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No. 1033306

Lord, what fools these farmers be.
Previous thread >>1018946

No. 1033307

I can't believe that no one has ever used this as a thread pic

No. 1033311

Why are hemorrhoid pillows shaped like a donut if the reason why you're getting hemorrhoids in the first place is often because you sit too long on your porcelain donut and blood pools in your butt blood vessels or something like that? Unless they're called hemorrhoid pillows because they're supposed to give you hemorrhoids…

No. 1033314

>>1033311
Also, did I use "if" correctly in this sentence or should it have been "when"?

No. 1033316

>>1033311
it keeps pressure off your butthole

No. 1033327

Anon who asked in the previous thread why someone liked one of my tweets but it wasn't visible on the tweet itself: now it shows that my tweet was liked by one person. It's weird that it took several hours to show that.

No. 1033331

How can I make my period come faster?
I'm waiting in pain and white underwear and I just want it to come now, I don't wanna wait agonising about staining anything. I also don't wanna put on a pad "just in case" cause I don't wanna waste them uughh.

No. 1033333

>>1033331
I don't know but I put toilet paper in my underwear when I know it's coming

No. 1033335

>>1033316
But wouldn't you want to keep the pressure on your butthole to not have even more blood pool in that vessel?

No. 1033343

how come the grey rock method never works when i do it? it just makes the other person act like an even bigger asshole or act the same as usual

No. 1033351

Would you play a dating sim but for girls/women with an all female cast? no tranny stuff included and also why would/wouldn't you

No. 1033356

What happened to elaine's thread?

No. 1033357

>>1033343
Probably because they can see you're trying to ignore them so they escalate their asshole behavior to reel you back in. You just have to stay strong and keep grey rocking.

No. 1033371

>>1033351
Yes, as long as it's not coomer-y.

No. 1033406

My period came out of nowhere and I accidentally stained the hotel sheets and one of the pillow sheets too since I sleep with a pillow inbetween my legs. It's a cheap hotel and the sheets seem cheap too, so I'm wondering if I just leave without saying anything?
Or do I try to tell housekeeping anyway?
Even though it's not really my fault I still feel super embarrassed and I'm not sure if I'll have to pay either.
I hate when this happens nonnies. So much cute underwear stained too because of periods coming out of nowhere!!

No. 1033410

>>1033351
Absolutely as long as it didn't have typical ugly tumblr art style. The closest I've got to that is the love live all stars stories tbh.

No. 1033413

>>1033356
looks like it just got unpinned for some reason idk why but its still in the snow catalog

No. 1033414

Has anyone performed at a music open mic? How was the experience?

No. 1033415

Can someone explain me why do some people have an "aesthetic" for (and I quote the video) "each and every personality traits"?
Does that mean they have no personality but didn't want to dress normie?? What is the psychology behind this?

No. 1033427

>>1033406
I know quite a bit about the hotel housekeeping life, those ladies have seen everything and blood is no problem. The sheets will be easily cleaned at the laundry, you wouldn't have anything to tell the housekeeper and you didn't cause intentional damage. I'd just leave a tip bc it's a rough job tho

No. 1033433

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>>1033427
Thank you nonnie, I was thinking of leaving a tip. I hope a £10 will be fine.

No. 1033436

>>1033415
yup exactly lol theyre just trying on diff personalities

No. 1033459

why is celebricows in /ot/

No. 1033464

>>1033459
don’t ruin it for the rest of us let that thread stay there goddamn it anon

No. 1033477

>>1033464
NTA but what

No. 1033495

>>1033464
idk anon i came back here after a 2 year hiatus and i still think its dumb and never understood it, just put it in /snow/

No. 1033499

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>>1033495
Welcome back nonnie

No. 1033504

>>1033499
Forget that dumb nonnie, sauce on the pic

No. 1033510

>>1033499
thanks still trying to remember how everything works so i don't get ban immediately
>>1033504
kek isn't it a harvest moon cow

No. 1033516

>>1032666
why burger? vinegret and vinaigrette are different things

No. 1033517

>>1033504
Harvest Moon Animal Parade!
Cutest cows in all of vidya

No. 1033521

>>1033495
>>1033459
It was originally in /ot/, but it got moved to snow and back here. I don't really remember why it got moved so much, but I do agree that it should be it /snow/ so it can have stricter mods.

No. 1033527

How common is it for women with endo to get a hysterectomy? I know 3 that have endo and all of them have/are planning on getting a hysterectomy. Scooping out your uterus just seems like such a bad idea to me but I know dealing with endo can be godawful.

No. 1033536

>>1033331
Penetrative sex almost always jumpstarts my period, if that's your thing. my ex and I would joke about his dick plunging the blood out of me, worked every time

No. 1033567

Is it bad that I never contact my friends first?

No. 1033573

>>1033331
Lots of soda or orange juice
>>1033521
>>1033495
Last time it was on /snow/ there was literally no difference lol. Stuff like body sperging still went on for days.

No. 1033574

>>1033343
i just looked this up and it made me realize i'm a grey rock to everyone besides my parents
FML

No. 1033644

if i put my hair into a braid and then snipped off the very end of the braid, would my hair look okay or would it look messed up when i take the braid out?
just wanna snip my ends off kek

No. 1033647

can i ask an art-related question on this thread? i don't think it's fit for the artist salt thread.

No. 1033652

>>1033647
do it, nobody can stop you

No. 1033653

What makes you guys approach someone? I always get approached and talkted to by people and after we talk for a while they want to keep talking wich is weird to me because i don't talk too much (like starting conversations) or try to get attention and lot of them are usually normal people
Could it be luck of encountering nice people? If so i hope it's always like that

No. 1033670

>>1033653
I've only approached people like that when I was drunk and wanting to talk about anything to anybody.

No. 1033671

>>1033647
yeah you can ask here and/or art salt thread too, usually nona in art salt thread doesn't like when people asking questions without lurking first

No. 1033685

>>1033653
Maybe you just give off a very approachable vibe? And maybe you're just pleasant to chat with despite you not talking too much (people do like to talk about themselves after all). Idk I'd take it as a good sign.

No. 1033688

If you have bad fat distribution patterns (belly, back and face first, never seen my fat go anywhere else) are you condemned to stay at a low bf your whole life? I'm decently muscular but no matter if I'm skelly or muscly, after two or three kilos of fat gain I always look like shit because my waist disappears and I look like a brick.

It's easy to stay fit now, but I am a bit scared about the future.

No. 1033694

>>1033688
With age I seem to carry more weight in my hips and thighs instead of stomach but I still feel like really low weight is my only chance to look good. My face is too prone to be fat kek

No. 1033695

>>1033694
>>1033688
well anons if it's any consolation it's far better to have a slightly fat face than a permaskinny one

No. 1033786

>>1033644
It would look messed up. you either get a U shape haircut on the bottom or the reverse U look. depending on your hair being layered or not will make it usually look worse

No. 1033861

Do people stare at teeth and think about them a lot? Like too much? I have fucked up teeth, sort of yellowed from drinking too much coffee and all crooked from not being able to afford braves. I usually smile with my mouth clothed/try to show less as teeth as possible bit ever since good ole ‘rona set in, my mask is always on, and I’ve been grateful for it. I’m badly obsessed with my teeth and how ugly they are and constantly think that everybody’s must be staring at them and thinking the same. Sometimes before I sleep at night I think about them and it turns my mood sour. Like my mouth is too disgusting and everyone knows. I tried making friends with this girl and logically I know it didn’t work out because I’m retarded but I keep having intrusive thoughts about how she didn’t want to be friends with me because of my teeth and because I can’t afford braces. A lot of times I think I’ll never be truly loved because of my teeth. I KNOW this is retarded but I keep getting these thoughts of nowhere and they won’t stop.

No. 1033865

>>1033861
I think really crooked teeth do have an impact on how you're viewed, my teeth used to be messed up too. Where do you live?

No. 1033872

>>1033644
I cut my hair this way a few days ago and it looks fine, no noticeable unevenness, but I also usually wear it tied back most days so idk. >>1033786 was right tho about the slight U shape, but it's not that noticeable. I guess it depends on the angle you cut your hair

No. 1033876

>>1033861
This post reminds me of the Netflix anime Words Bubble up Like Soda Pop featuring a cute shy girl with braces and a mask on all the time, you might enjoy it nonny

No. 1033883

>>1033861
you can use nanohydroxyapatite toothpaste to combat the acid/yellowness. sometimes teeth get yellow from the enamel weakening too. and then when your enamel is built up you can DIY bleach your teeth at home

No. 1033894

>>1033527
its pretty uncommon unless you have stage 3-4, where the endo starts to fuse with the uterine wall and can no longer be ablated or excised without heavy trauma or causing more leaking scar tissue. at that point its better to risk the cost of major surgery then to have a pseudo-cancerous organ seeping immunofucked blood into your abdomen.

No. 1033897

Does miso soup give the shits for anyone else too?

No. 1033901

Is a mother giving 'sexy time' lingerie for her daughter's birthday as a gift normal or emotional incest?

No. 1033902

>>1033901
if it's something the daughter generally expresses she likes, no.

No. 1033930

Is Chris Fleming an enby?

No. 1033932

>>1033930
i don't think so but i think he is pressured by his fanbase to be and he will probably succumb to the pressure at some point in order to further his career

No. 1033940

>>1033901
I think it's weird personally but some people are raised more openly that others. So I guess it depends on how you're raised.

No. 1033953

How do i go about starting to learn coding to get into ai field?

No. 1033985

I wanna make lentil soup today, what does it go better with, chicken bullion or beef bullion?

No. 1033990

What's the best way to learn coding/programming? I am someone who needs structure cuz of my lack of focus, but I'm not in a position to attend school. I found that online women's focused course for front end languages but the marketing is really spammy, plus it's run by a scrote.

No. 1033992

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>>1033671
>>1033652
thank you both. hearts.
any advice for someone starting to do draw again after a pretty big break? what should i start with?
i stopped drawing for almost a decade and i'm just now starting again. but i am realizing my skills have deteriorated bad. i kind of draw things as 'symbols' than actually thinking about them in a 3d space, you know? i want to get a fresh start and kind of learn to draw all over again. where should i start? i think i'm gonna give the 'drawabox' thing a go but other than that, what else can i do? i draw (or well, used to draw) mostly humans, food and still life, for reference. if anyone has any good art channels, i would like that. sorry if this is a very beaten down question. i just want a little help.

No. 1033994

>>1033985
I always make it with chicken broth

No. 1034027

Do you say 'Good evening' depending on the time or how dark it is outside?

No. 1034029


No. 1034031

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>>1034019
NTA but thank you for this post. I did try to watch the CS50 course but even after the first lesson I felt like I was just too fucking stupid to understand it. I will try again and try MIT's course and the book too!

No. 1034049

>>1034031
I missed this post. What was on it?
I also tried the MIT course but was so lost because I don't have a math brain

No. 1034082

>>1034031
I'm glad you saw the post. I apologize for deleting it; I'm still a student, and I don't think I've yet earned the right to advise people about the "best" way to learn to code. I can tell you about the various ways that were shared with me, the ones that I've tried, and the ones I was advised…but I deleted the post because I didn't want to give anyone "unreliable" advice. But I'm glad you took something from it, nonny. Good luck.

>>1034049
Basically, this:
Try Harvard's CS50. Get through it, even if you don't solve all the problem sets. But if you're at your wit's end, just take MIT's Introduction to Programming Using Python. Then go ​to libgen, look for Grokking's Algorithms, and get it. It's really visual and easy to read–in fact, the "prose" is like similar to my post–so it should be easy to get through. You'll really learn by implementing though, so I'd advise watching the lecture, going to read the part of the book that discusses the lecture, and then continuing. Extra: google your missing CS semester, which will lead you to a MIT page. It's a course that gets you acquainted with all those tools everybody expects you to already know.

Then you can check out stuff like Colt Steele's webdev courses, which are pretty good. Maybe CS50 AI. It depends on what kind of stuff you want build/are interested in, but you can just look for resources online to test the waters and see what you're into.

No. 1034087

>>1034082
The MIT python course I attempted was from 2011. I couldn't even do the first assignment. Is there a more updated one?
Also are any of these free but guided courses? I have a hard time focusing and holding myself to learn at your own pace stuff, and my brain shuts off and avoids anything it deems too tedious. I really wanna force myself but it's so hard without structure.
I wanted to maybe try front end stuff first because it does seem a bit more useful and less complex than back end. Any thoughts on this?

No. 1034091

samefag, By free yet guided I mean stuff you still have to sign up for vs just watching videos btw

No. 1034156

My gyno told me to have a blood test between the 3rd and 5th days of my period and my period is a troll so of course it just came toward the end of the week. The soonest appointment I could get for a blood test is Monday, which will be my 5th day, does that still count as between the 3rd and the 5th? Is that still valid?

No. 1034159

>>1033992
>i kind of draw things as 'symbols' than actually thinking about them in a 3d space
This is a very common issue, even with people who are otherwise skilled artists. The best way to overcome this is to do as much life drawing as possible. Draw things you see around you, sit down next to a tree or fruit bowl and just start sketching that. It's a bit more difficult to find humans or animals that stay somewhat still for an extended period of time for this, but pre-lockdown I used to go to cafes or parks and draw the people there. Obviously make sure you keep your distance and don't stare at them too much though.

No. 1034271

Did that male on /pt/ get kicked out of LC's Discord or something?

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No. 1034294

>>1034271
I found my answer.

No. 1034310

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How do I get over my fear of my car not having a reverse cam? I legit get so paranoid a child is always behind me when I'm backing up

No. 1034315

>>1034310
well nona, I have a backup cam in my car and the one time a kid was behind me was when it didn't make a sound. it beeps when there is traffic across the empty parking lot but couldn't detect a kid on a scooter less than a car's distance away. I didn't hit the kid because his mom was screaming but I'm pissed every time it beeps now because I know it's a piece of shit. always trust yourself more than the computer

No. 1034318

>>1034315
samefag to add that I couldn't see him due to extreme glare on the camera, since he was behind me I couldn't exactly see him from looking left to right.

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>>1033306
I just did a tarot reading and I'm pretty sure it's telling me to break up with my bf. We literally just started dating and he's so sweet. I'm sad, what do? I was worried he wouldn't commit long term due to my past relationships, he seems committed atm but still has Snapchat and talks to girls from past relationships/ keeps all the pics with his ex/ doesn't take life very seriously

I know this is stupid hence posting in sqt but please advise

No. 1034351

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why did google do this to me I didn't do anything

No. 1034356

>>1034351
May be other people using your IP as part of their VPN, or if you're on mobile, other people in the area reloading pages rapidly. I've gotten this message I think on my phone, nothing bad happened

No. 1034362

>>1034336
tarot readings give the vaguest answers so you can interpret them with your true gut feeling. if this is how you interpret it, the answer is likely yes. if the first thing you thought of in relation to that reading is that he still talks to girls from previous relationships and doesn't take you seriously, those things are clearly bothering you and you won't be able to build a good relationship without addressing them. you either need to talk to him about that or break things off with him.

No. 1034372

Can you truly tell if your nipples are sensitive or not without anyone else touching you? I've seen so many women online raving about how good nipple play feels for them, with some even saying that they can orgasm from nipple play alone, meanwhile I don't feel shit whenever I try to rub my nipples, with maybe a slightly ticklish sensation or pain when I do feel something. As suggested by the question at the beginning of this post I'm a massive virgin so I've never had someone else do it to me and I'm not sure if it'd make a difference or not, like if it's similar to how only someone else can tickle you and you can't really tickle yourself.

No. 1034383

>>1034372
You would know by doing it yourself. Also the "I only came from my nips hehe" are 1% of the female population, and men larping. Not having sensitive nipples is normal, unless your sensitivity suddenly changed I wouldn't worry.

No. 1034401

>>1034372
I guess inb4 scrote accusations but I didn't know I was sensitive until I tried it with another person. And I have orgasmed from nipple play and squeezing my legs together. So maybe I am a 1%. It might depend for everyone. Putting one between your index and thumb and rubbing in a rolling motion usually does it for me. See if you feel a sensation down there.

No. 1034402

>>1034372
I thought for the longest time I didn't have sensitive nipples until I was with someone and they played with my breasts/nipples and suddenly it was like oh! wow that's a feeling. I think it is like the tickling thing, but that's just me. I've tried getting off and playing with my nipples and it's not the same.

No. 1034407

>>1034372
Just try it yourself nona. It took me a little while for me to enjoy nipple play (you learn how to do it and how you like it after a few times) and now I can say that I moderately enjoy it (but I was turned on by the idea of nipple play even before that, so I think it also has to do with the fact that the idea alone arouses you). Like the other anon said orgasming from nipple play only is nearly impossible. Personally I like lightly rubbing the top/cleft and squeezing a bit, it feels like a subtle tingling sensation!

No. 1034452

>>1034372
part of the reason I hate wearing bras is that I feel like I have weird sensations in my boobs. they've always been very tingly. like >>1034402 said, though… I truly felt it the first time someone else touched them, especially when someone sucked them

No. 1034463

why is 2X a hidden board?

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No. 1034519

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How are you

No. 1034526

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how can i keep these aluminum ointment tubes from leaking constantly? (picrel) whenever i open a new tube of ointment, every time i take the cap off a bunch of ointment splooges out the top, and it happens every single time until the tube is like 1/4 empty.

please help me wise nonnas, i hate wasting product

No. 1034532

>>1033994
>>1033985
Thank you, made it and it turned out fantastic!

No. 1034535

>>1034407
Why do anons call it nipple play, cringe.

No. 1034540

>>1034519
what a smol sweet angel

No. 1034553

>>1034535
the fuck are we supposed to call it? the nipple rubby? the boobie fondle? the areola suckle? is there any less cringe a name

No. 1034561

Are there any animated movies/tv shows/videos where all of the voices are done by the same person? poorly or not even trying to sound unlike themselves preferably#

No. 1034563

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Is drinking water over tea really going to make that much of a difference?? For context, I was telling my coworker that I frequently get UTIs. I'm not sexually active, and I've just been prone to them all my life. She tells me drinking water helps and points out that I usually just have tea in my tumbler instead. I refill my 32 oz tumbler like 2-3 times throughout the work day and it's usually tea, and at home I drink water (also out of a huge cup kek). Does it really make a difference? Also it's plain black and green tea if it matters.

No. 1034569

>>1034563
No it doesn't lmao your coworker is stupid.

No. 1034571

>>1034563
It's caffeine so yes? Also you're not supposed to consume that many tannins, maybe try just water.

No. 1034574

My college rental textbook policy is 100$ for a damaged book. My cat just tore one of the pages slightly.
Is it possible they wouldn't notice the page is ripped since it's really subtle? Should I just say nothing and pretend nothing happened? Would I get in trouble for that, like legally?
I'm graduating after I turn this book in at the end of the semester so I could just high-tail it the fuck out of there. I don't want to pay 100$ because my fucking cat ripped a page.

No. 1034581

>>1034563
>>1034569
>>1034571

Tea is full of tannins like one anon said, which is highly acidic, and an acidic or unbalanced bladder environment can indeed lead to UTIs. Source: also have chronic UTIs

No. 1034583

>>1034574
I think you're ok anon. I think they'd only charge for the most obvious damage like someone took out a chunk of it or spilled something to fuck up the pages. You could also say you got the book like that, I've gotten fucked up rental books before lol

No. 1034586

>>1034581
what else besides water to reduce the acid and balance

No. 1034594

>>1034581
I’m not a doctor but I don’t think the tannins would contribute to chronic uti infections, but if the tea anon is drinking has a lot of sugar in it might?
>>1034563
Swap a couple of your teas for some water and see if it makes any difference?

No. 1034600

>>1034569
>>1034571
>>1034581
Thanks nonas, will keep the tannins in mind!

>>1034594
Nah I drink my tea plain since I drink so much of it. But I think I'll just have one cup in the morning then refill my tumbler only with water for the rest of the day.

No. 1034607

why are there so many posts about fujoshis everywhere in ot today

No. 1034614

>>1034574
They're not going to notice a slightly ripped page anon lol. You'd really have to flip through the pages to maybe notice something like that. And if they do notice it (they won't) plead plausible innocence; someone before you ripped it and no one noticed until now.

No. 1034623

>>1034607
Either admin rlly hates fujos or the mods are taking an off day

No. 1034650

>>1034607
as with every other type of spam, it's usually just one riled up crazy person

No. 1034690

>>1034607
people see an infight and like contributing to the chaos??

No. 1034696

>>1034607
Because they love hating on yumejos and posts upon post of arguing ensues.

No. 1034717

>>1034561
family guy dude does a lot of the main cast but not everyone

No. 1034730

>>1034561
probably not rly what you mean but some countries just have one guy talking over the whole movie as their 'dub', i remember my polack friend telling me many movies she watched as a child were localized that way

No. 1034736

where did the nigel in 'not my nigel' come from

No. 1034740

>>1034736
Doesn't it mean NIcest Guy who Ever Lived?

No. 1034749

>>1034736
It's just a generic, harmless/husbandy sounding name. The opposite of Chad

No. 1034766

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Is it extra weird if I'm a bi woman obsessed with "gay FTMs" aka fakebois who think they're gay men? I feel a mix of envy and attraction to them. Why do I feel like this (besides being same sex attracted)?

No. 1034771

>>1034766
why particularly the "gay" ones?

No. 1034777

>>1034771
I don't feel the same levels of envy or attraction to the "straight" ones.

No. 1034779

>>1034777
i get it, but why? is it their presentation, mannerisms or simply that they're into men?

No. 1034787

>>1034779
Maybe because they're so obsessed with men and act like it's a deep and special thing. I was already insecure as a bi with a preference for women.

No. 1034789

>>1034766
Because they're essentially butch women that look better than men but are out of your reach? That you have a chance to look straight but you know they're really a woman so you still get to satisfy the gay half? Or it's because in a way you get the nicer female socialization but 'masculine' appearance/fake tryhard anime? Idk I'm throwing out ideas I think they're gross

No. 1034819

Are severely autistic nonverbal moids more violent toward women than they are violent to men? I don’t know if this is just something I’ve noticed. In my elementary - high school we had a few profoundly autistic moids who honestly should have gone to a special needs school. I’ve seen on multiple occasions them randomly hit and attack female students and teachers. I’ve never seen them bother other males though. There was one profoundly autistic girl and she was pretty indiscriminate in who she would attack.

No. 1034822

Trey Parker or Matt Stone, which one is the most egotistical of the duo (both are bad, just which is slightly worse)?

No. 1034825

How do I start the process of getting invisiline braces? Do they work as well as normal ones? I'm an old ass woman I don't want to be walking around with metal braces but my dentist was completely unhelpful when I tried to ask her

No. 1034830

>>1034822
idk but the "woman bad because she wants you to go to therapy" bit with the Alexas in the covid special really bummed me out

No. 1034832

How tf do I get my real license plate for my new vehicle. I don't remember what I did when I got the plates for my old one like 10 years ago. I got it from a dealership. Do I need to get it inspected to get it registered? Surely it doesn't need to be inspected it should pass right off the lot? And do I order the plates from the tax office where i go to get my registration?

I'm in Texas

No. 1034837

>>1033306
how do you call someone gay in jewish?

No. 1034841

What is the opposite of demisexual? Bc as soon as I get to know a guy well I loose all interest and start viewing him as a brother

No. 1034843

>>1034825
Find an orthodontist and book a consultation. Ortho should tell you what’s up and what your options are. Also NEVER opt for the invisible braces like I did, they yellow so quickly and look horrible. Just go with the metal if you need actual braces.

No. 1034851

I don’t know what to do on the Internet anymore…nonnas where do you all go. What’s a good waste of time. Sent from my iPhone

No. 1034889

>>1034851
mrdoob.com is cool, there's a gallery of user-submitted javascript toys you can screw around with

No. 1034910

>>1034730
This is exactly the sort of thing I was looking for, thanks for the lead nonnz!

No. 1034982

Has Albany Cope popped back up on social media?

No. 1035008

I always hear about gore being posted everytime im on this site but never see it why does it happen? Is it scrotes or what? Like what is the purpose im not a newfag i promise I’m so confused by the whole thing happening regularly

No. 1035016

>>1034819
Yes. Autists have more T exposure in the womb, and scrotes are opportunistic cowards who only attack ppl weaker than them.

No. 1035022

>>1035008
I didn't see any recently even though anons were saying there was some. And when I do see it idc it's nothing new, saw that shit since middle school. The anons who spam don't scroll there's gore just kind of seem pathetic to me.

No. 1035030

File: 1642734065559.jpeg (173.06 KB, 880x660, F7EBF506-38B1-4EF4-AE38-A0DC6D…)

Has anyone entered the JET program or has tried to? What was it like?

No. 1035032

>>1035022
Omg yur lyk, 2 edgy and kul for us beb. Even if it's not going to kill me some of us appreciate not having to stumble across images of women's corpses when we're just trying to shit talk a celebrity, I'm glad some anons take the time to warn people.

>>1035008
Yes it's scrotes trying to ruin a women's-only space, nothing new. I'm glad you haven't had to see it so far

No. 1035043

>>1035030
If I get my N2 certificate this year, I'll try for it as well. But I wouldn't be an english teacher, since I'm not a native speaker.
I would also like to know the experiences, especially for those who did not become teachers!

No. 1035044

>>1034837

Feygeleh is Yiddish slang for gay man. Not sure about for women

No. 1035049

>>1034825
They dont work as well as real braces, take longer, and dont get the permanent wire retainer if it comes loose you will lose the straight smile you paid for on top of having to pay a fixing fee for the retainer everytime it comes dislocated. After treatment get an invisalign nightly one or the old metal kind.

No. 1035054

Does anyone have recommendations for comfy slippers that are washable? I usually just buy the Muji ones but they get dirty after a few months and I have to throw them away. Would be nice to find a pair that I could wash periodically.

No. 1035116

>>1035022
Grow up

No. 1035149

File: 1642742027459.jpg (75.6 KB, 800x1000, 002585_1000424070_NoColor.jpg)

>>1035054
I got these ones, they're called snoozies

No. 1035185

How do you guys cope with roommates watching TV in the room next to you? I can't ask them to not do it because it's their only chance to unwind at the end of the day and I respect that. However, I really hate television noise and rewind with silence. I have a hard time thinking when there is constant noise. Aside from listening to music, are there any apps or tricks you can recommend? Maybe a way to be able to concentrate and feel peaceful despite noise in the other room? I want to get creative and find good solutions. I dislike being so sensitive to sound, even though it isn't to an autistic degree.

No. 1035187

>>1035185
Your options are headphones, leaving the house, or getting out of the roommate situation. I've been there before, turns out I just hate roommate with a passion and it's worth the astronomical rent prices.

No. 1035194

File: 1642746318999.jpg (137.16 KB, 580x580, m_58efd53c4127d098df005cc1.jpg)

>>1035054
Get some clog or mocassin style slippers with hard soles, I got picrel from LL bean and they're perfect

No. 1035197

File: 1642746549640.jpeg (495.04 KB, 828x1063, C6AA9CEE-10B2-4E75-862E-958D0E…)

What can I do if my oven display looks like this from a previous roach infestation?

No. 1035199

>>1035185
Unwind*, oops… That's what happens when I can't concentrate, LOL!

No. 1035201

>>1035197
Throw it out

No. 1035202

>>1035197
I wish I could like messages on lolcow sometimes

No. 1035207

>>1035201
Not microwave, my full-size oven… this is just a photo I found

No. 1035213

>>1035207
Can your landlord replace it? If not, throw it out. I'm serious, that's nasty.

No. 1035220

File: 1642747677645.jpeg (25.05 KB, 200x200, AF55A2DB-D522-487A-B464-5A59C0…)

Why does the scrote posting gore put mspaint lines around the image?

No. 1035225

File: 1642747879342.jpg (46.55 KB, 670x396, 259328977_10100308518798444_57…)

>>1035220
Garden-variety retardation

No. 1035227

>>1035220
When all they do is browse r9k all day, they think every imageboard works the same way

No. 1035228

>>1035220
Because of the y chromosome

No. 1035255

What's the deal with people who look at people at like every stop light, is that normal

No. 1035256

>>1035255
people just look around at people anon. aren't you naturally aware of your surroundings?

No. 1035259

File: 1642749947198.jpg (27.83 KB, 930x558, 549.jpg)

>>1035256
Constantly scanning your horizons? That's a very prey animal thing to do. Are you a prey animal?

No. 1035260

Why are NFTs so hated when bitcoin isn't? Are NFTs more harmful?

