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No. 7372
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I can't get off to fingering myself. I use the shower head or the hitachi wand.
No. 7379
>>7363I have a similar problem anon, it's stressful. Oddly, I've always been pretty open about sex and sexuality but I'm 23 and have never had an orgasm and that's super embarrassing. I can talk to my doctor about STIs and vaginal health no problem, but I've been too embarrassed to ever ask about orgasms. It's not like I've never had good sex, I've had great sex but still nothing. I'm terrified of new sexual endeavors because I'm afraid they'll think there's something wrong with me. I guess I should just suck it up and learn how to fake it instead of just being awkward at the end of sex.
>>7372Are these things really that great? I've tried some vibrators but it feels like I can hardly tolerate much clitoral stimulation before I get overwhelmed, it almost feels painful or something. Does this happen to anyone else?
No. 7383
>>7381Not really, the only lube I had was some flavored stuff left over from my last relationship that just seems to irritate the area and leave me feeling sticky and gross. I'll gladly take any suggestions!
Interesting about the crying though, like I said I never had an orgasm but I have cried before during sex, which did feel like a cathartic build up and release. Similar feelings of overstimulation I suppose, glad I'm not the only one that's happened to.
No. 7402
>>7386I usually don't orgasm when masturbating because I just get bored and quit. It takes too fucking long. Maybe it's the fact on Prozac and it kills my sex drive and sensitivity.
>>7397Back to your containment thread >>28460
No. 7405
Bless this thread. I always thought there was something wrong with me.
>>7393I feel this. I wish I could feel it once so I at least knew how to fake it.
>>7402Been there anon, antidepressants are terrible for your libido.
No. 7413
>>7402Yah anti's will do that to you.
I was on Prozac for a year when I suddenly got sick of behaving like a robot and went cold turkey.
5 days after coming off them my sex-drive exploded out of nowhere one night and I ended up masturbating (with multiple orgasms) 17 times in 29 minutes.
Yeah.
Yeah I know.
No. 7454
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Wow,I have the opposite problem to most of you here. I feel like my clit is huge.
It's like 1.5 inches long and actually gets erect when I'm horny. When my boyfriend saw it, he couldn't stop talking about how big it was and now I'm afraid of him looking at it.
I'm just happy the rest of my vagina isn't abnormal. I have a cute anime vagina wee it not for the huge clit peeking out at the top. I can push it down and hide it fine when I'm whatever, but it gets really hard and pokes out during intimacy and I hate it. I wish I had a cute, tiny clit, even if it was harder to masturbate.
No. 7455
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>>7404I'm just like you physically, and for me enjoying sex has been an ongoing journey of self discovery. It takes time to learn to relax, to let go, to start loving the penis.
What really helped me was dressing up and BDSM. I love clothes, and I realised that I could have a 'secret closet' filled with cheap chinese lingerie from ebay…I strongly advise the crotchless fishnet bodystocking.
It makes me feel like a sexy sloot, gets me in the mood, and makes my fiance go nuts, which further helps me in feeling sexual. It's very vain, but I get off on looking sexy as hell.
I think you just have to find what works for you. Incorporate things you enjoy outside of sex, or your fetishes, into sex and enjoy yourself. Let go and allow your enjoyment to be genuine. Nothing worse than faking sexual pleasure.
No. 7476
>>7456>>7454I'm another girl and that's super hot.
My clitoris is the "so miniscule are we even sure it's there" kind but what's weird is that despite it being so small it's still extremely sensitive.
I wouldn't mind a larger one tbh.
No. 7488
>>7454>>7456Could you guys post pics of something similar to what you're describing? (serious question)
My gyn told me I had a bigger clit, but I'm not even sure where it is tbh. I've googled it, but I'm not seeing anything similar. I'm still a virgin, so idk what guys would think of it..
No. 7503
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I can't experience sexual pleasure at all.
I mean, some times in the distant past I think I've been horny and penetration has felt okay, but I've never been able to go over the edge, neither do I really… feel horny a lot?
I'm in a committed relationship right now and our sex life is seriously dead. I want to please him, but I just… don't want to have my vagina touched at all.
I'm worried because I do want to have sex with them, but either I feel nothing or I am in horrible pain.
help
No. 7512
>>7508I wonder this…
Also what does penetration actually feel like? I'm a virgin, I masturbate till I actually feel good. But I know penetration is different… I've tried fingering but it's not pleasing enough and g-spot is hard to fucking find…
Non-virgin-chans pls tell me
No. 7515
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>>7488Ummm, I tried googling, but I only found monster porn clits. :(
>>7491Sex toys well change your life. Do it, anon.
>>7508That's it. That's an orgasm. Some people just don't have super intense orgasms. Start to listen to your body and just enjoy it. Stop expecting something ~mind blowing~, because must orgasms aren't, and most porn is fake or exaggerated. Just listen to your body and learn to enjoy knowing yourself in different ways. The better you know your body, the better you'll know how to reach better heights of pleasure.
No. 7520
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>>7504>mfw I went to a doctor and they said they didn't know what the problem was>went to another doctor and she asked if I had been rapeddoctors are shit in this country
No. 7525
>>7512Pleasure from penetration is a totally different pleasure to clitoral pleasure.
Penetration feels almost primal and bestial in a sense, I mean it should really, but the overwhelming majority of women cannot orgasm through penetration alone. I never have and most of lolcow never will have either.
When girls talk about masturbation most of the time we're describing clitoral masturbation.
Because I can't finish through penetration I have an arrangement with my boyfriend that after sex we'll cuddle up and I'll finish myself up with my LELO whilst he plays with me/snuggles me.
Most of the time I don't even bother though because for some reason sex can be really satisfying without you finishing at all. Like after he cums something inside of you just feels really satisfied and complete and you just want to roll over and cling onto him for the next 10-20 minutes.
I guess it's that hormonal bonding shit.
No. 7571
>>7528Eurgh I can't, the over-stimulation is too much to bear.
My vajay is like "HOLD UP GIRL IT'S GONNA HAVE TO BE ONE OR THE OTHER CAUSE THIS AIN'T WORKING OUT".
No. 7575
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For any anons worried their vulva isn't 'normal looking'… presenting: The Great Wall Of Vagina
http://www.greatwallofvagina.co.uk/about No. 7609
>>7599Just because you went ahead and got sliced and diced doesn't mean that other girls aren't ~genuinely insecure~
How many people do you actually show your vagina to?
No. 7611
>>7605Agree, it's fucking disgusting.
>>7599I've been thinking of getting labiaplasty too. One of mine is rather large and gets pinched a lot. It fucking hurts man but I'm afraid recovery from surgery will hurt more. :(
No. 7644
>>7631I don't think it's any different than any other elective plastic surgery. I've never paid much attention to what my labia look like though and I haven't heard any complaints from anyone I've been with.
I know some people do it because it actually poses a health risk which is completely understandable.
No. 7652
>>7650What does squirting feel like?
Like how do you know when it's going to happen specifically?
No. 7697
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>>7650>>7652I'm pretty certain that people have different sensations.
For me, it's similar to when you're just about to pee, but… a bit different. It may sound unpleasant, but if you've ever had a UTI and had aching or tingling (not burning) in your urethra, it feels like that. It's really intense and immediately subsides when I let go. It's a lot of pleasure mixed with mild pain/pressure. It bursts out all at once. Feels ok but I'd rather do clit stuff.
>>7681That anon is trolling or is butthurt that someone peed on them. Or they peed on themselves trying to learn how to squirt.
Some people cannot tell the different between squirting and peeing and accidentally piss. It happens, but they are two different things and squirting is not "literally just peeing". Even if there were miniscule traces of urine in it, my "squirt" is basically odorless hot water. Flavorless. It's not that gross. If I have to pee, I run to the bathroom. I don't piss on myself. I'm pretty repulsed by urine so I think I'd know.
I just am not the kind of person who finds dumping ANY kind of fluids, bodily or not, on themselves, their bed, the carpet, etc. to be a fun activity, so I don't do it anymore. Doesn't seem worth the hassle of the cleanup. That's all.
No. 7706
>>7503Buy a pic related in
>>7372It can tickle out an orgasm out of a rock.
No. 7716
>>7697I'm that anon, I'm not trolling, and I've never tried to squirt and gotten upset that I couldn't.
It's pee, you gross cunt.
No. 7727
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>>7706I have LELO Elise 2 which has dual motors so it feels like it's pulsating (like seriously it swells and subsides in your hand when switched on) which is about as powerful as a Hitachi and I'm really into my pussy-destroying vibrations but I've yet to experience squirting.
I know all girls are supposed to be able to do it but I've just never felt anything coming on before you know, aside from the orgasm.
Bummer.
No. 7734
>>7729lol shut up, just because you tried it one day and you pissed all over yourself.
