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No. 1796356

>adhere to site and board rules
>do NOT respond to bait
>report and ignore trolls or obvious maleposters instead of replying like an idiot

previous thread:
>>1783260
>>1783260
>>1783260

No. 1796360

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My unpopular opinion is that BROWN Christmas is the BEST Christmas. Cookies, ginger and chocolate themed, best Christmas ever.

No. 1796384

Not fitting the beauty standard can be a blessing if you’re smart. Most women are told at a young age that it’s possible to grow up, have kids and have a man take care of you. Ugly girls learn early on that no man is going to be helpful to us beyond sex and we develop a “well no one’s gonna take of me so I better find a path” and we are better able to care for ourselves. Pretty women get love bombed a lot so they end up jumping relationship to relationship all their youth trying to find someone who will take care of them and when they do they just end up in financially abusive relationships.

No. 1796413

>>1796384
>ugly women are never abused
what a take…

No. 1796415

>>1796413
I said if you’re smart.

No. 1796416

>>1796415
Samefag also with ugly women scrotes show their true colors faster. While they will string prettier women on longer.

No. 1796420

>>1796416
This is true, I wouldn't say my sister is ugly she's just "average" in her own words, scrotes show their true nasty personalities around her while they treat me "right". Of course, it's all an act, but it shows that if you're deemed a "trophy" moids will butter you up and hide their real personas for far longer

No. 1796428

>>1796420
Yep. Im below average and guys make it clear from day one they just want a cum sock. They don’t really care if I tell them to fuck off because they see me as disposable. Now with pretty girls they will make all these bullshit promises etc because they have more to gain from having her around or impregnating her.

No. 1796430

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>>1796346
Well I was abused as a kid and when I was a teenager, I had a lil bf who would come rescue me and give me the bare minimum and let me stay the night at his house to escape my ghetto home and get me food and new clothes and he helped me get my birth certificate and ID because my mom refused to get me them as she was using my information for credit cards and for some reason just didn’t want me to get a job or place of my own, it goes a lot deeper than “just don’t let an abuser hit you!” Because they isolate you and emotionally abuse you til you feel like you can’t do anything lik work or go to school, but my parents were my worst enemies and my bf who helped me with everything had me stay with him and he would go through my phone all the damn time and butt into my friend groups and start shit, he made me lose a few friends. No not just guy friends, girl friends he though were “bad influences” he infantalized me because of how bad my life was at home. He would snap at me while I was at work and couldn’t text him he had this “you owe me for all I’ve done for you” attitude, he broke my phone and locked me out of his apartment at night so I had to walk back home. I just felt stupid when his true colors started coming out. Some guys “rescue “ you only to turn out to be shitty. Pls don’t come at me with the “ur so retarded you chose to be abused”
Why do people think women just hit it off with a guy who punches them in the face on the first date or something? Of course nobody does that

No. 1796433

>>1796430
Samefag and I agree with the OP who said some women choose to stay with abusive guys and the other one who said she doesn’t feel bad for the ones with kids. My mom was with an abusive dude and added fuel to the fire by cheating and then she liked starting. Fights with him.

No. 1796434

>>1796420
They eventually slip up though. They always do. At the end of the day men will always hate you because you’re a woman. Being pretty is a benefit in that it will greatly reduce the day to day cruelty but long term it won’t protect you from misogyny. These scrotes may be less overtly mean to you if they think you’re pretty but they don’t give you princess treatment either.

No. 1796436

I hate this debate lol. sure scrotes will never fully see you as human but don't act like being a pretty object doesn't come with a ton of advantages when it comes to treatment. men will abuse the SHIT out of ugly women because they don't give a fuck about keeping them around long term, they'll assrape you and hit you and expect you to be grateful for it while they rein that side in completely if a cute girl appears

No. 1796438

>>1796436
sure, maybe it's an act, but men's "love" does hinge on how you look and at least you have a chance at better treatment if you fall within their beauty standards. if you're ugly to them every interaction with a male will pretty much be abusive and degrading
inb4 "pretty women get ab-" yes we know, nobody is saying otherwise

No. 1796446

>>1796436
Im ugly and I used to get this treatment when I was young but I kind of feel like it was a blessing. If I fit the beauty standard in my teens and young adult years I’d probably have a bunch of kids right now and I wouldn’t own my own house.

No. 1796450

>>1796446
Samefag and looking back at the guys who used to treat me like that I thank god that they saw me as only good for a 2am fuck because imagine if I actually married these men and had their children……

No. 1796452

>>1796446
you're coping hard

No. 1796453

>>1796452
I would love to be pretty now but growing up in the ghetto of Detroit I thank god I was considered ugly because it saved
Me from a life of being a baby momma

No. 1796457

>>1796452
Sounds like someone has kids but no house lol.

No. 1796462

can unpopular opinions always be a golden retriever from now on? or a blonde lab they’re both so sweet

No. 1796463

>>1796446
Kek I agree with >>1796452 plenty of beautiful women exist who own their own homes and don't have children.

No. 1796468

>>1796452
i think most of us are only thinking of millennials, because millennials can only afford a home with a dual income and it’s not often you see a 32 year old who doesn’t have roommates or isn’t living in a flophouse. There are plenty of Gen X ladies who have their own homes and no kids though

No. 1796469

>>1796453
Can relate, ghetto af upbringing where my cousins and friends were having sex in middle school meanwhile I repelled males until I was in my 20s. It was a blessing no matter how bad I felt for being called ugly to my face

No. 1796474

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Fags are getting way too brave with the sexism. Most lesbians aren't like this and actually acknowledge straight women get dog piled on with pure misogyny, but the gays and lesbians who act like straight women are anywhere near as bad as straight men are just retarded and peak example of the perpetual SJW tumblr user victimhood mentality. This post is so ridiculous, most women are in fact not into Kpop guys. And are we gonna act like gay men aren't into hairless, highly preened, feminine looking twinks with a bbl and a bleached asshole? Just because some gays are into hairy ugly fat bears doesn't mean the superior gay male has an inherently better, more natural taste than the lowly straight female. So many gay men are into trannys or won't fuck twinks over 23 and all bottoms have to take a bunch of laxatives to shit their stomachs out then get an enema so they don't shit on a dick, don't give me that about faggots loving "au natural bodies" lmao.

No. 1796476

>>1796434
I agree. I used to be ugly and then I got a nose job, a bit of filler and learned how to groom myself and suddenly I was treated a lot better by everyone. I used to think people were just assholes where I live, turns out that nope! I was just ugly.

Ugly women do get one advantage, though. Pretty women like my older sister have a much harder time embracing aging and being "invisible" because they get used to being treated a certain way and think everyone is mean to them when that's just how they treat women they don't want to fuck. My sister cries about it all the time but for years she didn't believe me when I told her I was being bullied and even female cashiers were mean to me.

No. 1796478

>>1796468
I’m 32 and I own my own home and have no kids
>>1796463
It happens but it’s easier to have less distractions in life if you’re an ugly woman. Let’s be real if a guy comes in a woman’s life buying her gifts, telling her she’s the best ever and love bombing her 99% of the time she’s going to fall for it and end up baby trapped or his roommate in an apartment.

No. 1796479

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>>1796468
>flophouse
Hey my shoebox apartment is a nice shoebox!

No. 1796481

>>1796476
You don't become super invisible until like late 40s. She must be old or gained weight. Even other fat people treat you worse if you get fat

No. 1796482

>>1796469
When I was in school I was hurt when the cute boys didn’t want anything to do with me and now I’m thankful because they’re in prison

No. 1796488

>>1796476
>even female cashiers were mean to me
Do these sorts of things really happen? I have never felt that I should treat someone poorly just because I find them ugly (I mean, it might be easier not to be super nice to them, but I don't go an think of them as gum on the bottom of my shoe).

No. 1796489

>>1796479
I’m sorry nonnie I didn’t mean to be insulting

No. 1796490

>>1796488
They don't cognitively decide to treat you poorly, they just get irritated at your existence and unload their frustration on you. In reverse a gorgeous person has the opposite effect, calming people down and making them agreeable.

No. 1796491

>>1796488
Yes, as >>1796490 said you're just seen as an annoyance if you're ugly and most things that a pretty person can do are cringe when you do it.

No. 1796496

Wooden cooking utensils suck because if you lick them they taste like wood and sometimes they make your food taste like wood and you can’t throw them in the dishwasher without them tasting like detergent

No. 1796515

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>>1796430
Why are you posting my husbando for??

No. 1796535

>>1796478
That’s beautiful I’m very happy for you! Unfortunately for others, you are an outlier and that is an achievement that not many people are capable of.

No. 1796552

>>1796476
are you sure it was just your appearance and not just taking better care of yourself in general + being more confident? I'm ugly and even in my worse moment when I dressed like a hobo and was shy women were still nice to me

No. 1796561

Every job you take the first 3 months should be used for saving for a fire fund. So WHEN your job eventually fires you, you have 3 months of savings to cover you until you find a new job. Everyone says they can’t save but you seriously need to do this.

No. 1796569

>>1796561
>3 months
Jesus, you are living on the edge if you do that. You should have 2 years of living expenses in savings at all times.

No. 1796581

True love is real but most people never find it because they settle way too early.

No. 1796591

>>1796552
nta but they were probably nice out of pity, not because they liked you, notice how you said it was only women.

No. 1796603

>>1796259
I agree and posted something similar before. I also believe that many physically abusive relationships had several extremely obvious red flags before it turned really bad, but the women enjoy it deep down. Some of these female victims love the making up part of it, calming her beast, crying into his arms as he "apologizes". Something in them find the whole situation to be sexy and exciting, much more so than having a dull moid who only watches soccer games and picks his nose.

I fucking hate men and will never take their side, but realizing some women kinda enjoy abuse was brutal. A lot of them aren't leaving not because he'll kill them if they do or whatever, but because the woman wants to keep her unpredictable beast that makes her feel like a dainty wounded little deer.

No. 1796614

>>1796569
That's completely unrealistic in the current economy.

No. 1796616

wish there was a thread where you can let out all your racist as fuck opinions, make it a free for all, no bans, dish it and take it, i’m tired of withholding!(retarded bait)

No. 1796617

>>1796360
I agree with you. It's so cozy

No. 1796618

>>1796384
Most people actually do want to get married, have kids and live a normal life. If you're ugly you're more likely to live that life with a poor, stupid ugly man.

The day to day treatment doesn't matter as much as you think. Most people just carve out a niche for themselves and get in their own routine, so you can easily sort yourself in a position where people treat you right. That niche is more likely to be a terrible niche if you're ugly, no doubt about it.

Also if you're smart and pretty you should be easily able to work out your worth by the time you're twenty.

No. 1796636

Escaping poverty is easy once you cut out your costly habits. It’s always the “eat the rich” types who never wanna take responsibility for their life

No. 1796652

>>1796616
You wanna make one right now? I don’t really think it’ll be entirely unused kek

No. 1796657

>>1796474
most women fuck and marry ugly men on a daily basis. The strictest straight woman standard is tall skinny with a full head of hair. Only women suffer from the problem.

No. 1796658

>>1796636
Yeah those costly habits like paying bills and eating groceries that won’t send you to an early grave

No. 1796659

“we all bleed red” yeah well sometimes some of our blood is also purple, and pink, and brown, and black so shut up fag

No. 1796661

>>1796515
get better standards for a husbando

No. 1796662

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male ugliness is solvable

No. 1796663

>>1796552
anon said she got a nose job, that's beyond simple grooming

No. 1796664

>>1796662
I don't entirely disagree but I feel I'd need a new 3/4 pic of this dude before judging the improvement.

No. 1796665

>>1796384
Ugly people's cope lmao. Pretty women aren't automatically retarded just because they're pretty, they can think, too. Pretty smart women who are successful and independent or at least in good relationships exist. Being ugly doesn't make you enlightened or give you special talents kek. But keep believing that if it makes you feel better about your reflection in the mirror. I'm ugly and smart but I recognize the importance of beauty and strive for it to be perfect and complete.

No. 1796666

>>1796662
ugh I just saw that too. His face just keeps getting longer like he’s the dad in coraline.

No. 1796669

>>1796662
Based and facts.

No. 1796671

>>1796659
since when do aliens use lolcow?

No. 1796676

>>1796430
Nta but I'm in a similar situation as you were minus being rescued. And the part about your bf infantailizing you for your situation convinced me even more to never open up to anyone about my true past and life if I ever get out of it. It really sucks how people treat you when they know that stuff about you. Only people who aren't weird about it are ones who have gone through the same and understand what it's like. I hope things get better for you though ♥

No. 1796678

>>1796496
i have an over abundance of wooden spoons and they all have to be hand washed. I hate it so much.

No. 1796679

>>1796662
I hate this take so much it's unreal. I'm not going to fuck someone just because they combed their hair and put on a suit. My pussy is not a charity. Handing out candy to anyone who puts on a costume is NOT a policy that should be extended to the bedroom. Men live life on easy mode because YOU LET THEM. It's his fucking FACE that's the problem. He looks like a chimp with septic leprosy lesions. His nose would've gotten him gased even if he was the prince of Bavaria. In an ideal world such a man would've never been born. The whole point of genetic engineering is to take men like him out of the gene pool. His face is a testament against the existence of a loving God because no one deserves to look like that.
But she can go right ahead and fuck wigs if she's so attracted to hair.

No. 1796680

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>>1796661
What do you mean?? it doesn't get any better than Titan, my standards are sky-high I bet you fancying some random animu while I'm here claiming this hunk

No. 1796682

>>1796662
He's still not cute
>>1796680
I support you anon

No. 1796687

>>1796616
why are all of you so racist wtf

No. 1796688

>>1796679
Based. Your post made me laugh, but you're right. She has bare minimum taste.

No. 1796693

>>1796616
>>1796652
Do newfags think something will be allowed just because you make a specific thread for it?

No. 1796694

>>1796687
It's one or two anons that have been racebaitng. Report and ignore

No. 1796716

>>1796687
Racism doesn't count if you're only racist against men

No. 1796727

I’m racist and proud.(retarded bait)

No. 1796734

i’m not racist but i’m glad jussie smollet is going back to jail

No. 1796737

>>1796727
im scared i didnt know this was the tradthot website

No. 1796744

>>1796474
pretty much only true for straight men and how they think of women. funny that they pretend like women are as retarded as males are when it comes to attraction just because boy bands exist

No. 1796745

>>1796737
It's not. That anon is an ugly retard and none of us like her.

No. 1796749

>>1796745
good to know.. thank you for reassuring me

No. 1796750

have the mods ever confirmed how many people use this website monthly? or at least what number of browsers use the site over a 30 day period? Genuinely wonder if it’s the same 3 people or actually a lot of people

No. 1796753

>>1796750
same i just assume theres like 10 different people that use this site

No. 1796758

>>1796750
I don't remember the exact numbers but last I checked (like a year ago) there's somewhere between 200-500 active users. There's definitely more than 10 people, the cow boards and non-cow boards do not overlap very much and the userbases are almost completely separate.

No. 1796762

>>1796665
Women who have the intelligent enough to not get their beauty taken advantage of are rare

No. 1796775

>>1796415
>>1796384
anyone can end up being abused no matter how smart or beautiful they are. you sound like someone who has very little life experience.

No. 1796777

>>1796775
Kek the older you get when you read around this website the more you realize how young/inexperienced anons here are

No. 1796785

>>1796777
I believe some nonnas are 18-22 so no wonder they think these things, my head was full of shit too when I was around that age.

No. 1796788

Being female doesnt make you immune to criticism. I think the current state of feminism is, in part, our fault for not gatekeeping.

No. 1796792

>>1796788
choice feminism ruined modern feminism. people think because a woman chose to do something it's above criticism. a lot of the times we engage in self destructive behaviours that only feed the patriarchy and those behaviours deserve to be criticised. people get personally offended if you say things like makeup or shaving are not empowering feminist things because they think you're criticising them. do whatever you want but don't call it empowering because it's not.

No. 1796796

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Twin Peaks is not overrated. It's an amazing show.

No. 1796799

>>1796384
it's never this simple. nothing ever is

No. 1796803

>>1796796
I don’t even consider it television because it’s so unrealistically cinematic

No. 1796806

>>1796762
I think this probably only happens where you live, and I assume it's America, so I think it's a culture thing. Where I live no one gets taken advantage of because of their looks, and no one is ostracized for being ugly either. We didn't have popular girls just because they were pretty in school. Even actresses and songstresses aren't required to be beautiful and skinny as long as they're talented and fit their roles. But it's not because I live somewhere super progressive tbf, it's more it's a super religious sexually repressed society so no one can act on sexual basis by judging and valuing people for looks or vice versa. I think in societies where sex isn't too important like in America, but it isn't a frowned upon thing either, people are neutral about looks. But this is just my hypothesis.

No. 1796807

>>1796806
Nta, but what country?
I live in a conservative/religious country too (in Eastern Europe) and people pay attention to looks a lot, as early as when you're a child.

No. 1796811

>>1796796
It's so unique and I love that it inspired Deadly Premonition.

No. 1796817

>>1796474
faggots shave their asshole every day and clog drains so their butthole can imitate a pussy for someone’s closeted gay middle aged CPA husband and then go ahead and post shit like this online because how dare women find junglebook from bts attractive

No. 1796823

>>1796807
I apologize but it's too embarrassing to say which one, all I can say is it's in the middle east. But maybe it's the gender segregation and death penalty for sex thanks to sharia law that makes people forget about looks, and everyone being ugly and looking the same anyways. not pakistan, I'm so tried of being accused of being that one anon whenever I say middle east or sharia law kek

No. 1796824

>>1796817
Junglebook LMAO

No. 1796836

>>1796796
i just wish the second season was better

No. 1796850

>>1796687
Because like a few of the posters who got outed and tripfagged were retards from /Soc/ they probably absorb the racism from the chans, besides anon is probably chubby and ethnic(self hating) like seal chan.

No. 1796864

All the chatroom threads on /ot/ have been very bad for site health. Many other threads on /ot/, /m/, and /g/ have been neglected in favor of everything being shoved into these chatroom threads

No. 1796878

>>1796864
Which ones do you consider chat room-y?

No. 1796879

>>1796878
NTA but I assume the dumbass shit thread, the fun thread or whatever it's called, the shitposting thread, etc.

No. 1796883

>>1796864
I know this is hard to believe but those chatroomy threads are the only attention that some anons get. Sad isn’t it

No. 1796884

>>1796878
Basically what >>1796879 said. We have so many good threads on different boards but new users refuse to use them because they are slow.

No. 1796891

>>1796879
Dumbass thread used to be slower and literally full of pure dumbass shit. Just the dumbest shit you could think of. I miss it.

No. 1797008

>>1796676
Tysm nona likewise, they are it’s hard but I’m getting there

No. 1797108

Lana Del Rey is actually more talented than the majority of current pop artists. She was able to create a whole unique "cinematic universe" that transcends throughout her discography. BUT I fucking hate Lanafags just as much as I hate Lana-haters. I think she is an absolute POS and memed a whole generation of women into getting groomed. Plus the fact she is a massive pick-me and a liar. I wish I could find people that like her music as much as I do, but also hate her as a person as much as I do.

No. 1797121

Don't know how unpopular this is but babies do not belong in "nice" restaurants. The baby doesn't want to be sat still for 2+ hours while surrounded by chaotic noises and smells, the other patrons don't want to hear fussing and crying (or, god forbid, smell someone changing a diaper on the table. Yes, I've seen it happen) when they've paid unreasonable amounts of money to eat there, and I assume the staff wants a butt in the table who can actually purchase the food they're selling. It's tourist season over here so our population has increased by 1/3 and it's mostly entitled people who think their experience takes priority over common consideration for others.

No. 1797123

>>1797121
This is popular to everyone except the people who do this.

No. 1797134

>>1797121
anon you reminded me of a man at our restaurant who's toddler started crying and he immediately stormed out with her saying "see this! this is why we never go out! why you wont see us for a few years!" they ended up having to stand outside in turns with the little girl crying. it would've been cheaper for this large table to just order food to someone's house. I had a toddler acting up once when I was at a nicer calm restaurant and was slowly getting pissed off enough to ask to be moved or confront the parents myself. the kid was 4-6 years so not a baby but they didn't give a shit about the behavior.

No. 1797141

>>1797134
Jeez, fuck that first guy with something rusty. It's not the toddler's fault he put her in a situation she's not ready to handle! Extra awful to make a big scene like that, like is it so hard to just quietly go outside and let the poor kid calm down without making them feel like it's all their fault?

No. 1797157

>>1796891
yeah, people just use it as a blog thread now which is pretty lame

No. 1797158

>>1797121
agree. i usually think people should be accomodating and understanding towards parents in public but taking out a small baby or toddler to a restaraunt is just plain stupid. it stresses everyone out and you dont even enjoy the meal

No. 1797201

The absolute coolest anons are the ones in the ProJared thread sperging about how horrifically fugly he is and I believe that with all of my heart.

No. 1797237

Ragtime is the show all the irritating musical theater people on Tumblr wanted Hamilton to be.

No. 1797485

Getting my period is painful yeah but it makes me feel better physically, like I’m bloated and gross and sweaty before but once it starts it feels like a detox

No. 1797493

>>1797121
I see you and I raise you with: babies/toddlers don't fucking belong in a museum/art gallery/historical monument (castle, fort etc.) that's not tailored to em.
Anyone who takes their fussy baby or 1-4 year old to a Chagall exhibition or Neuschwanstein castle or whatever the hell art gallery can fuck right off with their shit, there are plenty of other activities parents can do with their kids. And like I said there are museums/cultural or historical places tailored to kids with activities etc. , they ought to go there if they can't drop their progeny at grandma's or get em a babysitter. The other museum/art gallery/monument goers don't go see art/cultural areas to have to listen to kids' crying resonating through the halls.

No. 1797496

>>1797121
>or, god forbid, smell someone changing a diaper on the table. Yes, I've seen it happen
And the family was kicked out right after that? Please say yes.

No. 1797506

>>1797493
Agreed. Most young children don't want to be at a museum or art exhibit that isn't tailored to them because there's not much for them to do other than walk slowly with the grownups and look at things they have no context for. It's really selfish on the parents' part too, and they always try to justify it as "b-b-but how else am I going to teach them TEH CULTURE!?!?!?", but really, you can encourage cultural interest at home and then take them to a place once they're excited for it so their boredom and frustration isn't bothering everyone else.
>>1797496
Sorry nonna, they were not.

No. 1797646

I like isekai, I just find it nice to sit down when I'm feeling blue, look up a random one and pick read on how a new character would try and survive in another world.
Maybe it's just me, but it's easier to find ones that aren't awfully sexualized compared to other genres like shounen, just cut out any that have the "harem" or "fanservice" tag and there's a decent number that are pretty alright.

No. 1797664

>>1797496
nta but ive seen it multiple times and no, the family never gets told to leave

No. 1797809

Conservatives are the only ones who can stop troonism, unfortunately.

No. 1797883

What makes an outfit look good isn't the clothing quality but how you style the pieces and how the person wearing the outfit looks.

No. 1797885

james cameron's avatar ruined western cinema forever

No. 1797891

>>1797883
Just being skinny is enough most of the time. I want to lose weight solely so I can wear basic shit and look good regardless, I know deep in my heart that when I dress up in pretty outfits I'm just compensating for my average body.

No. 1797892

>>1797121
I remember I was drunk at a bottomless brunch and a woman on the table next to us with a baby asked me to stop swearing and I told her “take it to a fucking crèche” and I was asked to leave.

No. 1797903

>>1797901
We need to frame abortion in a way that conservatives will get on board with, (as a way to stop minorities reproducing).

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No. 1798027

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Dark/Bold colors look really good on thin lips. I'm genuinely surprised all makeup advice toward the non-lipped advice against them. I guess it makes sense in the way that if you're insecure about a feature you might not want to emphasize it, but I think bold colors make thin lips just absolutely striking.

No. 1798032

Men and women can be friends if the woman in the friendship is realistic. When having male friends you have to look at it like “this guy is cool to hangout with but I know he wants to fuck me” and get prepared for the “I like you talk”. A lot of women just refuse to accept that men usually do not befriend they aren’t attracted to.

No. 1798034

>>1798027
is this really what counts as thin lips now? those lips look shapely to me

No. 1798046

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>>1798034
She does have a nice lip shape but I definitely wouldn't call them thick. But have another example anyway

No. 1798066

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being an hourglass is lowkey a huge burden. People just treat you like a body/sex worker. Also its a scam because the clothes that look the best on you are usually form fitting and ofc baggy clothes dont look good on hourglass figures (i wonder why). Men will literally get bricked up in my presence just because of my shape. Women will say the nicest compliments while simultaneously saying the cruelest things about their own bodies in comparison. It is all so uncomfortable. Everyone sexualizes you for your body type. Sometimes even I sexualize my own self and im like wtf me!? It sucks because no matter how much weight i lose my butt and boobs are still there. You cant complain about it because people think its a humblebrag. But seriously its not a flex to have someone only like you for your body its humiliating and demoralizing. And when i try to gain weight it all goes to my boobs and butt which just exacerbates the problem of being sexualized even MORE. I genuinely just wish body types weren't allowed to be discussed in society. But mainly im jealous of women who don't have "curves" because you are probably liked for who you are more often than not. although im sure gross men sexualize yall too.

No. 1798071

>>1798066
I feel this. I have an extreme hourglass figure, but I'm uncomfortable when men notice me so I dress in very baggy clothing but then discovered all my friends thought I was fat which also made me uncomfortable because I work so hard to have good muscle tone and joint health.

No. 1798074

>>1798071
YES thats the other issue because of our boobs baggy clothes just make us look fat but on less shapely women baggy clothes look so adorable and cute! Somebody needs to make baggy clothes for hourglass women lol. We are truly suffering

No. 1798081

>>1797892
I hate that for you. People with kids are so fucking entitled.

No. 1798082

>>1798066
Suffering from success

No. 1798084

>>1798066
It is annoying but I wouldn't change my body for the world, honestly.

No. 1798103

>>1798082
No, she's right. It sucks, especially if you hate/don't want to be perceived as "sexy".

No. 1798128

>>1798074
Bat sleeve tops with a-line skirts or wide-leg pants in light flowy fabric. Pick a crop-top for the shirt (wear a same color undershirt if you don't want skin to show) or cinch the waist with a belt or wrap-style so you don't look "fat". Also people can tell your weight from your neck and face so you don't even really have to cinch your waist if you don't want to. Pick bottoms that fit around the abdomen/waist but become full/flowy below that.
It's not that hard.

No. 1798130

>>1798119
Is this one of those AI generated posts

No. 1798133

>>1798128
nta but this sounds hideous

No. 1798138

Forgiveness is not talked about enough, people are way too resentful nowadays. Being angry will never benefit anyone. Not talking about actual abuse ofc
>>1798133
Idk I think it sounds pretty cute

No. 1798142

>>1798130
My thoughts exactly, wtf is going on kek

No. 1798145

>>1798066
My titties too big
My smoke is too tough
My bitch too bad
My swag too different
They're going to kill me…
No, I feel you anon. I wish we could pick our bodies.

No. 1798156

>>1798066
Same, my exact thoughts, nonna. I always feel like i need to cover up more or i look like a whore. You always look like a more exaggerated "female". I'd prefer to have a more "modest", but still beautiful body. But on the other hand, i'm happy some people consider this type ideal, because otherwise there'd be no pros in having it at all lol

No. 1798157

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A lot of personality disorder diagnoses don't really mean anything. You're always beholden to what the psych thinks or says, they don't really have to prove shit, and some of them are disordered themselves (or just spiteful). None of it is very scientifically based. 9 times out of 10, people are just fucked up, and they might get better, or they might not. I dislike the "xyz pd can't be cured" takes because the whole thing is a glorified vibe check to begin with, and it largely depends on the individual and their environment.

No. 1798161

>>1798157
>glorified vibe check
kek

No. 1798162

>>1798066
Let's switch bodies. You can have my bridge flat body while I get yours and can dress up cutely and be hot and attractive.

No. 1798165

Prison isn’t nothing to me!

No. 1798174

>>1798133
Well it doesn’t have to be that exact thing but basically pick clothes with their own shape instead of just putting on whatever stretch fabric or one-size-fits-all oversize cheap shit that is so prevalent now. I honestly think stretch fabric is the hourglass shape’s worst enemy, even though it’s easy to buy and will accommodate your curves it also emphasizes them in the trashiest way so if you’re not into that it makes you feel exposed

No. 1798198

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He looked too old to play "Ken". Regardless if you think he looks attractive or not, he still looks too old to play a character that is supposed to be a young moid in his prime.

No. 1798203

>>1798198
This is a thread for unpopular opinions

No. 1798211

>>1798203
My bad nonna. Considering this place has paul dano and adam driver simp threads, I feel like some nonnas don't have a very judgemental take on moids looks, so I assumed someone would disagree with me

No. 1798215

>>1797891
Same but the holiday food weight has crept up on me.

No. 1798216

>>1798198
That’s the joke though. Why does no one get this.

No. 1798217

>>1798216
Was that barbie ferreira monologue a joke too because it sure felt like one

No. 1798241

i feel nothing when i look at nature and i feel really guilty about it. i try to appreciate the moment but i just end up feeling really anxious because i can't fake the emotion. i feel like a total alien. i mean i know i'm supposed to calm down or like idk feel the might of mother nature or i don't know Something but i'm too retarded to feel anything. at most ( and always ) i am grateful that i'm there to see it in person but anything more i can't. i went to see the ocean the other day and i felt extremely anxious actually the waves really didn't help me, but it was sparkly. sunsets do nothing for me either. it's like i'm not even human. but the moon does make me Feel, and i saw aurora lights once in the desert during dawn which was actually really cool. i wish i had more whimsy this totally sucks…

No. 1798265

>>1798241
Maybe it's because you're used to these things? I've never experienced any of that stuff so when I actually get to, which is super rare, I get filled with awe. But I can see not feeling anything about it when you see it all the time.

No. 1798280

>>1798241
I was in a somewhat similar position once. then I took LSD for the first time

No. 1798283

>>1797809
I wish the body positivity movement was actually about loving and accepting yourself and had some reach towards those with sex-based body dysmorphia, but instead it decided that extreme modification based on what you hate about yourself is actually good or whatever when it comes to trannies

No. 1798292

Sia is a pedophile, and everyone's too afraid to say it.

No. 1798295

>>1798292
The way she talked about that child dancer was truly fucked lmao I am rarely so creeped out by a woman. Jail.

No. 1798307

>>1798292
You make it sounds as if she's somehow an exception when everyone shuts their eyes for the rest of the pedos in the industry too.

No. 1798327

>>1798265
that does sound like it would be right but i don't think it's the case for me. like i went to huge rice farms in asia which is far from my home continent and other sightseeing spots like caves and waterfalls in my country. tbh traveling has never does anything for me in general. i'm more fascinated by my commute route and like the supermarket and the walk to my uni or my home etc… mundane familiar places like that i can take a meaningful long hard look on that makes me feel sentimental like that. somehow i feel more fascinated by pictures and footage than irl, maybe because the actual experience in person feels so unreal (ironically) that i can't process it or something kek
>>1798280
i wish i was social enough to where i knew where to acquire some but i got no money regardless… plus i have psychosis with a family history too so idk if it would be a wise decision kek but i'm still willing to try anyway and see if my eyes open to new perspectives or whatever kek because it's clearly not happening without that. i really hate being dull in any way

No. 1798328

>>1798292
there was an old af impromptu interview with maddie ziegler on youtube and she was talking about her experience with Sia (kind of looked uncomfortable) then when the outdoor area they were at started playing a Sia song by coincidence she looked like she saw a ghost. Even if Sia isnt obsessed with her for sexual reasons, it was weird as fuck. she was skinwalking her by proxy in those MVs and live stages with trashy alcoholism lyrics

No. 1798329

>>1798066
Least humblebrag lolcow post.

