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No. 165264

Wat do when you're in love with a womanizer..?
Nowadays he makes out with me then talks about how other girls are hotter (I'm not really pretty to be honest)
I like the guy and can't control myself and continue to see him
I've been playing games nonstop and crying all day, can't stand this anymore, I feel ugly, I feel like trash
Advice please
HOW DO I GET OVER IT PLEASE

No. 165265

Anon, I get you. I don't know if I was "in love" with him, but I certainly had a big crush on a womanizer. He was just trash, I can't believe that I didn't realise it earlier. I suggest taking some time off to relax and have some self care.

No. 165266

Get away from him obviously.

No. 165267

>>165266
I'm trying, but I feel like I'm agonizing if I can't talk to him. I know that's what I need to do but I don't know how to do it without feeling my life is over

No. 165268

>>165264
kek, you're falling right into his trap. Men can be expert sweet-talkers. But really, to him, you'll always be a slutty hole no matter what he tells you.

No. 165269

>>165264
If he's making you feel like trash, he's not worth it. He's trying to make you feel insecure and dependent on him every time he talks about other girls being hotter, it's manipulation 101. If your relationship with anybody, romantic or not, involves a lot of stress, panicking, and tears, always chasing after a little peak of happiness that ends as soon as it happens, it just isn't worth it.

No. 165270

You just gotta get over it. Men like that don't give two shits about women's feeling, and just use ladies for their sexual desires. You gotta woman up, and stop talking to the fucker.

No. 165271

>>165264
best way to fall out of love with this fucker is to fall in love with someone decent. Put yourself out there, start talking to people (online even, if you're not comfortable with going out to meet people) and slowly distance yourself from him. Sorry this has happened to you anon but It will only be worse from here on out if you stick with him

No. 165272

Obviously you WANT to get over it, so do it. Stop talking to him, don't look at him through social media. Easier said than done but it's really the simplest and easiest way before he uses and stomps all over you.

No. 165273

Anon, you're worth more than that. Guys like him aren't good for anything.
You're not ugly or trash. This guy just wants you to feel like that because if you do you're more likely to fall for him. He is using you.

Block him everywhere and don't believe a word when he tells you how much he misses you and how he feels guilty.
It will hurt. But remember that it will get better.

No. 165274

Use him and then when you find someone better be like "well he was hotter so"

No. 165275

>>165269
>. If your relationship with anybody, romantic or not, involves a lot of stress, panicking, and tears,
I disagree. theres always ups and down in relationships. Relationships arent perfect lol

No. 165276

Go seek a therapist. Youre so pathetic its hilarious. Get some self-esteem and dignity holy shit

No. 165277

>>165275
The key word is "a lot". You shouldn't feel stressed out, anxious and upset all the time in a relationship. That's not normal.

>>165264
Acquire self-respect.

No. 165278

>>165277
Exactly. You shouldn't put up with whatever it is that you don't feel comfortable with. Maybe there's a woman out there that would be comfortable with this, but if that's not you, go for a different dude. He doesn't sound like a winner.

I had a friend (more of an acquaintance) who has a bf like this. We were at a party once and he LITERALLY went up to me and said "you know I love you" and I just felt so bad for her, she was only 5 metres away (loud music) and he's like this to all women. He hit on 3 other girls that evening, 1 of which was her best friend. It's so disrespectful.

No. 165279

>>165274
But women do it biologically already.

No. 165280

>>165279

get out robot



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