I'm sorry for your sodden sheets, I'm still going to keep trying.
No. 7735
>>7732Yeah, it literally feels like a gigantic, throbbing dick only made of plastic, but the outside is coated in this silky covering that makes it feel like silk.
The curve in it is for g-spot stimulation (although I only ever use it clitorally), it's waterproof, has a charge that lasts 3 hours and has about 10 different modes of buzzing with 10 speed settings from pleasant tingle to "holy shit my vagina is going to buzz right out the window this is amazing".
It's expensive but holy shit the best spend I've ever made.
No. 7745
>>7734Lmfao what? Not everyone is as gross as you, pissbitch. Medical research has confirmed that squirting is urine.
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/jsm.12799/abstractInb4 science isn't real because it hurts my feels. You're pissing yourself, and your pussy is most likely really loose because your pelvic floor muscles aren't even strong enough to hold urine in.
No. 7751
>>7746Apologies for samefagging, I realised that post might have read as being rude, and it wasn't intended that way (also, no idea why greentext, damn phones). This thread clearly shows we all have different vulvas, and we all have different experiences with them. That doesn't mean that what they do is right or wrong, and the fighting about whether it's pee or female ejaculate is just silly, and not what this thread is supposed to be about.
/sage for playing mother
No. 7778
>>7727holy fuck that is expensive! looks nice though. quite jealous.
my bf bought me a 80$ body wand and it stopped working after 3 months. anybody have recommendations that are 100$ and less?
No. 7786
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>>7372>>7727>>7706Where do you guys find is the best place to purchase toys? I've only ever bought from Adam&Eve, they seem like they have some pretty decent deals going on usually.
No. 7817
>>7815Yeah I love LELO, they're like, the Chanel or the Bentley of sex toys.
I also love how aesthetic they are, like you really can just leave them lying around, and unlike most garish, fluorescent sex toys their stuff looks like a range of fancy massagers.
No. 7825
>>7817I've always wondered how many people (if any) have bought the $15000 gold Inez.
But yeah, I love how they look. I have a Nea and I love its cute little flower motif, and I think I'm going to buy a Gigi 2 soon since the Nea's vibrations are kind of weak now (I've had it for almost 7 years I think) and I want something insertable. I think the Iris is pretty, but it's not waterproof. :(
>>7823I agree with more lube. I'm 5'3 and my bf is 6'3 and the only time we had this happen was when I wasn't quite wet enough for him, so we keep lube handy.
No. 7829
>>7819Christ that's quite the height difference.
Sleeping with you must be like tossing around a rag doll. Sounds kinda cute.
No. 7843
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>>7792Don't worry, guys don't care as long as the rest of you looks good and they're getting some. My clit is even bigger than yours and when my bf saw it (or rather felt it) for the first time, he wasn't that weirded out.
It's perfectly normal and just a genetic curio most of the time, like inverted nipples or having a straight thumb. As long as it doesn't look like a penis, I think you're fine.
No. 8070
>>8034Not lots, here and there I guess. But I don't worry about it, I just clean it off when I go to the toilet. I guess some girls get it more than others but it's normal. Nothing you can do about it. I don't wear liners all the time, what's the point? I'd rather just change my knickers when I get home if I'm honest. Liners–it's just money wasting. I only ever use them if I'm finishing my period.
I guess I'm just not as fussy idk.
No. 8088
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>>8069God this, sometimes I just wanna be cute and cuddle/sleep naked after sex but I always wake up a few hours later uncomfortable and have to put underwear on. Also the concept of going comando seems really disgusting and uncomfortable to me.
Reminds me of that scene in Obvious Child where she's talking about how her panties look like they fell into a tub of cream chese or something.
No. 8109
>>8103Nope, so am I, and I'm 22…
On a different note, I didn't have any menstrual blood loss this month, and only had two days of blood loss last month. I was on my period both times, but nothing was coming except for a few little brownish dots and that's it. Anyone had a similar experience?
(Sorry my English sucks)
No. 8172
>>8165Are you sexually active?
I feel it's pertinent to say if you are the spotting could be the result of a minor miscarriage.
Most sexually active women actually have dozens in their lifetime but a lot of the time they're so weeny they don't notice or just assume it's some crazy period shit.
No. 8175
>>8172Yes, I have been (last time was Aug 25). But I had missed the pill after this.
That sounds reasonable, I had urine samples examined in the past 2 weeks as a general physical, and there was nothing on the results that indicated a pregnancy though (perhaps not early enough for the hormones to show up)-
Thanks for the information.
No. 8176
>>8175Np, just more mysteries of the human vaginal canal.
People reaaaaally underestimate just how inhospitable that nightmare-mode hole is for semen.
No. 8189
>>8103Losing your virginity isn't as amazing as it sound. I lost mine at 19, and it was painful with a little blood, but nothing lifechanging.
I did feel like a 'real woman' tho but that was for about a week and then I stopped giving a shit.
No. 8280
>>8277I hate pads because I hate the feeling of sitting around in wet gloppy shit. I have PCOS so I have really heavy periods. I'm also pretty active so wearing a pad just isn't practical for me.
It sucks that basically your only options as a woman is to either stick an absorbent cork in your vagina or wear a mini diaper. (Diva cups aren't viable for me because my periods are so heavy.)
No. 8282
>>8277pads are super uncomfortable. i wore them maybe once when i first got my period then wore tampons 24/7 until i discovered mooncup (best purchase i've made in the last 10 years)
>>8280but you can just empty the cup every hour or so. thats what i do on my first days (which are very heavy)
No. 8286
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>>8277I exclusively use pads
I had tried tampons, but I remember one time inserting it incorrectly (I was like 12) and that was the first time I ever had bad cramps (I still have them now). And while that is probably not the cause of my having bad cramps, I still am very hesitant to use them because they remind me of the experience of one being inserted incorrectly, and because I don't have the mind to keep track of how long I've had 1 in for in order to change it at the right time.
Pads are pretty easy, and I don't seem to get that wet goopy feeling some women describe when wearing pads all day, although I do go to the restroom often to –set free– some of the blood and clean up a bit. I pretty much only buy overnight pads, change after taking a shower (so like once a day) and it's worked pretty well for me.
>>8284Also this, sometimes I use menstrual cups and they are pretty great. I don't get that 'did I put it in enough, and the right place' because it rests against a bone. They're reasonably sanitary (but blood gets on your hands after inserting/removing). They're comfortable, and hard to notice. You can wear one WAYYYYY longer than a tampon. And you can even have sex with one in, my boyfriend said he barely noticed it in there, and it still held in there after some reasonably rough sex.
I'd say the only downside is the -possibility- of the cup getting dislodged, which would be much worse than a tampon because all of a sudden all that blood that was collecting is dumped in 1 moment, and it will likely soak through your pants.
No. 8289
>>8276I've learned to love my pubes. I shampoo and condition that shit. I trim around the edges though.
>>8277I'm pad exclusive. I'm constantly aware when I have a tampon in and it feels dry and bruise-y. I do get paranoid that people can here it crinkle when I first put one on though, before it settles.
No. 8295
>>8277I use pads. My uterus is tilted weird, so tampons never worked. It also makes finding my cervix like the fucking holy grail for my doc when I get my pap done.
>gross stuffI get huge fucking cystic zits on my mon pubis sometimes. Doesn't correspond with my period or anything. My period's not often very heavy, so I'm blessed with that. Wash my cooch with a clean washrag every day, other than showering. I don't really shave, but I trim it up so it isn't a jungle.
No. 8297
>>8294I'm the same- virgin, never really put my fingers or anything up in there and I LOVE cups. I don't know how much they differ, but I use Divacup.
No fingers. To insert it, you fold the cup (there's a ton of different ways, I just do the 'U' method) and put it in. This might hurt a little at first if you haven't stretched your opening out at all. After my 3rd month of using them I didn't hurt anymore. The trick is to get the cup to fully open which will take some practice. By month three I became a cup master.
Negatives.. it can get messy when taking it out. I accidentally dropped mine in the bowl once which was really gross. The first month, maybe second will be full of trial and error.
I can't say they will work for you too, but it really feels great to have tampons out of my life. Not to mention the $$$.
No. 8306
>>8277I'm 30 and I still use pads so don't worry about that. I've tried tampons a few times but every time they feel uncomfortable. I have a pretty heavy flow too the first two days.
>>8297What worries me most about these is that you have to wash them out every time you take them out. How would you do this at public toilets?
No. 8318
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>>7454>It's like 1.5 inches long and actually gets erect when I'm horny. When my boyfriend saw it, he couldn't stop talking about how big it was and now I'm afraid of him looking at it.One freaky oversized clit please.
