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Not to mention that if he chests with you, he'll cheat on you.
Case in point: Gregula.
Comes across like you want to feel more powerful than or superior to other women.
Moving in on someone in a relationship is gutter-nasty.
Get a shred of self esteem and take a step up instead of fantasising about dragging other people down. What makes a woman in a happy relationship lesser than you op?
I ended up "stealing" a guy from a girl that I was friends with until she ended up saying fuck it, at the time we were friends but ultimately it didn't work out.
Also I agree with >>80056
. If you or they ultimately want to leave then so be it.
this. and not to mention that cheaters don't give more of a fuck about you
, you just happen to be there at the right time.
also as it's been said, it has nothing to do with looks and more with the guy's morals, plus they tend to cheat with ugly girls to either piss their actually gf off or use it as an excuse.
When you said ‘yet’ implying you fully intend on being a home wrecker just because you get off to blatantly unhealthy shit.
When the thing that turns you on most is feeling superior to other women then you need to sort your life out and work out why you feel so, so shutting about yourself outside of this gross fantasy.
Nobody is virtue signaling here, you’re just a selfish cunt with fewer morals and more insecurities than normal people.
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That's a fucked up thing to fantasize about anon, but as long as its just fantasy that's cool.
I can't imagine actually destroying a family because of your ego though, if you've ever experienced something like this in your own family its horrible.
I imagine your fantasy is restricted only to boy friend snatching which is pretty petty but as long as it only hurts the 2 in the relationship that's fine imho.>>80134
Its hardly virtue signalling to have common human decency and dignity anon, I take back being understanding. You're scum if your an adulterer how would you ever expect to form any real lasting relationships with anyone? How would you feel to be on the receiving end?
Do you girl. If it’s a fetish you fantasize about whatever, but once you start applying it to real life and anyone outside the offended party find out (they will), you will be cast out as a social pariah. Do you know what it is specifically that motivates it? The power over the girl, the power over guys by being an undeniable seductress? Echoing what others have said, I was cheated on and my ex cheated down because she was there for the moment, super fucking young, and just wanted to party all the time. Literally the opposite of me. And the end of the day he still wanted and tried to get ME back because I wasn’t a coke snorting, multiple DUI having, gore fetishizing thot. I know your fantasy isn’t to keep these guys around, but if it ever becomes reality 9/10 they will cast you aside and you’ve only given them fuel to cheat more. “If this bitch was so slutty, I can probably get all kinds of girls to ride my dick!”
This is all very true. Not OP anon but cheating leads men down a bad path. I accidentally helped a guy cheat (just once) because I was naive af baby. I wasn't after him at all, he went after me, I didn't think it through. We didn't have sex but it was definitely not a friend interaction.
and he did split up with the girl after she found out. He said he always regretted losing her. she was the perfect wife type (my opinion)
Also super awkwardly I found out my colleague was friends with her, not close though. Also she messaged me on facebook at the time and I literally replied in internet speak because I was so deep in the internet at the time. basically saying it was just fun and meaningless or in my words "for the lolz"
Summarily it isn't glamorous and may be a shitty thing for both guy and girl
Lol this site is certainly bitchy and even sometimes mean but i think most people don't see petty gossip on the same level as intentionally breaking up a relationship so you can feel superior to "girls you deem lesser" than yourself. If you disagree and think they're somehow equally destructive, that's your opinion, but you sound awfully defensive. What, we need to have clean records of never being mean in order to call anyone out for anything?
Like I even personally think there's some grey areas to cheating where it's forgivable (though not admirable) but you're out here straight up fantasizing about breaking people up with zero guilt and zero awareness of why others aren't receiving it well. Just put yourself in the other woman's shoes ffs
Should I have put a trigger warning
? And why are you guys so good at reading everything but the part when I said that I wasn't looking for any type of real relationship out of this? Dude, if you were cheated on, I'm sincerely sorry for you but calling me disgusting because fantasize this shit makes me think you have deep seated issues regarding cheating. Like for fucks sake, take a walk.
This thread is going like, no where at all. Honestly, I just found seducing taken men kind of hot, why am I being called a whore over the internet now? On lolcow of all places kek.
I tried this once, but I think it was more situation-specific and not something I actually get off on.
I had an enormous high school crush on this guy two grades above me, and he happened to be best friends with my boyfriend. We really liked each other, and one night I almost had a threesome but in the end nothing came of it.
Me and the ex had a nasty breakup which caused the bestie to take ex's side even though he knew I really wasn't an aggressor.
It was that mid aughts bro code.
