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No. 140789

Who here has to put up with shit from weirdo guys?

I know this board isn't for personal blogposts, but I'd figured I'd start this one off with a short anecdote

>be me, 19, waitress job at restaurant

>creepy autistic dishwasher works there, about 20, obsessed with vidya and starwars
>couple of gay coworker dudes have dozen person get-together after work
>go to their apartment with friends, me and just one other girl
>inexplicably, dish autist is there too
>play never-have-i-ever
>he has 10 fingers up, the rest of us at one or two
>"N-n-never have I e-ever had-had sex!"
>he wins game
>everyone drinking, go out on porch for smoke
>he comes out, sits next to me

Then, with like a sentence or two of small talk, he actually fucking tried to grab at my boobs, so I slapped his hand away and told him I wasn't interested. HE REACHED OUT AGAIN. That time he mumbled something I couldn't understand before going inside. Word from another guy there is that he also brandished a pair of condoms "just in case"

Does this happen to anyone else here? I'm not even that attractive but for some reason this freak is really magnetized towards me

No. 140790

>>140789
>who has to
Nobody. Complain to the manager, don't associate with these people. How hard is that to grasp?

No. 140791

>>140789
Report that shit without a doubt

No. 140792

>>140791
Can you even do that when it was in a private setting?

No. 140793

buy a gun, pepper spray, taser. when this happens again, do it

No. 140794

>>140790
He's the son of a shift manager who essentially has him tenured there(she confiscates his check to pay bills in lieu of a monthly tugboat- so she profits off his employment).

He's harassed other girls on the job and the neither GM nor shift mangers will lift a finger to stop it. I've already put in my two weeks notice.

>>140792
In my state you can, the GM just doesn't care

No. 140795

>>140789
>Does this happen to anyone else here?
Happened a lot between the ages of 17-22 for me. Mostly because I was young, impressionable, and wasn't in a position of power so guys thought they could manipulate me. Creepers also go for girls who they think they might have a chance with, even if it's ever so miniscule. Yet they're still picky with their standards so they won't go for supreme uggos, or the ultra hot staceys who they know will reject them in not so nice ways.
They're really no different from most guys in that they test the waters hoping a fish will bite. Even though the guy violated you he's likely done it to many girls before (oh I just scrolled down to read your post, ayep!). And the reason why he does it at parties and not in the workplace is so he can get away with it because booze-fueled events are usually a grey area to employers. Then if you reported it they would judge you and/or simply wash their hands of the situation since it didn't happen at the workplace.

Don't go to work parties anymore unless you know for a fact that everyone there is a person you can trust, and even then…

No. 140796

>winter 2011, I was 19 dating a 25 year old
>he had house parties with all of his hipster friends every weekend
>we would all get sloppy drunk and play guitar hero
>his best friend who was kind of a creeper and had a gf was into me
>one night whilst we were drinking he grabbed my ass and whispered in my ear "you're too pretty for him"
>did nothing because it kind of turned me on
>never spoke of the incident again

No. 140797

I had a sorta friend in high school who was really unattractive and a super creep. He was the friend of my really good friend, so we'd sit together and hang out. But he'd always twist my words into a sex joke and drag it on by staring and raising his eyebrows up and down.

We lived pretty close, so when we bussed home it was pretty weird. One time he flat out asked if I wanted to have sex with him under his breath. I asked him to repeat himself and he said he didn't say anything. Whenever he asked which house address was mine I'd always give him the wrong number since he lived in different neighbourhoods.

I still have him on facebook, battle.net and Steam and he has gotten reaally depressed and sad since high school. We're in 3rd year of college now and he still cries about this girl who he never had a chance with in high school and how girls always go for douchebags. This girl was literally a 9/10 and he's a solid 3/10.

I don't want to stop talking to him because I think I'm the only one who regularly does. He started talking about killing himself and giving up on life and quitting school. I pep talk him and give him a little social interaction every time I see him online.

I feel burdened with his life, but he's getting really weird recently. He told me "I understand why men rape. I'd never do it, but I get it". I'm probably never gonna meet him in real life again but I feel like if I stop talking to him he'll rape some poor girl and then off himself.

just venting

No. 140798

>>140797
Your situation is eerily similar to mine. My "friend" (who I don't consider a close one and only really talk to because we have my best friend in common) is annoyingly into me even though we barely talk. He pesters me to hang out with him every so often but I actively avoid this since I don’t feel comfortable when I’m alone with him. He’s tried to put the moves on me before and is overbearing and irritating about his “feelings” for me even though I’ve set boundaries and never ever treated him as anything more than a friend. He manages to make me feel guilty about my apprehensiveness by randomly apologizing, momentarily easing any tension.

I’m old enough to realize that this behavior will only continue the more I keep talking to him. And I don’t really, he’s the one that always texts me. I didn’t have his number on my phone for the longest time and I didn’t reply to him for months on end but I still knew it was him because I’d always get some bullshit from his unsaved number.

>He started talking about killing himself and giving up on life and quitting school. I pep talk him and give him a little social interaction every time I see him online.

>I feel burdened with his life

I know how you feel to the T. It's like I’m walking on eggshells every time I try to help him. I’m done being saddled with his depression and I’m done giving him pep talks when he refuses to listen to me. He even gets slightly argumentative with me when I try to give him advice. Fuck this. I don’t like him enough to deal with his crap when I have enough to deal with on my own.

No. 140799

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>>140797
Jesus Christ, stop enabling his shitty personality. Stating he "understood why men rape" isn't just fucking weird, that's a huge red flag.

You are not responsible for his life or what he does with it. If you are feeling burdened by him, something needs to change. He either has to make some effort to fix himself or you need to cut him out of your life. Sometimes it isn't easy, but there are people who will never learn and drag you down with them. Don't let him do that to you.

No. 140800

Started talking to this guy way back in like 2009, we met via MySpace (kek). I honestly just liked talking to him and it was nice having someone be into me since I just got out if a crappy relationship. But he started to get super weird, like call me every night at the same exact time, talked to me about dreams he had of us and how I eventually agreed to be his girlfriend etc etc. he would also reply to every single thing I'd post on social media and he always thought any vague posts always had to do with him. One day we got into a little argument because if something dumb he said about women. This was about the the time I started realizing he had some strange world views. I was hanging out with friends that night and dudnt answer his call. He called me about 5 times then left a voice mail crying about this argument we had and how he understood if we never talked again. It was bizarre. We did talk for a few weeks after that, but then I realized he was incredibly racist (he ran severeal forums about hating black people and I ain't about that life) and stopped talking to him. It was just a bizarre dude

No. 140801

Oh boy yes. High school was nothing but creepy awkward neckbeard type guys.
>guy who literally wore fedoras would try to impress me on bus rides home with his computer knowledge and pictures of his gun collection. I had a lot of a anxiety already, and I literally shook having to talk with him. I didn't want to be to nice, in case he liked me, and couldn't be to indifferent because the whole gun bragging thing scared me too.
>A lot of days avoided eating lunch so I wouldn't have to walk by awkard metal head neckbeard and anime gang, was very intentionally "edgy and gore", would talk ear off and was otherwise kinda embarrassed to be seen with
>fat football player invites me to house to watch anime and spends the entire afternoon trying to sexually wrestle me. Clearly didn't understand that when I tried squirming out of hugs repeatedly that meant I did not want to to touched. Spent the rest of high school being kind of rude to him when he tried talking with me, never sunk in that I didn't like him.
>broke up with white trash emo boyfriend. Caught him outright stalking my house behind a fence across the street. He was a creppy mess in his own right.
sorry for such a long post, it felt good to finally be able to talk about some of it

No. 140802

>>140797
I had a similar situation with a guy I met on /r9k/ in 2008? Or something. We talked online for 5 years and his life started getting darker and darker. I got a boyfriend and stopped talking to him very much (I used to talk to him every day for hours). It's been 3 years since he contacted me and I think he suicided. I used to try me skype or text him every week for the first year or so. Feels bad man.

No. 140803

>>140802
>with a guy I met on /r9k/
oh gee who'da thunk it

No. 140804

I feel like I can't even get weirdo guys to creep on me. Not to downplay y'all's problems, but I guess I hate being ugly and unwanted.

No. 140805

>>140802
>Feels bad man.
don't feel bad about it. Honestly if he really did kill himself it's not tragic. It's just how it is, he probably just wasn't really compatible with this world and instead of dragging other people down with him this is a peaceful solution

No. 140806

I've had to cope with creeps before, but luckily I slowly grew into a bitch to them. I mean, when they're shit persons who justify rape or try to grope you, why should you even care?
>"Waaah I want to kill myself"
>Ok
>"Waaah girls only like douchebags and not nice guys like mee!"
>Didn't you post that long rant about wanting to have sex with middle school girls yesterday?
The key with those people is straight up telling them that you consider them disgusting. Even looking down on them works.
They prey on innocent sweet girls for a reason: because sweet girls are too kind/polite to tell them to fuck off.

No. 140807

>>140806
*even just

No. 140808

>>140804
Feeling like someone is going to harm you and you have no way of stopping it does not feel good. I can understand how you might think being creeped on = confirmation I must be somewhat attractive, but it doesn't. Weirdo guys just pick anyone, like what >>140806 said, they pick people who seem like they won't fight back. Getting creeped on would only worsen your insecurity, it wouldn't be an ego boost.

No. 140809

>>140804
That's good creeps don't hit on you, it means they think you won't put up with their shit. I've spent too much of my life being polite to creeps out of fear for myself or them hurting themselves. It doesn't feel good to be burdened with human waste.

No. 140810

I used to get creeped on, but then I started thinking: what would my brother do in this situation? He doesn't care if people dislike him, he doesn't care if he hurts the feelings of someone who's mean to him. They had it coming.
I've been bullied all my life and never had many friends so what difference would it make if one more asshole started to hate me? Ever since I stopped caring about how I'll be perceived I've been creeper-free. If someone gets too close to me I just brush them off.

No. 140811

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>be me
>sitting at the bus stop
>some random sits next to me
>all of a sudden he's shoving a $20 in my face
>told him thanks but I don't need it
>insists I take it
>alright fine
>"i gave you that because you're beautiful"
>oh okay lol thanks
>keeps trying to make small talk with me
>keep replying with general haha yeah's
>bus comes
>he asks for my number
>give him some number i pulled from my ass
>mfw
Sometimes attracting creeps has it's pros

No. 140812

>>140811
Damn nice get

No. 140813

I attract so many gross guys. Never anyone normal or attractive. Just short, hairy, weird guys with facial piercings and thick tinned glasses who are hyperactive. I guess I'm their "type". I've been single for 2 years and this is all I can get apparently. Sucks.

No. 140814

>>140813
thick rimmed* glasses

No. 140815

>>140813
Are you a redhead or dye your hair red? I dyed my hair red once and only weird autists were interested.

No. 140816

>>140809
Or maybe it means I'm ugly

>>140808
It seems like people of both sexes think I look repulsive or something. At this point I'm desperate for any confirmation I'm not ugly. Maybe attention from ugly guys is different when you're getting hit on left and right.

No. 140817

>>140815
Not the anon you were replying to but as a fake copper-head, can confirm that weird autists tend to flock like moths to a flame, though not exclusively. It was -only- autists when it was a more unnatural red.

>>140806
>They prey on innocent sweet girls for a reason: because sweet girls are too kind/polite to tell them to fuck off.

This so much for -most- cases. Some guys are too autistic and desperate to be put off. I feared for my safety in one case as consequence of my directness.

No. 140818

Dunno if this really belongs here or not but here is a cautionary tale against one-night stands. Please don't make the mistake of sleeping with someone you don't know well like my stupid ass did, it could get you killed.

>just have a nasty break up with my boyfriend

>meet guy who initially seems normal; he says he just got out of a relationship too
>we both vent and have what I thought to be rebound no strings attached sex.
>everything seemed fine but I made the fateful decision to not answer one of his text messages right away
>big mistake
>I wake up from a nap to 50 new messages from him
>"Why did you deny me so suddenly all I want to know what I did wrong?"
>"Was my dick really that small?"
>"Sexy little whore I know you want someone to just ram a big dick in that tight pussy of yours. I learned my lesson to not catch feelings, can't I just run up in"
>"Please respond."
>I freak the fuck out and talk to my friend about it and she sent me a link to a facebook profile and asked me if it was the guy I saw that night. Turns out he has a nasty habit of stalking and threatening women.
>definitely him but different name than he gave me.
>all his pictures are of some random woman and her baby.
>it obviously wasn't even his baby.
>I save all the messages and tell him to fuck off or else I'll call the police.
>he did for a while.
>a few weeks later he comes back somewhat apologetically and asks me if I have an std
>I got an std test and a blood test not long after I found out he was nuts just to be safe and I turned up clean.
>I tell him no and to go away.
>"YOU FUCKING WHORE YOU RUINED MY LIFE YOU HAVE ME HEPATITIS C"
>a few months after that he apologizes and says he finally got a blood test and turned up clean.
>"Can we fuck again?"

Luckily I don't see him as much as I used to but I really feel like he's ticking time bomb. I don't know where the hell is family is but whatever.

No. 140819

>>140816
It might be the mood you give off more than what you actually look like. People can sense negative insecurity and self loathing, even if they're not the brightest.

No. 140820

>>140818
Holy hell, that's really bad luck, what a freak.