No. 1035261

File: 1642750505269.jpeg (68.72 KB, 843x524, AD398FE4-7582-4011-8B0A-BD98E1…)

>>1035259
prey animals don't need to look around as much because they have a larger field of vision by default due to their eyes being on the side of their heads

No. 1035263

>>1035259
show of hands, nonnies who were on the tumblr at the time, who believes that this was a troon?
I low-key believe in larps tbh just look at that fucking neck kek

No. 1035267

File: 1642751190993.jpg (215.55 KB, 961x1051, Screenshot_20220121-014308.jpg)

>>1035263
Nah, her hands arent manly and she exuded a distinctly feminine schizo rage. She was an activist and would have reee'd about trans rights if so

No. 1035269

>>1035263
I def believed she was forcibly periatrically trooned

No. 1035273

File: 1642751807119.png (350.65 KB, 878x529, kenhultgren.png)

>>1035261
I remember learning about that from how to draw animals books I used to study from, triggered some nice nostalgia

No. 1035275

>>1035271
he's definitely smoking in there, probably with a window open, your central heating doesn't work the way you think it does (or at least not powerfully enough that you'd smell it all over the house)

No. 1035284

>>1035263
i always thought he was one. don’t you get pre transition pics when you google his real name.

No. 1035289

File: 1642753374966.jpeg (28.73 KB, 320x320, 1_rCZf4JflLQuDwK3hCrJlRg.jpeg)

>>1035284
if you're talking about picrel, no, that's just a meme. actually looking up her full name will get you childhood pictures of her as a girl

No. 1035290

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No. 1035303

>>1035260
I think aside from the environmental impact people hate NFTs more because they devalue art, a lot of shady shit goes on like cryptobros stealing peoples art to sell as NFTs, the fact that it is basically a crypto pyramid scheme and just another form of using art as means of money laundering by the wealthy.

No. 1035304

>>1033306
How does 4chan detect ban evasion? My IP address was banned over there because a mod thought I was using a VPN.

No. 1035307

>>1035289
So gorgeous. I could’ve saved her

No. 1035308

>>1033527
What's endo?

No. 1035309

>>1035308
Endometriosis

No. 1035310

File: 1642755992451.jpg (21.21 KB, 800x532, 160235161.jpg)

>>1035263
>I low-key believe in larps tbh just look at that fucking neck kek
My neck looks kinda like this, makes me shake and cry to think if we met you'd think I'm a troon

No. 1035327

I have a lot of student loan debt and my undergraduate degree wasn't at all related to social work/human services but I want to get an MSW. Is that a bad idea?

No. 1035329

>>1035309
Thanks

No. 1035331

>>1035310
praying for all the nonnies with necks as wide as their heads!

No. 1035332

>>1035310
I would not think you’re anything. I would think you’re as beautiful as a swan, all lithe limbs and lanky grace.

No. 1035333

File: 1642758369940.jpg (25.04 KB, 172x186, possibletroon.jpg)

>>1035267
>hands aren't manly
idk nona they look like they could cover their entire face with one palm not to mention those forearms are long as hell AND kinda vein-y
i am not convinced!

No. 1035335

>>1035333
There are literal pictures of her as a young girl, anon. And no, while Iranians do forcibly troon their gays, even they do not do it to literal children. She may or may not be intersex, we don't know, but she was raised as a girl.

No. 1035337

>>1035267
Why does she look like Michael Jackson? I swear

No. 1035356

>>1035310
anon, you're a bio woman. everything in your mannerisms and speech point to it being so. and you probably also have women's hand. you're okay !

No. 1035360

>>1035263
when it happened i thought she was likely a troon but i don't think so now

No. 1035368

>>1035333
Why are you denying her the right to be unapologetically insane?

No. 1035400

How do you deal with insomnia (from depression)? I t's getting so much worse now I feel like I'm losing my mind, I'm so frustrated.

No. 1035406

>>1035400
Meditation, breathing exercises, avoid screens at all costs, cbd oils maybe?
t. also depressed and struggling with sleep, these are my therapists recomendations

No. 1035409

when do people go gray? people say mid 30s but i never see mid 30s women going gray, even ones that don't upkeep their hair meticulously. have anons had any experience with going gray and when did it start? i don't know like anyone that is mid 30s who has any grays that i can see

No. 1035416

>>1035409
I started getting grays at like 17, only have a few unnoticeable strands years later. My mom didn't get any until her late 30's. My aunt had grey grey hair by like 25.

Its completely individual. Also starting going grey at mid 30s doesnt mean mid 30's women have gray hair, they have just started going gray. A few white strands here and there.

No. 1035440

>>1034336
What I see there is struggle with past insecurities, you're on the way to healing but it will be very easy to stray out of the path. Also agree with the other anon, if that's your gut feeling it's probably right.

No. 1035515

I'm not sloth from the goonies but one of my eyes is higher than the other, kind of like in a Billie Eilish way, not a droopy eyelid way. Is this normal facial asymmetry or am I truly a mutant freak?

No. 1035554

File: 1642779302793.jpg (49.18 KB, 526x701, IMG_20220120_182048.jpg)

How do you make friends naturally? I just wana make stuff for somebody who'd appreciate it without having them feel like they owe me something. It seems like every time I do this, it only pushes people away. Idgi and idk how to make a connection when contact is broken within a few days. Do i have to start following something very mainstream right now to make friends or should i become a mega hermit and talk to the walls?

No. 1035560

>>1035554
It’s kind of difficult tbh, you kind of had to click with someone to be friends with her/him naturally. You could be friends with someone after pushing a lot, but it will only tire you after a while. You just have to interact with people irl and then find someone who may click with you.
I’m honestly lucky because most of the times, the person I was talking to but that doesn’t click with me, has taken me directly to another group of people that has become friends with me.

No. 1035567

>>1035554
I met my irl friends because I overheard them talking about something I was into or in one case even playing the game at a park near me. After that we exchanged phone or the gaming platforms info to keep in contact for coffee.

No. 1035577

>>1034553
try out areola action

No. 1035589

File: 1642781481432.jpg (35.9 KB, 580x579, 1568040939812.jpg)

How do I start exercising?
I am not obese just chubby from sitting all day in the puter(i work as a freelance illustrator, that's my excuse) and i need something easy to start. I have a backyard so i have space to do stuff. I have tried starting Pilates for my back problems but everything around me is closed still.

No. 1035590

File: 1642781645065.jpeg (456.26 KB, 664x842, 338EEB15-AE69-4655-A844-204D3A…)

What the hell do I do with these stickers?
I don't want to put them on my switch or phone. I was thinking maybe suitcase?
Don't judge my taste btw I love my girls.

No. 1035591

>>1035589
I think yoga is the best exercise ever, you can do it at your own pace and there’s lots of simple movements to do. You could also dance, even if you don’t now any particular dance moves, it’s a great exercise that’s fun.

No. 1035592

>>1035590
Maybe you could put them in a nice notebook that you use often.

No. 1035594

>>1035589
Create a routine, 15-30 minutes 3 times a week, then increase the duration or the frequency as you see fit.
When it comes to the actual workouts you do, I like switching things up so I can look forward to my workouts instead of them feeling like a chore. There are a ton of free HIIT/Pilates/Calisthenic workouts on youtube, I would recommend building strength using your bodyweight before moving to weights

No. 1035596

>>1035590
Put them on a water bottle

No. 1035598

>>1035590
Send me a letter and I will send u one back. I will draw your fave dokidoki lit girl. Mine is Sayori

No. 1035599

>>1035590
what do you even do with stickers? i have a few and i don't know where to put them

No. 1035609

>>1035598
very cute please do this nonnies

No. 1035679

File: 1642786849645.png (65.42 KB, 786x587, fee_786_587_png.png)

Does this keyboard look cool or no?

No. 1035680

File: 1642786932987.jpeg (79.27 KB, 736x920, DBF689E6-6C44-49E5-9AD5-47EAD9…)

Asked this in the last thread so apologies for double posting but please does any nonnie know how to make a MAL completely private?

Annoying scrotes from my past keep contacting me on it but it would make me sad to delete it because I've been recording muh animu and manga on it for years now… it's put me off trying new shows because I don't want them to see me active on it and updating.

No. 1035681

>>1035679
Looks like a damn calculator.

No. 1035688

>>1035679
It looks nice.

No. 1035692

File: 1642787406898.jpeg (1.05 MB, 1158x1637, 63A86DDC-0EE9-49FB-B8F0-604EF1…)

Are there any threads on /m/ for me to spam nice anime-style art or should I start a new one

No. 1035695

>>1035679
No, but then again, I like simple looking mechanical keyboards.

No. 1035704

>>1035692
Oooh, I want that spam! And I dunno, pick the best from the catalog or make one yourself. If you do post stuff, link me here cus I wanna see it.

No. 1035706

>>1035679
Looks cheap and fragile

No. 1035717

>>1035589
Download aerobic tapes from the 80s

No. 1035719

>>1035679
It looks a bit try-hard imo. But if it makes you happy, you should go with your gut.

No. 1035720

Burger nonnies what do you think of the death penalty? I’ve always been pretty pro death penalty just because I’m pretty vengeful when it comes to murderous scrotes. Im starting to have a change of mind though after talking with my mom. She was raised in a country where there was a lot of executions that were sensationalized in the news and it completely traumatized her. Im also not sold on the death penalty being a deterrent for crime and also how much it costs to keep someone on death row is insane to me. But I always just come back to if I was horrifically murdered by a man I’d much rather him pay with his life than to get to live the rest of his days albeit in jail. Some crimes I think are so horrific that the scrote behind it should be killed.

No. 1035721

>>1035692
Go look yourself in the /m/ catalogue. You’re capable anon.

No. 1035722

>>1035692
That reminds me, we should make a phone & desktop wallpaper thread

No. 1035744

>>1035704
>>>/m/13342
Let's go nonna

No. 1035776

>>1035722
There is one already! >>>/m/3199

No. 1035787

>>1035744
Thanks anon!

No. 1035794

>>1035720
I'm not really sure what to think. On one hand I agree, that some crimes are so heinous that I don't believe there is any punishment more fitting than death. On the other hand, if we as society have seemed that killing someone is objectively wrong, what gives us the right to decide to end someone's life?

I try to be a forgiving person in my life now and I try not to hold anger in my heart, but I'm sure it'd be very difficult to do that if one of my loved ones was murdered in cold blood. It'd be hard not to wish that fucker dead. But also, giving them the sweet release of death feels unjust. They're dead! Now what? I'm still here, grieving. My loved one won't return to me. Was it worth it?

No. 1035821

What is the best spices to cook ahi tuna with?

No. 1036002

What is Arcane and why does everyone seem to love it

No. 1036006

>>1036002
genertic plot cartoon and the only good things about it are animation and the fact that its based on the most toxic competitive game to exist from a company with a long history of sexual harassment.
if the animation wasn't so good, people wouldn't have watched it (not counting LoL players)

No. 1036063

could this be considered pedo baiting? she's 23

No. 1036064

>>1036063
I don't think so, why would it be?

No. 1036065

>>1036063
dunno, she doesn't look underage to me at all (nor would it make sense with the text on screen)

No. 1036067

>>1036063
Shes obviously trying to make herself look a lot younger, I wouldn't say it's pedo baiting more just being an NLOG

No. 1036161


No. 1036174

How do I stop falling asleep when I get baked? My country doesn't have a choice on what strain you get, you just get what you can get. And I've been having indica I believe for ages now and I keep falling asleep 30 minutes after getting baked. I've tried smoking less but regardless my eyes just go so heavy each time. I'm jealous too because my bf can stay awake and be totally fine for hours and enjoy playing games. (Also have tried drinking coffee beforehand, only works for a little bit)

No. 1036187

>>1036174
Energy drink

No. 1036190

>>1036161
Nta but I agree, 0/10 would not tap.

No. 1036201

>>1035695
I like mechanical keyboards too. Can you post pics of some that you like? It's such a consumerist hobby of mine but I can't help myself. Do you have any favourite switches? And where do you get your keycaps from?

No. 1036243

>>1036063
She's very pretty but needs to stop doing those retarded ahegao faces, I thought no one did that after the fall of belle delphine kek

No. 1036253

File: 1642810751606.jpeg (1.69 MB, 2226x3449, 6D192CC5-20D7-4729-B8FB-E03F1D…)

Thought I could be ectopic-pregnant with an IUD in (persistent nausea), tested (picrel mildly funny combo purchase), am not. Question: if I were, could the zygote be transplanted into someone who wanted one? How would that process look if so?

No. 1036260

>>1036201
I'm not a connoisseur (fortunately?) but I do use them for my job just because the keyboard on my Mac sucks. I bought brown mx switches https://mechanicalkeyboards.com/shop/index.php?l=product_list&c=341 many years ago and it's currently sitting at my parent's place. I bought another one during the pandemic from Amazon that were fake cherry mx switches but serve their purpose well. One of my friends had an artisanal Japanese keyboard that was worth $400 or so. I wish I could remember the name of it for you, but it was really small, all black, with nothing printed on the keys.

No. 1036343

>>1036253
Yeah you can transfer an embryo to another person, this is how surrogacy happens. However the surrogate has to be ready for the procedure (endometrium in right state to accept pregnancy) and I'd imagine that embryo extraction from an ectopic pregnancy would be far more complicated than the typical IVF embryo that gets transferred to the surrogate. So theoretically yes, practically probably not.

No. 1036363

>>1036243
Shes pretty but filters are cringey and glitch when she moves around a lot. Ngl I wish filters and Photoshop were illegal

No. 1036434

How the fuck do I turn off notifications for a DM on twitter? I’m in a group chat with people and normally it’s fine but I like having busy chats muted because sometimes they’ll be blowing the chat up when I’m away and it fucks with my old phone’s battery and is just annoying in general. I have it snoozed forever, but it’ll just show me the notification anyway. Is there no other way around this besides just turning notifs off entirely for the app?

No. 1036456

How do you address problems with people who take everything super personally? where it's like half not their fault because they spent years of being the scapegoat for a highly overcritical narc-ish type person?

I'm sympathetic to their experience but at some point the self victimization gets old. Do I just have to suck it up and hope they go to therapy at some point?

No. 1036464

has anyone here done TMS? what was your experienc? i just got my first treatment today and am absolutely exhausted from it. i hope that's a good sign that it's maybe activating areas that previously were comparatively dormant

No. 1036470

>>1036456
My strategy is to just ask them to do what you want them to do, but frame it in a way that’s like it’s something both of you could improve. Instead of saying “you left the toilet seat up” say “hey could we make sure we put the toilet seat down?” That will usually be enough for people who are completely adverse to criticism, because you’ve set a standard (toilet seat should be down) for which you COULD criticize them for, which would make them the bad terrible horrible unloveable person they think they are. Approach it like that every time, completely free of judgment and as if it’s the first time you’ve asked them to do it and then eventually it’ll be habitual for them.

Assuming it’s a moid because men are babies when it comes to criticism. If female/BPD idk if this would work but also women will go to therapy over any perceived flaw so that’s not exactly an unreasonable option.

No. 1036498

Was there some recent cow drama lately bringing in new users? Because I'm noticing a lot more namefagging and emails in the sage field popping up in random threads

No. 1036499

>>1036456
This is a good advice >>1036470

I struggle with giving people criticisms too, or maybe it's just the women I ran into / accidentally made friends with are just coddled middle class girls and not the BDP-chan I see around LC. Worst one I ran into immediately deflect me and saw my intervention as a literal Threat to them, it was frustrating how I'd have to play strict parent in friend groups with those types around.

I don't have actual good advice to this, though to OP: if your friend reacted badly to your criticism (even if you tried your best to curate your wordings), you can walk away and let your friend steam in their anger/defensive stage for some time, and check on them after to know if they're okay to talk again.
I think any sort of reassurance, and repeating yourself that you don't mean to devalue them as a person, which should at least keep them grounded.

No. 1036501

>>1036498
might be the jake/kaya drama as I've seen a lot of newfrens in that thread, I haven't seen any namefagging though

No. 1036530

what do yall do for your friends when they're having a hard time? my friends' dad died a year ago this week and i'm wondering what would be nice

No. 1036533

>>1036530
Bring food for your friend and her family. If not food, then a dessert. Just show up with something you know she likes to eat

No. 1036539

How do I cope with being known and having a presence in the world, even if it's small
I hate that people I don't like know me

No. 1036547

>>1036470
>>1036499
The thing is, it's kind of their issue and not something generalizable. It's like this:

> me kind of in a mood so am quiet and keeping to myself

> sensitive person acts as normal, actually maybe overly chatty like keep talking about stupid ass shit (or maybe it just feels that way since I'm already in a mood)
> I try to grey rock or just straight up say something like, "I'm kind of tired and don't want to talk right now."
> sensitive person: Well OKAY THEN i'll just be quiet FROM NOW ON [pouts, withdraws]

and it's like, that last part is so unnecessary and annoying as shit and I want to ask her to work on that but at that point she's already sensitive and withdrawing if I try to address it right away, or if I wait until later she brushes it off like "it's over, just drop it".

Maybe it's just me? I can't help the moodiness sometimes, but maybe I should stay by myself when that happens.

No. 1036549

>>1036547
>I want to ask her to work on that
come on. both of you sound annoying.

No. 1036550

>>1036547
You sound like half the problem there. I get being in a mood, I'm introverted and in one almost constantly, that doesn't mean it's okay to tell people not to talk to you. If it's somewhere you can't avoid others (like work), you keep your annoyance to yourself and give boring replies so they leave you alone. If it was your choice to hang out with a friend, you fake nice because why are you even with them if you're not in the mood?

Have a little tact and don't assume your feelings trump everyone else's.

No. 1036555

>>1036550
Maybe I'm autistic, but I don't see why it's not okay to ask people to stop talking to you if you're not up for it. What's the point in stewing in annoyance? I get that it's a downer for the person who wants to talk, but isn't that better than to unwittingly continue to annoy someone until they possibly start to feel negatively about you?

No. 1036556

Is it true that an irregular period could get regular after becoming sexually active?

No. 1036557

>>1036555
>isn't that better than to unwittingly continue to annoy someone until they possibly start to feel negatively about you
Who would assume they're annoying and making people dislike them by talking to them? That's the sort of conclusion you'd only reach if someone got so annoyed they told you to stop talking to them. Which is why you shouldn't say it unless you're so close they know you don't have a problem with them. If you're not that close, it's overly confrontational and could come across as rude or mean. It's easy to let a conversation die out without resorting to essentially telling someone to shut up, no need to risk offending anyone.

No. 1036558

>>1036555
You do sound autistic. They don't understand social etiquette or don't get it, which is fair. And are self-absorbed.

No. 1036559

>>1036557
> "I'm kind of tired and don't want to talk right now."

doesn't sound confrontational, doesn't even sound like you're the cause of the annoyance. is this tactful or still rude?

No. 1036567

>>1036559
Shit like that is what teenagers say at high school. I work early mornings with a girl who says shit like this to me. Oh sorry you came to work not wanting to speak today, let me just leave you alone.

No. 1036568

>>1036547
Disregarding the other replies and calling each other autistics. Just to be sure, this interaction still bothers you, correct?

I see it's as you tried to power through the normal convo with your friend, despite you were being withdrawal / in a bad mood. Friend was annoyed that you didn't mention it from the beginning, and saw your comment in midway of convo was disregarding her, and felt hurt by it.

Her response later "it's over, just drop it" can be expected. If it were me I'd see myself that moment as being immature & unfair to you, and I wouldn't want to admit it myself.
If this is a pattern of interaction between the two of you, and that it does matter to your relationship: Be persistent. Tell her that it is important for you two to put actions into context. And if conflicts like this happen again in the future, you two have matured enough to resolve it.

Hope my wording makes sense.

No. 1036575

>>1036568
thanks for the reply. So you think what set my friend off was trying to pretend like everything was oK but then revealing it wasn't? so I should have been more honest from the beginning? but that's rude, isn't it?

No. 1036603

am I too old to start doing ballet at nearly 25?

reasons why i think this is a stupid question despite there being classes for adults in my area: I feel like it'll just be old women there & I want to make friends, or even just people my age I can compare myself to in the class, and obviously.. anxiety is high. I don't want to be laughed at basically, or thought of as lame by professional/career/younger-but-better ballet dancers that might be in the same building as me if I take these classes.

No. 1036605

>>1036547
This doesn't sound like that good of a relationship dynamic. Do you enjoy being friends with her, or is it getting tiresome?

No. 1036614

>>1036603
>don’t want to be laughed at
You probably know this already, but if you go in with that mindset, you’ll quit anything you try. If you’re that terrified of rejection that it would prevent you from doing something you want, it’s a problem.
And no, it’s not too late. Certainly, people who start early have an advantage because they grow into the flexibility. But that doesn’t mean you can’t train. There might even be a beginner class. All in all the best thing you can do is go in person and talk to an instructor, or send them an email. Worst case scenario It’s all professional ballerinas? Then you can look at another type of fun dancing, like jazz, which isn’t as much of a members club.

No. 1036616

>>1036575
>So you think what set my friend off was trying to pretend like everything was oK but then revealing it wasn't?
You should ask her yourself, when the two of you are set up for the serious conversation and not out of the blue "what did I set you off??". It is to make sure she can follow through what you meant by this question.

>so I should have been more honest from the beginning?

I don't think it's a matter of being dishonest/trying to hide your friend from your bad mood. I see it's still a situation you didn't have much control over.
You can create a habit to ask each other how you're doing before a long form conversation. (This is what the kids called Vibechecking).

It's good that you're working on yourself / trying to be tact with her. I think you should prioritize yourself despite being sympathetic with your friend (she needs to put in efforts too!)

No. 1036623

>>1036614
i know it's a problem, i barely do anything i want out of crippling fear of being observed. i don't enjoy art anymore because i think it's all garbage, i have no ideas. I'm terrified of being bad at ballet too but i have to start doing something "with my life" and it's the only thing i can think of that is in a disciplined setting that will make me want to do well, that doesn't all fall on my shoulders to be the 'creator' - which is a lot of pressure. I just want to move and look exactly how someone tells me. I can do that.

No. 1036630

Is there a trade I could learn at a community college or trade school that's worth pursuing for a stable career?
I've thought about computer programming but I don't have a math brain and the thought of being around men all the time as my peers and superiors makes me uneasy.

No. 1036643

>>1036630
Look into carpenter, electrician, plumber, great money, always jobs available, can travel, don't have to go into people's houses if you find the right niche within your trade, best of luck nonna

No. 1036653

File: 1642852439118.jpg (132.69 KB, 1920x1280, tmp_rXPs2B_eb468221c118c200_hu…)

can someone tell me reasons why euphoria sucks (I don't want to watch it and know it sucks but not specifics) so I can tell my friend to stfu recommending it to me

No. 1036661

>>1036653
among other reasons there is a high school character who is also a camgirl and it's presented as "cool" and "empowering"

No. 1036665

>>1036653
it's another teen show that's "actually for adults" because the high schoolers in it are extremely, unnecessarily sexualised. it's not realistic, it's merely graphic and shocking. people tend to confuse those. it's cringe and there's some fucked shit that people gloss over way too much, examples being what >>1036661 mentioned and one of the characters losing her virginity at 14 to a man in his 40s and it being okay because "she was in control". fans like to make excuses for this, but it's just lazy exploitative writing. the show doesn't serve to criticise the culture it presents, instead it glamourizes it in neon lighting, designer outfits that no teens really wear and vine edit tier music. it's a mess. a pedo wet dream of the creepy middle aged man it was created by

No. 1036669

File: 1642856305763.jpg (145.36 KB, 640x426, pin4.jpg)

does anyone else think that certain topics should be banned in the unpopular opions thread because they're annoying? I can think of a new:
>fujoshi vs yumejoshi debates
>sperging about different races having different body types

No. 1036671

>>1036669
race discussions overall are already banned according to global rules. in theory at least

No. 1036672

File: 1642856410160.jpg (17.81 KB, 399x399, gc1TxDqy_400x400.jpg)

do you guys consider being able to use mirror writing with the same speed as normal writing as any form of talent or interesting ability? I also don't need a mirror to read my writing later. please tell me I'm cool or something

No. 1036675

>>1036672
i do, i think that's cool. i definitely can't do that shit so it's interesting to me. i think it is a skill for sure and shows that your brain can do some cool shit.

No. 1036676

>>1036672
i think this is super cool anon! i always wanted to be really good at mirror writing as a kid but couldn't wrap my head around it

No. 1036680

>>1036603
No. I had adult ballet classes and the age range was varied, it was mostly girls in their 20s, but there were also women in their 40s and two guys who were 40/50-ish. Also, noone's going to laugh at you, everyone's a beginner and concentrating on doing what they are told. Everyone's there to learn. And if they laugh at you, then they are immature and can go fuck themselves

No. 1036684

>>1036675
>>1036676
yaay thank you nonnies!

No. 1036685

>>1036603
no, not at all. never to late to learn anything, ever. first of all, i assume you aren't interested in being a professional ballerina, so fuck them and their opinions anyways if they were to say anything. it's all about what you enjoy, learning new skills, and getting exercise in interesting ways. you know what you're there for. i think people realize these days that many people are looking for different outlets to get their recommended exercise and stay fit, and they are probably less likely nowadays to alienate casual learners with these comments, plus their cashflow is on the line if people make these comments, so these studios probably have a vested interest in keeping people from being unnecessarily negative. i have a friend that got into ballet in her late teens for fun and she loved it. according to her she experienced no negativity.

No. 1036698

>>1036685
>>1036680
thank you nonitas, I guess i'm overthinking it a lot

No. 1036704

>>1036669
unpopular opinion is a already a huge pool of bait for me and I just avoid avidly.
I don't understand where's all the yume vs fujo sperg getting out of hands lately, at least they have their own containment thread now.

No. 1036721

File: 1642861455877.jpg (248.3 KB, 3186x1792, 269d4e5a.jpg)

I guess this will be a long one but maybe some anon with some technical knowledge can help me.

I'm currently use my laptop that has since the beginning of this week the habit of freezing out of sudden. It usually starts with not be able to load websites. At first I thought my internet just being weird, but at the second time I couldn't click on any buttons. It won't switch off by itself when I close it, which would usually happen after a few seconds but it goes on and on and on until you push the power button for a moment by yourself. When I turn it on again, it usually works fine until the next time it freezes. Today I wanted to edit some photos on PS but as soon as I wanted to choose the pic, it froze whenever I clicked on a pic. This thing is already about ten years old, without any major problems until NOW. The CD drive has the habit of popping out by itself for a while now too, but never payed bigger attention to it because as mentioned, it's old and I just assumed that it is not working as it should because of it because I used that thing A LOT. Now I wonder: What could cause the problem? Could I fix it on my own? Or should I get a new laptop? If yes: Which one?

No. 1036735

File: 1642862393807.jpeg (45.67 KB, 800x533, A3A03E63-F28A-4917-ABEB-6E4591…)

>>1036721
refer to picrel for your solution

No. 1036744

File: 1642862735041.jpg (852.85 KB, 1280x1280, computer1.jpg)

>>1036721
what kind of laptop do you have nonnie? You might need to serach is this is a usual bug for your model. Also I would recommend doing a backup of all of your files just in case

No. 1036745

>>1036672
That's so cool just like leonardo da vinci

No. 1036746

File: 1642862884007.gif (81.41 KB, 457x400, dream_thinkpad_small.gif)

>>1036721
If you wanna salvage it, backup your data and try Linux.
If you're filtered by Linux, just buy a new one. Get any thinkpad off ebay, from the last 10 years, they're cheap and durable.

No. 1036748

>>1036746
Iot but I always wanted to own an old and thick thinkpad, they look so solid and nice, I love them

No. 1036750

>>1036735
Honestly me this morning when I wanted to make a post here on LC and it froze again lol

>>1036744
I have a toshiba E1 Vision AMD. I already saved everything a few days ago because who knows if one day that thing won't turn on anymore.

>>1036746
Good idea.

No. 1036762

>>1036746
what model is that bulky laptop? i dunno anything about tech, but i want to get into it and ive already been suggested this "Linux" stuff.

No. 1036789

>>1036762
That's a photoshopped image of a DVR taped under an old thinkpad x200.

No. 1036815

>>1036789
ty i am clearly retarded and blind

No. 1036820

Is it Ayyyden-y to self insert as the man in het ships?

No. 1036833

File: 1642867406478.png (2.22 MB, 2560x1440, ddes.png)

>>1036750
>>1036762
If you legitimately want to try Linux, check out this website for an introduction:
https://www.getgnulinux.org/

Here's a picture of a pretty desktop to prompt you.