He also got this new girlfriend (later wife) and she was kind of an asshole towards me after that. Friends told me she was jealous, and she started a lot of shit even though I never did anything to her.
It was the nail in the coffin for our friendship. We dropped contact.
Fast forward ~6 years after my high school graduation. I was in college and was in pretty good shape.
Out of nowhere high school crush comments me on fb when I posted to a mutual's page. We were both really happy to hear from each other.
Tbh fam, I was already catching feels, and just the fact that he would remember me after those years. Especially since we ended on not so great terms.
Yet come to find out he married the bitchy girl from high school and had two kids. I kept my boundaries but inside my heart subtly sank.
Over time he started to tell me about the problems in their marriage, which eventually involved separation and talk of divorce. Gradually, he upped the attention he would send me and I remember eating that shit up.
He asked me to hang out, one on one.
I saw him in person and honestly, he looked rough. Like every year since post-high school slowly sucked the life from him; between the factory job, needy broke wife, screaming children, and cheap cigarettes.
And here I was with all this freedom and no children, just doing whatever I wanted.
I fucked him. It felt good, cathartic. But at the same time–empty. LIke I wasn't experiencing him at his best, and our relationship was nothing but lust and repressed emotions.
After a few more meetings, I had to face facts that this guy wasn't ready to leave the wife for the sake of his kids. As soon as there was sign of them mending, I blocked him on fb and completely ghosted him. I think I picked the best option, rather than get involved with children and a past bully. No way I wanted to be around when that nuclear bitch'd find out how hard I screwed her husband.
It was a satisfying yet depressing affair.
>inb4 I trigger someone for telling a story that happened years ago and has no relevant bearing on anything today whatsoever
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What kind of pathetic waste of space gets wet over the thought of destroying the relationships of women they deem ‘lesser’ than themselves. And with esports nerds or lowtier youtubers of all people, Jesus at least have standards. Gonna have a hard time finding a woman lesser than yourself when you’re clearly scraped from the bottom of a barrel.
Um, so like what's gonna make you stop. We get it, you slay single chads every night right? Are you trying to hurt my feelings? If you think I'm the bottom of the barrel, you should check out the weird fetish thread. Or better yet, take a look in the mirror at the person that gets triggered
by everything the so-called "bottom of the barrel" says. Do I have that much power over you? This might become my new fetish if the cheating thing doesn't work out. >>80381
Cool blog post. I'd never fuck a man with kids by the way. But you probably helped him in a weird twisted way.
>>80383>I'd never fuck a man with kids by the way.
It's the primary reason why I didn't see anything we did as going somewhere tbh. No matter what, their relationship wasn't going to end where mine began, and I didn't want to get involved with kids. When him and the woman began talking again, it was almost a strange relief?
Like, I played a part in being there for him at a low point and got something I had wanted out of it–without the awkward commitment continuation.
Tbf the bitchy wife/gf was justified in her feelings because a whole 6 years later you came back to bang her husband (!)
She called it lol. Glad you didn't go too far/blocked etc. I don't believe sex is meaningful/as meaningful for a man as a woman, so the one who gets emotionally hurt is the woman, and then the man loses out if they break up. It's a no-win scenario like >>80375
>>80387>I don't get it.
That pretty much explains it. Was it too difficult to just scroll past this post or something? Let's reference my original post shall we?
>Am I the only want who fantasizes about stealing someone's boyfriend?
Now, what does this look like to you? A question, right? So I probably—and I'm taking a wild guess here—wanted a fucking answer to that question. Why don't you try replying to this question without the petty insults and virtue signalling.
Duh. All ‘does anyone else…’ threads are basically ‘validate my opinion/values and tell me I’m right’
They don’t want real opinions or thoughts, especially when what they’re discussing reflects so poorly on them. They want strangers to tell them that it’s awesome and normal and something to be encouraged.
Now OP is having a weepy meltdown because nobody behaved how they wanted and it feels bad. In order to salvage their dignity they then declare anything that disagrees with them virtue signalling.
TLDR OP is a baby with zero self esteem who needs sycophants.
Bad logic, am I supposed to sleep with every guy who has a mean gf? You liked the man first and she picked up on it. btw I'm >>80318
accidental cheater so I don't really care as much about cheating as other people.
I have a crush on a guy now who has a gf, I have literally zero feelings about the woman, I'm glad he's happy with whoever. Men aren't loyal to start with so "cheating" isn't really a thing. Their willpower is weak af.