No. 140821

Sorry if I've posted this one before, but I met possessive creep on Gaia when I was 13 (he was 18) who I put up with for five years. The story is so similar to other experiences I see on these boards.
He would constantly be pushing the boundaries of what I would put up with, trying to request muh loli nudes, when I got upset he would pull back and it would all be about how important I was as a friend and how he just didn't know how to talk to girls. Lots of the cliche pathetic "wahhh if you stop talking to myself I'll kill myself or shoot up a place" bullshit, sudden jealous rages triggered by me getting a boyfriend and in one event he narrowed down where I lived. When he started tracking down my younger schoolfriends online I realised how serious it was getting and just mass blocked him everywhere. I later realised he was constantly befriending young girls online.
I don't know why these guys get so fixated on not being 'good with women' that it turns them into mass shooting candidates and paedophiles.

>>140816
There is nothing good about being creeped on, it isn't flattering it's just uncomfortable. If you're desperate for attention you could always up your makeup/hair game and slut up your wardrobe, but it's rarely a good kind of attention.
There's also the possibility that you're just socially inept and can't tell if people are actually interested at times when they have been.

No. 140823

Generally what works for me is making it clear that I have a boyfriend and to bring him up as often as possible until they get the hint.
"Oh yeah, my boyfriend also thinks I'm cute!"
"Oh I doubt my boyfriend would want me to give you my phone number teehee"
"Look at this picture of me and my boyfriend! Aren't we just the cutest together?"
"My boyfriend and I had a great weekend together, thank you for asking about my weekend :)"
"I'm glad you like my sweater, it was a gift from my boyfriend"

And so on. Usually creeps are beta af and do not wanna mess with a girl's boyfriend.

No. 140824

I was about 14 and the boy 2 doors down walked me up from school once. He kept asking if i'd be his gf and I was like "no, stop walking with me" but he refused.
Another time I worked in a warehouse (go figure) near christmas and he asked if I'd been "a good girl for santa", I said sure, and he asked a minute later, so I said "you're a bit weird, aren't you? That's a pretty weird thing to say mate" and he got pretty mad, saying it's just a joke/I can't take a joke and gradually building up from a mumble to a rant.
Tbqh that one made me feel shit because it was the last day at work, so it should've been good vibes all round.

In traditional settings I've never been creeped on. The people who hit on me in bars always say something to the tune of "OK, enjoy your night" when I say no thank you.

No. 140825

>>140824
Why do men get defensive when you don't find their "jokes" funny, especially when their intention isn't to joke around and they know it. Instead of manning up and saying "I'm sorry I made you uncomfortable, I'm going to stop now" they get angry and insult you. My coworker got mad at me because I didn't want to hug them. That's another thing, ugh! They get so offended over the smallest things!!! Where's the thread where I can complain about this, I don't think this is the place lol.

No. 140826

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>>140813
I know the feeling anon. Only people who hit on me are big burly black men in the 30s and mexicans who don't know any english except "DAMN BBY!" Last time I had a semicute boy hit on me (few months ago) I shot him down pretty quick mainly because it was a shitty day.

No. 140827

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Twitch is rife with 'em, and because camwhores are abundant, they automatically assume every girl is willing to pull her top down a little if you call her pretty.
>call guys out on flirting because it's never genuine
>they get angry saying I should be flattered like everyone else
>my point is proven
>get donations anyway

>a feminist blog calls my channel a "safe space" for women because I don't put up with assholes looking for titties



On the other hand, I'd hate to be a hot guy since you could never call out the uber-sexual ugly creeper-girls that make up your fan base. They're always so cringey.

No. 140828

I had a realy tough time circa 2009. Thing went so out of control that I ended up with panic attacks.
At night I was having a course at another city, so I shared a private bus with some people that used to go to college in that city. I'm very shy and reclusive, but ended up being friends with a short fat guy.
At the beggining he was very nice to me, we used to travel sitting together at the bus. But then started to stalk me hardcore. I frequently would find him hidding behind some tree or bench looking at me. He used to take pictures of me with his phone. He would wait at the school gates so he could follow me back home. He used to walk a few steps behind me whispering things. If I got distracted he would steal my things at the bus and check my phone.
Everybody at the bus thought that was funny that he "liked" me and one day this guy started making fun of him in the bus and he went entirely bonkers. He would scream and he wanted to kill the guy.
Everyday was a living hell for me and most people wouldn't believe me or think something like "Aaww he just likes you and don't know how to act around you".
It lasted almost 2 years. My mother and a girl from the bus were the only ones whom would believe me. I started to feel breathless everytime I had to go to that course, my chest would ache so much, I felt dizzy and nauseous.
Never saw him again until a couple days back at a supermarket. I freaked out and left the itens and flee from there.

No. 140829

>>140826
Omg anon. Seriously this. It's only Mexicans and 30+ yo black guys for me too, and also always calling at me when I walk past or when they drive by. "Hey beautiful" has invaded my life several times a week.
I haven't felt very threatened by anyone this year though, just uncomfortable before I manage to escape, so for that I'm grateful.

Anyone that is decent doesn't do catcalls, so if they like me they either like me from afar or I freak out and run away/get awkward when they approach me/have someone else approach me (usually moms coming up asking how old I am and being like, "hey… Do you have a bf? Alex here thinks you're cute." Lol)

No. 140830

>>140829
Jfc, anon… you have dudes' MOMS approaching you for them? How old are you? Better yet, how old are THEY? That's weird af

No. 140831

>>140830
I just turned 24. I work at concerts so families hanging out together is not uncommon, hence the moms coming over and trying to set me up. There's been a couple dads as well. No idea on all of their ages though, I would guess 19-25 for them.

No. 140832

Oh I just remembered something that happened about two months ago
>on train
>guy hops on two stops before I get off
>sits extremely close to me
>car is kinda full, but not THAT full to be so close
>he starts singing some song very loudly
>keeps hitting my legs with his legs
>'dances' in his seat while singing, keeps touching me with his body
>gets really into his song, other people in car stare at him
>I'm thinking he's probably on drugs or something
>my stop
>I get up to leave
>"No, pretty white girl!! Come back!"
>door closes
thank god

No. 140833

I have a story

>meet guy on /soc/ (i know, sorry. but it's so rare to find people from my country online)

>skype for a while
>talk animu and mango mostly. guy seems pretty cool
>start talking more often, conversations getting a bit more personal. guy's a lonely nerd, nothing new here, so am I, moving on…
>suddenly le "i love you, i've been waiting for you all my life"
>guy barely knows me. been talking for less than a month. only saw my face through 2 shitty pics.
>kindly explain that we barely know each other and i already like another guy
>says he's cool with it and apparently moves on

Suddenly

>"hey anon i'm going to buy train tickets to your city"

>"something tells me i'll be buying them more frequently now teehee"
>"are you going to that convention in your city? I'll be totally going to that convention in your city"
>insert several awkward sexual inuendos here
>doesn't stop with the "i love you"s even though we barely know each other.

Eventually the guy I was crushing on became my boyfriend and I told /soc/ dude
>life is suffering
>i'm going to an hero
>girls are mean
>if i'm not here it's because i killed myself
>and i also have terminal lung cancer k?

He stopped talking to me and I felt really bad about the lung cancer thing for a while but now I know it's probably bullshit. He also deleted my skype contact shortly after kek.
So image board guy friends: never again.

No. 140834

>>140832
>no pretty white girl!
Dear god

No. 140835

Oh fuck, where do i even begin… Ever since i became an adult guys (25-30yo) started to act weird and creepy, this shit never happened in my teen years.

>play DnD with 6-7 guys on weekends

>DM starts jokingly patting me on my shoulder from time to time
>Does similar "hover-hand" level of physical interraction with me all the time
>Has literally asked to give me massage on several occasions
>No bueno
He's calmed down with that stuff now though.

>other guy from RP group starts using the exact same tactic

>awkward physical contact
>is now constantly trying to "go out" with me via Skype
>tries asking me out for dinner
>tries asking me out for beer/drinks
>not being 100% clear about wether or not he's actually flirting or just being friendly
>mfw how the fuck do i handle this
Take a fucking hint, i'm clearly not being interested. And if i outright tell him to stop flirting he might deny he's doing it. I hate these impossible situations.

>went to party yesterday with old highschool friend

>he's been lowkey flirting with me in the same way as before mentioned
>at his appartment with girl friend of mine
>he shows his phone screen to me
>"I wanna see more of u"
>"U r looking so fine tonight"
>ew stop
>he keeps doing it throughout the evening
>i'm sick of this, i'm gonna be a cold bitch
>"No. Not interested. Stop."
>no reaction

Just fuck off if i haven't reciprocated your weird flirting tactics, is it that hard to understand when a girl isn't interested? I'm not gonna magically turn around one day for no reason. And if i'm looking for a long term boyfriend i sure as hell won't get together with him through superficial sexting or some other childish crap. Ffs i'm not 14 anymore.

No. 140836

>>140833
>So image board guy friends: never again.

Fucking this.

Every goddamn weirdo from some imageboard i had the displeasure of talking to its been a trip. Lucky I usually can't stand conversations with them over too long before the red flags start and I end up blocking them.

No. 140837

>>140823
This post just made me realize why robots get so upset about girls they're "friends" with that become distant when they bring up having a boyfriend.

No. 140838

>>140825
Yep, and they always get so fucking mad when you don't want to hug or touch them. This creeper I had mutual friends with literally always wanted to hug me or touch me and when I finally put my foot down and said "Yeah, no!" he got pretty butthurt. He tried to dissuade me from this by (in his whiny voice) asking me "but whyyyyy? :(" Motherfucker because I don't want to touch you? He didn't do this to his guy friends ever btw. Just me! I should have felt so ~special.

No. 140839

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>>140835
>constantly trying to "go out" with me via Skype
>U r looking so fine tonight
christ

No. 140840

>Get complimented by awkward guy from convention over fb
>don't really know how to respond
>"haha thanks you too!"
>"i-i didnt know you liked me like that, a-anon-chan"
>wat.jpg
>try to articulate as nicely as possible i didn't realise he was flirting and wasn't at all reciprocating it
>bit awkward
>he asks me out on a date anyways within one conversation
>nothanks
>find out from overweight then-underage friend he has a feeder fetish
>guy is 25 and flirting with a 17 y/o and asking for pics of her eating

he still messages me every once in a while and i don't want to block him because i feel like he's one of those people who'll ask around about "what happened to anon's facebook?" if i do.

No. 140841

I am starting to think I am asexual (not for certain though).

I have to deal with creepers all the time everywhere I go online or in real life. and it's gotten to the point where I'm just not interested in men or any kind of relationship at all. I just want to be left alone right now. I don't desire a relationship and it's hard for a lot of people to believe for some reason. I just want to play games all day and be alone lol. My coworkers at my new job basically made fun of me for it, but that's another story..

I am 18 and I have a younger appearance and I always thought that would scare people away from trying to hit on me or anything because I look like I'm too young for that kind of thing….

nope. Usually I am hit on by older men (30-40) which really freaks me out. I even deleted all my social media because I would constantly get comments from all kinds of guys asking to meet me in real life telling me I am sexy and stuff. That's inappropriate imo.

I thought this one guy just wanted to be my friend. Started messaging back and fourth for a bit. Nope turns out he's head over heels fallen in love with me, a girl he's never seen face to face. He told me I am perfect and that I am the only girl he wants. The creepy part is that I've told him before I am not interested but he continues to tell me I'm "hot", "sexy" stuff like that knowing that I don't like him like he likes me. He also tries to shame me for not liking him back sometimes which annoys the hell out of me. He made a post directed toward me on instagram a couple of times trying to make me feel bad for not being attracted to him which freaked me out. You shouldn't have to feel bad for not liking no someone back. I really enjoyed talking to him as a friend. Shame I'll have to cut him off.

No. 140842

>>140841
Not that I approve of this kind of behavior, but these people often don't have an alternative. They don't have enough tact to be able to tell when someone is not interested, or they convince themselves that the woman is just playing hard to get - which is still a thing, it's not uncommon to see women advising other women to play hard to get, because guys apparently lose interest if they don't have to chase them. The biggest problem of them all is that acting like that even pays off. I had a friend in high school that was constantly making an ass of himself by giving cheesy retarded compliments to girls that were not in the least interested and I suspect that he had no idea how bad his shit was, but eventually (after HS) he still managed to get a girlfriend.

No. 140843

>Be homosexfag
>Be up front with guys that aren't weird
>Guys that are weird generally try to take me places
>never say they're trying to make it a date
>Usually lunch because they're boring
>Talk about girlfriend
>Tell them they'll make such a good friend
>???
>Profit!

No. 140845

>>140844
Not that anon but it sounds like they want free shit.

No. 140846


No. 140848

>>140847
Because that's manipulative and dishonest.

If they still wanna take you out on a date when you've already told them you're disinterested that's their problem.

No. 140849

>>140848
I did this to someone when I was 18 but because back then I didn't know how to reject someone. He would buy me things and do favors for me and he got jealous when I talked to other guys, despite not being in a relationship with him at any point. He had a huge crush on me and I didn't feel the same way. I didn't know how to tell him that I wasn't interested, so I gave him the "I'm not looking for a relationship" excuse and he just took that as "she's going to wait for me" which is not the message I was trying to project and he said he was never going to stop trying to get me (ugh). Eventually I decided that it was enough and told him straight up "I do not see you and I in a relationship any time in the future" and he was heartbroken. I guess it was my fault for not having the guts to tell him until later. He called me the "girl of his dreams" and as bad as I feel, its not my fault I didn't like him back and I wasn't going to force it for his happiness.

His cousin verbally abused me after that, so that was classy.

No. 140850

>>140843
Whenever I tell people I'm gay, that doesn't seem to stop them at all. They go on about how they can be really good friends with me, that they love funny girls – it's in a way where you can really tell they think they can ~turn you~ back to men. I've had guys proceed to ask me if they can watch me and my girlfriend, if I'm the top (???), etc. There are just some creeps who never want to stop.

No. 140851

I once did a summer program in Korea.

