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>>1845754How are there people who still people who use youtube without having installed ublock and sponsorblock?
I get zero ads, sponsorblock is a bit more unreliable since its community based but i contribute and will add the promotion skip myself if i see it hasn't been added yet. Youtube would be unusable without adblockers
No. 1845804
>>1845796Even by blocking ads youtube is so gross now that i am really weening off it too.
Now i can't even hide the shorts recommendations , i hate shorts and youtube also deciding that i need a bunch of 3 views channels who are all either AI slop or trannies, so many vtuber trannies, i hate both things btw and no matter how much i click in "not interested" they keep coming.
The other day i got two a video of an AI robot voice explaining how to manifest becoming whiter skinned reapeating some demented prayer several times a day over images of ugly AI generated anime girls. And that wasn't the disturbing part, what fucked with me is seeing in the sidebar dozens of these videos with 3m, 6m, 10m views and full of comments of little girls replying with manifestations and shit to be less brown and more white.
So yeah, youtube is a cesspool, no matter how much you think you are curating it the degenaracy will show itself.
No. 1845808
>>1845751It's up to the artist, they'll usually list preferred payment options. I've commissioned people with virtual items on browser games so it's anything goes, whatever they're interested in.
It's common to use money transfer services like any other product/service (think PayPal and various mobile apps) or a more art-centric platform like Patreon/Ko-Fi/DeviantArt/etc. It kind of depends on the niche of art you're looking for, like big professional fine artists might have different processes than hobby cartoonists within a specific community. You can just ask them and negotiate if needed.
No. 1845816
>>1845809Nope, and all the cope platforms that try get quickly filled with pedos.
Centralization happened thanks to the normies and they are only getting worse.
No. 1845912
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>>1845891Because water Melons are tasty, low in calories and 70% water. Why do white people eat cream cheese, pickle and ham roll ups?
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>>1846001I’m a bit of a history lover so I can educate you. Back near the time when slavery ended ex slaves were making money selling watermelon. So, the bitter media made watermelon out to be associated with something black/bad to make sales go down.
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>>1846045I bet you think ambrosia is good too
No. 1846074
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>>1846067White American food is all processed creamy sloop. That’s how this country got so wide backed. White Americans are so adverse to nature that if it’s not out of a can or jar they think it’s too gross or ethnic.
No. 1846076
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>>1846062Hey have a pickle roll up and relax let’s all take a load off
No. 1846108
>>1846100>>1846103This is way more fattychan than a pickle cream cheese ham roll up lets be real.
>baked macaroni >fried chickenLike some of the most landwhale foods out there.
No. 1846153
>>1846146God me too. Amd watermelon tbh. Amd everything listed here
>>1846103 also even this
>>1846074.
>>1846149You are so delusional it's so sad…
No. 1846224
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sooo…does it take a lot for a body to feel ok? I spent most my life fat thanks to my parents, lost a lot of weight as an adult, but don't feel at all different and I feel exhausted and stressed out so often. I only had a few days in my life I felt good.
my doctor hasn't really found much in basic blood panels so starting to think maybe it's just in my head or my body needs to be trained more.
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Do you guys ever think it’s actually possible to “kill with kindness”, like make someone feel guilty or insecure by acting genuinely nice to them after they’ve been rude or mean to you in some way?
No. 1846324
>>1845962This is just my uninformed hypothesis but maybe because your heart is beating fast and your body is heating up when you get excited, which leads to sweating and blood vessel dilation, both functions that try to lower body temperature. If the blood vessels in your nose are expanding maybe that can restrict air flow (causing nasal problems) and you might end up reducing the temperature too much and feeling cold as you calm down? Just my shot in the dark, I always get a runny nose when it's hot out so that's what I thought of.
>>1846224How are you with regards to sleep and water consumption? Do you think you have good reason to be stressed out or is it more like you get easily stressed over minor things?
>>1846276I know all sorts of people who dislike tattoos but unlike incels they don't sperg about it publicly and get mad, they express in a sane way that they're not into it. I think it's a pretty common opinion overall and it's just that certain people get autistic over it
No. 1846360
>>1846324I always get 8 hours of sleep though I wake up feeling like roadkill always. my water consumption is good.
also, idk, it's like my body is tense 24/7? week long headaches are normal for me. I do have many concrete reasons to feel bad about life that are mostly out of my control but I feel way too exhausted to even worry about them. the last time I laughed I was a kid. that's fine, but I just wish my head didn't feel so foggy and painful.
No. 1846384
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Did Cillian Murphy and Robert Downey Jr have an affair? Cillian has had affairs with his coworkers in the past
No. 1846540
>>1846495Found it, I don't use the app but it was still there, thank god they made this option available.
>>1846514Most of them do from what I've seen, at least it takes a significant portion of the trash out.
No. 1846614
>>1846607that smell is from letting them sit in stagnant water during laundry before drying them and it is the worst. not sure of a remedy besides running to a kmart and buying another pair (have been there). I don't think febreze etc. will cut it. how far away is the function? try and change if you can nonnita sorry that doesn't help.
if your laundry sits for too long it has a signature dank which wont leave until you give it another wash sadly
No. 1846629
>>1846615>>1846607depending on how well you know them you can honestly tell them like "I let my laundry sit too long" but if they aren't workmates and it's some corporate shit definitely change pants.
febreze can only do so much, same with perfume.
No. 1846826
>>1846757So how can you tell the difference between a good and a mediocre one?
>>1846786I meant cold as in not the tropical climate where they are native, imported/greenhouse fruits aren't as good, we get hot summer days (for our standards) too lol
>>1846815I used to feel that way too but idk if that argument still holds up with the current labour shortages.
No. 1847117
>>1847097Pedestrian - Works in a hairsalon/beauty salon
Winner - Owns a beauty salon
Hair and beauty is known in my country for being the subject of 'C grade at the highest' students, make it work for you and you can do well.
That's on the regular person side, going into movie, fashion, or theatre styling is also an option.
No. 1847215
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Be completely honest with me nonnies is this fabric too childish to make a garment for myself with i want to make pajama pants with this but I keep second guessing it because it reminds me too much of something i'd have as a little kid and I worry it will make me feel silly but I love the colors and little details
No. 1847520
>>1847511Nothing I'm just asking kiwi anons why men from New Zealand are like
that. They will know what I mean.
No. 1847570
>>1847558I'm not sure if you mean a mobile app, but i really love Notion, it took me some time to get used to it but i really enjoy it. I think they have a mobile app but it's suited for PC so i don't use that version.
You have to customize it yourself a bit but the end is not as cute and smooth as something you would see in a videogame kek.
No. 1847642
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Am I a bad person for sometimes ranting about stupid shit my boyfriend does to my friends
No. 1847679
>>1847609if they are company big enough to pay a data broker like Cambridge Analytica then you are screwed. Companies like that carry the information of hundreds of millions of people and they make extensive lists based on browsing history that algorithms collected automatically from all of your internet usage across all of the internet.
Luckily is not most companies, in your average wagie job they'll look you up on google and social media.
You better have some sanitized social media profiles under your real name because not having any online presence raises suspicions, you can outright be discarded for not having social media, or having one without enough normie engagement that shows you are social and into the NormalThing and have the RightOpinion
They actually told me to my face at my last job they weren't gonna hire me because it didn't have a facebook. They did because they were short staffed and i was the backup option but they kept pressuring me into making profiles and adding them. (i never did, fuck that shithole)
No. 1847702
>>1847679nta but that's insane, I don't have any social media and I don't want to. Still studying so I haven't delved deep into application hell yet but this kind of stuff makes me feel like my actual skills won't even matter.
I also have an extremely generic name (on the tier of something like Jane Baker) so I've wondered how companies would deal with that since there are probably hundreds of people globally that share my name. If I look up my full name there are a ton of results of more prominent women from all sorts of fields, I'm seeing an electrical engineering professor, an anthropologist, a civic designer, a literature expert, and much much more. So even if I used my real name online extensively,
I wouldn't come up easily.
No. 1847718
>>1847702What i realize more and more is the west already has a social credit score system, its just not as transparent about it as China is.
If you see how people are behaving on Linkedn it even more obvious and everyone there knows it too and is playing under those rules.
No. 1847893
>>1847317Eurofag here and it's the same at least in western and central European countries.
My ears got infected after they got pierced as a kid, so they closed up. I don't remember how the pain was like, but it was traumatizing enough that I am absolutely adamant on my ears never getting pierced again.
No. 1848109
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>>1848101unsurprisingly people trying to base their lives around an absurd lie become extremely paranoid and neurotic.
No. 1848123
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Urgent and stupid, but I am going to a video game convention in about a week and I want to put something together fast and simple to wear for one of the days. I have lots of time while I am job hunting. Any kind anons have any suggestions for regular clothed cosplays?