No. 1798333

>>1798328
Is sia still working with maddie? I haven’t seeen any collaboration between them since the whole Music fiasco

No. 1798334

>>1798333
I don't think so. Maddie would be an adult by now, I would bet that she's stopped working with Sia.

No. 1798337

>>1798066
Kind of same but I just have disproportionately large breasts and ass/thighs. I hate being observed. I really think the best body type is a skinnyish A-B cup woman. All the main fashion brands cater to your body type and it's more likely people (men and women) will see your character quicker. I think it's no mistake that when films try to write deeper character women it's always women with a Kiera Knightley type body. I can't shake the feeling that if someone sees me, no matter what I'm doing or what I'm saying their focus is on my breasts first. Like i'm seen as an object before I can prove that i'm a human.

No. 1798343

>>1798066
I'd instantly trade your hourglas figure for my potatoe sack of a body that only collects weight at my waist rendering me shapeless but looks boney and broad at a lower weight. I have no boobs or shape any weight. You can dress to hide or minimize your figure but I can't make mine more shapely with clothes.

No. 1798355

Now everyone's a curvy hourglass out of sudden kek

No. 1798358

>>1798355
Being an hourglass is great the only thing that sucks are the bat wings kek

No. 1798362

>>1798355
if it makes you feel any better i'm kind of banana shaped. bend and all

No. 1798364

Even though being curvy/hourglass/pearshaped has very big disadvantages (I was in my "baggy phase" for a large part of my life cause of disliking the attention), I hope the other curvy girls here can grow to have some confidence and security in their bodies. Being curvy really can be great and all the curvy women I've ever seen have amazing bodies.

No. 1798367

All body types can look attractive if the woman is fit, men preferring hourglass figure is kinda like men preferring women who wear little or no make up: they are speaking out of their ass and can't actually tell one thing apart for the other. Either way, their opinion has no value.

I feel like I should be scolded for posting something so common sense in this thread. Let me think of something that is unpopular. Okay, I wish everyone would quit coming up with biodegradable plastics and focused efforts on properly collecting and recycling regular plastic, plastic gets a bad rep but it's not at fault for people being retarded and not using it's full potential.

No. 1798376

>>1798358
proof its mostly fatties claiming curvy

No. 1798392

There’s a big difference between having a naturally curvy shape and just having fat that makes your body look curvy

No. 1798396

>>1798392
Waaaaaah lmao

If your body looks curvy people are gonna call it curvy.

No. 1798399

>>1798396
yeah exactly, so even if you’re skinny and have a naturally curvy structure, you’ll still get called curvy.

No. 1798400

>>1798392
but that's what being curvy is? fat in the right places (I do agree being fat as in overweight =/= curvy if that's what you meant)

No. 1798403

>>1798400
I was mostly saying fat ≠ curvy yeah, because once aforementioned fat individual becomes a healthy normal weight it becomes obvious that they weren’t actually stacked, just a fattie

No. 1798404

>>1798358
Lmao no! bat wing tops are so comfortable I hate restrictive shoulders in clothes

No. 1798408

>>1798404
oh my sweet nonna she wasn’t talking about batwing sleeves

No. 1798409

>>1798241
I think it’s beautiful but I hate bugs and the way outside smells. People always love to remind us about how our ancestors were walking around outside oh yeah well mine were probably sitting in a dark cave and that’s why I’m a neet kek

No. 1798410

>>1798408
did she mean arm fat? that has nothing do to with an hourglass figure

No. 1798415

>>1798410
Her post sounded like it was in reference to fat arms but I could be wrong kek

No. 1798417

>>1798409
bugs are so cool though! I love flipping over rocks and seeing what crawls out

No. 1798418

>>1798410
Lots of people with hourglass figure have fleshy upper arms compared to other body types. Sane with fleshy thighs which aids in the hourglass look, it's just where their fat gets distributed. Doesn't mean the person is actually fat

No. 1798419

>>1798399
This is such a curse if you’re short and have a weirdly big bone structure, you end up looking deformed. I could be my skinniest and my shoulders are still big, pelvis bones still big, and my rib cage is awkward for my height so my torso “looks” curvy but the rest of my body doesn’t match. Curvy looks best on taller women tbh, it’s all about how your legs look and how symmetrical it makes you

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>>1798355
I’m a tall FN upside down triangle with huge boobs and long legs. I would’ve been ideal in the 80s. But alas I’ve seen my body type be called mannish and unnattractive I work out to have an ass and curves but deep down I’m sad you can’t rearrange my bones to be a 5’3” curvy baddie, I seriously wish I was an hourglass, I’d let myself get a little chubby because they are the only body type that can pull it off

No. 1798421

>>1798420
I would kill myself to look like you

No. 1798423

>>1798420
Who called it mannish and unattractive? I've only seen comments like this from LC spergs, most people don't care in the real world (I'm fn too).

No. 1798426

>>1798423
Shayna and JustPearlythings get called mannish a lot. They are FN. And yeah it’s just here, perhaps I should take a break.

No. 1798427

>>1798418
I’ve never included arms in body shape. You can be super pear shaped and have fat arms. Hourglass is about shoulder and bust shape, small waist, and hips. Arm fat doesn’t factor in.

No. 1798429

>>1798421
Aw, anon I’m sure you look great. Id probably kill myself to look like you as well

No. 1798430

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>>1798423
Moids call anything that isn’t a fat midget mannish nowadays nona. Especially fit 80s aerobic bodies because of how angular and muscular women could be. Now moids want women with extreme but childish features, you’ll see men call fit women mannish all the time on instagram and twitter

No. 1798432

Cosmetic injectors who neg women into getting fillers and hop on the internet to insist it's "TOTALLY SAFE" should be shot.

No. 1798435

>>1798432
i forgot the guys name but there was some tranny who went to prison because he claimed to be an injector but he was shooting people up with liquid cement

No. 1798462

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The Belgian flag rotated by 90 degrees counterclockwise resembles the residue left on toilet paper after you take a shit on your period.

No. 1798463

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Even more proof for the non-believers.

No. 1798464

>>1798463
>>1798462
if you turn it upside down is it a visual representation of hemorrhoids ?

No. 1798465

>>1798462
I use a bidet, wouldn't fucking know what this looks like

No. 1798478

>>1798462
Is it really a gradient cause mine looks like a brown stain because the red and yellow blends

No. 1798480

>>1798462
Don’t make me report you for being a male now you know this isn’t accurate

No. 1798486

>>1798462
Is your poo that black? Are you okay

No. 1798487

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People who(I’m sorry but it’s mostly women but I’ve seen some faggot ass men do it too) post about mental health, nurturing, toxic people, and being a good person having good vibes in this oh so evil world are actually psychotic and bitchy. Why do you need to reassure everyone that you’re just trying to make peace, everyone who I know personally who posts stuff like this is backstabbing and crazy, they are the people you want to avoid bonus points if they’re religious or spiritual

No. 1798489

>>1798487
they’re always virtue signaling to distract you from their real behavior. The good ol’ look over here while I punch you in the face from the other side

No. 1798490

>>1798487
They are projecting with their “evil eye” retardation, I have no room for negative energy but THEY ARE the negative energy

No. 1798499

i'm not attracted at all to well groomed people, even someone mentioning doing skin care is enough to turn me off completely. i'm really only talking about women here but i'm deeply averse to all metrosexuals, sorry. yes i love sloppy nasty (female) freaks who don't shower often. and i don't like perfumes, unless they're autistic about them in which case i'll give them a pass. if someone seems to prioritize neatness i'm drier than a desert and out of there, which will work for both of us because no one will be able to tolerate the other's lifestyle

No. 1798506

>>1798487
yeah those people are always horrible

No. 1798514

>>1798487
Absolute ploy. I know a bitch who does this and pretends to be like, spiritual and esoteric while being a creepy terminally online sped that stalks people and cannot live without the internet, has no life outside of trying to use people as puppets online. Like nothing. A truly evil bitch and she's like uwu community uwu.

No. 1798529

>>1796384
Agreed, blog but I feel like I had a chance at this but instead I chose to obsessively try to fit into beauty standards and failed anyway kek. Not worth it if you’re a really ugly/medicore woman because without hardcore surgery you’ll end up average at best and have the propositions pretty women get, but from lowest-tier scrotes.

No. 1798535

>>1798514
Tell us more about it

No. 1798542

>>1798506
literally 90% of troon influencers. All about mental health/anti bullying but are the first ones to try to get young women raped or murdered by putting their address out on twitter over the most menial shit. Funny how they can't use their personal army to go after red pill moids who actually want trannies dead

No. 1798546

>>1796603
You are right and there should be a place to talk about this without scrotes chiming in and claiming that 'females love being abused but only by Chads', but I think women are socially conditioned to do so. Just look at the romance/YA novels that are the most often read among normie teenage girls – almosf all of them have some kind of abusive relationship and they’re written by other young women, it’s like perpetuating a cycle.

No. 1798556

Its sick how men can scratch their balls in front of other people and no one says a word, but if I as a woman scratched my pussy all of a sudden I'm a sick dirty bitch with chlamydia, gonorrhea and herpes.

No. 1798558

>>1797108
You have me nonna, I’ve been listening to her for 10+ years but I find her insufferable as a person, full of herself, fake-deep and pretentious. Her fanbase also got progressively retarded, now listening to her gets you lumped in with anachan coquettes.

No. 1798559

>>1798556
did someone scratch his balls in front of you? That dynamic has never emerged for me but I do apologize if it’s something you’ve experienced

No. 1799234

Christmas gift giving is such utter bullshit. For half your relatives and extended family you're just struggling to come up with something, and them for you, so ultimately you both just spend money on each other for a gift you don't even love, consumption for nothing, everyone loses.

No. 1799254

>>1799234
You’re not supposed to buy for extended family unless you’re super close to them

No. 1799274

>>1799254
My family does.

No. 1799292

>>1799234
Just give everyone chocolate or fruits

No. 1799300

you can usually tell if a homeless person is homeless due to no fault of their own. Good homeless people have jobs, keep clean, and a lot of the time you wouldn't even have known they were homeless otherwise. Bad homeless people are wondering the streets looking and smelling like shit, spending any penny they get on drugs, etc

>inb4 but they're addicts! they can't help it

getting addicted to something so badly and refusing to seek help before you end up in the slums is just natural selection. addiction sucks but how little self awareness must you have that you let it ruin your life? Even morons I know are able to recognize when they're getting addicted to something and need to chill yet these buffoons cant realize when they're getting addicted to one of the most addictive drugs? pathetic

No. 1799307

>>1799234
Been feeling that a lot this christmas season. Realized that I’m essentially buying them useless junk, and they do the same for me. I wish I could be like “hey, save your money and buy yourself something you really want!” But then I’m looked at like I’m a grinch

No. 1799316

>>1799234
I like baking things for everyone and then saying that that’s my gift kek. Almost free but not really

No. 1799317

japanese literature sucks ass (not manga tho)

No. 1799323

PIV feels good

No. 1799325

>>1799317
I don't speak moonspeak, so how does it suck exactly?

No. 1799329

>>1799317
Why, nonnie? I don't understand moonrunes, but I'm guessing it must mostly have a string of misunderstandings that leads the plots and a bunch of random puns for names and anything else.

No. 1799338

>>1799325
>>1799329
Nta but I think she means the misogyny present in it, weird beliefs and opinions, shitty characters, pretentious air around it etc.

No. 1799349

>>1799329
>>1799325
it's always a pseudo philosophical snoozefest sprinkled with out of the blue wattpad tier fetish smut (unless it makes up the whole plot which is even weirder yet somehow more tolerable since that's at least more transparent). despite being like this it gets put on a sky high pedestal by weebs just bcs it's japanese.

No. 1799357

>>1799300
Good insight

No. 1799362

>>1799274
One year I just picked one or two people from my immediate family to gift something a little more expensive. The first year people were confused but they got over it real fast when they realized it is a superior method.

No. 1799373

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The plural for moose should be meese.

No. 1799378

>>1799373
Absolutely.

No. 1799379

>>1799373
isn’t it meese?

No. 1799382

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i think men only want to get women pregnant to drain us of our power and ability to think clearly. being forced to take care of screaming shitting cocomelon babies is enough to keep your brain shrunk for another lifetime

No. 1799385

>>1799373
You're right and you should say it. Just because it's native american in original, doesn't mean we can't de-clench it.
>>1799379
No, it's moose.

No. 1799394

I like dogs amd cats equally. They're both great companions and I wish I had a couple of each.

No. 1799408

>>1799394
the unpopular opinion we needed

No. 1799421

Widow nonna mourning a fucking junkie who died from overdose is just so bleak idk(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 1799428

>>1799421
well yeah, mourning tends to be. wym?

No. 1799433

Ugly people just shouldn't reproduce and condemn their offspring to a miserable life
Look in the mirror and choose to adopt ffs

No. 1799434

>>1799421
You have to be over 18 to post on this site.

No. 1799437

>>1799421
yeah, junkies are better off dead anyway

No. 1799441

>>1799428
I mean junkies are expected to overdose sooner or later, maybe they won't die from it but it's a fact
It's not like oh no I drive a car so I'm likely to die in a car accident!!
She's so naive for believing he would stop taking drugs for her
Moids are shit but junkies are worse
>>1799434
Is that supposed to be an epic burn?

No. 1799449

>>1799441
No it’s to let you know you have the emotional intelligence of a minor. Hell, even some teenagers are probably smarter than you on this. An addict is still a human being who has people who love them, and it still hurts when someone you love dies, even if they were flawed. Grief isn’t something you can just switch off if you know the deceased wasn’t good for you.

No. 1799451

>>1799441
Didn’t she say it was literally his first time trying opiates? I wouldn’t consider him a junkie

No. 1799611

Dating is easier for men. All men need to do is decide one day they want a woman and put in a little work(taking a shower and getting a car)to get the kind women they want and they will find a decent girl. Women have to just take what we can get or be single. Most women literally have to be picked to find love and we have very little choice.

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No. 1799633

>>1799382
It’s hilarious to me that men reeee about ‘baby trapping’ when it’s clear who’s actually the trapped one.

No. 1799641

>>1799623
Well I guess if this rando on 4chan says it…

No. 1799647

>>1799421
I’ll be honest, she shouldn’t have posted about something so personal on here (assuming this isn’t some elaborate larp). I think some anons forget that at the end of the day this is still an imageboard and not everyone is going to be nice and understanding to you.

No. 1799649

>>1799394
I have one dog and one cat. They sleep and eat together. I love them.

No. 1799661

"Found family" means always being alone at the holidays while all your friends go visit their real families. Total scam.

No. 1799673

>>1799661
if they were really "found family" at least one of them would invite you i think

No. 1799675

>>1799661
you're 100% right.

No. 1799678

>>1799421
You are honestly a bad person.

No. 1799679

>>1799421
This is probably going to sound insensitive, but the fact she was quoting Humbert from the book Lolita to express how much she loved him really screamed larp to me. Idk it just seemed so… odd. A bpd junkie who liked the book Lolita? Why does that feel like bait to me. But maybe I'm thinking too highly of nonas to fall for a man like that. If it's real I do wish her well and hope she is able to heal and forgive herself.

>>1799451
No she stated that he was already fighting addiction which is what lead him to trying the opiates.

No. 1799689

ok, these my unpopular opinions.
this is bar none the most accurate feeling when comes to first reading Japanese literature, I've read a bunch of vague and stale stuff and kept on wondering if it was just me not being fluent enough. The main fun (for me) about Japanese is the connections you get from the imagery of each Kanji and what they represent and it's like mutiple patterns and puzzles that go beyond just reading the word itself, like you could literally not know any words in Japanese. learn all the Kanji pictograms instead and have a field day with a Japanese book connecting each dot to dot without "grasping too hard" on each word and come out the other end feeling satisfied.
You could probably do this with Cantonese and Mandarin as well. So in general you read Japanese in much bigger picture way, you can easily knock out way more sentences in Japanese than English (given you have equal fluency) and so your mind instead doesn't go to the detail in the sentences but into "going with the flow". Damn, I hope don't sound stupid and pretentious at the same time but I think I just have to accept that I do.

Idk that's my two cents learning Japanese on and off for 3 years without having to slog through visual novel hentai bullshit anime bullshit with textractor every moid suggests. Also translated Japanese books are just as "stale" as their counter-parts. Onomatopoeias usually slot in ok because most authors know how to write prose.

Rarer Kanji for more pictureqsue emotion is something very truly retarded though that is true

The only Japanese literature that matters is Feminist Lit / just hearing Japanese women and their stories, Penance from Kanae Minato is so bloody good in howwomen are socialized and how inevitably women will be trapped in one path of their lives unconsciously seeking out their own penance for being guilt tripped as little girls of what they've internalized through outdated generational customs and invisible trauma through casual handwaving.
Convenience store woman is literally just about an autistic woman living her life and how alien everyone is to her and vice versa.
others include:
Grotesque & Out by Natsuo Kirino
Confession by Kanae Minato

People who shill Japanese Male authors but they don't know what they are talking about.

No. 1799692

>>1799689
this was in reference to >>1799623

No. 1799696

>>1799633
Men have always been able to abandon their families with essentially no repercussion. I can’t wait for all these 25 year old “tradwives” who are getting with 40 year old roid raged freaks learn the hard way…

No. 1799698

There’s no excuse to be obese. I’m talking like 200+ of fat, not muscle or tone the way a 6’0” female athlete can be 2 hundy. Even if you’ve had children that’s still no excuse because breastfeeding literally helps you shed so much weight without even trying? What do you have to be eating to get fat as fuck

No. 1799701

>>1799449
Oh no nonna you are so right my bad! I must have posted in the wrong thread I was so sure I was in the unpopular opinion thread!!
Fuck off idiot I'm not speaking out of my ass I guess you only met the nice addicts with tormented souls?
Or are you junkie yourself? Did I hit a nerve?

>>1799679 huh I didn't notice the Lolita mention… This is getting more and more suspicious

No. 1799712

>>1799701
>>1799701
Not that anon you replied to, you're allowed to post your shit opinion in this thread, and other anons are more than welcome to criticise your shit opinion.

No. 1799714

>>1799712
You gotta admit abusing drugs is basically attempting suicide every time you use, though. That’s just the truth, even if it is unpopular or considered rude to state aloud.

No. 1799715

>>1799714
It’s not about how stupid it is to do drugs. Of course it’s stupid. It’s about the fact that the person mourning for the “junkie” still deserves to not have their grief shat on by some edgy teenager with no life experience.

No. 1799716

>>1799701
Please try to be more compassionate.
Sure he was a junkie but she clearly loved him and having someone you love the most die in a horrific self inflicted way would be something that would be insanely hard to come to terms with.
She needs support and although coming to an anon image board is a bit silly for it I think we should still help her or at the very least not criticize the situation during this time.
Ok it could be bait, but if its not there is clearly a nona in emotional pain looking for solace.
Being in a fragile emotional state looking for connection and reading other nonas being awful about it could possibly tip her over the edge.
I know everyone is anon but would you genuinely not care if something you said played a part in someone killing themselves? This isnt a lolcow this is a nona in pain, just be kind.

No. 1799733

>>1799611
Everything on this gay earth is easier for men except resisting the urge to chimp out and commit violence.

But I feel you on waiting to be picked, it sucks because even if you like someone you can't tell him or ask him out because then you're just seen as desperate. Even if you're cute enough.
I've ranted on here before about the godawful reddit tier advice of "oh maybe he's just shy you should go for it", what a great way to wear the clown suit that is. Every time.

No. 1799741

i love nlogs. i’m too normie to be one but i appreciate them

No. 1799761

>>1799649
The rescue said my dog got along with cats. The rescue lied. She doesn’t try to kill my cats but she definitely doesn’t like them unless she’s chasing them up their trees. I wish she would cuddle with them like my old family dog cuddled with the cats when I was a kid. Miss that dog dude. I love my current dog to bits but she’s not a particularly good dog kek

No. 1799766

>>1799679
I thought junkie specifically referred to opiate/opioid addicts? I wouldn’t call a stoner or a methhead or an alcy a junkie.

I do find some of the stuff she’s posting vaguely LARPy and kinda sorta wonder if the poster is a moid larping and playing off our sympathy. But I am willing to give the benefit of the doubt I feel like garbage when overly criticizing people seemingly going through tough stuff.

No. 1799798

>>1799382
i want to hold mothers in high regard but every part of motherhood just seems like the biggest scam in history. i truly feel it limits a womans potential and guarantees she will be taken for granted the rest of her life

No. 1799907

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>>1799733
It’s unfair really. Look at people like Steve o and macaulay culkin. All they had to do was stop doing crack and take a bath one day and bam they had great girls waiting for them when they’re ready. I can’t imagine a woman doing crack and being gross all her life and then suddenly at 40 she can find great men. As a woman it just sucks because you just kind of have to pick from the trash that likes you or be single.

No. 1799909

>>1799733
I'm so glad I don't hetero date this sounds like one of those degradation rituals schizos talk about.

No. 1799910

>>1799698
Maybe they just love food and want to kill themselves? That's reason enough.

No. 1799915

>>1799421
The maximum grieving period of widows should be three months. Anything more than that is mental illness and you need to fuck a barely legal athlete to fix it. He's your dildo, not your mother.

No. 1799920

>>1799915
You sound mentally ill. There is no limit to mourning a dead loved one.

No. 1799932

>>1799907
well they were also rich and famous, most women don't want to date an ex-junkie

No. 1799938

>>1799933
Blanket statements make you just as bad as those incel retards on 4chan

No. 1799939

>>1799932
Most women don’t want don’t dream of dating an ex junkie but if he’s nice most women would give him a chance. If men find out a woman is an ex junkie most of them just discard her as a cheap whore regardless of how well she’s doing now.

No. 1799940

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>>1799938
Most incels claim that dating is harder for men but in reality it is not. Even this ugly sperg was married 3 TIMES.

No. 1799942

>>1799940
fucking hell he looks like a nightmarish wojak

No. 1799943

>>1799940
One time I was in a Tiny Tim fan group on Facebook back in like 2010 and this girl deadass posted a 1200 word lemon about Bob Dylan and Tiny Tim banging it out set in Greenwich Village in the 60's it was so realistic and nobody even made her delete we were all just like what the fuck is this. I bet she's on here posting on /g/ now

No. 1799944

>>1799940
yes exactly, blanket statements are retarded

No. 1799946

>>1799944
Blanket statements can be true. Just because there are outliers doesn’t mean that’s the majority. Sure there are women out there with plenty of dating options with great men but that’s not the majority.

No. 1799957

>>1799915
kek this is autistic as all hell but i appreciate it

No. 1799960

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Women like this are weird and get off to playing up pedo fantasies. I can’t wait until they all turn 30 which is their worst nightmare.

No. 1799970

>>1799960
What do you mean?

No. 1799972

>>1799970
Tiny girl who could pass for 8 dresses like a loli next to her 30 year old bf and decides to post a video to pedo bait

No. 1799976

>>1799960
I like her style but cannot help but think what you've said is closer to the truth than just her enjoying dressing like that.
I wish moids didnt exist so women could wear cute outfits like this without it being a kink thing.

No. 1799978

>>1799972
I think you are just overthinking and/or hating because that issue is on your mind

No. 1799979

>>1799978
Just because you’re naive and dumb doesn’t mean everyone is

No. 1799982

>>1799976
If a woman is dating a scrote with a similar age and aesthetic then I wouldn’t think it’s pedo baiting. women who dress like that and have older bfs whose aesthetics don’t match are pedo baiting.

No. 1799983

>>1799982
especially balding white scrotes

No. 1799987

>>1799972
Girl she does not look 8

No. 1799989

>>1799987
Ok 16 and 30

No. 1799991

Look at the difference between how they're dressed. I hate how female celebrities have to wear degrading revealing clothing with full hair and makeup while male celebrities always look like slobs.

2nd unpopular opinion- neither of them should have been cast in mad max, I loved Charlize Theron as Furiosa

No. 1799993

>>1799991
i havent looked into this movie at all, is she replacing Furiosa or is it like a "back in time" thing and shes meant to be young Charlize?

No. 1799996

>>1799907
Nta but this is kinda on the women for having shit taste and bare minimum standards. You can be a self respecting woman with high standards who is also attractive, and you'll probably find a similar man. And even if you don't, not the end of the world. Move on. You can be single, not the end of the world. Support yourself and stop waiting for someone to do it for you, it's the better option imo. But it's your life so do whatever you like.

No. 1799997

>>1799909
You're not wrong. I'll never understand that kind of mindset even though I'm bi. I'd never think someone is desperate if they're asking me out, and I'll never that way if I ask someone out. I don't know where does that come from. A normal guy who is worth dating won't care about the arbitrary value and meaning of a woman asking him out anyways. Only a weirdo would.

No. 1799998

>>1799991
I bet they casted someone moid friendly like ATJ because of how absolutely apeshit men were acting about Fury Road when it was revealed that it had feminist themes. It’s really fucking weird if you look back on the comments from the time leading up to Fury Road’s release.

No. 1799999

>>1799996
I don’t think it’s fair that women have to be the best version of themselves, get therapy to self improve and take care of their looks to get a decent man or be seen as worthy of love. Men don’t have to do that. They can be the sloppy grumpy assholes they are and find a pretty mentally stable woman who will clean their shit stains out of their boxers with a smile.

No. 1800002

>>1799993
She’s young furiosa, it’s the prequel to fury road. I don’t know why it was even made though, furiosa told her entire backstory in fury road so we already know what happens

No. 1800003

>>1799997
Most men think it’s desperate for women to ask them out because they have low self esteem. They think they’re trash and other men are also trash so they think something’s wrong with a woman if she’s “easy”. They know most men are mean and rapey and think you’re mentally ill if you give it up without them having to work for it.

No. 1800004

>>1799999
Ok but would you go for that kind of shitty men personally? I wouldn't. I'm not as perfect as I want to be, but I'd never accept that kind of men. I want the best for myself. And if my current state doesn't attract the best of men, I'm ready to change myself to get what I deserve and desire, the top of the top if possible. And I'll never settle for something mediocre or low quality. And neither should you if you know your worth. Same thing goes to these model tier women who pick bottom of the barrel men, they should know their worth and leave those men and go for something better, or stay single because it's the better option. The kind of shitty men you describe aren't being picked because they forced someone to pick them, they get picked because someone decided they're good enough. Not saying these men are exempt from blame, but why would anyone give them a chance? This is a phenomenon because there are women with low self esteem out there who think they deserve that kind of men and prefer to date over being single, which is why the worst of men can get in relationships when they don't deserve one. And it's why men don't feel the need to work on themselves, because the standards are low for them. If the standards were higher, that kind of men wouldn't exist or all men would be single or something. But at the end of the day we can't do anything about other women picking shitty men, we can pick good men for ourselves though. Be the change you want to see in the world.

No. 1800007

>>1800003
Genuine mental illness tbh. But again, a normal man who's worth it won't have that kind of retarded line of thinking. Maybe a unicorn but better than a bpd-kun.

No. 1800009

>>1799998
Yeah I remember seeing comments from men saying that fury road proves what a good person mad max is because he didn’t rape any of the women “when he easily could have” it was disgusting. I also saw comments about how the women were too old (they were all in their 20s) and that immortan Joe would have only wanted teenagers realistically. It was probably directly because of how pissed they were about the feminist themes.

No. 1800012

>>1800007
It doesn’t make sense but yeah that’s just the weird way the average man thinks. When women chase them or ask them out they’re going to think “wait, what’s wrong with You that you like ME so much?”. Men have this weird mindset where they don’t like or respect women but they subconsciously feel we are better than them and they get turned off if they don’t have to work for it. Finding a man who doesn’t have low self esteem like this is rare.

No. 1800013

Wasn’t furiosa supposed to be much younger when she was taken from her family? She could barely remember anything about it and didn’t recognize the women when she found them. I thought she was supposed to be a young child, not almost 30

No. 1800014

>>1800004
Sure, women should work on themselves to feel good about themselves, but it doesn't help attract better men. Ironically, the most patient, loving, attractive men I've seen tend to end up with average-looking BPDs. They can love a woman even if she has flaws or isn't perfect. The type of men you'll attract with your mindset are the successful men who are overly picky and think they deserve a 10/10 supermodel who makes 500k a year. Don't improve yourself for men, it's so fucking unnatural to do so when they are the ones who should be impressing us.

No. 1800015

>>1800012
My problem is I aim too high and most men I desire are celebrities or just the successful rich types lol, so I don't see that problem with these men. I have some male friends as well and they don't have that kind of thinking but tbf they're not american or anglo saxon in general, because this seems like a cultural thing to me. We don't have the concept of dating where I live so I never saw or heard of this irl. But if I go somewhere western or east asian I don't think I'll ever hesitate asking someone attractive out, I'll shoot my shot and see what sticks around kek

No. 1800017

>>1800014
Fair, but I'm not into serious relationships or dating. Also I think the kind men you're talking about have a savior complex and a "I can fix her with my love" mindset so that's why they end up with bpdchans. I can be insane if I want to but I prefer to conceal that part and be more normal, not interested in getting someone to date me out of pity tbh.

No. 1800018

>>1800015
I think if you’re ok looking and shoot your shot most men will bite for the easy sex but they’re going to be lazy and low effort the entire relationship because they’re going to just see it as “this bitch is really in love with me so I don’t need to try”

No. 1800021

>>1800018
That's the thing, I don't fall in love lol. I just want sex. I know I know, moid brained and all, but it's just my nature, so I'm ok with aiming for that kind of men because I'm not looking for anything serious and it's a plus to me that they won't fall in love with me either. I am as sociopathic as them I guess. But I'm ugly unfortunately, I HAD to have a flaw I guess. I still want someone hot though lol, I'm greedy.

No. 1800024

>>1800021
It doesn’t matter if you actually love them or not but they’re going to treat you like low grade anyway because they think you’re desperately in love with them because you asked them out first. Men live in a place of delusion which is why I don’t advise asking men out first.

No. 1800025

>>1800017
I mean, sure, there are some guys like that too, but they tend to dehumanize their partners or throw them away when they become more stable, which I haven't seen from them. Anyway, kinda ironic you'd talk about wanting the "best" while not wanting a serious relationship. Guys who have casual sex/FWBs are absolutely bottom of the barrel trash, no matter how physically attractive they are.

No. 1800027

>>1800025
All men are sluts. They never settle down before getting erectile dysfunction. Anon just got to fuck your perfect boyfriend first, that's all.

No. 1800031

>>1800024
I see. But I honestly don't care what they think as long as I get what I want from them and we can go our separate ways. It doesn't truly physically affect me so idc mostly, would only be a problem if it starts showing in their behaviors towards me and they get dangerous.
>>1800025
A woman can dream I guess. I don't want to force myself to be in a serious relationship with someone just because they're a decent person, I know that I'll eventually get tired of them and "discard" them. I can't get attached even if I want to and even if they're literally perfect, it's just my nature. And I would feel guilty about breaking up with someone who is seriously into me, it would be too awkward for me to deal with. Might get lucky and find some middle ground man who is an ok person but into FWB kind of stuff, or even if we date seriously he can still understand I might get bored of him eventually and leave him and won't make a big fuss about it. I don't mind being serious with a woman though, as long as she doesn't want children. I feel like a relationship with a woman is easier and less complicated and messy. I could handle that, but can't promise to be 100% there emotionally because again, it's my nature. Sorry for the blogpost.

No. 1800034

>>1800031
Unpopular opinion but fwb doesn’t work for women unless the guy is in love with the woman but she doesn’t like him. What men see as fwb is just hitting you up once a month, fucking you for 2 minutes and leaving immediately after and not caring if you live or die….they could literally see you bleeding out in the street and walk over your corpse. There’s no friend in that. When men say they want fwb that’s code for “I hate you because you’re a slut and I don’t wanna talk to you just open your legs until I find women I actually like”.