>Guys approach me every now and then but it's easy to turn them away, language barrier

>Walking home in the dark one time, live in a really safe campus area where I feel comfortable doing so
>Guy approaches me and kinda blocks my path, asking me if I have a band-aid
>I already know what's coming, continue telling him to stop and try to move around him but he keeps blocking my path
>Eventually, I say no and he does the whole "scrapped my knee falling for you" thing in bad English, at which point I walk away again
>Grabs both my wrists suddenly and tells me not to go anywhere
>HOLY SHIT he's going to try to assault me
>Terrified, yank my wrists free and tell him to leave me alone
>He tries to block my path again but I push him off, obviously very upset now
>Tells me to chill out and lets go, tells me to fuck off in that bad English again

Luckily, I was only a few steps from a crowded bar area so it would have been easy to get away/yell but that's probably the first time a dude has ever touched me in a way where I thought "yeah my ass is getting assaulted".

Also, back in high school, I was a co-president for the anime club, which brought a whole group of fun people.

>One guy, comes from our opposite high school to participate in our anime club

>Very socially awkward, dead pan guy who thinks the stuff he says is edgy and dark humor but absolutely fails the landing
>Takes a welding class at our local community college, never shuts up about sheet metal
>Reluctantly agree to drive him home with a friend of mine after he says his parents can't pick him up
>"Anon, I only live 5 mins from here!"
>In the back of the car, starts talking about welding and sheet metal, claims he can make us an aluminum Inuyasha sword if we pay him $15,000
>okay
>Starts showing off the welding tools that he keeps in his backpack, including a hand torch
>Tell him to cut that shit out, don't start up a hand torch in my car, it's literally a giant hunk of metal and gasoline
>Ten seconds later, hear the fucking hand torch starting up
>What the fuck did I just say???
>Turns out he lives a good 20 minutes away, tell him that I'm not driving him anymore because it's too far and in the opposite direction of my house
>Glares at me, tells me that it's fine, he'll just walk home five miles in the snow every day
>Okay, you do that
>Comes in for the next meeting, tries to step behind the teacher's desk
>Teacher who sponsors the club has strict rules that only the presidents can go back there
>We tell him to back off and that he can't be here
>He asks what we're going to do about it, says that if we hurt him, it won't do anything because it won't be worse than what his father does to him every day
>Obvious he's trying to lie to get our respect and sympathy but we can't hold back the laughter
>Tell our teacher, he says not to worry and that he's going to email the other high school
>His email address has the words "sheet metal" in it

That dude had many other fun stories but that was the most notable one. He always had a "it can't be worse than what my father does to me" line locked and loaded for almost everything. Probably still out there crafting Inuyasha swords out of aluminum.

No. 140852

When I started high school I was quite naive and honestly stupid. I went to private school my whole life and then entered a large public high school. I was kind of cute I guess, so this led to plenty of upper classmen taking interest in me, as well as kids in my own grade.

There was this one fat, ugly, little fucking annoying jerk who was exactly the type you're thinking of. Real cringe, "where's my hug?", thinks they're an anime character. he would creep on me and all my girl friends. He was a real fucking idiot and never stopped loudly discussing ignorant things (made fun of trans girls a lot, watched hentai in class, always thought he was the shit)


One day I got sick of his shit when he tried to pull that "where's my hug shit", and I just yelled "I'm not your fucking friend." He did that thing where he stopped and looked around and acted like I was behaving like a crazy bitch. People were staring, but everyone was aware of how awful this kid was so I just continued to rip into him and tell him to leave me the fuck alone and don't come near me or touch me. I was glad I had a crowd because he never bothered me again after that.

No. 140853

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I had a really scary one over winter. I was working late or something, so walking home in the dark to my empty place.
>Be me, walking uphill to my my apartment block
>Guy is walking uphill far ahead of of me, nothing strange
>Reach door and start rummaging in my bag for keys
>Suddenly, "Do you need some light?", guy is by my side back down the hill and trying to turn his phone torch on
>Decline but think nothing of it, probably a neighbour
>Absentmindedly respond to his polite small talk as I find keys
>Except now he's blocking my path to the door
>"Truth is, I'm not doing well" he says, or something. I'm internally eyerolling already.
>Goes on about how his girlfriend of 3 years has left him
>I politely try to suggest there's more fish in the sea and so he should go drink at x Bar and have a fun night out (my apartment block is just around the corner from lots of bars etc, he had mentioned something about how she never wanted to go out drinking or something and I was trying to get him to leave)
>"Do you want to come to x Bar?". Politely decline, tell him to go have a nice night, I need to go to bed etc.
>He apologises for being forward, that being with his ex for so long has made him 'rusty', and then
>"She dumped me because…. I'm a sex maniac".
>I blurt out that it's fine for him to be him, but telling that to women on dark roads is not going to help him get a new gf or any friends
>It finally dawns on me that I'm in a dark road with a self-proclaimed sex maniac blocking my door and all I have is keys and sass
>Can't decide whether to run away or rush at the door, screaming probably won't help
>After saying goodnight a few more times again, tell him to please leave me alone (I don't know why I kept being polite)
>rush at the door, keys aiming for lock
>Ohgodhe'sgotme.png
>All he does is kiss my cheek before I've squirmed away and opened the door and closed it
>Wave stupidly and politely through the door window as he does because I'm a fucking retard

Coincidentally my mother phoned me just after and persuaded me to put in a report to the police in case he tried the same on another girl or was still lurking outside. The police actually showed up and I felt stupid reporting something so small, that I had been way too polite the whole time to him, and was really embarrassed to find I couldn't even describe the man because he was so generic. But I'm glad I did contact them, just in case he tried it again.

>>140841
Honestly I'm confused how you're just that much of a creeper magnet so soon, did you try setting your facebook to private before deleting? But if it keeps happening you should just start submitting stuff to byefelipe pic related

>>140851
>Email address
Best

No. 140854

File: 1472436262884.jpg (104.12 KB, 720x1280, HxbMIH.jpg)

Saw this on my nf recently

No. 140855

>Playing Pokémon Go at the shopping center
>Being Team Valor
>Guy walks up to me and invites me to go past some Pokéstops together with other valor players, most were 12 year old kids
>Me just walking with the group, not really waiting up on him
>He's acting as if I was abandoning him, while I've only met him a few minutes ago
>He keeps asking if I'll come back in the evening
>He keeps talking about picking me up with his car, while I barely know him
>All of the sudden he holds his phone in my face, asking for my number
>I mention being taken
>I somehow got away
>Then he contacted me somehow, and got all angry that I rejected him, because he approached me so I owed him something according to him.
>I block him and he keeps popping up in other places, whining about how lonely he is.

No. 140856

This thread is making me realize how naive I've been lately and it's giving me a wake up call of sorts. Thanks for sharing all your stories anons, I really appreciate it.

No. 140857

OT but my friend's name is Derek and he looks like the guy in the little profile picture but with longer hair. Yikes.

No. 140858

>>140853
Shit, this is close to my story! It was last winter, it was super dark, I was pausing at my local corner shop to get something and this guy followed me home and kept trying to small talk me again and again despite me being kinda just…cold? But polite.

He literally blocked my way into my apartment after following me home and wouldn't let me go despite saying a few times I have a boyfriend and aren't interested in going for drinks with him. He kept saying 'He doesn't have to know. It'll only be drinks. I don't see a ring on your finger, he don't own you.'

He was a huge black guy with gold teeth, too. Pretty intimidating to me and looming in the doorway blocking it. I put in a fake number in his phone and kinda just bolted into my building but god, I couldn't sleep right after that for weeks because I was worried he would come back to my flat and be angry I gave him the wrong number. I called my bf and my mom and my best friend that night lol.

No. 140859

any other blonde girls out there notice there's a certain type of creeper who seems to obsess over our hair colour? because when i went from brown to blonde, wow did the freaks come out full force
(probably thanks to all the slutty blonde stereotypes they've taken as real.) it was super weird experience.

No. 140860

This thread is triggering tf out of me tbh.

>>140859
I had the opposite issue actually. When I was waitressing we had this creepy autist cook that everyone told me to stay away from. When I went from blonde to dark brunette this fuck would not leave me alone. He would follow me around every time I went to the kitchen going "wow…that color really brings out your eyes…you look so beautiful and sexy I can't believe it…Beautiful….." Just so fucking weird. He eventually got fired.

No. 140861

>>140859
When my hair was red I noticed there are definitely some creepers who are drawn to that. Do guys in general place too much importance on hair color, meaning that they are projecting personality traits because of that?

No. 140862

>>140858
That sounds pretty awful, I'm glad he let you leave after you put in a number.


>>140861
Red definitely brings out the weirdos, some guys see redheads as nerdy, precious and 'natural'. Blonde is supposedly feminine/slutty and dark is supposedly mysterious/smart etc.

Before coloured hair was maintstream it was a real draw for creepers. Once a guy followed me around a whole supermarket until he finally said something to me about it, I blame the stereotype of colourful hair as a 'she's kinky' thing, but it could just be that anything which makes you stand out will always draw some attention.

No. 140863

>>140797
I had a girl who "pep talked" me, it only gave me the impression that she liked me, when she got a boyfriend I just told myself I'd be there when she'd break up, when she told me that she started sending me messages because I looked lonely I thought that she found something in me, I only stopped when I went to her birthday party (I hate that stuff and expected to dislike it, but she asked me to come) and realized how ridiculous it all was.
How hard is it to just make it clear that you don't have an interest in us, we disgust you even, he'll stop messaging you in an instant.(no boys allowed)

No. 140864

Highschool was a whole lot like this.
I regret ever telling anyone I enjoyed watching anime.

>>140859
I have naturally blond hair, but used to dye it fire red. I was too way nice and patient, and it attracted wierdos like moths to a flame.

No. 140865

>>140855
I never quite understand guys who tell girls how lonely they are, like YES, THIS IS IT. THAT'S HOW YOU DRAW SOMEONE'S INTEREST.

No. 140866

File: 1472672481579.jpg (82.51 KB, 1166x668, Cp9TKeSVIAIW9yy.jpg)

Shitty summary, sorry
>Be me
>be in class working on laptop
>guy comes up to me
>he was one of those guys in my class nobody liked nor did they talk to him
>starts to say creepy, sexual things at me, tbh he pretty much blantantly asked if I could fuck him
>kept making excuses to get him to back off, telling him that I'm lesbian (which I am) and saying I have a GF
>as soon as I said that he insisted we could have a threesome
>tfw terrified
>ignore him
>eventually goes away

Honestly, I was even surprised this happened. I didn't even know this guy, nor was I popular or attractive. Wacky shit.

No. 140867

Back when I was in high school there was this boy who had this intense crush on me for two years. The school had breakfast in the mornings and if you didn't want it you just went and sat there till the bell rang for class because it was required of us to do for some reason. This is what happened:

>Junior year of high school, sit at breakfast with my sister.

>Boy comes by and asks if he can sit down, we think nothing of it and say yes.
>His face has no emotion in it and he talks really monotone.
>He asks if he can be my friend and not sure what to say I leave cause the bell sounded.
>The rest of the year he starts giving me traced pictures of dinosaurs or pokemon because he thought I liked them.
>Stares really hard at me everytime he sees me.

>Senior year: He sees me going up some stairs one day

>Stops me to talk, no big deal.
>Next day he's waiting by the stairs again, gives me more pictures and just stares at me until I say I like them
>This continues and he starts giving my sister pictures to give to me when I can't be found. She feels something is off about him.
>He asks me to prom eventually and I politely reject him. Again, just more constant staring
>Skip to the last weeks leading to graduation and he's following me during rehearsals.
>Gives me his address and contact info randomly
>Constantly asks me out, I reject him and move away each time
>I pass him in the hall and he tries to grab my hand and pull me off somewhere.
>I pull away and walk off as fast as I can

After that he starts damn near breathing down my neck and following any and everywhere constantly. When I sat down with other seniors and staff members to discuss graduation he circled the table I was at watching me until it was time to start discussion. I stuck close to a friend who knew he was being creepy/stalkerish so I didn't have to be by myself with him. I stayed with her right up till we walked for graduation and I'm glad I haven't seen him since.

I should have probably said something to school staff about the guy but at least it's done with. You live and learn.

No. 140868

>>140867
>He asks me to prom eventually and I politely reject him.

I held my breath expecting you to get stabbed.

No. 140869

>>140859
This has happened to me in full force since 10 years ago when I started dying my hair black.

No. 140870

this wasn't too bad but it was definitely a really fucking weird experience with just being decent to people in a mmo.

>play ffxiv and become friends with people in the guild i'm in

>we talk over teamspeak
>there's this one kid who is super shy and sort of clingy to people in the guild who are nice to him but he seems innocent enough
>get bored of ffxiv and tell guild i'm unsubbing for a while
>get a message from this guy asking if he can have my psn info and i say sure and give it to him
>he adds me and starts fucking messaging me ALL the time when i'm on
>start getting annoyed and i stop responding a few weeks later and then he starts sending the ":((( i'm so sorry for annoying you!!!" messages
>eventually block him because he keeps still sending messages even though i haven't responded in a week or so
>he starts asking a mutual friend from the ffxiv guild if he can get into contact with me
>friend tells this guy to leave me alone
>month or so of silence
>suddenly have this guy trying to add me on facebook where we had no mutual friends, skype, line messenger when he only knew my nickname and "accidentally" messages me
>block him on everything
>eventually he tries adding me on skype again but then there's silence for a year
>i resub to ffxiv eventually and log in and he coincidentally logs in a few days later
>he leaves the guild because "no one there likes him any more"

No. 140871

>>140862
Coloured hair is still very much a draw for even normal guys. They all just see girls with dyed hair as slutty and mental therefore easy. I was never hit on until I dyed my hair. Luckily I was old enough to discern they were just wanting to fuck.

also somehow added a bunch of guys from r9k on kik recently. (curiosity for their mindset) All but one started out being abusive to me and now a couple of days later I have many "pls respond" and "qt femanon" messages.

it's too much. All I did was be slightly nice to them.