>>7456>Ugh, I'm the same. Mine is around 2 inches, but mercifully it's all tucked inside so I don't feel like a futanari. The rest is cute, but I hate my clit.This is priceless female wizardry
>>7620yeah this is the only way i can masturbate. i don't even touch my clit. i just lie down and tense my abdominal/pussy muscles up. i can't orgasm from normal sex because of this, i've tried to condition myself into masturbating normally but it just doesn't work.
Bitch you got problems
>>7679This. Golden shower bitches.
>>7786Good god your pussy must be destroyed at this point.
>>7843>As long as it doesn't look like a penis, I think you're fine.Good god that's disgusting.
Literally kill yourself.
With regards /cow/
(ok) No. 8341
>>8340When I stopped taking Zoloft for a while, my sex drive skyrocketed. It was intense, and awesome. The withdrawal symptoms were too intense for me though, so sadly I had to go back on it. Maybe someday.
Be careful about that, it's dangerous to go cold turkey.
No. 8381
>>8353Just tell her to get surgery, lol.
But seriously, maybe you just aren't 'vagina bi'
I mean, I feel like everyone can appreciate the womanly form
No. 8383
>>8381Yeah people can appreciate it, she can have nice vag and ugly tits or a nice ass but weird vag. Can't always win.
Not my fault I don't find it appealing.
No. 8384
>>8381some guys have ugly ass penises too tho
will say gag
No. 8386
>>8341I'm on Prozac. The withdrawal isn't that bad but it takes a while to get out of your system
>>8353Do it with the lights off (or close your eyes). The way genitals look weirds me out too but i enjoy giving oral sex. Like fun to touch, not fun to look at
No. 8406
Oh boy I have a bunch of vagina/sex related issues! Let's see…
I am dry as the desert, always. I think it's because I was put on antidepressants (some antidepressants are known to cause dryness) before my puberty started, and I was on them for 8 years. I'm free of all meds now but I guess the meds fucked me up permanently because I have never gotten wet enough for sex in my life, ever. I always need copious amounts of lube, even for masturbation.
I also have the issue of not orgasming, or getting really weak non-pleasurable orgasms. Even the weak ones I can only achieve with a vibrator on max setting. I'm just not very sensitive down there, I dunno if it's because all of my parts are really small? Like for example my inner labia is practically non-existant.
Speaking of which, penetration hurts. My smallness coupled with my dryness means that unless I have sex every day (I don't), penetration pretty much always feels like losing my virginity again. I'm sore even on the day after. My bf (who is the one and only sexual partner I've ever had) is not even particularly big.
And on that note, I might be bi. I pretty much always fantasize about girls and pretend that my bf is a girl during oral.
I'm super insecure and in order to want to have sex I need to feel like I'm sexy and desireable, but I feel like a fat blob because I put on 2 pounds so my sex life is practically non-existant right now. My bf never ever initiates sex because I probably traumatized him one time when I said I felt preassured into sex, so it's always up to me to initiate it. So every 2 weeks I kinda reluctantly go "whelp I'm pretty sure bf is completely sexually deprived by now so I guess I should do something" and then we have sex that's unsatisfying for me but amazing for him because I make sure that he enjoys himself. Poor guy thinks I find him unattractive, when I definitely don't. I just find myself unattractive. Deep sigh.
Sorry for the novel but it felt pretty good to get it off my chest.
No. 8410
>>8406I like u~.
I understand.
Haven't really talked about this but I have to be super super thin in order to feel comfortable with my body although it isn't very sexually desirable, and I can fantasize about sex but I'm never satisfied enough with myself for not being perfect so I don't want anyone to touch me in real life. It's narcissistic, really, but I'm so obsessed with perfection (when it comes to myself only) that it can't be helped.
No. 8473
>>8430>>8467Try shower sex.
My gf gets pretty heavy periods, she's too embarrassed for period sex mostly just for the clean up factor although I don't mind it. When we're in the shower, her bloodflow reduces significantly, you don't see hardly any of it, etc. We fuck all we want in there and she doesn't feel ashamed about it.
No. 8587
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Would a masturbation/fantasizing/2D&3D erotica general need its own thread, or would it be categorized under here? It seems independent enough to warrant its own topic.
No. 8655
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I had my first orgasm without a vibrator today. Ooooohhhh my god, they are a hundred times better. The constant speed on vibes makes me oversensitive when i'm cumming, but it's like my fingers know what to do even when i'm not thinking straight. Fucking A+. Also, no $20/month for batteries.
No. 8679
>>8677Did you just start having sex? It's very normal to spot/be sore after losing your virginity.
Or if your bf has a big dick.
No. 8832
I'll read through this thread in a bit but first my problems.
Like, I like sex, but it almost always hurts, and most of the time I go dry super fast.
I also seem to be really grossed out by guy's naked bodies. So finding a guy I actually want to sleep with is hella difficult, and maybe if I'm just being picky. I also ofc hate my own body so sleeping with girls is really difficult too cus then I'll compare, and the girl I'm with will always be way more beautiful, to me at least.
Idk, I like to slick and fap though, and I get horny a lot.
But having sex is difficult for me, and a lot of the time when a guy wants to bang I'll go into a "no" mode, and just not be turned on no matter what, and idk I'm probably just fucked up.
KILL ME.
Oh also my pubi hair is very dark and I'm rather pale, so my area down there is sorta dark, idk, is there a way to fix that? I think I'll start vaxing soon to see if that helps.
No. 8860
>>8857It could also be BV (Bacterial Vaginosis). I get that sometimes. I read awhile ago that it actually comes and goes forever. Some lady on some random website mentioned she's taking antibiotics for it and such but it always ends up coming back or something. I've gotten it maybe 3-4 times as far as I can remember in my 21 years of life. Normally it's super fucking itchy and it hurts to pee. On my period it was fine though. I don't have sex or do anything down there when I have BV. If it itches a lot I put yogurt down there. It's weird but it works really fucking well.
>>7398I thought I pissed everywhere too my first time. My exboyfriend was super happy about it. I just found it really gross and embarrassing. He made me do it all the time. The clean up is not fun.
No. 8863
>>8831But that's not real squirting. Like I said, there are people who piss and think they're squirting when they aren't.
REAL squirt doesn't even come from where you piss. It's clear. It's odorless. It isn't piss. There have been women who squirt, there are women who squirt. It. Isn't. Piss.
No. 8874
>>8863I was masturbating the other day then felt something splash on my leg and it was just like a tiny bit of liquid and I'm still wondering if it was pee (bc I had to pee but was too lazy to go before I started masturbating) or if I had squirted for the first time…
I've never squirted before so it's probably pee………
No. 8922
>>8916>>8921It's definitely something that varies from person to person. I moan a lot naturally, even when I'm on my own (so, no, it's not just a porn thing), but plenty of people don't make any sound at all.
Don't feel pressured or anything, do what's natural.
No. 8980
>>8277I use tampons and pads together. My periods are pretty heavy the first three days and pads seriously do shit for me. I sit down and blood will travel up past the pad and still get on my underwear. I also hate those moments where you just feel a bit suddenly leak out.
With tampons I feel secure and have no worries how I stand/sit/anything unless I need to change it, then the pad is my backup system.
I've tried the disposable menstrual cups because like other anons I've never put my fingers inside before and before committing to a regular cup I bought a pack. It wasn't until after did I find out that the disposable sits much higher than a regular cup and I am sticking my fingers all the way to find that bone and try to pull the cup out from where its lodged against it. The worst part is that I've tried it several times and it hasn't seemed to work- I was sure I pushed it far enough where it gets held in place by the bones but it doesn't stay.
My hands would be covered in blood from trying to use the cups, but I also get blood everywhere with tampons too. Anyone else get that?
No. 8981
>>8980So like, if this happened in a public bathroom do you just shuffle to the sink looking like you just murdered someone?
I've only ever used pads and I I'll only get blood on my hands of I wipe wrong/don't use enough toilet paper and it's easy to wipe off. Even then I don't like touching my clothes until I get my hands properly washed so I'll just use my clean one to get myself presentable enough to get to the sink
No. 8988
>>8981Pretty but other women get it.
Obviously you wipe up with tissue first though.
No. 8996
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Anybody here prefer the non-applicator tampons? They are all I've used since I was 13, and honestly I feel more comfortable with them than the applicator ones
No. 9033
>>8996The few times I had to use an applicator one it was painful as fuck. The ones I used were fucking big too. My vagina hurts just remembering it.
I also only ever buy the pro comfort pink ones. they are awesome because they are lubed up and the other colors are fucking huge and I never bleed that much.
No. 9084
>>9064What you're describing is a classic case of vaginismus and it is entirely psychological in nature.
People underestimate the strength of the vaginal walls but vaginismus causes these internal muscles to spasm and clamp down, denying all entry and causing pain and sometimes damage and bleeding when force is used.