I bought this ticket months before I left my last job, so I dont want it go to waste
No. 1848176
>>1848121I don’t know to be honest. I was worried about that and I told my ortho and he said he’ll extract the too 2 premolars because it’s too crowded and that my face won’t lose facial fat, my jaw will just retract. And my face changed overnight. I’ve read and some people say it’s because the jaw gets smaller when your teeth is retracted and others say it’s just the masseter is weak and needs to be strengthened but the difference is dramatic and just looks bad on me. I don’t know if it’ll go back. I look like that dead bride from the Tim Burton movie.
>>1848163Oh nonna where did all of our buccal fat go…..
No. 1848202
>>1848190>>1848190I still have the braces on, it’s that the fat underneath my cheek just disappeared, even before the gaps caused by the retractions even closed. It just makes me look more tired, like I’ve been doing coke all night. But what did you opt for in the end
nonnie? Palate expander?
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Ok. This is probably the stupidest question out here.
Does mewing actually work?
I have a recessed jaw (breathing difficulties in childhood, mouth-breather for years basically) and I've seen that the recessed jaw happens if you've been a mouthbreather as a kid sometimes.
When i put my tongue at the inside of my upper teeth, the jaw seems to stay "in the right place" on my face.
It's not a big defect, but it's been bothering me because my teeth look weird with my jaw.
So like. Can you actually mew that shit away?
Soz for (probably) falling for an incel meme, but it has been my biggest insecurity for a while and I were able to fix some of my spine irregularities with stretching, so is mewing really any different?
No. 1848240
>>1848232They can, that's why women are so much better at hiding their autism, because their lives actually have consequences of they don't obey.
But yeah, most autistic people lack the ability to read another human, so even if they're told to do certain action when another person is happy/sad, they can have great trouble telling when that is. A few rare times I've seen autists pick human body language and communication as their hyperfixation, and they always become masters of manipulation and subterfuge.
No. 1848616
>>1848602I'm not particularly ugly. I'm down on my looks but I'm seriously not the ugliest person.
I do occasionally attract men who are my type but for some reason seem to be a magnet for southern yee yee men and black nerds which are the demographic of men I find least attractive and most annoying in personality.
Even if they're part of that demographic and attractive, I tend to hate the way they act. I don't know why I attract them. When I do attract a man who is my type he's got something horribly wrong with him.
I must radiate a horrible aura or something.
No. 1848624
>>1848622This is retarded
>>1848616Nona I’m sure there’s nothing horribly wrong with you, but then again we’re here, so there’s probably something wrong with us. Regardless, I hope a beautiful man finds you and loves you for you. What’s your type?
No. 1848630
>>1848622No, I'm a brunette with red and blonde undertones who sometimes dyes my hair auburn or black. I've never even dyed it blonde. I have brown eyes. I'm from the south but I don't dress or sound very southern and despise yee yee culture, so it makes 0 sense to me
I understand the nerd thing, and I tend to attract nerds cuz I am a nerd. But what's with the country weirdos
No. 1848641
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>>1848624Mostly dark haired guys with puppy eyes who are slightly nerdy but not stiflingly, preferably tall and lanky with hazel or darker eyes. I dated a beautiful guy with green eyes though. Eye color is kind of secondary to me, I just prefer dark hair, nice hair, tall, lanky, and what I consider cute in the face. Maybe resembles picrel but doesn't have to be attractive nor the same race. It's not that hard to find you would think.
I think I ward men off by being too much of an autist or something. Its like someone has to be as fucked up as me to like me
No. 1848657
>>1848630>>1848641I'm this
>>1848622 nonna and I asked because I've never been able to attract yee yee southern guys even when I wanted to (I was young and ignorant don't judge me). The things I found in common with those guy's girlfriends where they were either blonde or light-haired brunettes. I have attracted the dark haired, tall and lanky guys though and the only difference between you and me is that I have really dark brown hair and look vaguely hispanic. It could be a regional difference though. I'm from Louisiana.
No. 1848663
>>1848657I at times have been mistaken for Hispanic despite not being but I just can't seem to pull anyone who I actually find attractive anymore. When I had more confidence a few years ago I was more prone to attract men who were my type, but there were plenty who I found to be annoying uggos chasing me
I bring this up I guess cuz I've had recent run ins with a guy who I find uggo at a local business who hits on me. A lot.
I tried avoiding him, dropped hints I had no interest and he ignored me over and over. Did not have the audacity to just tell him to shut the fuck up. So not only do I not go there, even though I used to enjoy the services, it just made me ponder what's wrong with me and why can't life go right
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>>1848673I've got one on my reading list (The Mountain is You). I recently went back on mood stabilizers again but theyre still kicking in
Thank you for the encouragement nona!
>>1848779I just wish more men looked like actors did in the 80s-90s. I'm not big on what's being shilled as attractive nowadays within my own age range kek
No. 1848891
>>1847679Ntayrt but I have a similar inquiry… do companies in Hollywood or in the music industry use this broker? I want to work in the industry.
haven't posted under my real name in years on social media and my home router rolls around to different IPs. I've also used tons and tons of different emails. I'm more afraid that because I did post my face a few places in the past that they're going to use AI software and find my attention whoring years on nerd forums and the
fact that abusive men spread revenge porn of me. Please tell me these companies do not look you up by face.
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>>1848894Yes. He was attractive to me up until a few years ago, especially for a short guy. 80s-90s RDJ was most adorable though
No. 1849115
>>1849073Is it usually acceptable to message people out of the blue? Not familiar with site etiquette
>>1849074I hope so, I don't use a lot of spaces nowadays so I feel sort of out of the loop
>>1849075A bit of all kinds, a lot of Nintendo stuff (new and retro) like Mario, Zelda, Pikmin. It's hard for me to describe since it's really a mixed bag and not centered around a specific series or genre, I guess I can say that I
don't play many "chill" games, narrative-focused games, or really trendy flashy stuff like Genshin and Valorant and that type of thing. Some of the ones I've played recently (Hitman, Civilization V/VI, Halo) have mostly male fans, too bad. I used to play party/group games like Mario Party or Town of Salem with my friends but most of them have drifted on with life in some way these days.
No. 1849290
>>1849159Yeah, i tested and was heartbroken to find out pimeyes did host some of the revenge porn that was spread of me. I tried to report and email them to remove it, I'm not sure if it was
I originally shared those nudes confidentially not knowing sicko men would spread them. they don't show much more than my breasts but I can't wipe them from the internet and that's my crying shame
No. 1849455
>>1849347I agree with
>>1849403 I feel like the shift in perspective happened later. Maybe you need a few years of living with your full brain to change how you think about a few things, dunno.
No. 1850091
>>1850002Boy shorts work better for me, yes, either that or thongs, I should buy a few more pairs.
The problem is that I really enjoy the style and feel of bikinis and hipster undies until they yank up my butt
No. 1850139
>>1850118Maybe try buying a size up? I have to buy a size up or two in pants to accommodate my thighs and butt, so I do the same for undies. They may still end up receding but they don't stretch as much
I have a size 6 ass and upper thighs with size 4 lower thighs, size 2 calves and size 0 boobs, my body is a disproportionate wasteland
No. 1850238
>>1850208>a pain in the asskek
sometimes sizing up works sometimes it doesn't, but it's mostly just the style, brands assume it's a one size fits all and some of us don't have certain shaped asses
it's like bras, they're a real pain when bra manufacturers assume we all have the same amount of space between our boobs
No. 1850351
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For anons who don’t own iPhones, what phone to you use or recommend? I recently got a Samsung S21 5g but I’m a little annoyed that you aren’t able to get certain apps on it. You can get YouTube red on it for free though
No. 1850352
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>>1850343Usually yes. Most crackpipes have a very recognizable shape (picrel) but they're made to be small and discreet. Bongs can take any sort of shape though. They're usually much, much larger because there has to be a decent amount of water for the bong to work. Bongs have three parts. The mouthpiece where you inhale, the chamber that holds the water, and a stem to hold whatever you're smoking.
No. 1850390
>>1848886Unless Shaymin had a psychotic break and sold our data to a company you're good here. Nobody but the owner has the logs and your IP changes every time your modem reboots and isn't a perfect way to determine identity nor location anyway.
>>1850348Not unreasonable to get tested at all. Highly recommended I would say
>>1850351I had and loved my Huawei P10 and p30. I don't know about their newer phones as I now have a Redmi phone (also love, but I'm new to it still. Sensible features removed to make the price better), but I presume it's still pretty good. If you're worried about the lack of google features it's easy to reinstall them. My current Redmi 10 pro has no issues, works great, camera is fantastic, and it has a headphone jack which was a requirement for me. No wireless charging but it wasn't something I needed personally
No. 1850402
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Calling all anons can somebody please recommend me series featuring ensemble casts with unclear main characters or no main characters? Looking for manga, anime and live action movies.