No. 140872

>be 14
>tagged in some shitty anime picture on fb
>creeper guy who is also tagged adds me on fb as a result
>"u are the most beautiful girl ive ever met"
>this goes on for a month or two with little replies from me
>"hey anon i wrote a song about u, check out this link"
>eventually writes 4 songs and they're still all on youtube now
>blocks creeper
>creeper writes a breakup song about "us"

sometimes when I want to have a chuckle at something I will listen to those god awful songs he thought were appropriate to write and post online

No. 140873

>>140872
>not sharing those songs
You naughty tease, anon

No. 140874

>>140868
I might've gotten stabbed had I not pulled away and ran off when he tried to drag me off somewhere. Who knows lol.

>>140872
You would think that after you replied very little after a month he would've quit. What did you say when you replied to him? Also, if those songs are real I wanna see him. Sounds like some entertainment for a little bit.

No. 140875

>>140872
lets hear those songs anon

No. 140876

>>140859
Yeah, I had blonde hair for a few years and suddenly got hit on/asked out a lot.

Went to dark brown (my natural color), nobody approaches me anymore, no interest. It's kind of aggravating how much preference men can have in hair color and how inadequate its made me feel throughout dating people. For example, my ex only dated redheads, then dated me by some fluke, then went back to redheads.

No. 140877

>>140873
>>140875
>>140874

Here's my personal favourite one

No. 140878

>>140877
hahaha oh man I'm so sorry, he sounds like that youtuber psychicpebbles

No. 140879

>>140877
Lol was he congested when he recorded that or is that just what he sounds like?

No. 140880

File: 1473295760905.jpg (34.95 KB, 319x349, image.jpg)

Anyone have problems with female creepers? I played vidya with a girl that got pretty fucking salty when I made it clear that I wasn't dtf and only wanted to be friends after already shooting her down once. Thankfully got away from that fucking trainwreck.I just wanted to play vidya gaems.

No. 140881

File: 1473296113992.png (95.66 KB, 226x320, BentleySly3.png)

>>140877
That is motherfucking Bentley from Sly Cooper singing about you.

No. 140882

I was friends with a guy who I'd enjoy eating lunch with sometimes. He was nice enough, super tall, long black hair and wore a parka in warm weather. He looked odd, but that was okay–I was an awkward shy person and he seemed so pleasantly quirky to me. I had a tough time fitting in due to my interests and racial background. He was friendly enough to our classmates, nothing odd here. After talking in person during class breaks and afterwards we began talking online about things like depression, we both had it. It was nice to have someone to talk about honestly about mental health. Then he started to post things that he liked–books and blogs. They were odd, things I had never heard of. Now this is my fault, because I didn't look at them and said that I would check them out later. I didn't, due to the massive amount of coursework I had in grad school. We liked a similar type of pc games and music, which we talked about. Then he started to say political things that weirded me out(I told him that I'm liberal, but open to libertarianism). I went back and read the blogs and books that he posted. This guy was a straight up white supremacist neo-nazi. How did I know for certain? He wrote to a fascist blogger and even donated to him, sending me the link specifically telling me that HE was the person who wrote to the guy. The books that he had linked me too were odd, but some of them were something that a normal conservative might read. Yet on that very page of the blog he sent me was a diatribe about how worthless to society certain groups were: my ethnic group was included. I immediately messaged him and asked him whether he agreed. He said "yes." I blocked him and we've never spoken again. Now I'm extraordinarily suspicious of self claimed libertarians and tall pale guys with long hair.

No. 140883

>>140882
Was he hot tho

No. 140884

Earlier I was walking down a main road in my city. I had crossed the street and about 10 seconds later this car pulls up alongside me and I turn to look. This guy says something I'm not 100% sure on, but assumed/sounded like it was "Do you need a ride?" I said no and turned back, kept on walking. I think he then said "are you sure" but I ignored it. He sat there for a few seconds then drove up about 50ft then at at the red light. It turned green, the cars in front of him drove off, but he was still sitting there for a good 10 seconds, then drove away.

About five minutes later, I cross another main street and into a gas station so I could cut through and back to the street I was just on. I didn't realize it until I was heading right towards him, but this same guy was sitting at an exit to the gas station lot but not actually leaving…just sitting there and now staring at me. I thought, a little odd, yes, but he was probably just getting gas. Nothing but a coincidence!

Well 20 minute later I'm still walking and guess who I see sitting, parked, in an empty lot down the street? This fucking guy. I pretended I didn't see him and took out my phone and started staring at it, fake laughing a bit, and start to up my speed. Out of the corner of my eye I can see him watching me as I walk past. At this point I'm like, great I sure wish I bought that pepper spray. When I got to the end of the block I saw him pass me on the street. Thankfully that was the last time I saw him.

No. 140885

>>140882
so what

No. 140886

>>140884
This is why I carry a taser when I go out to exercise now, this shit happens all the freaking time. You can never tell just how far it's going to go.

I try to go different routes / times, stick to safe areas, but I've had one creep in particular try to get me to stop and talk multiple times (I've got headphones on, I'm running… do you think I want to stop and get in your freaking car???).

Not that I think a taser magically makes me safe or something… but it's better than nothing. It's also loud as fuck so at least it can be a deterrent, too.

No. 140887

>>140886
Not the anon you replied to but (I assume you're American) you're so lucky it's legal where you live… In my country even pepper spray sales are really restricted and the active principle contained in the spray has to be "safe" (your aggressor won't get any permanent damage, not even a subtle one, even if you spray directly into his eyes for 20 seconds straight)

No. 140888

>>140887
That's unfortunate anon! Pepper spray causes pain and inflammation of the eye area but it's designed to disarm someone while leaving no permanent damage. The annoying guy who used to live across the street from me was required to be pepper sprayed as part of the orientation to become a security guard. I saw him about several hours after he was sprayed and his eyes were red and irritated but he was going to be alright lol. I have pepper spray and while I've never had to use it on anyone it helps me feel a little safer just knowing I have it with me.

No. 140889

File: 1473870820904.jpg (901.71 KB, 716x2965, ugly guys are sub human.jpg)

>>140789
this pic triggers the robits
but emphasis on ignoring the bait crammed into it aside how true is this for you girls

ignore the filename its a summary on what it says in the pic
I don't think like this

No. 140890

>>140889

whyd you post this again

No. 140891

>>140890
it's garbage bait and the anon who posted it is mentally retarded.

No. 140892

>>140821
this sounds like my worst case scenario nightmare with a guy I met on gaia when I was 14! I spent maybe two weeks talking to him and then panicked, but even when I told him my real age he kept fucking talking to me. when he finally left me alone he told me "when you're 18, you're mine" and I'm 19 now but even up until a year ago I'd get all panicked thinking I saw him on my block or something.

No. 140893

>>140882
now you'll never know if he was the one

No. 140894

>>140882
your post seems to have gotten a few /pol/tards here a little sensitive

No. 140895

File: 1474318594507.jpg (49.1 KB, 598x405, 1462035855452.jpg)

>walking home from store
>walking into my apartment complex
>some guy from his car yells "HEY I HAVE TO ASK YOU SOMETHING!"
>keep my distance, ask him what he wants
>"you work at (job) right?"
>tell him yes
>"oh you seemed cool i wanted to get to know you!"
>say no, tell him in a bad mood and i want to be left alone
>hear him stuttering from his car as i walk to my apartment
>he calls me a bitch as he drives off
>tfw this is the 4th guy to do this type of thing
I don't fucking get it. I have to be nice and "cool" to everyone at my job, yet these retarded dudes think it's personal? Fuck off

No. 140896

I think because of my combo of being fat + resting bitch face I haven't had many instances but I can remember two:

>Me in high school taking city bus home

>listening to music
>Decent-looking college-age dude sits next to me, asks something
>what
>"Who're you listening to?"
>Uhhh…. Walk the Moon?
>"oh wow I actually know those guys!" type of bullshit but I didn't question it as he keeps talking to me
>then an elderly man comes on, looking for a seat in the crowded bus, guy asks if the man wants his seat. Old man politely declines
>he turns back to me with a smile and whispers "I wouldn't have let him sit next to you anyway"
>Creeped the fuck out, can't remember if I keep talking to him
>Feel like I got off a few stops earlier just to get away from him

This one just happened a couple weeks ago
>I'm on campus hurriedly printing off my resume as I have a meeting to go to
>print copies, pack my shit up and leave
>didn't know the sign out thing on the computers doesn't really sign you out, anything you had still open will still be there
>That night I check my email, have one from me to me
>"Hey you left your email open on the computer so I logged you out. Don't worry I didn't look at any of your messages" signed with the guys name
>A second email from his own account with just the subject line "although I did skim through your resume. Very nice!"
>Late at night I think it's hilarious, but telling my friends later they all said it was creepy af.
>Email him the next day thanking him, and as a joke added "on a scale of 1-10 would you hire me"
>replies "I'd have to see it again but I'm predisposed to the number 11"
>why do men always twist simple jokes
>Tried to find the dude on facebook but couldn't find anything so I have no idea what he even looks like but he could probably find me easily which makes me question whether he legit was flirting or I was just overthinking it
>At the very least he has not tried contacting me from my phone number that was on my resume or anywhere else
>Still go to the same computer lab

No. 140897

>>140895
The same thing used to happen to me at my old job. I'd smile and greet the customer and even chat a little bit. Somehow a few of the guys thought that meant "omg she likes me i wanna date her". I'm just doing my job and when I politely turn them down they turn into huge dickheads out of nowhere. Some men just think a smile and a little small talk is equivalent to wanting to date I guess.

No. 140898

>First year politics class
>Friend of my weeby, harmless, D&D playing acquaintance I met at my dorm residence sits next to us
>Yeah, whatever. I'm glad I don't have to talk to weeb kind-of-friend and focus in class instead
>Guy is called John, wears paisley shirts, stone wash jeans and has a crew cut (I live in AUS, no one has crew cuts)
>Politics is full of know it all twats who think they have the perfect system worked out
>John is one of these
>I forget my pen and he lends me his one day
> The blood bond has now been set
>John now constantly stalks me around campus
>Walks me home from university
>I have a boyfriend and he knows this
>Oh I don't care, we're just friends
>Weirdo but whatever, I don't really care
>Everytime I wait for class to start he comes up to me and tells me I look sexy
>Asks me out
>Say I can't go because I'm going to my boyfriends house
>He says "OH GOOD FOR HIM, IM SO HAPPY FOR HIM," loudly and sarcastically while staring me down
>Start trying to avoid him but he always finds me no matter where I am in the lecture theatre and makes everyone move to sit next to me
>Brings a flip phone to class and takes photos of me for a laugh
>Freaked out by him at this point and ask him to delete them because I have no idea what he would do with them
>makes me his wallpaper instead
>Get angry and tell him to fuck off
>Laughs at me self conciously but doesn't delete them
>Tells me if I didn't want photos taken of me why did I have profile pictures on Facebook
>Creepy dead stare when he says this
>Logic.jpg
>Delete him and block him


I know this isn't a big deal but god it's my first experience with guys since I finished girls only high school and it's terrifying

No. 140899

>>140898
Christ what a creep.

I honestly wonder what these idiots are thinking, do they think acting like a jerk will work in some way or is it something so basic like them just wanting any sort of attention like a stupid child? I really don't get it.

Only creeper story I have is some moron who kept calling my phone and insisting that I was some other girl (I'm guessing she gave him a fake number and I just had the bad luck of being that number). He only spoke Spanish to me and didn't fuck off until I got my boyfriend to tell him off.

No. 140900

I had luck in my life that I hardly experience any kind of creepy behavior where I lived. During early undergrad years, I was a bit of a weeb and went for a 6 month exchange in Tokyo.
First month everything was nice, but then suddenly an influx of creepers happened. I am also lazy with my looks, I look plain and I dressed plainly too, mostly just a normal sweater, jeans and sneakers.

>Walking back to my dorm

>It's around 9 PM
>Suddenly some middle age dude appears
>He wants English lessons
>I am not interested in giving English lessons
>Pretend I can hardly speak English
>Or Japanese, or anything
>He still wants English lessons at his apartment like right now
>I tell him no
>He wants email address and phone number so he can contact me for English lessons (get a clue already)
>I just give him some bullshit mail that doesn't exist.
>He finally goes away

>Going back home with train

>Some guy sitting across me, I just noticed him because he had some kind of shiny neon colored sneakers.
>At one point, I have to transfer trains, he does too and enters the same train as I
>I get to my station, and he exits too
>I am getting suspicious now, I slowly walk pretending to be texting
>He is walking like right next to me as slowly as me.
>Enter convenience store, he is still following me
>Pretend to exit but he exits first and then turns around back to see where I am
>Finally muster up the courage to say "What do you want?" awkwardly.
>He just runs away.

>One day walking around Tokyo

>Get asked if I want to be a hair model (I hear that happens to a lot of foreigners in Tokyo)
>Get handed a business card for the place
>Check the place on internet, it's nearby, looks legit, has a lot of decent ratings
>I need a haircut anyway so I just go for it.
>Get an appointment, go there.
>Only the guy hairdresser is there. He can speak English
>Everything goes decently at beginning, we just have some small talk while he does my hair.
>Suddenly he asks me for a date
>He didn't seem bad but I have a boyfriend back home and am kinda uninterested anyway.
>He starts giving me tons of compliments.
>I'm awkward like "haha..thanks", anyways the hair is done, he takes pictures of hair and I go back home.
>Suddenly start getting tons of mail from him
>Constantly asks me if I want to go to lunch or dinner or whatever.
>He finds my facebook through my mail
>I stop responding to his mails and dont accept his friend request
>He sends a looong mail about feelings and how cruel and bitch I am
>He starts adding my friends randomly on facebook
>I block him and tell anyone who asks me who that guy is to ignore him.