Since it's psychological you're doing it subconsciously.
Treatment typically involves therapy and counselling to investigate any past sexual trauma sufferers may have experienced in their childhood.
If this doesn't apply to you you need to try other options, such as extended foreplay or physiological depressants such as alcohol.
Idk what the fuck your doctor is playing at giving you dilators. Have they even proposed it being vaginismus before?
You need to go read up on this and come back and tell me if the symptoms match, and then you can go from there.
No. 9108
>>9084Thank you so much, anon!
I read the symptons at Wikipedia and the ones that match with me are domestic violence and anxiety (which I developed because of the first one).
The episodes of violence were brutal but fortunately ended when my mum kicked my dad out of the house when I was 12. I still struggle with anxiety, but I'm hella better - it almost does not affect my everyday tasks anymore and I managed to have a social life.
Never been raped or sexually harassed though.
"[…]in the most severe form of vaginismus, the patient elevates the buttocks, retreats and tightly closes the thighs to avoid examination." This is EXACTLY what I do. I don't even do it consciously, it just hurts so much that my thighs act on their own.
No. 9109
>>9108Aw I'm glad you've found an answer to your question; it feels like a huge weight off your shoulders when you finally get a diagnosis for a problem like this huh?
Now you need to inform your boyfriend of exactly what is going on with you and you guys can start moving from there in rectifying it.
Sex will eventually happen for you, but because it's psychological you need to address the problems that are rooted in your mind. It doesn't have to be expensive therapy, even just talking about it with your boyfriend and getting your emotions out in the open can really help.
Do try visiting forums and blogs where people discuss this problem and how they were able to heal it.
Also your doctor is an idiot. If possible, switch.
I'm a Japanese Studies student and I knew what you describing immediately so I can't understand how a trained medical professional has missed this.
No. 9111
>>9110Hairy tbh because I like looking like a woman and not a child.
I don't begrudge those that do though. I know sometimes it's a case of convenience.
I only shave myself bare when I get my period; makes cleanup easier.
No. 9195
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What do menstrual cups actually feel like?
I hear they're really great and stuff but when I went to get one it was just HUGE, even the "small" ones, and I have no idea if it would really be worth it. I can slightly feel a tampon no matter how it's placed, it doesn't really bother me it's just a slightly "full" sensation - is it a lot worse with cups?
No. 9330
>>9213>>9216Thanks for the help girls, I tested it this morning and I'm not pregnant yay!! Gonna test again friday morning just to be sure.
errr…..weed doesn't have any effect on it right? because I'm a daily smoker
>>9217I know but I'm not on birth control.
No. 9337
>>9336>>9330Ok, I went ahead and asked her anyway between two phone calls:
Say, weed has no effect on pregnancy tests right?
>Why?J-just asking since someone else was wondering and I thought it's unlikely because these have like nothing in common, right?
>Yeah, they're completely unrelated.So just as I thought, thanks.
No. 9345
>>9336>>9337Anon you're awesome for asking, thanks so much!
I hope you don't get in trouble for it though
No. 9439
So I have super sensitive skin when it comes to shaving. every time I shave my pussy, which is like every other week or so, I'm in agony for a few days until I can at least get some stubble. I put on aloe vera, sensitive-skin-no-bullshit-additives lotion, and they kiiiind of help… for a bit. The friction from walking in pants sucks; even just panties is so irritating. Is there any hope for me? I get weird acne from it too, the irritation. My bf likes shaved pussies but it feels like such a sacrifice, and I don't like having too hairy or stubbly either. My legs and arms also get irritated from shaving…
I tried waxing once, with a shitty home waxing kit some years ago. Just burned my skin in a weird way. Like not actually burned from the wax, it was just discolored and felt burned or some shit. Jeez. If ya'll have any suggestions I'd be super grateful.
tl;dr I'm too sensitive for shaving regularly, it sucks, I don't know if professional waxing would be any better.
No. 9528
>>9525>>9526Didn't bleed at all surprisingly, but it was exceedingly painful.
I didn't yell out once but I gasped a couple of times.
The pain was bad but almost… good? Part of me almost enjoyed it from the sensation of relief I got once the hair was ripped out of the area I was applying it too.
You guys should try it, it's a real experience :^)
No. 9530
>>9513>scrolling through /g/ to find fashion thread>see thisjesus christ why would you do this?
I tried epilating the area around my testes one time and wanted to fucking die. I don't want to imagine how bad it is for a vagina.
God bless you and may your skin be smooth.
No. 9533
>>9529Nah I pulled the skin taut whilst doing it, but yeah it had been shaved about 2 weeks ago.
>>9530ty smooth testicle man god bless.
No. 9540
>>9534Yeah I enjoy doing my underarms too.
I think enjoying the pain is from the gratification you feel when there's the taut tugging, the pain, and then the release. That sweet release is addict.
tbh it's fucked up but I used to self harm a lot in my teens and although I haven't done it in like 5 years now, when I get stressed I pluck out all of my armpit hair with tweezers or rip out my pubic hair with my bare hands instead.
It's just another form of self harm huh? Humans are dumb.
No. 9561
I epilate my underarms, legs, arms and face just fine. It doesn't hurt as much once you've been doing it for a while. I tried epilating my pubes and it was too much to handle. Kudos to those who can actually do it.
>>9548Big butt anon as well. I just epilated my ass the other day. It hurt, but it wasn't nearly as painful as I thought it'd be. Only downside is when I got around the anus I ended up bleeding there. Same thing happens if I epilate my upper thighs for some reason. It leaves a very painful rash, I guess you'd call it. It's worth the pain when you have a soft ass as a result though.
No. 9777
>>9744I commented a similar problem above
>>7660 and it usually occurs for me around the same time as ovulation/right before my period. I think it has something to do with the ph of the vagina being in fluctuation due to hormones. I've read womens forums and they've given me that answer.
No. 9795
>>9780Hey, I'm
>>8034 and I experience a lot of discharge too. I probably don't have as much as you, but it sucks to deal with regardless. :( I wish I could just wear panties and have to only deal with a minimal, not panty ruining amount of discharge for once.
No. 9859
>>9780I do too, it sucks working a desk job :/ I heard it can be caused by a PH imbalance in your vagina though so I'm going to get that checked out soon.
>>9828I do, but I have an IUD and I'm pretty sure that's what's causing it
No. 9897
>>9878Yep.
I believe they're the glands that secret vaginal lubrication actually.
No. 9912
>>9859Ahh an IUD sounds so painful. Did you get the plastic or the metal? I hear they both have pros and cons, but I thought one of them didnt mess with your chemical balances/or whatever.
I want to blame my low libido on my anti-depressions but I was on absolutely no medication including birthcontrol for 8 - 12 months last year and was still having problems. I'm 21 and I feel like this shouldn't be a problem until I hit menopause
No. 9939
>>9908It might sound stupid, but do you push them in deep enough? When I first tried tampons I had that problem and it hurt too, I didn't know you were supposed to push them in so deep. Because if they are deep enough you shouldn't be able to feel them at all.
Also try it first with the smallest size available and like anon above said don't wipe before.
No. 9941
>>9912Different IUD anon. I had the Mirena IUD which is the one with the hormones. It's good for 5 years. The copper one lasts for 10 and has no hormones. There's also one that lasts for 3 years but it's new so I don't know much about it.
Most OBs don't like to give them to women who haven't had kids. If you've had a kid it's easier to insert because your cervix is more pliable I guess. I got mine inserted despite not having a kid (thank you military!) it fucking sucked. Took the doc 3 tried to insert it, I guess my uterus is tilted at a weird angle.
It was great to not have to worry about a pill (especially when I ended up deployed, they don't keep that shit in stock) and my husband and I could have sex without worrying about a condom but before the little strings softened they would poke him in the dick. And my period stopped after a few months (but I had more than usual vaginal discharge which was irritating)
Then I started getting chronic headaches and random severe cramps. Went back to my doc, everything was placed right and she offered to take it out but I decided to see if things would get better. 2 years later I still had the same symptoms and decided to get it taken out.
Husband and I decided to try for a baby. It took over a year to get pregnant even with using an ovulation tracker. I had my suspicions it may have been caused by the IUD but who knows.
If you're looking at getting one make sure it's covered by your insurance. I think the Mirena runs about $700-$1000.
And everybody's body is different. I know plenty of women who haven't had any issues with it and some who had the same issues I had. I think I'll pop out another kid and give the Copper T a go after that. I'm thinking the hormones in the Mirena were what caused my symptoms.
No. 9950
>>9939I did put it in deep enough, but I did clean myself off before so maybe that was it.
Still, I'd rather use a cup, I just don't want to drop $30 on one if I can't use it.