In my case the woman started freaking out that I was talking to her bf platonically/as friends every day for a month so he had to stop. I've spent years chatting, meeting and even sending nudes at their request, to guys with girlfriends (though my morals bucked up a bit a few years ago and I stopped) so I was really surprised that a friends-only platonic conversation caused such strife. Anyway, connected thing is I DO like him so she's right, as was your fling's wife. OP and anyone who competes with women need to realize we are all on even standing with men. A pussy is a pussy, some of them have more or less money, more or less sexually active, more or less giving, more or less crazy - but it's very simple for them all and cheating is no achievement. Harbouring ANY feelings about other women is a waste of time. We're all in the same boat.
Btw all the chatting-to-guys-with-gfs was initiated and continued by them, it's just a thing that happens that nobody talks about. I've even had random guys with girlfriends invite me to visit them in their countries. I'm assuming anyone who fantasizes about being the "other woman" has no idea how everyday, common and mundane it really is
You sound like an insecure mess.
You set your own value, and I'd like to think you have more value than just your pussy, but you do you. Loyal men are out there, they seek out women with similar values.
I do think men take longer to mature in relationships. I've known countless men that knew to use their 20s to explore dating and used this to figure out what they wanted from a partner. Men are family orientated too. The men I've known to cheat are either selfish and not in the mindset to be monogamous or started families too early in life.
I guess it's got a lot to do with maturity. People will always judge others by their own value standards.
What men think about me is not = what I think of me, or other women. Read the post again. What men think of women has absolutely no bearing on how I view women/us.
I think women are wonderful.
Sounds like you're projecting i.e. "I am valuable because a man thinks I am." Your opinion.
It's very easy to be the "other woman" mostly because as these anons said cheaters want an uglier and overall worse girl than their actual partner just so they never feel like leaving her.>>80003>>80018>>80109
I've "helped" a few guys to cheat on their gfs and it feels pretty bad to know that they would never considerate you as a potential gf but then again I wouldn't be able to date someone I just can't trust. Also I'm desperate and guys with long-term gfs give the best head so there's that.
It's the internet. You post a controversial topic and people will respond. Deal with it.
>It makes so much sense that a bunch of angel virgin saints are using lolcow right? Hypocritical bitches, as if you're any better than me.
Yes. We are better that you, because we do not get off on destroying relationships.
If you had posted this in the fetish thread I don't think people would have responded this way. It does not help either that you wrote>I want to get prettier and less disgustingly fat to show up to eports tournaments or social media events to seduce peoples' men.
You literally wrote that you actually want to do it and have every intention to do it.
You start crying and insult us when we tell you how much of a shit you are for implying that you're going to do it. Pathetic.
I actually have no idea if she knew he already had a boyfriend because she didn't really explain how they met and how she knew about the gf. She only talked about the present at the time because she was seeking advice, and ended up asking a loser like who has no experience with dating but that's another story. I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't know at the time because she seemed to really dislike the situation and regret it but again, I have actually no idea.
I agree though in a way, if I ever meet a guy I'm into and I could start dating and I found out he cheated on an ex or fucked someone who was already in a relationship I wouldn't trust him enough to actually date him. And I don't see why anyone wouldn't feel the same.
>>80402>Am I supposed to sleep with every guy who has a mean gf?
Not at all. The point is how a person has treated you will affect your decisions regarding them later down the line. It's not a grudge per se, but something every human does take into consideration.
Do you think if the girl had been my best friend I would have taken advantage of the breakup? Nope, because I would have respected her and felt wrong to potentially hurt someone who had been good to me.
An enemy that almost pushed me to suicide in high school and told the guy I liked to stop talking to me though? Mmm…yeah, I'm not sorry.
She's controlling and manipulative and that's how she pushed people away, including her husband.
A woman doesn't get a pass from me just because we both have pussies and her man is weak.
And I tell ya what–if I ever found out my bf went and cheated on me, I'd be blaming him and not the other woman. The person whose faith is tested is always 100% culpable for the cheating if they do.
Either way, it is history. Suffice to say I'm in a steady 4 year relationship at the moment.
what? I'm not saying I didn't sperg out, ironic especially since you mention it in another thread days after it happened>you could have just said you didn't think it was that bad but you couldn't stop fucking replying.
oh noes, you mean if people attack me I fight back? what an odd phenomenon, I don't know why it blows your mind when you have anons ganging up on and insisting you're a cheater, you're this this and that and putting words in your mouth, clearly jumping to conclusions and not understand a word I said, then suddenly I'm a big bad person and in the wrong for replying to people who were replying to me and wanting to make it clear what I was trying to say (even though people are still insisting I'm some big bad cheater just because I think cheating is overhyped in society, which it is and how people reacted to me saying its not the worst thing ever literally proves it), stop jumping to conclusions
no one was attacking you
they were saying your opinion sucks. but you can shut up and then people will stop calling you out.