To be cont.

No. 140901

>>140900

2/2

>Around 10:30 PM on my Uni's campus, going back to my place

>That part of the campus has a lot of trees and bushes
>I am walking back on this long straight path, listening to music.
>Suddenly someone jumps from the bushes and hugs me from behind.
>My stupid retarded brain thinks that it's a friend trying to surprise me and I make a dumb grin.
>Suddenly I feel groping and creepy breathing on my neck
>I fucking finally realize what is going on
>I try to get out but he has a grip on my arms
>I start screaming as loud I can, squat down which surprises him and he loses his grip while I am kicking him in panic
>He runs away fast.

I reported it to my campus, idk if they got him but I never saw him again.

Anyways all these things happened in a span of 2 and half months. I never had problems with this shit where I live and had no idea how I was being a magnet to these creepers since I looked and dressed plain.
Then I read on the internet that creepers in Japan (and well everywhere) always target women who seem like easy prey. So then, every time I was alone going somewhere and feeling a bit insecure or scared, I would have frown on my face and carry myself like some angry guy (and I probably looked autistic) but I guess it worked and my remaining time in Japan was creeper-free.

No. 140902

>>140901

God that's so scary anon!

No. 140903

>be me in middle school
>had puppy love with this guy
>parents didn't like him so we broke it off
>pretended to "date" one of my friends to make me jealous
>tricked me into touching his dick on the bus
>eventually started following another girl around like he was a puppy
>went back to me after she basically told him to fuck off after about a year
>"Anon I need to tell you something!" Obviously ignored him
>him and his family moved out of state

Where is he now after we've graduated? Jail for armed robbery. Thank god his ass moved out of state and away from me.

No. 140905

>>140904
If this was the states she'd probably be murdered or worse, these things are hard to compare

No. 140906

>>140904
It seems like a safe country because apparently police simply choose to ignore a lot of crimes (and many more aren't reported), especially crimes of a sexual nature and/or those against foreigners.

No. 140907

>>140903
lol how do you get "tricked" into touching his dick

No. 140908

>>140907
He was in a seat in front of me and there's a space in between the seats on the sides of the bus. He told me to stick my hand through it because he wanted to give me something, so my dumb naive ass did it. This happened in 5th grade.

No. 140909

>>140905
If this was the states, she would have been able to carry weapons and pepper spray to protect and defend herself.

No. 140910

>>140882
a little bit late to answer but holy shit lucky you escaped one of these fucks. They are legit insane and meant to be avoid like the plague. All of those butthurt /pol/kiddies replying to you by the way. Guess this kind of people have become permanent lurkers at this rate.


I have experimented it several times casually talking to dudes I know online and/or irl and at the minimal chance or directly out of the blue they start pushing you their believes, interests, hobbies, political agendas and that kind of bullshit in general. Without being close or anything, I may have talked to them that day for the first time sometimes. It's always that kind of stuff that me, and probably any sane person wouldn't tell to a stranger and less expect said stranger to take them seriously. I simply don't get how the mind of these dudes work. And it happened so often to me lately I'm starting to believe it's normal for men to be that autistic.

No. 140911

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I just came back from the weirdest week of my life, so sit down 'cause this ain't gonna be short.
So… I've been talking with this guy for months over Facebook, he seemed very good looking from his fb photos, we have many hobbies in common, he sounded like the perfect guy and stuff. I do not usually meet people from social networks (I prefer meeting them irl because you see how the person is and don't build up expectations etc.), but this one time I made an exception, since we got along so well and I even found him handsome.
So he came here to visit me for a week. I was so excited. I waited for him at the local mall, after 10 minutes I recognize him.
He was different from the photos… and short. Like, really short. He told me he was short, but I didn't think he was that short. A 5'5" manlet. He also was dressed really bad, with large baggy pants that made his tiny legs seem even more tiny, large blouse and a beanie that covered his hair. He also wore huge glasses that made his eyes look gigantic and slightly cross-eyed. He looked like a cartoon, but I said who cares as long as it's just clothes, and we started walking together. I want to make it short: when I hugged him he stood there like a tree and barely moved, and didn't say anything (also, he smelled terrible). He was silent, walked behind me always with the hands in his pockets (bad sign. Seriously, when a guy walks with hands in pockets, run away). For this reason I thought he didn't like me, but here I was wrong. For this endless hour of walking together with me always trying to get him to talk and him being extremely awkward and proving himself as a super beta basically, he realized I was his perfect girlfriend, as he told me later via facebook messenger. Yes, because I got away as soon as I could, but he was really enthusiastic and he only talked later in the chat. He wasn't able to say anything in person, but was super talkative on fb. Splendid.
The next day I brought my friends in, just to make it less awkward. I really didn't want to see him again, but he booked the hotel for a week so I felt like giving him a second chance. Maybe he was just nervous, I said.
This time was worse: even though my friends were super friendly and nice to him, he still barely talked - and the rare times he spoke, it was super awkward. We entered the book store and there he tried to be humorous by mimicking a plane for absolutely no reason with his arms and mouth, "flying" from shelf to shelf and making everybody cringe hard. Also he stood by my side like a creep the whole time without having the guts to say anything. The whole time.
So, after coming back home and with my friends laughing their ass off, I decided to tell him we weren't going to date. There started the cringefest: "Nooo, give me another chance, you're the best girl I've ever met, I was just nervous because my ex girlfriend was a bitch, let's hang out together now? No? I'll wait for you at X place, the whole evening".
He did wait there knowing I wasn't going and catched a cold. The whole week I received his desperate and creepy messages about how we were meant to be and stuff, but I decided to let it go and ignore him after spilling the truth.
Never again. I was already against meeting people on fb, but now. Never. Again. I feel… physically drained. It's been really draining, he was so obsessive. Also, looking at the pics we took together, he does look good in pictures so it's not like he shoops or anything. He just looks good in pictures and awful irl. Also, now I know that if someone hasn't got pics of them smiling, there's a 99% chance that they have horrible teeth. That crooked smile, I won't forget it.

No. 140912

The worst creeper I had was a few years ago(I was 21, 25 now). We met through a mutual friend and we were pretty good friends honestly. We had a lot in common but at the time I wasn't looking for a relationship at all so I told him exactly that and he seemed to understand because he never brought it up again. Fast forward a year and life got pretty tough for me(lost a parent and my job at around the same time) and I was REALLY not looking for a relationship with all that happening. But anyway, my friends invite me to a convention since they thought I need some time away from home so I agree. I don't find out that he's rooming with us 'til we get there and that he's basically volunteered to share the bed with me. I've shared beds with friends plenty of times for cons and such but somehow this felt wrong, but I'm fucking shy as shit so I don't say anything. It's time for bed at this point but as I'm falling asleep, I feel his grubby hands trying to wrap their way around my waist and I feel his dick fucking throbbing on my lower back. Honest to fucking god. It felt fucking awful, especially since at that point in time, I hadn't been intimate with anyone in my fucking life. I shrug him off, but I spend the rest of the weekend pissed off and unable to tell anyone because, again, I'm fucking shy and don't really know how to bring it up to anyone. I stopped contacting him after that, and he said some pretty awful shit about me being a terrible friend to people but I don't really care. It was shitty because I trusted him and he tried me. lmfao I have a bunch of other stories but yeah, this one definitely stuck with me

No. 140913

Not mine, just a copy paste from Australia. It was posted to Facebook with an image of him but has been deleted because the guy had autism, still no excuse though.

"You're all freaking out about Clowns but women are made to feel unsafe every damn day.

Today when I was on Tram 57 heading into the city, I witnessed this guy creep on each of the three other young women who were on the tram with me.

This is how it went down.

I was sitting at the front and didn't notice you initially until I looked up and saw you waving your hand in front of the face of the young Asian woman you were sitting next to. She looked shocked, and when she didn't respond you stood up and leaned over her and demanded that you give her a "high five" and shoved your hand in front of her face again. She stared pointedly straight ahead and it was obvious that she was fucking scared with this random over-dominating man leaning over her demanding that she give you attention that you were never fucking entitled to.
I got up from my seat and sat next to her to put some space between her and this festering turd of a human being.
You noticed and sat down opposite me and leaned towards me and just stared at me. You didn't say anything at first. That look was enough to tell me that you wanted to put me in my fucking place.
I locked eyes with you and stood my ground.
I was fucking terrified and angry at the same time and quickly started trembling with what was probably supressed rage and nerves at the confrontation.

How dare you go out of your way to make women feel unsafe in a public area.

I stared you fucking down while praying that you wouldn't get fucking violent.
You mumbled something and it became apparant that you were tripping balls on something but I've had encounters before with people who are under the influence, and your behavior towards the women on the tram was nothing short of fucking predatory. That wasn't the drugs. That was you.
I steeled myself up and responded "You right mate?" in a tone that I hoped would imply I wouldn't tolerate your shit.
You looked away and spent the next few minutes standing across from us staring until the young Asian woman I was sitting next to got off and thanked me for sitting next to her.

I hoped that would be the fucking end but it wasn't.

You went and sat down next to the other young Asian woman and when she got up immediately and moved seats, you followed her.
You sat down across from her, legs sprayed across the seat in an attempt to invade as much as her personal space as you could while leaning towards her.
I watched you, and I watched her face mingle with disgust and also fear.
This was the second woman in the space of five minutes you had made feel unsafe.
She left the tram soon enough and it wasn't too long until you zoned in on the last young woman on the tram besides myself, sitting in a seat staring out the window.
You sat next to her, and you stared at her.
You stared at her for a good minute or two and you leaned forward making sure she could see that you were fucking staring at her.
Then you started moving towards her, taking up as much space as you could on the seat and squeezing next to her.
Her face and body language was the same as the two previous women.
You made her feel uncomfortable and unsafe, and you violated her personal space because you felt entitled to it.
When you put your elbow up on the back of the seat with your hand dangling dangerously close to her boob I stepped in and asked her if she wanted to come sit next to me.
She said yes, and moved without saying another word.

You then proceeded to take up the entire seat and glanced occasionally at me as I stood next to her seat. I was ready for a fucking fight by this stage.

Four women, including myself.
Four women in the space of 20 minutes you actively seeked out, disrespected and violated their personal space.
Four women who you seeked out to dominate and intimidate through body language.
Four women you made to feel unsafe in a public space.

When you realised that I took your photo you started yelling at me about what right I had to do that.
Well…WHAT FUCKING RIGHT DO YOU HAVE TO SEEK OUT AND INTIMIDATE WOMEN?!

IF YOU DON'T WANT UNWANTED ATTENTION THEN DON'T GIVE UNWANTED ATTENTION.

It is that fucking simple.

Some people argue that street harassment isn't a "real" problem. It fucking is.
No one should be made to feel intimidated or unwelcome in a public space but this is the reality that women face every damn fucking day and I'm sick of it.

Not only am I sick of the harassment, but I'm sick of a culture that remains silent on it.
I am sick of men and women seeing these everyday assaults and remaining silent.
When you remain silent you are letting these perpetrators know that they can get away with their actions.
You're contributing to a society that allows this behavior, that says it's okay for men to actively prey on women and treat them as sexual objects and not as human beings.
By staying silent you become part of the problem.

Men, women don't owe you squat.
You are not entitled to our attention.
You are not entitled to our bodies.
We don't owe you the time of day.

Saying that, this loser went out of his way to make women feel unsafe today and then complained when I gave him unwanted attention back.

So I'm asking you all to share this.
Share my message and make these low lives realise that this behavior will not be tolerated anymore, and make them feel what it's like to have unwanted attention.
When it comes to street harassment, I will be silent no more.
It's up to us to fucking support each other and stop harassment when we see it happening."

No. 140914

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Unfortunately I have plenty of stories from over the years, some are short, some are long, never really talked to people online so at least I never dealt with that crap.

Just to share one of my most recent ones
>get a new customer at work
>awkward, roughly twice my age, bald, unattractive, annoying but tries to be a charmer
>being the youngest girl there he zones in on me
>tries to make shitty jokes to try and be charming while showering me with compliments, all are terrible
>try to be professional while shooting him down
>'It's Friday, I'll bet you're going to the club tonight, you look like a party girl, I bet every guy buys you drinks.'
>wtf no I don't look like the party type at all
>'No, I'm going to dinner with my boyfriend tonight.'
>'O-oh that's cool.'
>Every time he comes in he wont go to the other girls, waits until I'm available
>Try to finish as fast as possible while he obnoxiously flirts and kisses my ass, I'm so smart, I'm beautiful, I'm so sweet, coming up with anything to try get me to like him
>Shoot everything down firmly
>Asks if I gamble, I say I never have, gets incredibly serious and says 'You go to Vegas with me this weekend, I'll get 5gs right now, you come to Vegas with me.'
>Just stare at him completely stunned and don't say anything until he leaves
>Last time he comes in it's really busy, so he did this in front of customers that know me very well
>"Anon, can I ask you something? Can I take you out to dinner?"
>Customers and co-workers stare
>Immediately say no, "Why?" I have a boyfriend "Yeah but you can have guy friends right? Your boyfriend can't stop you from being friends with people"
>Customers are either looking at him in disgust or hiding their laughter
>So embarrassed and angry my eyes mist up so now people think I'm crying and say no again
>He leaves and didn't come back
>Every customer starts talking to me about it

One time a guy tried to do the spontaneous, romantic, 'grab her face and kiss her hard' move from tv and movies, and slammed the back of my head against a car as a last ditch effort, shockingly it didn't win me over.
Another guy asked me to go outside at a party, dude always had a pathetic vibe to him so I thought he needed advice or help, instead gives me this bullshit 'I've been in love with you since the moment I met you, I can't sleep, I can't eat' speech he probably ripped off from tv, and when I turn him down he says he broke up with his girlfriend for me, but she didn't even exist.
Lastly, a mean old lady from work tried to get me to go on a date with her grandson and even when I said I had a boyfriend she kept telling me to give him a chance.