There's so little writing advice to this type of cast, I'm suddenly fascinated.
No. 1850638
>>1850623He's not stalking me he's just checks my social media and has his friend check our old group chat.
>>1850630It pisses me off because I tried to crawl back 5 months after our breakup and he rejected me then too. It's been almost a year and a half at this point and even though I'm not over him either I'm not going to keep humiliating myself.
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What picture would you put in your chest if you were locket surprise barbie?
No. 1851050
>>1851010all cheap bluetooth airbuds suck so hard and any decent one is insanely overpriced.
For 20$ i can buy a house of marley wired earphone that are a million times better than a 40$ pair of bluetooth ones that suck balls, will have weird wiring sounds, fucked up bass and will break and at least one will stop playing in little time.
No. 1851199
>>1851120When I've used Uber alone I've felt fine but I was in a very safe country (one of THE safest) when I used to use it, I wouldn't be sure if it would be the same where I am now.
Drivers who are women (or nbies but let's be real, women) can request a preference of female passengers but only in very select places can a woman request female drivers.
Hopefully that'll change but the nbies part leaves a lot of room for abuse and that's most males middle name.
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Has anyone here quit duloxetine? Is is really as bad as people make it seem, even if you taper the dosage? I've been on 60mg for years now, and I'm doing okay in my life, so I want to see if I can function without antidepressants. I don't have any life-altering side effects but there are still some, so I would like to eventually go without meds. I've tried going cold turkey a few times but just the nausea alone made me restart within a few days. I had a doctor prescribe me 30mg for tapering but every discussion I find says even that was unbearable so I'm worried, but I'm also aware that people with bad experiences tend to be louder, so idk.
No. 1851868
>>1851843Are you okay?
>>1851844Take your meds.
>>1851855This is the only application I can see, agreed.
No. 1853014
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What's the context of this scene? I always see anons say Bakemonogatari is scrote shit and it'd be way more enjoyable if it weren't for Aragaki or whatever his name is lol
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>>1853014The best characters weren't the main ones, it always felt like the supporting cast. I found the vampire loli boring for awhile and like she was blatantly put there for pedo pandering, same with the sisters. Some of the arcs have okay storylines but it's such a long, long series
Kaiki, Rouka and Suruga were my favorites and they had almost no focus. I particularly liked Kaiki because he basically had no fanservice and does not give a fuck but looked like a sickly middle aged man who's tired of everything and that was hot to me. For some reason.
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I'm seriously considering trying to get that moid coomer money by making a porn game, but will I be able to live with myself if I go through with it? The idea of starting a patreon to drip feed updates and rake in cash is just too tempting.
No. 1853084
>>1853014>>1853025ugh. i tried so hard to like this series solely because i was a huge vocaloid weeb and it's ED was composed by vocaloid composer supercell and sung by utaite nagi/gazelle and it was one of the first times that a vocaloid thing 'made it'. couldn't get past 3 episodes and heard that it only got more disgusting in later seasons.
similarly, i tried to like sayonara setsubou sensei since the OP/EDs were really cool and the art styles were so interesting…except for the constant barrage of panty shots.
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When did it become like socially okay to just sit and scroll through loud ass annoying TikToks without headphones/earbuds? I'm literally sitting next to my coworker who is doing that right now while she watches some "empty water bottles give bad energy" bullshit. Is this just how kids that went to school during the pandemic act or am I just a bitch that gets annoyed easily?
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>>1853025>Some of the girls are interesting and have a surprising amount of depth given their source material>>1853114Speaking of, I've been curious as to whether his other work about a female detective that forgets stuff after a day, I wonder if it's less fanservicey or not.
No. 1853818
>>1853769that's kinda weird. why do you think that? some sick people who need organs aren't even healthy enough to give anyone else organs.
>>1853807my dad believed this. supposedly it's totally not true but there's no way it has never happened. I think there's too much separation of duties in a big hospital for it to work that way, like the several people in charge of saving you while you're dying are unlikely to have control over where organs go and they probably never saw your ID to even see if you're a donor. it's less the hospital staff for me
and more the fact that your organs would be harvested and used for experiments long after you're dead, they would never even be candidates for transplant (it's not like every organ donated goes straight to another person.)
No. 1853879
>>1853761Is uterus transplant to troons a thing in the usa or canada or something? Cause last I checked it's still kinda experimental even between women, so it seems like a bit of schizo reason to not be a donor,
>>1853765 would be a better argument to not donate.
No. 1853949
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Could an anon explain this banner to me? A lot of them are self-explanatory but this one kind of escapes me.
No. 1854195
I was a NEET for about a year but I got a job and I'm getting my first paycheck in a few weeks, should I treat myself or my family or something? The rest of it is going straight into savings but I just want to celebrate.
>>1853932As long as you can take proper care of all of them and they have enough space there's no real limit. If you're looking to adopt more though it might be a mess, my cats (one adopted a year after the other) hated each other even after years of living in the same house.
No. 1854374
>>1854282 >>1854365
>>1854327 thank you for responding nonnies, my heart is so broken but hoping I will be able to fuction normally.. one day at a time..
No. 1854392
>>1853879A female transplant has been successful, I believe a woman has given birth.
I believe within the next 10 years they will be put into men.
No. 1854526
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>>1854519samefag see above ^^ I don’t really think a whole team of surgeons are going to waste their time trying to cram a uterus ovaries and a cervix between his hipbones, especially if it’s not even going to be of use
No. 1854532
>>1854519Even the transplanted uterus case that was successful, the child had to be born through C-section and they had to remove it afterwards.
>>1854526It's about the fetish. If you pay enough, you can find a doctor willing to do anything. So they'll continue to try.
No. 1854709
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>>1854694This one, I've seen it all the time for years and I don't get the hype
No. 1854836
>>1854727Thanks nonna! If it's ever on sale I might get one, it sounds really good.
>>1854790Committed wannabe or mentally ill. I knew someone who used to force herself to listen to goth rock to be able to put it in her tumblr bio kek, never thought much of it because we were pretty young but now she's a DID larper and wannarexic. I'm convinced these people can't be normal.
No. 1855247
>>1854790>someone who went vegan for months just so they can go on a vegan forum without fakingi'd call them "idc why you go vegan, it's not that serious"
>someone who self harms so they can go on a self harm forumcalling a crisis team meeting bc what the fuck
No. 1855352
>>1855202Maybe it's because you still miss your ex, you compare people to him/her and they're all a bit shit once you compare them. Idk
nonnie, the thing that helped me stop hating everyone is I stopped having expectations kek, in the way that I wouldn't expect someone to be a certain way only to find out they're not that way thus boring as hell. Don't know your situation though, I'd take it to the advice thread.
No. 1855479
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I broke a nail. Should I a) cut/file them all 2) keep the others long and accept the uneven odd nails ? I'm asking this beacuse this year I was successfull in finally stop eating them and now I kinda grew attached to them individually, not just the look. They are my only little pride ( I was never able to stop bad habits before) so I feel like I owe them more than just discarding them for the fault of ONE broken nail.
No. 1855626
>>1855621because grifters would get less money and browney points.
If ADHD could be cured all the zoomers with fake diagnosis would cry because they can't score adderal anymore.
No. 1855659
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>>1855482Aw love you too! Glad to be of some use. I just wanna be like sigourney weavers character in that movie holes.
No. 1855684
>>1855673except no one is killing downies. Its just preventing potential new children from suffering that condition.
Honestly i can see how a downie would come up with that opinion, because its retarded. With that logic we wouldn't treat or prevent any congenital diseases.
No. 1855706
>>1855687Once again nobody said anything about dictating…just that she can’t understand why women are looked down upon so fiercely as if they’re Mengele himself for making a choice to abort their downy spastic babies instead of wiping drool into their 80s. If they
want to then I suppose it is their choice, but most women don’t, and probably even less would if it wasn’t for social and societal pressures.
No. 1855718
>>1855693That's the propaganda, old men making old men seem appealing, basically brainwashing, even gay males get into it.
>>1855715teacher
No. 1855736
>>1855706In countries where women have the choice, the vast, vast majority of them abort these fetuses. Almost 100%. And do you think men are begging and shaming their partners into giving birth to a severely disabled child? Almost all men in that situation abandon their partner if they go through with the pregnancy. If it was widely considered offensive then none of that would be true. Literally the only people on earth who find it offensive are those with downs/disability themselves, carers/guardians of such, or people who are simply opposed to abortion for whatever reason. In general society having a severely disabled fetus is seen as a far more "
valid" reason to terminate than most reasons.
No. 1855777
>>1855751I read it as “little human” interaction. As in jobs similar to what
>>1855734 suggested
No. 1855801
>>1855711i am one but I don’t know any others. a lot of girls in the furry fandom are gender non-conforming or handmaidens themselves, it’s a very queer, male-dominated space so i understand why they do it. idk about the
terf hyena thing though.
