/ot/ - off-topic

>>6044
I think its disgusting how many girls are obsessed with Japanese and/or Korean guys solely due to their image (physical attractiveness and medial representation). They'll gush about how much they just loooove them despite not having any Japanese or Korean friends and not knowing anything outside of the culture outside of what they garnered from their youtube "research," which seems to typically revolve around whether not Japanese guys would be interested in them do to their looks. It's so shallow, yet in the same breath that they utter how much they want to date them, they'll rage on guys who judge them based on their looks, not wanting to be objectified. It's fucking disgusting.

Sincerely,
an anon tired of the hypocrisy

>>6093
since when do you have to be so insightful of someone's culture, or have friends of that ethnic, in order to be attracted to them? …just, "you're not educated enough on my cultural background to date me" ???

Adding on to the tumblrtard hatred:

Back in the summer after my high school graduation, I was at a pool party. Anyhow, we were playing games and decorating our last yearbooks. One girl drew an anime girl with balloon tits in a bikini, very generic, and she writes "slut" as a side caption.

When my tumblrtard friend finds out, she rages hard. Goes on a rant about how we're body-shaming her for having a boyfriend and sleeping with him and using dildos. Her other hobbies include complaining about how her boobs are too big (she's A cup max) and how she's getting too skinny (even though she had an eating disorder, it was bulimia so she never looked skinny… ever) and how she's too popular among guys (she's a comp sci major).

I just… Tumblr, fucking why.

>>6094
Was that what it came off as? If so, I apologize for not being clear, that is not what I meant. I was trying to say that I am tired of people who are *obsessed with people of a specific ethnic background because of the way they look. They are not interested in anything outside of their physical appearance. Yet, they use their supposed knowledge of their culture to justify why they want to be in a relationship with them. Going to Japan or Korea from the U.S. only because of how hot you find some its guys seems extreme to me.

People can like whoever they want, this isn't a problem until they begin to reduce an entire culture/ethnic group to the qualities they find attractive about it. Some girls I was working with last year were like this. They based everything off of the youtube videos, dramas and music videos they watched. The insane thing is that they actually disbelieved/argued against everything that doesn't coincide with their views of Koreans and Japanese guys.

They were raging because some youtubers said that Korean and Japanese guys will prefer to marry a girl from their own culture and just use white girls a sa one night stand. They began talking crap about Korean and Japanese girls saying: "it doesn't make sense considering they try to look like us".

Who the hell says shit like that??

They have never dated Japanese or Korean guys before, had Korean or Japanese friends, or been to Japan or Korea yet say what it is they like about these places and its people. They get their info from foreign Youtubers and blogs, not even reading up on things Korean and Japanese people themselves have to say.

I would much rather they say they just want to go get fucked by some Japanese and Korean guys because they like their faces.

>>6098
of course, tumblrtards have a daily oppression quota they have to meet, otherwise they may lose placement within their cult

I've just… read everything you guys have put and I'm both stunned and mildly disgusted.

What the fuck is happening to girls?

This girl… jfc

I don't feel like i can talk about this or write it anywhere else, but I'm having… A hard time coping with something entirely stupid. My 25th birthday is coming up and I decided to actually throw a party this year. I haven't done so very often, had a sad experience of having my mother put together a huge birthday thing when i was young and no one showed, it was sad lol. Anyway i have a lot of friends now but we're kinda spread out so a lot can't make it, and now it seems a lot of my friends who live near by can't come either, and even though logically i know this has nothing to do with not wanting to come I keep feeling that feeling from when i was young creep up on me. I'm just a lil scared of being alone again on my birthday. I realize how dumb this is, i just had to say it to -someone- sorry lolcow, I'm not fishing for asspats.

>>6618
nah it's fine, it would have been a nice bash so it sucks that you wont get to

you can still have fun with 1 or 2 friends though if possible

>>6623
You know, you're absolutely right. Thanks anon. I'll make the best of it! More cake and beer for the few of us, amirite. Cheers!

I'm craving the fuck out of original cheerios with some warm milk oh my god

I'm so fucking sick of being poor. I want to travel.

When I was younger I kind of thought by now (25/almost 26) I would have enough money to at least visit somewhere so I didn't mind seeing other people get to go do things as much – I would too, I just had to wait. But I don't. I don't even have enough to save and I have credit card debt and I don't live super beyond my means anyway.

I know I can go do this stuff later in life, I'm just kind of afraid that I'll wake up in another 5 years and be in the same place.

This is probably super TMI, but it's scary and I don't have anyone I can talk to about it, so…

So I met this awesome guy and have been hanging out with hIm for a while now and last weekend we started messing around a bit and he fingered me, long story short he goes "hey, um, should I be able to feel your IUD?" I said "Uhh I don't have an IUD." I felt aound myself and there's something large and round right up against my cervix.

The reason I'm scared is because when I was a teenager my mom had some canceroUs cells removed from her cervix. They said if they hadn't caught it early it would have become full blown cancer.