When I was in college whenever I would attract a neckbeard athiest type I would start talking about being a hardcore Christian, how I wanted Jesus to be a part of their life, and to go to church with me. It's pretty effective

No. 140915

>>140911
>saying his exgf was a bitch

Red alert, one of the biggest signs I was talking to a creep when I was dating.

No. 140916

>>140913
I heard that this guy was autistic? Although it didn't make sense to me since autistic people are bad in social situations, I've no idea why one would be running around trying to chat with people and give them "high fives".

Not that the source was to be trusted as he framed it as a "crazy feminazi attacking a poor defenseless man :("

No. 140917

>>140915
Yeah, and it was just so random, it didn't make any sense. "I was silent because my ex gf was a bitch" what's the link between the two things? Plus, when we chatted he precisely said that his breakups had been always peaceful and consensual.

No. 140918

>>140914
Anon are you a bank teller?

No. 140919

>>140916

You don't have to be autistic to be creepy or entitled. And even if he was it's no excuse to act like that. I know many autistic people and most act relatively normal and not like creeps

No. 140920

>>140916
autism differs a lot. My brother has it quite badly and while he is quite strange and bizarre in social situations, in his topics and such.he isn't uncomfortable. He seems to thrive on socialising.

No. 140921

>>140920
I've wondered if you can still be an extrovert or introvert as an autistic person.

>>140916
The media has really painted her in a bad light it's such bs, if you can't understand social norms you shouldn't be unsupervised in public, being disabled isn't a free pass.

No. 140922

>>140797
If they're suicidal, I tell them 2 things:

1. Things aren't always as bad as our minds make them out to be. Things might seem impossible now, but it CAN get better.

2. While I'm not qualified to answer all your questions (perhaps a therapist is, hinthint), you can at least blog at me and I'll read it. Spoiler: you don't have to read it, or respond to it beyond "Oh shit, that's so sad. Sorry to hear that bro-pai."

They don't have a right to drain your energy regularly, so it's important to make them stop. In my opinion, a person should make a sadfag stop crying to them as soon as humanly possible. The last sadfag I had to deal with, I gave him the talk per those 2 things I listed, and told him to fuck off. Surprisingly, he shaped up and stopped being a fag.

No. 140923

>>140798
>I know how you feel to the T. It's like I’m walking on eggshells every time I try to help him. I’m done being saddled with his depression and I’m done giving him pep talks when he refuses to listen to me. He even gets slightly argumentative with me when I try to give him advice. Fuck this. I don’t like him enough to deal with his crap when I have enough to deal with on my own.

Classic trap. Here's the thing: people like this have an infinite number of excuses to not fix their shit. Something is rewarding them (you, possibly) for them being in the state their in. They might even enjoy cashing in their depression for an excuse to use drugs and not do anything…which, of course, just compounds their depression.

Humans are idiots.

No. 140924

>>140896
Feeling you on the fat/bitch face combo. Though those guys seem pretty cute ngl. Maybe you had to be there.


Even though I'm a hambeast I've had some dude messaging me about how much he loves me interspersed with how much he wants to rape me. He's 30+, also a hambeast, thinks he's God's gift.

It got scary when he started calling me 20x a night but that's tailed off.
Messages go something like this:

>I want to tie you to my bed and rape your tight little asshole

>I think I love you
>Why won't you talk to me?

…rinse and repeat.

I'd block him but I'm pathetic and have no friends so it's pretty much the only human contact I have at the moment.

No. 140925

Boohoo it's the most attention any guy's gonna give you.

No. 140926

>>140925
Hi /r9k/, done jerking off to lolis for today?

No. 140927

I have too many stories from when I was in high school I'm still struggling with stuff from the first guy I ever dated.

I was turning 16 and he was I think around 19? That should have been my first sign. Second sign was he was part of the nerdy tech group in highschool and part of the smokers group. He also was into hacking and all that shit.

He was actually interested in my best friend at the time, but we ended up hanging out because each time he went looking for her in school he would run into me or I would see him in the tech-computer room where all the nerds hang out.

He would start calling me or texting me everyday talking to me about his problems. In school he would hug me and latch onto me and make all those disgustingly cute voices or whatever. And me being an idiot I thought this was a good thing.

I start hanging out at his house and it's clear his mother doesn't really approve of us because of the age, and I understood that to be honest. I was pretty clear with him at the time that I wouldn't be having sex with him and that I have had some stuff happen in the past that I'm still dealing with so stuff like that was off the table.

Whenever we were alone he would shut the door and kind of move me into a corner and try and make-out with me and I would push him away and make an excuse. While all this is happening I see on FB that he's going to raves and making out with chicks and stuff like that. He kept inviting me to raves and I told him no because I honestly was one of those innocent girls at that time. No drugs, alcohol, sex anything like that.

Basically because I was being a prude and had my wall up he ended up breaking up with me. His actual reasons where "my mom says you're too young so sorry I can't be with you". I'm also pretty sure that he was seeing my best friend at the time on the side as well.

That's not even where this story ends. A few years later he re-adds my on facebook and wants to talk. I agree to. This literally leads him to calling me multiple times a day, even when he's working to talk to me about HIS problems. I basically spent another few months being his therapist because he was in a rough spot. I end up spending some time at his place and once again he's acting strange. We're watching some old horror movie and he starts putting his arm around me, resting his head on me all that bullshit and I pull away. And he's all like "I have no idea why I did that I'm so sorry" I ended up leaving shortly after. The next phone call he asks me to sleep over at his place and I immediately decline. Next day he calls and tells me that he knows that I liked him (I actualy didn't at the time, I was just trying to be a friend) and that he was leading me on. Basically I told him to stop calling me and that it wouldn't have worked out anyways.

I think that if I offered to spend the night at his place he probably would have gotten me too drunk/high or whatever and made a move on me.

Fast forward a year or so and I'm my first year of college. I receive a call from the residence phone in my room at like 4am and I ask who this person is and he said to guess, and it 100% sounded like my ex so I thought it was. He goes on about how he got a girl drunk and raped her several times and that she's unconscious beside him and wants to know what to do. He goes into horrific detail about the rape as well. I freak the fuck out and tell him that she needs to go to the hospital and he has to turn himself in. Basically the call ends with it being a prank. I tell the asshole to never call me again. I also text my ex and tell him that what he did was disgusting and that I never want to hear from him again. He of course as no idea what's going on and I tell him to never contact me again and that I meant it.

At the time I thought that because he had knowledge of where I went to school, where I lived and all that stuff that he basically doxxed me and called my room phone to fuck me up because he knew I have had trauma with that shit in the past. He claims he doesn't, but the friends I've talked to say that it's 100% possible that he would do something like that.

Fast forward another few years and I have a get together with my old friends and the first things they say to me is that my ex has been bugging them and their siblings to find out where I was living and what my phone number is and all that stuff.

Now because of this whole fucking crazy thing I'm terrified of having any social media account and really not good at trusting people. If he ever contacts me again I am going to get a restraining order or whatever the fuck I can because this shit is too much for me. It got to the point where I was afraid to go outside and to go to places near his house because of running into him. I still have that fear to be honest.

Sorry for the wall of text and the rambling. It's hard to write all this shit down and kind of relive it in a way.

No. 140928

>>140924
You need help.
Please go get yourself help.

No. 140929

>>140921
Autistic people can still definitely be extroverts. If they're really bad off with the autism that's when you get into trouble.

No. 140930

>>39068
Get the fuck out, insufferable robot filth. You honestly think your opinions are valid here?
Hurrr durr being in a creepy relationship with an adult man who clearly has disturbing issues with boundaries sooo previleged

No. 140931

>>39067
>>39068
>Guy here
>Pay attention to meeeeee :[

No. 140932

>>39068
kill yourself lmao

No. 140933

>>140930
>>140931
>>140932
It's because of these responses /r9k/ will keep posting here. Shut up and report.

No. 140934

>>39079
Dude I'm actually happily married, that doesn't mean I want you on this board.

No. 140935

File: 1476279503290.png (376.68 KB, 594x422, mlady.png)

>>39079
>Hey chill out gals. I have a girlfriend already that I'm engaged to i'm one of you lolcows though. I've been here all the way since August. Just try and not sound so bitter then maybe you'll get a guy to like you one day.
We believe in you, we really do

No. 140936

>>140934
>Dude I'm actually happily married, that doesn't mean I want you on this board.
> I'm actually happily married
> happily married
> married

Get out Ringie

No. 140937

>>39079
I'm happily married as well and wishing a car hit you and made your whole body paralyzed so your wife started cheating on you but at same time never divorcing and you slowly rotting away doesn't mean I am bitter. It means I want you to fuck off and die.

No. 140938

>>39100
>>39096
>Website made for female robots

>they all have husbands and boyfriends


Lol why are women such a meme?

No. 140939

>>140938
But this isn't a site for female robots, it's a site to make fun of people who do stupid shit on the internet, and also talk to other people who enjoy making fun of people who do stupid shit on the internet.

It's telling you got drawn to the thread about creeps though.

No. 140940

>>140938
>lol everything is a MEME! xD
Circa 2015-16 newfag detected. Go back to leddit.

No. 140941

>>140938
People here usually despise robots. Are you new?

No. 140942

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>>140882
>im a liberal

Looks like he dodged a bullet there

No. 140943

File: 1477958159184.jpg (7.91 KB, 226x166, 1454272514654.jpg)

>get fired from job the minute i walk in
>walk back to bus stop in tears screaming to friend over phone about how bullshit the situation was
>hang up right when bus gets there
>get on bus to go back home and mope/job hunt
>guy comes up to my seat and points to the seat next to me, says "hey, can i sit here?"
>haven't been paying attention, think the bus is full or something
>there's literally empty seats everywhere
>make a noise equivalent to ??????????
>decide to not want to start something just say "whatever dude go for it"
>at first is all quiet, think he might just be retarded and didn't see the other seats somehow
>"what's your name?"
>stare at him for a few seconds, give him a fake name "paris"
>"nice to meet you paris"
>he suddenly shoves his arm in my face "i've had a hard life paris"
>he pulls up his sleeve and there's a huge ass scar indicating a suicide attempt
>tell him i'm sorry about that
>"have you been crying" i look him dead in the eyes and say no
>"are you sure?"
>pull out the smartass card and say "i've been listening to some really fucking emo music"
>"oh so you cut too?"
>i flip
>ask him what the fuck is wrong with him, tell him to leave me alone please
>rest of bus ride is quiet
>as i get off he says i'm beautiful and hands me his number
>i give him a smirk and rip it in half as i walk away
I acted like a total bitch but I was in the worst mood possible. Plus I feel like he deserved it for his cutter comment alone

No. 140944

>>140943
was he cute?

No. 140945

>>140943
Nah he deserved it, what a dickhead. Was he seriously trying to pick you up with a suicide attempt scar? What the fuck is that?

No. 140946

>>140943
the real question is, why'd you get fired the moment you walked in?

No. 140947

>>140916
Yeah, and they typically have trouble making eye contact, but all this dude did was stare hard.

No. 140948

>>140943
Holyshit, what a complete creep and loser. You did the right thing. Sorry you got fired from work, that shit sucks. It's worse when idiots try to hit on your using a suicide attempt (??)

No. 140949

>>140911
>bad sign. Seriously, when a guy walks with hands in pockets, run away)

why?

No. 140950

shame on you i never got creeped.

No. 140951

File: 1478569988415.jpg (24.97 KB, 500x511, 1447439994430.jpg)

You know what's fun? When the creeper is your boss.

>be me, 20 something, work at a marketing firm that sends you to music fests and similar things to work as a cashier/promo girl

>get sent to a pretty big music fest with a few people and my boss
>no hotel, but special staff camping area
>boss INSISTS on having his tent RIGHT next to mine
>I'm really shy so I don't think much of it since he's the only person I know
>first thing he does when we arrive before work is buy 2 25 pack's of beer, and two huge bottles of vodka along with coke, etc
>tells me "after work, we just drink and have fun! That's what we do here."
>first time working music fest, no idea if that's true, but he's been working here a long time so I assume he's not lying
>after work he pressures me INTENSELY to drink
>At this point I realize somethings' up and I drink maybe 2-3 cans
>he gets intensely annoyed I'm not drinking as heavily as him
>"you're not getting in the spirit of things!"
>second day buys MDMA from someone
>tries to get me to do it
>I pretend to do it and put the pill in the pocket
>say it doesn't work
>he's mega high
>tries to grind against me during one of the shows when we were both not working, I move away from him every time he tries
>by the 4th day he's gotten annoyed that I haven't gotten high/drunk much at all after work
>5th day tells me he's getting married soon and was hoping to fuck me before he has to 'take things seriously.'
>apologizes and says he knew I'd only fuck him (because he's ugly as fuck according to his words) if I was massively drunk/high (LOL, not even)
>internally screaming but say "I don't know why you thought that but w.e"
>want to tell HR, but I know they favor him, and simply just won't give me future contracts for causing 'drama'
>mfw I hear him telling other people I slept with him, and his hamplanet wife hates me because she thinks this

I'm glad I don't work there anymore, and I'm glad some of my coworkers saw what was going on and helped me both get another job. But jfc what a creep

No. 140952

Can someone tell me if I'm being a creep?

