/g/ - girl talk

>>584069
It's so weird, you would think symmetry is caused by bones but hormones can change your soft facial structure a lot.
>>584086
Tbh I haven't exercised in months lol. But I'm mainly trying to gain weight and muscle mass

>>584061
Weight loss is all about calories in vs calories out. Period. Exercise isn't necessary and doesn't help much, unless your goal is specifically to gain muscle as well as losing weight. But if you just want to slim down, CICO is all that matters. I lost 70lbs without a single minute of exercising.

>>584114
This is true, but focusing on things like walking or other cardio you can do for extended periods of time will genuinely help so much. An hour of walking a day could mean one pound less a week. I just really wouldn't focus on high impact cardio for weight loss.

>>584114
>without a single minute of exercising.
But why nonny, why?!

>>584086
nta would you place yoga higher on the priority list than cardiac exercise? I've been meaning to get inyo yoga but my time management is bullshit at this point kek

>>584068
You don’t like to laugh during sex??

>>584068
What's wrong with laughing during sex? It's bound to happens sometimes.

>>584056
I remember watching a drama where the protagonist was saved from a drunk guy in the train, and when LI-kun kept standing next to her to make sure he doesn't come back and held onto the railing she stared at his fingers, and the joke was she was upset about the ring he's wearing, but all I could focus on was the forest growing on his hands, I didn't even see the ring until she thought to herself "Oh, he's married".

>>493861
Ew, nonna, you literally listed almost every single quality this one gross moid who worked at my gym and ended up stalking me had and has. I'd like to add loudly and internally indignantly laughing with a big open mouth any time a woman turns him down or doesn't rise to his verbal baits to your list.

It's always the weird PTs with incel tendencies.

>>584071
>>584077
Kek it depends, I should've been more clear. Those vocal fry giggles that they do to come off hot and dominant are cringe. But the natural ones are fine and cute.

sometimes i imagine im a therapist/psychiatrist in a conversion therapy program and i have a woman come into my office and i help her “open up” about the “causes of her same sex attraction” & slowly push her boundaries until we end up having sex.
at first i just ask slightly embarrassing questions about what turns her on, what things she fantasizes about, how she touches herself when she masturbates, etc. then i give her a device that she puts in her underwear to “shock herself” whenever she has “deviant” thoughts (it’s actually just a vibrator lol) and then in one of our sessions i turn on some kind of tape or audio clip having to do with lesbianism and tell her to shock herself so i can observe & record how frequent her arousal is. & so she ends up cumming in front of me. then in the next session i make her pull up her skirt & jerk off in front of me because “homosexuality can be caused by improper self-conditioning” and i need to test my theory that homosexual women “cultivate masculine methods of self-pleasuring, leading to lack of normative attraction to males”. sometimes in my fantasy she’s in a gynecology chair and sometimes she’s still in my office and just puts her legs in the air or on my desk and pulls her underwear off. sometimes i tell her that she’s “improperly masturbating” so i finger her myself & sometimes i just watch. at the end of the program i tell her that she needs to learn to “get rid of her aversion to the male body” so i use a strap and fuck her while she’s bent over my desk, & i play w/ her clit with one hand while fondling her breasts with the other. her shirt is completely unbuttoned and her skirt is hiked all the way up and her wetness is dripping down her thighs and she moans and begs me to fuck her
(this part is kind of stupid because two women having sex with each other is the least heterosexual thing on earth and so it doesn’t make any logical sense for this to happen but whatever. but that’s kind of what makes it hot, the fact that we both unspokenly adhere to the “plausible deniability” aspect and still act under the guise of “corrective therapy” even though we’re literally fucking.)
and eventually she “graduates” from the program and gets married to some random guy but she’s never attracted to him (since conversion therapy doesn’t actually work) and he can never make her cum like i do (we still have sex after she leaves the program, under the guise of “monthly checkups on her progresPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>584104
Bumping because I want everyone to see your fantasy but also I love it. I love all the little details you added, it’s sexy but also restrained. Weirdly enough I literally just started a roleplay where I’m a patient and my therapist is an opportunistic lesbian, I got kind of schizo for a sec I was like wait why is she describing my fantasy word for word kek

>>584104
No, speak up… I'm definitely listening.

