive, our bodies are all so different and you could easily spend thousands just looking for 'the one'.
>fun factory's thrusters/pulsators
that sounds great tbh
I guess going for cheaper dildos is an option, but don't go too cheap, keep with the medical grade silicone. for dimensions (girth in this case?) the we-vibe rave looks to be 1.5 in (3.8 cm) so maybe go smaller than that? I don't know what country you're in but lovehoney has some nice smaller silicone dildos
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sage for blogpost but I got to lower my anti-depressants dosage and I'm looking forward to trying for satisfying orgasms again!
I've not had a decent orgasm in literal years. masturbating is fun and feels good and I can get super turned on but my orgasms usually feel just like I hit a slight peak and then feel finished/too sensitive for more. so disappointing. in the past I've edged for so long just to prevent having a measly orgasm cause the build up feels so much better
when I've lowered my meds dosage before my orgasms have gotten better so wish me luck anons!
For me it hasn't cut unless I go full coomer for days on end. (so like, more than 3 or so orgasms per day using bristle side) If you're gonna go heavy duty for the love of god don't scrub it on your clit. You should be lightly pressing it against it after softening the bristles with water (important, should be done even on regular days). If it starts to hurt, stop.
Also, for the love of god I'm not a doctor. I just drink borderline unhealthy amounts of water, so I've never gotten an UTI before. You could get hurt doing this so please pay attention, and also look into getting a proper vibe or safer options like >>135176
If it does get cut or scratched: Don't mess with your clit or the area around it for a while or until the pain ceases. Lightly wash the area with clean water (again, not a doctor. this is just what has worked for me. This is probably not the right way to treat this type of injury) Drink lots of water and pay attention to your body. If the pain persists for more than a few days, or it starts to hurt more, see a doctor. If it's bleeding a lot (never happened to me) also immediately go see a doctor
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i partially enjoy fingering myself since the stretch feels nice other than that fingering myself gets boring and i stop and just rub my clit. i want to feel a vaginal orgasm just once and ill never complain again
Has anyone tried on of those dildos that have a thrusting function?
Like this one or other brands: https://us.funfactory.com/en/pulsators/stronic-real/
I don't see social distancing due to the pandemic going away anytime soon so I thought I'd splurge on one. Buying sex toys is always a gamble though because you can't try before you buy.
I got one for free years ago, not that exact model but the same brand and I wouldn't pay that price tag for what it does. Nothing short of an actual sex machine can really thrust hard enough.
That and fun factory toys have a matte finish that requires alot of lube and uses up lube very easily. I experienced these short, weak thrusts and then irritaton/dryness from the type of silicone they use.
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i only generally masturbate like once or twice every two weeks (sometimes more often and sometimes not at all for much longer) but when i do it with a vibrator specifically it’s kind of bizarre. i orgasm once and then masturbate another bunch of times in a row and sometimes i’ll be doing that for nearly an hour. i also go in stages of intensity, like if i decided to watch porn first then i have to go and look at videos of people i’m actually attracted to (like actors in scenes i find hot or cringey thirst videos that people make lol) or listen to audios/sexual asmr so that i actually properly get into/enjoy it, then i’ll just sit and just fantasise about stuff for however long i carry on for. is that even remotely normal or is it my low functioning autistic brain making things weird?
i also only ever want something inside me after i’ve finished masturbating/orgasming six times in a row even though i have little to no interest in sex
pls no bully anons i’m sensitive
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i want to use a dildo but im afraid of becoming "loose"
And please learn more about anatomy.
I hate to tell you this but any toy with a strong smell like that isn't safe for use. What material is it listed as being?
Sex toys aren't regulated like they should be and common toy materials like rubber, jelly, TPE and TPR are not safe. They can lead to all sorts of problems don't there and the general rule is the stronger it smells the worse it is for your vagina.
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Oh fuck me, did I waste my money? It says it's pvc
This was one of my first toys years ago. Nice beginners shape.. bad material. The kind where you might go to use it one day and find it has 'melted' in your drawer.
Silicone costs a bit more but if you're getting a toy the same size as this it shouldn't be too expensive.
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The COVID business is driving me mental so I splurged on this crazy-looking thruster anyway. Hope it's worth it.
Damn those colorful things look like so much fun actually!
They're temporarily not open for orders though, which is kind of good since I don't need to financially ruin myself with a weird dildo purchase spree.