>Be obese socially awkward retard

>QT3.14 starts working in my team 8 months ago
>we hang out in breaks and stuff
>start doing things outside work from time to time
>fall in love which was inevitable because I'm a retard
She's like a 7/10 way out of my league btw

>Start losing weight

>start coming out from my fucking shell
>3 months ago
>want to confess my feelings because I switch departments
>expect to be rejected but still want to do it
>it goes as expected
>she gives me the "don't want anything serious right now, been in a long relationship" bs
>we still hang out
>2 weeks ago
>I lost about 80 pounds now btw
>We go out drinking and having fun with a few friends of hers
>I say "gotta catch my train in 30 minutes" at about 1:30 AM
>she tells me I can sleep at her place
>spill the fucking spaghetti and tell her I didn't have any romantic interaction in about 7 years
>Me being a retard, I think "she just wants to be a good friend"
>guess what
>she doesn't, we spend the night (didn't fuck but whatever, made out and what not)
>cuddle for 3 hours in the morning
>1 day later she tells me that she still doesn't want anything serious
>be emotionally crippled
>kinda freak out at her(not THAT bad, but still)
>We talk it out, and everything seems to be kinda ok
>we still chat and snap like before for about 1 week
>Now she ignores me
>completely cold shoulder
>Do not understand the world anymore


Am I being a creep? Should I drop her? At the moment we ignore each other, I'm honestly so fucking confused

No. 140953

>>140952
>Am I being a creep?
No.

>Should I drop her?

Yes. You're in love, so you don't see that she's actually just a bitch. Step back and get some clarity.

There's so many girls in the world that you don't ever need to make two passes at one. She tried you on like a pair of shoes so just stop wasting your time. The worst thing that can happen is that she does decide she wants something more and you end up losing 2-3 of your prime dating years to her.

If you have the will power to lose that much weight, you're eventually gonna be a good catch, if you aren't already. Why does she get two chances with you? It's wasteful. Do not pursue.

No. 140954

>>140953
The thing that's bothering me the most is the way things worked out. I never really believed that we would get together or anything. I was already prepared for her telling me about her new boyfriend or whatever. I was ready to get hurt but not in such a retarded way.

She was my motivation to improve myself (which I did), and I thought I'd have a good friend for a few years at least.

But now everything is just completely fucked. If I just went on that fucking train I would still happily be in the "friendzone"(I don't really believe in this term but whatever) and would've used my improved confidence to find some other qt eventually.



Okay gonna stop my sentimental bullshit now, sorry to bother you guys

No. 140955

>>140954
She is a shit friend and shit person and you're giving her way too much leeway to play with your heart. I'm glad you were motivated to lose weight, but thats all the good your'e going to get out of her

Nothing is fucked, man. You dodged a bullet. I get that you cant force yourself to be happy at the moment, but that Apple was full of worms so even if you are hungry, even if it looks tasty, Just. Don't.

Ghost her completely. She's shown you what she is, so believe her the first time before you get hurt worse. There is no reason to ever even talk to her again, not even politr greetings.

No. 140956

>>140955
>Politr
Polite

No. 140957

>>140955
I didn't only lose weight, I improved myself in all sorts of ways, and she really did help me.
But I know that you are right in general, it's just gonna be pretty hard without a motivation smh (god am I pathetic).

Will still do polite greetings though, otherwise that would just make me a drama queen

No. 140958

>>140952
She told you twice that she doesn't want anything serious. That means she's likely to keep you around when she has a need for a romantic or sexual boost and nothing more. If you want to actually date someone then she said in plain English the answer will not be her.

Give her up and look elsewhere if you want a nice relationship.

No. 140959

>>140958
It's not like I'm desperately looking for someone to date, I kinda slid into this whole situation.

Also the first time she told me didn't count because then I was way out of her league. But I understand where you're coming from and I know that you're right.

No. 140960

>>140949
Because it's like a neon light saying "I'm insecure as fuck and I just want to hide", especially if he does it all the time

No. 140961

>>140951
So he straight out told you that he was trying to rape you? Holy fuck.
Also, defamation is a felony in my area, I don't know about you. He was past the point of being simpy a "creep"
Sage for samefag

No. 140962

>>140955
>>140953

these posts really helped me btw, thanks anon(s)

No. 140963

>>140961
Yeah basically. And I'm unsure about defamation in canada. I'll have to look… Though I don't work for the company anymore, and don't speak to him. So I'm not sure if matters. I heard from someone else that he's gotten another girl really drunk and slept with her when she was completely blacked out, but I don't know the girl, just hearing it from others.

No. 180436

Not exactly creeps but I'm sick of workplace clients calling me sweetie or getting the wrong idea when I give them generic customer service levels of attention.
The men here must think I have a personality disorder because I work hard on being as cheerful and polite as possible, until one of them gets too weird and then I just treat him as coldly as possible because these men are idiots who can't take hints. I just want good feedback from my job, I don't need gross flirting from sad middle aged men.
I'm not even attractive and I think that makes it worse, because I'm "approachable" or whatever.

>>140963
Wow what a fucking creep. Since he's the boss nobody is going to stop him doing it again and again, and people rarely bother to get involved after they've left a job somewhere, especially if it means admitting to doing drugs or something. Depressing.

No. 180439

>hit puberty
>be around 12-13 years old
>get catcalled, hit on, harassed by a bunch of men
>this fucks me up and I develop an eating disorder
>mood changes entirely
>fast forward a few years, now no man on the street pays attention to me because I look like a grumpy ass bitch who hides her body

Not sure if feels good man since I have permanent social anxiety now and am conscious of dressing up in anything that shows off my curves. On the upside, I have a nice gf now and am slowly getting better.

No. 180441

I attract weebs and gamers. I wish I was kidding…

My one experience with a weeb and it was awful. I dated him for a month or two before I got unbelievably uncomfortable.

As soon as we start dating, taking it slow. He asks about sex. Okay. Fair… but I'm not ready to lose my virginity. Every chance he brings it up. Says he's a virgin too and that it'll be fine because he has no experience.
He starts telling me that he is schizophrenic… Okay…
He goes into bullshit stories and let's it slip that he isn't a virgin. I ask why he lied, he says "Oh I have multiple personality disorder. One of my alters must not be a virgin and I must have forgotten"

He starts doing this thing where he'd intake anime character personalities and experiences and say they were his own. He'd diagnose himself with disorders and stuff all the time.

I decide to distance myself and stop meeting in person until he gets annoyed with me not wanting to go into his room alone. Which he has this whole thing planned on how I'd lose my virginity too I may add.. He had rape fantasies.

Long story short. We break up, a few days later he found another gf who was identical to himself and who was obsessed with Tumblr.

No. 180442

Females are full of shit. The only time they bother paying any attention to anyone is when they're giving you money or to treat them like your personal punching bag. But you don't care about spending any sort of quality time with anyone unless it benefit so you, so you go on calling someone a creep all because they asked for two minutes of your fucking time other than giving you something that benefits in your favor. Fuck women. I hope you all get brutally abused for the shit you pull on people who try to give a shit.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 180452

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>>180442
lol cry moar, robot

No. 180455

>>180452

Nothing like using someone for everything and then leaving them when you get bored. That's how all women are. I hope you all get brutally raped and fucked over for life, cunts.(USER HAS BEEN PUT OUT TO PASTURE)

No. 180457

I knew a guy who wasn't a creep from the beginning i actually hit it off with him at first we have sex and grow closer and closer as our trust levels went up and our talks became more intimate he revealed more and more weird shit.

He ended up telling me he was into young girls (I was much younger then him) and fantasized about father/daughter scenarios where he was the dad…Yikes
Wants me to call him daddy and what not.

So i distance myself from him and he gets angry and asks me why. I tell him it's because his fetish weirds me out.

>"So you're an insecure bitch who would be jealous if i found our potential daughter a sexy little thing? It's the healthiest for a girl to have her first time with a man she can trust like her father (WTF?!) Omg whats wrong with women you're all such insecure jealous bitches"


He still sends me weird messages to this day and it's like he cannot imagine why i would not be interested in pursuing something serious with a guy who wants to fuck his own potential future daughter.

For as far as i know he hasn't done anything illegal yet but i have wondered if i need to report this shit and show these messages to the police or something.

No. 180460

I used to offer creeps friendship but it never worked and they were still stalking my social media. Nowadays I just tell them I'm gay and they back off.

No. 180462

>>180457
Samefagging

Have you tried blocking him from everything? Though this is hypocritical coming from me bc I still can't decide to block the creep (that I know) from my sm. Though he hasn't talked to me in awhile…

No. 180466

>>180442
>being this socially stunted that every interaction is a transaction
>further believing that if every interaction is a transaction, women should give you their time, for free, so you can try to pick them up

I'm not even a girl and you're retarded.

Can "creep" be applied to harmless but misguided men? Sure- but why would you take the risk of giving people benefit of the doubt?

No. 180479

>>180466

Creep basically means you're just ugly, you can't be creepy if you're good looking.

No. 180481

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No. 180487

>>180479
Oh trust me, you can. It just usually takes people a little bit longer to figure it out.

No. 180488

I'm reading this thread, and I feel kind of bad because I never get any attention. I'm always wondering if it's because I'm ugly or have RBF or something. I feel like I've had people like my ex tell me that I was attractive but maybe they were lying.

The most times people have catcalled me when I was in a black neighborhood in St Louis last year. It was really scary so I'm glad it doesn't happen to me very often, but I don't want to be ugly either. I've been a few places around the world, and the rest I never got any attention.

What is wrong with me?

No. 180501

>>180488
You are really lucky. Maybe you don't seem very approachable, I look pissed off (resting bitch face) all of the time, so no one ever talks to me. When I had guys be creepy it usually took them some time to reveal it.

No. 180504

>>180488
Look at the replies to >>140804 being creeped on is not the same as being complimented in any way. Creepers made you feel unsafe or degraded, it's not nice.

It's often about being approachable so your RBF might be helping you, you'll see lots of the posts in this thread are by people who say they aren't pretty.

No. 180520

There was this crackhead looking dude I would see around town when I was a senior in high school. He lived with his crackhead family in a house a couple streets down from my parents and I, their house looked rundown as fuck. I would see it sometimes when I walked my dog.

One time I had a dentist appt during a free period and decided to walk to it since it was nearby my school. I saw him walking behind me. I speedwalked to the dentist and was relieved when I got there.

A year later I'm working at a dollar store while going to college. Same dude rolls up to the cash register with his mom. They pull our their EBT card to pay. He tries to flirt with me in ebonics. I smile coldly and say I have a boyfriend. He says he would treat me better than him. He then says "you can just write yo numba on the receipt." I cringe inside so hard and just pretend I didn't hear him and said briskly, "thank you, have a nice day"

I don't think I ever saw him again thank God.

During my time at the dollar store, also had a short, middle aged, fat, greasy mexican try to pester me and flirt at my register while his WIFE shopped around the store. It repulsed me. She would always glare at me too when she finally came up with her cart. I'm like, I don't want his greasy ass, its my job to be act polite when he talks to me. I was 19 and perhaps I should have told my manager about that creepy fuck. But back then I assumed I had to tolerate that shit.

No. 180521

>>180504
>>180501

I don't feel like I look unapproachable. I've talked about it with friends, and I don't think I have resting bitch face actually.

It's not just about street harassment. I work at a board game/trading card store where 90% of the customers are males. You think I would be a magnet for guys there. Wrong.

I'm not fat, and I wear makeup most days. I also never wear just jeans and a t-shirt. So I don't know what's wrong with me.

No. 180524

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>streaming vidya on twitch
>keep in mind im nowhere near famous. had about 10 viewers.
>webcam slot is super tiny
>im fully dressed, no cleavage, nothin
>still get "show me your feet" comments, and some dude telling me he wants to spank the shit outta me.

No. 180526

>>180521
it's not a good thing lol
stop stressing

No. 180529

>>180457
>i have wondered if i need to report this shit and show these messages to the police or something
Hmm… I think you should. It's not like this is going to prevent him from having children in the future, but maybe it's something? I don't know how are the laws where you live, but they could keep an eye on him or something

>>180479
Sure, robot, keep telling yourself your personality is not the problem

>>180521
You should be happy of not getting creeped on while you mind your own business on the street. Don't think about it.

No. 180531

>>180479
I'll bite but myself and most women I know wouldn't agree.
I had this huge crush on a guy when I was 15. Saw him hanging out at a corner store near my house when I was buying some candy there. He gestures at me to come sit next to him. I barely ever talked to him before and just thought he was cute. After 5 minutes, he asked with a smirk if I wanted to make out. Getting vibes he doesn't really like me, just wants to try to get an easy lay since I'm just a shy, nerdy girl. I told him no and I went home. If a guy makes it clear he looks at you like you're a piece of meat and not a person, its just not attractive. For some girls, they may not care but I don't think it's the majority. Also depends on whether a girl just wants to have fun or wants someone to have a relationship with.

No. 180542

It's always foreigners that creep on me.
Me and my boyfriend were on vacation at a beach and we're chilling at a bar and start chatting up these two business dudes from Sweden.
>Starts off interesting, one of them lets me wear those flag scarfs
>No big dealio
>One that wasn't too good at English started talking to me
>Saying things like "is he your boyfriend? You so beautiful, I want to take you back to Sweden "
>Grabs me by my hips and tries to pull me away
>Boyfriend steps in and the Swedes leave.

Another incident involving an Indian Hotel clerk
Starts off weird, telling me I'm pretty whenever I go to the front desk for whatever, then one day he asks me if I can be his girlfriend for a night for free or if I knew other young girls to be with for free.