No. 9980
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Anyone else read this book? She can be a bit repetitive sometimes, but she really goes quite in-depth into matters of individualized female arousal. Might help some of you anons understand how your personal libido works. Fascinatin' stuff.
No. 10133
>>9941Not the anon you're replying to, but I know they came out with a new one called Skyla that's apparently supposed to be good for 3 years and it's meant for women who haven't had children before (or something along those lines I think). My OB said it would cost about $250 for me to get the IUD, and a huge part of me wanted it because having to have my parents ship my birth control overseas while I'm studying abroad is such a pain when the next option could've just been having this up in me and not having to worry/pay for postage at all.
He told me stuff about how I had a retroverted uterus and that automatically meant that I couldn't get one (but I was looking it up online and multiple women said it was fine for them…) He also started spouting more stuff above the usual "you haven't had kids so you can't have it" and started to tell me "you might ruin your chances to have kids" etc, etc, but I've pretty much decided at this point that I don't want children/they just aren't right for me…
It's just, ugh, I hate how my OB just gives me so much shit for wanting an IUD. I ended up getting the patch because my insurance covered it but all that shit about children really got on my nerves.
No. 10254
>>9872same haha, but I figured out how to deal with it. It's a lot of work but it's worth it:
First, use an after shaving cream everytime you're done showering.
Second, use a face toner with alcohol down there. I use one with medicinal clay in it and it works wonders. Use it at least once a day, but please be careful. You don't want that shit in your actual vagina.
Third, use an peeling glove EVERY TIME you shower. Not an actual peeling.
Fourth, put hand sanitizer on those hairs that have already grown in.
And Fifth, do a medical clay mask one day after shaving. Like I already said, be careful don't let it get in your vagina.
No. 10289
>>10287well, it could be caused by many things, but what first comes to mind is:
a.) are you on any kind of anti-depressants? anti-depressants are notorious for killing libido.
b.) are you on any kind of hormonal birth control? Certain hormonal birth controls can either elevate or completely kill libido. If you are not on any, it might be worth mentioning to your OBGYN or regular doctor. They can run hormone tests and actually recommend different routes for you to take.
No. 10290
>>10289I'm not on/have never taken either. If it helps anything I
have been depressed for those 2+ years as well but haven't been on any medication of any kind. I'm supposed to meet with a psychologist some time in the future by referral from my doctor (although I didn't mention the sex drive issues) but I'm really bad with returning phone calls. I also am not seeing any kind of OBGYN right now, primarily because I have an extreme phobia of penetration and couldn't handle an exam.
No. 10561
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>>7727I feel like this board is like /k/ but sex toys
No. 10601
>>8294This anon here, back with a menstrual cup update. so this cycle, I decided to bite the bullet and try. I bought a divacup, and literally just tried putting it in for the first time. Did the type 2 fold, so it wasn't as wide going in. Anyways, turning it in one full circle is like ??????? and I tried pressing on the sides to make the seal but I just am not sure if the seal is there… How do you tell? Also, the stem is kinda poking me as I am sitting and typing this so… stem not far enough in or stem too long?
But yeah, as I expected… I got real intimate with my vagina. I went from never ever ever putting a finger in it to basically like 3 fingers up in there and well yup that was weird but actually not that bad.
No. 10607
>>10601k, so, another TMI update: decided to just take it out and try again. trimmed the stem, re-instered the same way but let it open before pushing it in all the way, heard the pop and was able to turn it and push it in at the same time so… fingers crossed that I have no leaks tomorrow!
I kinda feel like an amazon or some shit for overcoming my fear of touching my vagina kek
No. 10610
>>10608Actually anon, it really wasn't that bad! Like, I have a heard time have penetrative sex or using dildos and things because it hurts too much, but the cup didn't hurt at all not even a little. And right now sitting with it, I feel it but not as much as I do tampons. I think I just 'feel' more down there cause I was just…kinda rough on that area haha.
It's an experience though. Definitely will get intimate with your vag, which really freaked me out before I tried
No. 10680
>>10674I was about to ask this, too. I'm not sure what anon considers "having sex" to be, but if someone went down on them, they could have contracted HSV2 from that. It's super unlikely, but possible.
>>10634There are two different blood tests for HSV2, one more accurate than the other. Depending on which one the lab used, your result could be a false positive. His could have been a false negative no matter which test they used. The only way to confirm your status is for you to get tested again, and maybe your boyfriend, too. Sorry.
No. 11076
>>10863I do. I've been having them since I was 16. My mom thought I had a UTI because I was complaining of pain in my side, but the test was negative and had to get an ultrasound - bam, had a bunch of cysts, and a baseball sized one on the side that hurt.
I had the worst one of my life this summer. I thought I was pregnant, the symptoms were so bad. Nausea/vomiting, fatigue, couldn't stop peeing, etc. This went on for a month before it finally ruptured.
No. 11137
>>11127I always skip my white pills. Never had a problem and my doc said it's perfectly fine. Each body is different though.
If you're getting conflicting information go back to your doc and get things clairified.
No. 11139
>>11127You should probably do what they say. Id they don't want you skipping your period there's a reason for it.
I really want to skip my periods and leave my ring in for 4 weeks instead of 3, but because I have PCOS and irregular periods my dr says I can't because I'll be putting myself at risk for endometrial cancer (which I already had a scare of earlier this year).
No. 11141
>>11079titer? sorry I'm confused
My OBGYN checked my bloodwork and they told me I had to come in ASAP, I came in, they told me it was "positive" for Hep B and asked me questions, said I needed to get more labwork to confirm (maybe it is false) and it turned out to be false.
And yes, I have had all of those vaccines
No. 11145
>>11141A titer is basically a positive result due to having the antibodies of a specific virus. In your case you had the Hep B vaccine so when they run a certain test (HBsAb: hepatitis b surface antibody) it will show up as a positive titer because that vaccine left little markers indicating you are protected from it.
Not sure what test they actually ran, and false positives do happen but they might have just misinterpreted the titer results for an actual viral infection.
No. 11200
>>11127If your doctor says it's okay to skip your period, it's up to you to decide if you want to do it or not. There are risks to skipping your period, but a lot of people do it without issue, so it might be worth it. Maybe you can wait and see how your period goes this time before deciding? You might not need to skip your periods if it actually does get better just by taking the pill. Call the office and ask to talk to your nurse/doctor if you're confused about something. My nurse will usually answer questions over the phone about previous appointments.
My doctor had me skip most of my periods because I had severe PMDD. She prescribed me a pill specifically for this, which had 4 weeks of hormones and no reminders. I took 3 packs in a row and then had a period. So, only one period about every 3 months. Maybe you can ask your doctor about doing something like that.
No. 11202
>>11128No I tested for it and don't have PCOS (did it 4 times with different places and even a hospital)
>>11200I will take your advice and try to see if my period gets better after being on the pill for a month or so.
No. 11298
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Not sure if this is the right thread for it, but is anyone really dizzy/can't stand up after penetrative sex? I can have intense orgasms masturbating and still be fine after, but sex just gets my brain all kinds of fucked up.
No. 11325
>>11127i was just like you, but they gave me birth control when i was 15 (Logest) and i've been taking those until this year (i'm 23), when i switched to NuvaRing. your period will most likely get A LOT better, bleeding time will probably reduce to 5 days and cramps will get MUCH weaker. i would most definitely NOT skip!
a lot of women have periods like that, our whole women's side of the family is like that. we all got our periods when we were ~10, every 21 days, up to 10 days and insane amount of padding. the thing i don't get is, why did they only now give you birth control? you stated that you visited multiple doctors and just now, ten years later, have they given you birth control to manage your period? or was this your choice?
here's my opinion:
1. don't skip it. at least try two months, please. if you endured it for 10 years, you're strong enough to last for two months more. there's not enough research on the topic and doctors disagree on skipping period. i have a few friends that started using the pill for the same reasons and all of them reported getting much, much better (bleeding reducing even to 3 to 4 days with mild cramps)
2. get a moon cup. i guess you are a little uncomfortable with your body, but don't worry. i started using tampons when i was 21 and only this year have i managed to woman up and buy a moon cup. my mom never mustered up the courage and ended up buying pads up to her menopause. you CAN do it and it will solve your padding problems
3. visit your gyno and discuss combined oral contraception. ask him why he hasn't given you a vaginal ring. take it from me; the pill will most probably take away your libido and this doesn't happen so dramatically with a vaginal ring. discuss pros and cons of oral contraception with your doctor, discuss his clients experiences and discuss it with your friends. i absolutely love the ring
No. 11352
>>9195It takes some time to get used to the insertion if you're tight down there, but actually you don't feel nothing at all once it is placed and sealed correctly. If you feel it inside, you have to take it out and repeat.
I've been using it for 3 years so far.