No. 1800036

>>1800034
NTA, but yup, I agree. Most men want to use you to masturbate into and then leave. I would only ever have a FWB if he ate my pussy and left afterwards with no complaints, kek. I did this casually with one guy and he got offended I didn't suck his dick. I never called him again. Whatever.

No. 1800038

>>1800036
There would be heaps of dudes who would happily eat your pussy with nothing in return (hed probably jack off though). Was quite the odd theme I found back when I was on dating apps.
Maybe they say that so they get into bed with you and hope that they could convince you to fuck them afterwards?

No. 1800039

>>1800034
Well, part of the appeal of fwb is the friend part isn't real. But I still want to have proper sex though, doesn't have to be passionate, but at least pleasurable. Won't settle for less. I genuinely don't care if someone truly loves me or hates me as long as they don't get too attached/it doesn't physically hurt me and the whole thing doesn't inconveniences me. I guess I'm a minority in this regard. I don't care about being loved and don't want it. I kinda don't mind not having friends at all either but that's another topic. I guess it's an unpopular opinion? Because I don't understand the average person's need for romantic love and for sex to have a meaning (as an act of love). Would be interesting if someone could explain it to me.
>inb4 you're autistic
No, I'm not.

No. 1800040

>>1800038
I've seen that too, but I'm kind of scared they have some STDs or something if they're advertising they'd discriminately eat any woman's pussy. It just comes off as creepy and nasty even though it's technically what I want. I know dental dams exists but I don't think I could get wet knowing I'd need to use one with those guys.

No. 1800041

>>1800039
If you think you’re about to get good sex from a man who doesn’t like you, you’re in for a rude awakening kek

No. 1800042

>>1800040
Casual sex has always been pretty gross to me, but the std/sti side of it 100% freaks me out. Idk how some people do it, let alone women. Too much can go wrong too easily, men lie too much for me to ever really trust them outside of a relationship (and even then..all the cheating that happens yuck).
The idea of some virgin guy coming over only to eat my pussy is very appealing though.

No. 1800043

>>1800034
I thought that was the definition of fwb and the friends part was just an euphemism

No. 1800046

>>1800043
It’s going to just be him cumming for 2 seconds and then blocking you until he’s horny again. I don’t get the appeal.

No. 1800047

>>1800042
>The idea of some virgin guy coming over only to eat my pussy is very appealing though.
That's what I was thinking. A cute virgin guy who somehow is a natural at eating pussy? Sign me up. I've been with a virgin guy but before but he was too scared and nervous to eat and touch my pussy. Ended up not doing anything but kissing, kek. So I am a bit disillusioned with virgin guys.

No. 1800048

>>1800047
I'd even train him.
I trained my ex and his pussy eating is the only good thing I can say about him.
Every time before sex it got ate.
When I dumped him he didnt realize thats not the norm for one night stands and told me how he ate out and slept with some random aboriginal woman he met at the club kek.
Was not the flex he thought it was, he said he told me to make me jealous.
Complete opposite.

No. 1800050

>>1800039
Anytime I've tried to have casual sex the guy ends up saying either during the act or after I have sex like i make love and honestly I get it. Kissing and sex is so intimate and I've obviously had rough hard sex before but there's nothing nicer than having genuine feelings and inspiring feelings of love. I haven't had casual sex in years and it doesn't appeal to me. You pretend there's no love or feelings and those thoughts get replaced with like obsessive ones and one regarding reputation not to mention the risk of stis or utis if the person you're frequently fucking is sleeping around. I feel like when you actually get men to open up about sex they all say the same, the best sex is intimate sex where no one feels used or expendable. I've had far more satisfaction from an electric toothbrush than casual sex.

No. 1800051

>>1800048
The only reason I didn't was because we were in an LDR, and only met once after 6 months or so. To have him not enthusiastically eating my pussy after he came over to meet me for the very first time was boring. He was way too shy and inhibited for me. I broke up with him for other reasons, though. He was a good guy but not as passionate as I wanted. Such a shame because he had long dark straight hair, and the sexiest body I've ever seen. Wide shoulders, a thin waist, and nice muscular arms. Why couldn't he enjoy pussy more? Truly a shame.
>I trained my ex and his pussy eating is the only good thing I can say about him.
>Was not the flex he thought it was, he said he told me to make me jealous.
Damn, I cannot imagine the smugness you must have felt in that moment. At least there was some enjoyment you got from all of it, instead of him being shit all around. If he was the type of spiteful person who would say things like that make you jealous, I can totally see why you dumped him. Doesn't seem like he was very kind.

No. 1800055

>>1800051
>To have him not enthusiastically eating my pussy after he came over to meet me for the very first time was boring
I could imagine that being pretty meh
>He was a good guy but not as passionate as I wanted
Unlucky, do you think he would have gotten more passionate if he had time to gain confidence in sex?
I guess thats the gamble when it comes to dating virgins. That, or they have porn brain ideas of how sex should go.
My ex would slam into my cervix and no matter what I said he would tell me "no girls like this" because of retarded porn. Moids pfft.
> Wide shoulders, a thin waist, and nice muscular arms.
Good combo, my husband is like that and hes got a thick ass too, why do men have such nice butts??
> Doesn't seem like he was very kind.
He said some horrific shit when I dumped him and he was trying to "win" me back.
Said he wish my parents would die so I wouldnt have a reason to stay where I am and could move to him, said he wants to kill my pets, hopes I'm barron etc.
But hey.. at least he can eat KEK

No. 1800056

>>1800048
Thank you for your service, Anon.

No. 1800058

>>1800056
No nona, stay away from that freak. I have no doubt he will end up killing his partner one day.

No. 1800059

>>1800050
I see. I don't think I can ever feel that way for anyone to have that kind of sex. I still don't want the burden of a romantic relationship though, I'd rather stay a virgin or masturbate over having a relationship just so I can have proper sex. Feels kinda scummy to date someone just to get fucked good, while I'd never love someone genuinely, I still don't want to break anyone's heart or hurt anyone's feelings even if they're men and men bad and all that jazz if you get what I mean. Hope they hurry up and invent male robot husbando already to solve my dilemma kek

No. 1800060

>>1800058
I don't doubt it one bit. Hopefully he comes across a Jodi Arias on his journey.

No. 1800061

>>1800060
That would certainly solve my problem thats for sure

No. 1800062

>>1800059
It’s better for women to be with men they like less. Women start doing retarded shit when they’re in love. You can have all the fun parts of a relationship with none of the bad.

No. 1800069

>>1800055
>Unlucky, do you think he would have gotten more passionate if he had time to gain confidence in sex?
Maybe? We had multiple other issues though, I would have stuck around to see if he would become more open and passionate, if it weren't for the other problems.
>"no girls like this" because of retarded porn
Isn't it hilarious when moids try to convince you of what you do or don't like?
>my husband is like that and hes got a thick ass too
Damn, you have it good. I'll be manifesting a future boyfriend with a thick ass too.
>Said he wish my parents would die so I wouldnt have a reason to stay where I am and could move to him, said he wants to kill my pets, hopes I'm barron etc.
What the fuck nonnie, I am glad you escaped. What a psycho. But seriously, why are the craziest guys the best at eating pussy?
This is one of the best conversations I've had here in a while, thanks for making my day, kek.

No. 1800071

>>1800069
>This is one of the best conversations I've had here in a while
Ditto back to you, have a good day!

No. 1800079

>>1800062
Finally someone who gets it. Can you delve more into how to achieve that? That sounds like my style.

No. 1800081

The internet stopped being good after Belle Delphine posted her butthole online and sold bath water

No. 1800087

>>1800062
It really isn't. It's better for women to be more selective in general and treat their body as a sacred treasure lol. Honestly getting sex flashbacks to a moid that wasn't as hot as you wanted or had a shit body that had no definition to it. Take charge of your sexual fantasies. Personally the only situation that would seem pleasurable is every time you have nsa sex it's with a random hot stranger. Having an arrangement for casual sex is never casual. You still have to make plans they're not as obligated to fulfill them if something or someone else takes their attention away. If the guy is more into you he could get clingy, harassy, resentful and annoying.

No. 1800090

>>1800031
>>1800024
My unpopular opinion is that way too many women, especially on LC, treat moids' minds like they're the "actual real world", and their genetically defective opinions as the only ones that matter and, especially when it relates to sex, it's misogynistic as fuck.
>i like having sex with moids
>um well they think you're a slut! they think you're below them! they're just using you!
>it's okay i don't care what moids think, i'm getting what i want
>lolol okay slut enjoy getting used by moids cumdumpster-chan!!! you are disgusting, they don't respect you they see you as the cumdumpster you are!!
Like holy shit do you really think it's not misogynistic to take what the moid is thinking as more real and important than what the woman is thinking

No. 1800095

>>1800087
I'm sorry but what does "nsa" mean? I kinda don't get what you're talking about. Do you mean stuff like meeting some random got person in a bar and having sex somewhere private right on that night?
>>1800090
You're so based for this.

No. 1800097

Even though you guys are rich, STEM people are so fucking underconfident and boring. The only interesting about them is their job that they often don’t even enjoy. Think about what Zuckerberg would be like without his little passion project? Total virgin loser, right? Just more obvious! Or Elon. He’s a literal incel who pays his ‘female friends’ (surrogates) to have babies for him. Maybe this isn’t unpopular but idk I can imagine someone coming to the defense of STEMfags

No. 1800106

>>1800090
It's degrading no matter what the moids think and having sex with someone who hates you is degrading too. What business y'all have in hunching over filthy dicks and sucking them, it doesn't serve you and stop making others face the consequences of you sucking cock and being offended when moid fucking is criticized. Stop being cool girls, hetsex is not cool as a woman(stop)

No. 1800109

>>1800095
“No strings attached”

No. 1800111

>>1800021
You're just a pickme looking to have useless sex out of lack of self control(stop)

No. 1800112

>>1800111
Coomer animals are all over lolcow. Take the abstinence pill nonnas, be WGTOW, you’ll be happier, I promise.(bait)

No. 1800114

>>1800106
It makes me cum so yeah it serves me.
>>1800090
You’re going to get piled on but you’re absolutely right. Sounds more moid obsessed to care this much what men think.

No. 1800116

>>1800106
i like sucking dick, maybe you'd be more chill if you tried it too. meat pacifier for adults(infighting)

No. 1800118

>>1800114
Yeah sure totally, animal peak self awareness
iT mAkEs me CuM
Are you retarded(infighting)

No. 1800120

>>1800116
ngl they sound about 12. ummm boys are icky and sex is gross. I bet they have Ancient Greek tier ideas about penetration being inherently degrading as well.

No. 1800121

>>1800106
>>1800111
You gotta get a new hobby nona. You are here constantly and 80% of your posts are bitterness and hatred. Either you're like this all the time and severely need therapy and medication, or else this place brings out the worst in you.

No. 1800122

>>1800118
It does tho. That’s what’s in it for me. Or do you not believe in female orgasms on principle.

No. 1800131

>>1800118
Anon you're having a mental breakdown over a strangers' sex life. The redpill is nice and all but sometimes you need a "chill pill."

No. 1800133

No one should be allowed to have sex

No. 1800134

>>1800109
Oh I see, thanks

No. 1800135

>>1800116
gay man hands wrote this(infighting/scrotefoiling)

No. 1800141

>>1800121
Don’t reply to redtexted troll posts.

No. 1800142

There's no such a thing as an ''easy perfect brownie'' recipe

No. 1800143

>>1800142
Right??
I somehow made a brownie that was super spongey and dense, dunno wtf I did but it was awful

No. 1800145

>>1800142
This but with bread. Bread is so hard and everyone acts like it's so easy.

No. 1800146

>>1800145
do you want my bread recipe it’s actually really easy, sourdough bread is what’s super hard

No. 1800149

>>1800143
Isn't that how brownies are meant to be?
>>1800145
I think I'll attempt making foccacia tonight, pray for me.

No. 1800151

>>1800146
Please share it! I'll possibly try it.

No. 1800152

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>>1796581
True, there are so many sad couples who are mismatched and seem stuck together because they have been respectively incapable of being self-sufficient for waiting to meet the right person.

No. 1800156

>>1800149
no by spongy i mean like more dense than a scone, it was super weird I've never had any dessert like it before so its hard to describe. Maybe I beat it too much and it stiffened?

No. 1800158

>>1800151
1 cup water, 1 tsp active dry yeast, 1 tbsp sugar, 2 cups flour. It can take a while because it is easier to mix the flour in 1/4 cup at a time, and it is easier with a bread mixer. After it’s fully mixed, you shape it into a little ball, and then let it rest for a hour with a towel over the bowl. After it’s done rising, turn the oven on to 375 degrees so it is very hot when it’s time to put the breads in. Shape your loaves however big you’d like, and allow them to proof uncovered on a sheet pan for 30 minutes before putting them in the hot oven for about 20 minutes or longer if you like a harder crust. You can double it if you’d like 4 little loaves instead of 2!

No. 1800159

>>1800156
Brownie recipes are untrustworthy because people have such a wide range of opinion on what a “good” brownie is. Someone out there thinks the abomination you’re describing is how a brownie should be, some people like them halfway to liquid, some people halfway to fudge, some people like them crunchy it’s just impossible to tell unless you have made them several times from different recipes and you get a feel for how it’s gonna turn out (or unless you get a recipe from someone who shares your brownie tastes)

No. 1800164

>>1800158
All due respect that recipe sounds like it would turn out kinda bad. Like I’m sure it’s edible but there’s not even any salt and there’s no time for it to develop flavor. How do you get two loaves out of two cups of flour? They’d be the size of a dinner roll.

No. 1800167

>>1800164
You can add a 1 tsp or 2 of salt if you’d like, it’s totally up to your own preference, I usually just forego it because I don’t need it to make the bread itself and feel like the breads tastes fine without it. Also, I know it sounds small but trust me nonnie- when bread rises, it gets fat as fuck so it can make either 2 small loaves or 1 massive loaf but I usually split it into 2

No. 1800168

>>1800164
>no time to develop flavor
I think that’s a french bread recipe, not sourdough. French bread only proofs for like an hour because any longer ruins the crust

No. 1800171

>>1800146
My dad is a pro sourdough baker and he still gets it wrong sometimes because the yeast is a living beast. Sometimes its just not in the mood. Sourdough baking is more like havung a needy pet. Very, very different from 'normie' baking.

No. 1800173

>>1800090
Yeah you can do what you want but how much fun are you going to have having nsa sex with someone who sees you as trash? I’ve done casual sex in the past and those men literally treated me worse than they’d treat their family pets lol no thank you

No. 1800174

>>1800168
20 minutes in a home oven on a cold sheet pan tells me a good crust is not part of this recipe, but now I’m being mean so I’ll stop lol

No. 1800179

>>1800174
Thats why I felt like it was important for me to include the part where I said that you guys gotta let the oven heat up for a nice long time before you put it in, like 45+ minutes! Thats usually a good starting point to assure that it’s baked throughly and has a nice soft crust on it, but you can always leave it in for longer or let the oven heat up for longer.

No. 1800180

>>1800152
Nta and I agree but the right person may not even exist at all so people just settle with one of the few who'd have them. Being single is still the superior way of life though.

No. 1800181

>>1800171
I remember when I’d just started work in a bread shop and accidentally used all of the levain not realizing that I needed to leave some behind. I got treated like a sped for the rest of my tenure there kekk

No. 1800187

>>1798066
It's so annoying that I get dress-coded at work for wearing something "too sexy" when chubby potato girls wear the EXACT SAME THING AND GET AWAY WITH IT. Just because it looks "sexy" on my body type I'm not allowed to wear it while other people can because they are viewed as "not sexy."

No. 1800193

>>1800187
What the hell, nonna, what's making you get dress codded?

No. 1800194

>>1799991
She is completely opposite of what I would have wanted/expected for a Hollywood starlet to play this role and it honestly undercuts the whole goodwill I had for a potential furiosa movie. God I hope she isn’t going to do interviews talking about how sexy it felt to be beaten up or some dumb shit like that. It’s very telling how society thinks about women currently in that she meets current porn standards of attractiveness (which for the rest of us is passed off as being “conventionally” attractive). God men are so dumb, it’d be pathetic how much they need their dicks pandered and placated to if it wasn’t so destructive.

No. 1800204

I get tired of her women who live in section 8 housing complaining they’re breaking up families by not allowing their scrotes to live with them. This is gonna sound mean but I agree with their decision. A grown man should be out working and taking care of his family and if you have to be on section 8 your man doesn’t get to lay around in your free housing with you.

No. 1800210

>>1800204
They're also the reason women have to live in section 8… By FAILING TO PROVIDE. They're all thugs too.

No. 1800211

>>1800204
I didn't even know that was a thing, lol. Personally, I think we should bring back social shaming for parents who are unable to feed and house their children. Sure you can get section eight, but you gotta wear this big red 8 on all your clothing.

No. 1800217

>>1800211
Yes this is true. Women in section 8 housing can not have men living with them and they could get kicked out if they do. A lot of them claim not allowing their baby daddies in is “ruining families” even though he wasnt doing shit for them anyway kek

No. 1800220

>>1800210
Some section 8 housing is really nice too so they probably don’t want all their thug bfs running in and out. Your food, utilities, and housing is paid for by section 8 so I’m not sure why they need a man living there. Just get a baby sitter and go fuck him on the weekends.

No. 1800242

Even though they’re attention seeking freak shows, sometimes I feel bad for some of the thread subjects on /snow/. Not because I like them or feel any kind of responsibility to them; but it’s more because like damn this is obviously an insanely mentally ill human being who isn’t going to receive the help they need in real life because nobody cares about them, guess all we can do is watch and make light of it. But what happens after some of them die or grow up like 20 years from now? Does their idiocy just stay memorialized? I don’t even know I can’t imagine what the state of lolcow will be in 2044…

No. 1800251

>>1800204
Boyfriends are allowed to live with them as long as they add them as a resident with their case worker.

There's probably a reason why they don't do it i.e. the boyfriend has a record or has a job that earns too much income which would disqualify their household from the vouchers.
Is it really so farfetched to believe that our government socially engineered a system to keep the poors in their places? And that the inability for children to have access to their parental figures is a symptom of the problem?

No. 1800271

>>1800251
don't even try to argue with them. one of the replies is literally "just get a babysitter" like that isn't one of the biggest financial drains on poor mothers and the jobs available to people in section 8 housing often earn less per hour than the hourly cost of decent childcare so you are basically going to work just to pay a babysitter or daycare you only kind of trust to spend time with your children instead of you with little or no money left over. these posters do not even understand what they're talking about.

No. 1800278

>>1800251
Based off the kind of men women living in section 8 housing get impregnated by their kids don’t need live with him

No. 1800282

i hate when sentimental songs sung in cursive add too many curses in the lyrics. it's annoying to hear fuck or shit in something that should be more poetic

No. 1800284

>>1800271
20 dollars to pay a little sister or cousin to watch their kids on a Saturday night so they can run around town with their jail bird isn’t going to bleed their pockets dry

No. 1800286

>>1800282
I feel this way about death metal song lyrics lmao

No. 1800296

>>1800284
Like I said some posters here have no grasp on the reality of the situation and you are proving that point further.

No. 1800301

>>1800296
Probably but I’ve been around section 8 people and they just seem irresponsible(for example selling their food stamps for hair money).

No. 1800303

>>1800284
You're assuming everyone has extended family who they can trust and said family would sit for free to $20 a night. It's not reality, unfortunately. Might explain why these women might have sought to reproduce with absentee men in the first place–lack of support.

No. 1800305

>>1800251
Kids raised by single mothers are worse off, on average. Those anons are so blind they don't realize the cycle continues the way things are. What's so hard about basic logic (ie that one parent having halfway decent income within a struggling family should never have their whole family penalized as a result, or that at least a small criminal record shouldn't result in getting blocked from necessary housing)?

No. 1800310

>>1800284
You either live in a depressed area or haven't seen baby sitting prices in a long time if you think this is the going rate. I think two things can be true, that people who are stupid make bad financial decisions in all aspects of their life requiring more hand outs to dig them out of their self made holes, and that it is pretty easy to get stuck in poverty.

No. 1800311

>>1800305
In reality the guy who is banned from living with her should be out there grinding and working to get his family out of section 8

No. 1800312

>>1800309
Birth control can fail and rich conservative entities has made it so that access to abortion is restricted or impossible.
Even if these women change their minds, it's literally too late, and then there's a social narrative that calls them irresponsible if they do not face parenthood.
It's a system designed to make women fail.

No. 1800314

>>1800312
Then don’t have sex if you aren’t ready for the consequences.

No. 1800315

>>1800311
And if he can't, the kids should be poor and fatherless instead of just poor?

No. 1800316

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No. 1800317

>>1800315
Not living with them does not mean fatherless. If he completely abandons his family because he can’t live them then he didn’t want the family he wanted a free place to live and food stamps.

No. 1800319

>>1800314
Is this trannyhands, kek?

No. 1800323

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>>1800314
Don't step outside your door if you're not prepared for the consequences…

No. 1800324

>>1800319
If you live somewhere that abortion is legal you should always have 1k in savings just incase all contraceptives fail. If you can’t afford to save 1k then you have more serious issues to focus on other than sex and dating.

No. 1800326

>>1800323
Not a good comparison. You don’t know what can happen when you walk outside but everyone knows what happens when you have sex. The literal purpose of sex is to reproduce.

No. 1800328

>>1800324
So yes lmao. Of course the anatranny with the failed marriage is spiteful toward mothers, goodbye.

No. 1800330

>>1800326
I would think someone utilizing birth control would expect not to get pregnant…

No. 1800333

>>1800326
Ultimately, the point comes down to if you are interested in harm reduction to save yourself money, or if you are more interested in punishment and are willing to pay more for people to be punished. That's just a personal decision you have to make about your taxes.
>The literal purpose of sex is to reproduce.
This isn't even correct. Why do gay people have sex? Why do pregnant women have sex? Your ignorance of evolutionary incentives is showing.

No. 1800334

>>1800326
>The literal purpose of sex is to reproduce.
Go soapbox this to the men. They are the demographic who would need to hear your opinion the most as they are the ones greenflagged by society to mindlessly fuck.

Not that men would listen to you.

No. 1800335

>>1800324
Now this is a real unpopular opinion that I support. People will argue it’s so hard to save 1k but honestly it’s possible for any able bodied adult in a first world country to save 1k and if you can’t you are not trying and you’re making excuses for your spending problems or you’re already in some kind of cursed debt hole from past spending problems or maybe someone took advantage of you financially and you need to cut them off, something is wrong if you can’t save 1k.

No. 1800337

>>1800335
>only people with money deserve to partake in life

Haha oh dear..goodbye the majority of countries! No children for you!

No. 1800339

>>1800335
>something is wrong if you can’t save 1k.
Yeah, the economy and employers.

No. 1800341

>>1800337
I didn’t say that and I don’t believe that. I only mean it’s a low and achievable bar for savings unless you have exceptional financial/life circumstances. If anyone has circumstances that make saving 1k impossible I hope they still have a nice life through outside support or credit or something.

No. 1800342

>>1800326
Being a biological male, having your dick chopped off, getting with a man and doing conservative trad larp will never save you.

No. 1800344

>>1800337
People who make bad decisions always pull this one out of their hat. Look man, reproduction isn't a right. In fact, because of how survival of the fittest works, your children dying before they can pass on your genes is the norm, not the exception. Don't like it? Strive and break yourself constantly in your twenties to save up enough by your thirties to have one child. If you're not willing to do, you're not fit enough to pass on your genes. It's a suck shitty hand we've been dealt, but it's reality. Your alternative is becoming a martyr and killing the elites who are purposely doing this to us.

No. 1800348

>>1800324
Access to abortion should be free. It is in my Scandi country, and we don’t have alarmingly high rates of abortion compared to any other country. Lack of access to abortion is associated with increased poverty and crime rates in the areas in question. These effects are reversed about 15 years after abortion becomes available. Human trafficking is also more common in countries where abortion is banned. I think the cost of offering abortion for free is well worth it considering these secondary effects. Poverty and crime costs society so much more.

No. 1800353

>>1800344
>Look man, reproduction isn't a right
What law says that it isn't?
>survival of the fittest
Our societies literally don't follow this. This is why big failing business get government aid. Or why welfare is a thing at all.
We figured out long ago that bolstering others in our communities has increased social good for all.

If you hate the "elites" so much, then why are you dick riding them and parroting their common sound bites about the lower classes?

No. 1800354

>>1800339
>Median wages for a one male and one female household in the US is $92,300
>This is a monthly income of $7691 before taxes and insurance, and $6153 after
>Median rent is $1978, median groceries is $902, and median utilities (including internet and phone) is $574
>Leaving the median person with $2700 each month for all other bills and costs
Huh. I always knew my coworkers were really bad with money but those numbers really cement it. If you can't save $1000 for an emergency, in most circumstances that's a personal failing.
>>1800348
Agreed. Ideally, abortion and birth control would be 100% free. It's just way cheaper for tax payers in the long run. Too bad the war machine needs poverty and fresh bodies to be fed.

No. 1800355

>>1800334
Your responsible for your own body and life. What a man thinks has nothing to do with the choices you make.

No. 1800358

>>1800353
>What law says that it isn't?
The laws of evolution and survival of the fittest.
>Our societies literally don't follow this.
They literally do. Altruism and helping others is also an inheritable trait, hence welfare. Businesses are not affected by evolution because they're not something that reproduces or that is swayed by genetics.
>We figured out long ago that bolstering others in our communities has increased social good for all.
Completely agree. But that doesn't change material reality of what is happening right now. Reproduction isn't a right and no one is owed a child.

No. 1800360

>>1800326
>the purpose of sex is to reproduce
Oh great, this again.

No. 1800361

>>1800354
Lol this is why this section 8 and babies topic got people Heated. Can’t expect people who can’t even figure out how to save 1k to have common sense.

No. 1800363

>>1800360
What other purpose does it have? It feels good to make you do it to produce babies

No. 1800365

>>1800358
>The laws of evolution and survival of the fittest.
Lol as if modern society operates on these so-called "natural laws."
>Altruism and helping others is also an inheritable trait, hence welfare.
Exactly, which is in contradiction of "survival of the fittest." There is no such thing as welfare in nature.
>no one is owed a child
No one is bound by an individual dictating that they cannot reproduce, either.

No. 1800366

>>1800363
who cares though you can still use a condom

No. 1800368

>>1800361
I wouldn't wager the people disagreeing with you itt are section 8 and have five fatherless kids.

Have you considered, perhaps, that you have said something genuinely ignorant?

No. 1800370

>>1800365
Nta but modern society does operate on those laws. The babies born to upper middle class homes have good nutrition and are less likely to be abused. Kids from poorer homes will probably be dead by the hand of their dead beat daddy or killed in gang violence.

No. 1800371

>>1800361
I replied to say 1k is possible for almost everyone just in a technical sense, but 1k will not get your baby a good life or save you from needing section 8, it’s not like it actually helps it’s just a small net for unforeseen things and it could get wiped out pretty fast if your life is fucked.

No. 1800372

>>1800363
if your caveman brain is saying
>oh em gee this feels so good I must have a baby instantly and suffer tremendous pain and give myself a fistula
That sounds like ayou problem

No. 1800373

>>1800372
Ok but you aren’t telling what other purpose there is to have sex other than reproduce

No. 1800378

>>1800370
>The babies born to upper middle class homes have good nutrition and are less likely to be abused.

Oh yes, that's why so many are terminally online autistic losers with food adversions and no muscle mass who go on to be school shooters and middle management of retail chains.

No. 1800379

>>1800373
social bonding?

No. 1800388

>>1800378
If they have good parents they can afford to get them they help they need. Poor people don’t have the option to even help their mentally I’ll kids and instead will try to beat the autistic out of them.

No. 1800390

>>1800373
Lots of animals, male and female, have all kinds of wild ass sex lives just for social bonding like other anon said

No. 1800398

AI is actually really cool, but there are plenty of arguments to make against it with "art theft" being the least valid of them.

Nobody cared about autotune and sound "sampling." Nobody cared about chatGPT. Nobody cared about automation. All of those things "stole" from someone else to make the lives of others more convenient or interesting. I am not about to act like artistics are suddenly the most hard up.

No. 1800400

>>1800390
A lot of things are fun like getting drunk, doing drugs and blowing your rent on a shopping spree. You have to decide if the cons in a bad decision out weight the pros and if you’re poor and uneducated you decided a 3 minute cum meant more to you than a life time of dealing with a dead beat baby daddy and having criminal children.

No. 1800401

>>1799689
Japanese is an interesting language to me because there are subtleties and nuances you have to infer based on context and it feels like figuring out a piece of a puzzle like you said. I'm a monolingual pleb but I wish I had kept up with my studies. I hardly ever engage in weeb media anymore but when I look at localization changes and differences of JP vs EN version there's a layer of nuance in the JP that you would never be able to grasp in the EN version.

No. 1800407

>>1800373
It’s also for the purpose of physical bonding between two people. Where conversely, having a baby literally creates a physical distance between the couple.

No. 1800410

>>1800400
>A lot of things are fun like getting drunk, doing drugs and blowing your rent on a shopping spree.
Maybe if you’re suffering from mania those things sound like fun, harmless activities but enjoying some physical time with your mate isn’t that big of a deal. I’m not sure if I missed something but I think practicing safe sex is kind of the opposite of creating your bespoke
>life time of dealing with a dead beat baby daddy and having criminal children

No. 1800417

>>1800398
Sampling is pretty bad example though because it cost a lot of people a fortune if they just decided to "borrow" shit that still has active rights.
Our university is actually making a giant text corpus for research made out of the thesis works of the students and they'll never be the wiser, because it's technically the school's property.

No. 1800434

>>1800365
I know that you think that human reproduction is outside all considerations, but society itself is an influencing factor in how many children a person has and how many of those will go on to have children of their own. Those are the only parameters you need. If a species reproduces and passes on genetic material, it is affected by evolution.
>which is in contradiction of "survival of the fittest."
You're thinking of the misunderstanding where people think of survival of the fittest as survival of the strongest. Survival of the strongest has never been true, except in those rare cases where being the strongest happened to make that species the fittest for its environment.
>There is no such thing as welfare in nature
If you define welfare as the giving of resources to an adult member who is otherwise unable to acquire resources themselves, then welfare exists in nature. Lionesses are known to tear open the tough hide of kills and allow other lionesses with broken jaws to eat the soft organs first since its the only food they can chew. Apes have been observed to prechew food and give it to elderly members who no longer have teeth. Rats will share food with other even when they have no incentive to do so.
>No one is bound by an individual dictating that they cannot reproduce
Yes, but they are bound by whether that other will give them resources for their child that they cannot support. In the grand scheme of evolution, it makes no difference whether a child is not born because its parents hold off on reproducing versus if the child dies of starvation because its parents are unable to afford food.
Ultimately this conversation has degraded into a lot of discussion of the evolutionary influences on humans, but my original point remains that no one is owed a child when they cannot procure resources to raise said child.

No. 1800438

when will she just admit she’s a hater who grabs no tail

No. 1800444

>>1799960
Idc about women trying to look tiny and cute, I don't think it's pedo-ish intent from the woman(!), but the fact they're always doing it for ugly old losers, bleh. Go perform with a cute twink and be cute together.

No. 1800447

>>1800434
>but they are bound by whether that other will give them resources for their child that they cannot support

We should and we do. You're the sped trying to make an argument for why not lol.

No. 1800464

>>1800447
>We should
Why?