No. 1036835

File: 1642867498431.png (1.32 MB, 1366x768, sorce.png)


No. 1036837


No. 1036838

>>1036835
Sick background, I love fractals

No. 1036839

>>1036833
>>1036835
holy moly ty anon! I felt a little lost but this might give me some grounding. i really want to get familiar with p2p shit and hosting.. so i need basics done and over with

No. 1036842

>>1036789
Do DVRs usually have floppy drives?

No. 1036843

File: 1642867801700.png (254.69 KB, 1440x900, gn.png)

>>1036839
No problem! But be aware that Linux on the desktop can be far easier than using Linux on the server for hosting (on the server pretty much everything is done on the terminal)

If you want some good ideas for self-hosting, check this site out:
https://github.com/awesome-selfhosted/awesome-selfhosted

No. 1036848

File: 1642868051834.jpg (24.66 KB, 275x182, 1641726208753.jpg)

>>1036843
wow,i don't know how else to thank you for these resources

No. 1036850

File: 1642868129418.gif (886.55 KB, 500x281, 4F32C538-89AB-4ACC-813A-AF3DFD…)

seeing farmers infighting on LC makes me really horny, what does that mean?

No. 1036853

File: 1642868254263.jpeg (90.89 KB, 1280x720, a.jpeg)

>>1036848
It's no trouble, really. This stuff is super easy to find once you know what you're looking for :)

>>1036850
>imageboard infighting turns me on
funny.

No. 1036854

>>1036853
Big respect for picrel kek
>>1036850
Yeh i get it.

No. 1036859

>>1036854
I think he's het

No. 1036860

is it just me or has the collective iq of /ot/ been lowering recently?

No. 1036861

>>1036860
It's just you getting smarter. Keep it up!

No. 1036867

>>1036860
Younger crowd anon.
>>1036861
kek.

No. 1036869

Why the fuck are used items so damn expensive now? At this point there's no point in buying used items to save money, it costs less to buy them new in a lot of situations

No. 1036890

Do wireless keyboards and mouse give off harmful radiation?

No. 1036891

>>1036869
What kind of used items? If you mean machine like sewing some of them are considered rare and historical. People have realized planned absolese so some have opted for find old refrigerators or baking stuff. If you meant clothes while also being a burger stop going to savers or goodwill unless it's their half off days. You have better luck going to small owned thrift shops owned by churches and hospitals where everything is $.10-$5 max an item. If you're lucky theres even per pound clothes stores. I agree though some resale sites have gotten out of hand which does depend on the items they're selling. Some users now buy up cheap listings to relist at astronomical prices because it's no longer produced and then they hold a monopoly over it.

No. 1036912

>>1036891
sighs do you think used appliances will become the next trendy market?

No. 1036948

I see in online stores that they sell computers without an OS. So what happens when you switch these computers on? Does nothing happen until you install an actual OS?

No. 1036983

>>1036260
That sounds so nice. I'm a poorfag so I'm just heavily modding reddragon keebs and buying parts on aliexpress. I could have probably bought a decentish keyboard for the sum of it but it is the modding process that makes it extremely fun. I'm jelly of your friend. I hope I get to have my artisanal japanese keyboard too. Also, the shipping prices are insane if you're from the EU or anywhere else that's not the us so whenever I go through the checkout process I get depressed seeing how shipping amounts to half of the product most of the times and that's excluding the import fees.

No. 1037161

File: 1642879957426.png (72.97 KB, 500x347, 7990.png)

so an anon somewhere mentioned that there's crying rami gifs /m/ but i looked through multiple threads in the catalog and CANNOT find it so can a /m/astermind please direct me to those posts? thanks

No. 1037169

>>1036912
Vintage appliances kind of are already a trend for women that want to pretend they're in 1880-1980. Some old machines are the only way people can make things like traditionally made candies.

No. 1037214

>>1036550
>that doesn't mean it's okay to tell people not to talk to you
What the fuck anon, yes it is totally okay. Just a simple "I don't feel like talking right now" shouldn't offend anyone.

No. 1037219

File: 1642882104888.jpeg (364.68 KB, 828x883, 26A86EEF-FE14-4005-B61F-EAAFFD…)

Is this true

No. 1037229

>>1037219
I wanna know too, how the hell is that happening? I thought they were jpg images of keemstar tier monkeys.

No. 1037260

File: 1642884028799.jpeg (200.8 KB, 1125x591, 68441953-1EB4-4FD5-BDCC-2B048A…)

>>1037219
OP may be referring to this article, which is a summary of a research paper entailing the price hike on electric bills caused by cryptominers.
"People are freezing because of NFTs" can be an overstatement, since I didn't find any article entailing specific cases. Though I have no doubt several communities are suffered due huge power consumption because of mining individuals.

https://newsroom.haas.berkeley.edu/research/power-hungry-cryptominers-push-up-electricity-costs-for-locals/

No. 1037291

>>1037260
Funny part is cryptocurrency mining is magnitudes more energy expensive than minting NFTs, but we can't bully the tech bros about it so we need to harass artists trying to make a buck instead.
I think NFTs are bullshit because the majority of them are those picrew level shitty images, but I don't fault real artists trying to get in on the cash cow.
Besides I don't understand why they blame the artists for making NYC energy prices go up… Surely it's the city's responsibility to keep power affordable even with the spike in demand?

No. 1037318

>>1037291
> Surely it's the city's responsibility to keep power affordable even with the spike in demand?
It's more complicated than that anon. More power = more power plants. And the world is already struggling with trying to cut down on nuclear power plants (which contributes greatly to the greenhouse effect). Nuclear power plants are cheaper, affordable, and produce power faster than hydro power plant, windmills and solar panes.

Surely any environmentalist anon can explain better here, but power generation is something we learned in middle school.
It got me thinking of education system in North America (which is the only country that's full denial on climate change), the ignorance on greenhouse effect, co2 and o2 exchange and all that was something I'd have to draw graphs over during school.

No. 1037319

File: 1642886547785.jpeg (Spoiler Image,19.2 KB, 259x195, 41CDB7F8-084F-485B-AE97-AC5A2B…)

Is it weird to bathe with your partner? My man and I bathe together every night, not in a sexual way we just talk about our day and stuff. Recently I have been informed that that is strange.

No. 1037328

>>1037319
No, it's not weird. He's your partner lmao

No. 1037333

>>1037319
If that's strange I don't wanna be normal

No. 1037334

>>1037318
Ayrt and I'm not American, in my country when a city needs more power the politicians make a big show about sourcing renewable power from neighboring areas, you can even sell back your excess power to the government if you have a lot of solar panels.
If the Twitter tards are determined to call NFT artists capitalist pigs, why not use that attitude to criticize a city that cuts off people's heat rather than absorbing the cost of this unforeseen surge in demand?
Oh yeah because you can't make politicians grovel for your forgiveness on Twitter

No. 1037338

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Is this even what “kinderwhore” is??
All I remember about it was that Nicole Dollwombbler or whatever her name was.

No. 1037344

>>1037338
no it's not anon, you are right

No. 1037368

>>1037338
"sexualizing things traditionally associated with children while aggressively reinforcing that association is totes empowering and revolutionarily anti male gaze! uwu" I fucking hate this wave of "feminism".

No. 1037373

>>1037338
what does "taking it out of the male gaze" even mean, like making it unattractive and frumpy?

No. 1037448

File: 1642894771312.gif (6.45 MB, 480x356, 4735FB99-7A36-4078-80FF-6B21FB…)

>>1035598
If you really mean it nonnie I'd be open to doing that, cute idea ♥
I put the neutral Sayori one on my portable charger so she'll be with me wherever I go and because her hair colour matches it. The rest I haven't used. My favourite is Monika but Sayori is a close second!

No. 1037480

File: 1642896634549.jpeg (24.53 KB, 319x319, C2D6DA76-3876-48EC-BA5D-2F4817…)

would it be cruel to reject my boyfriend's marriage proposal if he proposes to me without an engagement ring

No. 1037483

>>1037338

In the words of Courtney Love: "I would like to think—in my heart of hearts—that I'm changing some psychosexual aspects of rock music. Not that I'm so desirable. I didn't do the kinder-whore thing because I thought I was so hot. When I see the look used to make one more appealing, it pisses me off. When I started, it was a What Ever Happened to Baby Jane? thing. My angle was irony."

No. 1037484


No. 1037493

>>1037483
and that girl's outfit isn't even kinderwhore, it's some slapdash of random clothes she found in her closet and Harley Quinn twin tails. Fuck that, there are plenty of kinderwhore guides if you want to dress the style

No. 1037494

>>1037338
Not her conflating "feminine" things with "childlike" things. Just another way to pedopander and infantilize women.

No. 1037496

>>1037319
No way that's one of the main things I look forward to for when I eventually get in a relationship

No. 1037501

>>1037319
That's not strange. Anyone who says it is has no clue what intimacy truly is.

No. 1037552

File: 1642900785071.jpg (144.75 KB, 768x960, 20046670_818926171610330_32051…)

attention deficient and procrastinatey nonners, what kinds of little rewards do you give yourself between tasks? I just quit smoking, this is usually when I would have a cig but alas. I am also not hungry nor wanting to condition myself to stress-eat

No. 1037562

>>1037552
why did you have to show us something that looks like putting a flashlight up someone’s nose and then seeing the highlighted hairs and snot

No. 1037566

File: 1642901407280.png (521.13 KB, 450x562, 49142214_1111110452430921_2680…)

>>1037562
because sachiko kaneoya is popular here and I thought it was funny

No. 1037567

>>1037552
Congrats on quitting nona, that’s not an easy thing to do. When I want to give myself a break, I play phone games. I get really really focused on them and they give that little happy chemical release I constantly crave. Also 4-7-8 breathing (inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7, exhale for 8). It’s not really a reward in the traditional sense, but it gives me something to focus on and reliably puts me in a state of calmness. If you want the sensory experience of taste without the potential drawbacks of eating as a reward, gum and mints could be a good alternative.

No. 1037576

>>1037552
Spoiler that gross shit jesus christ

No. 1037582

>kaneoya at home:
>>1037552

No. 1037583

>>1037576
ayrt another stupid question: it's just mods who can spoiler shit after the fact, right?

No. 1037586

>>1037566
I understood the reference and appreciate your sense of humor, nonnie

No. 1037602

>>1037552
This looks like my ex friend who was a foot fetishist male feminist and I hate it

No. 1037633

Why were scrotes so obsessed with boxxy back in the day?

No. 1037644

>>1037633
People shitposted her so much back then and raged in the comments of the original vid. She was just another rickroll

No. 1037660

Have your ever been in a situation where you end up getting closer with an acquaintance whose internet presence you’ve already stalked, and so you know a lot of their biographical info already but you have to pretend like you don’t as you get to know each other better? And you feel like it’s a weirdly asymmetrical relationship because you know more about them than they know about you? I’m just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this and how best to hide being a crazy bitch…

No. 1037693

>>1037334
AYRT, I'm sorry that my comment about environmental issue in NA was seemingly directed at you. That last part unnecessary and it was just my comment about their general attitude towards climate change.
As for the government part, it is not my place to comment about your country and its politicians since we are just anons on an imageboard. And they should do something the power usage imbalance. Doesn't mean that individuals cant speak out against crypto and the entire industry and its harmful impact on carbon footprints. I also need to mention that crypto was a scheme to create a currency outside of a government's inference, if there's not already privatized power plants industry.
To clarify myself again, this reply isn't to "dont bully politicians guys" more of me trying to explain how power distribution works. And the general consensus is to not use more Nor generate more power, either.

No. 1037736

File: 1642913779075.png (470.42 KB, 808x3584, fdhkhkdhf.png)

is any of you nonnies familiar with any of these brands?
>be me
>hate cheap chinese crap
>finds browser extension to weed out cheap chinese crap that also gives me buying alternatives made in the US
>has an option to donate (so they don't have to pay taxes I guess)
>have a section of women owned businesses
I wanna donate and help women as much as possible but I also don't wanna give money to trannies or libfems, help.

No. 1037738

>>1037736
what's the extension? I feel like libfem or at least libfem pandering might be inevitable, but at least helping smaller businesses is better economically regardless

No. 1037740

>>1037738
Is called cultivate, here let me share you the link.
https://www.wecultivate.us/shop

No. 1037767

File: 1642917702077.jpg (142.02 KB, 1500x1500, 81gv1V8jTkL._SL1500_.jpg)

I'm a little clueless about fermented foods. How long can store-bought kimchi stay out without refrigeration? Picrel is the brand if it matters, it comes refrigerated so I wasn't sure.

No. 1037785

How would you know what condiments go with wich foods (ie meat and…whatever you put on meat)

No. 1037798

>>1037785
You taste it?

No. 1037814

>>1037767
I'll sometimes leave kimchi out for a day or two to speed up the fermentation process if it's newly made and I want to cook with it. I wouldn't recommend leaving it out for much longer but as long as it isn't moldy, it's probably fine to eat. However, if you plan on eating it as a side dish, you should keep it refrigerated.

No. 1037817

>>1037736
Beautycounter is an MLM so avoid
Moda operandi is a high fashion/designer online storefront so they aren’t really libfemmy afaik
Girlfriend collective makes nice athleisure sets but they are very “body posi” and have the typical libfem aesthetic
Thinx underwear are literally toxic so no
Mejuri is… ok but girlbossy and I hate the name
I like supergoop sunscreen
Others I’m not familiar with

No. 1037820

How do I use the friend finder thread if I know nothing about Discord?

No. 1037837

>>1037820
Learn to use Discord? Otherwise I've seen some anons leave throwaway email addresses so you could do that.

No. 1037850

>>1037817
How can you make sports clothing and worship body positivity ? The natural result of sport is not being fat. Senseless

No. 1037884


No. 1037928

>>1037820
Make a post with a means of contacting you that isn't discord.

No. 1038029

Are women who have to wear a hijab expected to keep their hair long and in their natural color?

No. 1038046

>>1038029
Expected by more strict traditional interpreters of religious texts, maybe, but in reality it depends on how liberal your culture/influence circle and personal beliefs are, because in theory no one knows unless you tell them or they are your immediate family/husband. My Arab Muslim friend living in the US hasn't worn a hijab in years, just beanies or turban style wraps.

No. 1038058

>>1038029
it depends on the culture and how strict someone/their family is about it. i wore a hijab for years when i was younger and for a lot of that time i kept my hair short. i also had friends who wore the hijab and dyed their hair. i never personally heard of an islamic expectation to keep your hair long as a woman, though when i stopped wearing the hijab and got a pixie cut i got some comments about how it's sinful to have your hair cut "like a boy's", though there's no quranic text to support that

No. 1038114

Im doing bellydance workouts for fun and while im trying my best i just do not understand how to move. Gonna keep at it though

No. 1038144

Why is are there two formulas for population standard deviation? What is the difference between
σ = √(Σ(x-μ)^2 / N)
σ = √([Σ(x-μ)^2 / N] / N)
I get that the second one is the "computation formula" but my book never bothers to explain what that is and my homework isn't specifying which of these shits to use.

No. 1038155

File: 1642950251942.png (6.62 KB, 326x211, Untitled.png)

>>1038144
As far as I know the first one is right I have never seen the second one. The second one looks like mean squared error. That's the standard deviation of the arithmetic mean

No. 1038156

>>1038058
There's no quaran text to support the hijab either

No. 1038159

>>1037850
Smart advertising, it persuades fat girls into buy sportswear when they wouldn’t have otherwise. Sells them the IDEA of working out. If said fat girls actually lost weight it would mean they have to buy new clothes.

No. 1038165

Should I push my cuticles back or keep them? I see health articles saying dont touch them at all and others that say it's fine just dont cut them. Mine are all kind of different shapes and it looks ugly when I add color.

No. 1038180

>>1038165
You don't have to paint your nails all the way back to the skin. I saw some woman paint them until just a bit before the skin, and it looked very neat, but that takes a bit of skill

No. 1038202

Has any of you ever experienced people intentionally leaving you alone in a public place? I just learned that this is a widespread phenomenon and a form of emotional abuse and my dad used to do it all the time. Basically the person disappears without notice and clearly either wants to see you be distressed over losing them or to send a passive aggressive signal telling you they don't want to be seen with you. Does anyone know what this is called?

No. 1038259

I want to return some shoes but the return policy says 30 days; I'm 6 days over. I got the shoes for Christmas and finally just got the receipt (no gift receipt). Should I try to return them or call corporate first? I was sick for 2 weeks.

No. 1038262

>>1038202
A friend I don't really talk to now use to do that to me all the time. One time she did it after having done it consecutive times and I just fucking drove home without her. Figure that out bitch

No. 1038264

What happened to the Discord server? The link just expired or it's completely gone?

No. 1038269

>>1038264
Guess the invite expired, I'm in there and everything is ok.

No. 1038281

>>1038269
Nta but could you post an invite?

No. 1038290

>>1038259
Just try returning them and say you were unable to due to being sick. Customers honestly have a lot more power in retail than the workers because companies just want you to keep buying.

No. 1038293

>>1038290
Thanks, nonna!

No. 1038369

They are 100% training dogs to fight in the park across from the house. What do I do? I live in the US

No. 1038370

>>1038369
Call non emergency police. If they're training dogs there, then that's yet another place kids can't play and possible encounter with violent dogs for everyone around.

No. 1038389

>>1038156
ayrt, yeah there isn't. its one of the things that frustrates me most, how many people have been fooled into believing the hijab is anything but bullshit

No. 1038450

>>1038370
my city's nonemergency services were not picking up, neither were animal services because it's the weekend.
They're agitating the dog, hitting it, pulling its leash, swinging it around, etc. It's the worst thing I've ever seen. I called the police, and saw a cop talk to the people abusing it. They were abusing it WHILE the cop was talking to them. The cop did nothing and drove off. They're still abusing it.

No. 1038462

>>1037850
>The natural result of sport is not being fat.
Not really. You can exercise every day, but if you eat more than you burn you will still be fat.

No. 1038469

>>1037633
Manic pixie dream grill.

No. 1038477

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Is there a name for these bruise birth mark things? I've seen other people with them too.

No. 1038546

>>1037817
Thanks anon! I'll goggle the reset. xoxo

No. 1038547

Is there an alternative to "WLW" that the trannies haven't stole yet?

No. 1038555

>>1038477
is that young dove cameron

No. 1038557

>>1038547
same-sex attracted women? or just say lesbian or bisexual or "i like women"

No. 1038599

why do my legs hurt? they should be a little sore from working out, sure, but this feels different. like even my bones hurt and they feel so heavy. im eating enough protein, i do light exercise, so why they hurt like thisss. almost like they hurt when i was a wee baby and my bones were growing

No. 1038600

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>>1038547
ngl i'm starting to like vagina fetishist.

No. 1038605


No. 1038606

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>>1038477
You mean those bags on the sides of the cheeks? The skin is slightly raised there, it's not just discolored. They're calles festoons, and apparently their appearance is often reduced with filler like in picrel.

No. 1038608

>>1038606
i used to have those when i was skinny

No. 1038612

File: 1642970848157.png (177.19 KB, 667x500, Facelift-Malar-Festoons.png)

>>1038477
>>1038606
>>1038608
Okay so I did some more digging and i was wrong. They're malar bags.

No. 1038615

>>1038612
no your right i think, festoons and malar bags both have the same meaning

No. 1038724

Is there an .apk of Faceapp that I can download that has all of the Pro features? Everything I find on google seems shady as hell.

No. 1038732

File: 1642976444316.jpg (69.56 KB, 638x479, f70e31056e459e9fb3c13d7dcb25bb…)

>mobile gaming
>daily rewards
>gatcha

No. 1038734

>>1038156
There's a text that calls for women to cover the area they wear their jewels, necklaces or something with a cloth as far as I know, that's what people interpreted as hijab. Covering your hair is mostly a cultural thing, women from different Muslim countries have different hijab styles as well. It's seen as a necessity by some but most Muslim women don't feel like they have to do it in my country. There are certain body parts you have to cover up though, but again most Muslims don't practice that word to word either.
I'm not religious and don't practice myself but know a bit about this.

No. 1038737

>>1038732
Driving a car is unnatural too but we're conditioned to see it as necessary to function smartypants

No. 1038739

>>1038737
>Being addicted to imaginary characters on your phone and spending time to collect them is the same as using a car to travel

No. 1038746

>>1038732
Oops I posted in the wrong thread. Don't kill me janny, I've done enough 12 hour bans

No. 1038751

>>1038732
Which subreddit did you save this epic own from

No. 1038752

>>1038739
I don't play gachashit lol I just wanted to point out how comparing video games to the skinner box is a retarded false equivalence

No. 1038755

How do you tell if someone is mad at or holds a grudge with you but are acting like they're fine just to be civil?

No. 1038765

>>1038751
Google images

No. 1038779

>>1038755
By asking them.

No. 1038799

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how do i go back to not caring about ppl's opinions and worldviews? i don't want to react with rage, disgust, superiority or hate anymore. like i had a general tolerant attitude 2 years ago. wtf happened to me?

No. 1038841

My city is quite large and is considered worldwide to be very diverse and full of culture, but maybe it’s because I wasn’t allowed to really travel until I became an adult, but I never really was able to see any of this ‘culture’ and diversity. I don’t even know the stereotype of people within certain parts of my country, and barely know any geography of my country. Is this normal? Is this a cause of concern?

No. 1038878

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>>1038612
Wonder what causes them, since this actress was still quite young when she had them. Would you say Lucinda has them too?

No. 1038881

Is ghosting / cutting people out of anxiety and having no attachment a symptom of mental illness or am I just a shit person? I cut of several women for being clingy and men for joking that they're into me. The thought of people thinking about me and caring for me makes me feel nauseous, that I enjoy my friendships with people who are more withdrawn.

No. 1038890

>>1038881
>I cut of several women for being clingy and men for joking that they're into me.
This sounds healthy
>The thought of people thinking about me and caring for me makes me feel nauseous
This part makes me question. I myself also enjoy friendships like this but I usually distance myself and set clear boundaries. You should try do that, it's hard to handle people when you don't have boundaries.

No. 1038899

>>1038878
Cleidocranial dysostosis according to her wiki

Makes sense, her bone structure isn't supporting her face as ideally as it would if she didn't have the condition

No. 1038908

>>1038899
Not really, i have these (but not super visible thanks god) and I don't have Cleidocranial dysostosis.

No. 1038918

>>1038878
Genetics

No. 1038925

>>1038881
I don't know but I have the same thing, I've ghosted literally everyone I've ever known. I deliberately never form connections anymore because the sequence of events when I ghost is so consistent and it's really not fair to the other person. I used to try and stay within the acquaintance-zone where I could hang out with people occasionally with zero expectation of friendship or caring about each other, but it became too hard to manage. For me it's not mental illness, but if you ghost out of anxiety or low self-esteem then it could be a symptom of something. Though if you only ghost people who are overly clingy, that's pretty understandable if you're a more withdrawn person.

No. 1038941

>>1037814
Sorry for the late reply, but thanks nonna! I know homemade kimchi is supposed to be fine sitting out, but I wasn't sure about store bought. Anyway, I had some of the kimchi earlier and it was seemed ok. I read the container and it said to not store it above 39 degrees, and while my house is way above 39 degrees, it was unopened and only out for about 4 hours so it might be fine.

No. 1038961

I keep trying to make spam musubi, but whenever I do the rice always falls apart as soon as I start eating it. I tried using plastic wrap to shape it this time and while it held its shape on the plate, the rice pretty much broke in half once I took a bite. Does anyone know what I'm doing wrong? I'm sure it's something really stupid and basic.

No. 1038964

>>1038908
I think that anon was just saying that in her case specifically that's probably the cause of it. Whereas with most it might be because of regular skin sagging from aging or weight loss. Idk about you though

No. 1038999

>>1038961
Are you using the right kind of rice? If it’s not glutinous enough it won’t stick together. Also make sure you’re rinsing it well enough.

No. 1039052

>>1038961
I like to make my rice sticky by mixing it with rice vinegar, you can also add salt and sugar.

No. 1039057

Why do men romanticize war and being in the military (like they’re doing right now with the Ukraine thing) yet they are busy whining, bitching, lying, fapping and mansplaining online? Shouldn’t they be busy being a real man~ by getting blasted by a fucking grenade already?

No. 1039060

>>1039057
Because they are immature fags babied by society and by their families. They haven't faced hardship and they're too pathetic and small-minded to find healthy, sane hobbies and interests that don't involve killing or destruction, appealing. If you're a person that gets hard over destruction in general, you're an absolute brainlet

No. 1039111

Is is just intrusive thoughts if they are extremely paranoid but I'm able to brush them off? It's exhausting more than anything.

No. 1039115

>>1039111
same anon, example: before taking a shower I hear scratching on the floor upstairs and my first thought is "they are trying to get a camera into my bathroom" but immediately I think of how stupid and ridiculous that sounds and move on.

No. 1039118

>>1039115
That's rather concerning. If it truly exhausts you/saps your energy/prevents you from doing things, you should see someone about that.

No. 1039128

>>1039060
I'm interested in that stuff as well, mostly cause I want society to evolve through conflict so that our current degenerate society gets burned down

No. 1039149

>>1039057
Men know the only thing they're better than women is pure retarded physical strength and so the only time they'd be truly useful would be a time of war, that's why they keep fantasizing about it.

No. 1039166

>>1039149
not these dumbfucks. they'd get their asses blasted in two seconds. you ever see those documentaries where they interview young men who thought a warzone would be like COD? they, unsurprisingly, did not do so well. it turns out the horror of war is nothing like slovenly sitting your fat ass on your mom's couch muching away at corn chips continents away from actual danger. but yes they'd love to believe themselves to be hypercompetent badasses.

No. 1039249

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A free VPN company can't hack into your network/router when using it, right? Part of my brain is telling me no, but a small part is yelling at me to freak out. So is it true? I didn't log into anything with it on since I only needed it for a bit. I uninstalled it off my phone and changed my Wi-Fi password afterwards so it should be fine, right? The company's website is an insecure one and looks sketch as hell so that's what got my paranoia rising.

No. 1039269

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What game is this?

No. 1039317

If someone has tremors that are definitely related to alcohol, is it a sure sign that they have an alcohol problem? Or is there some kind of sensitivity that might make some people more prone to having tremors?

No. 1039319

>>1039317
Just go to a doctor. You don't want to mess with having the shakes due to alcohol withdrawal. And yes if you're an alcoholic to that point there's many things can can make you shake. Dehydration, hunger, fatigue and other fucking diseases that can stem from booze. Don't be dumb.

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No. 1039323

>>1039321
No problem!

No. 1039331

>>1039317
I don't drink but shake when I have too much sugar that can be mistaken for tremors

No. 1039332

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Are there any anons using analog or instant cameras? Any recommendations? What made you switch from digital?
Recently I was cleaning up my phone's memory card and realized I never look at any of hundreds of photos taken during trips or whatnot, but maybe if I had a physical album with just a few it would be much better way of keeping memories; I wonder what you think about this idea?

No. 1039379

>>1039332
I kinda want one too

No. 1039403

I found a cute witchy dress on eBay but it turned out to be a cosplay dress. But I still want to wear it even if I look dumb. Is looking dumb worth the money? I don’t have the luxury of buying too many stuff atm.

No. 1039406

>>1039403
Send a pic I'll tell you if it's worth it

No. 1039407

>>1039332
I opted for the polaroid now because it's affordable and I wanted full-size pictures instead of dinky ones. However, it's not as good as the instant camera I had as a kid, in that it doesn't fold down and I think it looks like a fisher price toy. The Polaroid SX-70 Alpha folds down but I dislike the retro look they went with, there's not reason they had to make it fold down like that aside from aesthetics, seems like it would break or some shit. The Polaroid One600 is the camera I had as a teen and it was way better

No. 1039409

>>1039332
I think it’s better to keep those travel pictures in a digital album, I’ve gotten my shit stolen twice and lost pictures and whatnot, keeping your pictures in a safe, hidden flash drive is much better.
And analog cameras are cute of course, I think they’re nice and that they could be amazing for artistic purposes or for crafts like personalized letters or postcards and such, if you’re into that then it’s worth it.

No. 1039414

>>1039332
I do look at the pictures I take with my smartphone, but I've also considered buying this type of camera. The issue is that I found it expensive to get new films (?) so I decided to not buy anything. At least not yet. A friend of mine prints her phone pictures with a printer specifically for smartphones, and the pictures will be the same size as if you used one of these Fujifilm instant cameras. I think you can even print them as stickers, but I don't remember how that works.