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Got a satisfier pro 2 I no longer need a boyfriend it finishes me off in like 3 mins and it’s better than oral.
Less messy and I don’t need to shove anything inside of me
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I'm debating whether I should get a satisfier pro 2, hitachi wand or one of the bad dragon dildos… The first 2 seem less messy while also being cheaper, but the novelty of having a fun looking dildo could be entertaining. >>65393
For me it's either reading hentai or fanfics. Videos don't do anything for me and I can't support the porn industry (to the point where I wouldn't go out with a person if they did)
hentai doesn't have to include loli or shota characters, there are a lot of categories and tags for a reason, just like any creative community. Please educate yourself before trying to start shit.>>136230
Just looked up the reptile website drama, and apparently the owner took it down. Either way, thanks for letting me know. I'm looking at alternatives and the ones that come close to BD designs/quality are twice as expensive :( But I'll keep an eye out
Ntayrt, but no, anime faces don't look like children's faces (aside from the aforementioned loli/shota, which is not the majority), never understood that argument.
I don't like 3DPD porn either, I'm sticking to hentai because I prefer the situations and I'm not grossed out by the sex in it (believe it or not the genre is extremely varied, there's even hentai made by and for women).
You're still supporting misogyny. I never said it was as bad as real porn but it certainly isn't healthy still.>>136275>no, anime faces don't look like children's faces (aside from the aforementioned loli/shota, which is not the majority), never understood that argument
Bro literally what? They all have the same exact face. Big moe eyes, no nose, and like no mouth either. THAT'S what makes them look childish, not always the body. There's no difference and I like how neither of you have anything real to say back because you know it's true. Denying that they don't have same face is retarded. I have eyes and can see, anon.
I don't want to derail, but you can easily find my post in the unpopular thread in /ot/ if you want to @ me there.(infighting)
I know I'm right. They can't even have a discussion without throwing insults around and one of them is for sure a dude who's just stirring the pot.>>136296
Then stop your bitching and go back to 4chan.(infighting)
Oh yeah, that's the main reason why I don't watch it. Hentai in anime form turns me off completely, whereas you get more options if you decide to read it. Wider variety when it comes to both the art style and stories/characters.
I tend to gravitate towards ones that have been created by women (or have tags that could be populated by them).
Not often, but it's happened, usually at the peak of my ovulation phase. I feel physical fatigue but my mind won't shut down til I have a quickie, else I won't stop rolling over in my bed (reminds me everytime of that Seinfeld episode).
A bit unrelated, but since lockdown and the loss of my regular schedule, I too have had trouble sleeping, but since I've been exercising every day, I feel and sleep much better, I'd recommend that.
OK ladies, I have now recieved and tested this weird robot dildo.
The shape is rather awkward. But the various thrusting patterns feel damn good, and you don't have to do anything but hold it in place. Definitely good quarantine entertainment. Not a waste of money. Phew.
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It's obviously good if you enjoy internal stimulation but it can also be used on the vulva.
Next up: The Satisfyer pro kek
It's Fun Factory's Stronic drei.
It kinda sounds like a quiet little washing machine lol. So there is some noise.
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Seconding this anon >>136190
, what a damn good purchase! I admit I was a bit skeptical but I love it, I thought I would have trouble because my clitoris is tiny but nah. Same experience, got off in under a few minutes. Very enjoyable. No mess, no dicks. I don't even want to buy another dildo.
Not that it matters, but the box cover was pretty neat.
. It makes this puttering hum but it's not noisy.
Though if you're asking if someone could hear it in the same room, probably.
I have one and it's fast, but it doesn't really do much for me, and doesn't lend itself to edging or multiples. Fortunately I can just have my boyfriend do whatever I need most times. I'm glad to have it for when we're separated for a few days.>>136227
I have a bad dragon and honestly I never use it solo. It's not bad, but I'd say get the wand or the satisfyer. If you get the wand, get the cordless one, because the head is non-porous.
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I've never masturbated despite being in my mid twenties, and I worry that I might have vaginismus – I've tried to be be vaginally examined (for endo) and it was too painful, even when I tried different gynos/had them use tiny speculums/had them warm it and stuff/etc.
Does anyone have any recs for toys or idk… methods for someone in my situation to try?
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My Satisfyer Pro 2 arrived today!