No. 1855984
>>1855950autism speaks, for once.
Theres entire groups of woketards who raise their pitchforks at anyone suggesting treatment or cure for disorders or disabilities and call it ableist and shit like that. Neets get mad when they see their gibs threatened
No. 1855987
>>1855950There are absolutely people (I'd say not the majority) who think 'curing' (for DS it wouldn't be a cure btw it would be a preventative via giving women enough time/information to abort) is another form of eugenics. Haven't seen many religious views about the DS one specifically, most of the anger I've seen from it was from downsyndrome mommies who use their kids as social media fuel and chronically online American libs who are too focused on the 'killing the disabled' aspect, ignoring the impact said disabled person being born has.
Weirdly it roundabouts into parroting anti abortion logic where they only really care for the disabled fetus when it's unborn but whatever when its parents or the government would have to look after it.
No. 1855994
>>1855950There is a whole moral and ethical debate on it as people believe it will lead to eugenics and designer baby type shit which I don't see as a
valid argument because you can literally just stop at getting rid of genetic disabilities that cripple the person and everyone around them. I'm sure people can recognize when it starts becoming modifying babies for personal aesthetics vs modifying babies so they don't live as a vegetable.
No. 1856002
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>>1855994It's quite cruel to give birth to someone without limbs too. Those parents are evil imo.
No. 1856009
>>1856005To be honest literally why would anyone spend money on buying limbs for their child when they should come pre-equipped? I feel like some parents take "I'll love my child no matter what" too seriously and it leads to shit that can be perevented.
>>1856002 Must've been an easy birth though lmao
No. 1856027
>>1855984So people who are mentally retarded and enjoy or benefit from being that way are offended that people think curing mental retardation is good? See:
>In which case your question can be answered by referring to the kind of person they are.That still doesn't mean it's offensive in general.
No. 1856054
>>1856027It shouldn't be offensive in general and i don't think it is for most people since its been proven theat given the chance most mothers take it to not birth a disabled child, but those other types do exist and will always sperg out when the subject matter is brought up.
Consider that nowadays having some mental disorder in your bio is considered fashionable and many kids want those labels for identity politics. Everyone identifies as some form of queer and disabled now.
No. 1856184
>>1855621are you talking about the trend of calling anything and everything 'eugenics'? If so, yeah, it's incredibly grating. semi-unrelated but i think it's tied to the absolute lack of empathy for moms super-woke people exhibit. They refuse to consider why someone might not want to be extra burdened and go through an incredibly hard and isolating kind of motherhood. It's not like they strongly advocate for a model to relieve women from doing 99% of the work, which would vastly improve the kids' condition (unhappy mom=unhappy child). It's like they think raising a kid is all about unconditional love, flowers and honey.
I'm iffy about pregnancy screening for disabilities (outside of easily detected ones like Down's) because i knew this one woman who got told her baby would be born with all kinds of severe defects. Each doctor she saw came up with a different horrible diagnosis like a vital organ malfunctioning severely. She kept the baby anyways and it turned out to be perfectly healthy. I would probably still abort if i was told 'your baby will be severely disabled' but it had me thinking about the solidity of these diagnoses
No. 1856641
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>>1856634Thank u. Is using a device like this comparable or much worse?
No. 1856647
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>>1856631wrap your hair around your head(picrel) and wrap it in a silk scarf overnight
>>1856641I like the Revlon brush, but I have 3A curls and I was never able to make my hair super "sleek" with it - could be just my technique though
No. 1856681
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>>1856641Everytime I've seen someone review any of those things, they say it breaks their hair off.
I just use a blowdryer with different heat settings and a brush like this.
My hair feels so soft and straight after
No. 1856698
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Does anyone have any suggestions for how to get a stubborn older person to take their medication when it has to be mixed with food?
No. 1856713
>>1856698I don't know how badly this will backfire for your situation but I've cheerfully given up, pretended to toss the medication, and started looking at caskets and funeral plans on my phone with my grandpa because he obviously wanted to die and who was I to stop him? He freaked out and took his pills. He didn't say a single thing to the doctors after that either.
You could say that the doctors have switched to a pill (Skitles) instead to make it easier for them to take, mix the medication in with strong-tasting food, and get stressed when the person refuses to eat candy masquerading as meds.
No. 1856754
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>>1856740Definitely hated how weird normalfags are with social media and wanting to copy each trend they see on pinterest. Picrel comes to mind when I think of peak aesthetic trends on instagram
No. 1856928
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Look at this monster I came across online, he jumpscared me. Can someone tell me what’s wrong with him and why he looks so atrocious and repulsive
No. 1856946
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Are autistic moids less likely to think with their dick when presented with a choice to act on their desires or not? I always thought all men were the same and really couldn't resist sex when offered. Follow up question: if a moid rejects you it's really about your looks, not anything else they might have used as an excuse? (I need nonnies help getting over my intense sexual fantasies of a moid who rejected me because I'm already in a long term relationship. I don't really believe that's why he won't have a one night stand with me, I think it's really he's just not attracted to me. Somehow that's easier to take than a moid being capable of resisting a sexual advance kek) I know I shouldn't cheat nonnies and I never have before, but this particular moid is exactly my type and is driving me up a wall. Helpppp
No. 1857137
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When you wear a sweater with a high neck do you tuck your necklace into the sweater so it's not seen or do you put your necklace around the outside? I feel like picrel when i put the necklace on the outside but it also feels boring and plain around the neck area if i don't have a necklace, idk.
No. 1857167
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>>1857159Well, the stickers just have like, cute messages about not giving up and stuff, and smiley faces with different emotions depending on how well done is the job.
And the colors are pretty neutral. I hope the minimoids don't chimp out.
No. 1857178
>>1857174That's what I'm worried about tbh. I will have to read about how to deal with teenagers so I don't mess up my throat shouting or something.
>>1857171I'm afraid of being a bigger failure.
No. 1857228
>>1857189It's not usually explicitly stated like "you must not bring dishonor to the family" but it's sort of implicit. We have this concept called "face" which is like a more complex idea about reputation.
A lot of Asians have a much more collectivist mindset so people think in terms of how their behavior affects the harmony of the broader community. Morality is sometimes different because of this, people take more of an adaptable "what will other people think" approach than a "what is right according to my objective moral code" approach which may come off as manipulative or two-faced in Western culture.
It's not always easy to explain, but as an example, it may be seen as honorable to lie or hide the truth if that helps preserve peace. A more specific and extreme manifestation of this is that in some places, when an aging parent is terminally ill, the adult children will not disclose the illness to that parent and medical staff may be willing to collude in this secrecy. The belief is that this is the upstanding thing to do because the parent lives the remainder of their life blissfully without worry and the children are shouldering the burden and pain for them. Meanwhile lots of people in the West (and indeed many modern people in the East as well) would object based on the idea of that parent having an individualistic right to know and make decisions about their own health.
I am East Asian so this might not apply as well to other subsets of Asians, but it's generally known that Asians (traditionally) have some form of group mindset. Obviously everyone is different I'm not saying I agree with all this either
No. 1857237
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>>1857137I think putting it on top works depending on the piece. Like a regular thin chain that hangs down would look fine especially if it’s partially covered by the fold down of the turtleneck, but that thick chain that just floats looks retarded
No. 1857257
>>1857244They're just generalizations, it also makes more sense to talk about them as patterns in societies as a whole rather than comparing specific families. For instance
in general more Asian parents want to have a more present role in choosing their child's career, whereas non-Asian Americans more usually leave it to the kid to figure out as a "find your passion" thing, but of course everyone knows a white helicopter parent who wants to micromanage their kids' lives as well. It's just that on a societal level it's not as ingrained.
When my parents were young, the government had a strong role in dictating their career (forcing my dad to study a subject he hated and blocking my mom from higher education) and that was just seen as normal and reasonable, despite being unpleasant. In America that sort of thing would be unheard of, your career is your own and nobody else is entitled to make choices for you.
Also Asian-Americans usually get a more watered down version of those traditional concepts as well as exposure to Western ideals, so it's not quite the same compared to people actually living in Asia.
No. 1857341
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has anyone seen this show? should i watch it?
No. 1857355
>>1857345Ot is offtopic so it's mostly personal stuff, it's a lot more anon centred v cow centred, the closest it comes to cows is the 'what's your real opinion on cows' thread and that's still anon specific.
PT is for lolcows with a lot of info on them, bigger fanbases, larger audiences.
Snow is for lolcows who aren't as in the public eye, small fish OR groups that fall into lolcow territory because they have a lot of drama/weirdos.
No. 1857438
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how do i overcome my porn addiction, particularly getting over my hyperspecific fetish? i already stopped watching porn almost 6 months ago but my fetish is strong as ever. i feel like i'm in hell, i tried having vanilla sex with a real moid and every time, i can't get turned on, mentally or physically. it's over for me, isn't it. is my brain ruined?