No. 11353
>>11298i'm pretty sure that's normal, it just means you're having really good sex
dat oxytocin and shit
No. 11402
>>11399that's because of blood circulation. It is just temporarily "enlarging" but it is not stretching out permanently or permanently enlarged
if you are aroused/touching that area/area is stimulated >blood rushes> enlarges
No. 11590
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The area around my vagina is extremely disproportionate. I mean extremely, not just some slight difference only I can see. Not the labia but the actual skin/mound surrounding it? The labia majora
No ones ever said anything during sex but I've also always avoided positions that you could really see anything.
I can't find anything on Google about this because all that comes up is stuff about labia minora. I don't really remember when it started looking this way either or if it always did..
What is with this? I feel so weird about it.
No. 11613
Alright I have a couple of questions about losing your virginity. My boyfriend and I have have been together for almost 2 years now, and we are now living together but we have never had sex. He isn't a virgin, but I am. We have done other things, like oral and all that, but haven't actually had sex. I've always been too afraid to because anytime I have ever put my fingers up there it really hurts, I can get one finger in easily but two is a struggle and I get absolutely no pleasure from it so I just don't. Well recently he and I were messing around, and decided to attempt sex. So I got on top of him, and I was majorly calm so I wasn't super tense, but it still hurt like hell, and my boyfriend is about average, nothing too big. And it definitely wasn't an issue of not being wet enough. I got it almost all the way in, but had to stop because it just continued to feel like tearing. My question is, does anyone else have issues like this? Like i'm afraid I will never be able to have sex because it will just hurt too much. /: Can others please say what their first time was like and how badly it hurt or didn't hurt for them? Sorry if this isn't exactly the right thing to post in here but I didn't know where else to talk about this. Also, does this count as sex or no? The was no "grinding" or whatever when I was doing this cause I was just focusing on trying to get passed the pain….. I don't know if this means I am no longer a virgin or what. Again, sorry if this isn't the right kind of thing to be posting in here and that it's kind of long, just wanting advice.
No. 11617
>>11613my first time hurt like hell. And then i had sex with a guy who had a bigger dick and that also hurt like hell. It's normal.
But next time try foreplay so you're more aroused and wet. Fingers first so you're more stretched out.
No. 11628
>>11597Pic related is super normal, I'd be so happy to look like that! But unfortunately do not.
>>11598Like crazy uneven. One side looks small and normal and the other side is huge. I wish I had some way to describe/compare it but it's like one half 'grew up' and the other half stayed small like a childs.
I haven't been able to find any picture remotely like it or with anywhere near as big of a difference…
I did finally fund a couple posts on Google saying uneven labia majora is also normal – I guess I just have a really extreme case.
And thanks Anon, you're right, my partner shouldn't give a shit if they're worth having around.
If I had a bunch of money I'd get PS for it, but since I don't I'm just going to be satisfied with that, that's how it looks and there's not much to do about it. I feel weirdly better after talking about it here.
No. 11649
>>11635You could try different positions, some hurt less than others because of the angle his penis enters in. You wrote that you were on top, and for me at least that's one of the more painful positions. Try laying on your back with him on top, and try putting a pillow under your butt so your pelvis is angled up a bit. You could also consider using lube.
It's very normal for it to be painful on the first couple of times, and you will most likely be sore even on the day after sex. But if it hurts too much, don't force it!
>>11646Only pornstars bleach their parts. Everyone's butthole is brown, that is the natural color of it and you watch way too much porn if you think it should be pink instead.
No. 11653
>>11648Nope, it's a melanin thing.
If a person has warm undertones typically they'll have a browner hued vagina, butthole and nipples.
Cooler tones typically have the reverse. SameSame applies to men in that if they're warm toned the skin of their dick will be browner than the rest of their body.
I'm white as fuck and I actually prefer how warmer skin tones looks but then I have a salmon butthole and practically invisible areolas. It's weird.
No. 11659
Sometimes my vagina just itches really bad. Like it doesn't go away and I end up vigoriously rubbing it through my clothes or whatever and today I ended up being too rough and I think I tore some skin (again). I don't think it's a yeast infection because my discharge has been the same (even a bit lighter than normal actually) and this intense itching comes and goes but it's so annoying because I end up hurting myself every once in a while because of it :( I usually rinse down there with water to clean it, and only use some vaginal wash like Summer's Eve like once or twice a week (or more on my period) but the itching still comes.
Do any of you guys have to deal with this? Ugh it's so annoying…
>>11653I have brown nipples/butthole/vagina and man, I guess it's one of those 'grass is greener' things but I wish they weren't brown. Whenever I'm sending nudes I always want to cover them because they just don't look as nice to me :( I guess guys don't give a shit, but ugh.
No. 11660
>>11659They really don't and neither should you.
You're only getting one body girl, one bod. You should enjoy it at least whilst it's young. Who gives a fuck if your nip-nops are one shade over another, they're still pretty to look at right?
No. 11669
Last month I had a 40 days cycle, this month I'm already at day 31 and still have no blood loss. Ughhhh! I'm pissed at my uterus, seriously. I've been wearing pads for 4 days just in case, hoping for my uterus to wake up, but nothing’s coming. I have had white discharge for like a week, though. Usually it only last 3 or 4 days for me. I swear my uterus is drunk! And I don’t think my periods are coming any time soon because when they do, I always feel sad/angry/irritable 2 days before and have acne. I’m currently feeling perfectly fine and have no acne, so yeah… I don’t get it. I didn’t lose/gain any weight recently, didn’t change my diet, I’m still a virgin… I’m feeling stressed out but waaaay less than last month so I don't think that's the reason. I’ll wait and see, but I'm definitely going to see a doctor when my cycle finally ends. Just wondering, anyone here experienced something similar?
No. 11697
>>11625I think it may be vaginismus as well unfortunately, and thank you! I have been thinking of doing that to see if it will help me.
>>11649That's a good idea I will try that next time we attempt it, thank you for the advice!
No. 11712
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>>11648>>11653>pale as fuck>pink nipples>pink hued vagina>brown around anusIt sucks when you have an anal and spanking fetish, but you're embarrassed to show your partner your ass.
No. 11714
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>>11712tbh i have brown skin around my anus too (and p brown-ish labia…….) but then i found out my bf has brown skin around his anus too and idc about mine anymore
No. 11715
>>11712ever heard of anal bleaching?
alot of people's assholes are a darker shade, but most porn stars just anal bleach theirs
No. 11908
>>11880glad it worked!
some ppl hate the taste but i kind of like it. i've heard you can use it to make your period fome a little early (like a few days to a week early), but i've never tried it for that.
No. 11952
>>11943Girls … have labia, so I hope they aren't stupid pigs about things like labia length.
also in Europe guys don't seem to care about labia (there was a big drunken conversation in my friend's group house about that subject over the summer)
No. 11955
>>11943Nah, I don't think most girls would care
(personally speaking I really wouldn't mind)
labia length seems like a silly reason not to like someone/go down on them/ etc.
No. 11970
>>11943The majority of women have outies anon, I have seen some women call them gross, but they're just insecure bitches and they're straight anyway. A lesbian or bisexual girl wouldn't give a fuck.
I think outies are cute and fun to to play with anyway.
No. 12081
>>12079Like 3 days after I came off Prozac one night it was like somebody opened the floodgates and I ended up fapping and orgasming 19 times in 32 minutes.
I know. I don't get it either.
Never experienced anything like it since, but here's hoping it lasts for you dohoho
No. 12108
>>12105mmm yes ovarian cysts, yeast infections, and utis are so sexy!
>>12103>>12104i took a shower, drank lots of water, it's still uncomfortably dry. i put a little water based lube on it to make it more bearable. i know guys can drain their balls if they fap too much in succession, but is that even possibly for girls? i mean vaginal secretions are made by the vaginal walls, not by some organ like testicles.
i also know this isn't period symptoms because it's not time yet, and my vag gets dry and my uterus hurts right before my period starts.
No. 12202
>>12128No you don't.
Your womb cannot clench, it does not possess the muscular structure to perform such an action.
It can spasm from illness or dysmenorrhoea, but not clench.
No. 14008
>>7758The herpes virus is dormant in most humans from birth. Exposure to active herpes activates it.
If you're in the US, the HPV vaccination will prevent herpes as well. The UK gives out the non-herpes version for free.
No. 14295
Can anyone help me with a problem I have with my birth control? I was
>>11127 and I took my reminder pills to get my period and it made me period so much worst. I stained all of my clothes and bedding and had to change every 45 minutes since I would bleed so much and after the 3rd day, I couldn't take all the extreme vomiting, bleeding, cramps, and hot flashes, and cold sweat (they became so much worst after taking bc) that I took my white pills instead. After the 4th day of taking the white pills, I got better however, I have not stopped bleeding since and it has been well over a month and idk what to do now. Should I go back to the clinic and ask them for stronger birth control pills? I don't want to take injections since they make you gain weight like crazy and I am already a bit chubby and trying to lose weight slowly but surely, I don't want to stick anything inside either since I am very sensitive and it hurts putting anything inside. Is there such thing as stronger birth control pills? I just need help on what should I decide to do since I am so lost.