>>80720>no one was attacking you they were saying your opinion sucks.
were you in the thread? people were insisting I was a cheater myself, then claiming I was saying stuff I never said, even despite several times I said I don't support cheating> but you can shut up and then people will stop calling you out.
excuse me but are you forgetting the fact you brought this shit up again in an entirely different thread, again with putting words in my mouth and insisting I was a cheater? do you have no self awareness or?, I did "shut up" about it and your ass brought it up again, wtf
you keep replying like anyone gives a shit about you. you got butthurt cause you couldn't shut the hell up about how cheating isn't that bad, then
people said you were probably a cheater yourself, and now you come in to this thread to defend yourself. it's a fucking image board, no one gives a shit about your pride or whatever, we don't know or care who you are. get over yourself.
>>80727>you keep replying like anyone gives a shit about you.
get help, I reply to people who reply to me, if you so "didn't give a shit" you wouldn't bring up arguments that you're still triggered
over days later> you got butthurt cause you couldn't shut the hell up about how cheating isn't that bad
I was saying it in more means like how people act as if it's the worst thing ever, I even used the shandi example to explain what I mean, again it's ironic since others were doing the exact same as me and "not shutting up about how cheating is o so bad">then people said you were probably a cheater yourself, and now you come in to this thread to defend yourself.
again with no self awareness, may I remind you that your ass brought this shit up again, you talk shit about me I reply, sorry the world doesn't revolve around you and you don't get to bash people and accuse people of shit without them saying shit about it>no one gives a shit about your pride or whatever, we don't know or care who you are. get over yourself.
then.don't.fucking.reply. if you so don't care, you run your mouth for days about how "no one cares about you no one caresss!!!!! no one cares about you!!! stop pretending people care!!!!just stop! no one caresss!!!we dont care who you are!!!" WHILE REPLYING YOURSELF
the only person who needs to get over themselves is you, you have this sense of entitlement, you wanna run around and accuse me of shit then cry about how "no one cares!!!!!!" when I call you out then tell me to shut up and no one will reply when it was your ass who brought it up
S E E K H E L P
I don't do it to teach them anything, I just like the feeling of doing it.
I'm gonna open up because why the hell not. I'm black and it kinda pisses me off when I see guys going crazy over super plain looking girls when I know they'd be reluctant to date a dark skinned girl. This guy I mentioned would never look twice to a black girl even if she was a model, but he was acting like a lost puppy around this fridge looking ugly Korean. I know I'm being ridiculous, even more when I already have a good looking and tall black bf.
Also I've never cheated on my bf or anything.
it's not, are you the psycho insisting everyone is the "Crazy anti-loli bitch">i hope you get banned again.
last time I checked I wasn't the one who started infighting, and you're only further enabling it insisting everyone is the "Crazy anti loli bitch"
Yeah I know, it's ridiculous. >>80741
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…Why are you talking about yourself in the 3rd person. It's obvious you're samefagging, you're the only one ITT using capitalization and punctuation but not periods.
again, get some self awareness, you accused me of making the thread, I point out I didn't then tried making my point clear, then other anon decided to scream at me, that is literally starting the infight, what even are you on about
>Someone made a snide remark towards OP cause you acted fucking nuts in the thread over cheating,
they accused me of being op, I pointed out I didn't then kept trying to make myself clear just to have them go batshit on and scream at me about how " NO ONE CAREESSS SHUT UP"
all they wanted was to accuse me of saying shit I never said then scream how crazy I was simply for wanting to make myself clear>Someone made a snide remark towards OP cause you acted fucking nuts in the thread over cheating,
everyone was acting fucking nuts and everyone is still acting fucking nuts, even other anons are pointing this out, don't try to pin it all on me>you took it as your duty to come ITT and martyr over nothing.
and I dont know why youre going out of you're way to try to claim what my motive is simply for defending myself, you reply/talk shit about, I reply, plain and simple>Go outside or something, we're all anon, it's not like you have a rep until you come in the thread acting batshit.
tell that to half of lolcow>You seem way too personally offended for someone who can simply slink away into obscurity.
again, stop making up shit on what my motive is
anon accused me of being OP ie also claiming I supported cheating despite several times saying I didn't and hopefully you're smart enough to understand why someone would be annoyed with that, I point out what my point was and that I wasn't op, then other anon went straight batshit going on a rapmage about how if I "shut up no one would talk about you" when it was literally them bringing this shit up out of nowhere
>>80753>all they wanted was to accuse me of saying shit I never said then scream how crazy I was simply for wanting to make myself clear
It's really not that deep I'm >>80566
and I was just making a light hearted joke, you sound insane tbh, you understand you don't need to defend your honor on lolcow? And if you do something stupid people are going to make fun of you.