No. 1039416

How does a beginner illustrator decide on how much to charge for a piece?

No. 1039423

>>1039416
Supply and demand, also purpose. Are you talking about personal commissions online or actual work with companies? How beginner is beginner, are you at a level where your work would be desirable to strangers? Are you popular and/or have a decent following of people who are willing to pay for your work? Look at your peers and what they're charging and how receptive people are to their prices, then decide from there. Godspeed.

No. 1039512

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Please don’t yell at me I’m mentally ill and every time I’ve wanted to use discord I’ve gotten overwhelmed and I don’t know how to use it. I’m sure it’s simple but I get so stressed and delete it instantly
Is there a short enough video that explains the basics?

No. 1039519

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Was Mickael Jackson really a pedo? I don't know anything about that guy other that he was most likely mentally ill because of his father

No. 1039521

>>1039512
Same here babes, don't cry

No. 1039534

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>>1039512
Not a short video, but I’m giving you a guide! A nonny-guide, if you will.

Discord is basically like Whatsapp or Facebook messenger, except anyone can join those group chat. A large public “group chat” is called a server, which is marked as bright green in picrel. There are discord servers for everything: studying streams, science, art, musicians, venting, mental illness support groups, finance, coding, anything. You join these servers by a link that you find tossed anywhere on the internet, OR someone could send it to you as an invite.

Inside a server there are channels, which you’ll find by swiping right on your screen. Look at the red arrow where there is a “general”. That’s a channel, called general. Channels help organize the server a bit by carving out designated spaces for discussion. For example, if it’s a music server, you could have a rock server, a jazz server, and a classical server. You click on any of these servers and start talking about said subject. At first, though, the design can be a bit hectic and confusing, which is why I recommend joining only one server for and trying to get used to it.

Blue arrow points to bar on the left, which contains all of the users in that servers. Users can have “ranks”, which is a fancy way of saying title or status. If you were on a lolcow discord, ranks could be “nonny”, “nonita”, “nonatellabella”. On a mental illness discord, it’d be something like, “BPDfag”, “anachan”, and “schizo”. You get the jest.

Pink arrow points to search bar, which you could use to search for a user’s interactions, or a word mentioned in that channel. Say you were talking about cake, and you can’t find that conversation, you just pop in “cake” inti the search bar and it takes you to the channel where you had this convo.

Purple arrows point to you. You don’t have much of a “profile”, like on Twitter or Facebook. You have a name tag, a pic, and a nickname. People can add you as a friend and chat with you one-on-one. You can also do video calls and voice calls, and there are voice channels in each server where anyone can hop in, unless admin made a channel private. You can’t access it unless they send you an invite. That’s pretty much it.

No. 1039540

>>1039512
>>1039521
>>1039534
you guys are so, so cute. thank you anon for the explanation and i hope that will have consoled cat anon. ilu all.

>>1039519
i don't think so even if everything points to pedophilia. he was just really stunted and bizarre.

No. 1039542

>>1039534
I love you for making this

No. 1039544

>>1039534
And, and the question everybody asks: how do I organize my Discord? You don’t. You mute all your servers except for 4 or something, and check those regularly. I expect you know how hectic and unmanageable 15 “group chats” are. Now imagine those gcs with 100, 1000, 10,000 users. Better to just focus on a couple.

No. 1039547

>>1039542
I love you too!

No. 1039550

how did Katy Perry go from nearly breaking one of MJ's records (most #1 singles from one album) a decade ago to literal irrelevance?

No. 1039556

>>1039550
She had a failed image change, and her albums after 2015 or so were bad

No. 1039569


No. 1039584

>>1039569
good read, thank you!

No. 1039591

>>1039550
I think her quirky poop-emoji-latex-pinup-girl style was a cultural moment and kind of the end of the Britney kind of pop star. She was competing with Lady Gaga who didn't need a team of execs to be quirky, and Beyonce who was an actual icon, and Rihanna who was edgy. She didn't mobilize the internet like Tay Swift and the others did,because she was so manufactured she didn't really have a strong community who had other things in common besides liking her. No online stans = losing cultural relevance.
She had a good run but at the end of the day Katy is a performer, not an artist, and most women singers who last more than a few years are writing and producing, or at least have a strong brand people can identify with. What was Katy Perry even about, what were her songs about? Having fun and summer love, shit that could have been sung by anybody. It's surprising she made it as far as she did.

No. 1039610

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>>1039534
Anon you replied to! Thank you so much I screen shot your reply to look at it after work, we are suddenly busy. I love you nonna you the real VIP

No. 1039627

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What's the name for this hair accessory?

No. 1039666

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>>1039627
Metal infinity hair stick/Celtic infinity hair stick will get you the most results but its basically just a hair stick with fancier stick holder.

No. 1039670

>>1039610
I’m glad, anon. Oh, and by the way:
> For example, if it’s a music server, you could have a rock server, a jazz server, and a classical server.
I meant a rock channel, jazz channel, and a classical channel. Fuzzy brain. Anyway, I’m sure you’ll bravely embark on your Discord journey soon enough.

No. 1039690

>>1039666
Thanks! I've found different pictures and different ways of naming it!

No. 1039719

>>1039627
I love long hair, but past the hips it always looks gross and raggedy

No. 1039733

The meme red hair and glasses feminist from all those years ago is probably a libfem now isn’t she

No. 1039780

If I message my hairdresser (she asked for reference pics) at 10pm do I start with
>Sorry for messaging late, no expectations of you responding outside working hours (obligatory smile emoji)
Or is that weird and virtue signally?

No. 1039782

>>1039780
No just send the pics without any commentary

No. 1039785

>>1039534
Nta but this is so nice of you, genuinely helpful thanks

No. 1039809

>>1039780
No, she'll open it when she's working and it'll be fine.

No. 1039837

>>1035030
Kinda late but I applied for JET last year and will have my interview soon. Do you have any specific questions, or? The application process is pretty straightforward and there's a checklist you work through on their site. I think the things people worry about the most are the SoP and reference letters. I'm an English major and have been involved with the Japanese community for a while in my state (US) so I wasn't too concerned about the SoP, but the reference letters were a bit stressful just because they were out of my hands. Thankfully I'd gone back to school recently so I was able to contact some professors (would've felt weird asking my work for a ref when I'll be leaving them if I get in).

>>1035043
I assume you'd be looking to apply as a CIR then?

No. 1039849

>>1033306
How can I not go on a spergy rant when someone says something that triggers me/something I disagree with.

No. 1039875


No. 1040008

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Is meditation somerhing that's worth getting into?
I see people online talking about it, but I don't really get the appeal or benefits of it.

No. 1040014

>>1039849
Think about what, if anything, you're getting out of responding. 9 times out of 10 you're not going to change the person's mind and will only end up wasting minutes, maybe even hours arguing with a (presumable) stranger who has zero bearing on your life. In the end you're just shooting yourself in the foot when you could be focusing on more important things. If it's someone who you do know in the real world, try to take the Stoic approach and remember that every day you will meet with "interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will, and selfishness – all of them due to the offenders’ ignorance." Idk about you but it's hard to muster the energy to be mad with someone when I already have low expectations for their behavior.

No. 1040016

>>1040008
100% yes, I avoided it for ages because it really seemed pointless, and lowkey like a scam since you most often see it recommended side by side with some stupid bullshit like scented oils and positive ruminations or whatever; eventually gave it a shot after my therapist insisted I try following short, guided sessions. I still wouldn't be able to do it without a guide and for too long, but it really helps with feeling calmer and more grounded.

No. 1040017

>>1040008
Contrary to popular belief medition doesn't really have a high barrier to entry anon. If anything you can try a few free Youtube guided meditations and see if you like it or not. Some people find it grounding and a good way to "reset" for the day, others find it dull and prefer moving meditation/focusing on being present in the moment more helpful to them. Personally I like doing traditional meditation when I'm feeling particularly overwhelmed by stress, anger, sadness, whatever, but I don't keep up a daily practice.

No. 1040021

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Any anons here with ADD or ADHD? I took one of my husband’s Adderall to see what it would do and basically I felt nothing. I took a nap about an hour after taking it, but other than that I haven’t really felt any different than usual. No hyper focusing or any extra energy. It’s not what I imagined taking a stimulant would be like. I do drink a lot of caffeine, would that change its effectiveness?

No. 1040023

>>1040008
>>1040016
>>1040017
Just pray, it's the same thing

No. 1040029

>>1040021
If you don't have any mental issues it's normal the medication will have no effect on you

No. 1040033

>>1040023
meditation and prayer seem like a pretty different mindsets, focusing on different stuff. that's why it confuses me that neuroscientifically they supposedly activate the same circuits or whatever

No. 1040124

Anyone work in UX? Any insights? I don’t have a degree, but I have a knack for website building already, and I’m willing to get certification, if it’s worth it. (I did ask this in the career thread, but figured I’d also ask here since it’s a slow thread)

No. 1040129

>>1040021
So tldr, insurance stopped helping me with vyvanse, and my doc switched me to adderall. I didn’t sleep for 5 days and it put my already overwhelmed ocd/intrusive and repetitive thoughts into hyperdrive.
Doc now has me on focalin, not as strong but I feel like it’s still not -right- . I hate hoping prescriptions, it takes so long to adapt.

But seriously, careful with pills. So many people I know are pillheads, because they got pills from someone prescribed, and they never needed them in the first place.
You’re brain chemical balance doesn’t need it, so that’s why you had a meh experience. You want the adderall experience? Drink 3 red eyes in a day kek

No. 1040132

>>1040129
Your* also sorry for more typos I ain’t resending it damnit

No. 1040140

>>1040129
>the adderall experience
Yeah, I definitely did. But I got slow motion, depressant type shit instead? Good advice, will try red eye instead. Kek

No. 1040150

Artanons, I want to take up drawing as a hobby and maybe learn how to do lineart and color what I draw too. I really don't know where to start though. I guess with drawing I can use references and practice drawing with those, but in terms of the finer things like shading or lineart I'm not sure what the best resources would be to get started without just winging it?

No. 1040156

>>1040150
I think there’s a lot of courses available from artist, but I would just focus on filling a page a day, with what ever you draw. Cohesive or not, it’s a warm up for drawing. I’ve started drawing almost daily and the improvements are there. Don’t give up!

No. 1040216

Sage for being late but it sounds like both of you just watched the first couple of episodes and gave up

>>1036661
This was just brought up in season 2 with that same character admitting she did it all in false confidence and it "wasn't real"

>>1036665
Are you talking about Hunter Schaffer's character? If so it's pretty clear to tell that the character of Jules used men as a way to validate herself as a "woman"
I agree it's over-sexualised and that's a criticism you'll see everywhere, but for the most part it's not too bad of a show and if you're media literate enough to understand subtext and motive in characters then I think it's a good watch.

No. 1040222

>>1039317
Depends how much you're drinking? I don't drink much but I find that I'm shaky the morning after a night of heavy drinking, probably due to dehydration and overall muscle weakness.

No. 1040231

>>1040156
Thanks anon, that sounds like a good idea. My younger cousin (who is an actual artist lol) bought me some sketchbooks a few years ago as a gift, so I'll try to put them to good use! Can I ask what kinds of things you tend to draw?

No. 1040250

religious or formally religious anons, how do you stop feeling guilty for having sexual thoughts? or get rid of guilt and paranoia in general? i feel like some bad things that happen to me are some form of punishment for having those thoughts and not being good enough

No. 1040269

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I am going to shave my head before the start of february (had shit thin sparse hair in the first place since birth, lost like 1/3rd of it overnight due to extreme stress last year)

I know hair gummies and such are a scam, but are there any actually helpful nutrients or remedies for growing hair? I don't care about length and shit, I just want to at least grow back what I have lost in terms of amount of induvidual hairs.

Going bald as a 27 year old woman sure sounds like "fun", ugh.

No. 1040270

>>1040250
Meh, I don’t fret so much about thoughts because I don’t act on them at all. But if they consume my brain then I worry and try to pray to quiet my mind lol.

No. 1040282

>>1040269
Is there anyway you can see a hair specialist doc? I’ve never heard of that before. Im sorry anon…. At least wigs have come a long way!

No. 1040284

>>1040231
I’ve been drawing a lot of faces, but you can always switch it up!

No. 1040289

>>1040269
As other anon said you should look into seeing a hair loss specialist. As far as accessible home remedies you could start right away, biotin and scalp massage can help with regrowing lost hair. You won't see overnight results but both are scientifically proven to help restore inactive hair follicles versus all the random home remedies you'll find online. I would recommend both rather than either/or. You can apply biotin topically or ingest it orally. Most of those hair gummies are just multivitamins plus biotin but they're a rip-off. You should be able to find straight up biotin supplements at any drugstore and even some grocery stores. Scalp massage stimulates needed blood flow to the hair follicle. I recommend you take time to give yourself a good long scalp massage with a warmed oil every other week. The oil doesn't do anything special but will provide moisture and comfort for the massage.

No. 1040323

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I need your opinions on housing. Soon I’m moving to a new state to start a new job. I’ve never lived there before and don’t know anyone in the area. It’s expensive so I’ll only be able to afford a studio apartment or sharing a house with other people. Which of those should I do? House sharing is cheaper; i might spend 30% less on rent rather than being maxed out at 1/3 of my gross salary. I also might be less likely to be lonely. HOWEVER, after six years of living with strangers I’m sick of it. I’m tired of my stuff getting damaged and people not cleaning up after themselves. I’ve never had roommates I was particularly close with either. What should I do?

No. 1040329

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>>1040269
How long has it been since your hair fell out? Usually extreme stress causes hair loss by forcing the hair into the catagen phase prematurely. But that’s the case it should start to grow back after resting (telogen). If it’s been many months and the hair’s not starting to grow back there may be some other health problem going on.

I dealt with trichitillomania for many years and wouldn’t wish hair loss on any girl.

No. 1040337

>>1040289
>>1040282
Thanks for the advice. I've been to hair/skin docs before and tbh, my country's healthcare is a hellhole and those specialists tend to be ones of the more money-hungry snake oil salesmen. Need to look into reviews deeper and stuff.

>>1040329
It happened in early december, I think, so not that long ago.

No. 1040367

>>1040337
I wouldn’t worry too much yet. Just got to give your hair time.

No. 1040395

How can I improve my sleep hygiene if I managed to condition myself to be only able to fall asleep when there's some sort of background noise present?

My habit has been that I take my laptop to bed and watch random videos until I fall asleep and this is obviously bad for a number of reasons (melatonin production, bad for the laptop battery as well). I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night and cannot fall back asleep until I start another video. I tried just quitting cold turkey and not look at any sort of screen an hour before bedtime but then I it simply takes forever to fall asleep. How do I stop this?

No. 1040397

>>1040323
Get a studio. Living with roommates is almost always awful for some reason or another.

No. 1040404

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Balding nona over here again.
I somehow got a job interview. Tomorrow. Wasn't expecting one surely.
My hair is… really bad now. I already decided on shaving, but should I shave before the interview? I doubt I'd get the job either way, but I want to look the best I possibly can and I wonder if the best I can currently manage is "obviously balding" or "consciously shaved her head".
What's your opinions on this? Maybe someone in hr can help me out?

>>1040395
Noise machines! They provide constant low level of noise and help me immensely. mynoise.net/ has been tremendous help, as they have noise machines for anyone you can adjust every bit of. They also have an app, but it's limited in choice of noise. There are also commercial noise machines for sale, but I manage just fine with the free mynoise app and sound of waves crashing just fine through the night.

No. 1040409

>>1040323
I'm currently living in a studio after spending the last few years moving from share house to share house. Honestly, you'll save yourself money in the long run if you choose to live by yourself in the studio.

The way i figure this is that you're using less power/water/etc then if you were in a bigger house with others, but also if you get roommates you don't like then you won't be spending much time at home, which means you'll be spending that money somewhere else.

I want to stress that, because if you're like me (an autist) I cannot be truly comfortable around random people, so I'd often stay out late after work, stay at friends houses instead of my own. Transport fees alone take a chunk from that. Living on my own I barely leave the house now, and I've saved a lot of money because of it. The initial costs of moving into a studio (furniture, bond, etc) are worth it when you take into account your overall sanity and comfort in your own home.

No. 1040440

My workplace offers free Python courses, should I go for it? What can Python be used for?

No. 1040447

>>1040014
Thank you, i’ll keep it in mind. They’re not strangers they’re usually friends or people i know so i don’t want to lose them.

No. 1040486

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>>1040404
i know you probably tried many things but have you checked your hormones? thyroid issues can cause hair loss.
i used to be balding but then ketoconazole shampoo (marketed as nizoral) slowed down my hair loss big time. it helps with a certain type of alopecia and in most places it is available without perscription. maybe you can give it a go? the only downside of it is that it smells funky

No. 1040490

>>1040440
Always go for the free education anon, even if you don't have a practical use for it right now, it keeps your mind sharp and shows your current or future employers that you give a fuck

No. 1040505

How are language exams viewed in your country? Are they necessary for certain educational endeavors?

No. 1040509

Is Putin willing to go to war with the US and Europe?

No. 1040516

>>1040509
Definitely not, no one would benefit from a full on world war nowadays, Russia is going for what's an "easy" target, they've done a test run with Crimea and it went smoothly, no other country cared; would be different in case of attacking an EU country though. Fucking sucks to be in Ukraine now though, and Ukr anons around? How are you dealing with this insanity? I can't stop worrying about this, especially reading shit like other countries expecting the "blitzkrieg" type of attack or whatnot. Stay safe please.

No. 1040518

What alternative is there to work according to those 'I do not dream of labour' people?

No. 1040519

What’s worse:
Mom and son having kids
Sister and brother having kids?
this is about cats
I suggested to getting rid of the male altogether to remove the chances of either happening. But I guess we’ll fix them all soon, we’re keeping the male caged and the mama (in heat) in another room, she tried mating with her son
Also I’m leaning more toward mom and son being the worst option

No. 1040520

>>1040518
idk who those people are but i don't have a dream job either because i'm not carreer-oriented and that's not the way i feel fulfilled. my plan was, find a job you feel useful doing, that doesn't harm society too much, and do it part time so that i have time to be at home and do my little projects. it's a good compromise.

No. 1040521

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are Japanese internet users fawning over this boy for being bishonen and looking like one of their anime characters being pedophiliac or innocent?

No. 1040522

>>1040521
probably there are some, Fujos romanticize movies about gay pedophiles stalking teenage boys, so it wouldn't surprise me

No. 1040527

>>1040518
Are you the same tard who sperged about 'I do not dream of labor' people being trust fund babies who think working is beneath them? How do you not get the concept of not having a dream job, are you ESL? Not being a workaholic doesn't mean not working at all, and the solution is for employers to be less shitty so it doesn't suck that much in the first place.

No. 1040536

>>1040521
He literally looks like a bishounen from 90s. Damn

No. 1040538

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>>1040521
Not actively pedophilic for but goes to show how deeply rooted finding children attractive is in their culture; I can't imagine western country fawning so much over a child, it seriously is a bit too much.
I do remember Thylane Blondeau case from 15 years ago (picrel), I guess it was kinda similar, but havent seen anything similar recent years so I'd like to believe at least in the mainstream people realized that praising a child's attractiveness its somehow messed up

No. 1040547

>>1040522
literally where ? when has this happened

No. 1040548

>>1040536
please don't call IRL child a bishounen or whatever
>>1040547
Call me by your name or death in Venice

No. 1040550

>>1040521
Idk but it makes me uneasy

No. 1040562

>>1040521
it's a fucking kid. kind of fucked up, imo. but i'm also very sensitive about stuff like this.

No. 1040596

I'm going to attempt a serious reply as someone who grew up in a similar asian culture, I don't think it's inherently pedophiliac, it's a combination of kids are cute + good looking kid + not being around white people enough, I imagine the average reaction if they were to ever meet this boy irl would be similar to vidrel (skip to 4:49, the woman realizes the boy can speak korean and goes, "Then you must've understood me when I said you were good looking!")
That's not to say it doesn't happen though, >>1040548 mentioned Death in Venice, and you can find info on the child actor's (Björn Andrésen) struggle with being seen and sexualized as a pretty boy, but not by the Japanese, specifically. Here's an excerpt about how his image impacted Japanese Shojo art styles:
>After the release of Death in Venice, Andrésen spent an extended period of time in Japan and appeared in a number of television commercials and also recorded several pop songs. It is said that his appearance as Tadzio in the film influenced many Japanese anime artists (known for their depictions of young, effeminate men known as "Bishōnen"), especially Keiko Takemiya. Andrésen has had a strong liking for Japan since then and has visited the country again over the years. Björn Andrésen's arrival in Tokyo has been described as being similar to the Beatles landing in the U.S. The young actor was met with mass hysteria and received an enormous amount of female attention.
I think it's more of an aesthetics thing (look at this ethereal looking boy!) than a weird pedo thing overall, it's happened in their history.

Also,
>>1040548
>please don't call IRL child a bishounen or whatever
lol what? I agree on not sexualizing children but bishounen literally just means pretty boy. It has no inherent sexual connotations. Go back to twitter if you want to police innocent words.

No. 1040606

>>1040596
okay don't call a fucking 10 year old a "preety boy" then and yeah it does have sexual connotations and its twitter degenerates who are into this shit in the first place

No. 1040610

>>1040606
>yeah it does have sexual connotations
? Explain please. It's not sexual to call a 10 year old a pretty girl, a handsome boy, a cute boy, a cute girl, the list goes on. How's a pretty boy any different? No one called him a sexy boy, idiot.
>twitter degenerates
Yeah there's only one side of twitter and the moralfagging puritan side totally doesn't exist.

No. 1040612

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Is it effective to use head&shoulders as a dish soap? Ran out of these, and since it contains 2 type of sulfates I thought it'd be abrasive enough

No. 1040614

>>1040606
Retard, don't double down because you already look stupid enough

No. 1040621

How do I stop hating on autists?

No. 1040623

>>1040521
Isn't his dad the weirdo that does questionable stuff with him or am I thinking of another one? I can't even keep track anymore.

No. 1040624

How do I relieve knee pain

No. 1040648

>>1040621
I don't think you do. I think you just get used to watching the standard for what constitutes a human being gradually slip lower and lower with every passing year.

We're gonna be fucked if ABA is ever banned tho.

No. 1040650

>>1040621
Have empathy. Majority of autists also have depression. They hate themselves and wish to be normal. They can never form normal relationships with other humans. It's a sad existance.

No. 1040651

>>1033306
In my state I can’t collect disability without working for a year, but I also can’t keep a job with my ocd and ptsd. Can someone please help me and tell me what I can do? Am I doomed?

No. 1040659

>>1040621
Changing your emotions about something isn't a straightforward process, you have to challenge your beliefs. Disliking, being annoyed, and avoiding specific people is normal. Autism has different symptoms and manifests differently in each individual, so generalizing for the most part doesn't make sense. What specific traits or behaviors annoy you? Sympathizing might help; those who are higher needs will always struggle to live on their own which is a tough existence, and those who would be diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome have higher rates of depression and other mental illnesses; a fifth of all people with anorexia are autistic.

No. 1040674

>>1040651
Plenty of people have issues getting disability if they haven't worked, I had the same problem. It helps your case if you've at least tried for job interviews and failed or lost a previous job, it's a better argument for your disability in court. If you want to get your case to go through you'll have to hire a disability attorney that's willing to defend your case (they only get paid if they win your case and take their fee % out of the SSDI packpay you recieve upon approval). The attorney should handle contesting any qualifications you don't fufill like not working for a year before hand, that's what mine did. Unfortunately is near impossible to get SSDI without a third party legal advocate, and it takes a year or two for it to go through.

No. 1040678

>>1040323
If the amount you save on rent would be worth it and you don't have much in savings, seeing if you can live with roommates for another year might be good. I'd go with the assumption you won't make friends or talk much with future roommates if you haven't done so in the past. If the savings are not substantial and you have a financial cushion getting a studio makes sense.

>>1040250
Time and maturing was biggest factor for me. Make time in the day and become comfortable with your body and masturbating. Sexual thoughts and sex are normal parts of life as human beings. Reading from women who dealt with religious abuse or trauma might be helpful, along with accounts from people who left your specific faith and why they stopped believing or on the flip side, why they still do. The effects are similar betweens faiths but experiences slightly differ between Catholics, growing up in Evangelical Purity Culture, etc.

>i feel like some bad things that happen to me are some form of punishment for having those thoughts and not being good enough

Looking up how to deal with intrusive or OCD thoughts could provide some insight. If you don't believe in the religion anymore, then you know these thoughts are a manifestation of guilt and insecurity. When you have them make sure to remind yourself of it, so over time the thoughts have less power. Recovering from religious indoctrination and guilt takes time and compassion towards yourself, wish you the best anon.

No. 1040696

Do high levels of cortisol cause insomnia or the other way around, does a lack of sleep cause the cortisol levels to rise up?

No. 1040709

>>1040696
yes lack of sleep causes insomnia

No. 1040712

>>1040709
anon…

No. 1040713

>>1040674
Thank you for the info it’s really helpful ♥

No. 1040717

Which is colder, Sweden or the French speaking part of Canada?

No. 1040749

>>1040674
Also anon, can you elaborate on the lawyer part, like all the info you submitted, etc? It’s okay if you don’t want to .

No. 1040771

What do French anons think of racist scrote Henry de Lesquen? He's a descendant of a Breton noble family and he goes on rants about how African music is inherently sexual, including rock and roll (which he considers African),and should be banned from Europe. He also thinks slavery should be re-introduced and he despises race mixing (despite slavery and colonization of African people ironically promoting the most race mixing between African and European people kek). I've only seen one anon mention him on here ever and it was someone who quickly got banned (the title was something like French racists are worse than American racists and thats why they hate France or something)

No. 1040777

>>1040771
he looks like a wax figure. not hot.

No. 1040793

>>1040717
You know the answer.

No. 1040811

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Should I buy these cardigans nonnies? Both are 100% cashmere, left is $100 and right is $80. I want something soft and warm but I worry about taking care of them. Also I have no idea what's a good price for cashmere lol

No. 1040816

>>1040811
i think $100 is about right for cashmere! go nuts nona!

No. 1040830

>>1040811
Depends, where are they made? If they're both 100% then look at the craftsmanship, check the stitching, etc.

No. 1040835

>>1040816
Thanks nona!

>>1040830
It's from an online shop so I can't check the craftsmanship but it's apparently Mongolian cashmere and made in Mongolia.

No. 1040847

>>1040793
Canada…? I wasn't sure

No. 1040879

Do you think it's true in general that people who did not have to make effort to get things (apartment, car, etc) appreciate them less than the people who had to work for them?

No. 1040882

>>1040811
They are very pretty, go for them!!

No. 1040918

I wonder how much feminism would exist if the axis had won the second world war

No. 1040940

How did Russian and some other EE women get associated with sex work in different countries? Is it bc of the fallouts of the collapse of Communism?

No. 1040955

>>1040940
mostly becouse of trafficking i guess, but also the fact that many ee women do actually work this way overseas

No. 1040972

>>1040940
it's naned poverty. Poverty=abuse=mental illness=sex work

No. 1040975

Is there any way to get my hands on adobe programs for free?

No. 1040986

>>1040975
try rutracker

No. 1040994

>>1040940
Because men wanted to further bastardize another group of lower class and impoverished women. Everything other than that base fact is fetishism. It doesn't help that instead of helping them that they're trafficked around the world until they are riddled in STDs and other physical and mental health problems. Instead mostly American men push this agenda that they have no emotions, are always sexually available, and will abandon their country and morals for a very ugly man that makes 45k a year.

No. 1040996

Anons who travel(/led) solo, what are some countries where you felt safe and what are some where you didn't?

No. 1041012

>>1040940
I live in turkey and Russian women are considered as whores here. Why? Because our retarded men trafficked, abused and raped them since those women couldn't defend themselves and had more often than not, horrible economic and social statuses. Even nowadays Russian women are seen like that here and when I try to debate with a turk moid, he tells me I'm jealous because bringing up abuse those women faced ruins their sexual fantasies.
There are sayings like Russian women would even marry apes, sleep with anyone for a bag, etc. Which are absolutely disgusting when you consider what those women went through. Sorry for the sperg and to anyone reading this, don't date turkish men, that's how all of them think.

No. 1041018

>>1040940
A lot of people from EE wanted to find a better life in the west and in case of women they were very often trafficked; offered a decent job and getting trapped in a brothel once they arrived etc
Nowadays some EE woman try to escape poverty scamming western dumbasses on cams; but even in camgirl industry a lot of these women are there not because they want to but because they were in this or other way forced to work like that.