No. 180547

>>180526
>>180529

I'd rather be attractive and creeped on rather than ugly and not

Also I wish I got more attention at the store

No. 180548

How much longer are we going to have to put up with the grandpa creep on discord?

No. 180549

>>180547
It's not worth it at all. I'm terrified to go places alone because I don't want to be harassed. Not all attention is satisfying.

No. 180550

>>180547
As other anons have said, being harassed/creeped on doesn't mean you're attractive. And being attractive doesn't mean that you'll be creeped on.

>>180542
Never had any trouble with Northern Europeans but Indians and Pakistanis are the fucking WORST. They are under the impression that every Westerner who talks to them out of politeness or obligation is interested

No. 180552

>>180547
You don't have to be attractive to be harassed. Why are you acting like this is a good thing? You think being followed home is romantic or something? You wanna get groped too while you're at it? It's not just attention. It's not fun or flattering. Myself and other anons are afraid to be alone in public, and I wouldn't consider myself attractive or approachable. All I am is easily overpowered. It's about being an object to shit on or stalk or take advantage of.

You should be grateful that you live in a safe area where men behave themselves. A lot of women don't have that luxury. You sound like a robot. Shit, you might be one. Please reevaluate either way.

No. 180558

>>180550
YES!Pakis and Indians give me this, 'if we were alone I'd make multiple passes' vibe even if you make it known they're over the line. It's their culture or something, it's like they think all Westerners are sex objects. Sure they can't be all like that but over here in America they have no shame.

No. 180559

>>180552
If anon is for real and not a robot she may not realize how bad it can get if it's never happened to her. It's not just catcalling or innocent comments, it's legit getting stalked and harassed

No. 180560

>>180550
And samefag with northern Europeans, the two dudes I mention were completely plastered. Dudes when they're drunk are insufferable

No. 180561

>>180547
why would you even want that

No. 180576

File: 1486170797496.jpg (9.49 KB, 240x223, welcome.jpg)

is it just me or does that girl in OP's pic look like Nicole Dollanganger

In junior high some guys thought it would be funny to convince some literally mentally retarded autist from special ed that I loved him. For example this dude literally drew a picture titled "[my name] naked" and plastered it on the door of our art class. When I asked our art teacher to take it down, she basically shamed me for being "intolerant" and told me that he is free to express himself. I ended up ripping that shit off myself. Writing about this still makes my blood fucking boil, being bullied by all the guys in my grade and a retard and told to just bear it because "tolerance :^)".

No. 180582

I had a japanese penpal for a couple of years and we often chatted on skype. He wasn't that cute but seemed normal and studied abroad so his english was fairly decent too. We talked a lot and seemed to have a connection so when he decided to come visit me for a couple of days I agreed to show him the city and shit.

He came and we met at the train station at lunch time. After he got his stuff at the hostel and ate we got to visit the few city sights (museum, etc), everything normal. We also went to the mall so he could get a t-shirt he wanted and this was the first sign he was a creep because while he was undressing he wanted me to go with him inside the changing room but I thought it was a joke and didn't think much of it. So when the day ends I tell him I can't be with him the next day (something I had told before he came since I knew my schedule, I was at uni at the time) and he got disappointed but was like "okay we'll have dinner at night then".

The next day I went to have dinner with him and it was here where shit happened. When we finished eating he started putting his hand in my boob in the restaurant, and he actually put his hand inside my clothes to grab my boob. I was like "excuse me!" and was ready to storm off the place. At the time I was like 18 and had 0 experience with this shit, so I was fucking innocent and naive = dumb as fuck. So when he apologized and asked me to at least take him to the hostel so he wouldn't get lost I FUCKING AGREED (yes, I still want to slap that past me). As we were passing through this not really lit street with a few people and he suddenly grabs me from behind and I could feel his dick in my butt! I fucking stormed from there running and didn't even look back. Later he emailed me about how much I made him lose his time and his money. Never heard from him again.

No. 180583

>>180582
Woah dude, what an absolute dickwad of a person he was. 10 points for not getting killed, too. Creeper indeed.

No. 180588

>>180576
>When I asked our art teacher to take it down, she basically shamed me for being "intolerant" and told me that he is free to express himself.
Holy shit, anon, I'm enraged about this for you too. I am so surprised she didn't get seriously reprimanded over that, wow.

No. 180682

>>180558
>>180560
At least the Swedish dudes were plastered when they tried that on you guys. The gross Indian/Pakistani retards are completely sober when they try chatting you up. Has that worked on any woman ever? Westerners don't exactly find creepy Indian men with awful accents attractive.

No. 180684

IME creepy autists go for girls that they perceive as being somewhat "above" them but still obtainable. So if you're normal for the most part but have weird interests like animu, vidya, engie stuff, etc., they will hone in on you thinking you're okay with their autism.

No. 180694

>>180582
If he stopped after the first rejection then you could chalk it up to misunderstanding, but wow he sounds legit dangerous. I'm glad you got out of there safe anon.

No. 180713

Oh man, I had my own experience with a Pakistani. He seemed alright, then told me he loved me within a week or two. :/

No. 180716

>>180713
Sounds like he was looking for dat visa

No. 180763

>>180549
Let's be real, if it's really not worth it you'd make yourself uglier going out. As bad as being catcalled is it's still better than being ugly.

>>180552
>>180550
You don't have to be attractive, you just have to be not ugly.

No. 180770


No. 180782

Yes, yes and yes. I was abused as a child by a man of that sort of description. And it has led to me being very scared of men all my life. I think they pick up on this and see me as an easy target. At uni I had a very bad case of stalking going on with this one guy. My friends picked up on it eventually and got rid of him for me. I need to grow a spine. And with my first boyfriend he was a complete douche. Hid me from his parents and very nearly raped me but we were interuppted. All my experiences with men have just been with weirdos basically, until I was 20 and met my current bf. I've been with him for almost 3 years now and he is the opposite of all that. So caring and kind. I still get creepers all the time though, but I know thats not how I'm meant to be treated now. :)
That turned into a vent sorry lol

No. 180791

>>180770
How was any of what I've written even slightly /r9k/ fuckwit.

No. 180796

>>180791
Your broad-brush ignorance.

No. 181023

I haven't had anyone follow me home or anything, thank god. I did have a really weird and touchy man that his wife would bring him every so often. It was weird, because he would linger around my work room when he was cleaning.. It doesn't take 10 minutes to take out the trash, you know? I thought he was just meticulous, but I realize that he was probably hanging around just so he can talk to me.

During the last week of work, I was getting coffee and he comes up beside me and puts his arm around my waist! My friend said it best "If you were a guy, he wouldn't have done that". I just walked away and didn't say anything. Avoided the guy for a while. I didn't say anything though because I was leaving soon and I didn't want to make it awkward for my coworkers…

No. 181031

>>181023
>"If you were a guy, he wouldn't have done that"
The general creep-test for sure

A group of builders at work are being low-key creepy with the usual stuff like petnames and constantly staring at me for no reason. They keep making jokes about Valentines day or other things that they just wouldn't bring up if I was a guy or comment on my appearance, it's tame for tradesmen but I still shouldn't have to put up with it. Obviously it's not enough to directly call out but it's enough to make me uncomfortable for the whole day and makes me want to dress as dowdy as possible, so I'm not sure what to do without invoking the cliche sensitive woman trope.
At first I thought I would just directly call them patronising petnames like Diddums or whatever in return but that might encourage them so instead I'm trying to work up the nerve to say "My name is ___ so call me that" and hope that they get the message and back off with everything else. I don't even want them knowing my name though honestly, but it's better than petnames.

No. 181047

I know this probably goes against the rules but I'll tell my story.

I had a best friend (well my only friend but meh) and they started going out with this girl. They were always together and we got along really well. In fact I thought she was quite attractive.

After about a year she was on chat by herself and asked me if I thought she was attractive and I said yes she was. And from then on over the next few months she'd talk to me alot and ask for more compliments. She would go swimming in the pool, come back to dry off, then sit down on the chair directly across from me and gradually spread her legs wider and wider, until bush started sprouting from the sides of the bikini. Eventually things escalated in chat as she asked about if I would have sex with her, and then how she wish she could have a threesome with me and her b/f but all the attention on her, except her b/f wouldn't let her. Needless to say this was starting to screw with me a bit, since I never really had interactions with girls before.

Then her b/f had to go on a trip and she asked if I could go shopping with her, and she wanted me to help pick out things and so we head to the stores and shes trying on the tightest, most revealing stuff she can find. She was flirty the whole time, and kept making hints like "if only you had a car" and stuff like that.

She asks me to go back to her place and she decides to have a shower, and leaves the door to the bathroom part open. And then after getting out of the shower she asks me to join her on the bed and she says "I'm not going to do anything, but you can do whatever you want to me." Needless to say, I wasn't going to cheat on my only friend with his g/f. And I left and walked home completely depressed about the whole thing. It got to the point where I figured I'd just move away since I'd be seeing her regularly around town otherwise.

A year after that happened, they broke up, because she'd cheated on him with another guy. Then from what I heard, she dumped him and got with a new guy. But her previous ex was apparently obsessed with her and beat the crap out of the b/f "for stealing her" and she decided to get back with the ex, "because it felt good to be protected" according to a friend that still speaks to her.

About 6 months after that, I get a message out of the blue from her, telling me she is going to get married to this guy, and how he knows Karate and could beat me up "What are you going to do about it?" was literally what she said. I told her she was still acting like a teenager, and that she hadn't changed at all. I meet up with my friend, and it ends up he had no idea about all the things she had been saying and doing while they were together, she never even asked about the threesome, or anything.

No. 181050

>>181047

how is this relevant?

No. 182057

>>140825
Its because they don't want to admit being creepy, especially in a public area, so they will try to make you out to be in the wrong

No. 182058

>>140853
What the fuck, why don't you fight back?

No. 182076

>>140961
>choose to do drugs/drink with a man
>choose to have sex with a man
>regret it
>he raped me

Do you ever take responsibility for any your actions? Do the drugs you voluntarily take make you unaccountable for any actions you do? Why can't I get high, kill someone, then claim it's not my fault because I was on drugs?

No. 182079

>>182076
Read the post anon replied to you fucking retard.

No. 184573

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>Be me, 23yo
>Go to Karaoke with pals
>Feeling confident
>Sing Dammit Janet with best friend
>Nailed it everyone loved it
>Some creepy uncle looking guy approaches our table
>Insists my friend sing some song for him
>She's chill so she says yes
>He turns to me
>Starts demanding I sing secret agent man
>nervous laughter
> "Haha I dunno, We'll see"
> "If the next song you sing isn't secret agent man you have to do it topless"
>Uncomfy knowing I've already got another duet with my friend in queue
>Song comes up and he's annoyed
>Almost spills drink on girl he's with when he throws his arms in the air to protest
>Retreat back to table
>Gross uncle follows me
>Is annoyed I didn't sing for him but sits himself at our table like he's one of the gang
>Harasses everyone about their lives leaving me for last
>Starts drilling me for bringing my brother to a bar because it makes me unapproachable
>Asks my age
>Tell him 23
>His jaw drops and lets out an obnoxious "MMM YEAH" while nodding his head
>Friend slips me a note that says "It'll be okay"
>Wanting to die
>He asks what my job is
>Start to tell him when he interrupts
>He shakes his head like he's in a daze and says "Sorry you have those Take-me-home-and-Molest-me eyes"
>Disgusted
>Friend asks me if I want to go for a smoke
>I don't smoke
>"Yes"
>Wait in Car for friends to finish their songs in Queue
>Went home and cried

No. 184575

>>184573
How the hell do you, or your brother, or your friends let this happen and not tell him to screw off?

No. 184576

>>184575
We're polite Canadians

No. 184578

>>184576
>"If the next song you sing isn't secret agent man you have to do it topless"
well depending how this came out, I wasn't there, he probably should have had some words thrown his way

>>Retreat back to table

>Gross uncle follows me
>Is annoyed I didn't sing for him but sits himself at our table like he's one of the gang
and wow should this have never happened, but I'm not a polite canadian.

No. 184582

>>184573
Is this real omg

No. 184820

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>>140789
>be senior in highschool
>be trans guy
>befriend girl who rides the same bus home as me
>She has similar interests and is really funny and kind of awkward, just my type
>one day she asks me out
>mistake strong friendship with romantic interest and agrees to go out with her
>start losing interest when she tries kissing me and touching me too intensely in public
>"oh a-anon im s-sorry for that i j-j-just like you a l-l-lot i thought you loved me back but i guess not"
>guilt trips me constantly for pda
>break up with her bc she's annoying now that she's discovered tumblr and eddsworld
>months later, i'm going out with another guy who happens to be trans
>"anon is that your type?? I can be like him!!"
>stalks my bf on all his social media and ends up contacting him and sending him death threats
>hits on me constantly and holds my hand even though i've addressed that that makes me Uncomfortable
>ex gf is now a trans boy who's preferred name is ripped from an anime character
>mfw my old friend from highschool is now a fakeboi that still stalks my current bf (we've been together for almost 3 yrs now) and is dating a 17 year old gendervoid autist from saudi arabia that she met on tumblr

No. 184821

>>184820
REEEEEEE anon that sounds like a nightmare

No. 184822

>>182076
you sound like a rapist bro

No. 184849

>>184820
why are annoying ftm trans infiltrating lolcow

you kids are too cringeworthy

No. 184851

>>184849
There's already an ftm/fakeboi thread, go complain over there, not here. Don't be annoying.

No. 184926

>>184576

More like pussies tbh

No. 184965

i usually tell creeps that my boyfriend doesn't let me talk to other guys if they persist after i tell them i have a boyfriend. i'm guessing it makes them think that my bf is big/tough/controlling idk but it usually works.



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