>>584104
This is amazing nona

This banner turns me on and I want to see the video it comes from.

>>584057
It’s the same baiter I guarantee. Just report and don’t engage,

>>584051
Kek there's no such a thing as "racefaker" if you look white you're white etc.

>>584049
you're lost. You sound like you're trying to transition, maybe ask for advice on 4ch

>>584108
Anon…

>>584129
The I should have been born an elf forum user mogs

>>584031
You know he’s not kinky at all, right? And he hates animals

>>584044
>not kinky at all
Perfect for me, we can engage in modest missionary.
>hates animals
He's a cat person though, picrel. All he needs to like is cats for me to fuck.

Anon made me go down a Richard Ayoade rabbit hole. He has no right to be this cute.

>>532581
he has a receding hairline and looks kinda sickly but he's so cute to me

>>584101
He is absolutely adorable, and the stupid voice he puts on just makes him cuter.

I'm grateful that I got to know what love is, abs to experience love, however false, fleeting, or currently absent

I'm grateful for this walk back home (and for getting home in the first place), the weather in to my liking with a crispy cold breeze, I was listening to great music, picked some nice leaves and also passed by the laundromat that smelled amazing, like fresh clean soap. I also got gifted some salted caramel chocolate today!

I’m grateful for each member of my family, for how generous, friendly, and patient they try to be.

I believed I had lost one of my earrings on the bus. I've had them almost 15 years now, so I was pretty surprised that they could leave so easily after so many years. Fortunately, I found the missing earring hooked onto the neckline of my undershirt while getting ready for bed later that day. Feels real nice.

I'm grateful that I still have the ability and the capacity to try and be better. I'm grateful that all of you exist. I hope you all come to a peaceful point in life, if youre not there yet. Favorite activity, favorite food, warm meal, your pet or your special someone, friend, or family. And of course, yourself. I wish you true happiness from the bottom of my heart, and I'm grateful that I'm able to type this message, read it, and be able to feel for other people.

>>584030
transcript for the latecomers but I used AI because I couldn't stand listening to it again so sorry if there's errors

>-to original objects anymore. We are referring to references. And now that I'm, like, doing some very deep research into lolita, I have come to the conclusion that the name lolita, where it come from, y- like, the controversial subject that everybody, like, doesn't like talking about… I think that my conclusion is that in Japan, when lolita was forming and shaping and people are were starting to call it lolita, nobody was referring to the book, but rather the pop cultural phenomenon of lolita that was already idealized in the West. It was already romanticized in the West. And, of course, it flew over to Japan and was idealized even more. And, like, Google literally didn't exist. So unless you were, like, a 16 year old in Harajuku, that really fucking liked reading and, like, most of these kids were fucking rebels - I'm not saying they didn't read, but, like, a lot of kids didn't fucking read and especially not that book because, yeah, it is a cult classic pop cultural phenomenon in the West NOW, but was it that big back then without the Internet? Was it that big without the Internet in Japan? It was big in literature, but also, like, everything that from, like, things that were easily digestible in Japanese pop culture were, like, things like, Brigitte Bardot's, um, Lolita song. It was just, like, cute tongue in cheek, like, Marilyn Monroe's references to Lolita, um, other, like, very easily digestible aesthetic things that just weren't that deep. So everything just referred to the reference. And that is my fucking take that, like, the name that our subculture got is very postmodern because it strictly refers to a reference that's been fully stripped of the contents of the source. That's the tea.