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No. 1041027

>>1041021
I'm the turkish anon and this is true, this whole exchange made my blood boil but most of our women are aware of how our men are although the men are very much in denial.
Also all turkish men have a foreigner fetish because they think they'll be able to abuse those women and get away with it easier since they don't have a father or brother around. Especially Russian or Eastern European looking women, don't ever trust turkish men, ever.

No. 1041030

>>1041018
I hope all the men that want to take advantage of these girls get scammed honestly. That's what they deserve.

No. 1041038

>>1041021
Well this was a horrifying read.

No. 1041041

>>1041021
Was there a documentary about this or something very similar? I remember watching an interview with a woman that was sold by a family friend and went abroad thinking she will be helping sell clothes.

No. 1041044

>>1041018
Eastern Eu is also full of sex trafficking in the camming industry and a lot of women become evil. They become sex traffickers. I know two girls that are involved with a camming sex trafficking ring and they go to the mental hospital to groom mentally ill girls to be cangirls. They are female pimps. I hate that even Eastern Eu women turn into pimps. Pimp Eastern eu women should fucking die. They help scrotes traffick women to western eu for prostitution or they run camming studios. There's a special place in hell for them

No. 1041047

>>1041044
In my country there's a reality tv about "people who took matters into their own hands and became rich, now living colorful, eccentric lives" and one of people there is a woman who became rich trafficking other women, she was even in jail for it. And now she's famous and people make funny memes with her, she's invited for fancy galas and all the shit. I hate it so much

No. 1041049

>>1041044
What decade did this issue start getting really bad?

No. 1041059

>>1041047
>>1041049
I don't know. It's very recent and it started once camming websites became a thing. I was sex trafficked out of the mental hospital by a BPD female pimp and I know a Ukrainian BPD female pimp that makes a lot of money on a camming website. She is very popular but she self admits at the mental hospital and traps barely 18 year old girls to work in her and her boyfriend's camming studio. I posted here on here but people told me I was jealous. She's a sex trafficker but not like onlyfans girls, she actually goes to the mental hospital and talks to very mentally ill girls and offers them a "new future". In Ukraine camming is illegal but in Romania it is legal so some of the women become pimps and run camming studios and strategically send other female employees or go to the mental hospital themselves to groom girls or even at the college dorm

No. 1041062

>>1041059
Not surprised some freaks on here said you were "jealous" because unfortunately there's a disgusting subset of posters on female majority internet sites where they consider themselves aspiring sex workers/sugar babies and viciously attack anyone who shatters their idealization.
Are there any talks of laws being placed against it or any moral outrage whatsoever or does the mainstream society just ignore it?

No. 1041074

>>1041059
I actually think they might be NPD. They self harm but they take advantage of people and do anything to make money and hurt anyone in the process of climbing to the top. It's something very sociopathic. It's sad women are sex traffickers too in Eastern Europe and nobody faces them with anything and they are even seen as empowering and female bosses. They are not the same as western onlyfans thots. They are incredibly sociopathic and it is almost like they are part of a cult. They go to mental hospitals/dorms and specifically choose poorer girls and then they pursue them with lies, they pretend like they are their friend and so on everything to get them stuck at the studio.
>>1041062
I posted her on lolcow but people told me I was being jealous or insane or vendetta fagging because I used to be a camgirl and I do have receipts but for a westerner or someone that has no idea how things work it might seem like I am insane, but everything I said about that person is true. Her sugar daddy, boyfriend and camming studio co owner also came to the camgirls thread to tell me I am jealous because she is competition. I am not even a camgirl anymore and I don't care about that industry since it is evil and in Eastern Eu it doesnt work like in western countries. In Eastern Eu you have camming studios and sex trafficking. In western countries girls actually become independent camgirls. Mainstream society thinks it is based and the scrotes encourage it and if you actually speak the truth like I do ppl will call you insane, schizo or jealous. Sad and miserable world we live in.

No. 1041075

>>1041062
I know her full real name and I reported her to the Ukrainian authorities but her and her boyfriend are rich already so they are bribing the authorities. Being a camgirl is illegal over there. She's also been threatening me for years but I don't care because she's an empty shell of a human being and she will be punished and we all end up in the grave no matter how much money we make and before I die I will die with a clean consciousness knowing I did my best at living a honest life and not hurting others

No. 1041081

>>1041074
>Mainstream society thinks it is based and the scrotes encourage it and if you actually speak the truth like I do ppl will call you insane, schizo or jealous. Sad and miserable world we live in.

So this society also encourages lawlessness, hatred for fellow humans, and disgusting treatment under the guise of empowerment like Western countries do. is Ukraine atheist or massively secular?

No. 1041086

>>1041075
Keep speaking your side even if they call you schizo, on the internet people are eager to dismiss you just to "dunk on" someone

No. 1041095

>>1041047
oh is it that girl with the spider-lashes that was on x-factor years ago???

No. 1041096

>>1041081
I'm not Ukrainian, I am Romanian. I think culturally Ukraine is exactly like Romania. Traditional and religious. Most parents here give their children a very religious and ethical upbringing but a lot of young people turn atheists or with more western values. Eastern Europe is still not as plagued as western world with shit values. We dont have trannies but soon it will turn like that over here too. What's crazy is that this girl is 26 and still continuing to do the fucked up shit she's been doing since she was 23. I personally knew her. I know her town and her real name. I don't have a problem with the fact that she works as a camgirl but the fact that she runs a camming studio with her 50 year old "daddy" makes me sick to my stomach and that she goes to the mental hospital to get fresh meat for her daddy's studio makes me fucking sick. She's also convinced I am opposing her because I am ridden in jealousy which is delusional. I am objectively better than her even physically so you couldn't say I am jealous for being uglier etc. I could have made a lot of money too but I didn't get naked on cam and I dipped pretty quickly since I didnt actually want to be doing that and I dont like the thought of hundreds of strangers masturbating to my body

No. 1041099

>>1041096
Good luck Romania anon, you deserve it because you had a truly difficult life. May the evil bitch that trafficked you and other young girls get her comeuppance one day.

No. 1041101

>>1041096
dont get me wrong i empathize with you….but are you ban evading?

No. 1041119

It's fucked up and someone should make a documentary about it. Eastern Eu sex workers are not like western eu thots. I am speaking about camgirls. 90% of them are text book sex trafficking victims that get trafficked by cult like studios and some of them are even underaged because the websites don't check faked IDs very well and there are literally 2 major camming websites chaturbate and myfreecams. Myfreecams has the most sex trafficked eastern eu models and the scrote that runs it is the same scrote that runs Onlyfans. There's probably been hundreds of underaged eastern eu models working on there. I fucking hate scrotes, they support that shitty outdated website with so much money and they are so delusional. Men should not be allowed to own more than they need for rent, food and utilities because they use their money to support the sickest industries because they are delusional and they think they might have a chance at being with a random woman from another country if they throw a couple of coins at her. Why are they so irrational? The rational gender my ass.

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>>1041095
No, it's picrel, polish reality tv. But it's sickening to know there's more traffickers seeking fame

>>1041119
There's plenty documentaries and books about the issue. Something that annoys me to no end is that young lefty feminists have picked up western "sex positive" mentality and every time someone tries to speak up about the abuse women forced into sex work have to endure, they're called swerfs and there's zero space for having this kind of discussion online without getting immediately shunned and "cancelled".

No. 1041141

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I didn't know who to ask but a meme blog posted this and I'm kind of frightened, does c** stand for some kind of pedo thing?

No. 1041155

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I feel like it was asked in the help me find thread, but is there a name for this cartoon art style you'd typically find in the 90s? Solid colors, thick outlines, characters rarely had eye whites. Daria was probably the most popular example.
Sorry to include sexual stuff but this music video by E-Rotic was one of the best examples I could find.

No. 1041164

>>1041155
Are you thinking of Mission Hill nona
Cause that’s what I can think of, when thinking of similar style in the late 90’s early 00’s

No. 1041166

>>1041021
Those poor women. Moids and their handmaidens are a cancer on this earth.

No. 1041167

>>1041141
Does it stand for children? Like children shows? Idk its kinda out of context nonnie

No. 1041170

>>1041164
nta but I wish I could give you a hug and money for mentioning Mission Hill. What a damn good show

No. 1041172

>>1041021
>i was 18
So heartbreaking

No. 1041184

>>1041167
There really is no context in the post, i was thinking it stood for "cunny" but idk

No. 1041190

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What is a bag with multiple straps called. So it is able to be worn as backpack, but also have strap on top to be sling or underarm purse.

Convertible. Is that it? It's not giving me results. Maybe I am too picky. Or dumb.

No. 1041194

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>>1041155
I don’t think the art style has any specific name but it’s probably inspired by earlier comics like archie with the bright and strange colors, cartoony and campy look and thick ink outlines. I feel like such a sperg for typing this lol

No. 1041199

>>1041172
Hmmmmm…

No. 1041208

>>1041164
AYRT, yes Mission Hill could be another example, though the eyes are different. I just wanted to know if there was a particular name for this style or """"aesthetic""", not looking for a particular show

No. 1041223

>>1041208
There is no specific style stop being retarded I literally answered it for you, you literally have a microwaved brain nothing going in there

No. 1041226

>>1041155
I remeber watching a video recently of some creator commentary done by the people who animated mission hill. They talked about how they used florescent colours that look better in print, rather than on TV, and that because it was one of the last hand-painted/drawn animated shows, they were able to use such unique colours. Idk if I can find the video though

No. 1041236

>>1041155
>>1041208
Look into "70s cartoon art style", also I found someone asking similar question on reddit, maybe you'll find more clues and directions where to look for more https://www.reddit.com/r/ArtHistory/comments/9yldk1/whats_the_name_of_this_60s_and_70s_graphic_design/

No. 1041266

>>1041223
AYRT calm down lol I was just correcting this anon in particular cuz it seemed like she misread what I said. You seem unhinged

No. 1041282

>>1041223
The fuck?

No. 1041289

>>1041223
>I literally answered it for you
Except you didn't

No. 1041425

What's an appropriate price for secondhand luxury goods? I was looking for cashmere sweaters on secondhand sites and found a burberry cardigan on one of them. The seller has it up for like $250 but it's got quite a bit of pilling all around and even a small hole on the back. Is that too much, even considering ~*~*the brand*~*~? They have it originally listed for like $400 but have it on sale right now but I wonder if it's worth haggling down a little more or if that would just be rude…

No. 1041435

>>1041425
the pilling wouldn't necessarily be a dealbreaker for that price but with the hole it's too much. just assess each item on a case by case basis. if you want it enough, it'll be worth it. take into conside4ration the quality and rarity of the item too when determining the cost you'd pay

No. 1041438

Will the farmhands permaban me if I ask? I don't want to use this website anymore(anytime)

No. 1041440

>>1041438
before you go… Can I ask why?

No. 1041441

>>1041438
No idea if they were actually banned, but I've seen several posts asking for it and then getting the USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE redtext. I haven't seen this redtext in a while, now that I think about it. What happened?

No. 1041444

>>1041440
>>1041441
I love the female-only community and I'm grateful that LC exists in general, but it's taking up too much of my mental real estate. Last night I dreamt about Lucinda and I don't even read her thread. It's time to pull the plug.

No. 1041451

>>1041444
just use opendns

No. 1041459

>>1041425
No joke, look up how to sew/stitch by hand to make the hole go away, if possible. Plenty of sewing hacks on the web. You said the hole is small, so depending where it's located exactly and just how small it is, maybe it will work . At worst you have learnt some hacks to use maybe another time. Also, I would ask if perhaps there are other flaws not mentioned. Though I have not personally used second hand luxury brands sites, so I'm sorry if this doesn't help!!

No. 1041463

>>1041451
Never heard of this before. Thank you!

No. 1041466

>>1041438
Once I asked for a ban and posted porn for good measure and all the farmhand did was spoiler the image for me. You're here forever anon

No. 1041470

>>1041438
Years ago, before I moved city, I got perma banned for sperging on the kpop thread. Mods became more lenient maybe?

No. 1041489

Has there ever been such a crazy mass hysteria like the troons before? Something that took society by storm in the same way? I don't know how to word things rn I'm high sorry anons

No. 1041497

>>1041489
Beatlemania? Lisztomania?

No. 1041505

>>1041489
I wouldn't call it hysteria, it's a very niche/online thing with a vocal minority of supporters and a rich minority of backers. But no other social justice movement compares, trannies only got this far by riding the coattails of gay rights, feminism, etc. They drummed up all this crazy support within an extremely short time because people were already supportive of other civil rights and TRAs linked them together to take advantage. And, being spearheaded by men, they already had the power and authority and money. It took other groups much longer with more backlash because they started from scratch and faced genuine oppression.

No. 1041516

>>1041184
i've only seen that word used by /tv/ pedos on 4chan

No. 1041529

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>>1041435
>>1041459
Thank you for the replies nonas! The hole is pretty small (picrel) and I don't mind it since I can and like to mend my clothes anyway, but I still think $200+ is still steep for a single cardigan… I know there's brand and material to consider but damn for that price… I'm trying to only buy natural fibers from here on out and I know wool/cashmere is pricey to begin with lol. It sucks because I do think this cardigan is cute! But is it $200 cute? is the real question hmm… I'll sleep on it for a bit!

No. 1041543

>>1041529
If it helps, the specific type of mending you would be doing is called "darning". You just isolate the unaffected stitches and lock them together over the hole, sorta. Tons of easy tutorials online! I love mending. Visible mending is kinda cool too, but not everyones cup of tea. Certainly not mine but worth a mention

No. 1041590

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do i put hair color conditioner in before or after shampoo

No. 1041600


No. 1041601

>>1041590
I’ve read of people putting it before if they were after volume

No. 1041624

>>1040749
late reply but it was a while ago, i know you need your birth certificate, ssn and medical records that prove your disability, might also need all of your work history but I don't know about that part since I didn't work tho. good luck nonnies

No. 1041628

>>1040749
also adding I never went to a court or anything, i would occasionally visit my attorney to discuss what stage my case was at to give him more info or proof he needed. I was also tested by a state designated doctor on my physical disability, as well as gauged on any mental disabilities at another office through a private exam. by the end of it I had an online hearing at the attorneys office and a judge or w.e determined my disability status during that hearing. It's a tedious and sometimes stressful process, but living comfortably with ssdi made the hassle worth it.

No. 1041728

Can you contract Std/Stis from just your hands?

No. 1041738

>>1041728
samefag did you wash them hands. if not probably. bacteria and viruses are fucked to hell and back no one believed they existed until recently and theyd make fun of all the nerds who told them little crazies exist. theyre little guys who exist soley to cause you problems. i learned this recently. get some kind of test maybe if you are worried.

No. 1041740

>>1041738
excuse me

No. 1041741

>>1041740
yeah whats up.

No. 1041750

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>>1041738
>i learned this recently.
Welcome to the 21st century, enjoy your stay.

No. 1041756

>>1041728
>>1041738
I'm basically asking this because I want to know if I could get anything having lesbian sex with random women if it would risky just using hands. We would wash our hands after and wouldn't be sticking them in any other orifices.

No. 1041772

>>1040518
"I don't dream of labour" doesn't mean that you dream of not working, it means that labour and work isn't important to you. We know we have to work to keep ourselves clothed, bathed and fed but it's a means to an end rather than being a person who's aspirations are centred around a career. It's usually said in response to the phrase "what do you want to be when you grow up?" which always implies work, rather than happiness, creativity, stability.

No. 1041784

>>1041756
NTAYRT But then no. If you're washing your hands, and your hands don't have any open wounds on them, you will be fine. "hand stuff" is really the best kind of sex to have with someone to prevent the spread of STDs

No. 1041792

Is this weird? I have this “friend” and I don’t understand her. She used to spend time with me, invite me to outings, introduced me to all her friends, told me I’m part of the “girl club” now, talked to me about her abusive mom and crazy dad and showed me family pictures, and told me all about her boyfriend. All of this within the span of a week or two.

I know two things: people who like you, and people who tell you to fuck off. And her I can’t pin down. She stopped talking to me, and started ignoring my texts. I wouldn’t even talk to her, I’d just check up on her and send her internship applications and be like, “Hey, I think you’d be great for this!”A week ago she randomly texted me and told me to wait for her outside a place because she needed a mask, and I always have extra ones on me. I was late for something but I waited anyways and gave it to her. After I was done I called to check on her and she said she already went home. This is like the 100th time she does something weird like this and I’m not sure if I’m being retarded and she doesn’t like me or what. Is this like something people do all the time?

No. 1041807

>>1041792
I don't think she's your friend, anon. You can try asking her if something is up, but going from sharing everything with you one week to ignoring you the next for no apparent reason isn't normal.

No. 1041834

>>1041792
It sounds like she just platonically lovebombed you so you'd be all buttered up and willing to do her favors on demand thinking she was your pal. Stop being her lackey and providing things she needs at the drop of a hat, especially to your own deteriment. Just ghost her, people like that are users and you're not her slave.

No. 1041847

Does anyone have a side hustle? What is it and how much work is it?

No. 1041883

>>1041792
One of two cases. First she either lovebombed you so she can use you afterwards, second someone told her something bad about you or she got new friends so she dropped you

No. 1041941

>>1041529
Sewing advice anon here. If you're not sure, then don't buy it. Either buy something new, non-luxury, if you can find a non synthetic one that you like, or save those 200 bucks for something you will not mind spending that much money on.

No. 1041967

So I brush my teeth 2-3 times a day, and a few hours ago I brushed my teeth thinking I was gonna be going to bed soon but then I realized I hadn't eaten since lunch and I was too hungry to sleep so I went and got a bagel, and normally I would go brush my teeth again before sleeping because I'm terrified of ruining them, but I am so unbelievably comfy in bed right now. I probably need to just suck it up and go brush them again, right?

No. 1041969

>>1041967
I'd say just swish with mouthwash

No. 1041975

>>1041967
Just go to bed, not brushing once isnt gonna hurt you.

No. 1042016

>>1041969
>>1041975
thank you for your advice gals, I did end up brushing them again though lol

No. 1042050

What are your favourite art accounts on instagram that have less than 300 followers? I love finding small art accounts. Reminds me of being in a small town. Instagram's algorithm no longer suggests small accounts, only ones that are already established in the discovery tag. I'm having a hard time branching out and finding new ones besides going through people's followings, which is tedious

No. 1042061

Where can I download Windows 10? I don't trust TPB anymore, their torrents nowadays look really suspicious

No. 1042070

What does "don't pozload my neghole" mean? My phone isn't working for search engines for some reason right now and keeps crashing

No. 1042111

>>1042061
If you want a legit version you can buy a windows 7 or 8 key for cheap on EBay and then once you install it update to windows 10 for free.

No. 1042132

>>1041792
maybe she was lonely or in a fight with other friends, now that shit is back to normal she decided to keep in contact only to use her. if you're feeling like a real jerk use what she told you against her, if not stop helping her and stop contacting. haven't you known her for less than a month?

No. 1042135

>>1041756
You could try using latex gloves with lube (the lube has to be latex friendly). Apparently feels better than just hand skin (both on/in vagina, and on penis). Though I understand wanting real contact…then again, if you're having sex with random women and not a long time girlfriend, maybe it's better to be on the safe side. Wash your hands beforehand, too. Happy playtime, anon!

No. 1042182

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Are you supposed to heat the food in the bento boxes or are you supposed to eat the food cold? Most bentos are made of plastic so I don’t know.

No. 1042227

Are most people on hard drugs (heroin, meth, etc) nowadays? It seems like it could be my area too but I keep running across people and stories of people who are mutuals with my friends doing hard drugs. I'm unwilling to socialize. I'm paranoid around junkies. Am I in a disproportionately drug addled area or is this how it is?

No. 1042237

>>1041543
Good to know, thank you! I've heard about darning for socks so I definitely want to learn how to do it!

>>1041941
Thanks nona! After staring at Burberry clothing tags for hours I've come to the conclusion that this cardigan might not be authentic, so not worth the splurge in the first place. I'll continue looking!

No. 1042238

>>1042182
They’re intended to be eaten cold/room temp. Insulated bento boxes exist but aren’t in common use.

No. 1042242

>>1042227
It’s probably some combination of your area and your friend group. I don’t know anyone who does drugs.

No. 1042261

Has the new admin taken over and formally introduced herself yet?

No. 1042267

>>1042261
IDK if she took over but n introduction from the shaydmin has been seen

No. 1042269

Can I rub one out before my pap smear? Its in 3 hours

No. 1042272


No. 1042288

>>1042267
Where was that?

No. 1042323

>>1042269
Are you about to bruise up your cervix or something?

No. 1042439

Am I the only one who assumes that most people who use this website are pretty

No. 1042449

Are there any brands that are worth it anymore? Not just apparel, it could be for anything, like appliances or whatever. I always hear a lot of "not as good as it used to be", but are there brands for anything that people swear by after all these years where even their newly made stuff is well made and made to last?

No. 1042451


No. 1042461

>>1042439
I do too! But when I come across self-descriptions that reminds me that probably isn't true

No. 1042471

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This question is pure autism but who cares: do you experience anxiety when you have the shits or a really bad stomachache? Whenever I have pain in any part of my body I experience it normally, but when it comes to painful digestive issues I border on having a panic attack. Even if I'm just chilling alone in the safety of my house with my own bathroom.

No. 1042472

Is it possible for a phone number to be hacked? I've been losing phone credit for no reason (and no it's not spending on cellular data either), my phone number was blocked on whatsapp even though I barely used it and certainly didn't do anything suspicious, and recently someone tried to login into my instagram account from the USA, I live in Europe and I don't know anyone from the USA. But I've had no other problems on my phone, no suspicious programs, no unexplained phone calls or messages, it's only been running a bit slow. I have to replace my phone soon anyway but I'm trying to factory reset it now but I wonder what's going on

No. 1042475

>>1042471
sometimes taking a shit makes my anxiety go down

No. 1042483

>>1042471
Taking a shit is a constant source of anxiety for me. Got a lil bit better now I don't get constipated so much

No. 1042496

anybody else's discord shidding n farding tonight?

No. 1042500

>>1042496
was just about to post something similar nonnie, it won't show me shit

No. 1042513

>>1042070
if serious q: this is bugchasing lingo (dudes who fetishize and get/spread HIV on purpose)

No. 1042523

>>1042070
If serious: poz means HIV positive, neg means HIV negative. It's used in primarily gay, bugchasing fetish communities where pozzing means to give someone HIV.

No. 1042529

>>1042439
I assume most are overweight burgers or ana-chans who are average but mentally unstable.

No. 1042543

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>>1042439
You're correct, and you are among us pretties nonny

No. 1042567

>>1042439
No because whenever anons post themselves they honestly look great. Even just seeing certain features you can tell they're pretty

No. 1042575

>>1040216
was talking about maddy. i sat through the first season since a friend kept asking me to. the "subtext" in it is extremely surface level and easy to grasp, like baby's first film class. fincher-lite shit and i don't even like fincher like that. levinson clearly wishes he was cassavetes or coppola wrt his filmmaking but he's just not that creatively interesting or intelligent

No. 1042645

>>1042439
Nah, I assume this place attracts wannabe e-celebs who want to bitch about their competition, and weebs who are into Japanese fashion, cosplay, etc. Both those subcultures put a high value on looks so it's likely they're at least above average.

No. 1042691

Where/how can I find a handsome guy with low self-esteem?

No. 1042702

>>1042691
what for? the lower the self esteem the more likely he is to cheat, especially if he's not completely repulsive
also I don't think men like this exist

No. 1042985

i kind of want to watch this video but idk it seems kind of retarded from the intro
what i do anons?

No. 1042993

>>1040612
You probably already bought new dish soap but vinegar and/or baking soda works in a pinch. Don't use soap meant for the body/hair unless you want slightly greasy, perfumey dishes.

No. 1043004

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Why do dictators always wear this outfit? It’s ugly af and makes them look like poorfags. Just wear a suit and tie

No. 1043009

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>>1043004
Suit and tie is a symbol of western imperialism, American piggu

No. 1043038

>>1041030
Don't be stupid. Those men don't deserve to "get scammed", losing money doesn't compare to losing your humanity. Those men DESERVE to get anally raped with a baseball bat with rusty nails.

No. 1043048

>>1043004
Im sure the dictators on lc will appreciate your advice

No. 1043050

>>1043038
blahblah ok righteousindignationchan, it's the least of what they deserve. everyone already agrees.

No. 1043065

>>1043009
>picrel
kek

No. 1043091

>>1033306
Why do people get mad in the confession thread? Like your mad people used the space to speak honestly? Fuck what’s the point.

No. 1043094

>>1043091
>what's the point
same, i don't get it neither

No. 1043105

How the hell are you supposed to go to therapy if you work 8-5 for five days a week, and most counseling centers are only open 9-5 and closed on weekends? I know I need to see someone for my depression because it’s affecting my health worse and worse, but they are closed before I even get off work

No. 1043107

How much do people make for putting videos on Rumble (like per video/overall)? Does length matter for videos?

No. 1043119

Why is Youtube recommending Aaliyah to me so hard recently? i genuinely don't know why. I listen to punk/grunge/indie music, didn't even listen anything Aaliyah on my account nor any hiphop/r'n'b/whatever. and yet it's violently shilling old Aaliyah interviews, wth is going on. I find it amusing how dedicated YT is in that endeavour, i almost feel i should watch these videos kek

No. 1043121

does anyone else feel moodier after taking a nap, and more chill when you're tired

No. 1043123

>>1043105
You take a sick day from work.

No. 1043167

>>1043105
There are some therapists that have weekend availability for that reason. I have a therapist on better help that does Saturdays with me, and when I was younger I had one that would see me Saturday mornings. I think you're more likely to find that with private practices vs dedicated counseling centers with multiple therapists. Also I've seen therapists, who were affiliated with counseling centers, who saw me later in the evening. You just gotta look.

>>1043123
Not really possible if you wanna do it weekly

No. 1043223

Does anyone remember that website from the mid-late 2000s/ Livejournal era that was just lists? Kind of a social media/microblogging platform that was just lists of peoples' favorite foods, films, smells, etc. It was called something like Listopia or something with "list" in the title, obviously. Can anyone help me out? I really wanna remember, because it was cute and I hope it's still up.

No. 1043225

>>1042702
>>1042691
Why doesn’t the “obscured beauty” trope exist for men? I want a guy who doesn’t know how hor he really is and who is actually happy and grateful when people are nice to him, instead of demanding that everyone bows to Lord Hot-Stuff.

No. 1043230

>>1043225
This happens in the otome game 7'scarlet kek.

No. 1043234

>>1043230
This only reinforces my point. The kind of fantasies men can only realize in video games are things like riding dragons and shooting kightning out of your dick. The kind of unimaginable, super natural, far removed from reality, breathtaking fantasy that women can only get in video games is “a man who isn’t complete garbage”.

No. 1043240

>>1043234
What? There's plenty of fantasy dragon-riding video games women can enjoy. There's also a lot of otome VNs with different scenarios. Google is free

No. 1043243

>>1043240
I was joking Nonna

No. 1043249

>>1043243
Uh, make it more clear next time my dearest nona

No. 1043254

Is it normal that suddenly all text is italicized on Youtube? Was this a planned change or some sortof bug?

No. 1043255

>>1043249
I shall do no such thing.

No. 1043271

>>1043254
you have an italian virus

No. 1043287

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>>1043240
anon… may you perhaps… a Drakengard 3 fan?

No. 1043337

How do you use lolcow properly?

On desktop it doesn't show me where the new posts start and doesn't notify me of replies, so I bet I missed people responding to my posts because I simply can't see them. Is there a plugin or something that adds that functionality?

Is there a mobile app like KurobaEx for lolcow? My phone is pretty old and doesn't cope with how lolcow works at all. I also suspect it redownloads the entire thread every time I switch to it.

No. 1043363

>>1043337
I'm more surprised that LC has notification since I just keep a mental note of which threads to go to, and that's pretty much it.

No. 1043373

>>1043337
You can just look at your post and it shows you the replies

No. 1043390

>>1043287
NTA but I soon may become one. Playing Drakengard right now and honestly what a ride that constant stream of failure and misery is

No. 1043414

>>1043373
I'd have to remember what I posted so I can ctrl F, and I'd need to do that occasionally until the thread dies because sometimes people reply a day or more later.

I installed dollchan now. I remember it not working well with lolcow, but I'll see how it goes.