No. 1800476

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I'm against AI like any other person with artistic goals but the fact that it is popular in porn makes me almost hopeful that we will have less coomer professional artists and i will be less scared at the mention of a male artist.
Idk how to explain it but i'd take the option of having lots of losers locked in their houses generating their degenerate porn and not interacting with any woman than risking to work with a moid that spends hours drawing vile things in his free time.

No. 1800479

>>1800464
Because people will die, Kim.

No. 1800486

>>1800358
The reason humans conquered the world is because we help each other and organise. It's our only strength besides intelligence. You know absolutely nothing about evolution. So stupid it's gender nonconforming

No. 1800491

>>1800476
>i'd take the option of having lots of losers locked in their houses generating their degenerate porn and not interacting with any woman than risking to work with a moid that spends hours drawing vile things in his free time.
That's just wishfull thinking lmao
that's the same as saying
> i'd take the option of having lots of losers locked in their houses in their computers watching their degenerate porn and not interacting with any woman than risking to work with a moid that spends hours doing vile things in his free time.
it all just leads to normalization and men will never stop pestering women, they will only take the women available to them and make them change to their liking (like withe bdsm porn popularity and how a bunch of men started being doms). The rise of all the AI technologies will only further the amount of porn being made and shared without the consent of the women it's based on

No. 1800501

>>1800491
Ah geez i forgot about the irl stuff moids do, you're right, that's awful.
Maybe we can start some turbo autismo trend that can catch on them so they speedrun being attracted to dumb things like furries or robots and can't no longer obtain their twisted fantasies on real women lol

No. 1800505

Most of y’all would be less angry and jealous if you got laid(bait)

No. 1800507

>>1800501
falling off a cliff fetish spread let's go

No. 1800509

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No. 1800526

>>1800509
It’s true though, just have sex, your mood will improve

No. 1800536

>>1800526
I'll just go excersise for the same and better benefits.

No. 1800541

>>1800505
Meh sex would just give me anxiety, I'd rather touch grass.

No. 1800543

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it makes me kinda sad to hear some nonas takes on bdsm, most of times i ignore them because i don't have anything to say and i expect to hear those things here.
I don't really judge what other women find sexually attractive but it's not like i'm into some hardcore things because i was gaslighted into it.
Maybe it's because i wish i was vanilla, but i just avoid sex and romantic relationships with men altogether because of how conscious i am about the things i like and that i will not find a proper man but i'm still happy, i'm sorry for any woman who had a bad experience or knows about it and i know that most of men are scumbags and take advantage, but i just don't like how often i see the implication that if a woman likes something more particular involving a man it's because she was somehow forced into it.

No. 1800555

>>1800526
It’s kind of like exercising. Like how going on a short walk can make you feel physically better

No. 1800556

>>1800543
This is just me but personally my takes on BDSM are mostly influenced by the fact that I grew up during the early 2010’s and porn laden content was everywhere, especially instagram tumblr and youtube. It was like there was a list of things that content had to include, and “sex and violence” was at the top of the list kek. 2016 was a big boom for ‘BDSM fashion’ and the presence of it in regular media, which exposed me to it at way too tender an age, hence why I’m completely opposed to it now. I think practicing it privately is completely acceptable, but BDSM subculture is a very strange creature. Almost 10 years later, it’s now normal for peoples fetishes to be their entire personalities.

No. 1800558

>>1800543
I don't particularly care or judge the reasons a woman may be into bdsm, my and a lot of other anons problem would be the matter of why the man you're participating in bdsm with is able to get off to acts that would be considered abuse to everyone if not for the "bdsm" label supposedly absolving it. A man who gets off on hurting women is not a man capable of loving and respecting women, the "consent" may be his get out of jail free card against the law, but not for the actual morality of his actions and what it says about him as a person. I'm glad you recognize that men are trash and would take advantage of you were they to know what you're into. If you want to continue indulging in your fantasies I'd recommend continuing to exclusively do so in private through something like books or fanfic and not your own actual participation. Also, while I don't think any particular man needs to have "forced" a woman into these sorts of fetishes, I still wonder if the high prevalence of women wanting to be dominated isn't still a product of societal messaging, similar to women's desires to shave, use makeup, enter lower paying fields, etc. Frankly I think it would be too depressing to view it as natural behavior

No. 1800581

Mentally sane rich and famous people do not exist

No. 1800593

>>1800581
I don't think the super rich are sane even the ones who aren't particularly famous.

No. 1800598

>>1800558
I try not to be critical of women into it, but it kinda sucks that women who end up participating in BDSM are ultimately enabling men. Like you said, they are basically given license to hurt and control a woman because she consented to it. It's so fucked up to me.

No. 1800601

>>1800556
I didn't have internet growing up but i saw the oversexualization around too, which wasn't stricly on bdsm and i really don't like the bdsm fashion (plus it looks silly most of the times lol) or people who want to normalize these kind of things, it's just weird.
I also stay away from any sort of nsfw communities because i hate people who get obsessed with their fetishes and put them on a public space.

>>1800558
Yeah that's just why i can't get along the idea of being intimate the way i like it with a real man, there's always something weird with it, and i would feel bad if i'm the one introducing them into something like that too.
I wouldn't want to be this way with a woman but i also get kinda gloomy knowing that the ones i liked preferred rough men , i don't really know why there's this prevalence, i think it comes mostly with how someone spends their life in general, we all eventually grow old enough to realize what is good for us and what we really want regardless, some can take the next step some can't.

No. 1800648

>Nobody wants to work!

I agree that the pandemic was the catalyst for people overvaluing their relatively low-skill, inexperienced labor from getting paid to sit at home doing nothing.
Tired of dealing with rotten ass coworkers and employees who feel they shouldn't have to lift a finger or take a directive to earn a wage like everyone else.

No. 1800653

eyeliner is alluring and more men should wear it

No. 1800670

>>1800648
What's stopping you from not being lazy like everyone else? A lot of people lost their will to work. Tired of busting their ass for companies that give you nothing in return, and often the wage alone is not sufficient.

No. 1800696

>>1800670
My professional career and bills.
I worked hard for things and do not wish to lose them which is what being a lazy slob gets you unless you are a tradthot or a trust fund baby.

No. 1800718

I rewatched the Joker 2019 and my opinion of it changed over the last four years, I'm not sure if it's because I'm older or I'm just sick of "muh mentol health" messages, but I found the film pretty mean spirited and whiny. Literally an /r9k/ styled misery porn greentext where bad thing after bad thing happened.

The film at the time of release had everyone going on about how it will be remembered and how it's so deep. But I think the long term impact of it might be just it being remembered as a pathetic time everyone was obsessed with "muh mentol health". It's obvious now that all this excessive focus and introspection did nobody any good, and this film showcasing victimization after victimization just fed into people's self absorbed whining.

No. 1800722

>>1800696
You’re an hr or manager girlie struggling to keep workers because it’s not 1965 and you can’t intimidate anyone anymore because we already know there’s no retiring at a 16 dollar an hour job kek

No. 1800723

>>1800648
There was something deeply heartbreaking and unsettling of having to work a shitty service job during the pandemic, all masked up, working full shifts and seeing the laptop class in comfortable pyjamas doing literally 3 hours of work a day if that and living like idle aristocrats for twice my wage. I'll readily admit it engendered in me a deep resentment and envy, although maybe the joke is on me because I squandered many of the opportunities handed to me over the years.

No. 1800726

>>1800718
You're right. I also hate the joker and batman being half brothers. Horrible idea.

No. 1800731

>>1800723
Your fault for not knowing how to use indeed or being too lazy to do so

No. 1800736

>>1800731
Oh yeah, absolutely, if I didn't fuck up my life I could've been there (maybe). But that begs the question that only some people -can- be there, too many people going for it just means an East Asia situation where everyone grinds for the narrow slots at the Chaebols and Zaibatsus.

No. 1800737

The reason why jobs are having such hard time keeping employees is because for so long they treated people who actually wanna work like criminals or annoyances and now they’re left with 16 year olds just saving up for Jordan’s

No. 1800739

>>1800726
Nta but they weren't related, the whole point was that the Joker's mom was insane.

No. 1800751

>>1800722
Easy with the projection lol, I agree with her and I don't work in corporate at all. The only people who take pride in being lazy do-nothings can afford to do so due to a cushy safety net of their parents' money and not due to any real desire to stick it to the man. The rest are too busy working.

No. 1800757

>>1800751
I have a mortgage, my parents don’t give me shit and my car it’s on its last legs and I still only do the bare minimum not to get fired. I know I can string these jobs along for at least a year or two because no one wants to be at these nit picky entry level ass jobs.

No. 1800759

>>1800723
I hate to break it to you but working remotely for 3 hours a day like a pampered cat is only the reality for very high level executives. For the majority of remote workers, remote work is jail. 10 hours a day of staring at a computer made me wanna kill myself so bad, no matter how much I was getting paid. Sure I could pay my bills but I didn’t want to anymore because it just didn’t feel worth it.

No. 1800768

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The overt anti-GNC/butch shit in the FTM threads ought to be called out and vilified

No. 1800770

>>1800751
>cushy safety net of their parents' money

lol i don't have that, i simply no longer care about my life or my job or what happens to me

No. 1800772

Someone got called a tranny and caught a ban for saying ugly women don't owe it to anyone to fight the patriarchy in /g/ but as a former uggo I agree and the replies made me so mad. I had a minor facial deformity, got surgery and people suddenly stopped acting like I'm annoying and I'm not invisible anymore. It's not even just men who treat you better, it's everyone. Even supposed GNC butches go for pretty femme girls here.

You can't actually say anything about it to people you know because if you complain that means you're a jealous ugly-chan who can't be happy for your pretty friends. And I'm supposed to just be okay with being a second class citizen but also speak out about women's rights and societal double standards, even though nobody listens to me and I'm the first one who will be mocked for being an ugly feminist dyke? Yeah no, conventionally pretty people can deal with that since people will actually eat up everything they're saying, I'll just continue to make my life as comfy for myself as I can. I don't feel bad about getting plastic surgery and if it makes you so mad, go gain weight and see how people talk to you then.

No. 1800778

>>1800759
I've increasingly heard this be said, but during the pandemic what I seen at the time was the way I described. One tech worker I talked to said it was a coin flip, either you're fucking around all day doing nothing or you're working overtime constantly, drinking, stressed out of your mind and just wanting to rope.

No. 1800780

>>1800768
I've been very ticked off by this as well. You can tell many of the posters in the FTM thread are the type who just want to make fun of women who step out of line. The first thing they do when they see a FTM is to lament the loss of her good looks as if that's all a woman is good for. No concern for her health, her mental well-being, or anything else. They have no awareness that this constant policing and judgement of women from men and other women is what FTMs are often running from. The people in those threads have no awareness that boiling a woman down to her desirability is literally what causes many women to troon out, it is the exact behavior that pushes women to try and discard their femaleness in the first place. And of course they're too dense to see it anyway

No. 1800789

>>1800778
If you are an entry level worker at a desk job best believe you’re going to spend every 10 hours at the computer lol you’re gonna get a zoom chat everytime you move

No. 1800792

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>>1797892
>>1797121
Based. This also reminds me of another pet peeve of mine: parents who bring their babies and little kids to breweries. I guess because it's a "hip, craft brewery" and not a dark, seedy bar it's okay? I also just feel weird about drinking in front of kids in general, maybe that's just a "me" thing but whatever. A friend of mine owns a brewery and almost every time I've gone, there's some family with little kids running around while the parents are drinking. I almost tripped over a wandering toddler while I was trying to balance walking back to our table with a full beer in each hand. And it's just super uncomfortable when my friends and I are laughing, swearing and making dirty jokes because you think it's just drunk adults around, and you turn and there's little kids at the next table over. Kills the vibe completely

No. 1800795

>>1800792
Kinda related, but I went to Galaxy's edge recently and the Cantina is the only area that serves harder alcohol. I was really shocked to see stroller and high chairs in there when it's a darker bar that serves heavier liquor. Like, why bring your kid in there? it was a bit weird.

No. 1800800

>>1800792
I agree with you, but to play Devil's advocate my mom used to take me to taverns when I was a toddler because my uncle owned a few and I genuinely remember nothing except some grandpa laughing at me for liking a trashy folk song he played on the guitar. But still, it wasn't really a brewery or bar, just a Greek village watering hole full of old people.

No. 1800801

>>1800722
You're right that I am a manager but wrong in that I have ever used "intimidation" in a bid to get employees under my thumb.
I am a very chill boss who tries to empower my workers with no micromanaging, fighting for their hours and fair wages. Yet barring friends and friends of friends who I have hired, the majority of HR candidates sent to me have been straight up thugs and rude assholes no matter how much cool and understanding I bring to the table as a boss.

For the record: I offer training and pay people with just a high school diploma 19-22/hr with no customer facing roles and these entitleds STILL fucking bitch and slack off.

No. 1800804

>>1800792
You're right tbh, when you have a kid you shouldn't be drinking at all because when something happens to that kid, you won't be able to respond quickly. That's why my parents never drank a drop of alcohol until my brother and I turned like 16 years old, we were old enough to be kind of responsible so we didn't end up killing ourselves by putting our fingers in an outlet or something like the average toddler would do.

No. 1800897

>>1800804
Blog but this made me lol reminding me of when my parents got smashed one christmas spent in a very rural and isolated part of a small island when i was a little toddler, and I shoved a small object up my nose so far that it got stuck. They had to extract it themselves with tweezers because the only doctors office was shut. It probably is a good idea to stay sober around little children.

No. 1800935

Sometimes cosmetic surgery is the only thing that makes you feel better and I’m sick of being lectured about not loving myself enough. Especially on the nasolabial folds website.

No. 1800957

>>1800935
i mean if you do get cosmetic surgery then you dont love yourself, you are free to do it but dont expect everyone to kiss your feet and tell you how brave you are by supporting one of the most disgusting industries. Also, the underage tiktokters calling every woman fat, ugly and old arent the same that are against cosmetic surgery.

No. 1800984

>>1800957
No shit, and I don’t care. I’m sick of ‘just love yourself lol’ being trotted out as if it’s a switch you can turn on and off. And this website is full of nitpicking about things completely out of cows control (bone structure, age, tits etc) but also shits on them for doing the only thing they can to fix it realistically.

No. 1800987

>>1800984
i used to be like you and i am not anymore, so it's definetly possible to stop being a sheeple. Also, again, the anons nitpicking cow's arent the same ones who are against cosmetic surgery. They are like you and are deeply insecure and take it out of random women online, so it's weird you use them as examples.

No. 1801021

>>1800935
Why don’t you just own that you’re insecure? I wanna get a nose job and it feels morally wrong and racist somehow. But I still cave in to societal pressures to be a PYT

No. 1801035

>>1801021
I mean yeah of course I’m insecure, I’m sick of people acting like it’s easy not to be insecure or it’s a moral failing to not like how your body looks.

No. 1801056

>>1801021
>>1801035
you arent insecure you just crave male attention. All of that money just to end up settling with some unwashed uggo that jacks off to teen porn kek

No. 1801060

>>1801056
Are you ok?

No. 1801061

>>1801060
are you? you are the one that wants cosmetic surgery to appeal to unwashed moids

No. 1801062

>>1801056
Nta but it's not always about men. Friendships and job opportunities are better for more beautiful people. There are studies about it.

No. 1801063

>>1801062
kek literally not true, otherwise men would go en masse to get cosmetic surgery. The only people that get cosmetic surgery is straigth women and fags, both to appeal to ugly moids.

No. 1801064

>>1801061
For someone who hates men you sure are obsessed with them.

No. 1801065

>>1801064
i dont hate men, i hate pickmes like you that waste money to appeal to moids. Men get everything handed to them and do nothing in exchange because of people like you. I am not the one that's going to end up with both a botched face and an ugly moid, so i am just laughing at your future.

No. 1801066

>>1800935
it's really not. do what you want but this kind of rhetoric is lame. i've struggled with awful insecurities about my face (plenty of people have told me i'm ugly from my childhood) but i've never seriously wanted to get a rhinoplasty to "fix" the nose other people say is too big or bumpy. or any other procedure to fix anything else. it wouldn't fix my mind and it almost feels like a betrayal to other women with those features who i personally think are beautiful. idk i might just be enough of a contrarian that i don't want to conform to wretched beauty standards that want you to spend thousands to irreversibly alter your face. even if being unattractive hurts, the last thing i would want to do is perpetuate the standard that hurt me in the first place

No. 1801068

>>1801066
you arent going to change their mind because they are doing it for male attention. They will try to argue its totes for them!!! but beauty standars revolve around what moids find attractive. She's gonna end up like those women who got a BBL to look thicc and now are removing it because moids are back to liking heroine addict looking women.

No. 1801069

>>1801066
I mean to each their own, it’s not rhetoric, it’s my experience. Treatment resistant BDD is real. I spent about five years in therapy trying to get better and it didn’t help. Eventually I got sick of it and just bit the bullet. I’m more confident now and I can actually get naked in changing rooms, swim around other people, look at myself in the mirror without breaking down. To me it’s worth the trade off of being considered lazy or weak. My issue was also physically uncomfortable for me as well (though I won’t pretend that was the main reason).

No. 1801071

>>1801069
what did you get done?

No. 1801072

>>1801068
Not really? I did everything I could that was less invasive to fix it naturally before and it was just one thing. Not everyone who gets surgery is Trisha Paytas.

No. 1801074

>>1801072
you are trisha anon, you are as frivolous and retarded and you are going to get an equally ugly moid like trisha

No. 1801076

>>1801071
Breast lift and reduction.

No. 1801077

>>1801076
>breast lift
>not for moids
kek

No. 1801078

>>1801069
it is good that you do feel better about yourself and it sounds like it really did improve your life. i just can't ever get myself to agree that surgery is the only way. i'm not judgemental of women who go through with it though (unless they pretend they're natural or carelessly encourage it), BDD can be truly horrible

No. 1801079

>>1801078
Well it is an opinion yeah, there’s not going to be some on universal objective cure. I guess I could have waited another five years or until I was so old it didn’t matter either way, lol. >>1801077
I literally couldn’t fit all the loose skin into a bra.

No. 1801084

>>1801074
Nta, you are unhinged

No. 1801097

Non religious celibacy should be normalized.

No. 1801121

>>1801084
ok explain why

No. 1801143

>>1801097
Agreed, and I also practice what I preach. I'm not a religious zealot against abortion, but I also don't even want to be in a situation to make that decision, and also don't want to have an organ removed just to have actual safe sex. (While abortion is still legal in my country, it's a needlessly long administrative procedure for the medical one or hoping you can get oral pills via online sellers from abroad). Just the fact I don't need to worry about contraceptive medication failing or stress about my period being late is such a huge upgrade of quality of life that I can't imagine trading it in for having a guy around.
And I know sex acts outside of PiV exist, but good luck finding a guy you can explain that to. In the end, they'll never be able to take this issue as seriously, because it's not their body that changes unless they take immediate action (and sometimes not even their life will). I refuse to compromise on these issues and don't want to have constant arguments with a moid.

No. 1801149

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>>1801097
Agreed. Sex is unnecessary to live no matter how much people say otherwise. “Have sex you’ll feel better” is disgustingly moidish and reminds me of this coomer degen TiF (but I understand there’s a difference with cooming by yourself)

No. 1801161

>>1801149
Whats the point in making these retarded comics. God being in online vacuums makes people so cringe and stunted and weird.

No. 1801167

Tattoos are fucking ugly. Yes, all of them. Yes, yours. No, I don’t care if it holds meaning. The ones that do are often the ugliest.

No. 1801169

>>1800987
>i used to be like you and i am not anymore, so it's definetly possible to stop being a sheeple
You're still here so I don't really believe you, sorry.

No. 1801172

>>1801169
what does this even mean

No. 1801173

>>1801149
yeah it's ridiculous to me that people treat casual sex like a basic need. side tangent i'm always unimpressed when so-called intellectuals start going on about everything leading back to sex, that really life is about sex, that sex is at the core of everything. way to expose your personal inability to live without the coom. i just roll my eyes every time, it's so predictable.

No. 1801198

>>1801167
You’re right, nonnie. I have one I got when I was 18 and stupid. I hate it. Looking into getting it removed. Luckily it’s small.

No. 1801201

>>1801167
I agree. They strike me as immature.

No. 1801202

>>1801149
Who gets stressed about choosing how to masturbate? Kek that’s not a real problem

No. 1801231

>>1801167
Tattoos on men are the biggest red flags to me. Maybe nonettes have had different experiences, yet every guy with those ridiculous sleeves-think the stick n poke, hodge podge type tattoos all crammed together-turned out to have had some cluster B personality disorder.

No. 1801364

>>1801167
True. I know a lot of people think it makes them look unique or cool, but it seems trashy and childish. Makes me think back to kids in elementary school that would draw all over themselves kek.

No. 1801380

>>1800801
You gotta blame people in your position. For the longest time managers and hr has treated employees like criminals because they come to work and now no one gives a shit because you come into the job and you get shut down and treated disposable before you even get a chance to prove yourself. Even 18 an hour isn’t enough to make most people give a shit

No. 1801400

>>1801380
exactly. 18-20/hr is the goal I look for in this insane economy. I'm still living on noodles and make my own wraps and coffee at home. Some jobs got the nerve to scout me out and order $15/hr.

No. 1801418

>>1801380
>>1801380
Two things can be true at once:
There exists terrible managers who overwork and undervalue great employees.
There exists entitled, lazy employees who dance on the backs of everyone around them and demand special treatment in spite of never earning it.

All I know is if I always blamed every manager for the excuse of underperforming, I would have never advanced. I've had great managers, as well as shitty ones, but never used the shitty ones as a means to justify poor behaviors towards good managers. Why would you treat good managers like shit? Makes no sense.

No. 1801468

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>>1801202
The rest of the comic showed she was stressed over work and twitter so she just cooms it all away

No. 1801476

>>1801418
People have dealt with mostly bad managers and hr so after years of that people come into the work environment with a bad attitude because they don’t trust you. That’s just how it is. People just see work as a job now and I know hr and managers wish they could go back to a time where people had loyalty to their job but people in your position fucked that up.

No. 1801478

>>1801468
yeah, this is totally natural and not a weird male fantasy.

No. 1801482

>>1801468
This is more than a little pathetic

No. 1801490

>>1801476
>People have dealt with mostly bad managers and hr so after years of that people come into the work environment with a bad attitude because they don’t trust you

This isn't the excuse that you think it is. If someone offered you a high wage and a decent work environment, but you blew it because 'fuck you,' that's on you.

No. 1801491

>>1801490
Why does anon think the argument only goes one way?
Bad employees could be the reason why so many managers act like fucking nazis.

No. 1801503

>>1801149
I fucking hate the hitachi wand so much I don't understand how it became so popular. Who wants their ENTIRE PUSSY VIBRATED with a massager as big as their forearm? Isn't pinpointed stimulation like with a bullet vibe better? Oh boy time to masturbate time to get my hitachi want that's 2 ft long to plug into the wall to cum grandma sicko style. Or, or, I could masturbate with a tiny bullet that's so powerful I only need the lowest setting. If you use the hitachi you are a follower coombrained retard that can probably be memed into just about anything

No. 1801520

>>1801198
What is it?

No. 1801521

>>1801503
Thank you!!! I feel for the hitachi wand scam years ago and it didn't fell good or make me orgasm. I swear the only people who worship that toy are coom brains and japanophiles.

No. 1801551

>>1800739
Oops my bad. Been ages since I watched it so I don't 100% remember what happened.

No. 1801554

>>1801167
I feel like a scrote saying this but tattoos and bright dyed hair and septum piercings disgust me. Especially those huge septum ones. I swear people who get the huge fat septum’s want to look ugly they’re usually enbies or tifs

No. 1801566

>>1801149
You've never been sexually repressed in your life and didn't have to deal with sexual and horny desires, thoughts, feelings and sensations 24/7 before. Sex is a necessity in that case imo. It would solve half of my problems and my brain would stop thinking about it if I finally get to do it.
>inb4 just masturbate
It's not the same, and not enough.

No. 1801576

Age gap relationships of more than 5 years should be banned. Nothing good ever comes out of them and women are always the ones who suffer in them.

No. 1801577

when you talk about how some people lose weight much slower/hold onto fat easier and people cry "YOU'RE BREAKING THE LAW OF THERMODYNAMICS!!!". The worse part is that a lot of these people will even admit people have slower metabolisms and can sometimes take years to even lose 20 lbs but will still flip out at someone even MENTIONING how the weight loss is way too slow

btw - thermodynamics nerds. calories in/calories out refer more to energy. if this applied exactly to how much weight our body holds onto and no exceptions people who eat off of uranium dishware should be a million pounds since 1 g of uranium is 20 bil calories.

No. 1801582

>>1801576
if one party is under 25 it should be more like 2-3 yrs. if one person is under 18 it shouldn't even be more than 2 yrs.

No. 1801589

>>1801577
Tbh yeah what makes one lose weight is a complex dance between genetics, health conditions ( mental + physical), sleeping patterns, their sex, the environment they are in etc etc and it's not a clear cut thing of "calories in/ calories out". If it were that straight foward many people wouldn't be very overweight let alone fat.

No. 1801592

>>1801576
I'm not a fan of more than 3 tbh. My parents have a gap of 8 years and I think it's ridiculous how common that is in their generation

No. 1801593

>>1801592
I'm staunchly anti age gap because of my own parents ridiculous age gap and the imbalance that it brought. My dad is in his 70s to my mom's 50s

No. 1801594

>>1801576
my cousin married a 26 yr old moid when she was 18 it was crazy. I couldn't even say anything bc i was just 16 myself but i still can't believe she did that

No. 1801595

>>1801576
I agree. 5 should be the limit. After that, you really have nothing in common generation wise with that person.

No. 1801596

>>1801594
Getting married at 18 is the most ghetto behavior.

No. 1801598

>>1801596
we were still in school when she showed me a picture of him one day and said she was gonna marry him. i couldn't even react because i was so shocked. she looked so happy about it too, it took every bit of strength in me not to pull a face right in front of her. she expected me to congratulate her on her ugly moid. crazy to this day

No. 1801601

>>1801594
she ended up breaking up with him didn’t she

No. 1801603

>>1801601
no they're still married. no idea what their relationship is like since i don't keep contact anymore

No. 1801612

>>1801594
Please tell me she isn’t baby trapped

No. 1801621

>>1801612
surprisingly not. they've been married six years and she still hasn't had a baby. i think she has some health problem but i have no idea what the details are. but divorce is extremely frowned upon in our community so even if she has no children, i doubt she'd ever leave.

No. 1801624

>>1801621
This is why women's education is so insanely important. Religion communities and old superstitions keep women uneducated and trapped by groomer men. I am sorry this happened to your cousin. It's a very sad situation overall.

No. 1801699

I don’t understand how women can understand why them dating younger men is creepy but they can’t understand why their older bfs are creepy. Like a girl who is 21 will claim 18-20 year old boys are just babies or some bullshit but won’t apply this same logic to her bf who is 26-30.

No. 1801719

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>>1801576
It's pretty funny that most adults in +5year age gap relationships are happy yet you want to restrict their right to marry other adults who they love just because you want them to be as miserable as you are. David Tennant and Georgia Moffet in the picture I posted have a 14 year age gap.

No. 1801721

>>1801719
A 14 year old gap isn't normal, and women need to stop thinking it is.

No. 1801727

>>1801576
My bf is 21 and I’m 33. Our relationship isn’t good but I’m not the problem he is but I’m lonely so I’m taking what I can get.

No. 1801732

>>1801576
I don't agree, especially cause they are people who are older and still in the dating pool and at that point age gaps don't really matter. Are you gonna tell a 45 and 53 year old they can't be together? Even if you go younger though, I still don't really agree with this to an extent. When you're past your early 20s, I say let people date whoever they want to. Just vet your partners.

No. 1801734

>>1801732
ntayrt, I agree after thinking about it more, the older you get the less it matters.

No. 1801735

>>1801721
Whether it's normal or not is irrelevant. You can have whatever opinion you want on age gap relationships. What is not acceptable however is you restricting the rights of other adults just because you don't agree with their relationship.

No. 1801738

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>>1801730
>I also think you shouldn’t be a legal adult until 26
Some of you are really womanchildren

No. 1801752

>>1801738
I deleted because I already posted that in an old unpopular opinion thread but my idea with it is similar to how you’re under your parents health insurance until 26 because it’s widely understood you’re still immature at that age and developing financially/mentally. In the theoretical universe where this is law you wouldn’t be able to join the military until you’re 26, you wouldn’t be able to buy alcohol/cigarettes/weed (predatory businesses that want to hook young people early), and the age of consent would also be adjusted ideally into tiers of 3-5 year gaps that I haven’t really worked out because I’m not that into world building. But there would be drawbacks that make this really impractical like being unable to access adult assistance programs if you’re on your own so that would have to be addressed (with youth specific education/work programs maybe?) and I also haven’t thought about that too much because this is just a passing opinion I have

No. 1801756

>>1801752
NTA I think most people are idiots until they're actually 25. That includes women. I'm in my 30s now and the things I did when I was 20-21 is stupid shit I would never do now.

No. 1801758

>>1801738
>>1801752
In all honesty I feel like this is something that should be conversation once people start living longer, like into their 100s.
Like, stuff like adult age should be tied with average life span.

No. 1801759

>>1801735
Nobody is "restricting your rights" to date geriatric scrotes with autistic sperm, retard. I wonder why are pickmes like you so defensive over relationships with unhealthy power imbalances (as if straight relationships weren't full of them enough, by deafult), when the risk of divorce gets higher when there's an age gap, when the age gap itself gives you a higher risk of conceiving an autistic child, in a society where female youth is fetishized to the point of pedophilic obsession but men "age like fine wine" and where nobody bats an eye when a guy is 10 years older than his gf but a woman dating a man 4 years younger than her is considered a cradle snatcher kek. Nobody is stopping you from setting women backwards, nobody has that power (unfortunately), just let women rightfully vent
>>1801719
Gosh Tennant is so ugly btw. He looked absolutely disgusting in the Dr Who special, sickly like a chemo patient kek. What a fine wine!

No. 1801760

>>1801752
Nta Early 20s are for making retarded choices and learning adult consequences. It won’t help people in their 20s to try to protect them from failures and adult consequences by raising the adult age to 26. Also, turning 26 does not magically make you mature. If you’re considered underage until youre 26 because of the way you’re raised you will still think like a child.

No. 1801762

>>1801759
Nta
>Nobody is "restricting your rights" to date geriatric scrotes with autistic sperm, retard
The OP said it should be banned
>just let women rightfully vent
This is the unpopular opinions thread stupid, people are going to comment on other anon's opinions.

No. 1801765

>>1801756
Yeah, same. I’m glad I was able to leave my parent house at 18 legally but everything else was kind of a shit show and I was retarded. I guess I need to add an accessible emancipation program to my theoretic universe but I’d need to think about that for a while and I’m not going to. The point is young people are preyed upon and legal age of adulthood at least for some things could change that for the better (like, say, making it illegal to do porn if you’re under 26, that sort of thing).

No. 1801767

>>1801762
Saying something should be banned doesn't equal restricting your rights, are you autistic? Stop pretending like (unfortunately NICHE) opinions on the internet have any power over your life.

No. 1801769

>>1801734
I disagree. Maybe it matters less, but it still matters. Being 50 with a 70 year old husband sounds miserable.

No. 1801770

>>1801765
Do y’all actually think a woman at 26 who has never dated or had life experiences is going to made good adult choices just because she’s 26? People are more mature in their 30s because they did all the stupid shit, failed and learned. People who want to raise the age of adult to 26 just don’t wanna admit they wanna freeload off their parents longer and feel like babies longer.