>Like, I don't think anybody, like, you know, because also, like, lolita is often linked with, like, idealized French culture, blah de blah de blah. It sounds cute. Like, I immediately think about, like, Bridgette Bardot and, like, her… little song that was just cutesy. What can I say, like? Like so, yeah, that's the tea. Clock it. Clock it. But we'll see. We'll see what we we'll say. Is this too controversial? Oh my god. I can't believe I'm usPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>584048
Thank you so much, God bless you.
>and it it shouldn't be used especially in this, like, subculture. Girl, I'm sorry, but, like, if you're straight, this I don't think this subculture was, like, specifically designed for you. Like, if you're so fucking homophobic and straight, this was not designed for you. This was literally bi queer and rebellion. Like, these fucking vicious, the things that they say to me, say it in face, say it in his face when they're in fetish wear, high heels and their slutty ties showing. Did you hear that? Oh my god. Anyway anyway, yeah. That's the tea, clock it clock it, lolita fashion is for me, in fact. I've been doing it for years now. So, bitches get stitches, and these bitches, I hope they never get their dream dress. No, honestly, I hope for worse because you're literally homophobic. You're literally being, like, homophobic. Like, I hope for worse.
Kekkk why are vapid lolita faghags so predictable. Ohh you're wearing frilly girly fashion but you repeat gay woman-hating edgy words, you're soooo subversive gurl. You see one of them and it's like you know them all. It's not even about experimentation. They want everyone to notice they're doing something different, and then we should change our opinion of what lolita is to accomodate their super special, crazy "bratty" "cunty" selves. It's so boring. It's not even deranged enough to be interesting, they're garden variety attention seekers who just learned what a post-modern queer is.

>>584040
Have you tried washing it nona? I hope you can fix it.

>>583579
So we're all doing 11-03-30s thinking about our dream dresses kek
cheering for you all as well, may we be graced with a listing soon

>>584048
These retards know that lolicon is a japanese term right?

>>584070
I got this all the time growing up from family and friends. I just take it for what it is. IMO it's better to have something about myself that I know looks good to myself and to others than to have nothing.

>>584075
Right? It's worst because it's easier to fix your body by getting fit etc than it is almost impossible to fix a bad face

>>584070
Yes, me too. My body is nice but I literally have an ogre face. I almost wish my body at least matched the ogre aesthetic because I feel like it looks way goofier to be a petite thin hourglass with a jump scare face. I have had men start to catcall me and then stop and laugh when they see my face.

>>584084
I will end them for you, nonna. We stick together. We protect our own.

>>584084
christ that happened to me once and pops back up all the time when I'm feeling good. I'm so sorry nona, men suck.

>>583870
It does I think. The idea is it's a fictional character you're in love with. And we had anons in the previous thread who said they also have OC waifus/husbandos.

>>583870
this is the pygmalion way

Hey, so I am kind of new to this. Not really, but hear me out.
I can't fit in with all these new yumes online because I feel like the feelings that I got for this character within the last year are really serious. It is not just a thing that I will move on from in the next few months/years when some new media comes along.

A lot of the yumes I see online are 'shipping' themselves with multiple characters, shipping the characters with other guys, dating irl moids or just moving on and self shipping with another character the next month. I don't have an issue with that, do whatever you want I don't care. But I feel, idk not a part of that community?

I developed a really serious bond with this character and only this character, it went from a crush to being fully in love with him, and while I did have fictional crushes before, so I understood it, this time it feels different for me. I have never felt it this intensely before. Never thought about spending time with him and doing casual every day things with him all the time, spending our lives together etc.

I only want to be with him, and for me it feels like a serious relationship. I can never date someone because they would never be him and it feels like cheating.

I don't know what I am getting at here, I want to know if there are others here who feel the same way as me, I guess?
This is the first time I experienced the feeling of being in love with a character this intensely

>>584064
this is just called being based. my feelings towards my own husbando are exactly like yours btw, down to every last word. he is also the first character I have become this pants-on-head retarded about. my other obsessions look like baby shit compared to him. I don't look at online yume communities besides the husbando threads because my feelings are very intense and I don't want other people to interfere with it

Maybe it’s just because my husbando is niche but I’m fully convinced that nobody else in the WORLD loves him or understands him as much as I do. They’re remaking the game he’s in and I’m honestly really dreading it, I don’t want other people to turn him into a fandom and bastardize him. I feel like we have this beautiful hidden passion and other people will just misunderstand everything about him. It will mean fanart at least. I’m secretly hoping the game sucks or makes a really shitty portrayal of him, so that nobody likes him kek.