No. 1043446

>>1040696
Cortisol causes insomnia. I gave up keto in less than a week because of that.

No. 1043452

File: 1643287257707.jpeg (136.13 KB, 514x721, 0AB50B5F-CE1D-4BE6-9BBE-0338C1…)

Any crafty anons here? I want to learn how to make earrings like picrel. I know, crawl before you walk and all that, but where do I start? Metal earrings seem a bit tricky to start with. I looked online and I found out about precious metal clay but I don’t think that’s how you do it.

No. 1043453

>>1043452
Earrings like this are usually made of separate pieces and then assembled by artists, anon. I don't think any independent earring maker is making such intricate pieces by hand, it would require pouring metal into molds. I knew a girl who would order different beads, findings and pieces like those little swords in your picrel and she would assemble them herself in her own patterns and arrangements. I'm sure you could find manufacturers who could make custom pieces for you if you wanted to design pieces like this.

No. 1043454

if I have a headache from not getting enough sleep is coffee going to make it better or worse?

No. 1043455

>>1043452
Samefag but I recommend playing with polymer clay and try making some earrings with that, experimenting with silicone molds, learning about how to play with wire, etc.

No. 1043458

Whats the cheapest way to moisturize my wooden spoons

No. 1043461

>>1043458
Flax seed oil or olive oil

No. 1043466

>>1043453
>>1043455
Thanks, I’ll look into that. I actually found an online business that has these earrings but it’s too expensive for me now.

No. 1043489

>>1043454
drink coffee for energy, curb caffeine headache with lots of water. remember to eat light things

No. 1043491

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>>1043455
Seconding the wire

No. 1043509

Is it a bad idea to download a 120gb file on my laptop? I have 700gb room left on my laptop. It's something I need for uni, the instructions say to put the files on an external hard drive but I don't have one. I would be using it for just a few days and delete it again.

No. 1043514

>>1043509
That should be fine.

No. 1043516

Can someone explain why Afterpay/Pay in 4 are bad? I saw someone bitch about “financial literacy” in a thread in /snow/ but I don’t see the harm in interest-free payments as long as you don’t impulse buy and it’s still within your budget.

No. 1043521

>>1043516
Maybe because it incites you into non essential purchases ?

No. 1043526

>>1043516
> and it’s still within your budget.

If it’s within your budget you can just pay for it immediately. The only reason afterpay would be useful if you literally didn’t have the money to buy what it is you’re shopping for.

No. 1043531

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>>1043516
Is this what you're referencing or are there other cows who are scraping by like this?

No. 1043532

>>1043516
Personally, I think it's frivolous to use afterpay/pay in 4 for "small" items. I don't even earn that much (minimum wage) but I always buy things with the belief that if I cannot afford this item/haul, then maybe I shouldn't be buying it at all. I see afterpay a lot for a lot of non-necessities, which is why I believe if you can't afford it all at once, then don't buy it. I think it can encourage unhealthy spending habits and overconsumption and preys on people who tend to impulse buy and fool them into thinking they are well within their budget. Well I'm only paying $25 a month on this haul so I have more money to spend elsewhere! And it repeats.

Maybe there's a time and a place for it to be useful, especially for those living paying to paycheck, but I don't like it. I don't see the point in installment loans for anything short of a car, or student loans. Maybe for big home appliances like a fridge/stove/laundry machines… but even then I'd hesitate. I want to buy things outright.

No. 1043533

This might be really stupid but idk. If you add milk to coffee or tea, does it (the milk) lose some of its nutritional value? I don't mean the calories, I mean like vitamins and proteins. Will the heat of the boiling water affect it? Like how cooking vegetables too long reduces the amount of vitamins?

No. 1043539

>>1043533
This isn’t a stupid question but it’s also something you can just google.

No. 1043547

>>1043533
Adding milk to tea or coffee isn't going to affect the nutritional value. That can only start to happen when you actively boil milk for longer than 15 minutes. As far as I'm aware, while heat does damage some of the nutrients when you cook vegetables, the main reason why cooked vegetables have less vitamins is that you aren't also drinking the water you cooked them in. And apparently frying vegetables makes them lose more nutrients than boiling them anyway.

No. 1043591

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What is "lana" in wool? I found a sweater and the fabric tag says its "75% lana, 25% angora". I keep seeing online that lana is a wool blend of half wool and half acrylic, but why wouldn't they just list that it's acylic and wool? Or is it another type of wool?

No. 1043605

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Is rose gold out of trend/considered tacky now? I needed to get a new laptop and I opted to get a new rose gold one instead of a refurbished one because I love the idea of having a ~pink~ computer.

No. 1043608

>>1043605
who cares, buy the damn thing

No. 1043612

>>1043591
Im crying from laughing so hardd

No. 1043616

>>1043605
Get it if you think it's pretty. Things go in and out of trend constantly, it's not worth the trouble keeping up with it especially when it's stuff you want to use for a long time like a laptop.

No. 1043621

>>1043605
Rose gold can be pretty, but if picrel is what you got it’s tacky as hell

No. 1043711

>>1043605
Sorry but yes

No. 1043724

where and what should i look up to find someone who makes custom doll clothes?

No. 1043728

>>1043724
Specialized forums or etsy are probably your best bet.

No. 1043738

>>1043724
"(Doll name/size range) custom clothing commissions" Most artisans who make clothes for dolls stay within the size ranges that they own. Which may be a wide range of sizes or very limited. So you want to know about how big your doll is and comparable sized dolls. They should be able to make adjustments if you provide measurements of course. But best to find someone who works in that size range. Since working on big dolls vs tiny dolls require different skills and materials. Some can do it all but others can't.

No. 1043803

>>1043605
I don't know why anons are shitting on you, just do what you want. Looks fine to me, could be puke green if you wanted and still shouldn't matter. It's not like you have to coordinate technology with your wardrobe or skin tone.

No. 1043851

Does not peeing when I'm cold keep me warmer? I'm imagining my bladder to be some internal 37°C hot water bottle.

No. 1043855

>>1043851
the body heats the piss, the piss doesn't heat the body. if anything wouldn't the piss be a heat sink

No. 1043875

File: 1643312363286.jpg (185.65 KB, 794x1059, uggsies.jpg)

why are uggs not consiedered to be a designer brand? they are pricey as heck

No. 1043881

>>1043875
because they are uggly duh

No. 1043896

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>>1043881
there are plenty of ugly ass designer clothes out there. picrel is balenciaga

No. 1043901

>>1043896
Idk, I kind of love it, you put it on a cool girl and we'll go on a movie date and hide snacks from the dollar store in her many many pockets because I'm not about to pay 15 dollars for popcorn and m&ms

No. 1043904

>>1043875
I feel like Uggs are a pretty normal price for decent shoes. I think designer shoes are more like the $300+ range

No. 1043913

>>1043875
They’re pricey in part because everything but the outer sole are made from sheepskin, which isn’t cheap. The Koolaburra by Ugg is much more affordable because it has cheaper material (cow leather and faux fur.)

No. 1043916

>>1043896
>>1043875
They both look good on a skinny little rich bitch

No. 1043931

>>1043896
Oh man I would wear the shit out of that if it didn't have the logo plastered all over it
>>1043916
I'd wear it while fat, like fat JNCO jeans mall goth aesthetic. Loving my mental image of a huge musclefat chick in a utility jeanskirt

No. 1044044

How come people call it LARPing when someone acts like someone they’re not online? LARP stands for live action role playing. Like where you dress the part and shit. Posting anonymous comments online is like the opposite of live action.

No. 1044050

>>1044044
>what is slang
You're autistic right?

No. 1044053

>>1044050
Correct.

No. 1044083

Is asexuality real?

No. 1044092

File: 1643320942338.jpg (78.86 KB, 600x600, wire wrapped swirl pendant tut…)

>>1043452
You couldn't make this by hand but wire jewelry is not that hard to make (depending on design but you can make beautiful jewelry simply), there are lots of good books about it, look here: https://ug1lib.org/booklist/122321/5a89b2

No. 1044093

>>1044083
It doesn't exist as a sexual orientation, it's just a lack of libido. People who say they're asexual will almost always say in the same sentence that they have a bf or a gf.

No. 1044096

>>1044083
Why does someone post this every thread?

No. 1044104

>>1044096
It's bait

No. 1044106

>>1044096
i was genuinely asking sometimes i feel like it but i think the term is retarded and i wanted to see anons opinions

No. 1044114

is rice keto?

No. 1044118


No. 1044119

Is the average person really "illaterate" about how computers work?

I got praise from multiple team leaders at my new job over the last month for being such a "techie" all because I knew how to reset a password and also followed some email instructions. Like what the actual fuck? Just read the words on your screen and do what it says??

No. 1044120

>>1044114
No, rice and all other grains are high in carbs. Keto is a low carb diet.

No. 1044121


No. 1044139

>>1044119
It's sad but yes and I don't know how these people have jobs. I got praised before typing in the first letters of a program on windows startup to get to it faster instead of scrolling to find it like a boomer. I got a "wow look at you" from my 37 year old coworker. Like dangling keys in front of a baby

No. 1044144

>>1044114
keto is butter

No. 1044147

what are those hard white small pieces in toblerone chocolate

No. 1044148


No. 1044149

>>1044147
Nougat and almond

No. 1044152

>>1044148
There is no rice in toblerone nonnie

No. 1044156

>>1044144
Is butter a carb?

No. 1044160

>>1044156
if it was, why would ketos eat full sticks of butter

No. 1044161


No. 1044177

How do I permanently DELETE my deviantart account? I thought I did like 7 years ago but I can still log into my account because it was just deactivated apparently. And I only noticed that now because I received some email about the terms and conditions of the website changing soon in my spam inbox. I don't want that shit, I want them to not have my account at all, and I only find info on how to deactivate my account on other websites. Is that shit even legal to begin with?

No. 1044178

>>1033306
Can I get rid of my speech impediment as an adult? Or am I doomed to sound like this forever?

No. 1044180

File: 1643324251827.png (41.75 KB, 1080x328, deathofjarthur.png)

>>1044177
Apparently it is no longer accessible after 21 days of deactivation, but yet I'm still able to log in to the account. There is no page for the account, when you click the username it says the account is deactivated. I would just unsubscribe from the emails if you're still getting them after 21 days, nona.

No. 1044183

>>1044180
I already did that years ago, but since the email is about their terms and services they legally have to send it to anyone who has an account whether it's deactivated or not, which is why I received it. I did find something though, for fellow Europeans at least: https://www.deviantart.com/settings/gdpr/

Hopefully this will work and they're delete my account instead of just trying to deactivate it.

No. 1044251

Do fakebois ever call their vaginas and/or assholes their "bussies"? Asking this here instead of the thread on /snow/ because it's, well, stupid.

No. 1044262

>>1044251
Yes, for some reason on twitter I found people talking about slash fics they liked, mentioned the word "bussy" and when I clicked on one of the link it was a fic with one of the character becoming a self-insert fakeboi and having piv intercourse. I didn't expect that at all.

No. 1044263

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>>1044251
seems like it

No. 1044340

>>1043526
Most people do monthly budgeting though and payment plans like these are over the span of two months. That’s like saying you shouldn’t own a house if you need a mortgage, which is an actual loan with interest and other bullshit fees like PMI. With the assumption you’re not living hand to mouth, usually people set aside a certain percentage of their paycheck to their savings. I put 50% of my paycheck away and won’t touch my savings for anything besides the down payment I made on my house a few months ago and now just vet bills. If I wanted idfk a Peloton or something it doesn’t fall within my self-imposed monthly budget, but it does in two months’ budgets.

>>1043531
This was it and I guess none of what I said above applies in Kathy’s case since she doesn’t have a source of income.

No. 1044478

kissless virgin here and i need to enhance my fantasies/fanfics so i'm curious: do men talk during sex and if so, what do they say that ISN'T cringe? like do they actually do that "god you're so tight bbygrl" shit or do they say something normal?

No. 1044480

where do you find good drug dealers? how in the fuck did anon even get her hands on meth lmao

No. 1044510

>>1044478
>do they actually do that "god you're so tight bbygrl" shit or do they say something normal?
Idk things you say during sex are never really "normal" it's always weird outside of the moment plus people's likes vary a lot. The "you're so tight" comment isn't that cringe honestly it's like saying water is wet but obvious things become hotter when you're fucking for some reason. Some of the things I've liked are
>you feel so good
>moaning/growling/panting
>I want you so bad
>you're so fucking sexy
>please don't stop
>harder
>you like that? (when obviously liking it)
>you make me so hard
>I don't know where to start
>I'll do whatever you want
>I'm gonna cum
>I love you (if in committed relationship, outside of that, creepy)

No. 1044512

Will russia really go to war with the US pls tell me it’s unlikely like the WW3 scare 2 years ago and North Korea drama

No. 1044548

How would you feel if these were your daughters

No. 1044550

How do you know the difference between a crush and falling in love

No. 1044556

Why can't they put more of the good things in ice cream? Why can't the ice cream be 50% ice cream, 50% cookie dough? Does it really cost that much more?

No. 1044568

>>1044556
I personally think there is not enough Malaga ice-cream on offer these days. There was so much more of it available to buy when I was young, now I have to shop around to find it.
Put that wine and raisins in producers, I'll gladly pay more! Please!

No. 1044571

File: 1643359283579.jpg (681.87 KB, 1509x1317, Butterkeks.jpg)

>>1044568
nta, but true, malaga was the old people ice cream when i was younger and it was everywhere. but if i want to buy any now, there's only one brand sold at only a handful of stores in my country. many ice cream parlors don't even sell it anymore.

also one time i had butter cookie ice cream (made out of picrel) and it was delicious.

No. 1044590

When I upload my own gif into discord/telegram, it shows up among the other gifs I’ve searched for. Does this mean it’s on Giphy now for others to potentially see?

No. 1044593

>>1044550
I'm not sure, I just knew. We hung out all day and it was perfect, and he had just made me cum and it was just like I felt overwhelmed suddenly and I asked him if it was okay that I loved him and he said he loved me back and we both cried and it was really awesome.

No. 1044594

>>1044550
To fall in love with someone is to know them intimately, to crush on someone is to enjoy something superficial about them and fantisize about the unknown parts being perfect for you

No. 1044600

>>1044550
staying up all night talking several times and sharing all kinds of unsavory things about ourselves

No. 1044662

>>1044568
>malaga
Please call it raisin rum like the rest of us krautette

No. 1044665

How do I store natural nut butters without getting that nut butter water everywhere? Yes I store them upside down no it doesn't work.

No. 1044666

>>1044662
I'm the opposite of a Kraut, I'm a Slav. I don't want to be like the rest of you, the rest of you suck.
Malaga 4 life!

No. 1044681

why are anons so eager to shit on taylor swift

No. 1044688

>>1044662
another Slav here, malaga is the default name. Describing it as rum and raisins would be weird. Isn't it the same around the world?

No. 1044702

>>1044662
I'm in West euro and we call it malaga here too.

No. 1044711

>>1044480
I'd also love to know this and I only want weed lmao

No. 1044728

>>1044711
Samefag, there are so called 'herbal stores' in my area, I was thinking about asking there…? Weed is illegal here but these kind of shops obviously cater to those who smoke and/or grow weed, they are selling everything from plant growth solutions to bongs

No. 1044739

Britanons what does bussie mean? Please tell me it's a sport reference and not what I think it is

No. 1044757

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No. 1044760

>>1044757
That doesn't really make sense in context. Are you British or did you just Google it

No. 1044764

>>1044760
you did not provide context

No. 1044766

>>1044764
You're not even British!

No. 1044770

File: 1643377445286.jpeg (892.41 KB, 2562x1811, AEA8089F-8B0D-4FE9-99F6-B97EEC…)

What does it says?

No. 1044787

>>1044770
It says "all I want for my birthday is a big booty hoe"

No. 1044816

>>1044770
The first letter says "household", and the the second letter is "plumptious", the last one is "cat"

so I can read this "the household of big fat coochie"

No. 1044916

How do I change a .txt file to a .srl file?

No. 1044924

Does excess testosterone cause weight gain

No. 1044929

File: 1643390429216.png (270.33 KB, 349x314, ygyi.PNG)

who is she

No. 1044937


No. 1044939

>>1044929
ferris or felix argyle from re:zero, he's a scrote in a dress.

No. 1044941

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>>1044937
>>1044939
damn im sorry for asking. i saved the meme reaction pic cos i thought it was cute, now im sad i have this knowledge. ignorance is bliss

No. 1044971

Is there a male version of NLOG?

No. 1044977

>>1044971
Trannies or niceguys

No. 1044997

>>1044971
No because when boys rebel they're just trying to be different as a human being, not competing to stand out among other men

No. 1044999

>>1044997
who fed you that lie? The anon above you got it right. The answer is "nice guy"

No. 1045004

This makes me feel so old, but what is a vtuber? I don't get it.

No. 1045006

>>1045004
new form of cringe

No. 1045009

>>1045004
A youtube who uses a virtual avatar. So instead of a real life person talking or doing whatever on screen, you see a virtual avatar talking and moving. They're usually anime-style.

No. 1045011

>>1045009
youtuber* I said youtubers but I guess the same term applies to like twitch streamers and such

No. 1045028

>>1044941
He's a cute/nice character

No. 1045079

Why do radfems on Tumblr call each other (or women in general) gyns?

No. 1045084

>>1045079
it's supposed to be a female version of "guys" that's not infantilizing like "girls" or has femininity implications like "ladies". sounds stupid imo, can't help but thing of gynecology

No. 1045092

What’s a good hard protecting case for an iPhone 10?
>inb4 i summon chinanon

No. 1045103

>>1045092
I go with otterbox, I'm always dropping my shit but this case is like indestructible, I've had it for five years and my phone doesn't have a scratch.

No. 1045112

If I know the post number but not the thread number, is there a way for me to view the post in context without posting/linking it?

No. 1045166

is it possible to block ads on your phone on youtube and/or in browsers like it is on desktop?

No. 1045183

>>1044728
bump…?

No. 1045184

>>1045183
Don’t do drugs retard

No. 1045241

>>1045183
Don't listen to her, smoke big old doinks in amish

No. 1045267

>>1045183
I've had best success just straight asking kids that I see smoking lol, or young delivery drivers, they all smoke.
It can be scary asking strangers but usually everyone is nice, I asked a guy in Belgium got put onto a different guy and had bud papers and baccy in my hand for €10 within 5 mins. Obviously got ripped off didn't get a full 10s but can't complain for the ease and the fact that it was a completely different country lol.

No. 1045332

>>1045028
re:zero sucks. all the characters are shit.

No. 1045347

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>>1045332
You suck. You're shit.

No. 1045385

>>1044728
LOL do it

No. 1045391

How do I keep cats out of my yard? Somewhat close neighbors are gross hoarders who have like 8 cats and I don’t want them coming here and killing all the birds and lizards.

No. 1045396

>>1044728
>>1045385
Ok but really, don't. You'll get banned for life. Stores like that have to deal with undercover shoppers who see if they slip up and close the shop down. You're better off just asking your friends if they know a guy.

No. 1045402

Can streamers still succeed being faceless? vinesauce team all still does but they're all old enough I think they can. Go to twitch and it's all cams, I feel like it's a zoomer thing more than ever because since younger ppl have gotten into Jerma they beg for facecam all the time. Sometimes its cool and funny but I feel like having 1/4 of the screen with a cam is so distracting and useless when just casually playing a game.

No. 1045440

Can someone explain hyperpop to me? Explain it like if I was retarded, because I really can't understand how it's considered a subgenre or why it's so revolutionary among other pop acts.

No. 1045444

>>1045402
do vtubers count?

No. 1045445

>>1045183
Literally just ask the bartender or servers at any restaurant/bar.

No. 1045463

>>1045166
There are some adblocker extensions for browsers but for youtube i just use youtube vanced.

No. 1045484

File: 1643418557599.jpeg (64.17 KB, 700x525, F811CFB1-AAAD-478B-A3DE-136B42…)

Should I go to a protest alone? What should I do to keep safe if I do? Should I go there and leave after half an hour or so as a measure of safety?

No. 1045498

>>1045484
Well, keep a bottle of peptobismol in case they throw some gas bombs, you can spread that on your face and it help a lot for some reason.
Don’t bring weapons because if something stupid happens and the police comes, they will think you were part of the rebellious people and you will go to jail.
Thick clothes in case the shoot those shitty plastic fake bullets, antiseptic alcohol in case you get injured, lots of water, a cap, maybe a foldable chair if you get too tired and you don’t want to sit on the floor.
But tbh, I wouldn’t go alone, it could be dangerous if everyone else goes full retard.

No. 1045512

I remember some anon posted cloth pads with pretty anime men printed on them, I need that link!!!

No. 1045521

>>1045512
holy shit that rules, were they on etsy

No. 1045524

>>1044548
As long as they're having fun I'd be happy. Seems like the worse thing here is crossplaying is a gateway drug into genderspecialism but if that wasn't a concern, I don't see anything wrong with it. Teenagers could be doing much worse than LARPing.

No. 1045547

>>1042439
I've always wondered what the "average lolcow user" looks like. Surely there's certain sorts of women that gravitate to this place. I haven't seen many anons self post in the wild but from what I see it's a lot of butches?

That's my stupid question btw, what do you nonnies imagine us to look like?

No. 1045550

>>1045547
I doubt butches are a majority, more like they just have more reason to mention their appearance because we talk about gender roles, trannies etc pretty often and it's relevant without sounding like a humblebrag.

No. 1045557

>>1045512
Fuck I need the link too

No. 1045560

>>1044083
Yes and no. Asexual people exist with high and low sex drives unlike what the other anons have mentioned. It's just about WHO you're attracted to, which is usually no one.

No. 1045576

>>1045560
>high and low sex drives
>which is usually no one
You get how retarded that sounds, right? How is anyone going to have a completely isolated, directioness high sex drive? Horny doesn't exist in a vaccuuum, something will cause it and something will sate it, and if your genitals are working then so is your libido.

If asexuals want anyone to take them seriously they need to get a fucking grip and come up with a consistent narrative. First it's that they don't have sex drives at all, then it's that they masturbate but don't want sex with people, then it's that they're happy to have sex with people they just don't enjoy it, then it's that they are attracted to people and do want sex with them but it's infrequent so they're ~grey asexuals~, now you're really trying to say high sex drives are totes asexual provided it's not for anyone in particular. Ffs you retards could just say you have a low sex drive and it would make perfect sense, it would need no elaboration and science would back you up 100%. But no, you have to turn it into some convoluted made up bs to include every special snowflakes personal sexual tendencies in the definition.

No. 1045584

>>1045576
Idk if you know this anon but our body chemistry and personal attraction is unique to us, and labelling sexuality often causes these pedantic arguments when neither you, nor I am asexual ourselves. I'm only speaking on this because I've met a few asexual people before with varying degrees of drive.
Ultimately it makes sense in my head because it's been explained to me, that an ace person can look at someone and not "feel" anything down there, but their body chemistry and hormones just get them feeling that "itch" sometimes without any real outward stimuli.

Of course it's different for everyone, a lot of them don't feel any drive at all.

No. 1045588

>>1045584
>Of course it's different for everyone, a lot of them don't feel any drive at all.
The point is that people with no sex drives arent people with normal healthy developed sexuality. It's not just an 'alternative sexuality' its a defect, a malfunction. Normal healthy adults will feel sexual attraction to either their own sex, the opposite, or both.

No. 1045589

Is there anywhere online to watch the Shen Yun performances?? I wanna watch that wacko shit but I don't wanna give those weirdos my money

No. 1045590

>>1045584
>our body chemistry and personal attraction is unique to us
If it's so unique then the label is meaningless and it's not a real thing. Meanwhile, straight/gay/bisexual are not unique between individual and is easily defined and there is no real variance between what it means for those people.

>>1045588
That was never my point. Low libidos can be natural, due to medication, caused by health issues or stress or whatever, idgaf if it's natural or abnormal or w/e. Having such a low sex drive that it's basically non existent is a very understandable, proven concept. But it's not special enough for asexuals so they came up with their own vague, ill defined label that none of them can agree on because it's not a legitimate sexual orientation, just individual sex drives and attitudes towards sex.

No. 1045596

>>1045590
>If it's so unique then the label is meaningless and it's not a real thing. Meanwhile, straight/gay/bisexual are not unique between individual and is easily defined and there is no real variance between what it means for those people.

That's literally the point nona, we created this arbitrary labels less than 200 years ago.

No. 1045600

No human is asexual. Get over yourself.

No. 1045602

>>1045600
idk why you're so mad about a sexuality that literally doesn't affect you.

No. 1045603

>>1045602
Incredible, really. People genuinely believe this stuff is real.

No. 1045604

>>1045602
Nta but does it even matter if asexuality is real, only scrotes and pickmes demand ppl have sex. Trauma, hormones, health issues, low libido, men being ugly as fuck nowadays, or just plain born that way… Does it Really matter, if someone's happy not having sex/just masturbating then leave them be. I only really side eye the women who say they're asexual but still fuck their bfs, like you really going to let a dude use you like a fleshlight to ~compromise~?

No. 1045606

>>1045603
I could say the same thing about homosexuality, given humans created that term homosexual in 1869 when homosexual acts have existed in humans for centuries. Do you realise how stupid you sound?

>>1045604
No, it really doesn't matter, which is why it shits me when anons sperg about it.

No. 1045610

>>1045606
Hopefully you’ll realize how obtuse that notion is with time. I know I did.

No. 1045612

>>1045610
What? Do you think you exist on a higher plane of intellectualism because you refuse to acknowledge one of the many man-made labels for sexuality? Bravo, you're truly better than me.

No. 1045617

>>1045602
its not a sexuality

No. 1045678

Is it possible that exfoliating before shaving is making my ingrowns worse? I started using the glossier exfoliating bar and I stg I have more ingrowns than ever

No. 1045727

>>1045678
try exfoliating after shaving instead, i had that problem too until i changed the order i did it in

No. 1045737

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If my hair air dries like this without any styling (besides my haircut) or products is there a possibility to really bump up the curls?

No. 1045761

>>1045737
nona you're probably better off asking in the hair thread in /g/

No. 1045795

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Is college hazing a real thing with sororities and fraternities? Like, they literally humiliate and endanger people publicly and everyone considers it okay?

No. 1045835

>>1045761
I thought /g/ might be mean lol or their efforts would go unappreciated because I'm lazy atm. You're right though. They can be more helpful than horny and I forget that sometimes.

No. 1045837

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This is very specific but does anyone know any comic book artists/mangaka/artists in general who didn’t go to art school and studies something completely unrelated yet were able to make good comics/manga/art?
I know that Takeuchi studied chemistry or pharmacy and made sailor moon while Boichi drew manga while in graduate school.

No. 1045839

>>1045737
Id look up the curly girl method! Its a hair routine that helps accentuate your curls. Youd need a lot of hair gel and to apply it when wet, but there's so much more to it I suggest you do some research on it because there's a lot to learn

No. 1045840

>>1045737
Not sure how you could “bump up curls”, you could make your hair less frizzy and scrunch your hair both of which will make your hair look “curlier” but it won’t change your hair type.

No. 1045843

>>1045837
Junji Ito worked as a dental technician afaik

No. 1045855

>>1045837
Ai Yazawa went to fashion school too, not art school

No. 1045866

>>1045837
Osamu Tezuka was a medical student, no idea if he actually practiced as a doctor before becoming a professional mangaka though. I guess that was his inspiration for Blackjack.

No. 1045869

Why do people who offer me help not really want to help? If I said yes, what would they do? They’re just wasting my time by asking me and making small chat. People who actually ask help and whom you know they won’t do a thing are toxic and you should ignore them be they your housemates.

No. 1045873

>>1045869
social niceties?

No. 1045874

>>1045869
People like that annoy me I always keep a mental note of a task I can make them do if they ask. Half the time they disappear and sometimes they actually do it.

No. 1045890

>>1045873
They can stuff that social nicety up their ass really rough and deep. It’s just expanding my energy to say “awww that’s so sweet of you to offer but no dear awww I wouldn’t want to burden that on you :)”.

No. 1045891

>>1045890
Like I care about an emote ban lmfao. I have some moving to do.

No. 1045893

>>1045891
we're all very impressed by your continued posting about how much you don't care

No. 1045896

Why do straight men no longer feel comfortable with being androgynous or flamboyant at all anymore? Almost all the (non-Korean) androgynous men are gay, nb, or some kind of aspiring troon.