>>80759>you sound insane tbh, you understand you don't need to defend your honor on lolcow?
again, stop assuming my motives are to ~battle~ or whatnot, you talk shit about me and misunderstand my point, I make myself clear, I don't know why it triggers
you that people would reply to you if you talk about them, especially when you misunderstand your point>you sound insane tbh, you understand you don't need to defend your honor on lolcow?
oh? like what? bring up days old arguments, misunderstanding what someone was trying to say, then crying when they do that? oh wait that wasn't me who did that
>>80760>i did read, and it sounds to me like you think everyone is out to get you when you're literally a nobody. just get over yourself. this site isn't filled with friends, we're just trying to talk, why the fuck do you care what a bunch of other nobodies think about your character? yo
why are you so obsessed with insisting "I think I'm some popular character everyone cares about"
how many times do I have to say it? misunderstand my point, I make myself clear, and now you're crying simply because I did that, what is your problem? if you don't care, shut up, and move on, funny how you claim I think I'm a character or whatever but are arrogant enough to have everyone make it known that you don't care>you're literally just the post you type in that moment. you're not even a screen name with a history attached. this isn't fucking reddit mate.
then.move.on. you aren't achieving anything by claiming this
then don't reply
you reply, I reply back, not to mention it was other anon bringing up old arguments but GOD FORBID I TRY TO MAKE MY POINT CLEAR
it takes two to tango, mate
>>80777>But you're not a mod either you loon
not claiming to be, never tried to stop infighting >It's just as much your duty to not reply to fucking bait as it is for others not to reply to you.
two way street, don't cry about me "Taking the bait" but the baiters are A-OK>Enjoy your ban you bloody sod.
you too hun :*
>>80782>Anon literally brought up the fact that there was an anon defending cheaters and YOU were the one who admitted to being the anon who did so.
but the problem was that I wasn't defending cheaters, I even said from the start I don't condone cheating>Don't come in here and sperg like a fucking idiot because you decided to out yourself and your shitty opinion.
were… you even reading? The point was that they misunderstood, I tried making my point clear (but apparently no one is smart enough and insists on putting words in my mouth)>(Also, maybe step away from the computer if people disagreeing with you is considered 'attacking'.)
I was told to "shut up and people wouldn't call me out" despite being called out before I even posted in this thread, all I wanted to do is make myself clear just to have everyone sperg on me and accuse me of being anti-loli anon, I mean if putting words in my mouth and straight up accusing me of things I didn't do is just "disagreeing" nowadays
was their response just to this >>80722
simply because I pointed out I never condoned cheating, and then when I pointed out that they brought this shit up again despite me "Shutting up" like they said if I did, no one would call me out, that's literally attacking, maybe you think attacking is different or whatever but straight up sperging like a 12 yr old about how "no one gives a shit about you get over yourself"
>GET OVER YOURSELF. No one here honestly gives a shit about you or anyone else on this site, but you decided to out yourself on a shitty opinion (as I said before) and now you're upset that you're being called out.
uh no dumbass I said several times I was mad because people put words in my mouth, not that "I was called out", you keep screaming and telling me to get over myself yet you're doing the exact same
> Just close your computer, lmao. The close button is up in the top corner of the internet browser. If you have a mac, hover your mouse above i–you know what? You're obviously a big enough girl to do it yourself.
take your own advice, hunny, actually no, go learn to read and you wouldn't be spewing out shit that you don't understand, if you're that triggered
simply by me pointing out that you were wrong then maybe it's you that should close your computer.
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it's an A N O N Y M O U S imageboard anon, stop getting so upset. this could have all been avoided if you didn't tell everyone that you were that anon.
and they could've just read "oh okay I misunderstood what the anon said" and walked away
instead, constantly insisting I support cheating, when I calmly tell them I didn't. infighting happened, then you went on a rampage screaming at me to "get over myself">this could have all been avoided if you didn't tell everyone that you were that anon.
it takes two to tango, don't pin it on me, especially when other anon screamed for days about how "I should get over myself" just because I wanted to make my point clear
>stop getting so upset
take your own advice, walk away if it hurts your feefees so much
>>80790>screamed for days
you mean today?
you can take the same advice you're giving me since it was your 'feefees' that were hurt in the first place.
Huh, this must be worse than cheating, right? I mean, that was your original point–that cheating was blown out of proportion.
Seems to me like you're blowing this out of proportion more though.