I was sick of using anything dick related cause I only get off on clit stimulation, so I decide to try it out thanks to the recommendation of >>136837
It was weird to figure out at first but after a while on like the 3rd-4th setting I had the longest orgasm, it was pretty great
Nope, can't seem to accomplish anything with just my fingers
But I don't know if I could handle anything that has any kind of penetration either
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Final review on the satisfyer 10/10 wouldn’t buy any other toy, throwing out my dildo today
I saw, you think the pro 2 would be best? That's the one everyone was talking about yeah?
Thanks for spoonfeeding me lol
You can empathise with a woman's pleasure so i think it is pretty normal, don't let anons
) convince you otherwise
What? Don't let her ask herself if she's truly into women irl or not? That's bs.
Ponder away, anon.
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Someone here suggested getting a toy before doing penetrative sex for the first time and I finally got it, so I'm gonna ramble a bit. Tried it in and out today. I thought I won't get that damned thing in, but I managed to, my hymen had to stretch more than usual and tbh I'm glad I did it by myself, would be awkward with a dick.
So, the vibrations, especially on clit, are SO STRONG. Do you also, like… vibrate yourself? It's funny. I shiver as if I'm super cold. It was also the first time I cried during pleasuring myself. The feeling was just so intense it squeezed tears out of my eyes. It's so weird, the orgasm itself was so overwhelming yet it wasn't the most pleasurable I've had. Hard to explain. It's probably the intense stimulation of the nerves in general, more than the plasure clit nerves I can hit in half a minute by masturbating with hands. If that makes sense.
yes! "ruined" describes it perfectly. It's like, you feel the need to do it again "your way", the way you know will be satisfying the most. Sometimes when I get a "ruined" orgasm I wait a bit until I cool off and do it again then, instead of masturbating again immediately. This way it feels like first orgasm rather than a second one.>power being up too high or me pressing it too hard against myself
Okay thanks, that's helpful, I will try to ease it up a bit next time. Got to excited to try it out.
try it with your panties on. the vibrations won't feel as intense.>>138315
i see this. although it's more fun/easier to use a vibrator, i usually get the best orgasms from just rubbing myself. sometimes with a vibrator you get that intense feeling for a second, after that it's just sensitivity rather than continuing the orgasm.
Reading this thread makes me realize that women are disgusting creatures that would rather have sex with a vibrator than with men.
Any kind of relationships with women are based on monetary support and procreation only.
More men should read this kind of threads and find out what girls really think of them.
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I know this is bait but it genuinely made me laugh for like five minutes. Imagine being this pressed about rubber dongs.
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>imagine paying thousands of dollars for an orgasm machine when most men will fuck you for free
Once again brandishing their inferior intellect. Smh, tbh fam.
I would only have sex with a man who is willing to please me as much as I please him. It's hard to know what a man will be like in bed, most of them just jackhammer, nut and go to sleep.
I won't go down on a man if he doesn't go down on me, I won't help him cum if he won't make me cum, I will think of other guys while masturbating if he's thinking of other girls while fapping.
I want a guy who will be compatible with this. Otherwise I'm content with masturbating.
i've heard bisexual guys are more likely to be better at sex than straight guys. i feel like they'd have more of a tendency to be anal obsessed but if they weren't i could give it a try.
it's hilarious straight men are so bad at pleasing women kek if you're so threatened by vibrators step up your game then
Try buying a really cheap toy. You don't have to ever use your hands per se.
Make a small investment to see what else is out there.
someone explain pegging? I could see why some guys would be into it, but why would a female partner be into it?
Maybe with a feeldo, but I don't really understand the point if both partners aren't getting pleasure
it's the same clitoral stimulation, you rub clit on something - nothing groundbreaking, it just takes longer. I would masturbate like that as a kid, when I didn't know female anatomy yet lol. I think a lot of girls start like this because the sex ed is mostly shit and because of the shame around touching yourself.
I think it's not worth it if you can do it in different ways. For me though it's a good get-horny method. Same as penetration with a toy, won't get a good orgasm from it but it's nice to imagine it's dick of someone I fancy
I grind on something soft like a pillow till i cum with clothes on, it's usually how I masturbate
I don't feel comfortable with direct stimulation, maybe it would be comfortable if I had lube
I imagine it would be more enjoyable if someone else was rubbing or licking me, I hope I don't have trouble getting comfortable during sex because I feel too sensitive with direct touch
I have >>138313
this one, Pretty Love Alston, it's for g-spot and so far I really like it both for penetration and clit. I'm eurofag so I don't know much it would cost you, probably around your price range. I bought it very cheaply, like 25$ but I've found a nice cheap shop.