No. 1801771

>>1801760
I think we should try to protect people from failure and being taken advantage of. Young adults are stupid and easy to influence, the age of adulthood is too low. By your logic we should abandon it altogether so tweens can get that life experience to make them mature faster, give me a break.

No. 1801773

>>1801769
For real. Nothing in common and probably groomed his younger wife tbh.

No. 1801774

>>1801767
>Saying something should be banned doesn't equal restricting your rights
Lmao. Do you know what the word 'ban' means? If you ban people from doing something that is their right(the right to a consensual relationship between adults), you are restricting those people's rights.

No. 1801777

>>1801767
You're the autistic one! Clearly no one thinks anon is actually restricting anyone's rights, anon said it should be banned so they were talking about if it actually was banned.

No. 1801778

>>1801771
If you’re being treated like a child up until 26 you’re still going to get taken advantage of anyway because you won’t have the life experience to know better. Failure and being taken advantage of is just an unavoidable part of going into the adult world. The stupid people fail and become crackheads or baby mommas and the smart people rise above it.

No. 1801782

>>1801769
This. The age gap between my grandparents was "only" 11 years old and seeing how senile my granpa was compared to my grandma was just comical. She also worked harder than him her whole life, she had a physical job and also took care of the household, so it's not like his lifestyle ruined him or something. It was sad

No. 1801785

>>1801769
My moms husband is 14 years older than her and she’s always talking about what she’s going to do when he dies. It’s sad, and it makes me sad to know my mom is going to be alone

No. 1801786

>>1801777
>>1801774
"Would" literally doesn't matter. You're acting like she's restricting your rights in real time, right now, because she dared to say what she said. No deeper analysis of the subject. Consent? So now everything is all right as long people consent to it? What is this, the liberal 'choice' feminism on 2017 tumblr? Lolcow is now libfem?

No. 1801788

>>1801782
People are so hypocritical about it too. My grandparents had the same age gap and because my alcoholic grandpa didn’t take care of himself died 20 years before my grandma and while most of his kids were still in their 20’s. My own parents had just a 3 year age gap but when I was dating moids 3 years younger than me I kept getting shit for it. They also let moids get away with anything so whenever they did something fucked up I just get some dismissive hand waving about how they’re young and that’s just what happens despite girls having to run entire households at even younger ages. I’m sick of the old man propaganda.

No. 1801789

>>1801778
No, some failure is inevitable sure but you learn a lot between the ages of 18-25 just by being alive that is not contingent upon being taken advantage of by currently legal exploitative practices like “sex work”, sale of addictive substances, and military enrollment just to name the big ones.

No. 1801792

>>1801719
Gross. You sound like an apologist who thinks it's okay for Leo DiCaprio to go after women over 21 because they're legal. Age gaps are creepy and men are always older, thinking it's okay to go after younger women.

No. 1801799

>>1801786
>You're acting like she's restricting your rights in real time
No one thought this or said this besides you.

No. 1801800

>>1801789
Notice how moids wait for women to turn 18. they have count downs to start sexually exploiting them. it's so disgusting. Men don't go through this shit, but they love to try to normalize age gaps as soon as a woman turns 18, they prey on them.

No. 1801803

>>1801802
Mid 20s

No. 1801804

>>1801799
Yet you reacted as if OP did it. I think you dropped your husband's feeding tube, queen

No. 1801805

>>1801800
I gave up on moids after that research about most men finding age 14 the most attractive came out. I will never touch a disgusting moid. literal subhumans

No. 1801806

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>>1801789
Sex work should be banned for everyone. 18 year old girls shouldn’t be doing it but women at 26 shouldn’t be either. 18 is the perfect age for adulthood to begin. Imagine a 25 year old scrote like pic related having his mommy cook him tenders every night and telling him he can’t call his gf because hes grounded. Or having a high school full of people in their mid 30s. Shits ridiculous when you think about it kek turning 26 isnt going to magically stop people from being alcoholics and smoking….Most people start doing that before their legal aged anyway. The age of consent being lower isn’t going to stop men from dating 18 year olds either.

No. 1801807

>>1801806
*mid 20s

No. 1801808

>>1801798
Honestly I think I just want the legal age for certain things to be raised. And yes no one should be doing porn but my idea is more realistic than a total ban. I don’t think people will stay home and be babied willingly just because the law changes (at least not people who wouldn’t already be doing that now, your scenario is already reality for some moids)

No. 1801812

>>1801792
Once you're finished with you're ad hominems I'll be waiting for a coherent argument from you.

No. 1801813

>>1801760
NTA but I don’t think those choices should include putting yourself into pornography and the military. Drinking and smoking though should be 18-21 and so should driving.

No. 1801815

>>1801808
They would. I think 21 would make more sense as the official adult age. 26 is too damn old, anyone who says 26 should be the age of adult hood just wants to be seen as a child longer. Zoomers took that theory” your brain doesn’t fully develop until 25” and just ran with.

No. 1801816

>>1801808
15 and 16 are way too young to drive, and 18 is way too young to be called an “adult” because the brain isn’t anywhere near fully developed at that point. The driving, drinking, legal age should be 22 or even 24.

No. 1801817

>>1801816
What kek do you want people to be literal retarded helpless babies until 24

No. 1801818

>>1801816
You must be someone who doesn’t work or pay bills

No. 1801819

>>1801815
Was that proven to be false? I thought the median age for the prefrontal cortex’s finishing growth is 25 years, and sometimes even older for people whose brains function on a lower scale.

No. 1801823

20 is a good age. It's when the "child" feeling finally started to go away for me. You should still be allowed to drive at 16 though, at least in the US. Our society is built on cars

No. 1801824

>>1801812
Nta but there's plenty of arguments and the stats for marriages with 10+ age gap speak for themselves, increased risk of 39% kek. Also autism in kids and power imbalance

No. 1801826

>>1801817
>>1801818
Well no, I have financial income and I am capable of paying bills. But now that I’m older; I realize that the newer generation of kids in their early 20’s are far more retarded and impossible to thoroughly educate compared to the kids in their 20’s 15 years ago. The capacity of brain function in the average “young adult” has gone down, which is why I feel like the legal ages for many rights do need to go up. I understand if you disagree because you want to be able to keep paying car insurance or buying cigarettes though, I’ve been there too kek.

No. 1801827

>>1801826
The capacity of a young adult has gone down because every generation younger people get more coddle and expected to do less. The average 16 year old in 1940 would be more mature than the average 21 year old now. Taking away more adult responsibilities are going to make things worse. You think people are just going to magically start driving and acting mature at 24 when it was never expected of them before?

No. 1801828

>>1801827
It’s never expected of 15/16 year olds to drive prior to getting their licenses, however they’re still capable of learning. You can’t be saying you really think a 22 year old wouldn’t be capable of learning how to drive, right kek

No. 1801830

>>1801827
Do you think kids start acting mature at age 18? Because I’ve got some bad news for you if so

No. 1801831

>>1801828
A 22 year old not having the right to drive alone without a permitted adult would be stupid. All these people who want the age of consent raised to 25 must think that as soon as we all turn 25 we have all the answers and know what to do. There are plenty of stupid ass 30 year olds out there.

No. 1801834

>>1801830
No but at 18 they need the freedom to go out and learn adult consequences. Nothing good is gonna come out of making people be damn near 30 before they can grow up kek

No. 1801835

>>1801831
There being stupid 30 year olds doesn’t really change the fact that your brain isn’t done developing until around 24-27. If it’s grinding your gears so bad maybe throw some lubricant on them

No. 1801836

the samefag who’s hellbent on the legal age being 18 just wants to keep fucking barely legals, ignore him

No. 1801837

>>1801835
So? Doesn’t matter if your brain is developed if you never did shit to know shit.

No. 1801840

>>1801836
I’m a woman and I definitely would not want to be 24 still having to be told what to do by my parents. If I had to live under my dumb/toxic parents wing nearly my entire young adult life I’d be retarded right now.

No. 1801841

>>1801837
Do you think that the legal age going up to 22/24 would mean that they’d be just locked inside of a house for those years? No sweetie. They’d still be working, paying bills, and living amongst their families the way that you’re supposed to at that age. You’re misinterpreting what’s being said and it’s revealing you as being extremely autistic. Go take your medicine.

No. 1801845

You can really weed out who’s parents hate them just based off the responses kek…lordy

No. 1801849

>>1801836
Stop being a coomer,but also this is why no discussions can go anywhere on this site. You guys just call anyone you don't like a male if they don't 100% agree with you and take everything way too seriously.

No. 1801850

>>1801841
Not everyone has good families lol imagine how much financial abuse would occur if everyone was a minor until 25. Just because you were dumb and need a law to tell you to know date 40 year olds at 24 doesn’t mean it’s a good idea.

No. 1801852

>the legal age needs to be raised
>NO IT NEEDS TO BE 18
>why so you can harass children
>uhhhhhhh…s-stop being a coomer………………..

No. 1801854

>>1801850
Like I said, if your parents hate you that’s not anyone else’s problem. Call the cops if you’re afraid of them.

No. 1801858

>>1801854
I don’t need my rights taken away at 23 to keep me from fucking old men and out of porn because I’m not dumb. I’m happy I moved out at 18 and learned about finances etc on my own. I like having my right to drink, drive and take care of myself. Not every young adult is retarded.

No. 1801865

>>1801854
Nta but a lot of people have abusive families. Idk I think it's pretty important to acknowledge in a topic like this.

No. 1801867

>>1801858
Right that’s why you’re defending yourself to adamantly on lolcow dot farm, because you’re certainly not retarded at all are you miss?

No. 1801868

>>1801867
Not retarded enough to fuck old men or do porn so I’m good

No. 1801874

I’m not even thinking about porn at this point I’m just sick of seeing cars full of dumbass teenagers swerving around everywhere and I’ll do whatever I have to to stop it

No. 1801880

>>1801468
this isn't nonreligious celibacy though? they are in a relationship

No. 1801883

>>1801858
I appreciate that you're considering the obvious drawbacks that would be huge issues but can you just list them out and suggest a solution for them instead of infighting? even if you think everyone who gets taken advantage of is a retard (not true) I don't know why you don't want to protect retards. we're just talking about a theoretical universe, you don't have to get mad, no one took anything from you. Just play with us! fuck.

No. 1801884

>>1801566
You have a problem. I haven’t had sex in a year. I’ve gone two years before. Yes I think about it but it doesn’t run my life like it does yours apparently.

No. 1801885

>>1801874
They cause the most wrecks (both fatal and non fatal) and are the main reason the roads are so dangerous and the reason car insurance rates keep soaring.

No. 1801886

>>1800018
>>1800024
Late but facts. I wish they weren't like this but they can't see us as autonomous or it interferes with their subconscious interpretation of us as a sexual object. I think it is subconscious because men act as described even when it's in opposition to their stated values and desires. See: Reddit scrotes saying they wished women would make the first move. And then they treat her like shit, cheat, take for granted, just as described.
>>1800025
Also true, Captain Save-A-Ho leaves as soon as you get better and heal.
>>1800027
Bald under 25 will also commit fast.

No. 1801893

>>1801883
Because more laws aren’t going to stop people from being retarded. There are plenty of 20-25 year olds out here in school, managing their their money and trying to make their life decent. Why should we have our rights taken away because we have idiots in our age group that like old dick and fall for only fans scams. Being a young adult doesn’t mean full blown dumb dumb.

No. 1801898

>wake up
>see this shit with no end in sight
Bringing up age gap should be bannable. Every damn time threads turn into this

No. 1801899

>>1801874
North America and Australia are the only places that let teenagers drive. It's stupid and I hate that giving teens borderline sportscars like honda civics as gifts is normalized when even adults have a hard time driving them

No. 1801907

>>1801893
What if it was just some “rights” like the right to smoke, do porn or serve in the military? Keep your alcohol I guess, you’d probably get it anyway and alcoholics will still become alcoholics.
And don’t come at me with some shit like smoking is a human right that shit is retarded and the industry is predatory and based on getting customers addicted as soon as possible.

No. 1801909

>>1801893
I don’t think your rights would magically be stripped if the laws change. If you have rental history and good credit, I don’t see why you wouldn’t be allowed to rent an apartment or keep living in your home. Even if you don’t have a good relationship with your parents, you could still get a co-signer to assure that you wouldn’t lose your home. And I don’t see businesses boosting their working age, considering they already hire children as young as 15 no matter where you are in the world.

No. 1801913

>>1801907
What’s the difference between smoking at 18 and smoking at 30? Do you only value the lives of young people? Maybe make smoking and dying in wars illegal for everyone.

No. 1801914

>>1801913
No they’re both equally bad and really smoking should be outlawed but no one’s ready for that conversation

No. 1801915

>>1801898
Forreal. Where are the fun opinions and why is this going on for so long

No. 1801916

>>1801914
Age has nothing to do with it. It should be banned for everyone. Anons talking about silly shit like not letting people drive alone at 22 or making us be minors until 30 or some shit. That’s dumb as hell lol

No. 1801918

This is gonna be not well received by eurofags but open carry is fun and makes me feel like john wayne

No. 1801919

>>1801909
I was afraid to bring up child labor because it’s a complex issue and I have even more radical opinions on it… like obviously it’s bad if you’re a literal child / young teen and there are way too many loopholes to exploit children but on the other hand if you’re a youth on your own there needs to be some legal work or you get forced into black market work because the world sucks

No. 1801921

>>1801916
Nobody said anything about making people be minors until 30. It was stated that the legal age should be raised up to 22/24 and based off the replies I feel like that assessment was accurate

No. 1801922

>>1801918
the fear struck into moids when they see that piece and know we’re on equal grounds. Eurononnas will never know.

No. 1801923

>>1801921
imagine having abusive parents at 23 and they won’t give you your social security cards or identification. You’d be fucked. You imagine that all adults have nice families who will let their adult children freeload off them and not make their life a living hell.

No. 1801924

>>1801913
The difference is an older person is many times less likely to start purchasing cigarettes because the marketing wouldn’t work as well (would still work on people, but less of them) and there would be less social benefit/pressure for an older person since their relationships and habits would be more established

No. 1801926

>>1801924
Most people start smoking and drinking before they’re old enough to purchase on their own. Raising the drinking and smoking age to 25 wouldn’t make a difference. I don’t know anyone who started drinking at 21, most people were getting wasted in highschool.

No. 1801927

>>1801835
>your brain isn’t done developing until around 24-27
This is a myth.

No. 1801928

>>1801923
call a lawyer, they don’t always charge to write a statement threatening action. contact the local police department, because they’ll be able to issue a warrant for the release of the documentation. I know this because it is currently illegal to do that to a minor.

No. 1801932

>>1801576
Nah, I'm in my 30s and eary 20s guys are the best and cutest imo.
>>1801727
Based. TBH the moid is always the problem so just get. a cute one with hair and a functioning dick. Women who go with old men are just clowning themselves especially since most of the time grandpa isn't even paying for shit

No. 1801933

>>1801898
The girlies will never admit they just want a father figure. Couldn’t be me though, have fun fucking Santa Claus

No. 1801934

>>1801923
I (regretfully) started this whole shitshow debate and even I said I was happy to be able to legally leave my parents at 18 and there would have to be some kind of emancipation system in consideration of that (that I didn’t flesh out in my imaginary universe where any of the age laws would actually change) but fuck reading upthread and having a fun conversation I guess

No. 1801935

>>1801927
No it’s scientifically proven, if you disagree then maybe your brain still has some developing to do nonnette

No. 1801937

>>1801928
Not all people have the money or resources to do that. This just shows you’re a kid yourself or an adult who isn’t ready to grow up yet.

No. 1801939

>>1801926
Yeah and my grandpa started smoking at 10 because it was legal and socially acceptable, sometimes there needs to be a shift in opinion and public policy

No. 1801941

Vaping is just as bad as smoking, if not worse. It’s even more predatory than the cigarette companies with ~cotton candy watermelon~ flavors

No. 1801943

>>1801927
Zoomers want to push this narrative because they’re more scared of aging than any other generation before them. They want to be children longer so they heard “the brain doesn’t fully develop until 25” and use it as an excuse to be dumb or a loser.

No. 1801944

>>1801593
and it causes so many mental and health issues within kids. I'm a NICU nurse and I'm tired of seeing how badly age gap couples mess up their children

No. 1801945

>>1801937
I’m not trying to be mean at all to you but please reread my statement where I said that it doesn’t cost to ask a lawyer to author a letter for you, and they police also don’t charge a fee for a search warrant. You’re typing on a computer how “omg maybe this 23 year old wouldn’t have access to a phone or computer” when that’s an extremely obtuse, unrealistic response.

No. 1801946

>>1801941
idk anon, before I started vaping I smoked cigs and would cough up phlegm in the shower every day. Now I vape and it's gone completely. That's just my anecdotal evidence that it's not as bad.

No. 1801948

>>1801935
https://slate.com/technology/2022/11/brain-development-25-year-old-mature-myth.html

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_brain_development_timeline#:~:text=It%20is%20a%20common%20misconception,by%20the%20age%20of%2025.

>It is a common misconception that the brain only fully develops by 25, as the number comes from two particular studies, one on psychosocial maturity, where greater than 50% of people being tested only reached a plateau in impulse control by the age of 25


>However, some people were recorded to have reached adult-levels by mid-teens, and some had not reached it even after 30.


>It is also believed to have originated from a study by Jay Giedd based on MRI data, scanning the brains of people aged up to 21 or 25 years and no participants that were older

No. 1801951

>>1801945
I’m glad that the people in charge of the law aren’t as stupid as you because I’d hate to be 23 and working to get emancipated kek

No. 1801955

>>1801948
I think people cling to this theory because they think they’re going to be able to make stupid choices up until 25 then suddenly become a sophisticated adult who drinks wine and talks about politics

No. 1801959

Women need to divorce their husbands who choose porn over them/cheat on them with younger women. I'm glad to say I have a very based cousin who divorced her porn addict husband, this happened like 2 decades ago when I was a kid and I didn't know the reasons back then but now as an adult I get it. (Disclaimer, yes I know this opinion is popular on lolcow but it's seemingly very unpopular in the real world)

No. 1801961

>>1801948
Here’s a link from an officialized source, Dr. Sarah Johnson at John’s Hopkins, because those are all article websites that can be posted by anyone. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2892678/

> Longitudinal neuroimaging studies demonstrate that the adolescent brain continues to mature well into the 20s. This has prompted intense interest in linking neuromaturation to maturity of judgment.

No. 1801966

>>1801959
i fully believe watching porn while in a relationship is cheating and women who downplay it are doormats who would rather be housekeepers than actual partners.

No. 1801976

People who want people to feel bad for them and enjoy being the victim because they never got protected as children. So as adults being a victim and having people feel bad for them makes them feel safe.

No. 1801997

orange cats are ugly and aggressive

No. 1802003

You shouldn’t feel sad about being single your future husband probably isn’t even born yet

No. 1802005


No. 1802012

I Wont be friends with women in abusive relationships unless she’s trying to leave him. It’s dangerous and one day he could be going ape shit on her and then i get killed in the process.

No. 1802020

>>1801959
It’s just sad because so many men do it. We need husbando robots. Stay single so you can get a husbando robot

No. 1802081

>>1802012
it depends, a lot of women are taught abuse is normal part of relationship and don't even consider what happens to them is abusive or dangerous

No. 1802153

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You either have a nice body or you don't. Women who don't have good fat distribution or skeleton naturally depend on staying skinny and fit since having any more fat than that is unflattering on their bodies. Women who are hourglasses or pear don't need to stay a super low BMI to look good. I also feel like this is why skellys are quick to attack any woman who isn't skin and bones and greatly over exaggerates how big they are since they're jealous that those women don't have to have such a strict eating and workout schedule to look good. A lot of plus sized (and attractive) models actresses are good examples of what I mean since for some reason skellys tend to seethe at them 10 x as much as any other fat girl who is somewhat famous

No. 1802162

>>1802153
My unpopular opinion is I wish I could trade my hourglass-pear body type with a woman with another body type that doesn't like hers either. Any rectangles or inverted triangles wanna trade with me?

No. 1802163

>>1802153
This is, sadly, true.

No. 1802168

>>1802153
looksperging opinions are sooo boring who cares. I miss when these threads were fun.

No. 1802169

>>1802153
the heavy midsection with no hips and large shoulders body type gives me nightmares

No. 1802171

you’re gross and weird if you shave

No. 1802177

>>1802171
i wish i was less hairy so i wouldnt need to shave my pits in summer, they actually stink lol

No. 1802178

>>1802171
I think shaving off pubes in particularly is retarded personally. When i say shave, i don't mean trim, like a bikini wax.

No. 1802186

>>1802177
Sorry if you've already heard this a million times but have you tried rubbing alcohol after you shower? Used to have the same issue and that fixed it. Witch hazel kind of works too if your skin is too sensitive for rubbing alcohol, but not as good.

No. 1802187

>>1802171
what if I do it because I like how smooth skin feels and I don't do it for moid attention

No. 1802188

>>1802186
i will try! it sucks to sweat so much.

No. 1802203

>>1802178
how often should one trim? i try to do so after every period because blood gets caught up in hair otherwise

No. 1802207

The counterculture during the 60s and 70s was the most pathetic shit. Imagine living in such a cornucopia of a society and showing zero appreciation for it.

No. 1802208

>>1801752
Tbh I was pretty fucking retarded and had less empathy before age 26 and didn't even realize it until now that I'm an oldfag

No. 1802214

>>1802207
it was miles better than future coutner culture, at least people in the 60s/70s had real problems. 90s was definetly the lamest, fuck whiny nirvana rock for teenagers.

No. 1802215

>>1801719
tbh she's 2 years older than me and I'd marry him

No. 1802216

>>1801719
that moid is fucking disgusting looking, literal addict hobbo looking face

No. 1802221

abs in men look ugly and weird, like ravioli

No. 1802232

>>1801997
orange boy cats are cringe. orange girl cats are mega based. wait actually that is generally applicable for all colours/breeds of cat… truth

No. 1802236

>>1802203
kek nta but how is she supposed to know how fast your pubes grow?
i do mine around bimonthly.
>>1802221
i lold thank you

No. 1802238

>>1802203
idk, as often as you feel like it. I just do it when it gets annoying. My biggest gripe with shaving pubes is that it causes an ungodly amount of irritation that is easily prevented by not obsessing over your lady parts being dolphin smooth and just using those electric shavers instead. I've seen tiktoks about the lengths some women go to keep it bald down there and some of them are spending hundreds a year and wasting so much time trying to fight nature, it's so dumb to me.

No. 1802254

When I see people talking about how they haven't had a job in months and yet still somehow have a roof over their head, food and the internet make me want to a-log.

No. 1802266

>>1800116
You are disgusting and it sounds like a sexual harassment or the shit people say to lesbians or women who don't wanna have sex with men or find it gross. Having a pacifer in your mouth as a fucking toddler or a newborn is not the same as having a dick in your mouth that doesn't even fit there, bruises your mouth and smells and looks like filth and chokes you. Children don't have teeth, sucking dick is a labor and a job you have to train yourself to do. You literally sexualized a thing meant for little fucking children because you're a dick sucking pig and a nens devotee who self violates out of horniness. And being heterosexual doesn't mean you can't see hetero sex as gross especially cause having it gender conforming meanwhile someone can be mentally gnc and unable to get into the mood to have something like this. You're a POS, and unpopular opinion but young people need to be teached that it's ok to not want to have sex, before blowjob giving pigs like you come at them to call them prudes for not bwing cool girls and pickmes. You sound like a moid, having sex doesn't magically fix or relieve people you ignorant fuck, nobod sane wants to see your written hetero porn in a form worded like this. STFU POS(don't respond to bait)

No. 1802287

>>1802254
I feel that way about literal neets living in a house they got from their wealthy parents

No. 1802303

I kind of think YouTube could be better if you couldn't make money off of it. Like if there wasn't ad revenue or sponsorships. The people/companies who just churn out low quality clickbait would lose interest and leave, and although good creators wouldn't be able to quit their day job and make as much content, they also wouldn't be pressured/enticed to make a brand out of their image or sell out. Whenever a creator starts getting big and hiring editors and graphic artists and pro cinematography and stuff, I guess it looks nice on the surface but it doesn't feel like their video anymore, it just feels so corporate and like they've compromised their spirit in favor of a bland formula. I think it'd keep things more genuine if it wasn't possible to make it a job. Ofc there'd still be people who just want clout/attention and they'd still manage to indirectly earn money through linking a Patreon or whatever, but I just mean that if it wasn't deeply cemented in people's conception of YouTube that "you can make money off of it," the quality of the site could actually improve.

No. 1802319

>>1802232
Calm down, they're animals. You shouldn't apply human politics onto them.

No. 1802321

>>1802207
Wasn't it mostly anti-war and environmentalist stuff? I think that's a good counterculture.
>>1802214
Even though I like alice in chains and other grunge era bands for the suicidal songs and drug abuse lyrics, I agree. They really didn't have anything to worry about or worth complaining about, other than their own self imposed problems and tons of drug addiction issues.

No. 1802325

a lot of normies or so called "well-adjusted" people with a normal job and a social life are sometimes crazier and even more unhinged than the average incel or femcel. the amount of shit i've seen, jealousy, selfishness, severe misogyny from women directed at other women, also very few of them feel actually happy or accomplished

No. 1802328

>>1802321
>Even though I like alice in chains and other grunge era bands for the suicidal songs and drug abuse lyrics, I agree. They really didn't have anything to worry about or worth complaining about, other than their own self imposed problems and tons of drug addiction issues.
exactly. I guess that would be my unpopular opinion, 90s rock was pure whiny cringe. At least roger waters lived through war.

No. 1802330

>>1802325
people have to stop correlating mental health with how much someone is capable of being evil and nasty to others. the evilest people I've seen are completely mentally stable, productive and well adjusted, yet they have no qualms about talking shit about people behind their backs and backstabbing. that's not mental illness, that's just their inherent nature.

No. 1802331

>>1802232
I had an orange boy and he was the sweetest, very attached and smart, followed me everywhere. Dying cats often seek solitude and he was like this too, but during his very last night he came to me and slept on my chest like a baby

No. 1802332

>>1802325
Normie or normalfag doesn't mean being mentally healthy and nice to begin with, it just means being part of the norm, right? Correct me if I'm wrong. But all the normies I ever dealt with since forever were pieces of shit or very stupid, regardless of their mental health.

No. 1802335

>>1802254
Why does it make you angry? Why wouldn't you be happy for them that they’re not destitute even though they’re having trouble finding a job? A few months isn’t very long to be unemployed, you’re supposed to have 6 - 12 months of living expenses saved up at all times to get you through patches like that. Maybe they’re just responsible with money.

No. 1802339

>>1802254
I bet you hate homeless people who engage in crimes and sex work. I can smell the gentrification from here.

No. 1802364

>>1802330
nta but people can appear productive and fit well in society while being psychopaths. i think the thing is that we expect nasty/deviant people to look unkempt, awkward, lonely but it's not always the case at all. however, people who have zero empathy for others (i'm not just talking about "regular" assholes) do have a personality disorder. a lot of them care about their image and about conforming though, so it's not written on their forehead.

>>1802254
if they're living on govt money for years without looking, yea. if they're actually searching for a job or living with their parents, fine.

No. 1802395

>>1802177
Take showers more often, exfoliate your armpits and moisturize them, use deodorant sticks that prevent sweating, and do what I do when my armpits get stinky even though I showered, I take my shirt off in the bathroom and get a towel and soap, wash my armpits by the sink, and dry it with the towel and wear my shirt. That is at home ofcourse, not outside lol.

No. 1802399

>>1802328
Ayrt and it's why I hate nirvana the most from that era. I don't know how to explain it but if kurt conbain lived today, he'd be faking mental illness online and troon out for attention. He was so fake and there was something so off about him. Making try hard edgy songs back then making me think he must've seen hell or something, and when I read about his life, his parents got divorced and he became a junky and he had some relationship drama. That's it? I live in a dictatorship lead by a cult and have 0 human rights but won't go and write the shit he wrote and be such a drama queen about it. He was the blue print for "soft boys" before they were a thing kek.

No. 1802402

>>1802331
Sorry for your loss, anon. I hope he rests in peace and you feel better now. ♥

No. 1802406

>>1802331
That’s so sweet…

No. 1802411

>>1802266
Don’t respond to bait.

No. 1802618

If you can live on NEETbux, you're better off than lower class wagies simply by not having the health problems they get working in a warehouse or standing at a till all day. I see supermarket workers in their 40s cracking their knees bending down to put stuff on shelves and I just think it's absurd for them to think they're making better life choices than me, or to look down on me.

No. 1802632

>>1802171
Women who spend hours a dollars a year on hair removal products and go to waxing salons are insane to me. Especially bikini waxing people

No. 1802639


No. 1802641

>>1802012
I agree with you. often times, the friend gets dragged into a bad situation by women with abusive husbands/boyfriends. There are too many cases of this happening when a friend is hiding an abused women and get killed in the process.

No. 1802642

>>1802618
Are you sure they don't look down on you for being disabled or whatever grants you the neetbux?

No. 1802644

>>1802153
The problem I have with this is all women are beautiful in their own way and we need to stop catering to men. They dont even know what they want in a woman's body/figure. You just need to work with what is natural to you and what makes you feel good and please stop comparing to other women. I used to think i was the only hairy faced bitch ever until i reached my 20s and saw other women being open about struggles with facial hair. Now I just dgaf anymore.

No. 1802645

>>1801918
All women should open carry, I'm surprised it's not more of a feminist issue honestly.

No. 1802647

>>1802399
Kurt would be a TRA and queer friendly musician if he lived. 100 percent

No. 1802649

>>1802645
Because in reality women owning guns contributes to women getting killed by guns. Most of the time women can’t overcome their socialization and actually shoot a man and/or get overpowered and have it taken.

No. 1802652

>>1801918
Eurononna sad to hear that you have to think such things but i don't blame you at all, i think that if men didn't carry guns so casually or you had good police you wouldn't want to come to that point after all

No. 1802654

>>1802649
Yeah, this. You can arm women all you want, at the end of the day we’re the more compassionate sex and as much as we like to posture about hating men, most of us do not want to take a life or maim someone. That hesitation, even for a second, is all a moid would need to disarm and turn the gun around on a woman.

No. 1802677

>>1801918
>>1801922
Idk I know a lot of you US anons are supe pro-guns but while I can't legally carry anything, gun-violence or male violence in general is not on my mind or radar whatsoever.

No. 1802692

>>1802649
Having a weapon that gives you distance is always an advantage though. it is highly recommended to do a certain amount of hours at the shooting range. If you cant handle a gun, that's on you, but I am sick of women being told to carry about a dinky ass knife, like that's going to do anything against a moid who is physically stronger. I'd rather take my chances using a gun to defend myself.

No. 1802695

>>1802654
It’s better than them being unarmed at all.
>>1802677
Unfortunately it’s a genie out of a bottle situation and guns are necessary here. If you could magically take all guns and means of making them away from moids and erase history and culture based on rebellion that would be great but it’s not reality. The best we can do is be armed in defense. Plus gun violence stats are highly highly manipulative anyways.

No. 1802697

>>1802654
If you hesitate to kill/defend yourself against a man who is actively about to do you harm, that's on you.

No. 1802705

>>1802692
Oh trust me, I would too, and if I didn’t have so many other expenses I’d probably own a gun by now. I’m just saying that there are reasons why arming all women wouldn’t necessarily be practical. Arming and training all women maybe, but that’s just not realistic in a place as big as America.

No. 1802706

>>1802697
Civilians always say this until it’s down to the wire. In an actual situation like that you have no idea how your body is going to react unless you have specific training.

No. 1802721

>>1802706
So it’s better to have nothing? That moid is going to kill you with his bare hands anyways. He doesn’t need a gun to turn around on you.