>>80793>Huh, this must be worse than cheating, right?
what even are you on about?> I mean, that was your original point–that cheating was blown out of proportion.
because it is, and I gave example to prove my point, like shandi getting death threats, or when people said the female solider deserved to get murdered for cheating, not that "YOU SUPPORT CHEATING!!!" like everyone is insisting I'm saying, not that it's a foreign thing here for people to blow statements out of propotion
>Seems to me like you're blowing this out of proportion more though.
oh yeah my bad, I came into the thread, bringing up arguments and putting words in peoples mouths then crying simply because that person was trying to make themselves clear, oh wait…
>>80795>You're literally saying that people who have had their whole lives ruined by someone cheating is overreacting by being upset
where did I say this? I even said several times I understand it>unreasonably upset over a few comments on an anonymous website where no one even knows your name.
it annoys me when people put words in my mouth then pin it on me, big deal, are you forgetting what you're doing? I never invalidated how people react, I even said SEVERAL TIMES i meant people who get addicted to drugs after cheating is wrong, you are insane>HAT is what I meant when I said that no one here cares about you–this is a fucking forum, no one knows who anyone is.
you don't care but spent hours fighting me then scream about how i should "get over myself" simply for replying, and then put words in my mouth accusing me of saying all kinds of shit and wonder why it would frustrate someone, especially since I started out calm and was just trying to make myself clear, which you clearly aren't smart enough to understand to the point where I have to repeat myself several times>You are overreacting.
you were screaming your fucking head off about how I should get over myself simply for wanting to make myself clear and I'm overreacting? HA> Also, nearly everyone was agreeing that what happened to Shandi was wrong
but thats what the fuck I was talking about, dipshit, I was talking about people who wanna kill others over cheating and shit, not people having normal reactions to getting cheated on like you're insisting I said, which I even said several times I completely understand, Oh wait that doesn't give you a chance to sperg about how I support cheating>were just disagreeing on your generalization that every person who has been cheated on is overreacting when they're rightfully upset.
I said, several times, that I understand being upset and normal reactions, don't talk about shit you don't know about, unless you did know and are purposely ignoring the fact I said I understand being upset and having normal reactions just so you can sperg
lets take a look back at the confessions thread and see what type of stuff I wrote>m not saying they can't, yeah they can get upset but acting as if its life destroying and getting addicted to drugs or cutting is just dumb and weak especially if its just over cheating, and filling peoples minds with how cheating is the worse thing ever and that they're supposed to go nuts if they're cheated on only harms people and encourages this behavior>I understand screaming, crying, fighting, cursing, especially when you first find out, but there are people acting as if its going to make them depressed forever over it, people who think cheaters are the worse people in the world, people who literally wanna kill cheaters they dont even know, in fact if you watch any murder or abuse case, the second they mention the victim had an affair almost all attention is fixed to how much of a scum the victim was nevermind the murderer, to say cheating isn't being overhyped in society is crazy, now im not saying people cant get upset over it, What im saying is that its not the worse thing ever and people shouldn't be told or made to feel like they have to feel a certain way and be depressed forever and feel worthless, etc, yes there are people who react that way and im not saying they cant im saying it shouldn't be encouraged
where did I say people aren't allowed to be hurt over cheating? where?>>80800>I started replying maybe an hour ago when I got home from work so you're wrong there, not every single person who disagrees with you is the same
same typing same, same 7th grade tier sperging about "GETTING OVER YOURSELF!!!" save it, everyone knows it>You said that people were overreacting over being cheated on MULTIPLE TIMES in the other thread, but whatever, keep defending otherwise.
uhh no the fuck I didn't lmfao, find me where I said this and I'll leave you alone>You're the one who seems to be screaming your head off since you're giving fucking essays in response to people who are probably going to forget about this tomorrow–but you won't, right? Obviously
two to tango, don't know how many times I need to keep telling you this, you're doing the exact same as me just in a different viewpoint>Obviously it's going to bother you then if it's bothering you this much now
just like it bothered OP anon who started this they felt the need to bring up a days old argument? Oh wait I forgot, hypocrisy at it's finest>Please, log off and maybe take a bath or something, you obviously need to relax.
take your own advice, hunny, you were sperging like crazy, two to tango, don't argue with people and tell them they need to relax
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Well yeah, mine was more about how crazy infighters are criticizing others for crazy infighting
Not that it's new on lolcow or anything, I think it's a mix between defending and criticising others for what they themselves are doing
If you just came in, I don't recommend reading the infighting it will just leave you with headaches
>Why couldn't you have just linked to your original misunderstanding instead of repeating yourself over and over and infighting.