Generally be sure to choose somethig silicone, I only know about silicone and glass being totally safe materials for toys. I think silicone is too costly for vibrator to be some bad knock off so you should be fine
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Is it just me or is the Satisfyer/Womanizer extremely overrated? I think the design is extremely impractical (too big and clunky) and I don't think that it feels as good as everyone claims either. I've tried all kinds of fancy toys but I just prefer a small bullet vibrator or a rabbit.
I didn't really get the fuss around masturbation til I had my first orgasm. Before that I just found it frustrating cos I'd get so close but just couldn't tip over the edge. I remember using a vibrating 'facial massager' to get there for the first time. It was pretty incredible after all that build up! I relied on that method for months before learning how to get there manually.
>sexually frustrated since he wasn't having sex with me (the last time we had sex was 7 months before we broke up
Did he give a reason why?
ah I wish i had a partner like that, I have one guy friend who's really good at fingering but hes too self conscious to have sex because of his small size (he wanted to date me but this was right after i broke up with my ex and i felt not ready for it). I also have another guy friend who loves to have sex with me but i never got that "exciting build up" (i do love having sex with him and he's someone i had a crush on but he's too busy…) >>139272>Did he give a reason why?
well he said it was mainly because of stress with his family and i think his depression too…
I did one time pay for him to travel into one of the main cities I live close to (he lives 4 hours away), paid for a concert and booked a hotel for me and him to stay in (so we can spend time alone together and at least have sex) but because he stayed up the night before he fell asleep by the time we got to the hotel and we had to leave the next day… i was so upset but at the same time he was tired… it was just that the hotel and everything was pretty expensive… I wasted too much money on him
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Satisfyer Magic bunny is awesome for me because its not super long, but quite thick. I mostly use it externally only but sometimes its super nice to have inside while the ears stimulate the clit at the same time. I recommend it!!! Great first toy
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This one has a pleasant material but I dont use it too much, mosly to train my ass lol because im into that. I havent really found a great technique to orgasm with it and even though it is size medium it is really big… I guess I have to keep trying but it's quite dissapointing I havent found my way around non vibrating dildos yet
>>138719>something soft like a pillow
Out of curiosity has anyone else got used to hump on "tougher" surfaces instead as a child? I got used to hump my chair (lel) when I was a kid and the horny sensation at some point got strong enough to attempt to rub my bottom with something, I was surprised when I learned most "humpers" hump pillows instead. Rubbing your vulva against a chair or something like that seems like more instinctive to me if you have 0 sex ed and you don't know what to do with that rather than grabbing your pillow and riding it… That sort of feels like you are trying to mimic the sex act and a clueless kid just wants to get off. maybe it was just me that was a horny kid and started masturbating young, but it seems so weird for a young girl to attempt fully riding something out of nowhere>>138682
I hump too but in my case only works while i'm sitting in a particular position where I can move the way I like to, I guess it's because the vulva makes contact with whatever I'm humping in a way it makes it feel pretty nice. Also my case it's the complete opposite, I can't just get off by touching my clit lol. My guess is what gets me off is the pressure against my clit more than just rubbing it.
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Finally got myself a womanizer liberty as my first toy, and I don't really know what to say. I tried it while totally not horny and I was dripping wet so fast, the build up was amazing, I felt intense pricklings in my arms and my ears were ringing after the orgasm (which was longer than usual but not mind blowing). Usually, I masturbate with my fingers while reading hentai, so it takes me some effort to come, but it's always very rewarding, which I did not feel at all with the vibrator, it felt almost lazy since I did not do anything special. I think I need to practice a bit to figure out how to use it to its full potential, but I don't think I'll use it everytime, don't want to ruin my nerves.
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Has anyone not really had any luck with masturbating? It feels like nothing when I try it and I’ve never orgasmed before either. I barely ever feel aroused either. Would a toy help? I’m pessimistic lol.
How old are you two? I experienced a pretty late sexual awakening myself. Didn't masturbate til my late teens (though antidepressants likely played a role in that) and didn't really get full enjoyment from sex/masturbation for another decade after that. Then something changed at about 29.
They say women reach their sexual peak from their late twenties onwards so it could change for you just with age. I felt weird til I started looking into 'sexual peak for women' and we typcially experience our highest libido and greatest satisfaction from 30 onwards. So we're sexualised the most at around 20 but actually enjoy sex and masturbation significantly more in the decade after that.