No. 1802722

>>1802721
No, if you read my post above you’d see I would own a gun too if it weren’t such a large expense. And that’s why it’s not realistic to have all women open carry. Not everyone has the time or money to get a gun, take the appropriate classes, and get in the hours in a shooting range. It would be nice if more women did, but it’s not a blanket solution.

No. 1802723

>>1802721
I mean yeah it literally is better than nothing why do you anons always act like retards when there are countries without guns that provide the data. Yes they still have DV and yes women can still be murdered other ways but it’s not the same levels of terrorism

No. 1802728

>>1802723
Yeah ideally, if all women can’t have easy access to guns and training, then men shouldn’t either. But unfortunately in America it’s too late for that, there are already too many guns out there in moid’s hands for us to adopt the Europeans’ approach.

Basically, we’re all fucked.

No. 1802731

People who lust after Astarion are sexually attracted to Preminger from the Barbie movies

No. 1802736

>>1802731
I'm convinced people who find him attractive are women with massive daddy issues, who don't mind dating men 20+ years their senior.

No. 1802739

>>1802736
I'm not into him but what if the women are 35+ themselves? The Baldur's gate series have been going on for a while.

No. 1802740

>>1802723
Find a way to magically take all guns and means of producing them away from moids in an immediate timeframe before you call anyone a retard

No. 1802744

>>1802740
We don’t have to remove all guns for massive change, the cold hard facts are that strict gun laws = less dead women. Your power fantasy of how you’d totally own the moids in a high stress, lives on the line situation is not data.

No. 1802754

>>1802731
I LOVE Preminger. I hate Astarion and I think he's an ugly faggot created specifically for tumblr Tifs spamming about muh trauma and also for bored, staying at home mothers. I'm a Gale stan because I love emotionally accessible men.

No. 1802758

>>1802744
Would love to see these “cold hard facts”
Would love to hear how you’re gonna make sure only good guys get to have a weapon
Would love to hear how all these supposedly gunless countries share a humongous border with a gunful country

No. 1802776

kissinger was right for cambodia

No. 1802831

>>1802820
No it’s not, it’s saying that women have female socialization and that most won’t be trained enough when it comes down to it. You can’t even have a discussion about not having sex with men even here without anons having a mental breakdown you think most are gonna be able to shoot them? be for fucking real.

No. 1802836

>>1802831
I think someone mentioned that you can do gun training. It's actually illegal to buy a gun without it in most areas. Just do some training and deal with it. I'd rather have gun than no weapon at all, or worse, a stupid knife that forces me to get close to an attacker in order to use.

No. 1802838

>>1802831
Calm down.

No. 1802859

>>1802831
Those are very different things, nona. I kinda wonder what your definition of “female socialization” is, youre talking about it like it’s a fucking toxoplasmosis that prevents women from denying or harming a male lmao

No. 1802861

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I would never fuck a bisexual guy. I'm grossed out by the idea of it. I would be disappointed if my boyfriend said he's bi. I hate ho progressives harass you into dating certain groups to prove how progressive you re. You can think of all people as human being with human rights without ever fucking them. I think homophobia is wrong. No one should be beaten or raped straight or lose their job or housing because of their sexual orientation.

No. 1802862

>>1802861
bisexual men are all raging homos who are into anal.

No. 1802864

>>1802831
Why would you not be able to shoot a guy I’m confused

No. 1802865

>>1802846
The number of women who don’t murder their long term abusers or even want them to go to jail.

Also what fucking universe do you live in where men aren’t raised to be violent kek

No. 1802883

>>1802865
>The number of women who don’t murder their long term abusers or even want them to go to jail
And you think that's because of female socialization? Who socialized those women to act in this way, their parents? Their friends? Their teachers? That's ridiculous.

>Also what fucking universe do you live in where men aren’t raised to be violent kek

Who's raising men to violent? Would you or anyone else you know raise your sons to be violent?

No. 1802890

>>1802861
Same. I'm bi myself but I'd never be with a man who is attracted to men or has fucked another dude. From a health standpoint the risk is too high for us women, I don't want to catch AIDS. Not being homophobic, it's just facts. Same for men who cape for trannies or defend them, if I found them attractive in the first place I instantly lose all attraction to them.

No. 1802892

>>1802883
So now you’re arguing full circle kek. If men weren’t being raised to be violent we wouldn’t have this discussion because gun violence wouldn’t be an issue and 99% of the perps wouldn’t be male. Female socialization is to sacrifice your needs and comfort for others, especially men, amongst other things.

No. 1802897

>>1802861
>>1802862
I'm fine with you thinking that way and i also worry about health issues with men but i kinda feel lucky that i once had some experience with an absolute normie bi guy, i could have never guessed that he was bi, i knew it from others, but i think that he had more patience with me since i am not good or experienced with moids kek
I've never asked him directly but i'm pretty sure he never had sex with another men and just found them attractive as a bottom himself or something like that, there was also this other gay guy who would desperately try to hit him but he wasn't into him and it was kinda funny

No. 1802907

>>1802892
ntayrt and don’t wanna get into whatever you both are talking about with shooting scrotes but just wondering since when has that been the definition of female socialization? I always thought of female socialization as something among women, sort of women socializing with each other and the results of that, not about patriarchal/societal expectations of women’s behavior regarding men.

No. 1802917

>>1802907
I have never heard of the term female socialization being used outside of a feminist discourse context. Unless maybe you’re reading research papers about chimp society or something lol. Maybe it could be confusing if you are ESL?

No. 1802919

>>1802913
Ok then why do you accept that women don’t kill their abusers or want them in jail? And if you accept women not hurting people as a fact while accept men do and attribute both to nature or whatever, how the fuck does that mean women owning guns is good?

No. 1802921

>>1802913
Ntayrt. Women ARE taught to not defend themselves subconsciously. "I have a boyfriend please stop flirting with me" oh, what a lying slut.
Raising your voice at someone: oh, what a bitch.
Hit someone first? He'll kill you.
Call the waiter and ask for a refund? You're now on a "crazy Karen mental breakdowns" YouTube compilation.
We're always told "he will kill you if you annoy him enough" and brainwashed into being doormats.

No. 1802922

>>1802917
I’ve mostly read the term on lolcow, if I read in a feminist book or something I don’t remember it. Now I’m really just wondering how nonas are using the term and if I’ve possibly misunderstood the meaning of some posts lol

No. 1802923

>>1802922
Female socialisation is a key point in feminist literature. It's a topic of social sciences. Imageboard users did not fucking invent it

No. 1802927


No. 1802929

>>1802907
You're so stupid it's not even funny

No. 1802930

>>1802861
The 1 bisexual guy i dated would tell me he wished i had a dick. And would write fanfics about me having a dick. Also, he would eat his own cum. My advice is to never fucking date bi men. Not to mention they have a higher risk of giving you stds

No. 1802933

>>1802919
Women DO hurt people. Women soemtimes kill their own children. We're just too smart to ruin our lives for some retard abuser and spend the rest of it rotting in a jail cell.

No. 1802934

>>1802907
Female socialization is basically hand in hand with gender social issues. Women are expected to be more submissive, less direct, apologize more, etc. Female socialization is what the world molded a lot of people due to extreme sexism, cultural practices and over all women being taught from a young age 'how' a lady should behave. it's why breaking gender norms are extremely important.

No. 1802935

>>1802928
The difference is that women in the military and police force are very highly trained over a long period time. All the normal woman has to do is go to the shooting range, not be prepared to kill someone

No. 1802936

>>1802892
Male violence is biological.

No. 1802946

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i dont feel sorry for veterans lol

No. 1802947

>>1802946
Wahh I signed up to hang out with the boys, rape women and kill people kiss my ass for the rest of my life?

No. 1802948

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Phil Fish and the Ooblets devs and many other indie devs were not the assholes. They didn’t necessarily respond the best way but the gamers were being entitled assholes. I don’t even care that Phil fish is a retard asshat otherwise I will always defend him on this. I’ve seen how insane the entitlement is even female gamers are rabid and unhinged.

No. 1802972

>>1802929
Rude. Damn sorry next time I’ll take it to the stupid questions thread, professor.

No. 1803014

>>1802946
hes mad because he switched doctors? oh cry me a fucking river, veterans are one of the only few groups in the US that are allowed to be mentally ill. Not even women that get captured and raped get as much passes as veterans do even though 9/10 times they were just a fucking cook or something

No. 1803017

>>1802171
We ain’t nothin but mammals

No. 1803021

>>1802946
ugh it’s not playing for me

No. 1803173

No one actually hates flat chests or small breasts. I am tired of being gaslit.

No. 1803216

>>1803173
Source? Asking for a friend

No. 1803219

>>1803173
They look chic

No. 1803221

>>1803173
small perky boobs are way cuter than big fat heavy teardrops that sink down to the bottom of your ribs when you’re not wearing a bra. I wish I had tiny boobs.

No. 1803224

>>1803173
I don't think anyone intrinsically hates it, but many men openly express their dislike for small chests, and some women internalize it. I do think that women give it more thought and merit than they should, and it's not as big of a deal as it may seem; even men don't care for it as much, and if he does, then there is a high probability that he is a coomer, therefore he is to be treated as if he were infected with leprosy. Sadly, it's still the most common cosmetic procedure.

No. 1803225

I’m sick of the people that shoot down every single suggestion for how a woman could defend herself, whether it’s a gun, a knife, or pepper spray someone always feels the need to chime in with how that wouldn’t work. It’s like they don’t even want us to try to defend ourselves.

No. 1803234

>>1803225
This so hard. If I say I’m going to squirrel him believe me I swill squirrel him or die trying.

No. 1803237

>>1803225
Swear to God if we were mad maxing this shit I'd be the next napoleon. A rocket launcher through the chest to any man that makes eye contact with me.

No. 1803244

>>1803225
I noticed this earlier during some dumbass infight and it bothered me. Women should feel secure in defending ourselves

No. 1803249

>>1803225
Seriously, it pisses me off.
>Umm ackshually you're risking more harm to yourself than a violent man if you wield a knife/pepper spray/self-defense keychain
>Ummm did you know you will go to jail if you shoot a man in self-defense?
As if I'd rather die and be raped than go to prison??

No. 1803288

>>1803225
I shoot down using carkeys as a weapon because that's absolutely stupid.

Pepper spray and guns are fine.

No. 1803296

>>1798499
you're attracted to mentally ill losers because they're easier to manipulate. You are suspicious

No. 1803329

>>1803288
Those cat shaped keychain stabbers are just a recipe for disaster. Weapons that allow distance to be kept between you and the attacker are based

No. 1803446

Literally all it takes for majority of men to be attractive is a decent haircut and hygiene. People aren't remotely as nitpicky to mens faces and bodies as they are to women. I know incels are saying the reversed version of this statement but this is actually true, you can even see it how majority of "hottest male celebrities" literally just have decent styling and look clean and aren't complete lard asses. Majority of "hottest female celebrities" require excessive plastic surgery, are a BMI majority of women can only obtain by starving, and need like $8000 bi monthly beauty maintenance

No. 1803453

I'm sick of how UScentric everything is and how americans act like they're the most oppressed people on the internet. They don't even register people outside of the US exist and would sooner attack someone for "bullshitting" than consider that not everything revolves around them. They don't know even the most basic facts about other countries and constantly make stupid remarks about them but they expect everyone else to center the USA and know everything about it so if they don't know every single little specific fact about every state they'll demonise them. They do that even to people asking questions in good faith but the same logic never applies to them, and they'll constantly talk shit about other countries and people but if someone dishes the same energy back they start crying about how everyone is so prejudiced against them. Americans are seriously the most hypocritical people on the internet. This honestly would be a popular opinion to anyone non-american but the way americans dominate english-speaking internet makes it seems like a crazy fringe opinion.

No. 1803454

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Something about those horse faced middle aged blondes have teenage boys in a chokehold. They find the youngest boy they can find then stay married to him forever.

No. 1803460

>>1803454
Based. Better than the other way around

No. 1803462

>>1803454
miley and her new baby nigel be like

No. 1803463

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>>1803454
Samefag everytime I see a creepy age gap relationship where the boy is the young one the woman always looks like this and they never divorce

No. 1803468

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>>1803454
>>1803463
Another thing is both of them they were married to fairly ugly as well.

No. 1803494

>>1803454
Holy shit, my time to shine. Nonas manifest my future pretty young bf for me plz

No. 1803498

>>1803463
He's so hot, how the fuck did she do it

No. 1803510

>>1803453
>so if they don't know every single little specific fact about every state they'll demonise them.
Literally who

No. 1803519

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>>1803463
>>1803454
meanwhile the becky pickmes spending thousands in clothes, cosmetic surgery, make up, the gym just to end up with a discord mod that asks them to open the relationship on the first year. This is the boyfriend of a rich youtuber pickme who got BBL surgery for her moid.

No. 1803639

managers often are your laziest coworkers

No. 1803642

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tacticool is ugly. these fags are ugly

No. 1803643

>>1803642
how can a masked guy be ugly? jasonfuckers from the monster thread on /m/ need not reply

No. 1803644

>>1803643
if he needs to wear a mask he's ugly, it's like a beard for ugly chinless scrotes. Doesnt help that tacticool is for insecure fat men which makes them look like walking fridges. Older uniforms are miles better because they accentuate the waist and look classy and hot.

No. 1803647

>>1803642
i bet i'd look totally kickass in this though.

No. 1803648

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>>1803463
Aaron was my childhood crush. Very weird to see the chick.. I don't get it.
Aaron and Logan Lerman were cutie pies

No. 1803650

>>1803648
>I don't get it.
her strong stacy magnetic field attracts all the cute young moids

No. 1803669

>>1803650
I know nothing of her, is she some high up executive or something?
She her face looks like she's anorexic, that gaunt boney faceshape. She doesn't have Stacy energy just by looking at her

No. 1803670

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>>1803648
>>1803669
Looks like this actor

No. 1803671

>>1803669
stacy energy isnt about looks, otherwise models wouldnt end up with ugly old moids while this gigastacy lands a young college aged moidling

No. 1803684

>>1803648
She is so disgust

No. 1803685

>>1803671
She doesn't have "Stacy energy," she was rich and well connected and he was 17 and wanted a career.

No. 1803704

>>1803454
>>1803463
Brb going blonde

No. 1803707

>>1803685
that's what makes a stacy

No. 1803711

>>1803454
is this the power of blonde hair? do men only care about that?

No. 1803716

Not to sound like a tiktok zoomer but 80% of physical attractiveness really comes from just having a very a good face shape. A rounded forehead (very important), a small oval or round face with a delicate jawline and chin area will be your main canvas. After that as long as you don't have a massive nose everything else will fall in place. An oval face with good forehead will always have good proportions. That's why you sometimes hear women call themselves ugly even though they're actually popular, because they're nitpicking their nose, lips, eyebrows that matter less but they actually have a great canvas.

No. 1803720

>>1803711
I think it's more likely she has connections, but who knows.

No. 1803723

looksperging is so fucking boring who cares about looks but faggots and celebrity obssesed people. Only people i will ever bully over their looks is moids.

No. 1803725

>>1803723
Faggots and women who hate themselves

No. 1803727


No. 1803731

>>1803723
I saw a girl ragging about how she has the same face shape as Adriana Lima. An oval. The most common face shape

No. 1803732

>>1803731
everyday i thank god i am not interested in male attention i cant imagine giving a shit about my face shape like i am some looksmaxxing incel moid

No. 1803736

>>1803723
I notice ugliness as a matter of fact when I talk to people, but I know it's nothing else but a bad roll of the dice (outside of preventable shit like their teeth being half-rotten). If someone doesn't want to be an Instagram model though, I notice plenty of female bosses and managers have particularly ugly faces, so in the end nothing will matter as much as who you know. Isn't that a positive message?

No. 1803769

>>1803736
it's weird you only seem to notice ''uglyness'' in women.

No. 1803775

>>1803769
Most men are ugly, it's not notable

No. 1803779

>>1803775
all women are pretty, you only see some as ''ugly'' because they arent pornhub models or anorexic runaway models. Female beauty standars are set by men.

No. 1803790

>>1803446
While I see where you're coming from, I wouldn't find a guy attractive just because he has hair and is hygienic. I think we should have a high standard for males and force them to be hot or die. I don't want any ugly moids to ever exist, I hate them, they're more offensive to the eye than an ugly woman could ever be. And most of the time ugly men always have the shittiest personalities and are straight up insane. Average guys who aren't ugly can stay I guess. But the ugly ones should all be gassed.

No. 1803793

>>1803498
No he isn't lmao. They look related in the picture on the right kek

No. 1803796

>>1803648
Maybe mommy issues? Or he's secretly gay and she's his beard kek

No. 1803800

>>1803796
>noo a hot man cant be into a woman who isnt an inflatable sex doll half his age he must be gay!!11!
The jealousy. That's what makes the horsefaced queen a gigastacy.

No. 1803811

>>1803224
I've been on both sides of the spectrum and some women and men get extremely offended about small breasts sometimes it's weird. The worst ones are those who try to strip women of their femininity or claim there is something medically wrong with them, I've seen women randomly bring up about how another woman has small breasts to make fun of her for it I also see a lot of men dumping/abusing women for their boob size

No. 1803814

>>1803790
definitely. I mean this more for according to a good chunk of women. I just don't understand how unbelievably easy it is for a man to be hot yet most of them are unable to accomplish such

No. 1803815

>>1803800
He's not hot though? I find him ugly and super bloated. They're a match atp. He's already balding nowadays. And let's not pretend a man would ever date or marry an ugly woman, they think with their dicks, why would he be the exception? He probably married her for some hollywood stuff I don't understand. If she was a regular everyday woman he wouldn't have looked her way kek

No. 1803817

>>1803815
you totally dont sound jealous anon! you totally find him disgusting and ugly but you make fanfiction about his marriage to his wife because how could he like her when she's so ugly!(infighting)

No. 1803831

>>1803779
Not all women are externally beautiful, that's like dogmatic level request to bend your perception of reality

No. 1803835

>>1803831
they are if you arent a looks obssesed faggot. Women always have something beautiful about themselves, only men are capable of being truly disgusting.

No. 1803851

>>1803731
Newfag retards from TikTok have been looksperging over her in few threads now, it’s annoying. Most of the girls obsessing over her looks have this weird inferiority complex and feel the need to compare every other woman to her, even her own underage daughters.

No. 1803883

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>>1803670
He looks at that horse face with such love and tenderness tho. She was probably fucking him since he was in 9th grade…wasn’t she his teacher?

No. 1803884

>>1803883
>horseface
>horseface
>horseface
Oh look it's a sour moid who's pissed the roles are reversed for one rare instance.(scrotefoiling/infighting)

No. 1803888

>>1803884
You think just because I’m a woman I’m too sweet and caring to call another woman a horse face?

No. 1803890

>>1803817
>fanfiction
It's just one post lmao. You'll never be the "based old woman who fucks young guys" you want to be. You're defending those ugly weirdos because you're living vicariously through them.(infighting)

No. 1803897

>>1803890
nta but what does it matter, they both probably give each other something, he's a big name actor and she gets a hot young guy, either way it's getting to a point where they'll both be so old that it won't matter, no one will care care Aaron when he's 70 and she's 92.

No. 1803898

>>1803173
small breasts are fine and look good in anything, a flat chest is unattractive though
t.actual flat chest, even the smallest bra is big for me

No. 1803911

>>1803884
She looks like Rick Owens. We are not your yaya sisterhood.

No. 1803912

>>1803883
Hes an actor. Its what he does professionally.

No. 1803923

With how important looks are in society there should be more state funded beauty treatments because in our society being pretty is about as important as being hungry. For example we have food stamps and free housing maybe we need something like free dental care to replace rotten or missing teeth or free acutane for bad acne. We need a beauty welfare plan in most countries, especially shallow as fuck places like Korea.

No. 1803928

>>1803923
No way I don't want the companies that sell beauty procedures to be able to reach directly into the tax coffers. I can already see the politicians lining their pockets by giving out government contracts to their favorite "connections" and the whole thing resulting in some kind of fucked up country-wide same-face syndrome.
Dental work should be free though because that's a health matter. it's fucked up some health insurance doesn't cover your eyes or mouth.

No. 1803930

>>1803898
Is it? I always thought flat-chested women were pretty. They can pull off fluttery feminine styles and look like a fairy princess or wear more mature styles and look svelte instead of matronly. Might be a grass is greener mentality though because I look like a bar wench at a renaissance festival no matter what I wear.

No. 1803932

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No. 1803939

>>1803923
If trans ops can be performed by the NHS then why not other cosmetic procedure because I feel like I should've been born as Liv Tyler

No. 1803940

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We need to bring back the 1940s idea of dress. Everyone looks like shit now. In the summer big flappy lunch lady arms in ugly tops and men with big beer bellies. Scrotes used to dress so cute too.

No. 1803942

>>1803940
That picture is so indecent, anon. And the angle makes him look like he has big hips.

No. 1803948

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>>1803942
He has big hips because he’s strong because he’s healthy and worked out in the corn fields and fixed cars or whatever men used to do back then

No. 1803953

Hitting the wall and aging like milk are a symptom of the same thing: The fetishization of youth and beauty.

No. 1803955

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>>1803953
Hitting the wall is real and it’s a fate we all endure. Even men. It just doesn’t bother men as badly because women will love anything that says hello.

No. 1803970

>>1803955
kek all you’ve done is affirm my position.

No. 1803973

>>1803970
humans are obsessed with youth and beauty because it is a signal of health and healthy babies. It’s a signal of fertility in men as well. It just sucks that women aren’t as obnoxious about it as men.

No. 1803977

>>1803923
The point of a lot of beauty standards is to make you spend money on upkeep, reworking, replacing, etc as well as fixing negative side effects caused by the same things you used. That's how these companies and surgeons keep themselves in business. A beauty welfare program would defeat the point. Also, can you imagine the lines/wait times?

No. 1803978

>>1803973
Samefag but I hate to say it but if women matched energies with men and acted as annoying about youth as them this ageism stuff against women would stop kek

No. 1803980

>>1803955
Speak for yourself. I am aging gracefully.

No. 1803981

>>1803948
>>1803940
Why dont men look like this anymore. Zoomers are the ugliest generation of men so far.

No. 1803983

>>1803883
He's so beautiful.

No. 1803990

>>1803981
They’re not eating home cooked meals from momma anymore they’re eating chicken tenders and hot pockets and they’re not working on farms anymore. It’s also 80% the way they dress, it was frowned upon to dress the way we do now.

No. 1803993

>>1803955
Sure but when anons talk about men hitting the wall they aren't usually talking about literal 60+ moids looking old, they are talking about balding, skinny-fat, dead-eyed 20 somethings.

No. 1803996

>>1803981
Hot take: Men like this do exist they're just married off and settled into successful careers by their mid 20s so it's only the leftover shitty men that make themselves most visible as degens who populate attention seeking spaces like the internet the most.

No. 1803997

>>1803996
Nta anon but I’ve never seen a man who looks like that irl. I understand if her married but I’ve literally never seen it with my own eyes.

No. 1804016

>>1803996
Men like this do exist, but they are so few and far between now. It's usually men who are raised in good families, taught to cook and clean, and the value or hard work. Most men now just wanna stream on twitch and marry a 10/10 women who will cookie dino nuggies for them.

No. 1804052

No it's not good that Aaron Taylor Johnson married to his wife when he was 18 and she was 42, but I stand by the opinion that grooming men is not like grooming women, and I don't know if I believe in the concept of women grooming men anyway. Men's minds aren't hurt the same way women are abused in an older relationship; younger guys in older relationships can always leave or assert their willpower in a way a younger girl can never in a reverse situation. Same with ATJ, he can leave whenever he wants to and won't be "ruined goods" like how a girl in an older relationship would be called. I don't think ATJ's kept in his relationship at all and women are only salty that he's with his wife because they wish they could have him/a guy like him. Women stay in groomed relationships because our society places the highest value on a woman who is pretty and with a man. Men's value is not based on being tied to us. So how tf is his wife "keeping" him with her? She's not. He can leave whenever he wants to, which means he's not groomed.

No. 1804133

Males should be sterilized at age 35 so they wouldn't be able to plague women's wombs with their deteriorating, post-wall, geriatric sawdust sperm.

No. 1804136

>>1804133
There would be way less autists in the world. I truly think there are so many autistic males out there because women gaslight themselves into having kids with men 40+ and think it's normal.

No. 1804137

>>1804052
I agree with you. Men cannot be groomed in the same way women can and I don't even like her, but I don't feel bad since women are conditioned all their lives that their bodies should always be good for men and sex is so extremely important. Men cannot be financially or physically abused the same way women can/are.

No. 1804158

>>1803940
>>1803948
my Nigel has this physique and style plus glasses and I feel like I've done nothing to earn him except having a fat ass.

No. 1804191

>>1803648
He could have married a way hotter older woman than that thing. Oh well, that's his business, not mine.

No. 1804194

>>1803454
Reminder that her daughter was Macron's classmate. Just in case you want to be disturbed.

No. 1804201

>>1800090
You would not say this with any other demographic, your heterosexuality is just getting in the way

No. 1804214

No matter how successful a straight woman is there’s always going to be one man she’s a pick me for. It’s just in our dna to be like this unfortunately.

No. 1804217

>>1804214
All of this and he still cheated. This man has some audacity for looking this ugly, marrying Beyonce, brainwashing her into thinking he doesn't look like melting ice cream during a heatwave and still cheating.

No. 1804222

>>1804217
He seemed awkward during the speech of her telling him how much she loves him lol i don’t think I’ve ever seen him talk about her like that . He married her because he saw a cash cow and I wonder if she’s realized that yet.

No. 1804224

>>1803454
I'd find it creepy, but then I'd need to have sympathy for Macron.

No. 1804226

>>1804214
Attachment hormones. Men are retarded of or lack them.

No. 1804231

>>1804222
I just feel bad for Beyonce but whenever she shoves her husband down everyone's throat she annoys me so much. The only good thing here is that she has kids just like she wanted, she' clearly loves them and she's filthy rich so she can give them best education and opportunities by just snapping her fingers. I wish she didn't let her daughter dance in her recent concert because she just get insulted left and right by grown men and women for not being a professional dancer. That girl needs more privacy.

No. 1804238

>>1804231
This sounds bitchy but I don’t feel bad for her. She can have anyone she wants. I don’t feel bad for billionaires who mess up the earth and buy blood diamonds. She’s not different from the rest of em.

No. 1804246

>>1803955
'Even men' lmao

No. 1804256

>>1804238
>and buy blood diamonds
She did that? Nevermind then, fuck her too.

No. 1804259

>>1803453
> They don't know even the most basic facts about other countries and constantly make stupid remarks about them but they expect everyone else to center the USA and know everything about it so if they don't know every single little specific fact about every state they'll demonise them
Keep making things up

No. 1804260

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>>1804256
Sure did. You can never have empathy for billionaires they’re only technically human.

No. 1804261

>>1803462
They’re six years apart, if he was six years older than her you wouldn’t even notice

No. 1804262

>>1803981
tbh >>1803990 is right. eating softer heavily processed foods will lead to having an underdeveloped jaw and shitty teeth. that and the societal obsession with neoteny leads to each generation having increasingly faggier men

No. 1804270

>>1804260
My god he's so fucking ugly. Please poiler pictures of Beyonce's ugly husband next time or I might throw up my dinner.

No. 1804272

>>1804260
Beyonce didn't buy that, that's the Tiffany yellow diamond and Tiffany owns it. Beyonce only wore it for an ad photoshoot since she works with Tiffany. Lady Gaga and Audrey Hepburn have also worn it.

No. 1804280

>>1804272
Her husband has lyrics about blood diamonds in a song so he definitely knows what they are which still makes this photoshoot insensitive considering they’re pretending to be pro black activists these days

No. 1804282

>>1803955
> Even men
Men are the ones who hit the wall because testosterone accelerates the aging process and estrogen slows it down. They project hitting the wall onto women because they’re jealous of how slowly we age in comparison to them

No. 1804287

>>1804280
Samefag also if they’re on the pro black activism stuff why would you partner with a company like Tiffany. It’s all fake bullshit like everything billionaires do.

No. 1804318

>>1802947
i mean, a lot of people join the military to get out of poverty or because they get kicked out of their house at 18. yeah there's the roided out losers that join the military for those reasons but a lot of people do it to survive. which is definitely a whole other issue in itself

No. 1804323

>>1804133
You're another retard on lolcow who doesn't understand statistics and fearmongers regarding aging.

No. 1804326

>>1804318
i hate the military, but also my friend is former military and she joined for those exact reasons. her mom left the house when she was 14 and she enlisted as soon as she graduated because she needed to get somewhere stable. many such cases for kids who grew up poor or in dangerous areas. while she was in basic one of her brothers was shot and killed due to some gang thing.
fuck the military, but mislead teens feeling poverty are not my enemy

No. 1804329

>>1800314
back to /pol/

No. 1804330

>>1804326
Why do you hate the military, assuming you're American?

No. 1804343

>>1804330
what reason would i have to like the military? i hate that the US uses its military to involve itself in every conflict in the world. our over involvement and world-policing is part of why everyone hates america so much. the military also preys on underprivileged kids to get them to enlist in the first place. my friend probably could have achieved all her original goals just by working for a cruise line for a few years

No. 1804346

AAVE is spoken by almost every young person who grew up in an urban environment and im tired of people pretending otherwise.

No. 1804385

>>1804343
>what reason would i have to like the military?
The American military protects the United States of America, that's a very good reason for you to like the military of your own country.
>i hate that the US uses its military to involve itself in every conflict in the world
Not only doed the American military keep America safe, buy the American military is vital for maintaining the peace and security and prosperity(through the protection of international shipping) in more than 100 hundred other countries besides America as well. Just this week three container ships were attacked by Houthi terrorists in the Red Sea and the USS Carney came to the help of those contianer ships.
>my friend probably could have achieved all her original goals just by working for a cruise line for a few years
The American military gave your friend useful skills and experiences and free univeristy after she leaves the military, she wouldn't have gotten all of that working for a cruise liner straight out of highschool.

No. 1804389

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No. 1804391

>>1804385
tongue so far up the military’s asshole you could tickle its colon

No. 1804397

>>1804385
>the American military gave your friend useful skills and experiences and free univeristy after she leaves the military
the percentage of service members who are able to take advantage of free college pales in comparison to the number of service members on food stamps
if youre not an american why do you care? another foreign chick obsessed with her corn-haired american GI bf?

No. 1804417

>>1804397
>corn-haired american GI bf
It's so funny when people try to insult what is a mainstream beauty standard. There's no good insults because it's culturally held as the ideal, so people have to make up insults that end up having no punch.

No. 1804420

>>1804326
i can understand this angle but it still sucks that that's the only option for some people. it could be something like americorps instead of military if americorps stuff was bigger. we need modern job corps honestly

No. 1804426

>>1804417
so i was right

No. 1804594

Michael Jackson was a great performer, not a great singer

No. 1804622

>>1803883
Stacy. We all get used by moids for sex why does it matter if he’s using her?

No. 1804628

>>1803923
I can tell you’re from TikTok because of how much you obsess over appearances. It’s not nearly as important as food. Makeup and fashion industry are owned by men. The women on billboards are photoshopped to be poreless and have longer necks for some reason. Just go outside and stop worrying about how you look

No. 1804632

>>1804628
>I can tell you’re from TikTok because of how much you obsess over appearances.
I swear some of you don't know what site you're on.

No. 1804634

>>1804632
just because /snow/ exists does not mean everyone here uses it

No. 1804635

>>1803923
Mental retardation peak brainrot

>>1804632
I'm sick of seeing this as a gotcha for any complaint of brainrotted pornsick gender role shit. Female socialization is like ripping your own heart out then cattily snidely attacking other women who haven't ripped out their own yet. Grow the fuck up.