It sucks I have to repeat myself over and over, it would have been a good idea but I overestimate the intelligence of people here, given, I'll take blame for taking the bait,since even anons in the vent threat are ranting about how people here blow statements out of propotion ending in infighting
Uh no, may I remind you even when I was calmly explaining how the original anon misunderstood my point, you then went to sperg about how "I kept replying" which makes no sense that you pin the responsibility to stop infighting on me when others were doing the exact same, when I call you out for this you go on a rampage about how "NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOU GET OVER YOURSELF"
Seriously, scroll up, get some self awareness, learn to read, do something
me explaining myself>>80693
anon claiming I didn't telling me I sperged out when I never denied I did then acted like it was my responsibility to "Stop replying" when I made clear if someone responds to me, I respond back>>80717
me explaining that I'm not gonna just ignore replies to my post or whatever, especially when a lot of them are attacking my posts and completely twisting and misinterpreting the point I was trying to make (which was proven time to time again)>>80720
anon claiming "they were just saying your opinion sucks" but failing to realize what I was saying is that THEY MISUNDERSTOOD WHAT I WAS SAYING, that's all, plain and simple, because that wasn't enough they told me to "shut up and people will stop calling you out" despite being called out before even posting in the thread, it was kinda obvious they just wanted to sperg about how I was a big bad cheater and not deal with me correcting them or whatever>>80722
me, explaining myself yet again I just wanted to explain myself since anons were misunderstanding what I was saying>>80727
anon sperging about how "no one cares about you you're butthurt shut the fuck up get over yourself" then later misunderstanding me yet again
I'm assuming you mean this one >>80717
which wasn't sperging out, I was making jokes because I thought it was hilariously ridiculous the entitlement of that anon, all because I wanted to make myself clear>you weren’t a main source in the infighting when you could have simply scrolled past it.
takes two to tango, there is no main source of infighting especially when the first post sure as hell aint me, then went I went to correct myself it sure as hell wasn't me purposely misunderstanding, putting words in others mouths, then later sperging about how I should "SHUT UP AND GET OVERYOURSELF YOU BUTTHURT DUMMMY!!!"
I don't know what you expected really, when someone corrects you on several occasions and insists you said this when you didn't, then rants about how you're butthurt and should get over yourself and how you should have just scrolled or whatever, why does it blow your mind it would piss someone off? and no, it's no ones duties to "ignore and scroll" especially since all I was doing is attempting to explain myself, then when I did, everyone flipped shit>I’m not trying to get banned for infighting,
she says, as she infights
H Y P O C R I S Y
>>80827>Who cares if you were misunderstood on an anonymous image board?
I was just correcting myself but anons went on to make a huge fucking deal about it, they could have just said "oh my mad i misunderstood" and moved the fuck on but NOPE obviously just ranting about how I should get over myself then crying about infighting was the answer>Can you not handle some random bitches on lolcow who have 0 relation to your life thinking incorrectly or poorly of you? You being so in your feelings over this and carrying your bullshit thread to thread is so absolutely OTT and obnoxious.
go scream at them for "being in their feelings" since they're the ones who started this shit just because I don't like being misunderstood, it's more than obvious they just wanted to scream about how I support cheating without me saying anything about it>You DO NOT need to defend yourself because frankly no one cares, already thinks you're crazy
I don't need to but it's a pet peeve to be misunderstood, especially when I made myself clear a million times, if "no one cared" like you'd insist they'd off, I don't even know why you threw that in there, and everyone thinks all infighters are crazy, especially the ones who only pin it on one person, don't know why you think you're a special exception to that >. Just fucking blend it and quit shitting threads up unnecessarily. You shouldn't care so much.
don't want the thread shit up? sit the fuck down, and shut the fuck up, you reply, i reply back, and no, no amount of sperging about how no one cares and how im crazy will stop me, fuck off
You're sitting here blaming the other anons as if you couldn't just have easily ignored their responses. Don't act like you're being bullied or something when in actuality, you're sitting here almost waiting to get triggered
. Tumblr might be a better website for you. Also, you need to be at least 18 to be on this website.
Adding: midway through me writing this, you decided to respond with >>80832
which furthers my point–you're enjoying getting your feathers ruffled by these anons.
>>80833>You're sitting here blaming the other anons as if you couldn't just have easily ignored their responses
im not, i even said multiple times it takes two to tango, its not up to me to "ignore them", you bring infighting up yet again, and they as well as you could have ignored me so dont pin it on me> Don't act like you're being bullied or something when in actuality, you're sitting here almost waiting to get triggered.