No. 1045897

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hi nonies i need help with deciding on a color repainting a smoker's den, cause i want to finally repaint the walls in my apartment

the walls were white but it hasn't been painted in years and since there used to be smokers living here - i noticed that not only the walls but the white of the matt white furniture have also turned slightly yellow. st first i wanted just repaint the walls white and be done with it but now i'm afraid that fixing the walls is just going to make the discolored white (yellowed) furniture stand out even more and then that is going to bug me. buying new furniture is not an option.

i feel like putting some warm tones in the white paint might help. i had the idea to maybe just put the tiniest bit of color when paiting to make it a bit more of a cream color, but what if that ends up looking gross too?

my floors are also a warm/light color - i have no blue/purples anywhere in my space as i like to keep it neutral and balanced and cozy, i feel like cooler tones might end up giving too much visual contrast to the space that i wouldn't like.

No. 1045898

>>1045897
You need to scrub the walls with sugar-soap first, otherwise the new paint won't adhere right. Smoke is dirt, not paint. Don't try to match your new paint to dirty furniture wtf, clean it or get rid of it. Any new colour you want will do okay with enough coats

No. 1045899

>>1045893
>speaking for a group of people as an individual
I’m impressed as well toots.

No. 1045903

>>1045547
In my head you are all default white, brunette (blonde if eurofag) and above-average looking unless someone specifies themselves. BPDchan mental image is ALWAYS brunettes for some reason.

No. 1045919

>>1045903
im probably one of the oldest and most active posters here so this gave me a good kek

No. 1045921

>>1045547
I have never thought about this tbh but considering I've seen anons mention they're from countries all over the world I imagine the looks are fairly diverse.

No. 1045928

Is it normal that i think you're beautiful?

No. 1045939

>>1033343
Because you’re doing it wrong. I do it wrong too. We’re like those attention faggots who announce to leave the site tomorrow but never end up doing it. One can’t learn the gray rock method, if you have to read about it and learn to do it from reading, you’ll consistently fail. It’s a natural’s coping mechanism just like a-whoring on lolcow and the likes is. True facts.

No. 1045940

>>1045903
I don’t get it. You’re saying bpd chans are always brunettes but spoony was a blonde.

No. 1045991

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>>1045928
Nonita, light of my life, fire of my loins. My sin, my soul. No-nee-ta: the tip of the tongue taking a trip of three steps down the palate to tap, at three, on the teeth. No. Nee. Ta.

No. 1045992

>>1045928
Yes! It is very normal and good especially if it's based on objectivity. If you're ugly and you think you're pretty, then you might be a bit delusional, but thinking the truth about yourself is good

No. 1046003

Whats a good name for a sloth plushie..

No. 1046004

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>>1045992
she's not talking about herself she's talking about you

No. 1046005

>>1046003
I don't know I'd have to see him to give a name

No. 1046006

>>1046003
Lethargio
Moves McSlow
Claws Treeman
Dawdley

No. 1046011

>>1046005
As if you don't already have all the information you need, he's a sloth babe

No. 1046013

>>1046011
But like what if he has a sleepy face or a funny face or a mischievous face, this is very important to determine its personality and name.

No. 1046018

>>1045903
i thought bippies usually dyed their hair a lot. which reminds me there was an old thread here where anons drew an MS paint version of themselves in some template pic and most of them had dyed hair

No. 1046020

>>1046013
Your mom doesn't know dick about you when you're born

Slugs Branchston
Leaves McMuncher
Lounge Armstein

No. 1046048

Im probably paranoid but DS games cant have malware right?? I bought a game off ebay and a week later the touchscreen stopped working

No. 1046057

On average, how many hours a week is normal to spend on hobbies and friends for a full-time uni student?

No. 1046083

>>1033306
Why does anyone micromanage a post if it’s supposed to be a welcoming female space? Are we not allowed to critique one another? Or is there a script available for when we do so no one gets butt hurt

No. 1046124

Where can I learn more about “3rd gender” cultures that aren’t just troon tainted sources?
I see nonnies say how 3rd gender actually was peoples category for gay men a lot of the time but when I try to research all I find is tranny shit.

No. 1046167

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How is the hairstyle in picrel called and how do I get it? I saw a girl like that some hours ago, and turns out in real life it looks just as cute as in pictures lol

No. 1046178

>>1046167
girly sonic the hedgehog, i think?

No. 1046184

>>1046167
It's basically just a layered bob with bangs but when you blow dry it you use a round brush to curl the ends away from your head to get the spiky look

No. 1046191

>>1046178
no alice cullen

No. 1046192

>>1046184
No you just let it dry naturally, no curling w brush. The ends are thinned out and naturally do that.

No. 1046195

>>1046167
Every lady guesting on dr phil in the early 2000s cut?

No. 1046201

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>>1046191
no yuna

No. 1046235

File: 1643490813799.gif (1.67 MB, 450x330, sunglass cat.gif)

What qualifies a person as 'interesting'? I've heard people use it to specifically mean people with interesting lives and hobbies, but I've heard some people specify that it means a person who is able to create an interesting conversation

No. 1046248

>>1046167
You'd need a feathered haircut and a lot of gel

No. 1046250

>>1045843
I can totally see this. rofl

No. 1046253

>>1045869
They want to smell their own farts and feel good about themselves. After my mom passed away 10 years ago, her family told me they'd help, so when i asked for help with a phone bill because our family planned was cut off, i was ignored. You can tell when someone wants to help by their genuine actions vs their empty words

No. 1046269

>>1046235
I usually think an interesting person as someone who can make stuff sound interesting and engaging. That might require some people skills, or an interesting experiences idk but you must know people who can turn even the most interesting story into a snorefest due to being low energy/bad storyteller or speaker/a bore? It's the opposite of that, but idk people sometimes call me interesting but it just maybe the fact that I have weird shit happening to me and by this point it's just normal to me/I'm funny irl kek

No. 1046288

>>1046124
You won't find any bc gender is fake and invented recently.

No. 1046289

>>1046235
I’m used to seeing it refer to people that are unusual but in a positive way. They have hobbies that aren’t very common or are high effort and are good at it. They stand out from the crowd in a positive way. But honestly when used in a positive way it depends on who is describing the person, someone that’s interesting to you could be pretentious to me.

On the flip side I saw it used to refer to people that stick out in a negative but harmless way. They have certain quirks to them.

No. 1046290

>>1045866
>>1045843
>>1045855
Thank you nonnies. They’re all Japanese which is fine as dumb as it sounds I’m trying not to let the /ic/ meme “Asian jeans” get to me now.

No. 1046292

>>1045890
are you autistic lmao

No. 1046293

Is sweet potato non fattening? I’m dieting and i eat it for dinner everyday and im starting to have second thoughts

No. 1046298

>>1046293
you can eat anything you want as long as you don't surpass your calories limit

No. 1046300

>>1046293
You're fine, orthorexia chan

I'd suggest eating proper protein and fats with low carb but you're probably one of those who thinks eating fats makes you fat

No. 1046304

>>1046293
It's a carb but just stay within your calorie limit, it's no big deal. Actually, even if you go over the limit one day, nothing will happen unless you're some kinda binger kek

No. 1046402

Anyone here drink kombucha? Why did you start drinking it? Do you have digestive problems and has kombucha helped you? Any other benefits?
I have digestive problems my whole life and I'm considering starting drinking it

No. 1046409

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would the terfs on lolcow say they're "gender essentialist"? i was searching up shit on twitter and came across these tims talking about it

No. 1046411

>>1046409
Would help to know wtf that means

No. 1046412

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Is the water that water pokemon make potable water?

No. 1046414

>>1046409
I think troons are the real gender essentialist as they believe gender identity is innate. radical feminists usually don't believe in gender (as opposed to biological sex, which is real and immutable)

No. 1046415

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What sites do you go on to kill time? I gotta stop using Reddit, it makes me want to blow my brains out.

No. 1046416

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>>1046411
the idea that boys wear blue, girls wear pink, and all this stuff is innately connected to one's gender.

the tims in question were claiming terfs are dumb for always talking about wanting to "abolish gender roles" while invalidating trans people due to "gender essentialist descriptions of their assigned gender at birth," which confused me. i've never seen any terfs do that.

also posted the wrong image at first, oops.

No. 1046417

>>1046412
No. Unless you filter and boil it, no water found in nature is truly potable.

No. 1046427

What is the reason people (me) want to reach out to their horrible ex again? I need to be reminded of the reasons by someone else. I feel blinded and confused by all of these conflicting thoughts.

No. 1046429

Is the video player used for movie nights meant to be paused? Every time I try pausing it it keeps going. Tho I guess it's because of the live chat

No. 1046434

Why do people suffer from extreme apathy? My best friend is usually extremely apathetic, she doesn’t feel like doing anything throughout the day, and I always try to give her ideas or tell her to do stuff with me, but she just doesn’t want to do anything all day long for a few days.
It usually happens after like, an episode in which she feels worthless, I tell her that I care about her and such but like, she always feels like that and I’ve noticed that it’s a cycle.
I just wish I could help her.

No. 1046446

If I throw up part of a meal at least once every day, how long will it take for my teeth to be fucked up?

No. 1046450

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>>1046402
Kombucha is delicious! It's very popular where I live. Store-bought kombucha is usually full of sugar so you're better off getting probiotics and antioxidants from other sources. I think of it as a sweet treat not a health drink.

No. 1046455

>>1046434
Sounds like garden-variety depression. Forcefully getting her to come along and do things with you outside the house may help.

No. 1046460

>>1046415
Idk, tell me if you figure it out. Reddit used to be a decent place to waste time but it’s slowly gone downhill over the years, with particularly massive dips in quality after the Cambridge Analytica scandal and the Tumblr porn ban. It’s just terrible now, and the terribleness even leaks into the small speciality hobby subs, which is Reddit’s main strength.

No. 1046464

>>1046446
I mean it’ll start happening immediately. Stomach acid eats away at enamel and enamel loss is irreversible. How long it’ll take for you to start noticing the effects (yellowing of teeth, increased tooth sensitivity, increased rate of cavities developing) idk, but once you get to that point you’re utterly screwed. Just quit throwing up and get some therapy instead.

No. 1046470

>>1046446
Depends on genetics and the current state of your teeth but I only purged once a day for under a year as a teenager, took otherwise very good care of my teeth, thought I got away just fine for years, and then had to watch my back molars start to crumble out of nowhere from what an orthodontist later described as "probably hidden structural damage," whatever that was supposed to imply. The rest of my teeth are perfectly fine (currently, hopefully) because of how obsessively I always maintained them, but because of the acid damage on my back molars, I ended up in a shit ton of pain, nearly got sepsis, lost two molars, and had to pay thousands of dollars. I was living somewhere my insurance didn't cover and couldn't make the drive out to the only orthodontist in the area even if it did, so I tried putting off getting them checked out for maybe a month until I could go home and go to my own dentist, and in the final couple days I was barely functional from the tooth aches. Had to pay extra, even with insurance, to have them put pig bone spacers where they removed the molars so my jaw/face wouldn't collapse back without them. I'd have to pay even more to have fake teeth put in, but I can't afford it.
I got lucky, because the two I lost can only be seen if I'm actively trying to show someone I don't have them. My teeth are pretty sensitive, but at least I think I'll get to keep the rest of them. I know of women who had the stomach acid rot the backs of their front teeth, so it's not like you can bet on just losing the hidden ones. Honestly, puking hardly saves you any calories even if you do it "perfectly" and it's probably the most harmful way of trying to lose weight.

No. 1046474

what's the difference between an excuse and an explanation?

No. 1046476

Why does 100 gecs and mother mother seem to attract both kinds of troon?

No. 1046486

>>1046474
I think it seems like an excuse when someone explains too much, the least details you give, the least it will seem like you just thought about it. If someone asks: Why couldn’t you come?
>I was sick
Feels like an explanation.
>I felt kind of bad, like I had a headache and then I took my temperature and noticed I had some fever, I ended up going to sleep and not looking at my phone all night long
Feels more like an excuse.
You could also say
>I was sick, it was the worst.
And it would still feel more like an explanation rather than an excuse.

No. 1046492

>>1046486
Nta but neither of those sound like excuses to me tbh. but sometimes I over explain things so the other person can understand better.

No. 1046507

>>1046474
If someone needed you to do something and you weren't able to get it done because of your ADHD flaring up, your ADHD could just be an explanation, but if you never start looking into ways to treat or cope with your ADHD, to figure out a way to do better next time, or if you knew beforehand that your ADHD was going to be a problem and you didn't say anything or try to prepare for it, then it becomes an excuse.
For me, the major difference is just that an excuse is less about why the thing did or didn't happen and more about what they can say to get out of the consequences of their own behavior, and it's probably one in a pattern of excuses. An explanation is a courtesy, it's meant to inform you of the circumstances while they try to deal with them, and I think as long as they're actually trying (or if there's quite literally nothing they could do) then I wouldn't get on their ass about making excuses. To go off the ADHD example, I wouldn't mind a friend being late to something important because she forgot to take her meds this one time and time got away from her, but I would start to mind if a friend was regularly late to important things because they kept forgetting their meds and never made a serious attempt to keep it from happening again.

No. 1046537

I do acrylic paintings on wood, but can never seem to get nice neat looking black outlines. Is it possible to use India ink for this? If not, is there any way to get clean outlines? When I use a brush and ink it looks fine but acrylic is a bit too globby to look neat and thinning it down just makes it look grey and even worse

No. 1046546

>>1046537
What’s wrong with acrylic paint pens?

No. 1046707

>>1046546
The one's I've tried are all bulky and streaky, is there a brand that actually works?

No. 1046734

If I get a current gen Switch can I play first gen Pokémon on it, like the pixely one? Or is that only available on emulators?
I don't know how to Google this properly I keep just getting ads for latest Pokémon with hundreds of ugly ones I just want the thing 12 year old me never got

No. 1046736

Masochism anon is a steve isn't he?

No. 1046740

>>1046734
Hi Anon, you can only play Pokemon Sword/Shield, Shining Pearl/Brilliant Diamond, the new mystery dungeon game, let's go games and then a few random ones. You can only play the pixel ones on the older consoles or emulators as you say.

No. 1046742

>>1046734
If you're talking about Pokemon Red/Blue/Yellow it's not on the Switch, but maybe it will become available later if they add games and consoles to the paid online subscription. If you have a 3DS you can buy and download games Red/Blue/Yellox (gen1) and Gold/Silver/Crystal (gen2), and you should even be able to transfer the pokemon you catch in these games to gen 6 and gen 7 games.

No. 1046760

>>1046434
Depression. If she's that bad, chances are she likely doesn't know how to snap out of it. Does she ever have fun while she's with you?

No. 1046767

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What's in this jar? I want to chomp

No. 1046774

>>1046767
Macadamia nuts

No. 1046775

>>1046742
THANK YOU! this is the answer I was looking for. Surprised to find there are quite a few used 3DS on sale near me even in poorfag country. I'm going to watch the old anime and play the old games and everything will be great

No. 1046781

>>1046775
If you can find a cheap 3DS and you know you want it then buy it asap. Because of the Switch release and the lockdowns all over the world at the start of the pandemic many cheap secondhand older consoles and games became very expensive because of the demand.

No. 1046810

>>1046476
I had a male coworker tell me he really likes 100 gecs and tried to recommend them to me, so now i just avoid him

No. 1046843

Does anyone know some good websites that give solid proof and studies that transgender people shouldn't be allowed to participate in professional female sports?

No. 1046847

>>1046843
There was a no-males ruling from an org for women's rugby (I think Aus based) that issued a white paper with stats about head injuries, bone density etc in 2020 which was quite comprehensive. I'm sure this has been asked a bunch on Ovarit as well so check there if you haven't. Sorry no link, I Google it myself I'm going to go down a GC rabbit hole and I'm trying to have a nice day

No. 1046867

how do I stop coping and seething about things that I can't change? especially when it comes to other people's behavior

No. 1047021

>>1046867
focus on things you can change instead

No. 1047041

Would you think your roommate(double bed room) was insane if she kept her makeup in a lockbox?

No. 1047045

>>1047041
It's a bit extreme but not crazy. Maybe she has an expensive collection or her last roommate gave her pinkeye by borrowing her mascara kek

No. 1047049

>>1046167
I’ve been seeing this hairstyle on TikTok by those indie teens and it’s a normal bob with different layers that they just curl upwards with a straightener

No. 1047069

What do I have to look out for in pads if I want to keep my vag healthy? I know cotton lining and no scents, is there anything else?

No. 1047127

>>1047069
Just use cloth pads anon, personally I've been burned so much by companies that I just don't trust modern shit.

No. 1047130

why are european males are memeing and larping as very muslim and use muslim volcab and imagery? I just saw a swedish dude with a niqabi as a pfp, I'm so confused about the origins of this trend and what keeps it going, are Asian women overparty?

No. 1047133

>>1047130
I’m middle eastern and have seen this too. I think they’re fond of the way muslim moids are unapologetically misogynistic faggots and unapologetically entitled to women’s lives and look up to them.

No. 1047135

>>1047130
Where do you see this happening? Sounds fucking weird

No. 1047137

>>1047130
Not just Muslims. White men are such weirdos lmao

No. 1047144

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>>1047135
here's the swedish dude as an example, he's not muslim or has any interest in it but there is this influx of this in places you'd had used to seeing similar fascination with Asian and Russian women and by fascination I mean porn and pinups and images with Japnese or Russian text, is this gonna be the new obsession of the 2020s?

No. 1047148

>>1047144
Hijab fetish. There's tons of porn of it. Not really new, but disgusting

No. 1047161

>>1047144
Yeah but like on discord or social media or what? Gotta be some weird inside joke/racism/fetish I guess.

No. 1047167

When I buy things on ebay I always use buy it now and pay with my card or paypal balance right away. That's the only way I know how. Why do I get messages and feedback thanking me for paying so fast? Can people buy things and not pay for a few days?

No. 1047185

>>1047144
I know no one cares but aaah I fucking called this back in the early 2010s. This is about to be more cancerous than the yellow fever ever was

No. 1047195

Why the hell can't I seem to post images unless I try 586885 times? It either doesn't attach or the whole page reloads and my text and photo are nowhere to be seen. The picrew anons need to see the moid me I made goddamit.

No. 1047224

>>1047130
Have you really never heard the term "white shariah" before?

No. 1047242

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>>1046774
thanks nonnie

No. 1047253

>>1047185
well thanks, now we are in this whole mess because of you

No. 1047268

>>1047133
>I think they’re fond of the way muslim moids are unapologetically misogynistic faggots and unapologetically entitled to women’s lives and look up to them.
this is 100% it. /pol/ memed 'talichads' so hard that many of them have become unironically pro-salafi, though the white pro-salafi movement got its start even before the meme.

No. 1047279

>>1047185
Would you please explain how did you predict it and why you think it could be worse than yellowfever?

No. 1047297

>>1047167
Yeah, nobody in my family does online banking, so everyone of us does the thing that I don't know the name of in English where you get the other persons bank details and transfer the money to them, and this can take a few days.

No. 1047321

My college refund was $2,000+, can I use it all or should I return it? Do I have to return it? It's more than I usually get and I'm anxious.

No. 1047328

>>1047144
As things get crazier in the West and people get more depressed and the meaning crises swells you’ll see more and more people talking about how the “East” has it right. It’s just a fantasy. A big part of it, I think, is due to the fact that there was relative stability in the West (esp before Corona), whereas in the East they’ve never had the luxury of having matters be mended for them to break; they’ve always been broken. Israel and Palestine and then Egypt and Syria and Israel and then Iraq and Kuwait and then Iraq and the US and then Libya, Syria, Yemen, Egypt….years after years of wars and destruction. They’ve grown used to it, that’s all.

No. 1047330

I don’t know if this even belongs here but i pirated photoshop and everytime i paint or draw and zoom in, the image is kinda low quality? Like the lines and stuff. Could it be because it’s a pirated version?

No. 1047337

what are some of your favourite ways to cryptoterf it up in order to peak your friends and family in style? i need to up my female manipulation tactics tbh

No. 1047338

>>1047330
Try going to Preferences > Performance and see if "Use Graphics Processor" is checked on or off. Try toggling that to see if that fixes anything. If not, what version did you install?

No. 1047358

Does anyone else get obsessed with a person they don't know and, like, imagine your life together 24/7? Or am I autistic/BPD?

No. 1047399

>>1046736
what does it mean to be a steve?

No. 1047461

Why are there so many weird schizo posters in this site now? I used to see them every now and again (2015 till now) and now almost every thread I go into there’ll be someone sperging out for multiple paragraphs about either something unrelated, tinfoil or them being wayyy to personally invested in a cow and don’t even get me started on the massive increase of infighting are they still searching for mods or what? Because I’ll honestly apply at this point since it’s getting really fucking annoying to go into any thread and have to scroll past 20+ posts of Anons going back and forth about some bullshit

Is this because of all the Kpoppers or was it the Creepshow art stuff that started attracting weirdo infighting newfags?

No. 1047464

>>1047461
>2015 till now
You answered your own question, no one has been the same since 2015

No. 1047467

>>1047461
Yes. Please sign up.

No. 1047484

>>1047461
1) kpop fans haven't changed a bit in all these years
2) you're just tired and need a new website, but the entire web 2.0 is shit so you're stuck here

No. 1047486

>>1047461
lolcow has had a bunch of migration waves of people attracted to various threads over the years so now you can go on one thread and see a bunch of twitterfags accusing everyone of being racist over nothing on other anons and go to another thread to see a bunch of schizos being racist over nothing, and of course the obvious underage b& who take internet drama way too seriously. The variety of weirdos has its charm but I wish farmhands would implement a policy against political extremists and lock or heavily monitor the threads that make them feel like they belong here so I can stop getting baited into off-topic slapfights

No. 1047489

File: 1643603980500.png (1.73 MB, 750x1334, 95DA2393-8ECB-4E1E-961D-9AF242…)

Does anyone recognize the label on this drink can? Looking to harass a friend.

No. 1047500

>>1047489
Agua purificada cristal

No. 1047511

>>1047500
Thank youuu

No. 1047546

Does anyone actually remember what they learned in highschool? I forgot like 90% a year after graduation.

No. 1047553

Anons who work from home, do you listen to music while working? Or play other types of videos in the background?

No. 1047560

>>1047553
I put on episodes of shows I've watched many times before (usually the office) and put it in picture in picture mode on the smallest size and leave it in the bottom corner on my screen while I work. I don't even actually watch what's going on, I just have a tendency to get sleepy if I work with music or find it annoying + a waste of time to keep changing songs when I get bored because I'm fickle. YouTubers aren't great because I'd get sick of the same voice droning on when I'm not really paying attention. So episodes of shows I already know is the best, you get to listen to different voices, you don't have to actually pay attention because you already know what's going on, if you need a quick break you can watch 5 minutes of it and then get back to work, and when it's over you just need to press next episode. I've watched season 3-4 of the office about 4-5 times this month alone this way. Don't do this with new shows, you'd ruin your work and the show.

No. 1047568

Do wireless mice always need to be switched off after use?

No. 1047574

>>1047546
I only remember relevant things I needed for university or daily life.

No. 1047623

>>1047568
It should switch off automatically by itself, every wireless mouse I used did

No. 1047695

File: 1643632647004.png (Spoiler Image,18.71 KB, 300x250, 620D012E-2EF6-4E95-A404-494897…)

Can a farmhand help me find a post I made a while back? Maybe like 2 weeks ago. I added a link to a YouTube video called “The Egg” in it. I know they can see your IP post history, so please come through farmhands. I’ve never talked shit about any of you even once.

No. 1047699

>>1047695
Why dont you describe what was in the video? More likely that other farmers will help you find it

No. 1047703

>>1047699
I just figured that was more of a long shot and probably no one watched it, but I’m pretty sure it’s here on /ot/ somewhere. It’s animated and about reincarnation. Some blobs walking through space.

No. 1047706

Could it be Kurzgesagt by any chance?

No. 1047781

What do you do if someone asks you out on a date, but you know you would never go into a relationship with them because they’re ugly or a jerk? I’m the type that usually says no because I don’t want to waste my time on something that I know won’t go anywhere (I’m not into casual things either), but I’ve been thinking maybe I should be more social and say yes just to go out somewhere. But also I don’t want to “lead someone on” and get into a bad situation where they expect a kiss or more just because I said yes to a date

No. 1047822

Does Swerve actually taste like sugar or cope?

No. 1047824

>>1047781
Is it a man? If so I wouldn’t feel bad about “leading him on”. If you think he’ll be pleasant company, then sure let him treat you to a night out. Just make sure you lay down the boundaries beforehand.

No. 1047837

How do I know if my diet is healthy?
Is there any good apps out there for tracking shit like that?

No. 1047892

Can someone tech savvy help me?? I just switched on the new desktop PC I got today and even though the fans are running and it's on, the monitor I connected to it says 'no signal'…? The monitor works just fine with my laptop. What can I do?

No. 1047909

>>1047892
Check that the cable is connected firmly on both ends, I assume it's the same cable that works with your laptop. If it works with your laptop then the monitor isn't at fault, and it's unlikely to be the PC, unless it's booting incorrectly. If it's your first time booting it you may want to give it a few minutes

No. 1047922

>>1047909
Well fuck me, it's not the cable. I looked into it and there was supposed to be a BIOS update that I didn't ask for when I ordered the PC…? And that might be the reason

No. 1047926

>>1047922
also something's weird going on because the processor is still in one of the boxes the PC was delivered with

No. 1047929

>>1047546
Yeah, it's job relevant for me

No. 1047932

>>1047781
I don't see why you should say yes just to be more social or something tbh. Time is the only thing you won't ever get back, why waste it on people you're not fond of anyways?

No. 1048047

Where did the whole meow meow thing come from and what does it mean? Like I see people online joking and saying so-and-so is my little meow meow and I assume they’re being sarcastic, but was there a post or something where it came from?

No. 1048055


No. 1048062

>>1048047
Came from this meme first and then kpop fans took it and started using it for their idols

No. 1048076

I drank two glasses of wine the other day and i felt nauseous and dizzy for the entire next day. Is that normal or some kind of allergic reaction? I didn't drink any alcohol in years. Also i'm sure i wasnt that dehydrated.

No. 1048119

>>1040717
It gets really hot in the summer in middle Canada anon, it's only cold like half the year.

No. 1048123

File: 1643664624207.jpg (3.54 MB, 4000x3000, 10245201.jpg)

can any occult anons tell me what the hell is this? any kind of source to help me understand this will be appreciated too

No. 1048130

File: 1643665352875.jpg (11.03 KB, 348x394, 11216254_10202819981140787_283…)

>>1047781
>I’ve been thinking maybe I should be more social
Anon just make friends

No. 1048133

>>1048123

Most likely a ward.
I'm not certain about the topmost symbol, but eye imagery tends to hold a sort of "all-seeing" meaning - great for "watching" a particular space.

Below it is written "PROTECTED" in an alphabet created and used by Wiccans.

Unsure about the sigil's full meaning but the names written are all angel names.

No idea about the numbers below.

But to me this reads as an attempt at warding an area by invoking angelic protection.

No. 1048136

>>1048133
thanks anon!

No. 1048139

>>1048136

No problem.
If you want to look into the alphabet more, it's called Theban.

Also, I don't know where you found this ward but if it concerns you or someone close to you I hope you're safe.

No. 1048149

>>1048055
He doesn't look even the slightest bit interested

No. 1048180

Anons what are your tried and true methods of starting a rough draft? I have a rough draft due for creative writing and I haven't even thought about what's going to happen in the story so I'm very anxious to start ughhhhh

No. 1048253

>>1048139
nah,i was at some dudes house and this was behind the curtains.he said it's to scare people who are visiting him (like relatives).now that i look closer he even draw a dick in there,what a stupid fuck.

No. 1048270

>>1048123
>>1048253
I'm fucking pissing myself

No. 1048291

>>1048253
>he even draw a dick in there,what a stupid fuck.
me everytime I'm in a public bathroom stall

No. 1048296

>>1048253
ask him why he writes his 9s like that

No. 1048335

File: 1643673627177.jpg (55.7 KB, 750x483, IMG_7471.jpg)

On my mothers phone (it's a huawei one) these notifications from some weird site keep popping up. It says stuff like "suspicious activity detected" and I'm assuming it wants you to click on it which I obviously would not. I've looked on the internet for how to stop this but it just shows results on how to deal with this issue on computers and not on mobile phones. Does anyone know what to do? i'm worried she'll get some virus or something, i'm not very tech literate so if any anons know what to do to fix this i'd be grateful

No. 1048351

Do you ever have dreams where you just talk to someone and you wake up with this nice feeling of warmth in your chest? It's hard to describe it but I actually saw on some chan someone saying they dreamed they were hanging with a gf and they had this warm feeling of happiness. It's probably because I'm a no life loser so my brain comes up with these scenarios in my head but I really like those dreams. It's a serene type of bliss.