No. 1804640

>>1804634
It was never just /snow/ that is obsessed with appearances, and idk how you can be a farmer without for at least starting off on the cow boards. Everyone here should've been a /snow/ or /pt/ users at some point.
>>1804635
But there's no way you don't see any irony in trying to claim that someone is from tiktok for being obsessed with appearances on fucking lolcow.

No. 1804643

>>1804158
Post him or you’re lyin

No. 1804650

>>1804158
Bless you enjoy him as long as you can

No. 1804661

>>1800314
They hated nonna because she told them the truth

No. 1804664

>>1804640
I don't give a shit about tiktok; this isn't tiktok. This site is used to communicate with other women candidly without fear of being banned for talking honestly about fucked up self-damaging behavior instilled by female socialization, society, trannies and males. Catty snide passive aggressive female socialization can be found on every website and place with women in it. Women policing each other for not being vain enough, women upholding female socialization by policing each others appearances like >>1800768. Women coddling and worshipping males, women being sacrificial matyrs, and worshipping trannies is the entire internet. It doesn't give an excuse to uphold that behavior though. I use this site to laugh at trannies and discuss news, hobbies and stupid shit candidly with other women in a largely unrestricted environment where there is no other place online or in the real world to do so.

No. 1804670

>>1804664
>I don't give a shit about tiktok; this isn't tiktok
Then there was no reason for you to respond. The whole point was anon saying OP is a tiktok user. At least read the convo first
>This site is used to communicate with other women candidly without fear of being banned for talking honestly about fucked up self-damaging behavior instilled by female socialization, society, trannies and males
This is a gossip imageboard revolving around discussions of lolcows, not a feminist site. In fact this site is pretty un-feminist in reality. You can disagree with other anons but no one actually has to post in a particular way. What you come here for is not the same as what this site actually is. A site with unrestricted discussion also means that you're gonna hear perspectives you may not like.

No. 1804682

>>1804632
I exactly know what site and I’m on but have some self awareness. Girls on TikTok are always posting slideshows about being attractive and it’s perks and truerateme scales, and you sound like that. Nobody will ever love you if you’re ugly! You sound like a teenager just find other things to worry about besides being perceived well. My unpopular opinion is that natural ugly women look way better than pretty women who botch themselves with plastic surgery. Megan Fox was gorgeous in 2007 but now she looks scary and puffy and sort of mannish. Plastic surgery always has that effect, Anya Taylor Joy looks like Yzma now and she is only 30. The facelifts make them look gaunt and somehow older.
Being ugly is not the same as starving and being poor if anything the models who are beautiful are starving. We do not need government mandated lip injections or nose jobs. Listen to yourself, you sound like one of those teenagers who list attractive things like hip to waist ratio and canthal tilt and facial harmony. Get a hobby or just get your useless risky (with results of how it looks and literally maybe dying on the table) surgery and be quiet. I would rather have a gross body than die on the surgery table after getting stomach fat injected into my ass.

No. 1804684

>>1804682
I'm not OP, I don't even agree with them.

No. 1804685

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>>1804682
Samefag but like it’s weird how nobody tells these FAMOUS and WEALTHY women who’s job relies on being beautiful that they’re fucking up their face. That’s cause plastic surgeons don’t give af. Do you really think they’ll care if some normie woman gets botched? If you look on Reddit or other forums there are botched patients who can’t name the doctors because they signed a NDA.

No. 1804687

>>1804640
I’m not gonna lie I started by looking at /snow/ but moved onto /ot/ because it’s way more fun than alll the horrorcows kek

No. 1804690

>>1804685
I think fullblown buccal fat removal should be considered medical malpractice. Skinnying up and having more noticable cheekbones is cute, but not at all the same as this. Don’t you want the buccal fat? It protects your facial muscles and bones…

No. 1804693

Cats should be let outside, as long as you don't live near any main roads or in an unsafe area. If you do, don't get a cat. I didn't even know this was an unpopular opinion until recently.

No. 1804694

>>1803978
Be the change you want to see

No. 1804696

>>1804685
Shame, she had quite an interesting look before when her eyes were slightly upturned. Now they are nearly the opposite and seem to be almost dropping. Don’t people usually pay to look like the before photo?

No. 1804698

>>1804685
I'm so pissed about this.

No. 1804723

>>1802933
nta but are we really using moids' arguments now kek. of course female criminals exist, but nowhere near the male crime rate. men are obviously more violent and prone to fight. how anyone can deny that is beyond me.

No. 1804724

>>1802331
ayrt… classic boymommy… im just kidding anon sounds like he was a real sweetheart, im sorry for your loss but i bet he had a beautiful life with you

No. 1804726

>>1803940
ive been thinking about this so much. t shirts should not be worn outside the house. making pants with elastic waists for anything but maternity wear should be illegal. i love working in an office because of the unspoken laws of office attire, its like a holiday for my eyes after being assaulted by bitches wearing "loungewear" pajamas and scrotoids wearing the worlds ugliest old t shirt and cargo shorts

No. 1804729

>>1804323
log off, your saggy old scrote needs you to look after your autistic toddler so he can jack off to barely legal porn now

No. 1804735

>>1804729
>log off, your saggy old scrote needs you to look after your autistic toddler so he can jack off to barely legal porn now
That's quite an elaborte fantasy you've come up with but it's not true at all. Don't assume my family is as dysfunctional as yours.

No. 1804738

>>1804323
>fear mongering
lol
Older men do statistically cause more autism babies tho.

No. 1804753

>>1801997
wrong and dumb

No. 1804754

>>1802003
gross, I refuse to make eye contact with a man born in the 21st century

No. 1804758

>>1803454
fucking disgusting, she should be hung with the rest of the pedophiles

No. 1804762

>>1803716
I kinda agree, most attractiveness comes from the bone structure and everything is window dressing and contrast-maxxing. That's why the lack of outside play, mouth breathing and processed food makes you grow up ugly

No. 1804765

>>1803923
I agree but I think we are a long way off from that. The limiting factor is surgeon expertise, but I think with the rise of robotic surgery, we can speed up the amount of procedures a cosmetic surgeon can do. Most acne is caused by bad bacteira, with the right personalized treatment, thsi cna be fixed.

Honestly, most people look like hsit today because they didn't play outside as kids, get enough natural sunlight, consumed soft, processed foods and developed hunched backs from excessive screentime. Bring back playtime for little and strict 1960s gym class regimens for the teens and young adults.

Heck, I even support genetic engineering and prescreening for genetic diseases.

No. 1804771

>>1803940
most people are too fat for that style and modern polyester fashion would fit the 1940s look

No. 1804778

>>1804726
I want to stab people who wear pajamas outside of their home. Have some dignity you absolute slob. One time when I was at the vet (my cat was okay, just a scare), a girl was in the office in a tshirt and pajamas waiting for her dog. When they released him, she sat down on the floor and was petting him before leaving. You KNOW the dirty hoe didn't change her pants to crawl back into bed ugh, people are so nasty and too casual.

No. 1804900

>>1804778
I feel like the vet is one of the places (like the hospital etc) where I'd probably be the least judgmental of someone's outfit, she might have been in a rush. And it's useless to care about what people do in their own homes (unless you live with them of course) because there are so many things that some people consider totally normal and that others find utterly disgusting.. Examples include: wearing shoes in your house, sliding into bed without having taken a shower, allowing pets on counters/tables/bed, putting your smartphone/pc near the place you lay your head at night/pillow/kitchen counter, sitting on your bed/couch with clothes you worn outside etc etc. I've noticed that some people are super strict and judgmental about a specific thing but then do other things that could also be proven to be disgusting so idk. As long as people behave properly in public spaces.

No. 1804936

Rice cookers are unnecessary.

No. 1804955

Disney on Ice shows always look so awkward. My niece really wants to go to one and all I can think is that they are going to pay out of pocket to watch a bunch of people slide around unsteady on the ice lip-syncing songs while trying to stay on rhythm. Everyone looks so slow and clunky, there's nothing of quality here.

No. 1804960

>>1804685
Wow I hate whichever surgeon filed down her chin and jaw because her entire jaw is asymmetrical now. Was having a longer face really that bad?

No. 1804962

>>1803648
>>1803883
Wow I'm jealous, so cute and his nose is perfect… At this point I'm convinced that those two simply genuinely love each other. Old moid x young woman relationship never last like that.

>>1803948
Bodies back then really looked so different. Big hips can look hot but nowadays many moids just have completely feminine hips and butts, so gross…

No. 1804969

>>1804960
Isn't that the angle of the photo?

No. 1804972

>>1804693
It's unpopular because cats kill song birds and might even kill other people's pets, because you cannot control where they go. Get a cat if you want, and keep it inside

No. 1804974

>>1804972
Nta but what about walking it out on a leash? That way it gets to be outside for a while each day but doesn't attack or kill anyone.

No. 1804976

>>1804765
Nta but you're based. Unfortunately, doing all that will make future generations good looking, not the current one. So we'll stay without hot people to fuck in our lives, or at least as eye candy in public if you're not into sex.

No. 1804978

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I despise people who have sex. I despise people who continue to breed more life. I despise the material world

No. 1804980

I think relationships are hard for women because they genuinely don’t know what a good or bad man is. I just saw a TikTok of a woman going on about how she broke up with her ex despite him being a good guy. She said he was meeting his ex, sexting his ex and the ex was sending him selfies….in my head I’m thinking “how do you think this is a good guy?”. I just don’t think women know what a good man is supposed to be like because they never met one.

No. 1804991

I think the anon above is 14 years old

No. 1804998

>>1804693
No you’re dumb bc other anon said they will kill tiny animals plus get killed by coyotes or get ticks and get sick and die. You can walk them on a leash or play with them daily you lazy fuck

No. 1805025

>>1804991
She's literally right. There are lost of women who have very bad judge of character regarding men. Just look at the reddit thread, several women starting their posts with "he's such a beautiful person/he's the best human I've ever meet/he's so kind but…" then proceed to describe absolute bum ass behavior and zero effort. Most women don't know what it feels like to interact with a decent male, so their standards of what constitutes a "good man" are nonexistent

No. 1805034

I'm a TERF i guess because i think men can't be women and shouldn't be allowed around children most of the time. But my unpopular opinion is that we are about to start another moral panic this time LGBT but mainly trannies edition. I think it's looking similar to the satanic panic: children are into something (rock music/the occult/goth subculture etc) as a reaction to society's oppressive (christian)values, adults in power positions can't understand it and try to supress it by all means even using violence and legal institutions to do so. Even the trannies are pedos thing is so similar to "ritualistic abuse" and other buzzwords started in the satanic panic era. The trannies are getting caught up in their own "genocide" moral panic about the evil terves/karens (it's never men) so i just hope there's less violence and lives ruined than they were in the satanic panic.

No. 1805038

>>1805034
But trannies are pedophiles, what are you on?

No. 1805044

>>1805034
I'm confused if you're defending trannies or not. Go on /snow sometime and see the myriad of crimes trannies do to women and children.

No. 1805049

>>1805044
For clarification i hate pedophilic troons i mean a moral panic against the whole id pol thing teens are into. There were also pedos and groomers in the occultist thing and goths back in the day, doesn't make "ritualistic abuse" any less of a buzzword

No. 1805054

>>1805049
Anon I agree with you. With the caveat that the terfs as in specifically radical feminists aren't analogous.

No. 1805056

>>1805049
Nta but I seriously doubt goths had the political and mediatic power trannies have, they are far more dangerous imo
>i mean a moral panic against the whole id pol thing teens are into
This wouldn't a bad thing, these teens are chopping their tits and dicks off. In fact, people should starts pushing against trannies right now

No. 1805059

>>1805056
Yeah, this is the biggest difference to previous "moral panics". If you wear retarded clothes and listen to garbage music you can just walk away from that. Not so much if you messed up your body with hormones and surgery and have severe mental illness from cult indoctrination into gender delusions. That crap goes incredibly deeply for many people.

No. 1805061

>>1805034
I think I agree with the notes other anons have given, but you did make me realize something. The satanic panic was blamed on girls and women misremembering trauma and abuse that never happened, but the doctors and psychologists were implanting the memories and ideas because there was fame and money associated. The trans shit is the same. Pushed by doctors grooming and fracturing memory and identity all over again. It’s different from the goth fear or heavy metal fear, because it’s medical professionals grooming vulnerable people with long lasting consequences.

No. 1805070

>>1805025
nta but i think it's more likely due to the fact that a lot of men act decent or even great at the beginning of the relationship and only show their true nature when their gf is very attached to them. and so many women cannot leave bc of that attachment, low self esteem, fear of not being able to find better, or thinking that they deserve it, or clinging onto the past version of the bf hoping he will go back to how he was if only she acts right/fixes him/gets prettier etc. i think it's also that attachment and the good memories that lead them to see positive in a sea of negative.

No. 1805078

>>1805061
I agree anon (i am original moral panic anon), i think the doctors and lobbyist behind it all are worse than the actual trannies (pedophiles and psychopaths aside)

No. 1805088

>>1803940
>>1804726
I usually wear shitty clothes outside of the house (bike shorts, tshirts, and flip flops) but lately I started wearing nice clothes (nothing special, just solid color blouses and pants/jeans with nicer shoes) and I've been feeling really good about myself. That being said, I genuinely don't care what other people wear. With the exception of pajamas. If you wear pajamas out I assume you're a trashy person.

No. 1805096

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Some nonnas on this site who persistently go "eww 3DPD" over any non-anime male that becomes popular among other women remind me of the Miyazaki quote about otaku who can't stand looking at real humans. I imagine those anons are going to welcome the eventual cyberpunk dystopia where they can spend rest of their lives jacked into a virtual reality where it's nothing but AI generated flat anime faces for the rest of eternity.

No. 1805100

>>1805096
Well, it's not my fault men are ugly.

No. 1805102

>>1805096
Men are ugly though. i don't understand how straight nonnies can be attracted to men when they look and smell like shit irl. Bring on the virtual cyberpunk world for me to live in.

No. 1805104

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>>1805096
then why he is drawing cute little girls then? ugly old hypocrite

No. 1805107

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>>1805096
KEK i like my 2d husbandos with a bit of depth in their faces though.
Even if there is a real 3d scrote that i find ok looking i know that he would disappoint me in other ways or that his looks will fade in at least 5 years.

No. 1805108

>>1805104
But he's NLOO (not like other otaku), anon

No. 1805112

>>1805096
They are "loving" a projection of who they are and/or what they want. I can understand admiring a celebrity or a character, but it's preposterous (to me) to view them as a romantic partner. At least they are not hurting anyone. Reality will never live up to a fantasy.

No. 1805115

>>1805111
I agree with this, i've always found it weird to romanticize a real distant person that has their own life unless you plan to actually meet them somehow, or if they have been dead for a long time.

No. 1805116

Pushing a child out while everyone watches does not sound empowering it sounds really scary and humiliating. Also what do you do if you finish giving birth and realize you don’t want the child anymore??

No. 1805124

>>1805116
So much is going on that you don't have time to care that you're exposed during the birth, you have more important things on your mind.
>what do you do if you finish giving birth and realize you don’t want the child anymore??
kek what? I don't even know how to answer this lmao

No. 1805126

>>1805116
How old are you? Because i'll tell you no one gives a fuck how they look or feels humiliated when they are experiencing the pain of childbirth. As long as you have a good partner and support system, you have nothing to worry about. Everyone is different, however.

No. 1805128

>>1805124
I stg we are being raided by retarded tiktok and twt people. What's with all the people here who definitely feel like extremely young zoomers.

No. 1805129

>>1805124
Maybe she was trying to poorly refernce post partum depression? I don't really get what she was trying to denote.

No. 1805130

>>1805126
>>1805124
I’m scared that my husband is going to want to leave me if he sees me giving birth but that’s also a me problem, however I feel like there does have to be women in the world who have a child and then immediately regret it? It sounds absurd but I guarantee it’s a reality

No. 1805132

>>1805129
I think anon is 14 kek

No. 1805134

>>1805129
Mostly postpartum depression, but also not PPD? Because there are women who didn’t suffer from PPD but also feel nothing for their children because they realized they shouldn’t have had them

No. 1805136

>>1805132
Stop don’t make fun of me I’m 22 I posted this in unpopular opinions because i know it’s not popular especially with the big influx of preganons. I’m just feeling anxious because there’s a whole baby fever crises going on across the U.S. for God knows what reason and all my family members are asking me and my nigel when we’re gonna cook one up.

No. 1805144

>>1805116
>Also what do you do if you finish giving birth and realize you don’t want the child anymore??
If you're genuinely wondering, in some countries you can abandon (surrender) your newborn at the hospital or religious institutions without legal repercussions. Or you hand the kid over to the father and run like men do. But I'm pretty sure you're incredibly unlikely to do either.

No. 1805147

>>1805136
>whole baby fever crises going on across the U.S.
Is there?

No. 1805149

>>1805130
I mean yeah there are neglectful parents that resent the baby and can't love it for some reason but they're awful broken people. If you truly think that might be you then please don't have a baby.

No. 1805151

>>1805144
Sometimes a family member assumes the role of mother—typically the grandma.

No. 1805152

>>1805147
From what I can see, yeah. Over the last two years almost everyone I know has had 1-2 kids, and it seems like that number is only going to grow because it looks like a lot of younger millennials and elder zoomers are attracted to the idea of parenthood. Let’s see if they can actually handle it with grace though kek

No. 1805153

>>1805152
Statistically the opposite is true because most of the West is seeing decreasing birthrates, even negative birthrates (fewer births than deaths)

No. 1805154

>>1805096
I don't like samefaced faggy bishies but ugly old steroid farts are also a nope. Young handsome masculine men, that's all I want. I understand your point tho, I'm reluctant to post my husbando because even though he's young and handsome he has a slight muzzle and scars and apparently that's enough to set the "uggo" alarms

No. 1805155

>>1805136
>pls no bully

No. 1805158

>>1805153
nta but im 29 and was also noticing so many ppl i know either had a kid this year or are expecting for next year. theres a wave coming thru some communities idk

No. 1805159

>>1805116
Breeders and handmaidens will still defend this because it's "natural", then continue to suck men's dicks and be patriarchal slaves and teaching the same to their daughters, repeat the cycle etc. That's just the natural life cycle fort most women and men who are mostly NPCs, never analyze the world around them and they do things because society and "nature" expects them to do those things, and they tell themselves that those were their own choices and their "free will" kek

No. 1805160

>>1805130
>>1805130
>my husband is going to want to leave me after birth
Please be a troll. You sound retarded. if you have a shit partner, then dont have kids with them.

No. 1805164

>>1805162
>anything that hurts my natalist fee fees is a bait

No. 1805165

>>1805153
I believe that, I should’ve prefaced that in my immediate area (West Coast) a lot of my family members who are close in age to me, my friends, and their constituents (coworkers, students, classmates) are either having their own babies or expressing a deep verbal interest in reproducing their own child soon. That’s only based off what I’m experiencing in my immediate world, though. I didn’t really look at statistics I only looked at my environment and was like damn

No. 1805167

>>1805158
That seriously just sounds like it's because you are at an age when your peers decide to have childre, if the other anon is seeing people her age (22) having children that is a bit surprising, but late 20's and eraly 30's not really.

No. 1805170

>>1805160
I love my husband very much, and I know that he loves me. But I also wouldn’t be the first woman on planet earth to be dumped postpartum, which is why the thought rests in the back of my head. I apologize if it sounds faggy

No. 1805172

>>1805136
I get what you're saying but you word it in a very juvenile way and probably should wait to have kids if you do at all.

No. 1805174

Why does it feel as if we're being invaded by twt/tiktok faggots under the age of 22?
Go read a biology book. Go to a museum. You all sound terminally online

No. 1805175

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No. 1805177

>>1805174
I have read a biology book that’s how I know that giving birth is a horrific degradation ritual

No. 1805178

>>1804687
Nothing wrong with that. I did the same, I started off on /snow/ and /pt/ then moved on to exclusively using /ot/, /m/ and /g/. I just don't know how you could be here and not be a user of any of the cow boards at any point in time though. Say I'm "no true Scotsman"-ing or whatever, but if there really are anons here who have never used the cow boards maybe that's why the spirit of this site has changed so much and so many anons seem to misunderstand where they are.

No. 1805180

>>1805165
They're having kids but are they having as many kids as past generations? Not ime.

No. 1805183

>>1805175
Anyone who defends the marriage/breeding with men is a moid or moid identified for me
>>1805177
It is. Women who defend it are braindead, sleep walking through life.

No. 1805187

>>1805177
>>1805159
Just fuck off and stop trying to shame women who want to have kids/have kids. This is 100 percent bait and I already reported it. Fuck off somewhere else.

No. 1805192

I still don't get what is actually humiliating about giving birth.
I agree that the idea terrifies me for countless reasons but do you prefer to just give birth unsafely in your house with someone who isn't even in the medical field? You want to lay eggs?

No. 1805193

>>1805187
I do want kids but I actually am afraid of being unloved because of things I might say or do when it actually comes to pass. Having to squeeze out a 10 lb animal while everyone watches like it’s some kind of event sounds traumatizing and horrific, I can only say that as someone who has been incapacitated and witnessed in a belligerent, pained state by many before. It’s not that I have anything against children or reproducing. It’s that the creation of another life requires the demolition of another.

No. 1805194

>>1805187
Why do you think it's a bait? Why are you acting like you're being oppressed by women with antinatalist views when we're literally a minority and the majority of people will ALWAYS support you and your natalist choices? The world literally revolves around breeders of both sexes.

No. 1805195

>>1805192
Laying eggs would probably be so interesting. You could incubate it and watch the baby actually grow and move. But humans are so fucked up, some people would try to intentionally crack the eggs or do some crazy shit like make scrambled eggs or something, so maybe it's better that we have regular mammal pregnancies.

No. 1805196

>>1805192
The idea of parthenogenesis sounds amusing.

No. 1805197

>>1805192
No when I’m God babies would be dropped by a stork not gonna lie. The fact that I’m going to have to push a rock out of my most sensitive body parts and that it will be witnessed by the only person I love makes me feel humiliated and afraid. Watch a video of another woman giving birth and tell me it doesn’t look humiliating. Tell me that the doctors and nurses don’t use patronizing voices and condescending tones with these women while they’re being traumatized.

No. 1805198

I dunno, pjs aren't that comfy, not particularly more than the clothes I usually wear at least and running errands wearing them sounds annoying actually.

No. 1805199

>>1805194
NTA, but calling women breeders is extremely degrading and a moid thing to do. Hence why everything thinks you're a moid troll. Go bait somewhere else.

No. 1805200

>>1805195
Samefag. Reading it back, I realize how weird this post is. Sorry kek.

No. 1805201

Everyone, please stop responding to the obvious bait and it will go away.

No. 1805202

>>1805200
It made me chuckle lol

No. 1805204

>>1805199
that anon is not the same one who made my original post that sparked the conversation, I don’t really consider myself antinatalist I’m just really horrified of giving birth and having to walk around pregnant for 9 months sounds very humiliating as well. I’d have to go into hiding.

No. 1805205

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No. 1805207

>>1805204
Pregnant women already have to deal with people shaming them over weight (while being pregnant.) It's a very sensitive time and vulnerable time in a women's life. To see other women shame them or act like the stage of being pregnant is truly disgusting. makes me sad to read all this. Makes me think of the same women who shame other women for their periods.

No. 1805208

>>1805199
The way women behave and what they allow men to do with their bodies and how they build their entire personality around giving birth is degrading on its own and that's why I call them breeders. But I also call pro-natalist males "breeders", so it's not like I'm being like this only towards women

No. 1805209

>>1805204
Then dont get pregnant. ez!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No. 1805213

>>1805207
Creating new life is unethical imo and I won't change my mind and nobody forces you to be a mother. Acting like a martyr over something you literally agreed to do is so stupid. It doesn't make any sense.

No. 1805215

>>1805204
It's not humiliating, but people like you should be ashamed to even think this way. Pregnancy isnt for everyone and that's okay, but no one needs your garbage view points. Women have to deal with enough as it is.

No. 1805216

>>1805207
I am not shaming other pregnant women at all. I do not look at other pregnant women and think to myself wow I feel so bad for her, her husband must hate her ; because obviously I am happy that there are women who are able to get past fears as shallow as mine. My fears are selfish and lie within my own view of myself. If would be embarrassing for me to get pregnant. I feel like I would have to go into hiding. This doesn’t mean I think other women should.

No. 1805217

>>1805208
it's so hard to take anti-natalist views seriously when all of them talk like this

No. 1805218

>>1805209
It’s not going to be up to me when the time comes unfortunately, that’s a huge part of the problem

No. 1805219

>>1805197
Maybe it's my unpopular opinion but i don't think it's necessary to have someone who isn't doing the operation watching?
And anyway that person that is watching you do all that effort is the same you chose to reproduce with, it's not like it would be his first time seeing you in a vulnerable state and when it comes to the doctors they are just doing their jobs it's not like they are seeing you in a sexual way.
Would you prefer if you had a drill instructor to assist you so the baby will be ready for war instead?

No. 1805220

>>1805192
No, I support giving functional plastic wombs to men they can use to have children, but only with a woman's approval and supervision.

No. 1805222

>>1805215
No it’s definitely humiliating, I’m not saying that in an insulting way that’s just the fact of it. Being humiliated in that way is a part of becoming a mother.

No. 1805223

Curses are better than simple insults. I would rather say, "May your path lead you to destruction, and may God turn away from you at your waiting hour".

No. 1805226

>>1805215
You talk like a true patriachy defender

No. 1805227

>>1805220
I’d buy an artificial womb if I could but alas I am not rich and I am also not a homosexual man so I’m not a priority customer

No. 1805228

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>>1804974
nayrt, cat harnesses and leashes are great. i wish every cat owner had the space for and could afford a catio, it's really the best option to let cats get safe outside time

No. 1805229

This thread is yikes. Whatthefuck is wrong with everyone

No. 1805231

>>1805228
I think catios are such an amazing option for outdoor cats. It's safe for the environment and for your cat as well. I love seeing all the different ones people built.

No. 1805232

>>1805222
Being a mom is kind of a humiliation ritual for most women.
>have your entire body stretched and destroyed to give a baby to a man who barely finds you attractive or likes your personality
>you will give the child his last name despite you having to do all the work to give birth
>if you’re a minority you’ll deal with doctors and nurses who won’t want to give you pain medication or will let you bleed out and die because they don’t believe you’re in pain
>you have to have your legs wide open In front of numerous people while bleeding and screaming out like a pig being tortured to death in a shitty meat factory

No. 1805233

>>1805219
I wish it was safe to give birth alone but I don’t want to bleed out and die

No. 1805237

>>1805217
I literally can't take seriously women who think that helping the XY parasites to spread their genes is making them martyrs worthy of any sympathy KEK

No. 1805239

>>1805228
Super cute! Nonnies, please post more examples of catios.

No. 1805240

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Okay to be fair women are often treated horribly by medical staff. It's humiliating and degrading because you're in a vulnerable position surrounded by people who treat you like a birthing robot instead of a human with feelings and fears. Giving birth isn't inherently degrading but it very easily becomes degrading.

Like yeah you shouldn't be ashamed of being naked while giving birth in a hospital. But I can understand why a woman would feel degraded and ashamed if 12 medical students prance into her room and demand to check out her vagina and call her difficult when she refuses. Or if you're naked with your legs spread in a ward and the nurses can't be bothered to close your privacy curtain when they leave. It's an extremely vulnerable time and women aren't often treated kindly.

Sometimes the lack of care for mom's well-being progresses to full on medical abuse. Even if I wanted kids I wouldn't have them because the whole process seems hellish.

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>>1805230
>>1805237

No. 1805244

>>1805236
I was treated very poorly by medical staff just having a grand mal seizure, I can’t imagine how careless they are not only with mothers but also newborn babies. I see so many videos of babies getting hit on the head and dropped into cribs by nurses and it’s so horrifying. Imagine your baby being treated that way, 5 seconds out of the fucking womb!

No. 1805246

>>1805152
>>1805153
Pretty much all the secular and liberal cohort of the west has been effectively bred out of existence over the last 60 years. You're especially noticing this in the upper classes, where it's the religious Mitt Romney types having many, many children.

I picked up on the stark difference looking at Breadtube and those Daily Wire chuds like Ben Shapiro. Both are Millenials, both are brainwormed about politics, but literally one side has zero children while the other side has 4+ minimum with just one pundit.

My unpopular opinion is that we're going to regress to victorian era social norms slowly over time, and things like LGBT, sexual promiscuity and even atheism will be regarded as things done by the poors or weirdo old millennials. People extrapolate LGBT acceptance as lasting forever, but we probably reached the apotheosis a few years back.

No. 1805247

>>1805246
It's been documented that more of the younger generation is less religious, or at least less extremely religious. But maybe this is more of an Asia/EU thing. I don't know much about the state of America.

No. 1805250

>>1805218
Nonnie, what is going on in your life that you aren't going to be able to choose that for yourself? Are you able to get out of your current situation because that sounds really bad.

No. 1805254

>>1805250
Don't even respond, nonnie. That is 100 percent bait.

No. 1805256

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>>1805239
for you blessed nonna. i love these things so much

No. 1805257

>>1805254
How do you know that…?

No. 1805260

>>1804693
>I didn't even know this was an unpopular opinion until recently
Depends on where you live I guess. Cats going outside is definitely the norm in my community.

I can get behind some reasoning to keep a cat indoors but I find the "but the birds!" such a pretentious one because no one who says that actually gives a shit about biodiversity. Turn your ryegrass lawn into a garden for native plants and stop consuming meat and dairy from ryegrass meadows if you're genuinely concerned about bird population, but none of them do.

No. 1805261

>>1805250
My husband and I have been together for almost 12 years, and we have always talked about wanting children together. I do want to have children with him, I want there to be more men like him in the world and I do feel like he could be a good father. My biggest fear is myself though. If we get pregnant, I’m not going to abort it. I don’t have the mental capacity to go through with that. So, what if he realizes he doesn’t love me during the gestational period? What if he decides he is no longer attracted to be after giving birth and breastfeeding? What happens if he doesn’t feel anything for the child? I know him very well, but people can change at a dramatic rate.

No. 1805265

>>1805240
>But I can understand why a woman would feel degraded and ashamed if 12 medical students prance into her room and demand to check out her vagina and call her difficult when she refuses. Or if you're naked with your legs spread in a ward and the nurses can't be bothered to close your privacy curtain when they leave.
The fact that this is a reality for not just some, but many women…

No. 1805271

>>1805261
>12 years
Didn't you say you were 22?

No. 1805273

>>1805260
You will be adamantly against leaving cats outside the day that you go for a drive and discover that there was a cat hiding in the bottom of your car

No. 1805274

>>1805261
Okay, um. None of that means you can't choose not to get pregnant. Sorry anon I thought you were in some third world patriarchy shithole with no BC access or some kind of arranged marriage/serious family abuse. If you're just regular married and worried that your nigel is going to be a jackass post-partum, then he probably is and you can just avoid that fear by practicing safe sex or getting sterilized if you're that worried.

No. 1805277

>>1805260
It's not even about just the birds. Cats in general are an invasive species. They attack any small creature, destroy a lot of natural plant life and just cause issues in general, esp if they arent spayed/neutered. People who advocate for outside cats are usually pretty uneducated. There are tons of evidence why they shouldnt be outside. It's irresponsible in general of actual cat owners to think this is okay or acceptable.

No. 1805278

>>1805271
Yep. That’s how long we’ve not known each other, and we started dating at 13, got married as soon as 18. I know it sounds absurd.

No. 1805281

>>1804693
I feel this way about dogs too. I can't believe people keep their dogs in crates when they go to work.