Give it time and try a few different toys out if you haven't already
Some women need to be in the right headspace, you can't make yourself cum if you're not cumfortable
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How do you know when you're climaxing? I few times I've been masturbating in the shower, and I get to a point where my feet tingle, my hands shake, and I get really wet (like it completely covers my hands. Usually lasts for several seconds. Am I experiencing orgasms?
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Any good recs for a wearable finger vibrator?
I've found doing my research that it can even be a cock ring, as long as the ring circumference is small/stretches a bit. For instance I found pic related that"s like 1" in diameter, and presumably stretches a bit to fit a penis? But I just need it for a large finger lmao
Genital numbness can be a side-effect of some medication, SSRIs being the most common culprit. Are you on any medication?
If not, are you sure you're familiar with your own anatomy? Do you know where your clit is and if it's hooded (if it is, pull back the clitoral hoor)? Are you sufficiently aroused when you masturbate? Are you using your fingers or toys or? Some women need a specific type of stimulation to come! Look into the satisfyer pro 2 discussed earlier in the thread, it's pretty good for women who have trouble achieving orgasms.
The entrance and first couple inches are meant to be the most sensitive compared to the rest of the depth of your vagina so maybe a short but heavily textured toy could help you find stimulation from it?
There's always clit stim if you just don't enjoy penetration. It's not all that unusual to find penetration a bit meh.
First masturbated at 16.
Bought my first toy at 24.
I've never been ashamed of masturbating or ashamed of having sex etc… But honestly it's just so boring, it really doesn't give me much.
The first time I knowingly masturbated was when I was 10 or 11. I ‘experimented’ a little when I was like 6 or 7 but never enough to orgasm and I only did it a couple of times.
And I got my first toy when I was like 19 or 20.
I started young enough that I don't remember what age I was, or the first time I did it, or even my first orgasm. I always feel weird when people are talking about those kinds of firsts because it's not something I'm very comfortable sharing. My parents were more open so I think I did understand that it was sexual. I wish more people talked about this. I used to think it was bad and that it meant I maybe had some sort of sexual trauma I was repressing, but now I kind of think it's more common for women than anyone thinks?
It's weird but I'm honestly grateful I started early because it gave me confidence and experience in exploring my body and sexuality. I can't imagine being a woman who has her 1st orgasm in HS/college, or doesn't know how to get herself off. No judgement, I'm just glad I didn't have to deal with that particular struggle.
Unfortunately it can be permanent afaik. I think the severity might vary depending on how long you were on the medication/ how high your dosage was. I was on a low dose of SSRI's for about 4 years (and other psych meds for 6 years before that) and it took me about 4 years after quitting all medication to regain some feeling. I still struggle to get an orgasm but it's getting easier and easier as more time passes. Look up "SSRI induced sexual dysfunction" on google, you'll find a ton of resources and info.
I'm sorry that you're dealing with this as well, it really sucks.
I was on a high dose of SSRIs from ages 12 to 15. It took three years to experience any feeling afterwards. Obviously I started meds so young that I had no previous sex or masturbation experience but looking back I didn't experience much of a sex drive throughout all of puberty and had numbness that continued for 3 years post-SSRIs.
So three years on meds and three years of still feeling numb after. I've heard others say that it tends to match the amount of time spent on them. I've gone back on meds for a few months here and there and experienced a few months of numbness afterwards so that might be a good way to estimate how long it's likely to last.
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Why would you want to leave a dildo in for 7 hours?
what do you mean with fingers? if you mean only fingering then literally never, been rubbing my clit with my fingers since learning about it online as a horny kid and have occasionally fingered myself around the same time im close to coming (i come harder that way) nowadays i have a dildo, but solo fingering? never.>>144270>>144292
thats a-ok, literally anything you do solo to make yourself come is masturbation
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I'm 21 and never finger myself, I have maybe done it three times in my entire life. I personally find it very difficult and uncomfortable to get even one finger in past like 1.5", I'm a permavirgin so the lack of experience is probably to blame. It is normal to masturbate pretty much any way that brings you pleasure and an orgasm lol
I've been looking into buying a small dildo (insertable 3.25") like pic related and one of those fake lipstick vibrators. I still live with my parents, getting the package is a non issue because I'm the one who checks the mail but where the hell do you hide a fake dick?