No. 1857470
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>>1857448you are a feeder aren't you
No. 1857480
>>1857458it's one of those things that makes normies go "wtf how could that be a fetish its so normal"
>>1857465i used to watch normal images/videos of it until i accidentally found a porn community centered around it and became invested. porny obviously-a-fetish style videos on youtube, then written erotica, then my slow descent into real porn involving it. i've had it for a couple years now and tried and failed to recover and become normal. the pandemic really messed me up i think, that was when it was at its worst because there was a deluge of new content and i was jobless and had all the free time to watch it
>>1857470no. it's something normal that normies commonly do/enjoy nonsexually but i am cursed to find exclusively sexual
No. 1858748
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Does anyone else get very depressed or suicidal before their period? It’s like a spike in wanting to off myself or do something crazy. I hate it so much and it only happens right before…
No. 1859214
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kids and teenagers would bully me. Adults know how to be two faced , they will be polite most of the times but i know am not liked or being included and really feel invisible compared to atractive women. Instead of bully everyone just ignores and passively dismisses me. At one point i realized even my friends would never write me if i didn't write to them first, in every group i am the bottom of the totem pole.
No. 1859227
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Does anyone know what stitch this is?
No. 1859350
>>1859327some unsexy grandma name like Maude or Gertrude.
All stripper and anime sounding names are already taken by troons.
No. 1859441
>>1859327Classic or old-fashioned names. Victoria, Mary, Laura, Grace, Gabrielle, Margaret, Ida, Bertha, Edna, Myrtle
Names from previous generations that are now associated with older women, such as Shauna, Janet, Shannon, Barb/Barbra, Sheila, Phyllis,Debra, KAREN, Nancy, Donna , Susan
Or those trendy moid names that are now being given to women: Tatum, Ryker, Hunter, Sutton, Harlow, Spencer, Logan, Jordan, Carter, Blake
No. 1859534
>>1859040i'm
>>1858083 and thin, idk why anyone would think it's a fat only thing. when i used to be in middle school classmates said my body looked like a boy and compared me to trannies
No. 1859588
>>1859565sorry forgot to link it
>>>/ot/1581752it's a mess just like this one though.
No. 1859722
>>1859421do you have the soap thing because me too
>>1859420my ick is how young people react when I call them sir or ma'am. Young women look like they want to puke because it makes them feel old and young men enjoy it way too much. Sir and ma'am is for old people only now, as far as I'm concerned.
No. 1859796
>>1859706the way
nonny is spelt annoys tf out of me, not sure why.
No. 1860045
Can you get used to the laxative effect of caffeine, too, specifically tea? I'm constantly constipated and my doc says absolutely everything is fine, I just drink way too little (<500ml/d if I'm not careful) and all my problems would be solved if I could bring myself to drink just a bit more. He, like the doctor he is, is right and on the days I'm drinking well I am also pooping well. I don't like the water in our apartment and don't have the back muscles to buy it bottled, so I've switched to tea, and on the days I drink my +2L everything bathroom related goes especially well, too, so I'm guessing the caffeine in the tea is doing quite a bit of legwork, but now I'm worried that I'll get used to the laxative effect like you can get from actual laxatives and soon I won't be pooping as good anymore Daily coffee drinkers feel free to respond, too.
No. 1860064
>>1860058I say 'someone' from school, if they were my friend I'd say 'old friend' from school.
If I had to choose one I'd say woman, I don't like referring to adults as 'girls'.
No. 1860118
>>1860045I don't think so, I usually
need to poop after drinking coffee, but weirdly enough, I don't feel the same after drinking teas of literally any kind.
No. 1860399
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>>1859040When I was ugly (bad haircut dressed awful, so it was more like goofy looking ugly rather than hideous and disfigured) ladies were overly complimentary and guys were outright hostile, they were like “you don’t make my peepee hard and you should die!”
No. 1860427
>>1859040I was never fat but the change in everyone's attitude when I grew out my hair long, started to dress just a bit more feminine and cover my bad skin with foundation was WILD. People (but only teens, older men, like 20+, would often approach or catcall me) were the most hostile to me when I was a teen with short hair. At school it partially had to do with the way I acted (I wasn't friendly with them and straightforward to the point of being rude which I don't regret) but even some random guys would straight up insult me or react in a negative way and it was so fucking weird. Now that I think about it, many guys mistaked me for emo only because of short hair and dark eye makeup, and maybe that's what
triggered them. This and white Steel boots I wore in cold season. There were just a lot of gopnicks where my school was.
No. 1860491
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How do you make your eyeliner look so seamless?
No. 1860919
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I am once again crying out to any NZanons, why the fuck are your men like that? They need to be put into labor camps.
No. 1861181
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Why do I laugh when someone puts up their index finger? I even do this to myself and it works. Am I retarded?
No. 1861191
>>1861187Compatibility is an app-by-app basis, some will work on both some won't, most will but if you have non-negotiable apps then I'd check. Some things will only work on certain IOS, some old ipads won't go higher.
Apple pen is only useful if you use it for art/organisation.
No. 1861221
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>>1861181this is for u non
No. 1861622
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If a girl has this in her bio does it mean she might be a lesbian?
No. 1861890
>>1861759no, and maybe
>>1861886I’m the same way but I always just found self-insert too corny
No. 1861931
>>1861898Angelina Jolie, junnifer lawrence, Ellen Page, Florence Pugh, Megan Fox, Ariana Grande, Doja cat, Jenna Ortega
>>1861902> Cillian Murphy would like seeing all of the unhinged thirst posts ugly weirdos make about himHe has made references to the thirst trap edits that fan accounts make of him on tiktok, some of those deranged tiktokers have actually gone to Ireland to stalk/hook up with him and they documented and posted all of it. He also has a history of smiling, winking, and making sultry lingering eye contact with zoomers recording him which they all post on tiktok. He definitely watches his fan accounts for an ego boost and he probably defends himself on here too
No. 1862034
>>1861909kek I bet she even posts here instead of just lurking. I can think of a few threads.
>>1861898Robert Pattinson said once while promoting Batman that he looks up his name, lurks and samefags in anonymous websites.
No. 1862062
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>>1861989You’re just jealous of her
No. 1862141
>>1862135i can see it splintering in smaller communities for every niche with smaller overhead. Right now YT is unsustainableand its already not being able to adapt to tiktok and twitch or the surge of AI flooding their algorithms already.
If you notice most youtubers are not really youtubers anymore, they have their own communities on Patreon, Twitch and Discord and yt is merely a repository to dump stuff their supporters already saw. I think we will just see the continuation of that. Normies seem to prefer their echo chambers too.
No. 1862180
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>>1862173i hate how i can't look at that anime girl without thinking of tranny memes. Poor Kurumi-chan
No. 1862290
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hello i need your opinion on drawing self inserts with characters while in a relationship. i know this sounds retarded but i'm engaged now and i am not sure if i'll have to stop drawing basically fanart of myself and a character, ive been drawing since 6th grade so i don't want to stop drawing silly stuff sorry for my english isn't the best and sorry for blogpost.
No. 1862300
>>1862290>drawing self inserts with charactersvery based lady behavior
>while in a relationshipextra based. if your spouse-to-be can't understand your silliness and love for something you've done for years, that's not great
No. 1862337
>>1854392there are like a couple of sucessfull uterus transplant, and the last one i've heard of, the donor was the mother of the woman, she was born without uterus and she keep the organ just for the pregnancy, after that, they remove it because there is not point of keeping it, she don't need it like you need a kidney or a heart to survive
i get that you don't want to give away your organ, you don't even need a reason for that, but the '' trannies are gonna make babies with my dead womb and rape them'' is utterly ridiculous
No. 1862344
>>1862320isn't this just siblings things ? i never got along with mine, i just assume that they saw me as rival or something ( not like i was a menace or something, i'm the runt of the litter and the retarded one above all)
just being alive was like a nuisance and meant less attention from parent and less cookies to eat or less presents for christmas
let me tell you that when i found out that some siblings genuinely liked each other and even hang out together, i was dumbfounded
No. 1862352
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>>1862076did something happened to her or just the lockdown ?
No. 1862362
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>>1862352She went on psych meds, and weight gain is a common side effect. Which like… good for her. She needs to be medicated.
No. 1862364
>>1862355well, was he always like that ? some people just never grow up
it's not normal to be aggressive to people and it's even less normal to be a dick to family members for no reasons, maybe he has a reason, probably a stupid reason, but maybe he's resentfull for something silly
No. 1862593
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Why do pea coats read so gay?
No. 1863045
>>1863042No idea how to pick. Might spend money on drugs, tho, yeah.
>>1863043I'm stuck in the middle of nowhere without any job prospect. It's bleak.