No. 1805282

>>1804980
Never met one because they likely don't exist, if they do it's a statistical anomaly. Everyone has rose colored glasses on once they get dickmatized by their Nigel
>>1804991
Learn how to reply to posts newfag

No. 1805283

>>1805256
How is this cozier than my actual room irl? Absolutely adorable. Thank you for posting. I love cats and catios are definitively going to be a thing once I get a townhome.

No. 1805290

>>1805273
I had a neighbor's cat climb under one of my car wheels last year. I think he tries to keep it inside now, but that shit was annoying. Just keep your cats indoors. It's better for everyone

No. 1805295

>>1805230
Maybe i'm retarded but even if you hate moids that much what is the point of saying this? You want every woman to feel regret and shame over wishing to have children or you just want human extinction?
Not everyone should be forced to have kids and if some hospitals have bad treatment of the patients i hope it will change, but most importantly having kids is about being parents and i think one should worry about being able to grow them properly in a good enviroment when the time comes.

I don't think you are a moid, but women larping moids can be ultra brain damaged that i wouldn't be impressed if some of the replies here were written by someone like that.
Overall this whole thing would have gone better in the baby talk thread.

No. 1805296

>>1805273
Thanks for that reminder of my biggest winter fear.

No. 1805299

>>1805237
samefag, i was replying to this

No. 1805305

>>1805281
Nah, fuck that. I have to deal with dogs in my neighborhood being left out on the patio or balcony. They bark at everything that passes by. Keep your dog inside until you're home at least. There are also dog attacks in this area. Nothing worse than wanting to go outside onto your own backyard, only to have a neighbor's dog barking at your for being 20 feet away because they are untrained.

No. 1805308

>>1805295
>You want every woman to feel regret and shame over wishing to have children or you just want human extinction
Nta but both are goood things. People should cease to exist and women are hypocrites for (rightfully) recognizing males as our oppressors yet still wanting to fuck them and helping them spreading their genes.

No. 1805313

>>1805277
Again: I don't necessarily disagree but these arguments always come from people who don't give a shit about the environment in any other areas of their life, that's what irks me about it.

No. 1805314

>>1805096
Yeah miyazaki sure loves observing little girls alright. He put a 30 second long foot fetish pedo bait scene in kiki and you ate it right up.

No. 1805315

>>1805159
Based and true, let them seethe at you kek
>>1805160
Just look it up, there are plenty, in fact far too many, instances of the moid cheating or leaving after the kid shows up. In fact, it used to be that the husboid wasn't even allowed in the hospital room where the birth was taking place. They are disgusted and horrified by the process and that's why it used to be just the woman and midwife. I've seen so many accounts online where they can't look at their wife the same anymore or aren't sexually attracted.

No. 1805316

>>1805278
I don't mean to be mean to you, but now I am not surprised with your train of thought.

No. 1805319

>>1805260
I care about birds because they're great, surely better than cats, more useful too, there's nothing pretentious about that. I'm pretty sure letting cats roam around will be prohibited within the framework of responsible pet ownership, at least in cities.

No. 1805321

>>1805305
I love dogs but hate most dog owners. A constantly barking dog is an anxious dog and they wouldn't bark so much if the dogshit owners gave them more attention and something to do. Equally can't stand when city folk have working dogs without a job. My idiot neighbor has two Jack Russels and they bark at everything that passes the fence because those poor dogs have nothing better to do and no one ever bothered to train down their fearless fighter instinct.

No. 1805326

>>1805278
?? If you started dating at 13 you've been together for almost 10 years, not 12. I might be nitpicking the details but your story's weird.

No. 1805327

>>1805321
Most people who get dogs dont bother to train them. They take them out for two walks a day and call it. They need to screen people and have higher standards for adopting/getting dogs because it's the reason we have so many shit dogs in my neighborhood barking at leaves that blow by in the wind.

No. 1805329

>>1805326
Like i said, that shit is bait. Don't respond to that retarded anon anymore

No. 1805332

>>1805308
Sorry if we don't have natural asexual reproduction yet, i want kids and i will not be able to choose if i can have a girl or a boy and i don't want to be with a moid so i will probobly not even get there but your way of thinking is poor.
Men will never change if you just accept them as oppressors and the world will not change since there will always be males, We should just try to educate our kids and make a good impact on their future rather than whine on our asses on how the world is unfair and have unrealistic expectations.

No. 1805333

>>1805281
>>1805305
Imo the vast majority of people shouldn't own dogs in the first place because the vast majority of people doesn't have the right space + lifestyle combination to ethically own one.

No. 1805336

>ehmmm technically you’ve only been dating for 10 years so yer lying
Avoiding reality today are we!

No. 1805337

>>1805305
And keeping them in a tiny space for hours is better? Dog owners should have their dogs in a properly fenced patio so they can play and do whatever they want. My dog lives outside in the patio and there is distance between him and the street so he can't really startle anyone.

No. 1805339

>>1805327
I honestly wish there were better screening protocols for pets. Most people I know irl shouldn't have the pets they do.

No. 1805340

>>1805333
There is a weight limit for dogs in my neighborhood but people still bypass it. You're only allowed two small dogs, one medium or one large per unit, but I see a guy walking his three huskys every morning. I hate those people the most.

No. 1805341

>>1805340
>three huskies
Is he trying to start a sled team!?

No. 1805343

>>1805340
I live in a hot area and there is a retard that owns a fucking Husky nearby. I really feel for that dog.

No. 1805347

>>1805343
I live in a very warm place too and I always feel bad for the huskies, you just know they are all under exercised too. By the way, I hate dog owners who somehow don't get dog body language at all.

No. 1805349

>>1805336
Nowhere did I say anon's right out lying but I do think you should have a healthy amount of scepticism for a poster with a story that leans highly bait-y and details incredibly unusual circumstances that don't line up to top it all off. You too probably shouldn't take everything on an anonymous board at face value either.

No. 1805352

>>1805349
I understand that it’s an unusual circumstance however other anons asked about why she felt that way and I don’t really understand what she would gain from lying about a situation that it doesn’t look like she’s making any attempt to get out of

No. 1805354

>>1805332
Women can always abort boys but I guess that's too radical for you
>Men will never change if you just accept them as oppressors
Socialization meme I see. Males are sexist by nature, you can't change them through socialization. I LOVE how every woman thinks she will be the first feminist mother to raise a "good man tm" and she thinks somehow other women just fucked up but she will be the first to succeed, yet they all fail and our society still looks the same, men still watch porn, fuck prostitutes, human trafficking still exists and is the biggest business in the world, all men would cheat on their wives with 18 year olds if they knew they would face no consequences etc. I love when a woman thinks that her husband is different and he's the unicorn and then some time later she discovers some fucked up shit on his phone, or when a daughter, thinking for years that her dad was great and not like other guys, discovers his porn history with incest and ddlg shit KEK

No. 1805355

>>1805349
Okay, but if you believe it is bait, why are you engaging it?

No. 1805356

>>1805349
The way she was talking about not being able to choose when she gets pregnant made me think she was in a way worse off situation than just being married to her highschool bf. Glad I was wrong there.

No. 1805357

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>>1805341
I appreciate your response so much.

No. 1805363

>>1805340
I used to know a mutual college friend who owned two giant huskys and kept them only in the first floor of a very small shared townhome. They were always jumping on people as soon as they came through the door. She never walked them more than 10 mins a day and was obese, so I doubt they got any real playtime. Really felt bad for them

No. 1805369

>>1805354
Well I guess women will be oppressed forever then. Better stock up on scented candles, buy 50 outfits of dogshit clothes "but they're cheap" from asian slave factories, and read your horoscope.

No. 1805372

>>1805369
nayrt but that's a bleak view of nigel-free living.

No. 1805374

>>1805369
What does this have to do with AYRT said

No. 1805378

>>1805374
I am very confused by the scented candles bit

No. 1805379

>>1805354
>Women can always abort boys but I guess that's too radical for you
Yeah, i mean i don't have time to go through all that pain to just abort them if they aren't my "preferred" gender i guess lol.

I don't know if i would be able to raise a good man since i didn't grow up with one either, all i care for is to raise a good kid, what happens once they grow up will be influenced by the world they live in too and unfortunately we live in a world that i also don't like for the reasons you've mentioned, but again we have to share this planet with males for as long as we exist and i think it's better to at least try to do something, you don't have to do anything tho.
I'm not going to nitpick everything you've said but that's mostly what i cared to reply.

No. 1805382

>>1805378
right like scented candles? shein? horoscopes? what does this mean?

No. 1805384

>>1805369
these are all things that women who fuck, date, and marry mendo to cope with life as well as your strawman single hag. don't you see all these consoomer moms?

No. 1805386

>>1802930
What the fuck

No. 1805390

>>1805379
If you think the world is shit (which it is) why do you want to bring more people into it? It doesn't make any sense. I haven't seen a single good argument from natalists besides their egoistic need to create little copies of themselves. It's just something biology programmed them to want but they can't ethically or rationally justify.

No. 1805393

>>1805379
Genuine question, why does the "try to do something" have to involve cohabiting with men or creating more people? Is there any reason it can't be something like being the cool stable auntie to a girl from a neglectful home? We probably can't oust men from all public life, but there's no reason we can't support women who are already here?

No. 1805394

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No. 1805397

>>1805384
>don't you see all these consoomer moms?
actually no

No. 1805399

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this may not be unpopular on lolcow, but i find it incredibly disrespectful to post photos of dead kids on SocMedia.
I'm scrolling xitter for yaoi porn and bam! close up photo of a dead (palestinian) child. like bitch, why the fuck are you posting that between pictures of 2d men fucking? how fucking tone deaf can you be?
and not only is incredibly disrespectful to post that sort of pictures (i know the kids family will never see that, but it's the principle of it), at least put a trigger warning or spoiler. for a bunch of babies that have to put a TW in everything in the most dumb ways, they aren't using them when they should be used.

No. 1805402

>>1805399
I understand your pain. That shit seems to be posted for shock value. I had to mute friends on my IG because all they do now is talk about freeplastine and post really graphic photos on their stories without warning. I just cant do it. .

No. 1805409

>>1805390
I don't think i'm a natalist but i don't really know much about that term honestly.
If i thought that the world was completely shit i would have killed myself or a good portion of people, there are things i love in the world and in life, i could think it's enough to share that with my friends, but i wish to be able to pass that on someone who will be part of my family and grow up to be part of the future world.
Personally i've always cared a lot for kids in general and without saying too much i think you can get why i would want to have children myself.

>>1805393
I didn't mean that you have to do specific things, i think it's all very personal, as long as you do something to make some progress if you care about the future and don't just give up it's nice, personally i don't even want to live with a man.

No. 1805420

>>1805409
But the world is shit enough that it needs "fixing" and you want to put the burden of "fixing" it on the kid, risking many kinds of suffering in the process
I don't have suicidal thoughts and I don't think people who already exist should off themselves, but creating entirely new human beings for a purpose is a totally different story

No. 1805424

>>1805409
I would just ignore these other anons and let this topic die. There's always gonna be some annoying doomstrolling anons who want the world or end or think the end of days is coming. the world has always has conflict and pretending there is ever a right time to have kids is only going to make you waste time. I waited until after the pandemic to get pregnant because I didn't want to cause issues for those who needed a bed in the hospital and I am happy with my choice. I think no matter what we do, women will be judged, so who cares anymore. I will do my best as a first time mother to provide. I have a healthy and supportive partner, whom I am extremely grateful for. If some of these anons want to shit on women for wanting kids, there's no much we can do. it's a sad mentality, but women deal with enough bs already offline. Just do whatever you want. Kids are blessing if you want to raise them. There will be challenges, but for me personally, it's worth it.

No. 1805425

>>1805399
Yeah, I've unfollowed a few people on Tumblr over this. I understand wanting to spread awareness but really truly do not want to see graphic irl images while scrolling.

No. 1805426

>>1796356
>If i thought that the world was completely shit i would have killed a good portion of people
Please do not have children.

No. 1805427

>>1805426
Just ignore them. it's bait at this point.

No. 1805439

>>1805420
Was there any time in history the world didn't need fixing? This whole existing is part of life, anything can be harmful and we will never reach a stage of complete peacefulness and equality since we are stupid but at least there can be some changes if we can put effort and value into it.
I don't want to have children for a specific purpose, i don't expect them to do what i want. Putting so much meaning into life can be dangerous, we are just animals that think a bit too much and enjoying life and wishing for it is not something so complicated.

>>1805426
Lol again, idk if i will have the possibility but don't be alarmed, i have no issue admitting that i had suicidal thoughts when i was younger or wished death on people who hurted others i guess.

No. 1805442

>>1805424
You're literally just doing what society expects from you anyway. Nobody irl hates you for it. It's like women saying "criticizing make up and femininity is sad, but hey, I will perform femininity anyway because it makes me happy!". Like um… Ok I guess??

No. 1805444

>>1805439
>treating the creation of life like it's tossing a coin
>hey whatever happens happens, I'm just gonna roll with it! Maybe my kids will suffer, but whatever, that's life!
Most people in the world are truly not fit to be parents.

No. 1805446

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>>1804955
ok but it was SO FUN when I was a little kid. I saw Disney Princesses on Ice and Toy Story 2 on Ice and thought it was so cool. bet it's even more expensive these days. all the concessions/merchandise considered too.

No. 1805451

>>1805446
ot sorry but i need an ice skating nonna to explain the physics of this to me like i'm retarded. like they both look like they're about to fall backwards and he's barely got a hold on her. are they on a theatrical fly rigging system or do the skate blades just support a lot more weight from the back?

No. 1805456

Istg if all women who want to have children to "contribute to a better world" would invest their time and affection into female-centered relationships and charity work instead, we'd already be much farther ahead.. It's so frustrating.

No. 1805457

>>1805451
Not an ice skating anon but if I had to guess they'd fall backwards (or sideways it looks like) if they were standing still but they're in motion. If you make a turn on a motorcycle you lean sideways without falling too.

No. 1805461

>>1805456
for real mentoring girls and giving them access to a stable adult woman to look up to does way more than tossing up the genetic coin and hoping you have what it takes to full time raise a child right

No. 1805463

>>1805451
they did use a rigging system like that for some parts of the performance but not the one pictured. can't really explain the physics because I barely passed that class, but I did go on to take ballet and skating classes after seeing Disney on Ice, so all I can say is it's kind of hard

No. 1805467

>>1805446
Disney on ice is meant or kids for the most part. I think it's adorable when kids are so excited by seeing their favorite characters skating around irl.

No. 1805485

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>>1805424
Yeah it's alright, i thought they wanted a proper discussion but some aren't getting what i'm saying, it's not like i want to clear myself though i'm fine with them, i probably have to look in these natalists people because i don't get why they're getting some stuff in weird ways. I was a bit worried that they were actually depressed at some point but i trust that they're fine, plus i never meant to get serious here and i'm so sleepy.

I'm glad you could had that opportunity and that you're on a good situation nona, wish you the best, i'll continue my alternative path for now lol.

No. 1805537

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Catherine Zeta Jones is the prettiest british actress

No. 1805541

>>1805537
No offense to the British anons, but I would've never guessed that she's Welsh/British if I didn't already know.

No. 1805544

>>1805541
That's one of the reasons she's very pretty.

No. 1805553

>>1805537
the Zeta made me think she’s greek kek

No. 1805571

>>1805537
I was surprised she isn’t Spaniard or Mexican

No. 1805576

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>>1805544
>>1805541
Are you both pretending that White Britons aren't some of the best looking people in the world?

No. 1805592

>>1805576
The previous version of this post with the other pic was making me ugly laugh

No. 1805629

Top and bottom is a concept that only makes sense for male gay relationships. Bottom lesbians are selfish and top lesbians need to go to a therapist.

No. 1805642

Society needs this back.

No. 1805646

>>1805576
She's only good looking for the monarchy, which is a low bar

No. 1805651

>>1805576
>trying to get white british people dragged
This is insidious, they're going through enough just in day to day life

No. 1805675

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>>1805651
>>trying to get white british people dragged
No I'm not, you've completely misunderstood my previous post. White Britons are some of the best looking people of Humanity.

>>1805646
Kate Middleton is good looking for anyone with a proper sense of beauty.

No. 1805681


No. 1805684

>>1805675
She's one of those types who looked 30+ when she was 20. If you took any of her college pics and told me she had a 10 year old kid it would be believable.

No. 1805685

>>1805642
i remember getting so hyped watching this on the tv, when my sister came back from school and i told her about it she thought i've been hallucinating and i started crying because she didn't believe me

No. 1805694

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>>1805576
I don't find Anglos appealing. Meds are the best looking euros

No. 1805699

>>1805694
she's fucking welsh

No. 1805702

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>>1805675
She's pretty, but her beauty is very inflated by people because she's surrounded by people that look like picrel + the general British population.

No. 1805705

>>1805699
But she doesn't look british, she looks med

No. 1805706

>>1805702
All the windsors have egg faces lol

No. 1805712

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>>1805684
That's just British people in general, for some reason they age a bit rough and I'm not sure why. The men start going bald at like 25, it's not normal.

No. 1805727

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>>1805712
Brits age faster now because they have forsaken the bog swamp life

No. 1805731

>>1805702
why are they royalty again does anyone know what they did

No. 1805732

>>1805731
It's just nepotism.

No. 1805745

>>1805727
I wish I could absorb primordial energy to sustain myself by soaking in a swamp. The Brits were so lucky.

No. 1805788

>>1805712
I wonder what it is in their genes or diets that make them age rapidly, I know they're white but I feel like brits age at twice the rate of other countries

No. 1805798

>>1805788
My theory is just that they're not meant to have the regular lifespan of other humans.

No. 1805804

>>1805798
I just remembered the answer to my question is rampant inbreeding, forget I ever asked

No. 1805824

>>1805804
>>1805702
>>1805788
Please remember that the British royal family is actually majority German, from an ethnic standpoint. Those are German genes on display.

No. 1805826

>>1805824
Those are inbreeding genes on display.

No. 1805830

>>1805826
Yeah, like I said (German).

No. 1805831

>>1805824
But regular British people age bad too.

No. 1805878

It is morally right to manipulate, lie to, and gaslight people who have done the same thing to you. Obviously it's probably bad for you in the long run to stoop to their level, but ethically it is good to hurt abusers. If you're stuck with one (work, family home, whatever) and it won't put you in physical danger/you're smart enough to get away with it, you should take advantage of them at every opportunity. And ONLY them. Your compassion and empathy should be carefully preserved and doled out to people who behave in good faith and deserve it. Stop people-pleasing, stop trying to get bad people to care about you like you care about them. They never will and they don't deserve kindness. Protect yourself.

No. 1805950

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Self-hating white liberals are leading us to a dangerous place. We need to loudly criticize them or else the only narrative that remains will be pushing women back into the house.

No. 1805961

>>1805950
I really really really hope those 9 rapists face punishments from vigilante justice, it's a shame that those vigilantes would get more punishment from the law than those 9 rapists ever did.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-67577337.amp

No. 1805965

>>1805961
I would not be surprised if vigilantism become more common because the wealthy liberals refuse to clean up their mess. Everyone predicted this and now people, mostly women lose their lives to this violence

No. 1805992

>>1805950
>>1805965
This isn't just happening in Europe and American, Liberals in my country have this collective americanized brand of retardation that makes them so unlikeable to regular people and it's happening everywhere from the mutuals I have talked too, in the middle east and LatAM, you have liberal parties going on about trans-rights and Asexuality awareness.

No. 1806005

>>1805950
This was a scandalous result, and it's happened before too, in the 2010s, but then they left the girl in a park to freeze (someone found her). It's horrifying. They should be rotting in prison in their home countries.

The obsession, however, with Migrationshintergrund ("background as an immigrant") is something particular to German-speaking countries. It's this buzzword that really means one of two things: asylum-seeker from an undesirable Muslim country, or immigrant from some problematic eastern European country. It's used as an insult but also an excuse/reason for why the men in particular act how they do.
This isn't really about "left-wing white women" as the psychologist who said that quote is half Jordanian. Her name is Nahlah Saimeh. She's hardly a typical "left-wing white woman," since she isn't white, and her politics probably are too complicated to categorize here. But they don't map to an American two-party system. So it is pretty outlandish for some man to blame "left-wing white women" because this particular psychiatrist assigned these motives to the rapists. The Daily Caller is such a poor source too but you surely know that already. But if a man said something like this to me, I would be tempted to spit in his face or worse. To smugly tell women they want other women raped! Without even looking at who said this quote and in what context. He can go to hell.

I honestly don't know why anyone who commits violent or sexual crimes as an immigrant is permitted to stay in the country. I guess my unpopular opinion is that a full stop on asylum for single men should be carried out, and single women seeking asylum should get priority. After them, single women with children, and couples last. But they will never do this.

No. 1806041

>>1806005
>They should be rotting in prison in their home countries.
Rapists should be executed. Look at the countries where migrant rapists come from, they are corrupt third world countries where rape is rampant. The greatest chance for rape victims to have justice is for their rapists to be executed.
>the psychologist who said that quote is half Jordanian
Are you telling me that a Brown woman has shamelessly defended 9 of her fellow Brown rapists who gang raped a White woman, and that Brown woman didn't suffer any consequences for doing so? Those 9 rapists should have been executed

No. 1806052

>>1805950
Wow very shocking to see men blaming other women for condoning rape somehow as if it isn’t solely caused by MEN BEING RAPISTS. Twitter/journalist/whatever opinions shouldn’t fucking matter, these misogynists always blame women for having the wrong views or reaction instead of the moids who actually commit the crimes. Being soft on crime is retarded but that’s their excuse to be gleeful when they see violence against women so they can point and say haha told ya so dumb naive liberal!

No. 1806124

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Single mothers shouldn’t be bringing scrotes around their kids but every single time they all will hit you with a “are you saying because I’m a single mother I don’t deserve love?”. Literally no one said that to you, you just pick dangerous and shit men which is how you ended up a single mom in the first place.

No. 1806130

>>1806124
Yeah they can date whoever they just shouldn’t let them around their kids. It’s so sloppy. My mom used to do that. And then the guys would hit on us when we were like 14

No. 1806132

My unpopular opinion is that every race ages badly. ^I feel like it’s kind of a cope. Inb4 someone replies with a picture of a celebrity woman who has facials every day and eats good and has personal trainers.

No. 1806134

>>1806132
I feel like Asians are the only ones who genuinely age good

No. 1806135

>>1806052
>Being soft on crime is retarded
It's more than just retarded ffs. Of course the core of the issue is moids, but the way we deal with them obviously matters. People defending them and pushing for a system where criminals are not punished are not on women's side. Are we supposed to wait until moids collectively decide to never commit crimes again? Now that's retarded. Being "soft on crimes" is what allows killers/terrorists/rape apes to be set free after a few years in jail - if that - in several countries in Europe, because of the rehabilitation meme and because of ""intellectuals"" feeling worse for the ~oppressed~ perpetrators than for the actual victims. And I can't believe that people are more concerned about potentially siding with conservatives on one (1) issue than about violent crimes being normalized. Bleak as fuck.

No. 1806136

>>1806124
yes, wait until we hear of all the abuse from the children that'll be all grown up. i don't think this will stay socially appropriate for long

No. 1806139

People use age as an excuse to act dumb. If you’re abusing substances, dating shitty people, cheating on people and lazy that’s not going to change at 30. A lot of young people think they can just lead fucked up lives and then magically at 30 they will be wearing pants suits with 1 million dollars in the bank. You have to be working for that shit in your 20s. What you do in your 20s pretty much determines what the rest of your life is going to be like.

No. 1806143

>>1806052
>Wow very shocking to see men blaming other women for condoning rape
Condoning rape is vile and stupid. Whoever pointing it out ain't wrong, a broke clock is right twice a day
>Being soft on crime is retarded
It's not only retarded, it's dangerous. These women lack empathy for those affected which are kids and women, they ain't on our side either

No. 1806144

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>>1806041
Actually I just read that some of the defendants have appealed their ridiculously lenient sentences. They want even less punishment.

I usually hate the emphasis on where accused people come from in Germany. This is always reported, even though there are strict laws about protecting the identities of people on trial from media dissemination. Yes, I know, in this case we all want to know who they are. But in general idk I think it is good to have some protection for the victims and the accused, since sometimes the accused ends up being innocent. At any rate, they are probably all Arab or Armenian in this case, even if some of them hold German citizenship (picrel). The one born in Poland is most likely white, very very few non-white people live in Poland, especially more than a decade ago.

idk if I have to disclaim anything here but just because I'm talking about the nationality of these rapists, I'm not baiting about races or anything. I do find it interesting that the heritage of this psychiatrist is glossed over in all media. However she has a contentious reputation in Germany (idk what to say, it's up and down, right now it's down). She has testified and analyzed other crimes as well, but she focuses on sex crimes and homicide. I mean, it is valid to study the motives behind rape academically (other than "being male" which is basically most of the motive). But it's disgusting how she pretends these immigrants - living happily in Germany, some with citizenship - were so downtrodden that violence and rape were the only outlet for them. What a lie. Also the way she talks about the victim as a tool, a thing that bonded them together- Gott. I can't understand how a woman can get up in court and say this about a 15yo girl who is living with severe PTSD from these rapes. None of the perpetrators said they were sorry or that they regretted doing it. Not one.

No. 1806145

Bpd chans, narcissists, Ephebophilic sociopath types are probably the only types of women who will have good relationships with men because they give men what they like which is toxic drama and emotional roller coasters. When I see normie women trying to “communicate” and be reasonable and mature with their bfs/husbands it’s so funny because their men find that annoying and pathetic. They want a crazy evil bitch who steals from them and makes their life hell. Men see niceness as a form of weakness and it’s annoying to them.

No. 1806148

>>1806145
That’s what males deserve.

No. 1806153

>>1806145
This is such a redpill honestly.
I'm sick of being taken advantage of because of my kindness.
I know if I went psycho and did some crazy shit, the issues I have with men would be at least taken half seriously rather than brushed off as an annoying nagging because I don't break plates and make them pay attention to me

No. 1806172

>>1805950
>sargan of akkad
This guy defended pedophilia and requested CP at one point IIRC. He is projecting on "left wing white women" and likes cases like that so that he can pretend he cares about women's rights and say "Omg only the right wants to protect women anymore" (while deliberately ignoring that the shitty moid-friendly system lets white rapists get off too). Stop advertising these piece of shit, racebaiting rape apes, retard.

No. 1806177

>>1805260
You don’t have to excessively care about birds or be huge advocate for biodiversity to not put them in unnecessary danger just because you’re an irresponsible retard.

No. 1806181

>>1805390
Most people with kids/who want kids would be way more tolerable if they just admitted they want to reproduce for egoistical and self-serving reasons.

No. 1806186

>>1806153
Mature and adult communication doesn’t work with men because they’re not stupid, they didn’t get the power they have being stupid. They only respond to aggression and bullying because that’s how they communicate with other men and when they see normie women trying to maturely tell them to help with the kids or clean he just sees her as retarded. Meanwhile a bpd Chan or a narcissistic woman would go bash her head against a wall and call the police and claim he beat her but he will still come back and start helping clean around the house.

No. 1806188

>>1806186
>theyre not stupid
Theyre extremely stupid.

No. 1806190

>>1806188
Stupid would imply men don’t know what they’re doing. They know what they’re doing. I think a lot of women deal with me thinking “omg he just does this because he’s a stupid clueless man” and that mf is not dumb at all.

No. 1806191

>>1805702
Windsors are so fucking ugly it’s actually offensive. You get tons of money for sitting on your ass all day and taking part in excessive weddings/funerals and can’t even look good while doing so? Britain is truly retarded for keeping the monarchy.

No. 1806193

>>1806186
you sound like you were actually hurt by bpdchan taking your man or something kek

No. 1806195

>>1806186
Kek, you're absolutely right. Men only respond positively to violence. You have to show him who's the alpha. They don't listen unless they're scared of you.

No. 1806198

>>1806193
If you haven’t noticed the women they claim to like (young, innocent, virginal) get treated 10x worse than “terrible women”. They find those women to be boring and weak.

No. 1806201

>>1806195
This is a ball-scented post written to encourage domestic violence and get young/naive women beaten. Hope you get what's deserved.

No. 1806203

>>1806201
there seems to be a particular bored moid around right now, hope he finds something else to do

No. 1806204

>>1806201
"Encourage young women to get beaten" nigga what the fuck are you talking about. Enjoy trying to empathy your way through a relationship with your inherently sociopathic moid who craves violence.

No. 1806205

It's genuinely so annoying when anons assume anyone who doesn't think the same way THEY do, it's a man. Not every woman is a wholesome hen. Not all of us have the same opinions. Some of us are mean and nasty. Grow up

No. 1806206

>>1806201
I think If you’re genuinely crazy it scares those kind of men away. How often do you actually see women who have personality disorders who are being abused?

No. 1806207

>>1806204
>>1806205
Saying "nigga" will not convince anyone you're just a "cool no-bullshit kind of crazy black woman" or whatever your larp is meant to be this time, lol.

No. 1806209

>>1806206
>How often do you actually see women who have personality disorders who are being abused?
Often.

No. 1806211

>>1806205
oh my god shut up. EVERY time someone (an obvious moid) is called a moid there's this one anon screaming "not ALL women do x" "ACTUALLY some women-"

No. 1806212

>>1806207
Nta but I never said that women should act crazy or be toxic to be in a relationship. I’m just saying women like that are more likely to get men who are generous, caring and love them because they’re behaving in a way that men instinctively understand. They don’t understand all that communicating and mature shit no matter how good of a guy they are, they see it as weird or nagging.

No. 1806213

She's not wrong though, men will take crazy women way more seriously than a nice sweet "I need to tell you what's bothering me" type.
Being a wild card and flying into a fit of rage and breaking their shit and pulling out your hair will make them listen to you more than a sweet wife asking him to pick up his dirty clothes.
Sucks that it takes a psychotic snap for scrotes to realise their partner is being fucking for real when they tell them to pick their shit up.
I say this as a sweet loving "I need to talk" woman, I just can't bring myself to hit that level so I'm walked on often.

No. 1806215

anyway OG anon is right, the only women who get good relationships are bpd manipulators. I've seen it happen. every time I hear about a somewhat decent male, he is dating the worst woman you've met

No. 1806217

>>1806211
It’s funny that you say I’m obviously a moid because it shows you have no idea what you’re talking about because I’m not one lol

No. 1806223

>>1806217
okay. you can still shut up, "girl"

No. 1806225

>>1806223
I’m going to keep posting and you’re going to stay mad. Why are you even mad?kek

No. 1806226

>>1806217
>hehe so true sisters, men only understand violence, show them you're the alpha!
No one female would type this in seriousness for reasons we all know.

No. 1806229

men are in constant battle between what they want and what they think they want, that's why they're so schizo and retarded. they force women to be tradwives and make them into slaves but that also bores them and makes them lose respect so then they start wanting wild independent women and then they beat those into submission and then they become boring and then ooh look sexy cool woman-

No. 1806230

>>1806226
I never told women they should do anything. I said men like toxic women more. Making a statement does not mean I’m telling you to do something. Just because scrotes like something doesn’t mean you have to do it.

No. 1806231

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No. 1806232

>>1806227
If you posted >>1806195, then you did.

No. 1806233

>>1806232
I didn’t post that though.

No. 1806237

>>1806198
males treat all women horribly because they’re males, women with bpd have huge statistics of abuse. it’s just your personal experience.

No. 1806239

>>1806215
nothing really stops you from being crazy manipulator if you want to rip off this 'decent man' out of 'the worst woman you’ve ever met’s hands

No. 1806240

>>1806213
The best relationship combo is narcissistic image obsessed woman who controls the entire house hold and sheltered religious man. These relationships fuck up the kids lives but the man usually worships these women.

No. 1806248

>>1806233
Then my replies were not aimed at you



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