I have an appointment next week to get it looked at, but im still terrified. I keep spacing out in the middle of things and my roommate is starting to think im on drugs.

I keep looking up things on google on "how to get your ex back." But I just know that we will probably never get back together. I just wish I could read his thoughts or plant a seed in his mind where he will come crawling back to me. I mostly wish he would care. I just wish he would show he cared or give me a second chance because I really care about him. I just wish I could show him but he's sick of hearing it. He's so tired of me now. He kept saying how he was scared to talk to me. Which is rather confusing. I don't know how I'm scary. I think he knows what he did ultimately ended our relationship, but I feel like I can forgive him. I just want a second chance. I just don't see him giving me one at all, which scares me. Am I really that bad of a girlfriend? I want a rebound already. I want to show him I am happy when really I am miserable. I'm tired of giving him the upper hand.

>>7818

Disclaimer: I have never manually handled an IUD. But I don't see how it could possibly be mistaken for a cancerous growth or a neoplasm.

>>7829
I don't either, but generally speaking most guys only know an IUD is something that goes in the vagina and prevents pregnancy. You would be amazed at sone of the questions Google autofill spits outabout IUDs and sex.

>>7829

I don't have an IUD though, I use the Depo 3 month shot. Also, I don't go putting things in my vag that shouldn't be there, so I'm guessing whatever it is has to be organic. Either way, it's freaking me out.

At Uni, I have a prof that records every class and posts it to website so people don't have to stress too hard about transcribing every word b/c he talks super fast. I was listening to old classes at night like a sort of podcast as a way of reviewing for finals.

A few days ago I was listening to one from February–right around valentine's day. The prof had finished the lecture and left the mic running afterward. The hot mic picked up a clique of qt girls in my class who sit near where the mic is talking about which dudes they thought were hot. I wasn't really paying attention to what they were saying till I heard my name.

Now, it's not like I was the first name mentioned. A man really ought to be grateful he made the list at all, and I should've been OK with that and left well enough alone. But once you know people are talking about you, you kinda have to keep listening right? I started paying attention.

Eventually one particular qt I had previously asked out for drinks starts talking about me and tells all her friends about how she shot me down etc. Her friends all started giving her shit about it, like saying "OMG you told him NO? WTF?" She was like "pfft I want to play the field some more I cud do better" and they were sorta incredulous/ told her she screwed up.

I've been thinking about this and it's weird. On one hand I'm gratified that all these people think I'm cool & attractive… On the other, the only one of them I was really into thinks I'm p. mediocre

>>7875
You should tell the prof that he left the mic on and posted a private conversation online. I'm sure that's not the only time that's ever happened.

Anyway, you shouldn't really feel too bad (though I know that's easier said than done). A lot of people in university are not really trying to get tied down and really do just want to play the field. "I can do better" is kind of an excuse some girls use with friends when they just don't feel like dating guys and either don't really have a good reason or don't want to say the reason…it doesn't really mean anything, and she never intended to hear you say that, so you know.

At least people think you're cool and attractive, it could have gone much worse lol.

Dear diary,

Today, i got tired of insecure white/black/asian girls trying to turn /b/ into some fucktarded stormfront forum thingy. So i decided to bump old threads. Other anons joined in, and i think its working! Hopefully these girls will realize that there is beauty in every race, so arguing about it is really really dumb.

- Love, anon-chan

Dear Diary,

While I don't expect much from people who post on image boards, lurking through today's threads made me kind of sad. People are much dumber than I'd like to imagine given the amazing thing we as humans have been capable of, whether we thought we could or not.

Anyway, I do like coming here when I want a distraction, and reading some people's posts here really make me laugh. I hope it'll be that way again soon with people contributing shit that isn't related to race anymore, at least to this extreme.

Sincerely,
Spent Anon

>>6044
dear diary,
I wish people knew when to end a joke, and when you rape it over and over it stops being funny.

Dear diary,
I have weird, stupid kinks and fetishes and life style choices and I really want to just be normal and feel normal and not want or need these. They make me too needy in my relationship, and I hate the feeling of disappointment I get when they can't fulfill my needs. I feel selfish and stupid. I want to be a normal girlfriend who just likes normal, not-so-often sex, and who lives a normal "Starbucks and shopping" life. I'm feeling terrible about this thing that makes me so happy. Why does it make me happy? Why is this a part of me? I just want to be normal in that respect. I want them to be enough. I want our awesome relationship to be enough.
I hate this.

>>15963
what are your kinks and fetishes?

Dear kawaii dairy desu chan <3
Today watashiwa is woke up late and didnt get a chansu to eat breakfest
:(((( so watashiwa run out the door with kawaii-bread-san ~ and watashi bumped into aho baka sempai, sempai daisuki!!!!! <3 good night dairy chan teeheehee

>>15965
I'll give a hint: there's a thread on /b/ about it

>>15969
K-kawaii animals?

>>15971
;)