No. 1863063
>>1863033Maybe not a laptop but if you just want to play pokemon and basic games look into an emulator for your phone or computer rn
nonnie. More bang for your buck and you can play pretty much any nintendo game or even stardew valley. I like death road to canada too. Then smoke some weed. Ezpz.
No. 1863165
>>1863150it's probably the case and she probably won't listen to you if you tell her that's a waste of time and money, the only way she'll realize it is to '' fuck around and find out''
giving a shot at something and not succeeding is also a good life experience, (as long as she doesn't quit her job to '' live her dream'' )
No. 1863199
>>1863150In my experience working in ad agencies photographer can be a great job thats really simple and pays a lot. They also got to travel to shoots all expenses paid for, get free products and had a good time just for spending a few hours shooting some model.
But it is also the least meritocratic job ever. No one was hired because of merit. They always were some rich kids whos the son/daughter on X or a former school friend of X. The cushier high paying gigs would often go to people who could barely even operate their camera and often some in-house graphic designer would have to go through thousands of ugly unusable photos and cherrypick the ones to hravily edit to make usable because of it.
Building a career from the ground up without those connections is not that easy.
No. 1863223
>>1863204It was also not uncommon for thr brand to tell the agency they already had a photographer picked out and then would send you the most worthless drug addict piece of shit only to find out it was the "bohemian" kid of one of the executives for that company.
The job used to require a lot more skill and a lot more legwork that couldn't be faked but digital cameras and photoshop made it so retards could have their asses covered.
No. 1863448
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Nonitas, would you all wear this for a year for 10 million dollars?
No. 1863553
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>>1863504Yes hello cashier can I get two strawberry cream and one strawberry Pina colada elf bar
No. 1863577
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>>1863504Can I customize it like this
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>>1863575If nobody got me I know nonna got me
No. 1863593
>>1863552After the year is up
>>1863577Yes
>>1863555Hmmm
No. 1863599
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is this cat a female? I've seen ppl refer to as male but I think I saw somewhere she was actually a female cat, I hate how the default is male always.
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>>1863599Girl how are we suppose to know
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>>1863601A multifaceted queen
No. 1863660
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>>1863644Getting rejected by Cerbmin is a highlight of 2024 for me so far, very cool
(everyone I don't agree with is cerbmin) No. 1864077
>>1864039Yes. I have deep infiltrating endometriosis, though. That specific pain went away after I had surgery to remove the endo on my intestines. The cramps were insanely painful, I grabbed the sink so hard during one that I bruised my hand.
Anyway, I'd ask your gyn about endometriosis.
No. 1864152
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what food do you usually buy that can last a week while on a budget?
just to clarify i'm a neet struggling with many things and on sickness benefit for the time being, so money is tight.
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>>1864152Rice, frozen vegetables, and sausage or chicken or beef. If you're in America, a $1 pint of great value ice cream for a treat. You gotta rely on seasoning so you don't have something basic and bland. I would also try to make some kind of mayo based sauce (think hibachi sauce) if I have the stuff at home, but I'm a sauce person so maybe that's just me.
I would also say avoid bread. It's not as filling as other carbs so you'll just tear through it faster.
No. 1864172
>>1864152Buy a big bag of rice and it'll last a long time, it's versatile too. If you can stomach a higher upfront cost, a somewhat nicer (like $100-125 range) rice cooker that has a few more features can be convenient. When I want something super cheap and easy I set mine to make some porridge and eat it with some soy sauce and/or an egg, I also like the timer and keep warm features.
Chicken thigh is fairly cheap where I live, for what you get, at least compared to beef and fish. I like to eat it buttered with fried zucchini or steamed broccoli on rice, it's not too expensive but idk how tough your budget is. If meat is too pricey (or you are veg) then beans are a good option. If you are not adverse to it, less popular meats (like liver) can sometimes be obtained at good deals at places like Asian markets… I assume this doesn't apply in every country however
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>>1864164Samefag, beans too for extra nutrition.
I know that rice and beans and meat is a super boring and you've probably already heard it a million times, but it really is one of the only things that can reliably fill you up and also nourish your body for an entire week. And with the right skills and a little creativity, you could make multiple different meals so you don't have to eat the same thing everyday. Like a chilli!
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>>1864152cassoulet would be good. just bacon, chicken, beans, some veggies and spices. you can even add some sausages if you have the money
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>>1864152I read M.F.K. Fisher's book, How to Cook A Wolf, when I was a bored (weird) teen. I found it so fascinating and potentially useful that I immediately bought a copy when I saw it at the used bookstore. There's an entire chapter about how to survive on the lowest possible budget by making a type of stew (and other tips). There are levels to how poor you are and what you're willing to do; she goes through them all. Nothing has changed from the 40s in terms of what is typically cheapest (beans, rice, ingredients for simple soup). But her writing is also fantastic and worth reading for that alone. There are also recipes for simple breads and cakes that will fill you up. I'm sure you can find it for free on an ebook site.
It's basically an entertaining mixture of essays, recipes, and invaluable tips/advice. She was an incredible woman.
No. 1864372
>>1864152Potatoes. If you live in an area with somewhat uncontaminated green areas and are healthy enough to spend some time outside, don't underestimate how many leafy greens you can forage even in winter and early spring. I make simple soups and salads from foraged greens all the time.
Not sure if they do this everywhere but ime some supermarets discount their fresh products (fruit, vegetables, meat, bread) near the end of the day by like 40-50% to get rid of it before it expires.
No. 1864382
>>1864152Like the other anons I'd also recommend rice, potatoes, lentils, beans and chicken. If you like the taste, oatmeal for breakfast is an option. In my country most of the grocery stores have their own apps with coupons, it's a matter of luck but you can find great deals sometimes. Also what
>>1864372 said, but where I'm at you can find the products with 30-50% discount early in the morning, right after the store opens.
>>1864377That's so weird, I've never noticed it before. Do you know if there's a way to view the treads again other than going to the catalog? Do they reappear if you just wait a few days or maybe clear your cache and cookies?
No. 1864431
>>1864152Foods high in protein and fiber like oatmeal, raisins and other dried fruit, lentils, beans, and chickpeas, are cheap and very filling. Nut butters are really filling and versatile, buy the unsweetened ones if you can so you can use them in sauces too. Eggs, cheap cuts of meat, potatoes, pearl barley and pasta can be used in just about anything. Buy frozen veg, it's cheaper than fresh. Salt, pepper, herbs and spices will help you a lot. If you can, make your own cakes and breads, the homemade versions are cheap and way more filling.
Buy ingredients in bulk and freeze everything that you think might go off. Even cheese and eggs (not in shells) can be frozen. If you're hoarding little odds and ends, throw it all into a pot and make soup.
No. 1864521
>>1864491It's suspected at least one mod is.
>>1864493No only because I do not have any pink in my closet. It's just not a good clothes color for most people.
No. 1864612
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what are drag kings for
No. 1864613
>>1864599Oh, thank you. I already forgot that the snow around christmas could be turned off the same way kek
>>1864607sowwy
No. 1864663
>>1864622My close (formerly I guess) friend is a people pleaser and it feels like she needs everyone to love her because she's so sensitive to any perceived rejection and needs to feel good about her position in people's lives. She treats me with only a fraction of the consideration she shows her BPD bestie who does terrible things to her all the time or random
abusive moids she needs to rescue because all she can see is his ~inner child~ that got hurt at some point and she needs to stop the cycle. When we first met, she really wanted to win me over and I was keeping a safe distance, but I feel like she likes me best when I'm in need of fixing. We were best friends for a good while and I'm sure she loves me but it's like some weird thing where my box is ticked off now that she has won the friendship.
But maybe I'm just projecting kek, I have another people pleaser bestie who doesn't treat me anything like that
No. 1864936
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>>1864727There was this case awhile back that is tangentially related. If this is possible I think technically what you're saying is also possible.
https://time.com/4091210/chimera-twins/ No. 1864991
>>1864973>koopa guy>interestingHonestly where is the appeal in him at all I need a cow to have something notable or funny he was literally just an autistic nobody. It felt like selfposting with the earnestness. It's
sus. Also, gay
(integrate) No. 1865007
samefag from
>>1864970 I just went and took a look at /snow/ to see whats happening this evening and the first thing I saw on the most recently bumped thread was a newfag sperging out about a cows baby being 'behind' developmentally for some reason, going as far as to post a photo of him. Very weird vendetta channing behavior.
No. 1865063
>>1864991koopa guy was a grade-a organic autismo lolcow. they just don't make 'em like that anymore. not every cow has to be e-famous or a horrorshow.
some of us appreciate a good old-fashioned artcow. the sort who names his OCs Concord McSubway.
No. 1865502
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Why am I being shown this ad repeatedly on Reddit? I'm a young woman with no unhealthy interest in children, the fuck?