No. 14314
>>14295There are varying strengths of birth control pills, yes. I don't know what strength you're on but usually you're started on a lower strength so they can increase it if they have to.
It is "normal" to have breakthrough bleeding with birth control pills as your body adjusts. Doctors say to give it up to three months before they start looking into other causes. However, if you're bleeding a lot, go to the clinic. In fact, go to the clinic anyway and let them know you're continuing to bleed for a month. You don't need to go to a hospital unless you've been bleeding very heavily and you feel weak/dizzy etc (then you might need a blood transfusion)
No. 14537
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What do you guys think of these period panties? I've backed for 10 of them and I'm really excited for them honestly… I just happened to stumble across the buzzfeed video but it looks really hopeful.
(here's the link to the ks if you guys haven't seen it:
https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/padkix/period-of-change )
No. 17403
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What do you guys do with your pubes? Au naturel, shaved, lasered, wax, what shape etc.
I can't stand how itchy shaving is so I've been waxing most of mine, but I find it practically fucking impossible to get all the hair off in the more… concealed areas.
No. 17404
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>>17403I got lasered a few years ago. The hair is growing back but it's pretty sparse, which is nice because it was really bushy before. Nowadays I shave and just leave a small patch on the mound (pic related). I've never waxed before I'm just too self-conscious to let anyone look around down there that isn't my husband or doctor.
No. 17486
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>>17404Doesn't lasering also involve someone looking around down there? I never looked into the process. I'm also vaguely scared of it like, causing vag cancer or some shit.
>>17416I am, yeah. It just always gets itchy as it grows back in no matter what. I think I just have really sensitive skin.
Pic related is a lie that does not work and burns like satan
No. 17511
>>17415honestly, unless your labia are
truly medically deformed somehow, no.
the ppl that make a fuss over that online have never seen another pussy irl, I fucking guarantee it.
No. 17574
>>17423I've only had one, but it sucked ass. I didn't have to go to the doctor luckily. I soaked it with a warm washcloth several times a day to try and get it to drain, and after a couple of days, it actually wound up bursting by itself while I was at work. It was disgusting, but the relief was so, so sweet.
All I can find about prevention is safe sex/better hygiene. I already do/did both of those, so I don't know why I got one in the first place, but it's been years and I've never had one again.
No. 17615
>>17574All my issues started when my BF slipped on a rug and landed on my box off to the side slightly with his knee. I had this surgery maybe 5 months ago, before that it was a lot of hot salt water soaks, gland stimulation therapy ect. It still hasn't really stopped the glands from getting backed up or infected somehow, I'm not really sure what's going on. It seems like it works fine for awhile, but maybe after a few months + scar tissue…
I dunno, I'm rambling on insane painkillers and there's a stint in me for 7 days. Personally I think my doctors should figure out if the glands are still viable but that's just my crazy idea..
Thank you for the suggestions tho. Better hygiene is big I think my biggest problem in winter is wearing tight layers ect. If you're having issues with them too I'll give you a fair warning about bursting a cyst before it's ready, I did that once and it was a horrible idea.
No. 17636
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>>17634>>17609U guys I am practically crying I am so relieved to hear that I'm normal and dont have a monster vagina. Ty so much anons.
No. 17685
>>12081>>120793 month necropost I know, but it bares repeating
prozac, like many anxiety and depression medications, will reduce your sex drive and ability to orgasm, in many cases completely
always talk to your doctor
No. 17998
>>17979Given that you wash well daily it shouldn't be anything more than sweat/heat/tight garments.
I had the same thing and found sleeping without undies helped a lot.
No. 18001
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I thank the lord for my super sensitivity and the ability to have multiple orgasms. It makes masturbation and sex so much more fun, currently riding off my high of 5 o's
No. 18099
>>17985ok thanks for the update
>>18001ok thanks for the update
>>18085you probs need to see a dr, assuming this isn't a dude posting for funsies.
No. 18216
Does anyone else get bad anus cramps where it's sharp and hurts so bad that no matter what you're doing, you just have to stop moving your body completely to ease the pain?
>>18208I get diarrhea for the first few days too. My period lasts 2 weeks and the first days hit really hard with horrible cramps.
No. 18225
>>18216I know what you mean.
It doesn't happen often, but it happens during my explosive period diarrhea.
No. 18227
>>18185Only bloated, but I do take an unusually large shit about halfway through my period and it cleans me right out.
If you're getting constipated, you may wanna try a laxative
No. 18630
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So…I started masturbating around 10 and it didn't feel fun with fingers or rubbing so I stuck to sticking any semi-waterproof cylinder in there and I've kept doing that. I mean, I bought dildos (lots of them) but I always end up going back to a conditioner bottle or something hard. I've learned to deal with the consistency of most things on the market now but I still like being able to sort of squeeze around it and not have any give. After 10 yrs though, my body is super set in its ways and fingers can't get me anywhere close.
Problem is I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 mo and we finally found the time to do the do. She insisted that her fingering game is so amazing that she'd cure me straight up but after 40 or so minutes, her fingers were pruney and I was starting to wonder what to make for dinner. (At the hr mark, I said fuck it and switched to finish her so I could call in chinese before the store closed but i digress)
Is there a way to maybe become more sensitive or something to make fingering feel any good? She's easy as shit and usually is fine with just about anything so I'm sure I could talk her into dildos or vibrators -or anything really- to better accommodate me but I really want to be able to get off due to her efforts at least once.
Am I just SOL or do I maybe need to put more effort into it? Is there even a way to "retrain" your body for things like this? What the hell am I doing wrong here?
No. 19030
please h-help a clueless virgin out, /g/
I'm in my early twenties and I'm going to have sex for the first time soon. For background, I've been masturbating via clitoral stimulation since I was around 11, but I've never fingered myself. It never really occurred to me to do it because I orgasmed just fine from rubbing my clit. However, I never tried to do it when I was older because I was always too scared because of the pain. I've tried inserting tampons and it hurt very, very much. I finally had some private time and decided to take a look at my own anatomy, and I was surprised at how much I didn't know about my own vagina.
First, I'm very concerned about my hymen/vaginal opening. I was surprised how much lower it is located on the body than I thought. It is not in the center of my vagina and located very near to the bottom/end towards my anus. (Instead my urethra is located directly in the center.) I can't see the hole and I'm not sure if this is because it very low or because it is very small. I tried to finger myself to prepare for sex but I could only fit one finger comfortably. I tried to put in two fingers and stretch my hymen/make the opening bigger but they will just not fit. I felt like I was at max capacity, for lack of a better phrase. It is not incredibly painful, but it is quite uncomfortable and I'm not really enjoying the experience. I have no idea how I am going to fit something as a large as a penis. Could I possibly have a microperforate hymen i.e. is the hole in my hymen just abnormally small? Is this normal for a virgin who hasn't fingered herself? When I watch porn I see women with large openings that look very deep. In comparison, I look very shallow – maybe because I can't really see the hole. I know that I do not actually have a shallow vagina because I fit the entirety of my finger.
Also, I don't like the color of my outer lips and the skin surrounding my vagina. I understand that it is normal, but I don't like the way it looks. It is darker than the skin inside my vagina and around my pubic area; I'd like to make it lighter. Are there any recommended safe skin bleaching kits/creams without hydroquinine? I'd also like to lighten my asshole lmao
thanks, /g/
No. 19037
>>19030it's normal for the actual vaginal opening to look larger during / a while after penetration. Having no opening visible when you're unaroused is typical, especially if you've never had children via vaginal delivery.
Also, the vaginal canal (such hot terminology right?) lengthens during arousal; otherwise 3-4 inches is the average.
Even though your hymen will likely tear even more eventually (just with normal activity + time, not necessarily penetration), it is possible to stretch it without tearing, even enough to accommodate something a large as a penis.
I'd advise you to continue using fingers for penetration with yourself and/or whoever you're going to sleep with until that becomes physically comfortable. And from there use a dildo/vibrator/whatever that's slightly larger than a few fingers. Just keep working up in size, as long as it's not causing you discomfort. For me personally, it was a span of about 3 months to go from a finger to fucking a guy. The number one problem I had was trying to do shit when I wasn't physically aroused enough.
I don't know anything about bleaching, so I can't speak to that.
also not to be a huge downer, but it's entirely possible penetration just does nothing for you and never will tbh. experiment all you want, but definitely don't force yourself to like/want something you don't.
good luck anon, and invest in a lot of lube.