Make sure you don't buy a jelly toy like that, they are bad for your intimate health and can lead to infection or other bad reactions, they can also randomly 'melt' if you store them next to other items.
Here's a silicone version of this https://www.amazon.com/NS-Novelties-Colours-Pleasures-Purple/dp/B07HM7FBL6
I own it and would recommend, I just bought a little make up bag that I keep it in, You could always store it in a bag with menstrual products, if people open a bag and see period products on top they prob won't want to snoop further
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Bought kegel balls mostly to use for masturbation and also large anal beads that I'm gonna stick up my vagina instead. My horny brain is so fucking excited for new toys.
I'm sad that I'm such a size queen because bigger toys are always more expensive lol. I like to buy fantasy dildos because plain human dick is so fucking boring, plus fantasy dildos always come in fun colorways. I see some girls mention bad dragon here and pic related is one of my favorite indie fantasy dildo makers, Strange Bedfellas. Selection isn't as extensive as Bad Dragon's, but their prices are comparatively cheaper and I love the colors they offer (though they only dovery limited made-to-order dildos). 10/10 very much recommend. I have a med Tyv (it's in pastel colors and has a beautiful shimmer that can't be caught on a camera) and am planning on getting a large Fornax from them next!
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I wish I could give one of you girls this hand blown glass toy I won a couple years ago. (Not my pic) I've never used it because I am intimidated as fuck. I have been thinking about it more and more recently though
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Thank you for the pro tips, anon! I'm getting it from pinkcherry and they have 5" at the smallest, which seems fine to me for a beginner. Wish they had more colours though.>>145010
I'm jealous. You should try it out if you have no one to give it away to!
I think >>145097
is right in taking a break. I don't think 2-3 times is that much per week (I used to go at it anywhere from 4-7 days at the height of it), but I think your clit could do well without any strong vibrations.
I stopped using my vibes after a while when I realized how frustratingly long it took me to get off, and sometimes I couldn't even get off at all. I forced myself to not masturbate, since getting off with my fingers is a lot easier when I'm pent up. Still takes a while though. Nowadays I try not to masturbate more than once or twice a week because my clit sensitivity will get fucked up again real fast and then I gotta reset myself by taking a whole week or two off. My main toy now is one of the satisfyers (the one with vibration option) and at first I used to only be able to get off with vibe AND with the main function on the highest setting, but now I can start on the lowest and and still feel a good subtle tease before working my way up (most days I don't even use the vibe option or I'll leave it until the very end).
Good luck anon!!
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Does anyone else struggle with unusual tightness? I'm the anon from >>144811
and I have been trying to insert. It feels like I hit a wall 1" in with the dildo but I find I can put my finger in a little further. It's kind of like my vagina has a funnel shape, if that make sense. I've done some google-fu and I think I might have vaginismus? I've put in a tampon with an applicator before no problem, so penetration's not completely impossible.
If you have had this – did you have to go see a doctor/gyno for it? What kind of things can you do to help it? Did it ever go away?
Lube, lube, lube. Granted I was like this before, and after a few months of failure despite being very very wet I hypothesized that my body just doesn't know or recognize what penetration feels like so it's just going "wtf that doesn't go there stahp it"
I got frustrated one day and told my boyfriend at the time to just fucking do it and stab me with his dong. It hurt a lot, but then I told him to do it again kek. After the second time it started to feel okay and it's all normal now. Just relax, take your time, but also keep in mind that sometimes it's just a mental hurdle you have to get over like ripping a bandaid off
Just stop for a week or two to resensitize your clit, and then focus on the feeling instead of trying to force an orgasm, try to relax and "breathe down into your clit".
Personal experience from someone who has been porn and masturbation addicted since my tween years
I started getting orgasms in my wet dreams too as an adult. Is funny because I feel it very intensely in my dreams to the point I usually wake up but when I check I didn't even that wet at all. But the sensation was definitely there. Mind sure works in mysterious ways huh…
Anyway I certainly was surprised to learn we can cum in dreams as well lol
Are you due on soon?
I usually get this like the week before
Thanks anon I'll try and get an appointment and report back>>146497
I'm not sure, I take the pill back to back to avoid periods since theyre normally quite painful and disruptive for me
I’m literally asking for other suggestions. Porn where the men aren’t always ugly fucking ghouls would help.
I’m not really interested in moralizing and it’s not like I watch those videos or give the site money.