No. 1865548
>>1865471Zero. But I say that a high number would only depend on how old you are. Because if you're 20 years old, assuming you've been sexually active since you were 18 years old, a high number would be like 10, because how the hell can anyone get intimate enough to have sex with 10 people in 3 years? Sounds difficult or like the woman in question is being tricked by nasty asshats.
If you're like 25 years old, I would say that, again, assuming sexual activities began at 18 years old, 10 people isn't that crazy to me, because those are 8 years of talking to different people and befriending them, creating bonds and all that stuff.
In the end, it's dumb to care about that as you age because of course you will meet people and you will get in relationships with those people, some quicker and others slower.
Incels just can't understand how anyone can be social, or even socially awkward or even autistic and get in relationships with others to the point of wanting to have sex with those people in different periods of time.
No. 1865609
>>18654711 and I regret it, I realized late that he was an abuser who wasn't changing. It was also like the worst pain I'd ever felt so it wasn't even enjoyable in any way. He finished 3 times, there were a few other times where we stopped because I couldn't take the pain and he got bored, and other sexual encounters with no PIV but just like him beating me around
I'm not interested in hookups at all, and at this point if I ever have sex with a guy again we'd have to get married first, I'm not kidding. I can't stand men who aren't able to control their sexual impulses and I am really judgmental of men who have been with a lot of women but I'm more sympathetic towards women who have done it. In either case I think what matters more is their current mindset. Like if someone is like "I had a phase where I was sleeping around but I'm not into that anymore" I'd argue that's better than a virgin who's frothing at the mouth wishing they could jump into bed with a new person each night but just doesn't have the opportunity.
It only bothers me when women sleep around because it's unsafe and I know a lot of (especially young) women get semi-groomed into it with social pressure and negging, like it's not even "her choice"
No. 1865641
How can I make my eyes hurt less after a long day of working on my laptop and crying? Are eye drops and sleeping my only options?
>>18654711 and it will probably stay that way for a long time. He was my first and so bad at sex that I don't want to see another dick anytime soon. I'm also not interested in hooking up because of this. And when it comes to low/high body counts and what is considered as such, I'd say this depends a lot on your age, what type of live you're living (attending many different events vs being focused on family, friends and work), the type of person you are, so it's very hard to say. For myself anything above 10 seems high but that's just for me, I would not judge another woman based on it. Dis you go too far with your hookups? It all depends on how you feel. If you had fun and stayed safe that's all that matters. To me a few hookups after a LTR and celibacy doesn't sound like taking things too far though.
No. 1865644
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>>1865641i have one of thoses for my migraine, works well since the cold will numb your face as well as your eyes
No. 1865724
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Umm… why is Mamo-chan naked?
No. 1865730
>>1865471The amount of sexual partners you've had doesn't mean anything about your worth nona, that's just another way that moids came up with to control us. They want to humiliate us for existing, all our bodily functions are shameful or ridiculed by them. Do not believe their lies.
Before brainwashed nonas accuse me saying this to cope with being a whore (another moid lie), my "body count" is like 5 and im in my mid 30s.
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Is it possible to achieve this kind of flexibility by stretching at home?
Do you have any good videos that show full body stretching?
One of my goals for this year is to do the splits, but I'd like to be as flexible as possible.
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>>1865914anon that was literally everywhere on the internet, i know about it already, lol. I mean more obscure milk, like when /co/ anons discovered Doug Walker(nostalgia critic) might be into feederism/weight gain
No. 1866182
>>1866141Your average webtoon read reads multiple webtoons at the same time they never form strong attachment or bonds. Very few garner a huge fanbase like LO
It’s like doomscrolling without the doom, are you going to remember the a tweet from 3 hours ago?
No. 1866184
>>1865878I think so. That pose is kind of advanced it might take more than a year depending on where you're starting from. I bet
>>>/g/331898 would have better advice
No. 1866352
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I ordered a new pair of Converse and they came in today but they're so SQUEEKY. I think it's the bottom of the sole because they didn't make noise when I walked on the carpet. I've never had this with Converse before, that's the chance they'll keep squeeking? I don't want to return them but it's seriously a loud ass noise.
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Do any anons know how accurate the calorie counter on treadmills are? I usually take off 20 or 30kcal from the counter after I'm finished (depending on how generous I feel towards myself that day, like if I burned 500kcal I count it as 470 or 480), based on what I've read online when I've tried to check it myself but maybe some anons have a better clue? Because I'm not sure if I trust the sources.
If it helps I'm on the upper end of normal weight of my height with a bmi of 23 or 24 last time I checked.
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I wrote down a bunch of small tales for kids, they're quite solid I'd say. Where should I go with these stories? Where do people publish or post their ideas for a book? I'm very creative but I seriously don't know where to start in this regard
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>>1866352Sand them down a little, or just wear them out. New shoe things
No. 1866381
>>1866367maybe because shoes are part of being dressed and no one wants to see your socks or feet, the floor is dirty. taking off your shoes and putting your feet up is something you do at the end of the day in the privacy of your own home. for social gatherings and meals in the home shoes stay on. bare feet are seen as indecent by some, or gross if they've been sweating in shoes all day.
that said lots of people in america take their shoes off in the house, it depends on the family. it definitely keeps the floor cleaner.
No. 1866413
>>1866397>>1866394I never met anyone in America that stocks house slippers for guests. Personally I think it's rude to ask guests to take off their shoes, they won't have any other foot coverings and they might not have decent socks or they might be self conscious about their foot smell.
It's a person by person thing though. I take off my shoes in my friends house and use her house shoes because we're the same size and she's OCD about it, but secretly I think it's gross and one of us is gonna give the other athletes foot. I never ask anyone to take off their shoes in my house. My sister visited for a week and she takes her shoes off so I started doing it too lmao, my floors were a lot cleaner but I went right back to wearing shoes when she left. You be polite if someone cares but there is no default in America.
No. 1866415
>>1866367Are you talking about people who're visiting? It's because it's weird to have people who're not close to you take their shoes off in your own home. I had an insurance guy over today, imagine if he took his shoes off, weird.
Anons here always say gross gross gross but don't you have a floor mat on both sides of your door to wipe your shoes on before entering? Don't you vacuum your floors regularly?
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I always see that non-Americans are shocked that yellow school buses are real, so what do school buses look like in other countries? Just regular buses?
Here school buses have to be bright so we can yield and stop for them so I cant imagine them not being a bright color.
No. 1866500
>>1866495not every place here has school buses, they're mostly a rural thing. the local authorities usually rent them from coach companies or the local public transport service. so they're not a uniform colour.
i grew up in a city and we just used the regular bus servuces or subway to school, when the school needed to transport a big group they basically hired a bus that the local transportation authority rented out to every school in town
No. 1866505
>>1866182That's disappointing. Is there any incentive to making a webcomic (other than because of you want to, obviously, and a lack of attention will likely not stop you) other than monetary incentive then? I'm trying to get into casual reading but I always keep hearing that all these platforms have shit monetization services or try to sign you onto a shit contract with strained deadlines and shit pay. I was reading a couple comics with almost 1M views and I see absolutely no posts anywhere about it. 1M views must be too little.
>>1866183You're right, I totally forgot. That's very interesting.
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>>1866557NONNIE I was in literally the same situation a few days ago! I've always read it like "silly" and then I found a news article with a video and the lady pronounced it like "kill". Just checked on Wikipedia, we both have been saying it wrong kek.
No. 1866639
>>1866574Definitely not one syllable names for me, two or three syllables are better. A woman can have any name and if she's cute I'd like her, but if a man has a stupid name absolutely not.
It varies by name otherwise, ones without harsh consonants like Armand are nice.
>>1866634Based, hope you find a mysterious witch with a name like that.
No. 1866701
>>1866674Could it be lack of vitamin D from not getting enough sun?
I think that's what my problem is cause it got worse when I fucked my sleep schedule. Gotta remember to sit in front of the happy light.
No. 1867095
>>1867045Really short hair, as in a buzzcut tier short hair, denim pants or cargo pants, always comfy pants, nothing too short, ugly as fuck sports shoes for some reason.
And it's kind of funny, but at this point I can even differentiate between a tranny and a true butch, it takes talking to a few butches to know how they actually dress and such.
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Is there a word for one someone's side profile looks amazing but their frontal does not? From the side this is a ten, what causes this
No. 1867448
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How accurate are these? What do nonnas typically score on these?
https://psychology-tools.com/test/autism-spectrum-quotient No. 1867455
>>1867448Well, I'm disgnosed with assburgers and I got an assburgers score, 29 of 50, so I guess it's kind of accurate? But not really, I got dizzy reading some of the questions and I may have messed up answers.
I think it's better to just go to a psychologist or something.
No. 1867557
>>1867448This site
https://embrace-autism.com/autism-tests/ has different autism tests and it also specifies the accuracy of the test.