No. 19260
>>19039update: guess it was just late. hit my like a sack of bricks, I almost thought my appendix burst.
when complaining about the pain to some close friends, turns out two of them started their periods started today/yesterday too (and one was also a week late!) is the period sync thing true???
No. 19439
>>8916It's definitely a personal thing. I actually used to be completely silent the whole time, but then I got used to making 'encouragement' sounds when guys were doing the right things and over time I've gotten so used to making noise that I'll accidentally let out a sound when I'm orgasming from masturbation.
Not porn screaming exactly, but sometimes after sex I'll be so embarrassed from my sounds I'll wish I were dead.
No. 19581
>>19416Not sure where you're from but I have an IUD akin to Mirena only smaller, it's called Fleree. As I said it's smaller in size and last for three years as opposed to five for Mirena. I guess you could inquire about it with your doctor.
I've had mine for a year now and I prefer it greatly over birth control pills.
The insertion itself wasn't that bad, the night before I was given a pill to insert into my vagina in order to soften the cervix and about a few hours before the appointment I took painkillers.
The worst pain is when they dialate the cervix in order to insert the IUD and it didn't even last for a whole minute. If you feel comfortable with the doctor and are able to relax during the procedure then you should be golden - but each person is different.
Periods wise, I used to have rather heavy periods and now I just bleed very lightly and hardly have any cramping.
No. 19735
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My 25 y/o bf had camsex with a 15 year old, and now I can only get off while thinking about him cucking me with younger girls (I'm 18). How the fuck do I stop?? I've gotten off to exclusively this for a month, and it's been getting more prevalent ever since it started 5 months ago. I had an age kink for being younger before this, but now instead of picturing myself with him it's underage petite flat girls like she was.(robot)
No. 19751
>>18178Sorry for this late reply I honestly forgot about this thread until now. Thank you for the info. It sucks because I had insurance for a few months And then my mother told me I didn't anymore, right when I was about to make appointments. Doesn't help that my gyno went to jail either lol. I'm not aware of any planned parenthoods in SC. Holy shit, just searched and there's 2. Wow.
I now have another problem, sadly. I had sex 9 days ago and immediately started having the heaviest discharge ever. Is that normal? This is another problem I'm facing after not being on bc for a while. The discharge is ruining my underwear!!
Not only that, but I'll shower and sometimes after showering there is still this sort of smell coming from the actual vagina, not the outside (like labia etc). When I had this problem some time ago, I had gotten the yeast infection medicine because it seemed to just seep into my panties and it helped a lot and now it's back?! This problem comes and goes for me and it's only bothersome because it humiliates me lol. I personally don't think it's a yeast infection, but it could be. Nearly all of my underwear is cotton or cotton blend, and I do wear that spandex/therma-fit material underwear, if that's of any help.
I would ask my gyno since he lives with my best friend's mother down the street, but I don't think that's professional, and I don't know if he got his license revoked or not.
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>>17403I don't normally do anything since I don't have sex or have anyone looking at my naked body, but I would shave on occasion to change it up. I stopped because I would get razor bumps and/or ingrown hairs like crazy no matter what, especially along the crease between my thighs and pubic area.
I then started using a hair removal cream, and stopped having those issues the first couple times of doing it, but now I get all bumpy along that crease again. Sucks a lot and I'm dealing with it right now.
I think I would like to try waxing, but only if there were something like those plastic sheets you can cut to shape for eyebrows, face, etc. Would make it easier to do shapes and designs with the hair.
No. 20246
>>20242Pineapple in everything, lots of fruits, less sugar (but fructose is fine), probiotic drinks. Most fruity things that smell nice basically. Also LOTS of water
avoid garlic, onions, asparagus, spicy things and meat, especially red meat
No. 20298
>>20294Someday, maybe as a birthday present to myself in July. The thing's expensive and I already bought myself two sex toys this month.
I have sensitive hearing and sometimes listening to music can overwhelm me so having auditory stimulation as well as physical really makes things better.
No. 20309
>>20281Damn anon, that song's pretty hot I can see myself masturbating to it as well. I do find that certain songs really get me in the mood but I usually just fuck my partner. I'll have try it solo some time.
>>20294This sounds pretty fucking wonderful. I will also have to get it as a birthday present.
On a side note, I know masturbation talk is all good in this thread but there's also an arousal thread in /g/ here
>>8671 . Just thought I'd point it out since it's been dead for a bit.
No. 21226
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How do I get back into the right mind to masturbate? How do I learn to relax and enjoy it again?
I'm in a sexless relationship that has ruined my sex drive and self-esteem and makes getting off nearly impossible. I have some toys and stuff, but just can't relax my mind enough to enjoy what I'm doing.
No. 21246
>>21244same anon as
>>21239trust me, I know exactly where you're coming from. I made the decision to stay in a similar situation for a long time, because it simply wasn't worth it to me to leave. I'm not in that relationship anymore, and I'm happier, but you gotta weigh the pros and cons and come to your own conclusions as to what's right for you currently.
No. 21266
>>21246I think the only reason I'm still sticking it out after 2 years is because part of the problem is that my bf has depression and is trying to find a doctor in his shithole of a country that'll prescribe him something. I guess I'm holding out hoping that that'll be the cure.
If it's not though, I don't think I can last any longer than I already have. Damn, I just want to feel wanted and desired again.
No. 21283
>>21266No no no. Leave him, you aren't his mother.
You can support him as a friend if you want to, but caring about someone doesn't mean you owe them your life, you only have one life.
I thought I was asexual for about three years, but actually it turns out I just wasn't interested in my boyfriend. Now with a boyfriend I care and am attracted to, I can masturbate and have great sex.
No. 21297
>>21283It's funny that you mention being his mother because for the past few months that's exactly what I feel like. Making sure he gets up and goes to bed on time, getting onto him about eating better and looking after himself, etc. It gets tiring when I've barely got enough energy for myself because of my own depression.
I'm glad things worked out for you. My sex drive is so dead that I was really worried I'd never be able to have another relationship and feel aroused again. It gives me a little hope to hear that that wasn't the case for you.
No. 22029
>>19038that's because you're aroused… he should be glad that you're so turned on, ffs
The vagina shrinks back anyway.
No. 22039
>>19372>Tampons are still usable with those but have to be manually inserted, applicators can't get them in the right position.I thought this me because I have to carefully use manual tampons or else it will be extremely painful not just inserting but the entire time.
But I never have lower back pain and doggy style and reverse cowgirl are pretty much our only positions because I like the angle better.
No. 22997
I have a question about period cycle. My cycle seems to have gotten longer, meaning there's more time in between periods but my period takes a longer time to end too. I'm not on the pill but my cycles have always been pretty regular. Does anyone have any idea what could cause this?
>>22771are you on the pill? I don't think there's any other way of speeding it up than taking the pill.
No. 23124
>>23071I'm not sure what you mean but it's always been that the first days there's a lot and a lot of pain but after that it's just "leftovers" wich drags on for a few days. (is this what you mean with spotting?) This is still the same but now spread out over more days.
I am eating less calories since I want to lose some pudge though, could it be that?
But I'll be sure to ask my docter about it next time I see her.
No. 23142
>>8034I've finally accepted that I need to wear liners all day every day. I don't mind too much, it's only about £1 for a months worth. Plus in a push it means you can wear pants 2-3 days in a row, since nothing actually gets on them.
Sometimes the volume that comes out is ridiculous, I think it's a vaginal infection of some sort because it can smell too, which in the past would lead to hurried trips to a bathroom to try scrape it off my pants/vag and put whatever perfume on.
A small extra step when you're getting ready in the morning is way less bother than constantly checking.
No. 23145
>>8277I remember when I was young and just starting my period my mum would push me to pads, lightly implying that tampons were no good (she's really conservative).
Finally found my hole at 16 and tampons were so so much easier (when I have a heavier flow). No matted hair from blood, no sitting and feeling the warmth of your own blood pressed against your vag, etc etc.
Thing is, recently every time I put a tampon in it stings/throbs until I take it out which worries me, so I've been forced to go back to pads for a while.
I really want to move on to the diva cup, but I'm struggling. I'm not sure if it's relevant but I'm quite tight and the first (and only) time I put it in it became stuck up there due to the suction, had to use tweezers to try grip it. Bought disposable ones too and honestly they just look too wide to fit in in the first place.
Anyone have experience of them?
No. 23182
>>23179When I got my first yeast infection I legit went full HAM and did the garlic route.
You get a glove of garlic, stab it multiple times to release the good, anti-yeast juices, then you thread some wool or something through the center and place it inside your vagina. Change the clove nightly and you'll be cleared up in like 2-4 days. Yeast gets FUCKED by garlic it's why you can't bake bread with garlic.