No. 1048354

>>1048335
Have her reset her Gmail account passwords and clear everything from chrome after closing all the sites she has up, cache and cookies too. Probably a boomer who clicks on random sites and ads and somehow ended up with a tab of some shitty site up which sends phishing notifications

No. 1048359

>>1048335
>i'm worried she'll get some virus
Anon this is already malware. She either got it from installing sketchy apps or accidentally visiting an infected website (or a website that has infected ads/pop-ups) that led to a link that automatically downloaded an app without her noticing.
If you search her files on her phone, is there any file ending with ".apk" she doesn't recognize?
Either way, the best is to save everything (files, bookmarks, profiles etc) on a seperate place like an USBstick and reset the phone.

No. 1048364

>>1048359
Samefag but also like >>1048354 said, if she has any saved passwords or forms on her chrome browser, they might know them now. So changing passwords is only useful when you made sure the malware is removed.

No. 1048379

>>1048351
Yes me too, it's the onesthat I remember the clearest. What exactly did you dream of?
I once had a dream where I was hanging out and walking around in foreign places I never been to with people I never met irl, but in the dream the places were familiar and the clique were my best friends. The entire dream was just us talking, walking around, sitting around and joking around and it felt like home. In the end, we hung out at an empty playground watching the sunset as the sky turned red and they started being aware that I am going to wake up soon and will forget them. I said that I was happy to have met them, we hugged and said goodbyes and then I woke up feeling empty.

No. 1048391

>>1048354
>>1048359
when she goes onto the chrome app on her phone it does come up with entertainment/news articles so I am assuming it came from one of these.

I've also just looked through the files and I don't see any with the extension .apk however I've looked at the notifications on the chrome settings and it has notifications from that bestfaustcaptcha website allowed so I am going to turn that off, it seems she also has notifications allowed from some other websites that have just random letters and numbers as their url. is there anything else I should do? thank you for the help.

No. 1048405

>>1048364
unless she changes the passwords in a different browser on desktop and saves them in a password manager instead of letting the browser remember them (good habit anyway)

No. 1048437

>>1048391
same anon here, I also deleted the cache and cookies and luckily I don't think she had saved any passwords onto the browser so hopefully there shouldn't be any issues. I will get her to change her passwords though and I've told her to be more careful. thank you nonnies

No. 1048454

How do you get a hobby? I can't ever stick to anything I try. I do it for two weeks and get bored. I don't understand how people aren't bored of their hobbies.

No. 1048485

>>1048454
Cycle 2 or 3 different ones.

One for creativity, one for fitness, one for learning

No. 1048504

What's the magic science behind my period arriving quicker whenever I eat foods made out of pork like hotdogs and baloney? Also happens with burgers too depending on how much I have.

No. 1048619

>>1047932
>>1048130
Yeah, time is important, I could use that time for something better. I just wanted to know if accepting any and all dates, even if you're not interested, was the 'normie' thing to do.

No. 1048640

>>1048504
Maybe the hormones in the meats?

No. 1048757

how can u look at the 2x board can someone tell me?? ive tried /xx/ and /2x/ is it gone?

No. 1048780


No. 1048844

File: 1643707852705.jpg (6.17 KB, 275x164, 1626917905470.jpg)

i don't use IG, i only have an account to be able to open the website when i have a link to there or i wanna lurk, question is :
i accidentally liked a comment, and immediately unliked. the person doesn't follow me. will they get a notification ? got conflicting answers on google

No. 1048873

>>1048844
99% chance they did not

No. 1048874

File: 1643713482164.jpeg (57.49 KB, 1132x509, Title-Fight-TO-1132x509.jpeg)

This is going to sound extremely insensitive but people who look like they have down syndrome but don't: is there a name for this or is it just extremely unfortunate for them? It seems to affect men more than woman because I don't recall personally seeing a woman afflicted by this. Scrote in picrel definitely doesn't have down syndrome but looks like he may

No. 1048885

>>1048874
Nah i think thats just called being ugly

No. 1048886

>>1048874
he has some asian ancestry. Asia

No. 1048887


No. 1048898

>>1048379
That's so sweet! Yeah, I also have dreams where I just talk with some people I have never met irl before in places I have never been to but in my dreams it's like we've always known each other and everything is familiar so the same as you with the only difference that we're never aware it's a dream or don't bring it up. The warm feeling after that dream is amazing but it makes me sad that I will most likely never be with them again even in my dreams. I don't know how long the dream lasts in real time but in my dreams it feels like we've been together for the entire day and it feels good being with them because they're always non-judgemental and completely understand me.
>>1048403
I agree!

No. 1048908

>>1048874
I see this too on men and think the same thing kek it’s definitely related to the brow ridge, eye spacing/shape, and whatever retardation the Y chromosome bringeth.

No. 1048912

>>1048873
thanks for the answer, i'm relieved.

No. 1048915

File: 1643717269272.jpeg (50.52 KB, 900x538, 2221D744-49AE-4851-91BA-4C6610…)

>>1048874
I thought Marky Mark had a brother with the downs before their show aired lol Don’t know about who you posted but I know the Wahlbergs are Swedish. Maybe a Nordic man thing?

No. 1048919

>>1048912
No problem. Just know that most people do not have push notifications enabled and even if they did, unless you’re verified or the creator of the post, Instagram won’t even try to trigger a notification. If they were on the app when it happened, notifications are delayed and most comment like ones don’t pop up anyways.

No. 1048952

>>1041190
Three way bag or three way backpack.

No. 1049119

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what is it with those days when you keep eating and eating but you're never satisfied? it happens maybe once every three months but it's so annoying. pretty sure i inhaled like 4-5k calories today.

No. 1049121

>>1049119
I get that before my period

No. 1049126

>>1049119
Try drinking more water with your meal if you're not already!

No. 1049127

File: 1643737936492.png (3.44 KB, 225x225, dolphin.png)

Why do emulating communities frown upon pirating, what's the point to emulate if you're expected to own the game disk first?

No. 1049135

>>1049126
ohhh, interestingly enough i was very thirsty today too… thanks nonna, i'll try that.

>>1049121
me too, but i usually only eat maybe a bit more during that time. definitely not as much as i ate today.

No. 1049143

>>1049127
This whole "uwu we're just emulating not pirating" was a half assed cover to hide from "evil pirates ruining the game industry" scrutiny. Some people enjoyed the moral high horse and took it too seriously.

No. 1049174

Will going for a walk actually make me feel better in any sort of way, or is that a meme? It's like -16C here but I'm willing to be really cold if it'll make me feel human. I've barely left the house in the past 4.5 years. Should I walk outdoors?

No. 1049176

>>1049174
I does help a lot, you get to look at something different than the inside of your house, maybe you would be able to interact with real people, and the air outside of the house is actually fresh.

No. 1049181

>>1049174
Bring some headphones and go for it

No. 1049193

>>1049174
Movement/excersise + greenery (if you have any in your surroundings) both have proven to be beneficial for your mental and physical health. But it's not an instant fix, you should go walk on a regular basis.

No. 1049200

>>1049176
>>1049181
>>1049193
Thank you ladies, I'm gonna let my hair dry and head out. Thank you for such quick replies, too.

No. 1049221

File: 1643744807562.png (23.69 KB, 518x223, uihgzku.PNG)

Germany anons, or any anons really, why is DW News barred from broadcasting in Germany if it's created by DW, which is a public and state owned broadcaster?

No. 1049250

>>1049221
Because it's specifically made to influence the opinion of foreign countries on germany. Bureaucratic issues are probably a reason too, because it gets paid slightly differently than local tv stations.

No. 1049267

nonas, what's the best remedy for period related boob pain? are there even any? i swear it's worse than the cramping itself

No. 1049284

When anons say 'If you don't like the thread then hide it', is there an actual way to prevent a thread from appearing on the catalogue? All I see is an option to hide the threadpic, is that what anons mean when they say 'hide the thread'?

No. 1049287

>>1049174
I would suggest doing what is called mindful walking, really take in the experience instead of walking and being stuck in your head, if you can. Look at what people have in their windows, see if there are any cats roaming around, if there are flowers really look at their colours. I'm kind of a shut in and don't enjoy walking unless I do that. Try and appreciate sounds, colours, smells etc. You could also look more into the type of mindful walking that is basically walking medition, if that's something that interests you. Hope you enjoy your walk anon!

No. 1049290

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Gimme some healthy meal ideas

No. 1049298

>>1049284
You click the [-] to minimize the thread.

No. 1049305

Is there a way to favorite threads?

No. 1049317

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No. 1049318

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No. 1049332

What's a scaled score? The more I read about it the less I understand it, maybe because I'm ESL and I can't a good translation for that.

No. 1049363

What's the point of Pinterest, how do people use it and have communities there? I genuinely don't understand how it's currently one of the big social medias (sorry for the turbo-boomer tier question).

No. 1049367

>>1049363
I use it for interest boards related to things I like, character or mood boards, cute animals, and have cultivated a storied amount of dumb bitch memes there. It's a visual medium foremost, so you're definitely riding on the aesthetics to both create and organize boards and develop a following. Some people use it for things like recipes or hair or lifehacks but I always thought that was a passé older user thing. For me it's just a nice mindless scroll thru each day that allows me to organize things in my otherwise disorganized life. As a former graphic major it's also great for visual concept development

No. 1049370

>>1049363
I use Pinterest only for my own ideas and art I like. I don't interact with anyone on it or care about followers. Imo it really isn't a social media to me because I keep it to myself

No. 1049378

>>1049363
I’m a Pinterest addict. From what I hear and from my own experience, Pinterest isn’t much of a social media community but more of a “collect pics and organize them” kind of platform. I upload aesthetic pics of my room decor and people save them on their personal boards for inspiration. That’s it.

No. 1049394

>>1049363
the point of pinterest is to keep me from going ape shit

No. 1049396

>>1049363
You don't get it bc you immediately try to figure out how to have CoMMuniTy. It's not about other people. It's the "social media" for antisocial people who don't care about likes, just nice pictures. Only bad part is that it's become infested with children and males.

No. 1049405

>>1049367
>>1049370
>>1049378
>>1049394
It sounds like the successor of Tumblr but more image orientated then, thank you for all the replies!
>>1049396
No I'm not looking for some kind of community or whatever (I'm even the kind of asocial autist it apparently could appeal to), I've never even used it, it's just that I've seen it referred as a social media when it doesn't look like one, I guess it's a misnomer.

No. 1049406

>>1049363
I think it's considered more of a major marketing platform rather than a social media site. The 'social' aspect of pinterest is only relevant if you have a business.

No. 1049409

What’s the difference between homophobia and internalized homophobia?

No. 1049414

>>1049409
internalized homophobia is when a gay person is homophobic

No. 1049426

So a friend just told me he loves to eat out girls so so much…that he could do it for hours. I personally would NOT like that since I don't like getting oral anyway…but what about the rest of you? I cant imagine it would be fun to have some guy down there for an hour. Boring actually

No. 1049428

>>1049426
I mean ofc not if I already came but I tend to take a while so it's good if he doesn't get tired

No. 1049429

>>1049426
it never feels anywhere near as good as fingering does imo. i like when men like it purely because it's subversive but it's better to kiss and be fingered

No. 1049431

>>1049429
op here. are you me? i loooove getting fingered, getting eaten out kind of stresses me out because i don't like the guy's face being there all the time, i cannot imagine having a guy slurping around for an hour

No. 1049517

Am I a horrible person for yass queening someone into being a cam girl so she can never get a job in the career field she wants?

No. 1049529

>>1049426
I love oral so yes. But if the guy is good I don't last more than a few minutes. If it lasts an hour it should be because he's edging me, and not because he's terrible at it, kek. I know most people would find this boring as hell, but my ideal sex life would be just getting eaten out/having my clit rubbed and the guy being extremely enthusiastic about it, tbh.

No. 1049531

What does it mean when the tinder app icon is black and white on an iPhone? Are they paying for tinder gold or platinum or is it just a setting? I’m goin crazy trying to figure this out.

No. 1049541

>>1049426
I don't even like having regular sex for a long time. "Fuck all day/night/weekend" sounds like a nightmare tbh.

No. 1049564

>>1049517
Depends, did you do it because she's a shitty person who deserves it or did you just want to fuck over an innocent?

No. 1049712

>>1049517
No woman should do it to another woman, shame on you anon. You can still stop

No. 1049714

I made a Tumblr again because the nostalgia thread here got to me. One of my favorite things used to be making pretty themes so I did that only to realize Tumblr is super mobile-based now and you can't even see my theme so now I'm sad.

So my question is to the nonnies that still use Tumblr - are you using it on primarily on desktop or mobile? Because I don't use social media in general on my phone but I do on my computer.

No. 1049716

Can i increase booba size without plastic surgery/hormones?

No. 1049719

>>1049716
Become obese

No. 1049720

>>1049719
true i guess..

No. 1049721

>>1049714
i use it on desktop. the app doesnt exist in mycountry's appstore & i ignore every dashboard-only blog because i like to look at themes & people's archives mostly.

No. 1049726

>>1049716
Love your life with your current body and hope to be reborn in a body with huge, back breaking, badonkers.

No. 1049736

File: 1643800799827.jpg (26.67 KB, 500x375, jerk_jesus.jpg)

Should I go to the second hand clothes store today, I had an exam and I am so physically weak that I am really tired after it, but I wanna go. Also I have homework and I have to study. Please decide my life for me

No. 1049748

This is a very retarded sexual question but I'm a clueless fuck. Can women really enjoy anal sex? I've seen multiple anons say they did but always assumed it was trolls or scrotes.

No. 1049751

>>1049748
I'd say yes, but it depends on a person, meaning not every woman would enjoy it, and for many it would require specific approach maybe? I have a buttplug and like how it feels but I don't think I'd want to let a man have anal sex with me because for them it's a power fantasy

No. 1049771

>>1049751
Thank you for the answer. And I agree, men think of it as a humiliating power fantasy and sometimes even hurt women.

No. 1049781

>>1049748
I'm a virgin and sometimes i like presión down there, but i don't think i would like to insert something as big as a dildo or a penis, that would hurt like hell even with lub
>>1049751
This

No. 1049798

>>1049748
I like the feel of something in there (tried it once with a small dildo meant for the ass while masturbating but never again since there's too much preperation in order to be clean) but have never had a dick in there, nor would I, it would be too big to be comfortable.

No. 1049883

File: 1643814258063.jpeg (113.04 KB, 1080x720, ACB51F5A-6955-4865-A07E-8C7D70…)

Is this coffee worth the price and the hassle? Or does it taste like any other coffee and it’s just pretty and a flex? I want to give it a try someday, but the few times I’ve passed by the hotel I never had the chance to get a reservation and whatnot.

No. 1049884

>>1049883
If you got money to throw away I say go for it nonatella

No. 1049891

>>1049883
not been but i'd have to guess the latter. edible gold is literally flavorless, just go to a regular artisanal coffee shop for a "nice" cup of coffee and for way less. also i disagree w the sentiment about going for it if you have the money, spending money just to flex is gross

No. 1049892

File: 1643814694091.png (14.02 KB, 1466x486, fc2.png)

does any nona here use fc2 ? if so please please how can i remove that stupid magablo thing i cant figure it out its driving me absolutely insane. i never even clicked it but now its set automatically all over my blogposts and when i choose to "disable sale of magablo" it just says the sale has ended/unable to purchase when i look at my blog entries on incognito. please help ! i hope i am just retarded and that there is an easy way out of this. thank you in advance

No. 1049931

What’s an easy hobby I can pick up and get easily obsessed with it so I have a reason to live? I don’t have a PlayStation or anything so gaming is out of question.

No. 1049934

>>1049931
Crocheting or knitting. It's easier than it looks, plus at the end of the obsession you have a bunch of stuffed animals or handmade clothing

No. 1049939

For the black anons, what does it mean to be "ashy" and why cocoa butter fixes it? sorry for my autism

No. 1049942

>>1049931
What >>1049934 said, also Embroidery. I picked that up during lockdown. You can buy kits on amazon/etsy!

No. 1049949

>>1049939
I’m not black im brown and have dry skin so I can answer your question, it’s basically when parts of your skin specially the knuckles elbows and knees since theyre darker are dry and look gray so moisturizer or cocoa butter gets rid of that grayness (ashiness)

No. 1049955

>>1049939
You're ashy too you just don't see it

No. 1049957

>>1049931
Guitar is so fun. You can probably get a cheaper one on Facebook marketplace or Craigslist. I've picked mine up again last Saturday and it's the only thing I can think about. Not talking in meetings? Guitar. Done task at work? Guitar. Waiting for something to finish running? Guitar. It hurts my fingertips but I'm just pushing through the pain, which isn't a good idea. I'm just obsessed!

No. 1049961

>>1049748
Piggybacking off of this, does anyone actually enjoy getting their ass eaten? It's become such a meme but I don't understand it. My fwb once licked my butthole during sex and it weirded me out so much I still think about it sometimes and cringe.

No. 1049972

>>1049957
NTA but that’s so nice to hear, nonna. I bought mine last August but I haven’t had the heart to pick it up after the first three, four times. I’m so glad you’re obsessed with yours, post a nonny-tune for us when you can!

No. 1049974

>>1049748
i don't believe so. those bitches have a lot of explaining to do. so you mean to tell me you ENJOY the feeling of holding a turd inside of you, essentially? hold a dookie inside yourself for a while, that's the shit you want to feel while cumming? yeah sure. that's fucked up and i do not believe it, this is all psychologically/socially induced.
>inb4 "b-b-but there are nerves in/around it!!"
maybe, but there are more nerves in/around the vagina, you know, the area meant to accomodate penetration and that is far less likely to be damaged by penetration

No. 1049978

Should I learn Japanese or Korean? Currently learning German but bored with the lack of interesting media to consume

No. 1049983

>>1049961
yes, i don't know why. i don't prefer it or ask for it. it just feels nice? i don't allow it if i'm not 100% clean and freshly showered. i've never tried anything more than that (like, even too much attention paid there is too much for me, and i've never tried a plug or whatever) and i'm not particularly interested in trying either

No. 1049987

hi nonnies

how do i develop a good work ethic? so far the answer is always “i fell in with hardworking people so i emulated them”, but i have a hard time properly “falling in” with anyone at all. and if i try to make friends with someone a lot of the times they don’t share my interests or even operate from the same axis so there’s a major disconnect and it falls off. the only people wanted to be friends with are the nonnies on here. it’s just that everything in life boils done to “you need to be enmeshed in a community and do things together to get anywhere”, and while i’m good at solitary activities it’s hard to keep at them alone and develop consistency without seeing it echoed better in other people who i can call friends. i could do it at 14, but now? brain fried

No. 1049988

>>1049961
It feels good for me. I think I have a lot of nerves on the outside, and in general I like being licked so I enjoy it. But only the outside. I've had guys try to stick their tongue deep inside, it just hurts and feels awful. I've also had one guy who was way more enthusiastic over eating my ass more than my pussy, and I broke up with him shortly after, kek.

No. 1049990

>>1049974
Relax anon, there's people who get extremely turned on by having their stomach, feet, neck, etc touched, do women who enjoy anything other than having their vulva touched are weird and pickmes?

No. 1049993

>>1049988
Lol I knew a girl who was dating a guy who said he would only enjoy fucking her vaginally if it was to procreate. That's sad, porn sick men are the worse, imagine not being able to have sex without the stinky poop smell after "unless it was to make a baby"

No. 1050003

>>1049990
people underestimate how influenced they are by external pressure. a lot of people are suggestible. it's literally like holding a large shit. having your neck, legs, feet touched is not displeasurable in the way that it is to essentially simulate defecation

No. 1050010

>>1049531
I think it's just a custom app icon pack

No. 1050017

Why is it when you’re super young you see huge age gaps as nbd compared to being older? Stupid question, I know, but fitting for the thread.

It happens IRL too (having crushes on teachers, etc) but right now I’m rereading a manga I liked as a kid (around 10-11) and I never even noted an issue with one of the side couples being teacher-student with a gap of 12 years. Now I’m 22 and I’m struggling to even get through these chapters. It’s weird to think that back then I was reading this and literally saw it as normal.

No. 1050022

>>1050017
age isn't real when you're 11

No. 1050058

>>1049987
No idea if this is advice that should be given, but I shamed myself into it. Like, I'm not self loathing all the time or anything, but I managed to get into the head space that I'm genuinely disappointed in myself when I slack off. It's not shame as in "omg you're so stupid you'll never amount to anything" but the sober kind of shame where you know you can do better, so why did you waste your precious time on not doing it properly the first time around? i eased(?) into it by imagining how disappointed husbando of the week would be, too

No. 1050068

>>1050017
When you're a kid you lack the maturity and nuance to realize how fucked up those age gaps are. When you're 11 you tend to think you're incredibly mature and grown up, and you haven't know anything else. Then you actually grow up and gain some perspective and you realize that any adult interested in dating the 11 year old version of you is fucked in the head.

No. 1050072

>>1050017
Kids don't understand the cognitive differences between children and adults. Adults do understand it.

No. 1050104

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How do I stop looking ridiculous when I'm focused? I'm one of those people that sticks my tongue out when I'm concentrating AND for whatever reason I curl my arm into my chest, kind of like a person who has had a stroke or has cerebral palsy. So almost the whole day while I'm working I have my tongue out and my arm all curled up like a chicken wing. I could handle if I just stuck my tongue out, though that's still embarrassing because it's something most people grow out of when they get older. I only care now because I'm no longer working remote and so everyone can see me spazzing out.

No. 1050157

>>1050104
meh, just embrace it. the more people see others being minorly weird and harmless, maybe the less annoying and judgy the world will be.

No. 1050249

>>1050017
I assume most kids and teens won't see it as a big deal then (or else child abuse simply wouldnt be as common) but once you get older you start to realize how wrong it really is. When I was 14-17 ish I would get involved with much older men and had a relationship with an older man at 18-19 with a 23-24 yr old. Never realized how wrong it was until I actually got to that age and wouldn't even think of dating an 18 yr old at 22, nevermind dating literal high schoolers. Seriously what in the world do any of these people have in common? How would a grown ass adult who has to worry about bills, work, education, etc be able to remotely relate to a child who's only thoughts are high school gossip and how their 2nd period teacher is a bitch? Not to mention the fact most teens are extremely annoying, even more now with tiktok. This is all just gross

No. 1050256

>>1050003
Depends, I usually use anal numbing cream and it just feels like I'm being fucked in an extra vagina is the best way I can describe it, I assume this is what people who claim to cum from anal do as well

No. 1050261

>>1049978
Korean is easier, go with that first.

No. 1050265

>>1050256
retarded as hell. There’s a reason it hurts

No. 1050266

>>1049978
Look at pics of korean and jap dudes and pick the ones u think look better

No. 1050267

>>1050256
so you numb the area to allegedly feel more? makes no sense. you're just damaging your anus. good luck with your future retention issues and fissures, no offense.

No. 1050287

What browser do you nonnas use?

No. 1050289

should i put hyphens in my tumblr url or just do a string of words

No. 1050297

>>1050287
firefox

No. 1050302

>>1050289
string of words

No. 1050308

>>1050289
string of numbers

No. 1050321

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What happens if an ana-chan meets an ana-kun? How does the relationship play out?

No. 1050341

>>1050321
they’ll always low-key be competing against each other to be the skinniest one.

No. 1050369

>>1050321
Skinny males are narc fags, they are incapable of being romantic or thoughtful

No. 1050387

>>1050321
clang clang rattle rattle xylophone solo clang

No. 1050483

How do I beat into my head that I will be so much happier if I delay gratification? I have such a big problem with changing my mindset, I completely forget about it when a temptation strikes. I hate it

No. 1050486

>>1050483
Gym membership / sports club
Tough at first but floods you with endorphins when you finish
This way your brain learns

No. 1050489

I just bought a cheap android tablet. what are the best cheap/free apps for doing digital art? I've never done any kind of digital art outside of paint package before so it doesn't have to do anything amazing

No. 1050576

What is up with this seed oil meme I'm seeing everywhere now?

No. 1050600

why do anglophones call it brazilian wax

>t. brazilian

No. 1050604

>>1050600
I found a couple things
>The woman who had started it all was Janea Padilha, a diminutive sixtysomething grandmother from the Bahia region of eastern Brazil—one of seven enterprising sisters (along with Judseia, Jussara, Juracy, Jocely, Joyce, and Jonice). After they opened their own New York salon in 1987, Janea decided three years later to introduce the Brazilian wax: a nude nether region, back and front, topped off by a frontal “landing strip,” or by a simple design or triangle, or by nothing at all. It proved to be a thunderous success.
https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2017/09/secret-history-of-the-brazilian-wax-the-naughty-nineties
>Yet that began to change when bikinis in Brazil got smaller in the 70s and 80s and the beaches in Rio de Janeiro began to fill up with women in thong-bottom bikinis. As bottoms got smaller, exposed skin area became bigger and women started to wax almost all the pubic region to ensure smooth, clear skin around the bikini with no pubic hair poking out.
https://theculturetrip.com/south-america/brazil/articles/the-story-behind-how-the-brazilian-wax-got-its-name/

No. 1050663

Not to come off as racist but I have a legit question; why are so many pajeets?

In my university, there are a ton compared to other international students and (forgive me paneer anons) they smell like curry and body odor. I should’ve taken the train…

No. 1050669

>>1050663
India's like 17% of the world population. The most popular Youtube channel is in India too. It's a combo of poverty, the expectations of getting married to produce children, and a culture of shitting out dozens of kids (farmhands) per woman.

No. 1050675

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what's the appeal with sachiko kaneoya's drawings?
i like some of them kinda but i really hate the ones with furries because they remind me of those creepy makeups/masks/prosthetics whatever
picrel

No. 1050678

>>1050669
The bus ride literally felt like I was in India

No. 1050684

>>1050604
ohh ty nonna! it's funny cause in brazil we just call it a regular wax.

No. 1050697

Wtf even constitutes having a panic attack? Just having a crying breakdown?
Thinking you’re having some sort of heart related episode but it’s just anxiety?
Hyperventilating?
It just feels like such a blanket term now

No. 1050698

>>1049564
>>1049712
She fucked me over really bad, made me relive a traumatic experience and never properly apologized for it. She's still in my life but at a distance so I wasn't the only person "yass queen"-ing her. I just feel a little guilty since I was adding into it for a more personal reason.

>>1050489
Autodesk sketch book.

No. 1050702

>>1050486
Man, it’d be so much easier to stay active if this was the case. I mean I’m sure it is like that for some people but never for me. Even during covid when I did 2 hours of strenuous hiking a day, 6 days a week there was never any mood payoff.

No. 1050723

is it bad to eat dark chocolate before bed?

No. 1050725

>>1050723
Yes you're supposed to eat it in bed

No. 1050729

>>1050725
so it is bad but I should eat it? nonny help

No. 1050739

>>1050729
fuck rules fuck being good eat the chocolate

No. 1050743

>>1050739
NONNY MY SLEEP APNEA

No. 1050759

Has anyone attended a “tier 1” university and said university has boasted from time to time about being a tier 1 research institution for higher learning? My uni was granted that status over 10 years ago and hasn’t shut up about it since.

No. 1050903

Do you guys think China and Russia might form a Communist Union or something in the future?

No. 1050920

Where do I find a crack or something so my Photoshop trial period doesn't expire?

No. 1050921

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No. 1050924

>>1049517
>>1050698
>She fucked me over really bad, made me relive a traumatic experience and never properly apologized
>she triggered me! So I helped her become a camwhore and ruin her career opportunities! Muhahaha!
I hate it when women sabotage women to this length. You could've made fun of her or stolen her friends, petty shit like that but ruining her life? Probably causing her way more serious trauma than yours?

No. 1050928

>>1050256
Wtf anon? Please don't use numbing cream, you won't be able to realize if you get hurt until it's too serious! There's a reason chronically using painkillers isn't recommended, so that you can feel pain when something goes wrong with your body.

No. 1050946

>>1050903
No, and they aren't that communist nowadays

No. 1051005

>>1050946
How are they "not that communist"?

No. 1051034

New thread: >>>/ot/1051033

No. 1051036

>>1050946
Could you elaborate on this?

No. 1051252

>>1050287
Duckduckgo



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