No. 1867595
>>1867575I don't mind older women dating young men who are at least 20 years old, I also don't mind something like a 25 years old woman dating an 18 years old guy.
Moids are all predators, they just get worse as they age, so it's always better to be wary of older men wanting to date young women.
When it comes to same-sex relationships, I honestly don't mind the age gaps as long as the two people are adults.
I guess that as I keep aging, I notice how age gaps in which the woman is older than the man makes more sense, because the average 40 years old moid looks like shit, and so does the average of moids of many ages starting from their early 30's in which some of them still look decent if they're not slobs who eat shit on a daily basis.
Meanwhile, age gaps aren't justifiable for moids who want to date younger women because the average woman looks amazing regardless of her age.
No. 1867607
>>1845632Long post, sorry – it's not a blog post, I promise. I just want to explain my thought process. I'm posting it in this thread because perhaps there's some sort of consensus that I haven't been able to find.
I have been listening to Gender: A Wider Lens, a podcast with two psychologists investigating AGP and ROGD. They have had a lot of the big names, like Blanchard, Lawrence, Vasey, etc.
A big theme in their pioneer series is feminine males in general, and how feminine, androphilic males are present cross-culturally. We all know that the handmaidens use these people as proof that non-binary exists across the world, but that this isn't true. These are all feminine, androphilic males. They are "third genders" in the sense that they aren't seen as women or normal men, but they are always seen as male. They are treated really poorly in some places, like India, but are treated better in others, like Samoa.
In most cultures, they are still acknowledged to be male, but are considered a "third gender" of sort. They tend have female professions and friends, but usually do not get SRS or go on HRT (except kathooey in Thailand). They may present as women but do not pretend that they are women. They are just their third gender. In some places, like India, the hidra have institutionalized roles. But in Samoa, the fa'afafine are just androphilic males who present as women but who do not claim to be women. Same with the bakla in the Philippines.
It got me thinking about what we encourage in the West. Obviously the modern transgender movement mostly consists of AGPs and is totally separate from this. But for androphilic, feminine males – what IS the best way to handle these people? It seems like we encourage them to live as men explicitly, instead of some feminine "not women but third category". Having interacted with a lot of these gay guys in the west, they were feminine when they younger and then go through periods where they attempt to become more masculine and man up, in order to get "masc gays" who are likewise putting on a show. Feminine gays are really really ostracized in the Western gay community.
On the one hand, the way that we treat androphlic males in the West feels inauthentic to them and stifling. On the other, encouraging them to transition or telling them that they are women erodes women's rights and encourages AGPs. What is the proper way to societally deal with feminine, androphilic males?
(learn2integrate) No. 1867614
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>>1867607>But for androphilic, feminine males – what IS the best way to handle these people?Hunt them for sport.
No. 1867663
>>1859327Christine
>>1863814No (Spanish)
>>1866565French and Greek names honestly. They're very unique
No. 1867695
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>>1867045What butch is to me:
Required: Is lesbian or bi
Required: Has masculine mannerisms and interests
Additionally: especially those associated with gentlemen (for example I wouldn't call butch a woman who watches porn, plays video games and masturbates as most men tend to do). The mannerisms can be dependent on culture
Required: Dresses and looks masculine
Additionally: but not exactly like a regular man. There's something unique about her. Take picrel for example. These women dress masculine but they're not 100% casual and there's at least one thing in their appearance that spices up things a little. One wears a suit BUT there's a yellow tie (what guy wears these?). One has tattoos and some kind of yin yang necklace. One wears sunglasses and dresses in leather (I chose that one specifically to show that for her to be a butch she doesn't have to look identical to a man, she has soft facial features but the facial features don't make someone butch). One wears round glasses which are feminine but overalls and a leather jacket. One has a very masculine haircut but piercings and the red&black flannel, but the pic is black and white so it's not visible. One has skull fingerless gloves and that hairstyle. One has purple shoelashes, pants folded up (what guy does this?), a hat and those round sunglasses. One has a tattoo and that shirt, look at the way it's worn.
No. 1867699
>>1867695The only butch i see are mainly bottom row. The top left is more GNC. Still, I wish more women would dress gnc in general.
As a lesbian, and more GNC than butch. I think more butch women are into exercise. They dont have to have shorter hair per say, but it helps. I think a lot of into fitness and being more healthy, dont shave and dont care for makeup in general. They act and dress more masculine, but obviously arent trying to be men. GNC and butch are very similar, so I dont care to label them. I also think straight women can obviously be GNC but a butch lesbian has a vibe. It's hard to describe, but you feel it.
No. 1867700
>>1867668I think the amount of
toxic men who are into these games are off-putting to women. Like other nonnies said, I want to try DBD but don't want to put up with some moid raging in the chat after the match because I screwed something up as a newbie kek
No. 1867727
>>1867704Ayrt.
In your case, you're just too young and in a different stage of life than her. She's 30 years old, she surely has a job and some superior education that you still don't have (like a university degree) and you're basically out of high-school, surely you don't even know what you want to do as a professional and you probably don't even have your own bank account or a stable job unless you're a prodigy of some sorts.
Like, a 20 something woman has at least been out of school for quite a while, and her dating a 30 years old woman isn't that crazy since they both have experienced going to college and some sort of independence.
No. 1867747
>>1867704No, for a couple of reasons. You’re in different places and milestones. Depending on where you live you are in different incomes, housing, education, drinking, relationship history and experience levels etc. those things will put a 30 year old even one that doesn’t want to be in power over an 18 year old. It becomes very easy to misuse that power and understanding. If a 30 year old is “young at heart” and understands and relates to an 18 year old they are typically stunted which means as the 18 year old matures and changes the stunted adult doesn’t. Leading to the 18 year old out growing them and a relationship that grows resentful.
I know it’s pushed as being more acceptable in ssa communties, but it’s still creepy for a full adult to date a young adult just starting out.
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does anyone else have those moments where you become way too self aware, like damn i am really in bed browsing lolcow and i have a face and skin and shit and i am just Really Here Right Now. like what's up with that
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>>1867683>>1867687>>1867696If we’re either a four squad or a group of five in a custom lobby I wouldn’t yell at anyone
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>>1867572>>1867569Nightclub, what do nonnies think of this skirt, black to the knee boots with 2 inch heel, and a black short sleeve short turtle neck? Feels like somethings missing (+ jewelery ofc)
No. 1867931
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is it possible to get inflammation in your throat for a long period of time? there's been a pain in front, mostly on the left side, for over half a year now and it's very uncomfortable. it flared up really badly one time too and I was running a very high fever. also I don't think it's my thyroid, the other women in my family have diagnosed issues but my thyroid panels always come back clean.
and yep, already asked the doctor, just was referred to an ultrasound even though I had one two years ago.
No. 1867944
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from
>>>/ot/1867334Isn't this essentially what Scientologists believe? Or am I misremembering from movie night kek
No. 1867967
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>>1867802>weird sensations of different parts of my body being smaller or bigger than they really areAnon that is a symptom of depersonalization jsyk. Picrel is from Mayo Clinic
No. 1867980
>>1845632how do i become more articulate and, well…intelligent? it may be a silly group to compare myself to but i find so many nonnas on here really have a way with words and personally at a certain point in my life i began to feel so brain dead. now im not sure if this is due to trauma or lack of socialization or what have you, but i really wish to speak as well as some people do! and have charm and humor. i feel ive lost it all.
ive made a lot of growth and do plenty of reading but i suppose it all feels too slow or unattainable. maybe my brain is fried? every time i speak i sound like applebees applebees tiktok kid. sans the aggression. im in education (you may ask how!) and work on plenty of mindfulness activites. but has stress ruined my brain? genetics? have i forever lost the ability to be smart and absorb information and spew witty remarks?
it musta beens those stimulants they hads me on…..maybe im just autistic
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nonas, how does a retard like me make online friends? i reach to so many strangers on the daily and they never go anywhere
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what kind of glasses are these called?
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>>1867045I think of this queen
No. 1868321
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Is is possible to retrain your face so its features don't droop when relaxed? I like my face but when I forget about it or feel tired it just melts. There's also something with my underbite which is not that obvious but, then again, when my face is totally relaxed my lips open just a little bit. My face can change so drastically it's wild, I hate it. I understand now why I was considered ugly at school, people could watch me "forgetting about my face" all day long.
No. 1868569
>>1868567There
is a podcast thread in /m/
>>>/m/17258 No. 1868579
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Is there anyone here who can solve my homework problem? Thx!
No. 1868613
>>1868572there's also a "revived" podcast general from when /m/ was kill
>>>/m/203173 - the older one has been bumped more recently though
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Does anyone remember the name of this cow from one of the banners? I know I read her thread before but her name escapes me
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>>1868619That's Abby Brown! Wow I haven't seen her in a minute
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>>1868625YES THANK YOU NONA
the emo queen herself