>>573677
i think the reality is most people become busy in their 30s and succumb to life's stressors. stressful job, marriage, having children, gaining weight and not being as active. they take less care of themselves.

most people aren't as beautiful as fanny rosie in the first place lol.

Late 30s Dandy kei. I wore ouji in highschool and after, but transitioned into a more cohesive, subtle look. I haven't owned brand, instead opting to make or modify thrifted items paired with relevant basics and accessories. If I like a brand item, I might seek out a similar base to edit to my tastes. Its a fine line between looking Ouji/Dandy and looking like a waiter I'll tell you that.

>Mature style icons in J-fashion
Enjoying this thread. I enjoy watching Lolita fashion shows and watching some youtubers who live elegantly. She isn't Lolita, but I love https://youtube.com/@anzukitty
>Translating sub styles for everyday/casual wear
For work formal events, some outings and work "costume" events. I work in an office and can wear what I want for the most part but opt for comfort. Dressing well, in good silhouettes with an interesting or ornate accessory can accomplish this look if done right.
>Motivation & inspiration on keeping your hobbies
My main relevant hobbies are drawing and jewelry making. I love jewelry and gaudy, sparkling items. Trying to keep up with hobbies as an adult is difficult. My main advice is make time for it.. Easier said than done. Watching old VK videos with my wife, looking at GLB or reading old forum posts are nice walks down memory lane. I still like anime but nothing new, and I enjoy video games. It's a bit lonely but I won't buy that I'm old, because I'm not.
>Vent about aging in world catered to being forever 21
The topic of age and oldness is this regard is depressing. Old is 70, 80, 90 and even then, does it matter?.. Health and enjoyment of life matter. More relevantly, I wish every and anything wasn't called Lolita, and I wish that the kids acted a bit more hinged. I see less genuine interest from some and a lot of attention seeking. This has always been the case, but it flourishes today, especially with each access to poorly made clothes. As an aside, I always thought that while dressing it was almost like putting on another part of your persona. Classy, darker, cuter, aristocratic, whatever that might be. So, seeing people act up whether in brand or just faux style is disappointing. I feel like the magicaPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

>>583001
>I always thought that while dressing it was almost like putting on another part of your persona.
I miss this aspect of the fashion a lot, and while it is still here among us older women who've been in it a while, the younger cohort lacks it entirely. I remember on lj and tumblr we'd share tidbits of info we had encountered in etiquette books, and even the GLB would often publish such information (picrel is GLB 41, but I know such info is in other volumes as well). There was a lot of focus on how one behaved while wearing lolita and making sure that the behavior was appropriate for such beautiful clothes. I suspect a lot of that ties into how "lifestyle lolita" used to be a thing. Nowadays, people are more embracing of juxtapositions, such as those "how I dress vs how I act" memes, and I think this also extends to the whole "I may be wearing a super frilly dress but I'm actually a man" mindset. There's more a focus on subverting expectations.

Fashionable family

>>573383
I've seen people in their 30s call themselves grandmas because majority of the local comm members are in their early 20s. And like >>573508 said, I feel they definitely are trust fund babies, a lot of them complain about stuff that really only mattered when you don't have many responsibilities. I was kinda shocked seeing how the median age over the years has shifted to being younger. I remember back then it being mostly people in their 30s-40s, me being in my 30s now, it feels more comfortable for me, financially, to commit to the interest.

>Adopting styles
Honestly not an issue for me. There's tons of styles that are mature in its nature, the elegant side of lolita, mori kei, cpk. Even like pic related, long sleeves and colors that aren't piercing to the eyes are fit for anyone even as a fun coord.