I'm not, plain and simple>Tumblr might be a better website for you. Also, you need to be at least 18 to be on this website.
wow you sure showed me>Adding: midway through me writing this, you decided to respond with >>80832
oh no i responded fast must mean im a big bad lunatic >you're enjoying getting your feathers ruffled by these anons.
im not denying i like fighting, at least im not those retards who try to stop infighting by only starting more fights
at least im not those retards who try to stop infighting by only starting more fights
but that's exactly what you're doing and the fact that you don't think so is cringy. how unaware are you.
>b-but i don't start fights, i just continue them isn't that different? 2way street anoooooon i can argue and it's everyone else's fault cause they said it first!!!!
>>80834>oh no i responded fast must mean im a big bad lunatic
Uh, no. It's not because you replied fast, it's because you're literally picking a fight with any anon who responds to you at this point. You are furthering my theory that you're actually a teenager who is enjoying getting upset. >>80836
b-but anon, TWO TO TANGO. TWO TO TANGO. TWO TO TANGO. (and i can't dance).
she doesn't want to put any of the blame on herself, she's calling other people r*tards for fighting and yet she's treating these threads like it's a battle.
ok, im wrong for responding but i made it clear if they reply i respond>>80837
where did I say its not cringey? i admit to shit i do, i never said half the shit you claim I did>>80838
oh? then dont respond?
you have no proof im a teenager outside of speculation, I already admitted i like fighting so whats your point >keking at censoring retard
you sure its me whos from tumblr?
>>80839>using kek as a verb.
Sorry that some of us are a little more mature and don't like using a word that is commonly insulting to special needs people. You can use whatever words you want but I personally don't feel like calling someone the same insult that a 12-year old on Xbox would use. Not everyone who dislikes certain words is an SJW tumblr-ite.
>oh? then dont respond?
You could have done that a while ago and you chose not to. You keep spewing 'hypocrisy', check yourself for it too.
no, you idiot, just because you've censored it doesn't mean you get to get on a high horse like you're better than others. you're still using the fucking word and you still intended to be insulting, use a different fucking word if you don't want to use retard, like dumbass or cunt, be creative.
also i'm not the sperg-anon btw. i just thought that you are fucking stupid.
>>80841>>using kek as a verb.
yeah what is internet jargon>Sorry that some of us are a little more mature and don't like using a word that is commonly insulting to special needs people
yes because censoring retard on an image board that makes fun of retards sure means you're mature
if you really cared about protecting retards you wouldn't even be here in the first place>year old on Xbox would use. Not everyone who dislikes certain words is an SJW tumblr-ite.
okay, where did I call someone a retard? but its okay for everyone to spazz out about how im a crazy lunatic? oh wait, its only okay if others do it>>80842
what a stretch, no one saying this, I just thought it was silly to censor retard, not that "UR TELLING ME TO CALL AUTISTIC CHILDREN RETARDS!"
I never intended it to be insulting and I was never on a high horse? I literally pointed out that anon was being hypocritical for calling people r*tards for fighting while she is also fighting, you just got upset because I censored a word that don't want censored.
>also i'm not the sperg-anon btw.
That seems like something someone who was sperg-anon would say, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. >>80848>where did i call someone a retard?>>80837>at least im not those retards who try to stop infighting by only starting more fights.
There you go.
I still never called anyone a retard directly, not did I "tell you to call your cousin autistic" also why aren't you sperging at the hoards of people who went on rampages about how crazy I was? oh wait..
theres even a thread where people talk about mental illnesses they cant deal with but yeah, someone on an image board saying theyre not like those retards somehow negatively affects actual mental ill people and means "im telling you to make fun of actual mentally ill people"
Even Leddit uses retard. Sounds like she crawled out of the bottom barrel of tumblr.>>80852
The problem is you obviously are new here, and can't even bother to fit in because a word hurts your delicate sensibilities, yet labelled autists literal retards. You're either retarded yourself or underage. Like I said, go back to wherever you're from.
Why are you ending a statement with a question mark like a retard? Um literally like umm literally literally you have the vocabulary of a 14 year old little girl
Definitely underage and from Tumblr
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Seriously, the second I read the description I knew it was going to be a dumpster fire. Lolcow can be so embarrassing sometimes.
>>80831>went on a date>get lives
if you met him on a dating app the get lives bit is a little ironic. Also it's incredibly easy to get dates on said apps
Also what happened to this thread?!
Wait it really was the anon from the thread in OT?!
God bless this group of women
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This thread is hilarious, keep going.
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I've been here since >>80218
This threads on fire. I love it.
OP could have their own thread in snow at this rate.